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well women get pregnant and men cant so it makes sense that male commitment is a bigger deal bc women are biologically committed from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:51 PM
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when a woman fails she dies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:49 PM
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Maybe for a little while but in the long term agreeing w her every whim bc of coochie turns into an ick for most women bc it basically puts you in her frame and makes you look weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:48 PM
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Get female friends to vent to. You can talk to your man too but he’s not there to be your sole emotional support
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/25 12:44 PM
1

dont bother hell never be satisfied if he treats relationships like transactions
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/25 12:42 PM
0

just suggest something else and joke that dates at home are boring or something. If he keeps insisting then move on
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/25 12:39 PM
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No age doesn’t really factor much for “quality” attention what matters more is social class, proximity, and of course your appearance (more controllable than most think). people date the people around them
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/25 12:36 PM
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Its more about letting go of what you can’t control (same on the male side of the red pill)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/25 04:14 PM
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You can find a guy who is somewhere between an unattractive simpy pushover and a fckboy you just have to cast a wider net usually. Or therapy if you really only find yourself attracted to narcs but usually the case is that you need to date more and find a guy whos not either extreme.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 05:20 AM
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If it were super common it wouldnt be on the news haha
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 02:00 AM
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Statistics doesnt always work like that. Most of the people in my circle are college educated. Theres a huge amount of iv drug addicts in the us too but that doesn’t mean I’ve met one irl either.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 12:51 AM
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The fact that you have a newborn at all and seem to be trying your best IS a red pill mindset. Cut yourself some slack and try to get as much sleep as you can. Stop worrying about the mess and trying to be a perfect housewife.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/23 08:20 PM
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I’ve never met a woman who does OF irl. The only reason it became a big thing is bc during the pandemic strippers and sex workers couldn’t make money irl so they turned to OF to keep their patrons entertained. So now what used to be down low is on the internet for everyone to see and for people to go into a moral panic about how so many women are now doing OF when those women would have just been stripping irl anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 06:05 PM
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I think its bc that 5% are generally low inhib and reckless so they will just fck anything that moves and are in environments w a lot of casual sex like clubs and stuff. Not that women overwhelmingly flock to 5% if men it’s not passive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:52 PM
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Lots of interesting and undiscovered things out there. I love learning new things.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 10:57 PM
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I mean if you’re into then yeah. I think having a healthy sex life is important and making him feel desired is important - but porn is mostly theater and I’m not going to enjoy sex if I’m trying to emulate a porn scene (I don’t even watch porn). I think a lot of guys are turned off by that fake stuff too tbh
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/23 12:34 AM
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Making others comfortable
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 11:11 AM
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Show don’t tell is all I have to say
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 02:12 AM
3

Yes and this is completely normal for women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 02:11 AM
1

Well he knows he hurt you, he just doesn’t care
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 02:10 AM
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Can you give some examples of how he’s hurt you? It’s hard to tell if he’s seriously being hurtful or perhaps you are a little too sensitive
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 04:48 AM
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It probably isn’t your personality or your interests but your lack of social skills and/or self confidence. Ask your friends for advice, it’s hard to tell whats up through a single post
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 04:46 AM
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Most modern American guys wouldn’t care unless they are religious or super introverted. Some might I don’t know but most guys aren’t going to go sniffing out your n count as long as you aren’t the town bike. Most are fine with single digits.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 04:43 AM
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Idk if I can do under thirty for shower and all that. That’s kinda crazy. But you can simplify makeup by using a stain for both lip and cheek, doing spot concealing instead of foundation, showering the night before if possible, laying out clothes the night before
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:17 PM
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sense of humor for me
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 09:02 PM
4

Weed. Not even joking
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 08:26 PM
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Men inherently benefit from being married well - sex on tap, cooking, cleaning, respect from other men, someone to look after them socially and medically. An unmarried older man is like a virgin older woman. It’s somewhat desired when they are young but after a while you start getting the strange looks from your peers and people start wondering if you’re gay or just have peter pan syndrome. This is becoming less common recently, but in the 20th century your wife was a status symbol in the workpl…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 11:06 PM
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How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 05:35 PM
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Why would he admit that? He’s getting free sex and labor out of you. Do scammers tell their victims outright that theyre scammers?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 11:14 PM
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It’s one thing to gracefully handle infedelity when you are married, have kids, deeply entangled etc. But you are 20 years old with a boyfriend, no ring, no kids. My advice is to get out before he either knocks you up or impacts your fertility with STDs. He’s shown he doesn’t give af about your feelings or your health. He’s using you full stop. I would never usually go “DUMP HIM SIS” but yeah there’s nothing to salvage and your health is in danger.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 01:32 AM
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I have an n count of 1 and I lost my virginity to a quarantine bf three years ago. I’ve since broke up with him unadded him from SM and haven’t talked to him in a year and almost never think about him. People here and on the Red Pill community overblow the whole virginity pair bonding thing. Yeah casual sex isn’t something to aspire to but the whole never getting over your first thing isn’t real. Most women I know don’t even think about it
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 10:21 PM
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i havent been on ppd in a while haha
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 11:02 PM
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flared but I have a boho vibe
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 12:33 AM
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It’s not going to work if you dont desire him and the guy usually can tell
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/23 09:08 PM
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Their energy levels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:03 PM
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Not hard at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:03 PM
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Anywhere if youve got game
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:02 PM
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They want a husband father and support figure and see sex appeal as optional I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:02 PM
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nah most high iq women have stable partnerships and are less likely to get divorced or cheat. What you are describing is narcissism or borderline personality disorder
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 11:44 PM
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hot women dont want to get with average joe and theres a lot of hot girls out there to compete with so yeah they do need some girl game if they want to bag an alpha
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 10:30 PM
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bc men are in competition with each other and women dont say non pc stuff out loud
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 09:53 PM
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you pay them so they leave
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:48 AM
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why would christian ethics matter when sleeping w someone. ive seen christians marry jews before its not an amoral thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:36 AM
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It's not necessarily "magical thinking" but more intuitive thinking than strict logic like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:35 PM
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Women have always been picky its just dating apps made a larger section of men available to them. Before dating apps most women dated someone from college or work but now they can see and compare thousands of available men in a ten mile radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:29 PM
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Rich guys and charismatic/high status guys. I feel like hot guys tend to pull 6s-7s more than they go for hot girls bc theyre easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah if she is as enthusiastic with you and blows your mind in bed most guys can live with a slut. It's when she doesn't actively desire you as much that guys start getting irritated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:25 PM
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Depends what you mean by "porn sick". If you are spending time on porn sites every day yeah but most normal guys who watch porn once a week or less wont have problems and will be able to throw it away once they get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:12 PM
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skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:08 PM
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bc i dont believe in free will
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:07 PM
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Neuter men i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:40 PM
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Its bc men use OLD as a crutch bc they dont want to socialize irl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:05 PM
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Casual dating is fun if youre hot and young
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:04 PM
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Im not friends with men but any guy who is doing “allthw right things” and still failing doesnt get out enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:03 PM
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Instantly but I would have to like the billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:02 PM
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I dont believe in “merit”. I think unequal outcomes between the genders is bc women dont gaf about sports or whatever. Nor do most women care about being a sports star
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:01 PM
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im hot and young so i dont have to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:03 AM
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I have morals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:59 PM
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Option 2 i think being stingy is annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:59 PM
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bc otherwise none of them will get it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:10 AM
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you can reply w this to any thread here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:49 AM
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bc men want sex more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:49 AM
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yeah all the time love aint charity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:47 AM
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youll be fine then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:46 AM
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its evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:24 AM
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but why is she married to the billionaire and not a sweet trad girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:23 AM
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because they care more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:23 AM
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Women care about women as a group. Sure they have competition from individual women but women care more about group dynamics and social cohesion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:20 AM
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Yep. It's not delusional just hard to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:15 AM
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They have no effect on what women find attractive. A woman will dump all her simps instantly for a guy she actually likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:14 AM
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but its true. Women lust after high t macho guys but once they have them they want him to be docile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:12 AM
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Melania Trump, most trophy wives are retired sluts. If your ego can take it and you can handle her its the best option. No pain no gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:11 AM
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Well yeah. If you demand a 6 figure job you either get it or end up unemployed. Nobodies business but yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:10 AM
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I hope you do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:10 AM
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Women are beast tamers at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:09 AM
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That's more to do w economics and general misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:08 AM
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It's not unreasonable. If it was unreasonable they wouldn't demand it. If they end up spinsters thats their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:08 AM
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im above average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:07 AM
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women care about women more than men care about men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:07 AM
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Most of mens problems comes from them not wanting to put the effort into approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:05 AM
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Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:04 AM
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what fun would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:04 AM
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yes they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:03 AM
2

Bc women dont think like that. They would rather be alone than with a guy who thinks about other girls more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:02 AM
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Enjoy lusting after other women your whole marriage and never getting BJs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:01 AM
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Insecurity in ones appearance is worse than being bald. If a woman truly loves you she will change "preferences". Women aren't attracted to features like men are. The features they like are just what fits the guy they are into at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:00 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:58 PM
2

When women say that they mean don't be a passive little bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:57 PM
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gay guys are the most publically red pilled people are you joking? They literally talk about twink death being at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:57 PM
2

I don't think war will break out anytime. I think most ppl are in your position: despondent about the US, whether liberal or conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:56 PM
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Women can have a few slut years and never go back to them and stay loyal for the rest of her life. It's when she still has simps and exes lingering thats the problem. If she is genuinely over that life youre good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:55 PM
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get drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:53 PM
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embarrassing behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:52 PM
1

no why would I want average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:51 PM
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Stupid, especially when taking children into account. Monogamy is the best way to have a peaceful yet structurally sound society. Even BIRDs know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:51 PM
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I think men shouldn't ask most women for harsh advice bc women don't want to give it. Not because of ignorance, or a desire to make women "look good", but bc most want to avoid conflict (for good reason). Ask your guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:49 PM
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Nobody is "lied to" by society. They simply haven't matured enough or experienced enough to learn about the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:45 PM
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Occasionally but I shut it down easily because I'm introverted and its a nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:44 PM
1

Testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:43 PM
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Women like 80/20 alpha beta. Too much alpha and she gets scared off, too much beta and hes a wimp. Need a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:15 AM
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It's hard to describe idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:14 AM
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Because women are less visually aroused than men are so most porn isnt geared towards them. Plus women empathize more with the porn actress who probably isnt actually attracted to the guy so it just feels gross to watch. Most women (including me) are fine with a guy watching porn as long as we dont hear about it or it interferes with our sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:13 AM
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I could never do anal - i feel like id be insecure the whole time. Also the guy not emoting or saying anything at all is a turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:10 AM
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most height queens are fugly little insecure goblins
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:04 AM
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miss me with those frankenstein ass genes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:02 AM
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"stay mad sweetie" lmao some buzzfeed blue hair ass response
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:53 AM
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no what planet do you live on to even ask this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:17 PM
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no just dont let me know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:16 PM
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im not angry - usually guys who are uppity about n count are insecure nerds who are trying to live the highschool experience they missed out in their late 20s-30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:16 PM
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sure its womens standards and not their overusage of porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:13 PM
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its definitely implied
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:10 PM
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“man up” women only get emotional support from OTHER WOMEN. Men just take advantage of womens vulnerability “be a breadwinner” since when are women not expected to make $$? Nowadays housewives are almost obsolete. “men always reminded how they don’t matter” women are only treated like they matter bc men are horny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:08 PM
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I really don't care about the actual number but if a guy has a reputation I stay away from them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:18 PM
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Most couples are matched lookwise - I think they did a study on this (but it was pre tinder so idk how it is now)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:17 PM
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They usually end up miserable since they don't have a person to make doctors appointments, arrange social get-togethers, clean, cook - plus people are more wary of a bachelor than a spinster. That's why so many Boomers got divorced - the husbands relied on their wives for everything and after they retired the wives were expected to keep coddling their husbands while the men played golf. So the wives got fed up and left and the husbands didn't schedule doctors appointments until their foot was ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah if you only listen to Buzzfeed and Jezebel. But IRL most people pressure women to "give him a chance!" or "see him for who he is on the inside!". Notice its "Beauty and the Beast" and not the other way around...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:13 PM
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Bc its awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:39 AM
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OLD is fickle. It probably has nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:31 AM
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yeah if theres no emojis or exclamation points thats usually a bad sign
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:25 AM
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If you continue to self actualize and don't get lazy with self improvement you can remain attractive as long as you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:24 AM
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disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:22 AM
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bc we are behind a screen lol. I don't go dropping truth bombs at the mall lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:22 AM
2

I make excuses not to see him and hope he takes the hint
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:21 AM
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If a guy is too nice or boring thats a bad thing. Boring people can hook up with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:20 AM
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The men who say this are either mentally ill/autistic in some way or don't actually interact with potential dates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:19 AM
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Mommy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:17 AM
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If you wanted to sleep with them, could you? That answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:17 AM
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Psychopaths are little more than machines. I pity them - they are devoid of any creativity or spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:16 AM
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It does if you want to get with the terminally online schizoids that hang here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:15 AM
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Umm yes? So much so that they follow a philosophy that revolves around women. If anything they "love" too much. Male BPDs everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:14 AM
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No. Proximity and familiarity is the biggest factor in dating and attraction IMO and most college girls aren't around 30 year old guys that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:13 AM
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I literally don't care if my SO watches porn. Just don't let me know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:12 AM
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When they start giving af about their fellow man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:11 AM
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Good for them. The only reason OnlyFans is so prevalent now is because the pandemic forced strip clubs to close down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:11 AM
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poo poo pee pee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:09 AM
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placebo effect - they want to feel like they are taking steps to fix their problem - if they spend a lot of money, they assume its worth it and that makes them feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:09 AM
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Be a cool person and meet women irl and she wont gaf about your height. Women are picky about height on OLD bc its one of the only objective factors she can guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:08 AM
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women dont go on school shooting rampages just bc a fed riled them up on 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:06 AM
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Men should keep their opinions to themselves if they want to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:05 AM
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Try getting men to agree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:03 PM
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until they hit 40
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:02 PM
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because its assumed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:01 PM
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i know crackheads with 10 kids too - being too stupid to wrap it before tapping it doesnt a “slayer” make
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:00 PM
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What culture “idolizes” single moms? Most think single moms are irresponsible while single dads get high praise just for not abandoning their own kid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:33 PM
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Well every society previous to ours either sent "undesirable" men off as cannon fodder in some war or just plain killed them outright. I'm not sure why people here think they would have been the Spartacus' of the past rather than war casualty 1,273,454
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:50 AM
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Dropping hints is a shit test - it filters out anxious, uninterested and socially oblivious men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:45 AM
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I don't care what others do but personally I couldn't be in a relationship with someone more than +/- 3 years from my age. I like to grow with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:43 AM
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No as in its a temporary mourning period and not his normal self. Don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:40 AM
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wear a bulletproof vest to work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:40 AM
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That's blackpill not redpill. Red pill says GAME is the deciding factor. Which is why women will support their toothless crackhead baby daddy while he lays on the couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:38 AM
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Good for him I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:36 AM
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No. Not until you've been dating for like a couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:29 AM
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they end up getting fomo too. People who marry young end up divorcing more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:26 AM
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that's circumstantial
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:23 AM
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ok i was just asking bc every asexual guy ive met has been on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:39 AM
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feedback loop
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:24 AM
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Bc prisoners dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:23 AM
1

How are we overrated? I’ve never heard any guy think of american women as anything but a punchline
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:22 AM
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or the guy has ed/insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:19 AM
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hope this isnt an invasive question but have you considered that he might be on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:18 AM
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Yeah it gets old. No, it would not be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:16 AM
1

bc most virgins after 20 or so are that way bc they were sheltered for one reason or another and will probably get the “what ifs” sooner or later unless you stay in her insular religious community. Otherwise its an eventual “open marriage” or divorce. A better option would be a low n count girl who has had a boyfriend or two and secular authoritative parents. That way she wont go nuts the second shes away from her parents/religions thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:15 AM
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Depends what you mean by “communicative”. I’d argue that being friendzoned at all isn’t communicative since you arent communicating your intentions with her clearly. Say what you want about “emotionally distant” guys but at least they actively communicate their desires instead of hovering around her waiting for cooch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:11 AM
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thats how you end up with women getting raped or killed. Women and men arent the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:03 PM
0

who said we want average?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:15 PM
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no I send signals his way, he picks up on them, and then he approaches me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:11 AM
4

Like I'll make it obvious I like you so you can ask me out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:08 AM
0

most of the cons are just cons of having family period. Yet we see family as essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:47 AM
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Married men had a 46% lower rate of death than unmarried men. https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health#:~:text=Even%20after%20taking%20major%20cardiovascular,overall%20protective%20effect%20of%20marriage. The gentlemen doth protest too much, methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:45 AM
3

Then I'll drop indicators of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:25 AM
1

I shave everything. More for my own preference. I'm not really into hairy guys and I don't like facial hair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:24 AM
1

There is no such thing as an "average guy". The US is stratified by race, socioeconomic class, religion, etc etc. What is average in Gary Indiana is going to be different than average in New Haven Connecticut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:23 AM
19

You know how annoying and pushy those foreign kiosk salesmen are at the mall? Imagine if have of the population consisted of those guys. You can see how we get bitter and stop giving randos a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:21 AM
1

I'm not picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:19 AM
2

because dating is more complicated when you have to worry about money and your bio clock is ticking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:18 AM
2

I seriously believe that there is someone out there for everyone but most people are not compatible with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:17 AM
1

bc they were locked inside for 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:17 AM
4

you are vastly overestimating the social skills of the average ppd user
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:16 AM
1

sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:15 AM
1

Yeah its called borderline personality disorder and it wouldn't work if men didn't love it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:23 PM
1

I don't care about a mans past the important thing is who he is today
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:22 PM
1

Almost all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:21 PM
1

I don't like whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:21 PM
1

narcs are extremely insecure and beta tho. Its ASPD that gets coochie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:03 AM
1

I have to be on birth control because otherwise I cant stop thinking about sex. And I smell (tmi)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:50 PM
1

I've noticed only mediocre looking or super short women obsess over height while pretty and tall women care less. I've never given two fucks about height I prefer a nice face instead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:48 PM
1

its disgusting imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:47 PM
3

Extreme self confidence. Almost narcissism but not quite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:46 PM
1

Women assume that the man is normally alpha otherwise and only cries once every ten years when his dog dies or something. Men assume that "liking a guy with a sensitive side" means constantly dumping your insecurities and emotions onto your so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:45 PM
1

Not true from personal experience. The more attractive the guy the more flighty and nervous the girl gets (unless intoxicated)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:42 PM
0

"Being a good listener" = I'm so desperate for snatch that I will do anything just to be somewhat in the vicinity of a woman. You don't give af about what the girl is saying you just like to be near a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:41 PM
5

Who cares what women online say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:39 PM
2

Women are attracted to what they were conditioned in childhood to be attracted to. If they were exposed to abusive/toxic relationships they will be attracted to assholes because that's whats familiar to them. If they have a loving father they will be attracted to kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:38 PM
1

what "rules"? Humans dont abide by "rules"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:36 PM
1

your mom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:41 AM
1

ever give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:26 AM
1

yeah? The whole reason males chase females in nature is because eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap making females more valuable and sought after in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:16 AM
1

Doesn't affect me either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:02 AM
1

Men have an easier time not getting pregnant so id say were equal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:02 AM
1

Cocaine and booze helps me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:01 AM
1

No. If I dated another introvert I would never see the light of day again so I need an extroverted partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:01 AM
1

Most don't ask so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:00 AM
2

Sperm <<<<< eggs. Always. Its nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:00 AM
0

I expect a man to be a man and pay for dates. Doesn't have to be 5 star dinners but I believe in traditional gender roles and I was brought up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:59 AM
1

Have sex whenever you feel like having sex? Who cares what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:58 AM
3

Most men just don't want to hear about it so unless the girl is a total social r*tard he wont know and it wont affect anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:57 AM
1

I don't see it happening on a larger scale than it is now. No money is worth being around someone you aren't actually into
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:56 AM
1

I’m glad I have had a serious relationship so I can see how overrated they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:35 PM
2

Because we can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:34 PM
2

I sympathize with men not having a lot of positive masculine emotional outlets. I also sympathize with men having a natural drive to crave women unlike how women can easily be single for a long period of time without thinking of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:33 PM
1

If I find someone compatible sure. Granted I never dreamed of a big wedding because I hate being the center of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:30 PM
1

Nay. Emotional guys tend to cling hard and i cant do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:29 PM
1

No not really
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:28 PM
6

You know that women in harems usually werent faithful right? No paternity testing and limited attention on you means you can sneak off with your lover pretty easily. Also those men were usually multi billionaires in todays money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:27 PM
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That youll have a better relationship by being “egalitarian”. Men and women arent the same and trying to gain favor by paying for dates, asking the guy out and taking the male role just has you playing both roles and burning out in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:40 PM
2

where are these emotionally unavailable assholes and where can i meet them? i keep dating clingy oversensitive guys and im tired of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:36 PM
0

“egalitarian” men on reddit hate sexual/dating gender roles for themselves (paying for dates, having to ask the woman out) but would be put off by a woman sleeping around or not shaving her legs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:36 PM
1

Giving your kids advice or trying to police their behavior is pointless - the best way to raise kids is to lead by example and treat them how you would want a spouse to treat them. My dad never told me shit or was strict about dating or men but he treated me with empathy and respect growing up and as a result my sisters and I don't screw around or let men treat us poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:16 AM
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The difference is that looks are usually the first and primary aspect people judge women no matter what the situation. Think about Rosie O Donnell and Jay Leno in the 90s. Both are pretty physically unattractive, overweight and unfunny television hosts but Rosie O'Donnell was DESPISED and pretty much a punchline for being overweight and unattractive while many similarly unattractive men like Leno's looks were not mentioned unless specifically drawn attention to. Looks and sex appeal are much mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:06 AM
1

Lol then explain the red pillers acting bitter bc they got "brainwashed" into thinking women got horny for le nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:14 AM
3

ewww no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:12 AM
2

Idk id be jealous of me too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:13 PM
0

MBTI testing. No I'm not kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:46 PM
1

Yeah its an evolutionary arms race
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:45 PM
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Nowhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:44 PM
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I mean thats how its been since the beginning of time. Males woo the females. Eggs are more valuable than sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:42 PM
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But even if attraction is situation dependent like you said you still can't change the fact that you're in that situation and that's what you are attracted to. Like you can't just will yourself to be into someone without changing the situation it was dependent on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:28 AM
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Why would anyone want to have their face associated with reddits last incel forum? That's like asking to have the FBI on your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:24 AM
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Constantly meet new people IRL and push your social boundaries. People pair up naturally we just don't socialize as much as we used to. Contrary to popular belief boomers weren't given a spouse as part of their pension. They just had nothing better to do so constantly fucked around with each other and eventually someone sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:20 AM
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The biggest issue is men falsely attributing male reasoning to female behavior. Like they see that women tend to like fit muscular men so that must mean we ogle pictures of gay porn actors like men do playboy centerfolds. Or that women are instantly attracted to a hot guy without seeing him in action. Female sexuality is so divorced from male sexuality that it is probably incomprehensible to most men. Hell, its incomprehensible to me and I'm a woman myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:05 AM
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Lol I have a skin mutation that makes it less prone to wrinkling. Got it from my mom and she looks ten years younger than she is despite literally being an alcoholic in her youth and never wearing sunscreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:39 AM
3

they prob have autism too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:37 AM
5

I'm probably gonna be a cougar when I get older tbh old guys are gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:29 AM
9

he's spreading his autism genes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:28 AM
2

Butt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:28 AM
2

The problem is that people get obsessed with it and it turns it makes their lives worse than if they didn't know it. The tactics themselves are fine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:27 AM
1

Idk just respect her I guess? If you gf/wife is thinking like this your relationship isn't prob gonna last
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:17 AM
1

Women with a higher income than their husband are more likely to divorce. Highly educated women tend to marry highly educated rich men. Women who make more than their husband are usually lower/working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:15 AM
1

Making it harder for middle class to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:33 PM
1

No its not its funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:24 PM
1

That's on purpose because the elites don't want competition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:23 PM
1

What no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:23 PM
1

That's a strawman. I am pro red pill its better than being a whiner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:22 PM
1

I'm not reading all that but most men are not worth my time. Some men are worth a lot but most men, people in general are exhausting. But I am an introvert so I feel that way about most people. They aren't worthless just not worth my time personally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:21 PM
1

Decision fatigue lol but i dont expect men to empathize with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:19 PM
1

No but I do expect him to at least do some of the work. My ex made me plan everything and I got tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:18 PM
1

It's obvious why sexual "inequality" isn't discussed. Because the men that matter are getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:07 PM
1

Women don't make "rules". We aren't overly analytical about dating like you are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:06 PM
7

Not my job but do you really think most guys would want a return to marriage with no women putting out before the ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:04 PM
4

I don't think they're clueless they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:03 PM
1

Yeah sometimes. When I used to go to frat parties there would be a ton of girls and next to no guys except the frat members who would often just hang out with themselves. That's no fun. A good party usually has a 50/50 ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:01 PM
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No but my first boyfriend freshmen year of college was constantly indecisive over whether he wanted to stay together or not - but that wasn't a lie that was him being torn between freedom in college and having a gf. Funnily enough I ended up breaking up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 PM
1

be social, push your limits
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:56 PM
1

realizing how insignificant my problems are in the long run, how all life on Earth is connected - that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:09 AM
3

yeah most women know men will bang anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:53 AM
1

just have fun and don't worry about relationship crap if everyone was too afraid of their own "baggage" to date we would have died out as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:52 AM
2

I've done it like four times and it's ranged from life changing to meh I just want to sleep now. I think it's more fun to do with other people and is a lot harder to "bad trip" on than most people think. Like I'm a pretty negative person and I've never had a bad trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:51 AM
1

Yeah if you have no life other than your spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:47 AM
1

80/20 alpha/beta rule for relationships. A man whos too stoic is going to intimidate and make his SO feel uneasy - like there's something he's hiding from her. A man who's too emotional makes the woman feel like she cannot rely on him to be a man and is a turn off too. Women want a tough guy with a hint of a sensitive side that he only shows to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:37 AM
1

they rather have that all in one guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:29 PM
1

it works for kanye west
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:22 AM
7

women who work in porn or the sex trade probably see the worst sides of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:22 AM
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its because men are polygamists women are hypergamists. Women tend to want one mate so if ones shitty they replace the man while men are fine with a shitty wife as long as they can cheat on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:20 AM
2

girls just wanna have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:03 AM
3

places with alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:55 PM
8

Well, that and the fact that men who lose interest in a relationship just cheat or check out. At least women are upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:36 PM
1

does the "women go to college more than men" stat include them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:35 PM
1

The clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:39 PM
2

Considering women use their body to give birth to children and are also half as strong yes typically men do hard labor more often than women that's just facts. Why would a company hire a woman when they can hire a person that is twice as strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:30 PM
1

many manual labor jobs do a lot of damage on grown men after a little while so do you think a women with half the upper body strength can handle it? It's not sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:13 PM
1

Oh no ugly people def have it worse but what I'm saying is that there are downsides to being incredibly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:02 PM
1

you shouldnt hide them but you shouldnt accept them either. Work on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:08 PM
1

you can be the kindest most interesting person in the world and there will still be people who dont like you. The problem with being very attractive is that people mistake physical attraction for personality compatibility and waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:58 PM
1

usually women want a man slightly older than them (2-5 years)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:02 AM
2

ok then say its a secret and wink she isnt gonna grill you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:47 AM
1

I mean what impresses women tends to make you look better which impresses men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:46 AM
5

yes, because you never know if a guy likes you for you or just tolerates you for your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:45 AM
1

both but you need physical to start
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:44 AM
3

literally nobody asks so just dont mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:43 AM
3

no, realistically not really
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:42 AM
6

its less about the guy and more how the girls feeling at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:06 AM
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thats because there are no decently paying pink collar jobs that don’t require a degree. Meanwhile many guys can go into construction or any other blue collar job and make good money w no degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:57 AM
2

not to keep score in a relationship tf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:31 AM
7

biological - eggs>>>sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:05 AM
2

old desperate swingers are more likely to entertain that than college girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:05 AM
1

anyone who cannot self moderate is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:03 AM
2

its not on taxpayer dime its on mommys dime
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:03 AM
1

No but you bet your ass I'm running for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:00 AM
1

Yall out here doing math
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:00 AM
1

I'm a woman and I can't imagine being or wanting to be anything but a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:59 PM
1

If you aren't confident in yourself you should build that up first and then focus on women. You can get confidence in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:58 PM
2

What men can't comprehend is that women don't size every man up as a potential mate like men do to women. All men are as sexy as a table to us until he provokes our sexuality somehow. Like sometimes I will point out that I think a guy is hot and all the sudden my female friends who have previously not cared about the guy think he's hot too. I usually don't realize I have a crush on a guy until I meet him personally or have witnessed him DOING something. We can't just look at a picture and be tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:54 PM
1

True but I think it's true for everyone. Like I don't make lists. I have boundaries but thats it - when I meet the one he'll be the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:52 PM
1

I think women want a man 1 to 2 steps below them in attractiveness. Not so ugly that he makes people ask why shes with him but just enough that he isn't tempted to cheat and she is still the pretty one in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:50 PM
1

Made me more proactive, made my ex more compliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:48 PM
2

I think it's broader than that - more like nobody should expect relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:50 PM
1

It's evolutionary. Paternity couldn't be determined in caveman times so you want to make sure the kid you are providing resources for is YOUR kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:48 PM
1

If you cannot make friends you have bigger issues than not getting laid I would say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:47 AM
1

Break up shes a nutjob
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:42 AM
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I never want to hear of it again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:38 AM
1

Because millions of years ago a girl monkey who fucked a boy monkey with lots of bananas had plenty of well fed baby monkeys who passed on her genes while a girl monkey who fucked a boy monkey with no banana starved to death. We like success because we are hard wired to - same reason men are attracted to healthy fertile young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:36 AM
1

Social intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:29 AM
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"Sexless" doesn't mean shunned permavirgin. It just means not currently sexually active which can be for many reasons. Many guys are fine not trying to get laid and rather stay home and play CSGO or something. too busy with school to fish for poon low libido haven't gotten over their last break-up and aren't ready to date again yet Think the effort isn't worth it Culture/religion discourages premarital sex The "sex" part in Maslow's needs isn't strictly about literal sexual intercourse its about…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:57 AM
5

For men - whining about not meeting anyone when all they do is scroll on tinder and don't make any social effort irl. For women - whining that they get ghosted/used for sex when they don't vet and screen for red flags. For both - thinking their work/hobby resume should instantly net them their dream husbando/waifu. Those things make it easier to MEET PEOPLE, not automatically guarantee dating success. They come from a helicopter parent/school mindset of thinking relationships are rewards rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:10 PM
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Men think women have it easier because they see it from the male viewpoint. If a male mind was transferred into a female body he would probably have the time of his life (until he had to defend himself in an alleyway lol). But having a female mind IS a downside - women have higher neuroticism and anxiety/depression rates and attempt suicide more often. They have a higher need for socialization on average than men, they worry about more things, they care more about social status. Plus the biologi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:36 PM
5

Diagnosed ASPD that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:31 PM
3

They aren't supposed to be the ONLY thing that makes you happy - they make you happier yes but you should have an identity and source of happiness outside of the relationship. Any relationship with a person with low self esteem is going to fail miserably and be sabataged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:30 PM
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They do sometimes in a backhanded way to put their friend in their place - but oftentimes the girl gets resentful. You shouldn't rely on women friends to "set you up" anyways - use them as social proof or meet other women through them indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:27 PM
1

Yeah men and women are different for a reason. There are outliers for each sex but for the most part biology is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:20 AM
1

Serial monogamy has been the norm since at least the 20s in America if not before. Even in the 50s most women lost their virginities before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:19 AM
1

Agreed. average men lost their virginity in high school and know that being nice to women does not make them attracted - they arent totally “red-pilled” and still have some idealism about women but they have eyes and can see that men with certain characteristics get more women than others. I think a lot of red-pillers were either incredibly sheltered in their school years or on the spectrum bc I dont know how you can go through life without gaining some awareness of what kind of guys get tons of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:17 AM
1

A very small percentage. Most women either want kids someday or are on the fence, and if she wants to do the primary share of raising kids as most moms do, she cant spend her life taking care of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:11 AM
1

If she treats you like a “girlfriend” If she never wants to spend 1 on 1 with you If she flakes out a lot If she takes forever to text back If she doesn’t bother to look good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:09 AM
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*He doesnt offer to pick you up *He is reluctant to spend money on you (not talking like $100 dinners I mean like a $40 one) *He takes a long time to text back *He doesnt take interest in you non-sexually *He doesnt bother to plan dates *You feel desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:07 AM
1

Women do have higher standards for men. If men could get pregnant they would be choosy too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:03 AM
7

Boys need dads. Primary school teachers were always majority female even in the 1800s. Many male “gurus” like priests and boy scout leaders ended up doing terrible things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:02 AM
2

The majority of men who say they only want a relationship without having a casual sex phase at least once in their life are men who dont believe they can get casual sex. Of course there are some exceptions, but most men want to experience variety before settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:00 AM
2

I dont know why does anyone say anything. The only women I hear talking about “real men” are sour grapes leftover women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:56 AM
1

I feel like “incel” as a word has gone out of favor ever since they shut down all the incel subs. I rarely hear it anymore unlike in 2019 when the word was everywhere. I think people have directed their attention elsewhere and have realized that most shooters arent even incels
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:55 AM
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nope - most people have layers to their circles and they aren't all the same closeness. Plus I said proximity was one of the most important factors not the only factor. And btw my circle doesn't have any men in it - maybe a few but they are all taken
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:16 AM
2

maybe if you live in the ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:06 AM
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sure guys appreciate it and would feel bad if their wife was that callous but not as much as women typically
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:05 AM
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Most people have small circles when they get older I'm not sure whos interacting with hundreds of men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:04 AM
1

sure tomato tomato
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:45 AM
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If they are forgetting their anniversary I'd say that shows the don't care about it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:44 AM
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Proximity as how much time you spend with someone, your social circle, socioeconomic status. It's not just about location
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:43 AM
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If they don't care either way they aren't romantic. That's what I'm saying. Romantic means you like to give and receive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:37 AM
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they are femcel/forever alone the same way men are: they are mentally ill hermits who dont try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:36 AM
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I guess if you have self-esteem issues/phobia of sexual situations but typically no. If you can only socialize in certain contexts you don't have good social skills you just have a highly controlled environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:34 AM
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in what universe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:32 AM
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yes - that's how i fractured my arm when i was 11 haha. She wasn't violent just a huge athletic weimaraner who saw her favorite dog buddy and bolted as I was holding the leash. Snapped my arm literally in two
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:30 AM
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thats what im saying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:28 AM
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people here underestimate proximity when it comes to dating. I think it might be the most important thing actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:27 AM
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Top 20% is relative not absolute. It's determined by your socioeconomic/cultural peer group. Like yeah a socially awkward college educated IT guy can get with an overweight trailer park lady in theory but you rarely see them together because they never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:26 AM
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Optimists? We on the same sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:21 AM
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No, romantic is about wanting to give and receive affection. That's what "hopeless romantic" means. If a guy has to be reminded of his anniversary but the woman remembers, then the woman is more romantic. Typically the woman also gifts something to the man - I've never heard of a relationship where the man is just showering her in gifts while she gives nothing except in stories about narcissistic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:08 AM
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You can be a "low value man" and still get laid. Just go to any wallmart in iowa or whatever and look around. I think "low value man" is more in relationship to your socioeconomic and cultural peer group than is absolute. Typically theyre men who are seen as outcasts in their community
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:04 AM
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Yes I do - I go to a stem college so theres plenty. Here's what I notice hinders them. They get hung up on one girl and refuse to go after any others and instead prefer to orbit their oneitis. Usually that girl is out of their league and extroverted and they only orbit because she gives them easy attention despite making it clear she isn't attracted to them. Usually they are too timid to make themselves seen or ask out any girls. Either they feel its not worth the effort or are shy and have low …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:00 AM
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No such thing as too high standards. You get what you deserve or you remain alone. Women are more content with not being in a relationship than men it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:50 AM
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Really? Because I never hear about women forgetting their mans' birthdays or christmas or their anniversary but I constantly hear about the opposite. That must mean that women care about romance more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:48 AM
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its not unavoidable if you have game and cast a wide net
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:47 AM
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if you have game they wont care/notice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:46 AM
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It's a shit-test and part of growing up to be a man. The truth is that if you aim to please everyone and literally never assert yourself for fear of inconveniencing others you will not get very far in life. Yeah, women whine about being approached so what? As long as you take no for an answer and use common sense you arent going to be ruining a womans life or Metood just by asking asking a girl out. Life is contradictory and frustrating and often unfair. Learning that is part of growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:44 AM
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single by choice temporarily due to illness making it hard to date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:58 PM
2

On average but reminder that the wealth gap has grown enormously so the average might not reflect the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:00 AM
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It comes from viewing life through a computer screen. Which is what weve been doing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:59 AM
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People more receptive to sexual gestures when they want to have sex with that person? Color me shocked!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:58 AM
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Yeah life is objectively “better” but does that matter when people dont have a purpose? If safety and objective comfort makes us happier then why do first world countries have similar happiness levels to third world countries? Why havent we gotten happier despite us having it ‘better’ than 100 years ago? Humans dont work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:57 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:45 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:34 AM
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dont get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:34 AM
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yeah caring abou womens dating struggles isnt wanting to date them. They dont date her because they care they date her bc they are getting something out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:03 AM
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most female dating struggles fall on deaf ears to men too. You think most men care about 40 year old leftover debbie? Yeah they fuck her but do you think they give two fucks about her shitty love life? The only reason womens problems get more focus is because women are more socially cohesive and care about each others problems, you think chad cares that melvin cant get a date to prom?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:35 AM
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incredibly rare but good for him i guess? not my business
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:32 AM
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because traditionally wives take care of men socially and emotionally while husbands take care of women financially. Women now can take care of themselves financially but men havent learned to take care of themselves emotionally/socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:30 AM
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financial abortion will never exist because the average voter/the state doesnt want to pay taxes to support a deadbeat dads spawn. I dont know why men on ppd debate complain about women having casual sex with chad and then be completely willing to be financially cucked by paying taxes towards another mans child while chad gets no consequences. You think a woman who has a kid w a deadbeat isnt also probably on welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:28 AM
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Im thin and have an hourglass figure, flat stomach. I probably should get back into lifting but im already borderline underweight and dont want to lose anymorw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:21 AM
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lmao in all my dates im the one who has to act interesting and plan them. men are lazy with that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:19 AM
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crackheads with three teeth find a way to fuck so no, you dont have to have a perfect resume to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:32 AM
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direct isnt always best because it escalates things - theres a reason why humans communicate indirectly 80% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:14 AM
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I think men as a whole have worse social/conversational skills than women since women value cooperation and agreeability more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:34 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:33 AM
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what is the fundamental purpose of dating when you get down to it? If this was divorced from sex men would complain about not having friends either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:31 AM
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it already is - but you probably dont notice those women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:37 AM
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its bc women cant fathom being as horny as men. Like most women can go celibate for long periods of time and not even think about dick until a guy “activates” them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:28 PM
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because when men are unsatisfied in a relationship they just cheat or check out and wait for the woman to make the move to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:26 PM
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I wouldnt care or want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:28 PM
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how good is he at makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:28 PM
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because women care more about kids than men. its biological
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:27 PM
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if he’s dumb enough not to hide it from me than yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:27 PM
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“still hit”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:15 AM
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most men do not write paragraphs on the internet and that is why they get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:37 AM
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men KNOW BPD/crazy girls should be avoided but the sex and emotional whiplash is so good they dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:35 AM
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you just feel it out i guess? my low body count is bc im picky and I dont like to sleep outside my own bed not because i care about my body count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:33 AM
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its a anonymous forum not tea with the queen - i let the trash fly here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:32 AM
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nowhere. stop caring for what women think. agreeablity and conscientiousness are not things that get women wet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:31 AM
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very but its not worth the effort usually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:28 AM
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become less neurotic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:28 AM
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he’s horrible to black women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:27 AM
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hes horrible to black women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:25 AM
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correction: you attract who your parents are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:34 PM
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nope totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:33 PM
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🦀KEVIN SAMUELS IS DEAD🦀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:33 PM
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I wouldnt your first two years because those years are for meeting new people and having fun. Being in a relationship makes you complacent and eats up precious time. Your Junior and senior year things settle down a lot (unless youre in a frat) and thats when a lot of people get cuffed. But it shouldnt be a focus either way - you have plenty of time after college too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:49 AM
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My unpopular opinion is that they are both crazy assholes who deserve each other. Depp is no angel and he has a history of domestic violence and Amber Heard is batshit. You attract who you are for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:45 AM
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The bill hasnt passed yet I live in a blue state so no worries for me I dont have casual sex I could never have an abortion (support it for others)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:43 AM
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phrasing this in a nicer way: learn to enjoy meeting new people but know your limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:38 AM
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Pace myself instead of taking a bunch of hard courses in the beginning. Focus more on meeting new people and getting comfortable with college life. Don’t get into a relationship/get stuck on one person. Learn your booze limits early so you dont become “that guy” later on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:38 AM
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Really hate how i have to choose to either have horrible anxiety or not get out of bed all day every time i wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:36 AM
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exhibitionism fetish. or male solipsism, like i like getting unsolicited nudes from women so they should enjoy my random dick pic too!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:22 AM
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tmi but im female and i went off my birth control for like three days and was so horny i couldnt think straight so i had to get back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:19 AM
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bc women dont have a refractory period so we can have multiple orgasm. like when a woman orgasms she doesnt usually instantly stop being horny while a guy does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:17 AM
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They don’t unless they are attracted to you. No getting around it. But the only way to win in this life is to take risks and occasionally be a little selfish. Masculinity entails being ok with not having everyone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:12 AM
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Its less about your looks and more circumstantial. You can be a supermodel and never get hit on if youre a recluse or have no social media or only go out with your husband/bf. But if you’re a young social single woman in an urban area with a ‘macho’ culture that encourages hitting on women openly then yeah youre gonna get hit on constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:07 AM
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It made me feel ugly and frustrated tbh. But he had low sex drive out of insecurity and ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:01 AM
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What do you mean artificial? Photoshop? Plastic surgery? Anime girls? I dont feel insecure bc I can photoshop and get surgery if I want too. Im pretty confident in my appearance and looks dont matter much when it comes to a loving relationship anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:59 AM
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i wouldnt care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:26 AM
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Why should we believe their excuses? Could the “lack of intimacy” be due to child rearinf with no help, pregnancy, or hell they guy could just be lying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:37 PM
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Yeah those men are shamed - by women. And those entitled women are applauded - by other women. No straight man is applauding an entitled woman. Just look what the consensus on Amy Shumer is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:01 PM
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I wouldn't say "respect" but if I see a person with a far more attractive partner I think "good for them!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:59 PM
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Ummm no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:57 PM
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Because they don't want their kids to be raised by a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:56 PM
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This just in! Basic social skills needed to succeed in a social context!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:56 PM
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It's pretty clearly reverse psychology or "prove yourself to me". People like challenges. Same with men who like dangerous femme fatale women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:54 PM
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Very few actually sugar IMO. Like they might try it for funsies once but will get freaked out when they have to meet the guy irl or end up getting scammed online lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:53 PM
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They are more common than female “unicorns” because women tend to attach to a single male more than men attach to a single women because women are hypergamous and men are polygamous. Any man a woman is attached to becomes a unicorn and if he isnt she will spin him in her mind to be one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:14 PM
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Every rule about women has nuance to it that men don’t see. Dating SEEMS easy for women bc men view quantity over quality in terms of sex partners. But women would rather be alone than have sex with a substandard male
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:12 PM
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no but society advances faster than our instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:02 PM
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It’s not a “today” issue nor does it represent a bias against men. its the fact that people do not take female anger seriously so they dont feel threatened by a bunch of hens squawking on FDS while male anger is taken as more of a threat by both women and other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:28 AM
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I’ve only seen two irl but they were both pretty big
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:25 AM
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Yeah sounds like a typical toxic relationship with a controlling apathetic person and another whos codependent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:24 AM
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Bc evolution. We want commitment bc thousands of years ago getting pumped and dumped and pregnant probably meant death for both us and the child without a man to defend us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:22 AM
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last time i checked frat boys are studying at university too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:52 AM
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What do you mean by degraded? Like being dominated is probably 80% of all women but thats not necessarily degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:25 PM
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I find human behavior fascinating. I dont see it as misogynistic when you get down to the basics, what makes it “misogynistic” is a consequence of its followers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:34 PM
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like a short he he laugh without much smiling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:33 PM
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Idk its a pretty good indicator usually though. But an awkward polite laugh is different from a interested laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:59 PM
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I see guys do this a lot at my uni but usually the girls are stringing them along for attention/a self esteem boost. But no this is always a bad idea and if a guy did it to me Id be super annoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:28 AM
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Your argument is moot. The guys here who complain about “bad boys” getting laid are just “bad boys” with high inhibition: they arent any more moral than the guys they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:34 PM
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ok so what does “bad boy” mean then? Like a guy whos not scared of his shadow?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:32 PM
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Complain to your friends, complaining to women/society is taken as whining and is going to be met with “tough shit”. If my friend complained to me about not being able to get a man I would say the same thing. Complaining is annoying no matter what the circumstance unless you are commiserating with someone who gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:31 PM
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Is this supposed to be a controversial argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:29 PM
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Porn is a symptom not a cause. The cause is increased social isolation in our post capitalist rat race technocratic world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:28 PM
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“Traumatic” is a loaded word but puberty was pretty hellish for me and was definitely a low point in my life. I had HORRIBLE acne and period pains that did not go away until I went on birth control and accutane at 17, I didnt have older sister or many friends to help me out with fashion or hygiene so everything was trial by fire. I had frizzy hair and bad depression and moodswings. Now I feel very confident and am perfectly happy with my life now that I’m out of my teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:27 PM
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No I feel like it would be patronizing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:24 PM
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I dont know if I would date a widower tbh. As unfair and somewhat selfish as this is a lot of widowers idolize their deceased wives and will compare new loves to them every time theres a relationship problem. Then you’re competing not with the wife but of the idolized memory of her. I’m sure most arent like this but it would be hard to not compare a new wife to one you lost tragically. If I was a widow myself then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:32 AM
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Lmao no. Women usually dont pay thousands of dollars to twitch thots in hopes of getting a shout out. The fat acceptance crowd is extremely tiny and KNOWS that fat isnt attractive they just want attention and they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:28 AM
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i mean people who define themselves based on any one trait arent probably mentally healthy. And women who brag about independence usually are hurt and projecting and arent actually ok with it. Naturally independent people make great partners as long as they are open to the compromise that comes with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:26 AM
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Not necessarily. I’ve seen men get attached from a ONS and I’ve seen women treat sex as just sex. But women are more likely to have casual sex in the hopes of obtaining a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:53 PM
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Go for it but he might be annoyed when the only women who are virgins at a certain age arent very interested in sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:38 PM
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Idk what youre talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:37 PM
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I have never seen a woman do this but I would imagine she have some kind of personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:37 PM
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I wouldnt say I’m WGTOW FOREVER nor would I label myself as that but I am taking a break from dating right now so I guess I can answer. I would say its kind of voluntary as I know I can get dates/relationships if I tried but if the perfect guy for me came up to me tomorrow I wouldnt say no. Virgin until 20 when I got a boyfriend over quarantine and lost it to him. He was a good bf for a while and we had fun but eventually I had to back to school on the opposite side of the country and it didnt w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:36 PM
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yes it is - ask a clingy girl if you can hang out with the boys for a night and watch clingy turn into needy. “Clingy” =/= affectionate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:38 AM
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Incels like the idea of a clingy gf bc they crave female validation and sex but if they ever got one they would go back to porn and games within a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:35 AM
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I must be a minority then bc my exes clingy/needy behavior is what caused us to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:32 AM
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clingy is needy. What you think of as “clingy” is prob just normal interest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:31 AM
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The problem is society isnt giving incentives to create families with houses being extremely expensive and one income not cutting it. Any society that needs increased population rate growth just to sustain itself is going to crumble eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:23 AM
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Its an individual issue. I know a lot of women stay with a guy they arent crazy about and end up regretting it or ending up in a dead bedroom. I know when I dumped my last bf I thought I would regret it and I moved on faster than I thought. And I know women who get in rebound relationships fast despite being older. I think your friend would be bitter and cynical even if she didnt dump her bf and I dont think her experience is typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:19 AM
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I lost it at 20 and am not religious. Many women are shy and introverted and want to wait for a relationship to lose it. Despite what PPD thinks women arent getting dates unless they put themselves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:15 AM
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well hopefully a good chunk are virgins as a good amount are too intellectually disabled to consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:12 AM
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Thats hard to objectively measure bc “autism” usually includes people with severe intellectual disabilities who cant consent anyways and also doesnt include extremely high functioning people who dont get diagnosed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:11 AM
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Idk were just as confused about her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:23 AM
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You think american guys arent seeing four girls at once too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:15 AM
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they are a minority - they just seem like the majority bc narcissistic/BPD women tend to be extroverted and enjoy bragging about male attention to other males to make them jealous. I see this among my narc female acquaintance - she LOVES making male friends just to get them to simp for her and brags to her hook ups about it. My normal friends dont have that many male friends bc unrequited crushes and power balances make us uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:06 AM
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yeah theres a lot of narcissistic/immature/bpd women out there and you probably self select for them (especially if engaging in one night stands). Narc women tend to be extremely social and love bragging about their gold digging with other men to subtly peacock. Ive seen this with mixed gender groups i hang with and my narc female friends. The narcs will always be the loudest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:01 AM
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bc women its hard for women to get attracted to a still photo without any personality indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:48 AM
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i typically match with most guys i swipe on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:46 AM
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no they arent. Most women who don’t actively seek out simps dont have any
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:11 AM
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yes they do. Married men cheat more than married woman which is by definition gaslighting and lying. Men say they want a 50/50 relationship and then do no chores. Women want a macho guy with a sensitive side. They are ok with opening up as long as it isnt a self pity fest which men arent ok with their friends doing either because its lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:03 AM
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but most of the time the reddit guys are just gamers not artsy free spirits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:56 AM
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Women who date “manchildren’ tend to be codependent low self esteem types who secretly like being the more valuable partner because it boosts their self esteem and makes them feel needed. As much as they complain about how much of a martyr they are to their friends and reddit for validation they never leave or put their foot down irl. I think there is a minority of naive women or men who dropped the ball after marriage but for the most part these women are control freaks who cant handle being in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:55 AM
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Women who date “manchildren’ tend to be codependent low self esteem types who secretly like being the more valuable partner because it boosts their self esteem and makes them feel needed. They complain to their friends and reddit about how much of a martyr they are but never actually leave or put their foot down. Its a control thing for them. I think there is a minority of genuinely naive women or men who dropped the ball after marriage but in my experience most manchildrens wives stay because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:48 AM
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Yeah just like men want a sexually open woman who isnt a slut. People want the best of both worlds male and female
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:35 AM
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There’s a clear balance and it doesnt have to be so black and white. You can be a confident person who has hard times and opens up about it once in a while. Its balance. Women want 80% alpha 20% beta. That’s like saying you want a woman whos in touch with her emotions and isnt a robot but not a BPD psycho. You know, a balanced person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:34 AM
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why do you expect all women to love you? Everyone “manipulates”. Men do it to get sex, women do it to get commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:31 AM
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thats why most rape cases aren’t prosecuted. Oh wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:30 AM
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Emotional sensitivity tells us when something is wrong so we can get out of that situation and find safety for us and our children
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:52 AM
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at bars clubs frat houses idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:46 AM
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Yes. But personally I dont think the price of a meal is worth the trouble of having to hang out with a guy im not interested in unless I was starving to death
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:25 PM
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brando was probably gay and insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:59 PM
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Creative guys- learn guitar, cooking, art
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:58 PM
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Ok so which is it PPD? Women only go for thugs or women only go for college educated guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:57 PM
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They like the attention anyways. Like I know mcdonalds isnt healthy but i eat it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:54 PM
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Anecdote but all my friends who grew up with brothers close in age to them ended up being total pick-mes and getting taken advantage of and I wonder if that was because they were raised to be a second mom to their brothers. As I only have sisters (have an older half bro buy he never lived with me) I never mommied men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:56 PM
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economics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:35 PM
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plus promiscuous chad party girls arent likely to be on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:35 PM
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n count of 1 and its was in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:34 PM
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yeah but the religious promiscuous girls are only a small subset. There are plenty of loud promiscuous girls too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:34 PM
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promiscuous women are more likely to talk about n count and be actively dating in college so its sampling bias for you. you hang around extroverted promiscuous party girls and you get high n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:33 AM
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promiscuous women tend to be more comfortable talking about sex with men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:27 AM
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It’s projection of low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:24 AM
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this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:24 AM
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well duh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:19 AM
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she’s that great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:18 AM
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you too luv
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:58 PM
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nah they love each other a lot and are always flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:57 PM
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horrible adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:57 PM
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my dads awesome lol she treats him amazing he just likes to cook and clean and she has bad adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:56 PM
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Nah my dad was cute af when he was younger but so was my mom. She does all the yardwork/petcare and he is super OCD and loves to cook. My mom gives him lots of love and respect too shes just adhd as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:56 PM
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yeah my slutty friends do this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:34 PM
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Stay home with vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:30 PM
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fun to read when bored tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:30 PM
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My mom is a housewife who cant cook and cant clean and still has a husband who loves her to pieces so you can bet your ass I’m never “settling”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:29 PM
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It’s like working out for a lot of men: we enjoy the process and yes I do sometimes do makeup just to wear around the house, looking good to men is a bonus. Looking good feels good even if the sexual attention was removed from it. Also women look good not only to get attraction from men but to boost their social status within their social group
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:06 PM
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Be more social.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:03 PM
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What do you mean “shallow”. If you mean picking a mate based on superficial criteria then its equal. If you mean based on looks alone its men by far. Women are pickier than men but are less looks focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:02 PM
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Not from what I’ve seen unless they are narcissists. Most older women I know seem to be over the attention and are happy to be in a more stable place. My mom was a depressed alcoholic mess when she was younger and is now the happiest person I know and loves being a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:01 PM
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Polyamory is a niche hipster nerd thing and isn’t mainstream enough to be talked about in the pill sense. Note that “polyamory” has different connotations than “polygamy” and “nonmonogamy”. “Polyamory” typically is lib-left hipsters and more female centered and from what I’ve seen typically ends in drama and jealousy. “Nonmonogamy” is usually just a couple where one wants to cheat or is bored and the other c#pes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:57 PM
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you will never understand it and thats ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:42 PM
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Women go through menopause and therefore have a shorter fertile period than men so there is much more pressure for them to start a family in a timely manner so I would have to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:56 PM
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If I have the resources I would love 3 kids but no more than that. I think kids are better off when they have siblings to keep them company and for support
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:54 PM
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Bc agreeableness is good for child rearing but not resource acquisition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:54 PM
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right place right time usually. Hot women are people too and maybe the average guy was the only one with the balls to approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:37 PM
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I agree but its clearly not just women. America has a unique dating culture like everything else. Because of our extreme hyper capitalist yet first world egalitarian culture there is very much a “fuck you got mine” dating mentality in both sexes. Other western European countries are typically a lot more pro casual sex to the point where most people have high body counts and marriage isnt a thing as much as the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:35 PM
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The whole reason reproductive rights are a thing is so the state doesnt have to shell out for unwanted babies. What voting population would agree to let fathers off the hook so their taxes have to pay for fatherless kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:28 PM
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they arent losing sleep over the young ones either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:24 AM
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paid maternity leave and non prescription birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:22 AM
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anything on social media is coomer behavior, just watch it on a porn site
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:19 AM
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Thats bc it was based on Grindr, a GAY “dating” app.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:04 PM
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They aren’t but the internet has given us 24/7 access to their once private sexist thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:03 PM
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They want an asshole who will treat them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:02 PM
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the bathhouses are always open ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:31 AM
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its bc most blue collar trades with livable wages that dont require college are male dominated and physically taxing to the point that they are not a viable career for most women. The female counterpart aka pink collar jobs now at least require an associates degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:24 AM
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avoiding awkwardness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:20 AM
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their rising population is a symptom of a wider societal problem but they arent dangerous in their own right. I think rising income inequality and homeless drug addicts are a bigger threat than computer warrior incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:19 AM
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its bc many women cant/dont physically orgasm from casual sex easily so they fake it to avoid an awkward tedious session of the guy frustratedly trying to get her to cum when its just not gonna happen. A lot of women dont have casual sex to orgasm, otherwise why not just stay at home with the vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:14 AM
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responding to an IOI isnt pushy its assertive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:06 AM
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so do men for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:05 AM
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or join Grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:04 AM
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You can join Grindr too and end your loneliness pretty fast
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:02 AM
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Thats because women are more socially motivated than men as a sex. Men dont babysit for neighbors or join home owners associations or PTAs as much as women do. Women have a lower threshold for loneliness than men but they create more social opportunities because of that. It has nothing to do with being able to be used as a fleshlight for a Tinder date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:02 AM
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thank you for reminding me of that masterpiece
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:57 AM
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yeah a lot of times guys on reddit will complain about a woman bailing after “opening up” and it turns out they were using their gf as a 24/7 crisis center instead of a partner with needs. Like I dont doubt that there are a lot of emotionally unsupportive women out there who would bail bc her man crying over a parents death turns her off but a lot of times these guys use their mental health as an excuse to emotionally neglect their partners and wallow in self pity and then when she’s had enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:50 AM
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well anecdotal but Im on the pill and am not attracted to soi bois. If the pill made women attracted to soft unmasculine men then we wouldnt have the 80 20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:35 AM
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Correlation =\= causation. Women get on the pill for a lot of reasons, including hormone regulation for PCOS, period pains, and premenstrual dysphoric disorder all of which is are risk factors for depression. It makes sense that a large chunk of women who take the pill for hormone regulation might also be more at risk for depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:32 AM
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Female friends all the way. I’ve never had close straight male friends that stayed strictly platonic bc it ALWAYS gets awkward bc men b horny. Male acquaintances are great, but I would never hang out with one platonically one on one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:24 AM
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socialize more and get out of your head
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:22 AM
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not necessarily but it usually does indicate hard times historically in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:21 AM
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power turns women on - it doesnt have to be physical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:38 AM
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optics my friend: take the red pill bro-speak out of it and many agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:38 AM
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bc people are delaying life milestones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:37 AM
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introverted in the MBTI sense is different than the colloquial usage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:11 PM
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No, what I implied was “normal” women who seek out a 30 year old virgin with whom they have nothing in common with are likely to be gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:11 PM
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Is living there nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:09 PM
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yet skinny methheads get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:08 PM
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but thats not what theyre complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:07 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:06 PM
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better shot than staying at home right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:06 PM
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Most redpillers are idiots who take AWALT to the extreme but yes most women want attractive masculine men and thats not a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:05 PM
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being able to read body language and being assertive is part of the filter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:03 PM
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female and male sexuality is very different. to those women that IS a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:52 PM
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The Red Pill Women sub/community is pretty much just red pillers larping as tradwives and I’m not a part of that. But I label myself RP on here because I agree with most red pill teachings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:30 PM
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exactly - very zen if you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:29 PM
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But is it viable long term? Is there room for growth? Can you move onto something else when you turn 50 and your back is fucked up? The problem isnt the job but the career/lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:24 PM
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It doesnt bc cheating is deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:23 PM
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go with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:22 PM
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and they dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:22 PM
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you know what I mean like anywhere social where you can get fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:21 PM
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Nah networking is just using you connections - everyone does jt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:13 PM
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99% of guys on this subs problems are high inhibition and over analyzing. Like midget methhead juggalos get laid its prob not your looks or your income. Like just go out go to a club and get wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:12 PM
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hate to say it but this is what most men would think if a woman did that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:02 PM
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Better to give IOIs and have him approach. Or make excuses to be with him. Indirect approach. If you give IOIs and he doesnt approach he’s either too scared or not interested, and you move on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:01 PM
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Do community and then transfer if you’re in the US. Side note I hate the reddit trades circlejerk. Like most trades do not pay well and are a nightmare on the body but everyone acts like its easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:00 PM
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You prob arent “stacy-sexual” youre just making a excuses not to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:50 PM
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Would you “love” a fat and ugly woman? Love exists, and its magical, but that doesnt mean its random or nonsensical. And no, for most people their SO cant be replaced with a checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:49 PM
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The problem is “Introvert” has become shorthand for “serious social anxiety and hates people”. I’m an introvert, I’m happy because I’m not shacking up with someone out of desperation. I enjoy socializing and having friends but I need a lot of alone time. It hasn’t affected my relationship satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:47 PM
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The stars align and they click with someone. Life isn’t determined by stats and spreadsheets. Juggalos fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:45 PM
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Isn’t that the goal? To have your cake and eat it too? That’s why its sexual STRATEGY and not r/AmITheAsshole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:44 PM
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I’m cool with it just dont let me know and keep it out of sight. Like don’t make it MY problem. I’m fine with a guy jacking off now and again but if he’s blowing me off to masturbate or is giving him death grip its a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:43 PM
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He’s better off with an equally awkward and inexperienced 30 year old woman. Socially stunted religious cat ladies exist. A “normie” woman, no matter the age, is likely to take advantage of his social awkwardness and milk him for $$.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:41 PM
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I’ll never understand it. Yeah I get in funks too but fuck depression sucks so much I’ll do anything to get out including self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:39 PM
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This has been a thing in Japan since the 80s - “idol culture” is very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:38 PM
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The problem is even if data were to prove NAWALT they would just go “women b lying”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:37 PM
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I’m not reading that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:36 PM
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In my experience, I've been pretty good at spotting guys who just want sex Are you a mind reader? I’m talking about cold approach not making a move on a guy you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:35 PM
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Anecdotes- not saying it never works, just saying its usually better to be demure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:34 PM
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Namibia? Why not? It was gorgeous when I went and the night sky was amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:31 PM
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Yeah but how do you know what he thinks of you before you approach him? How do you know if he’s stringing you along or not? People say its obvious but delusion is a powerful thing if you like someone. Waiting for the guy to ask is a filter, not a perfect one, but a decent one for guys who are willing to make an effort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:22 AM
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Yeah we know men love it, men love it if we fuck them on the first date too- but is it a good strategy for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:19 AM
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Costa Rica and Namibia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:17 AM
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Yes very much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:16 AM
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That does happen occasionally - look at the overweight middle aged women who “fall in love with” third worlders on 90 Day Fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:16 AM
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Through friends or school
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:14 AM
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I mean if you are a single mom who is poor yeah you are less likely to be happy than if you dont have excess mouths to feed and that skews the data a lot. As a upper middle class university educated woman if I stay with my husband and have kids I’m probably gonna beat the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:13 AM
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The problem isnt just him only wanting sex. The problem is being put in the “easy” category. No woman wants to be second best, but when you approach the guy, he knows explicitly that you are keen and can have you as a “second option” he doesnt have to put effort into.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:39 PM
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Watch what they say, not what they do. Men (especially desperate ones here) will say they LOVE when a woman makes the first move. And they do, just like women like when a guy buys them jewelry on a first date. But is that a good strategy for the female? (And Im not talking about giving IOIs, I’m talking about explicitly cold approaching a guy). Usually not from my experience. Women who approach usually get put into the “easy hookup when the girl I actually like isnt responding” category and beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:37 PM
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it is obviously. Men want polygamy for them monogamy for women which obviously cant happen for every man unless they somehow genetically engineer humans to have an uneven sex ratio. Whenever I see men complain that feminism destroyed traditional monogamy and started the casual sex trend I like to point out that it was mostly men fueling the “free love” movement because they assumed it would be free use instead of women using sex to get monogamy from her choice of man (often the best she can get)…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:30 PM
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I dont know thats not our problem. You cant please everyone so might as well approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:24 PM
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As a 22 year old, dont make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:23 PM
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yes actually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:37 PM
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Yeah I dont see that. A woman isnt going to brag about a below average husband on SM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:11 AM
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technology might have evolved but our base instincts havent kept up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:47 AM
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sure and i want to marry a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:42 AM
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There was no way to verify that of the anonymous donor either! Usually sperm banks screen for that though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:35 AM
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but your study showed women who marry older dont actually have spouses who make more money so your point is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:27 AM
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I mean yeah having a young wife means a built in caretaker to wipe your ass when you get old lol. Men dont take care of their spouses the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:25 AM
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Game shows social savviness and status which are attractive in women. Being that blunt sexually is a turn off bc it shows you have no game or you see her as an easy lay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:21 AM
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Bc thats how their mating strategy works. Men will take any chance to mate they can get because it takes no effort to nut in a girl. Women will rather be alone than with a suboptimal guy because mating leaves you helpless and pregnant for 9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:17 AM
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you can be the hottest woman on earth and if you have a shit/awkward/boring personality the guys gonna get sick of ypu eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:14 AM
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lol no they dont. As a early 20s girl most have pretty shit self esteem that usually gets higher as they age and get more established. Thats why old ladies and cougars are so sexually forward
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:07 AM
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Sure in their own way, but it doesnt matter anyways because its still blatant disrespect towards your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:12 AM
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All sorts of magic can still happen, but it will never be hot and crazy like a love affair between two high school or college students that have a high sense of self-worth be it real or not. What adolescent girl do you know has a “high sense of self worth”? And people still get horny and fall stupidly in love in their 20s-30s. Teen “love” is just shallow and awkward 90% of the time. I think most guys who romanticize teen love either watch too much anime or just want to fuck a teen girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:09 AM
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just admit you want to fuck underage girls and leave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:04 AM
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and yet you still end up selecting for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:47 AM
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Inb4 some soyboy follows this advice and gets a legend of zelda tat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:13 AM
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Your mistake was thinking relationships are merit based and not purely luck based most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:05 AM
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not wifing up single moms is literally sociopathy. Not getting into a relationship with a person you arent into because of fear of loneliness is literally sociopathy. People dont marry and get into relationships out of the goodness of their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:03 AM
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Yeah hot women have to friendzone ugly guys who are persistent and delusional too. Its not a woman problem its a delusional people problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:53 AM
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if hes that hot and successful and cant find someone he probably isnt approaching enough or has some mental problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:49 AM
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You only need one person to be your SO so it probably makes weeding people out easier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:32 AM
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I could but only if I am completely in love with him, married/engaged, and it was due to something reasonable like an physical accident and not his fault. But with being a full time caretaker for someone with physical/mental trauma sex is probably going to be the least of my concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:29 AM
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Correlation =\= causation. Sexual abuse is tied with low socioeconomic status and urban poor who are more likely to be democrats because of welfare and urban issues. Its not the same feminist upper class white democrats. Also, people in rural areas are more likely to be conservative and probably also less likely to report sexual abuse due to lack of services and isolation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:29 PM
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The ones who care the most seem to be dorky low n count high inhibition men who are insecure about being compared to other men and getting settled on by some old party hag. Like I never see this happen. Dorky low n count guys usually end up with dorky low n count girls and old party hags dont touch them even when desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:27 PM
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I wouldnt care just dont bring it up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:24 PM
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The original idea was “text for logistics only” was directed at men who got too clingy and were too nervous to ask girls out on a date irl so they drive potential dates away by spamming them with text and looking too eager. The problem is that like everything else on TRP people take it way too far and its not suited for online dating where everything is through text anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:21 PM
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At this point its either “prove young women are awful” or “women how do i fuck u?”. And its useless bc the only women who answer are older married women who arent on the market
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:15 PM
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No - but i wouldnt dread it if i was my looksmatch and 5’10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:43 PM
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so is most things we find attractive. Its about genetic fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:42 PM
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Nothing is effortless lol so no. I put effort into my health and attractiveness and i expect the same from him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:41 PM
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Who cares just work out once in a while and put down the fork. Believe it or not most women arent into arnold schwarzenegger types or slick gay porn actors, they just want a high T guy who works out three times a week and has a cute face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:07 PM
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Depends. It could be endearing if he’s usually dominant and takes it well or it could be cringy if hes all talk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:07 AM
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I dont at all. I really dont care about the past, more about his present and his potential
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:04 AM
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I dont invite it really. Too busy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:03 AM
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I have no “physical preferences” or type whatever gives me tingles i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:03 AM
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Its halo effect + being treated nice makes you nicer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:55 AM
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I’m not super social but it happens whenever I go out with friends. I get compliments a lot from women more than men though when Im just running errands or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:20 PM
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it is economic but not directly. When you’re broke you’re stressed and have low confidence which makes it not fun to date
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:53 PM
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When women say this its because they are thinking of roided up professional bodybuilders not Christiano Ronaldo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:52 PM
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it should since that just creates more convicts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:50 PM
1

The man shouldnt have to pay obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:50 PM
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If you arent in the mood often enough that you have to fake it to have a normal sexual relationship its a problem. Either its a mismatch of libidos, sexual trauma/hangups, a medical condition, or you arent attracted to your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:49 PM
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No because men are more visually attracted than women are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:48 PM
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that is the problem lol. I wouldnt mind it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:47 PM
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Thats the thing: a girl with good game wont pay for dates because she’s so gracious she makes men want to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:47 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:01 AM
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The problem is that men are considered the default in the public eye despite women being 50% of the population. So a man who is a loser is just one loser, while a woman who is a loser is more likely to be seen as an representative of her sex being losers. A common problem when debating on here: when you bring up a man committing a mass murder, he is considered a monster or an anomaly and men dont claim him. But when someone brings up a crazy woman who writes love notes to mass murderers, it all …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:57 AM
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Learn social skills/game via red pill (dont pay for it though, learn from the internet). Learn to recognize body language and social cues and practice at bars. Maybe even hire a neurotypical wingman so an outsider can tell how you look. Buy nice looking but cheap clothes and get a nice trendy yet easy to maintain haircut. If you are young copy what guys on tiktok are wearing as tiktoks from attractive men get advertised more. Get healthy, meditate, lift, have good hygiene, stuff you should be do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:46 AM
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Its more that the effort is not worth the reward for both men and women. Women have stressful jobs and dont want more chores and relationship stress on top of that (women worry more about their relationships than men do typically). Men have video games and porn and dont want to approach and potentially get rejected just to have a slim chance of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:35 AM
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None probably but they tend to not have those conversations in front of women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:32 AM
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Youre asking the wrong question. Women tend to value what men do rather than who they are. So a lot of women will any guy who has game and says the right things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:32 AM
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Its not about getting attention more like guys get tired of me in relationships and start drama because of my introversion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:30 AM
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The problem with being an attractive woman (cry me a river I know) is that looks get you superficial attraction but any girl can get that if they want it bad enough. But a good match requires a lot of searching, even for attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 AM
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Its not that im boring more just kind of quiet at times and my last boyfriend hated silence lol. Like I enjoy doing things together but sometimes I dont want to talk and enjoy the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:27 AM
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Less but more curated choices so the user isnt bombarded with guys who swipe right on everyone Sets up optimal matches based on questions, interests A little controversial/shallow but if AI or like ratio can determine equally attractive people and try to match them up that would be useful too. Like interests matching matters but it doesnt mean shit if its going to match a skinny hot woman with a fat neckbeard. The only problem is that less attractive women might not like what they get matched wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:24 AM
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It isnt the dating stage thats hard but the actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:17 AM
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upper body strength, cant get pregnant, seen as more competent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:07 AM
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Its not that narcissism itself is attractive (most narcs are deeply insecure and the opposite of confident), but the fact that narcs depend so heavily on public approval that they spend more effort making themselves attractive and superficially likable than others. It all falls apart in an LTR though. Also narcs arent Patrick Bateman stoic suave cool guys. Those are psychopaths. Narcs are usually incredibly sensitive and have no frame. They also tend to be very miserable and often commit suicide…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:44 AM
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this has been true since women have been a part of show business. If anything its gotten better. Its interesting to see how the youthful look cycles in and out of popularity though. Like in the 40s-50s and 80s and 2010s mature shapely women often in their 30s were stars . But 20s 60s 90s and now its more about doe eyed skinny teens
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:40 AM
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Lol who cares these trust fund hos have too much time on their hands
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:36 AM
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supernormal stimuli. Same reason beetles try to mate with glass bottles. But I think Playboy made porn mainstream and socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:35 AM
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hinge is all uggos for me. Tinder is pretty good. Havent tried bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:33 AM
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I give mixed signals sometimes when flirting because its fun to be cheeky. I’m not sure why people here expect dating to be so robotic and transactional (muh metoo i guess) By mixed signals I mean being coy and shy not hot and cold and bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:32 AM
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getting into a warm shower to open pores and turning it cold at the end to close them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:30 AM
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no business of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:28 AM
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Right now nothing de jure but there is still de facto discrimination against women. Plus men have a natural biological advantage in so many things that state enforced “rights” dont mean equality per say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:27 AM
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Be extroverted and have a high social status. I see women batting out of their league sometimes and its usually because they have queen bee HOA president energy and status that high status men gravitate towards (or in proximity of). Like not masculine career woman energy but more soccer mom former cheerleader vibes despite not being 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:24 AM
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same reason i watch TLC and dr phil
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:26 PM
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unless its a PS5 or gaming computer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:10 PM
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The problem with this experiment is that Norah cant magically turn herself into a man. Yeah being a man is hard, but being a man without the magic of testosterone, upper body strength, and male socialization is even harder. She got the worst of both worlds: female biology and male social wariness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:04 PM
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Not unless youre in the ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:58 PM
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I’m having galentines day with the girls tomorrow. I am pretty happy single now but I worry about the future sometimes. Not because I am ugly but because I am so strange that I cant imagine what guy I would end up with or even if theres one out there for me. Like I am very attractive (was told on here i was an 8) but I’m also introverted and not very exciting to guys. I’m also into philosophy and other esoteric things. Nerdy guys are intimidated by me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:59 AM
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I see equality for the most part. Otherwise they wouldnt be together. Like tends to attract like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:55 AM
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Having opposite sex CLOSE FRIENDS (re: friends you hang with one on one) is always a bad idea. Not because men be horny but because male and female friendships are very different. Male friendships are less intimate and more hobby-based. This is good because it creates less drama but bad because there is less support and cohesion. Female friendships are more intimate and more social circle based. More drama but more support and cohesion. A male female friendship either has a one sided crush with …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:53 AM
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none of those things are the persons “true self” though. Those can all be changed outwardly without affecting the persons personality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:47 AM
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For sex yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:46 AM
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Be yourself is good advice for LTRs because eventually you get to the point where faking who you are 24/7 is exhausting. For getting laid its bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:45 AM
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Be pickier - I want to know a guy wants me for who I am and not because he wants a warm hole
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:41 AM
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My definition of “pick-me” - A woman who values herself based on male attention. NOT A WOMAN WHO TREATS HER BF/HUSBAND WELL. A “pick-me” is by definition not “picked” or being treated well by men in return. Pick-me’s are reviled the same way simps are reviled for men - because a lot of women see their former selves in them and cringe. You tend to hate traits you spot in yourself. Also chronic pick-mes are bad to be female friends with because they will throw you under the bus for male attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:38 AM
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yes haha. Heres the thing - rap is misogynistic but its also a lot of times its a character the rapper is playing just like when they brag about killing people you can sing along without wishing violence on others. It’s so overt you dont take it seriously. It’s different than low-key unintended misogyny which is worse because its the artists actual feelings rather than big talk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:33 AM
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no its just time and energy to put effort into meeting someone new, look nice, plan dates. Plus emotional energy too. I’m an introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:16 PM
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I think its because men see a spouse as a support in their life while women see a spouse as a potential drain. Like it or not traditionally before the Boomer era the wife would take care of the house and tend to the mans needs while the man worked as he did before. Boomers made it so that both sexes work, but the 50/50 thing did not work out perfectly as the wife was still doing most of the work at home and supporting the husband. Millennials and Gen Z saw this dynamic play out with their parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:43 AM
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Myself tbh. Im too asocial to want to be with a guy 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:27 AM
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Its gone downhill but not because of OLD or redpillers but the fact that people are just more isolated outside of work. I’m single but not actively dating because work and college are already a lot and dating is just an added stressor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:23 AM
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Not at all except maybe made me a little more cynical
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:19 AM
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Depends how long we were together for and our age. Like early on and were 24 I get it but if were 28 and have been together for 5 years its a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:16 PM
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biology? social stigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:15 PM
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if any country was dumb enough to try to invade the usa now the war would end instantly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:03 AM
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I guess he expects us American women to be like “oh no! come back!” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:34 PM
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when theres an economic power balance in the relationship you get a lot more bartering power. Who wouldve thunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:31 PM
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Well after world war 2 women got a lot more power in the US since all the men were off fighting a war. Not sure why you think WW3 = survivalist video game fantasy where society completely breaks down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:28 PM
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Who cares you can have whatever standards you want. Why do you guys care so much about what we think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:26 PM
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the same things but to different degrees. Women might tee-hee about abs and stuff but gay men are much more visual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:25 PM
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its men with cuck fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:24 PM
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I dont have a new man Im single. But I still dont think about my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:19 PM
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I lost mine at 20: it was shyness and wanting to wait until i was in a serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:54 AM
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Obviously. Think of gay men vs straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:46 PM
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Ok i get not wanting to be with someone whos not over their ex and constantly talks about them, compares you to him, etc. But a lot of you guys are just being overly anxious and misunderstand the “lightswitch effect” women have with their exes. Like I broke up with my ex last year and I never think about him anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:46 PM
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u can be white and latino
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:17 PM
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Men here: Women are sooo picky I cant get a date even with obese single moms I just want someone to love 🥺. Also men here: If I’m not superior in all ways to all of her exes then I wont date her!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:12 PM
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literally cucking yourself stop obsessing and hit it. Its not like youre marrying her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:10 PM
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why are white guys so obsessed with comparing themselves to black men? The BLACKED BBC porn genre is a male obsession not a female one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:09 PM
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new places, ideas, concepts, media,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:06 PM
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My brother was a nerdy theater kid who loves video games. Hes currently 26 and has a gf and many friends. Hes much more social actually than I ever was as a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:02 PM
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A guy who isnt scared of his shadow, afraid to try new things. A guy who introduces me to new things and I introduce him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:59 PM
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nah then hes flagged as a catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:59 AM
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Women tend to judge the whole package rather than individual traits like men do. If he turns me on and I like him idgaf what he lacks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:51 AM
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They care about perceived sluttiness but not n count exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:49 AM
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My point is dating is harder for men for a reason: they cant get pregnant and women can. Women have to fear for their safety in hetero relationships and men dont. A woman approaching a woman to date is not as potentially dangerous as a man approaching a woman. Men have power over women so women are more wary of men and that is the trade off. Larping as a guy means you dont get the physical benefits but all of the societal wariness towards men. Ask a bunch women if she could trade off the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:46 PM
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yes they do they can breed with no risk (pregnancy). Thats why men will fuck anything and women are more picky - the biological risk for a woman to breed is higher than a mans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:59 PM
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Its not about logic its about me having a small circle and deal with some thirsty dude mentally undressing me all the time. Ive had straight male friends and it always ends up awkward which defeats the point of a friendship for me. Acquaintances sure but close friends no way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:25 PM
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i can like someone without being close friends with them. Tbh I prefer keeping a small circle and staying out of drama so hanging out with some guy who ends up falling for me and making things awkward is not an experience I want to have. Its too much hassle to be friends with a straight guy whos just gonna feel lead on anyways and probably jack off to me when Im not around. Gay guys are the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:23 PM
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I dont have male friends. If i like you enough to be friends with you I like you enough to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:57 AM
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its biological you cant change millions of years of evolution of sexuality within a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:49 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? My point was that women are less visually sexually stimulated than men not that they werent visually stimulated at all. That is why women are so picky on dating apps - they cant tell if they like a guy based off a picture so they just go for the hottest ones. If Benedict Cumberbatch was a rando with a OLD account he wouldn't get many matches yet he is obsessed over by women bc his status and the characters he plays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:10 AM
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35% isnt most or even close to half. And the countries that are even are ones where female sexuality isnt encouraged anyways so that might be their only sexual outlet so they are irrelevant when talking about western online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:49 AM
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which is why women dont sleep with men - even ones they are interested in - on the first date. See the dilemma? Game theory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:42 AM
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women DO pay for erotica like 50 shades of gray tho. And the abundance of romance novels back then says they paid for it back then too. And most porn watchers are male yet erotic fanfiction readers are female. Women arent as visually sexually stimulated as males
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:27 AM
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what do you mean? like physical attractiveness is important but charisma and status cant be transmitted through a static photo and thats what women value most
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:25 AM
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Yeah my dad whos in the insurance industry told me how blatantly racist higher ups can be despite all the corporate diversity nonsense they push.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:23 AM
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the problem with the Norah Vincent experience is that she couldnt fully replicate the experience of a man bc she was raised female and didnt have the biology of a male so she got none of the de jure benefits of being a woman and none of the biological benefits of being a male. Its like a woman trying out for the NBA and then saying men have it harder bc the standards are higher than the WNBA. If men had it a lot harder than women they would have higher depression and anxiety rates than women whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:15 AM
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I think that domestic violence statistic is bc women are more likely to report it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:09 AM
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I understand it but I can’t fully empathize bc I dont have a male libido
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:07 AM
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What if she sleeps with everyone on the first date? Would you want to date the town bike?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:02 AM
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bc women arent attracted to static photos - think why PlayGirl isnt a thing and Playboy was
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:00 AM
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TRP hasnt changed the dating game (and wont ever bc its so niche) but OLD and American hustle culture has. People say the problem is casual sex/dating but casual sex has been around since the 20s and it hasnt been an issue nor is it as big of a problem in other 1st world countries despite the hookup culture being even bigger there. The problem is Americans treat dating as a cost/benefit thing instead of an enjoyable process of getting to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:58 AM
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midwest that explains it. Sorry that genuinely sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:53 AM
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Ok understood. Have you tried getting friends to set you up? That might have a better chance of succeeding than OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:34 AM
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Its not that women dont need men its that relationships are stressful and women are risk adverse as a rule. When you need to work 12 hours a day to eat dating and relationships are the first to go out the door. Women didnt just decide that they dont want a man out of nowhere and most women WOULD like a relationship but the dating process is brutal and oftentimes its just more work for little payoff. Men are slightly more motivated to date bc of male libido and risk taking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:16 AM
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Wait so you want a woman to provide for but dont want to be a beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:09 AM
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BC society is pushing us to socialize irl less in general. Stagnating wages, more education needed to get a decent job, more hours worked, more homework and studying in school, a global pandemic that forced us into isolation, technology placating our need for entertainment. Nobody wants to deal with the stress of relationships when there is already so much to stress about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:01 AM
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I think their tactics are right but their explanations are out of left field and come from a male worldview/lens (ironic since they complain about female solipsism). Anytime they try to explain female thought processes its usually completely wrong. Like they assume that because women only swipe right on 10% of profiles on tinder that only 10% of men can gain the attraction of a female, ignoring that Tinder is based of Grindr a GAY MALE dating app. Women are never going to be able to determine se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:57 AM
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Yeah just like men here think every FDSer is some loudmouthed Karen who lectures every man she dates on how she needs to be treated like a princess and who never shows genuine interest in the men she dates. People are going to be a lot more open and honest on an anonymous website. The problem with both RP and FDS isnt the ideology but the fact that their userbase is mostly comprised of butthurt people who want a venting space
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:40 AM
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in what world does a upper middle class American dork have connections or “events” to go to? We arent talking about the uber wealthy were talking about suburbanites.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:18 AM
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really? The consensus around here seems to be most attractive women are bitches bc society treats them so nicely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:07 AM
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I wouldnt say thats true in america at least. An awkward guy with wealthy parents here is still considered an awkward guy. Social proof is more about your connections and friendships within your social class
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:37 PM
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I would if I was older and financially ready to take on step kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:05 AM
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Bc its not actually great for women. It’s great for women from men’s quantity over quality sexual perspective bc they can get all the chad dick they want but women’s sexual imperative is about weeding men out and vetting for a relationship which makes a million thirsty men with just a picture and a short profile useless until she meets him irl. Humans have a thing called “decision fatigue” which means a million options is more stressful and worse than a handful of them. Also why men here claim t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:25 PM
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They do but they dont have time or energy to obtain them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:18 PM
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Low socioeconomic status men prob get laid more bc they have low inhibitions and low socioeconomic status women probably dont go on reddit often. Its more for lower-upper middle class people who get sheltered from the opposite sex and are white collar stem lords. I’m not really sure about FDS demographics so I cant speak on them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:18 PM
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Men are criticized by other men who are in sexual competition with them and women who feel threatened by them. As well as men who have daughters and wives who dont want them to be eye fucked by random men on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:15 PM
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Young women on OLD do have literally a trillion options. That doesnt make their dating pool better bc they get decision fatigue and cant vet as well bc all they have to go off of is a pic and a two sentence profile. Men may roll their eyes at this but dating for women is more about choosing and vetting and less about getting anyone like mens is. So OLD isnt a paradise for women as men here think it is. Its better to have a few good choices for women then a trillion ones you have to sift through.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:13 PM
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Good for them. But I dont want a man who wont marry me. It’s a red flag for bitterness and lack of trust
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:07 PM
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I wouldnt care tbh as long as it was a long time ago. But I think I might be an outlier bc I dont think a partners past matters - what matters is how they grew from their past. My parents were both alcoholics and my dad had three DUIs when they got together - today they are clean and successful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:06 PM
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work out, meditate, find a purpose, socialize more, go to clubs and bars
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:03 PM
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They way they think getting laid/getting a romantic partner is life or death
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:20 AM
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Women werent railing against guys chatting them up at the bar they were railing against men in power holding them sexually hostage. I dont know why random reddit men think the MeToo movement has ever applied to them when it was specifically about workplace abuse of power
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:20 AM
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Trad women are masters at playing the game. You ever met a Eastern European woman? They act nice and trad to get $$
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:17 AM
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I get this too sometimes. I didnt even think we could downvote on here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:32 AM
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I’m a woman and I have definitely been baffled by male sexuality before. For example, I’ve heard men thirst over Shiv Roy in Succession but to me she just looks like your average mid 30s woman. But the way she is filmed and her character makes her attractive to a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:26 AM
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No, its just more visible bc the internet has put everyone’s once hidden views on blast for the world to hear. Women have always trashed men behind their back to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:23 AM
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No? Strippers, prostitutes and pornstars have been around forever and nobody gave a damn. You guys just hate Onlyfans bc the woman is getting paid directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:18 AM
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Situation 2: But maybe I’m biased bc I was raised by a SAHM. I’m probably not going to have kids but if I do I’m gonna try and stay home at least until theyre in middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:14 AM
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My advice for men is to use Hinge if you want better odds and less competition. I was on both Tinder and Hinge and the Tinder guys were a lot hotter and less fat than the Hinge guys. I guess bc Hinge is the more “serious” app so you don’t have the college Chads looking for quickies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:12 AM
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friendships are almost never the same intensity from start to finish. I have some once good friends from high school that drifted apart when I moved. That doesnt mean I dont cherish the memories, just people drift apart and proximity is what makes most relationships happen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:06 AM
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yes theres a huge difference and I think most people here are interpreting “friends” as like facebook friends and not being in frequent one on one irl contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:04 AM
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I personally dont make contact with them for a while except for facebook friends etc. If we broke up we broke up for a reason, and if the attraction is just gone its probably not completely gone for the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:02 AM
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This one is for the boys with the booming system Top down, AC with the cooler system When he come up in the club, he be blazin' up Got stacks on deck like he savin' up And he ill, he real, he might gotta deal He pop bottles and he got the right kind of build He cold, he dope, he might sell coke He always in the air, but he never fly coach He a motherfuckin' trip, trip, sailor of the ship, ship When he make it drip, drip kiss him on the lip, lip That's the kind of dude I was lookin' for
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:00 AM
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because men hornier than women. The one who cares less wins
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:59 AM
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except the straight women dont go to hit on straight men and are usually accompanying their gay friends. But a group of just straight women at a gay bar is probably the most obnoxious group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:57 AM
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but god damn, going to a gay club/bar is a cheat code to meeting chicks since competition is virtually non-existent Sure, but youll have to dodge come ons from gay guys. And you’ll be assumed to be gay which automatically neuters you in the eyes of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:54 AM
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Why should men care? Just don’t be a total sex pest and you’re fine. Learn to read body language and social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:53 AM
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If he’s not smart enough to hide it I dont want anything to do with him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:51 AM
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bc arguing with randos online is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:38 AM
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yes podcasts: Women and Crime, Dateline, Forensic Files; mostly stuff that isnt too dramatized and is more scientific b. No bc most true crime stuff is from the 70s and 80s: ever since hitchhiking started being discouraged and DNA evidence became a thing the risk of a upper middle class white woman being randomly murdered by a serial killer is like 0. I’m still cautious but that is irrelevant to my interest in TC.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:34 AM
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as long as onlyfans is around im good 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:40 PM
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This sub is like the only use ill get out of my evolution and behavior degree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:11 AM
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FDS is just standard female dating advice repackaged to be deliberately inflammatory and cathartic for women who have been hurt in relationships. Just like the red pill is mostly based on truths but caked in angry macho bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:10 AM
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do you think red pillers go up to women and start ranting about n-counts? People act vastly different when online anonymously. Yes, its unlikely that any man here has encountered a FDSer just like its unlikely that any woman here has encountered a red piller, but that doesnt mean that members of those communities always stick out like sore thumbs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:05 AM
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bc instead of working on themselves they spend their lives jerking off and wasting their money on porn. There’s no excuse to being a coomer degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:32 AM
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exactly usually a nice ass is genetics + fat distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:30 AM
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Yeah but a FDSer could be very good at hiding it and occasionally offer to pick up the bill and then ghost if the guy takes her up on it. There’s such thing as nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:05 AM
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She could just be very good at hiding it and playing the game. Like a decent red piller wouldnt come out of the gate telling his date AWALT or how women are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:03 AM
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thats bc men have less in group selection than women - which is why mens rights has never taken off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:57 AM
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bitches will say sexual shit on tinder bc they are drunk/trolling/attention seeking. It doesnt mean anything until your dick is actually in her mouth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:52 AM
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He doesnt attract crazy its just crazy goes for everyone and he lets them stay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:49 AM
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why would you even post these?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:37 AM
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this is like that eric andre meme where he shoots the guy except its men shooting each other and blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:37 AM
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Chloe bc big tits get attention but can also detract from how seriously people take you. A nice ass isnt as distracting or polarizing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:27 AM
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Those 90s pop songs were written by Swedes so the english is usually kind of fucky. Like “Hit me baby one more time” was supposed to be translated as “hit me up one more time”. In this case it means to get with the girl her friends have to approve of you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:25 AM
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What do you mean natural ass? Like not surgically enhanced? Bc most of the female fitness infuencers have had booty lifts and other surgery plus photoshop. Working out alone isnt going to going to turn a flat ass into kim k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:23 AM
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How would you tell the difference between someone who practices FDS and someone who is just old fashioned? FDS hating is bad toupee effect: you only notice the women who are bad at hiding it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:19 AM
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I find it funny how the same men who rail about single mothers and the left destroying family values are the ones usually against marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:09 AM
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No bc I want a family someday and im not going to have a child out of wedlock
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:06 AM
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Women have a more reactive sexuality than men so you wont see them lusting after a glossy magazine print of some random hunk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:15 PM
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I have but only when I have alcohol in me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:42 PM
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Not many tbh. Adam Driver I guess but Im more into the characters he plays than the celebrity. Young Ashton Kutcher maybe. Kurt Cobain but he’s dead :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:17 AM
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M:78 F:118 - Feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:15 AM
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doesnt matter. still proves that being hot doesnt make your marriage better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:20 PM
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wants to have sex but not with club thots… picky picky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:54 AM
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And yet she still ended up divorced. And anyone can get into a relationship (especially women) if they are desperate and lower their standards enough so her getting into a relationship fast is not a measure of her beauty. I see fat chicks doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:17 AM
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permanent mental damage ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:40 AM
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There is none bc men are polygamous not hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:20 PM
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Good sex bc if it was bad sex I would have pumped and dumped him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:20 PM
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keeping and fapping to nudes is bringing the past into the present tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:19 PM
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I wouldnt care as long as they didnt actively look at them and fap to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:16 PM
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No bc a woman who is romantically attracted to someone is automatically physically attracted to them no matter how ugly they are. Like Benedict Cumberbatch or Steve Buscemi
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:15 PM
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idk what men are attracted to is none of my business as long as he isnt in a relationship with me who cares. Thats like saying men are wrong for being attracted to young women hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:21 AM
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have they permabanned atlas?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:55 AM
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Why would you want a woman whos not attracted to you? That’s like asking for a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:55 AM
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Bc it strokes their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:46 AM
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What “era of men”? Men as a whole have never been influential in society its always been a certain class of men at the top. But now with social media showing the lives of the top tier men the male underlings are getting FOMO and wanting a return to a golden age of men that never was and using feminism as a scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:49 PM
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its gonna b really obvious if u show in in fuckin moon shoes bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:45 PM
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Not at all. But I dont think a one inch difference is going to make or break a girls attraction to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:25 PM
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Basically having a husband is like having a second child. Men tend to lean on women for attention, emotional support/therapy, scheduling appointments, keeping house and child. In return they used to financially support the woman but nowadays the woman has to work too while also taking care of the husband. Plus picking an unfit husband can actually be physically and psychologically dangerous especially if he is violent, abusive, cheats and gets STDs. I know this applies to wives too but women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:21 PM
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nah its just young people are shyer and less confident than older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:59 PM
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date skinny/ripped girls then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:58 PM
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masculine blue collar men usually dont have trouble with women its the soyboy white collar programmers that have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:52 PM
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its not a psyop its just your average reddit mod
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:51 PM
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sure you volunteering?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:50 PM
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take the predator pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:16 AM
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thats my gripe with the sub as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:14 AM
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Jinora from Korra
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:09 AM
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i wish my ex was like that lol. He never wanted to do anything. Maybe its just that adventurous and chill men get dates more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:11 AM
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They cut through the bs (usually). Plus being strong and assertive while still being kind is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:39 AM
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The fantasy isnt asshole trailer trash deadbeat its James Dean Rebel without a Cause shit which is def a fantasy. Women dont fantasize about straight up assholes they fantasize about brooding rebels with a heart of gold. The reason they get with assholes is bc of psychological issues and being assholes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:36 AM
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I mean its a fantasy. Most women dont end up dating bad boys unless theyre bad themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:44 PM
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And men think its unfathomable that women like bad boys that are good just for them. Crazy but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:32 AM
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looks like tinder anywhere else in a decently wealthy white area. Plus tinder promotes the hot profiles so its not representative
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:27 AM
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Thats probably bc men and women have different definitions of “single”. Like a woman in a FWB might say shes in a relationship to save face while the guy in a FWB will say hes single. Single doesnt mean celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:09 AM
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yeah but thats also distorted by poor minorities making a big chunk of the obesity rates. If you live in an upper middle class area youre less likely to see fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:06 AM
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Women make their own money in today's age and don't have to depend on a man to be the breadwinner. Thats been true since the 70s. Men typically dislike fat women and there's a lot of fat women now. So about 100% of men are chasing like 60% of women. You can see how the maths doesn't add up there. Fat people tend to be stratified along class race and age lines. Fat men tend to date fat women so its not as big of a factor in dating as people here make it out to be. There's quite a few women who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:04 AM
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its more like when you are bombarded with options that come through a screen how do you even know who’s a good option to begin with? You cant possibly meet all of them. Its a lot easier to eek that out irl than through text.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:57 AM
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yet potatoes are still around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:55 AM
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lol thats their way of making a move on you. strike two!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:53 AM
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not murdering people. But seriously men have higher standard deviation of skill in most things bc nature took more risks with the gender that doesnt get pregnant. That means more male geniuses and more male retards/autists than females
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:49 AM
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I dont but not out of spite but bc theres usually still residual feelings there and it feels cruel to go out of my way to contact them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:37 AM
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What are you talking about? They dont lust after them like men dont fap to Debbie from accounting but they fall in love with them all the same. Most women are boring too and are icked out by weird/alt guys. The problem is that redditors tend to be asocial nerdy guys who befriend other asocial nerdy guys so they assume that is average when an actual average guy played a sport or two in highschool, lost his virginity in his late teens, watches marvel movies and rarely goes online. They also assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:07 PM
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The problem is that all men are attracted to fertile 20-35 year old women while women tend to like their age match +2-5 years older. This creates an imbalance especially since women live longer than men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:03 PM
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I could prove this theory wrong. There is always more adapted to the environment and less well adapted. Yes but we cant predict how the environment is going to change especially in these times. Nor can we predict how chromosome crossover is going to effect which genes the child gets. For example, high earning techies might be evolutionarily successful and adapted to their environment but their children are also more likely to have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:01 PM
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wouldnt that imply the reverse bc you are paying them for a date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:38 AM
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the state doesnt care they want to hand out as little welfare money as possible so they rather men raise kids that arent theres. What Im saying is that it would never be implemented by the government bc it doesnt benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:36 AM
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so sorry poppy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:12 AM
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why would it not make sense to not have start a family when you can barely afford rent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:53 PM
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if having this burden is so taxing and annoying for men why not get castrated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:37 AM
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get castrated then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:48 AM
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I do understand it and act accordingly. I dont take male thirst as a compliment, I carry pepper spray and an alarm wherever I go, I dont have single straight male besties, I treat men kindly but neutrally so they dont get the wrong idea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:45 AM
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So far they're winning the culture war: thick is a thing, bbw is a thing, body shaming has switched from mocking big bottomed women to shaming "pancake" butts Thats less due to white sjw “body positivity” which no man in history has ever cared about and more due to black culture becoming more mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:42 AM
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No the reason the marriage rate is going down is because people dont feel stable enough to settle down right now in the midst of a pandemic and adulthood milestones are getting delayed longer and longer among young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:38 AM
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Women do outearn men until they hit their 30s and have babies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:35 AM
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Its because of none of those things. Polyamory is a super niche thing, marriage has been secular ever since gay marriage became a thing and nobody gives af about the government’s involvement in marriage. The real reason is because younger people are delaying adulthood milestones later because of economic reasons. Marriage is still a thing among people who can afford to settle down and have a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:31 AM
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I couldnt because I cant predict the future. Evolution has no goal. If a bunch of strong smart and capable organisms got wiped out by a volcano randomly they would have been selected out of the gene pool just as validly as if they we wiped out by disease or competition. There is no perfect organism bc the environment is always changing. I could have the most attractive and smartest kids possible and they could end up not reproducing bc they end up vulnerable to a new disease in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:31 AM
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because of luck. Evolution has no goal. If a bunch of strong smart and capable organisms got wiped out by a volcano randomly they would have been selected out of the gene pool just as validly as if they we wiped out by disease or competition. There is no perfect organism bc the environment is always changing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:28 AM
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No because for every gym bro theres three out of shape guys who live completely sedentary lifestyles. The purpose of gym culture movement is to replace the naturally more active lifestyles we once had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:25 AM
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The problem is that being super blunt about that and stating outright that you dont want casual is a turn off even to men who arent the pump and dump type bc it comes off as entitled and makes him feel unwanted. Theres a reason why women communicate indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:22 AM
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I dont expect a man to be super neat and tidy but I do expect that he pitches in and cleans up after himself. Like if he creates more work for me its a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:19 AM
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why would the state want to do that? That just means more kids potentially getting on welfare and more single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:17 AM
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i think beauty transcends race but theres many objectively beautiful people that I wouldnt be personally sexually attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:37 AM
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i miss it - some great pink pills in there like the male fds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:36 AM
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maybe my school just had an ass football team then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:32 PM
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Ok makes sense. On the coasts its less of a status thing but from what I hear southern high schools take football very seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:18 PM
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You from the south? That might be why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:07 PM
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I mean its easier to get slim but being skinny doesn’t automatically make you a pretty boy. You need good genes for it while being buff is an automatic looks enhancer even if you arent Timothee Chalamet tier face wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:07 PM
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it doesnt that’s a movie trope. All the popular guys in my school were on the basketball and hockey teams
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:56 PM
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Pretty boy aesthetic is attractive to younger women but its hard to achieve if you arent already incredibly genetically gifted (as most red pillers arent). Its easier to get buff and look traditionally masculine which is a more guaranteed attractiveness booster.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:47 PM
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isnt everyone pro eugenics when it comes to dating? Thats why you find hot women hot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:28 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.brookings.edu/research/girls-boys-and-reading/%3famp Boys lag behind girls in reading in every developed country and have for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:15 AM
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and more men than women become CEOs. Men have greater standard deviation in terms of success usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:13 AM
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that subs banned
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:28 AM
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Dark triad in women manifests more as BPD which is attractive to men since its emotional and sexual manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:25 AM
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boys have always been behind girls in reading. And men go to college less bc they go into trades and end up earning more than they would with a useless liberal arts college degree. These arent signs that men are failing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:19 AM
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You think any woman who has dating woes would admit it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:05 AM
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They dont. They say they want fit chicks bc fit = instagram fitness model with plastic surgery and makeup. But for most women simply being slim and putting the gym effort into makeup hair and fashion does more for your looks than wasting time toning up at the gym unless youre 35+ or lost a lot of weight and have saggy skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:04 AM
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its worked in the economic anomaly of the 50s but most of the world lives in extended family homes. Nuclear family isnt natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:25 AM
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yes bc women are more health conscious and neurotic than men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:02 AM
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MGK is hot but Pete Davidson is fugly. Being funny and interesting adds a shit ton to a guys SMV. Men dont understand this bc they dont know how women sexualities work but personality matters a lot (just not in the generic nice guy way but in a stands of of a crowd way).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:22 PM
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they do just not often and not from hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:17 PM
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No I have ambition and so do all my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:16 PM
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we wouldnt be compatible if he spent all his time on an online game but if i was a gamer then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:16 PM
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Thats bc “asshole” men approach women more bc they are low inhib while high inhib nice guys approach less and are more hesitant. Assholes arent afraid of rejection so they get more tail bc they put themselves out there more. Self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:48 AM
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Approach women who give iois and get better social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:46 AM
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Here’s the deal: Women like it when a masculine man cries occasionally because it shows vulnerability and that hes not a sociopath. But if a guy does it too much or over little things it’s unattractive bc its a red flag that he’s immature or weak emotionally. For me if he cries more than I do (and I dont cry often) its unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:38 AM
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Yes but he has to have ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:29 PM
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By that same logic women's liberation was a psyop yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:28 PM
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no just saying he may not have made the correct choice for his kids if they are with an abusive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:55 AM
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not saying the guy is a bad guy but his kids are with an abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:47 AM
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If you had a domineering parent you probably did this to win their favor. Doing good things for people who treat you badly is a learned behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:56 AM
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I dont think “not struggling with dating” = banging strange every night like chad. Like if you can get a girlfriend and even get the occasional hook up you arent struggling. This was directed at the kissless permavirgin crowd not the average guy crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:45 AM
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if you cant even make friends you got more problems than dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:40 AM
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BPD is woman turned up to 11
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:27 AM
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covert contract - you do nice things in order to get paid back/out of fear and not bc you actually want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:28 AM
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libfem bs like that is like the least controversial stuff here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:27 AM
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It has to be organic not deliberate trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:20 AM
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sounds like a covert contract tbh. Or you grew up with a domineering mom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:06 AM
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Yeah men admit to cheating on their spouses despite them being good to them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:05 AM
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She’s probably a hypersexual love bombing BPD who gets off on being the other woman. If he went after her she’d prob either start drama or lose attraction Source: Know a few homewrecking women: they can NEVER keep secrets and its almost never about the guy but the thrill of being the sidehoe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:02 AM
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not when you’re young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:57 AM
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why ask? “all is free in love and war”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:55 AM
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i feel like all the good shit stirrers here got banned :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:54 AM
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wow what an original thought
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:54 AM
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I’m into astrology just to dunk on the soyboy I FUCKING LOVE SCIENCE euphoric redditor gang
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:09 PM
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Who’s enforcing these rights? The thought police?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:40 AM
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Men here complain about the lack men’s shelters and male homelessness but have clearly never helped run these shelters or house these men. It’s sad that some men who are just down on their luck or disabled cant get help but a good chunk of homeless men are violent or dangerously mentally ill which makes housing a bunch of mentally ill drug addicted men a liability. And once you start enforcing rules they rather just be out on the street anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:38 AM
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The reason there are plenty of women only places and few men only places is because A: Women are more likely to care about their own sex enough to open and donate to those places bc they are more socially cohesive to their own sex than men. and B: Male only spaces often end up descending into violence and anarchy unless there is strict rules and gatekeeping (such as no drugs/booze in shelters), at that point men rather be on their own since those spaces arent worth it. And nobody wants to open t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:12 AM
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“systemizers” i love that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:03 AM
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they already proved that with the David Reiner case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:02 AM
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men b horny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:35 PM
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maybe i need start dating men as emotionally distant as me then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:35 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:31 AM
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Boobs plus a lot of men work out shirtless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:21 AM
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If your partner actually likes you then you never need to worry about this, just reply when it suits you. Date when it suits both of you. Have you been in a relationship before? Its never like this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:17 AM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:58 AM
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A lot of places have you pay on an ipad that asks how much to tip. I hate this bc I always feel guilty for pressing no in front of the cashier but why would I tip a person who isnt even serving me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:04 AM
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As a woman out of the dating scene right now its bc women have to feel sexy to want sex/relationships and are highly influenced attraction wise by their mood at the time. A lot of times if a woman isnt feeling her “best” she wont want to date. Bc we arent as horny as men typically we put sex and potential relationships on the backburner when we arent feeling ready or are stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:59 AM
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But foreskin isnt analogous to vaginal labia and having labiaplasty is incredibly painful. And most women do have visible labia so it isnt natural to be prefer having no visible ones. Also not sure why we are shaming women for being culturally conditioned to find men without foreskin more attractive when its society and primarily men who force this cultural conditioning. If American men stopped wanting their sons to get circumsized American women would predominantly find uncut men attractive aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:33 AM
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No? Who argues for this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:53 AM
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So why do men here call visible labia “roast beef”? And why do so many pornstars get labiaplasties? And dont tell me a labiaplasty isnt as painful as circumsicion when it is if not more painful. Penile foreskin isnt analogous to vaginal labia And circumsicion isnt done bc women are attracted to it its done due to fucked up cultural tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:52 AM
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If the sex isnt awkward or if he has incompatible kinks. Or he has a low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:42 AM
3

this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:39 AM
15

The “born in the wrong generation” bs is just people romanticizing the past. You probably would have been the same social rank/happiness no matter what time period you lived in bc life isnt a Norman Rockwell painting. The FDSers who claim that “men were men back then” would probably end up a frazzled wino housewife with a cheating fat factory worker husband. And the incels who long for a hot virginal bangmaid bride would have either died in war or in a coal mine explosion or had a shrieking harp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:34 AM
1

That is literally what female genital mutilation is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:28 AM
1

few mentally ill people roll out of bed mentally ill. But that doesnt automatically excuse their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:27 AM
1

nah mentally ill women just get called hysterical and crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:26 AM
1

Not even going to respond to this ad hominem nightmare. This is like SJWs who expect the world to cater to them bc they’re oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:22 AM
2

The greater blackpill movement that started in the 2010s. There have always been “incels” and “loveshys” but it exploded around 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:21 AM
1

Female genital mutilation is done for male preference too. And “men will fuck anything” doesnt negate beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:20 AM
1

Yeah hes calling women “like mentally retarded children”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:18 AM
1

And calling women “like mentally retarded children” is a great argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:18 AM
2

Red pilled men arent tradcons typically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:18 AM
1

Online dating is already destigmatized in the west. And there are other more serious apps like Match that are more relationship based but that has an older demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:14 AM
3

No but you def arent getting laid tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:11 AM
4

depends on context. Women are extremely context dependent. Is it randomly on the bus? Probably none bc its sexual spam unless you are asking out wayy below your league bc the woman isnt probably in the mood to get chatted up on her morning commute to work. But after a chat at a bar? A lot higher chance of getting somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:09 AM
3

but “boys will be boys” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:47 AM
-1

pretty sad if men are earning less than mentally-disabled-childlike people without the handicap of childrearing https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/WN/reverse-gender-gap-study-young-childless-women-earn/story%3fid=11538401
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:46 AM
5

half the time you guys’ response to any woman making a point is “women b lying” and yall think its a mic drop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:42 AM
1

easy dopamine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:35 AM
1

But labiaplasty is a painful thing in the west due to male preferences and female genital mutilation is a thing in some cultures also due to male preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:27 AM
1

Nah bonobos evolved after humans and are pretty much a chiller high resource variation of the chimpanzee. We are more like chimps, who are notoriously violent assholes bc they live in a lower resource environment similar to the ones humans evolved in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:23 AM
1

like i said this is a simplified model - but all models are wrong, some are useful however
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:20 AM
1

No bc that would imply that somewhere in the back of his head hes unsure about me or doesnt fully trust me. I havent met an anti-marriage American man who had no distrust towards women or hasnt been scorned in some way by them. In short; its not the marriage that matters to me but the implications of a man not wanting to marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:13 AM
2

cultural conditioning. Like american men prefer shaved women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:08 AM
1

And men predominantly want women without visible labia. Attraction is never going to be PC or fair or humane. Would like to point out that there are just as many fathers who want to get their sons circumsized as mothers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:05 AM
1

zero
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:03 AM
3

Most of the shitposters were drifter blackpillers and not the saner regular redpill posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:03 AM
0

Show dont tell. Aka have a loving and respectful relationship with his father, put him into sports early so he gains self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:01 AM
1

So lovebombing? Like BPDs do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:56 AM
7

Gonna evo-psych sperg a little but say you are a woman in caveman times- you have a limited amount of years youre fertile, have to devote at least 3 years of nonstop attention and resources to a single child from one father, and also pregnancy leaves you vulnerable and birth can kill you. Which father would you choose? A. Confident asshole alpha - impregnates you and will probably leave (sucks) but if your kids survive childhood theyll prob have confident alpha genes and reproduce. B. Spineless …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:30 AM
2

We cant shame low iq women into not leaving their kids with dangerous men either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:12 AM
6

So man endangers a child = nonhuman criminal, woman who endangers child = represents all women. Love that logic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:11 AM
3

Bc you are probably high inhibition and introverted. Your obsession with self improvement is actually a detriment. Its better to not think and just act - that will get you more tail than “self improving” and ruminating. Social butterflys dont have to consciously self improve bc they are already self improving every time they socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:57 PM
1

ah gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:44 PM
1

So much bad bait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:46 PM
1

Most of it is just bait or overblown responses to bait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:38 PM
1

I thought those stacy flairs were tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:38 PM
1

not even close - if I cant tell its you automatically without looking at your username you have to step your schizo game up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:35 PM
1

She was probably saying it in a socially retarded way to get him to try harder in bed. Like how guys tell girls theyve never came from a blowjob before. But tbh who wouldnt be insecure after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:25 PM
1

You need a neg test to get on a plane? I flew domestically fine without one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:22 PM
-1

I think Lmaoooooo is more than one syllable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:40 PM
1

He’s gotta be some media psyop bc every woman I know in person thinks hes ugly af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:34 PM
-1

Lmaoooooo ok points for being the one thing that made me laugh during purge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:32 PM
3

Except gun violence is perpetrated by mostly men too. So its not just physical prowess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:29 PM
-1

Except most porn with big muscular men is consumed by men. Either gay ones or ones with a cuck fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:27 PM
2

A couple shrews on social media being un-pc is nothing compared to the abject hatred your average homophobic male has towards gay people. I wonder which demographic commits more hate crimes against lgbt people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:25 PM
6

How exactly am I being “entitled”? What’s entitled is thinking mentally ill people shouldnt receive consequences for their actions. I think that mentally ill men should not be neglected by society and should be rehabilitated just like I support prison reform. But I’m not going to set myself on fire to keep others warm and excuse their hatred for me just bc of mental illness. We all have free will and that includes incels. If incels are not responsible for their actions bc of mental illness they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:13 PM
4

Most criminals were neglected and abused or grew up in poor communities. Doesnt excuse their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:21 PM
3

The incel movement is a psyop to get males with poor genes and mental issues to select themselves out of the genepool voluntarily and not try. Better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:19 PM
0

you seem mad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:53 AM
0

are ugly women any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:44 AM
2

🧍‍♀️➡️🌰🥜
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:24 PM
1

anytime I see twitter go nuts over a movie/tv show I automatically skip it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:18 PM
23

I have seen hundreds of posts and comments whining about women screeching at men for dating younger women yet few comments from these women. Seems like a c*pe blaming muh society for why you arent banging a 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:12 PM
0

since when does redpill advocate for being a beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:09 PM
1

why would we chase upwards when that could result in a pump and dump? Women chase upwards for pure casual sex but for a relationship they settle in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:28 PM
1

Ok. So then why do women act shocked when those desirable, masculine men do what any rational man in their position would do and use you for sex and move on? Implying the super hot chads would bother to approach some hag only worthy of a pump and dump (outside of a club/bar/online dating setting). There’s a middle ground between 10/10 alpha chad and super anxious autist who cant approach the girl he likes. Letting the man irl approach selects for the men who arent anxious omegas but arent too ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:25 PM
1

Its blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:54 AM
1

They know this but still thrive off the meager attention crumbs the guy banging her throws at her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:46 PM
0

the only people wanting women to approach more is anxious and depressed low value males who women dont want anyways. The desirable masculine men already approach women they like so why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:43 PM
3

lmao do you live in a trailer park or something? I never see fat people near me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:40 PM
0

that was fast
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:36 PM
1

she sounds crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:08 AM
1

Most OF girls dont attach their real name to it tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:01 AM
2

So just like every other cam girl/stripper? I’m not sure why you guys think OF is some new thing when its just another platform for amateur porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:59 AM
1

So just like every other cam girl/stripper? I’m not sure why you guys think OF is some new thing when its just another platform for amateur porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:58 AM
-3

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:24 AM
1

That’s what IOIs are for. Approaching is taking the masculine role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:16 AM
-2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:14 AM
1

except she was pimped out and did sexual favors all the time for higher ups in order to get modeling jobs before she got famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:10 AM
1

comfort test but you should never tell women your actual #
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:08 AM
1

why not get a mail order bride or go overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:56 AM
9

who’s complaining? I only see men complaining about this. I’m personally fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:53 AM
0

In my experience women will only approach like a guy if they are tipsy enough. Women DO give out IOIs though but I doubt most guys here would be able to pick up on them even if they got them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:49 AM
7

women dont approach unless they’re intoxicated. They give IOIs tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:45 AM
1

I get approached irl still. Not often due to masks but it happens. I also get approached a lot when clubbing w friends but I dont think thats what youre talking about. I dont know any woman who enjoys being cold approached on the street unless its some hag whining online about not getting the same attention she did in her youth. But no desirable woman actually cares about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:45 AM
1

TBF that’s not exclusive to women. Knowing random esoteric knowledge isnt really socially attractive as a whole. Think about who is more fun to hang out with - people who spit random facts or those who have the social intelligence to know theres a time and place? Who has more friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:20 PM
2

yep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:28 PM
0

No but if you are a woman it makes sense. Of course the woman approaching benefits the man but most men will approach anyways so why would it benefit a woman to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:28 PM
-2

Women dont approach bc it sets a precedent that she’s going to do the work and lead in the relationship and the man can sit back while she puts the effort into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:17 PM
1

But most women dont want to be in that dominant role in the relationship. Approaching first sets a precedent of “you dont have to try/lead in the relationship”. I know a lot of guys obviously enjoy sitting back and letting the woman do everything but most women dont want this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:13 PM
2

but most women want a man to take the lead in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:10 PM
2

Yeah bc that signals that you are probably a neurotic doormat whos scared of his own shadow. Low inhib guys get shit bc they arent held back by their neuroses and take what they want. If it bothers you then maybe you should take a page out of their playbook
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:04 PM
1

Since when does being in shape mean “bad boy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:59 PM
2

14 is when I started getting attention from adults
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:52 PM
1

but what can an individual do about the fall of rome?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:32 PM
2

Men would probably want a virgin all else being equal. But in the real world most normal guys realize most virgins are that way for a reason: eg: has hangups about sex, religious, sheltered, asocial, ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:31 PM
0

Female INFJ here - my problem is that I succeed at making men like me (Ni-Fe) but find the actual relationship exhausting (inferior Se). Plus I love my alone time so much that I see no point in romance at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:08 PM
1

male INFPs prob have it worse than INFJs bc Ni-Fe gives them better game and makes them more action oriented than Fi dom INFPs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:02 PM
4

yeah but its a hollywood movie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:16 PM
0

Nope - there are far more engineering grads than there are good paying engineering jobs. And the jobs that do exist are so competitive that a degree doesnt even cut it anymore. Most engineering jobs in need right now are the type that dont even require a bachelors degree. Social skills and making connections is a much better tool to get a decent job than slaving away for an A despite what boomers screech at you. You’re better off getting mediocre grades and socializing or choosing a different de…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:58 AM
5

That’s more of a blackpill statistic than a red pill one. The redpill saying is that 20% of the men are having 80% of the sex, which is true for the most part. And blackpill is not redpill. Blackpill is inherently defeatist and victim mindset while redpill is about taking ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:48 AM
1

trust and commitment which is why marriage exists. Theres nothing wrong with staying home and doing domestic duties if you are married and have that societal safety net but a girlfriend playing homemaker with no back up plan is really dumb on her part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:38 AM
4

I’m female. And I can acknowledge red pill truths about myself without condemning them or seeing them as inferior to men. Red pill is less about the sub and more just acknowledging and generalizing human sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:34 AM
4

As an owner of an adopted three legged pit who is possibly the gentlest and friendliest dog I’ve ever had (had plenty of others in my life) I think that all pits should be spayed and neutered since idiots use them in puppy mills but destroying/banning a bunch of innocent family pets is crazy. Plus pit bulls arent a real breed anyway so people will find loopholes to spare their dog (He’s a staffordshire!) To be honest I think spaying and neutering all pets should be mandated unless they are a cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:29 AM
3

A lot of times its a racist/classist dog whistle. I’ve noticed a lot of the “ban pitbull” gang ironically tends to overlap with the pro gun crowd despite them both being used for defense and one causing a lot deaths per year than the other. (I’m pro gun too but I find it hypocritical)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:24 AM
2

congratulations!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:18 AM
1

This is the biggest turn on for everyone - the law of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:17 AM
2

You can be both cognizant of generalized gender behavior as well as environmental factors that contribute to this behavior yet also see yourself as an individual. You can also have human instincts and still be rational as long as you are aware that those instincts are there. In that way being red pilled is more rational than being blue pilled because instead of denying your instincts you learn to acknowledge them and work with them. Being attracted to certain people or traits isnt irrational any…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:05 AM
7

Trading civilization in exchange for some potential pussies isn't a good deal. But what can one do about that and why should he care? We live in a post capitalistic industrial individualist society where one can only be responsible for himself and the individual has no power or connection to “society”. Might as well remain optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:52 AM
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I’m not sure a 40 year old virgin has dating options knocking down his door or even wants to explore casual dating. The man just wanted his happily ever after. Obviously not realistic but makes for a nice feel good happy ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:51 AM
1

but booze is a great social lubricant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:48 AM
1

You cant complain about being lonely and sexless and then never go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:18 PM
1

👗👚🧢 small clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:17 PM
0

If you degree is so hard that you have no time to socialize its gonna shoot you in the foot. You might get a good degree and high paying job out of college but the people who socialized and made connections will be your bosses eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:16 PM
-2

Because their social skills have atrophied as a result of not going out and socializing. They need a sales job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:14 PM
2

Why do you think you are so important that the world would care and hate you forever if you asked a woman out? You shouldnt be afraid of women gossiping thats beta behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:14 PM
1

Thats low self esteem but not an actual cost of being rejected. Thats why red pill says to approach 100 times just so you lose fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:12 PM
1

Why should I have empathy for them not being able to get laid? How that benefit them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:10 PM
2

The problem is if he dumps her and kicks her out she’s going to have nothing plus a huge gap in her resume. And all that cleaning would have been for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:09 PM
1

This is ESL to the max
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:03 PM
2

ok makes sense - still havent heard of her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:14 PM
1

A lot obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:14 PM
0

Its a decent one and even Harvard students have free time occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:13 PM
1

If I was ugly I would spend time on other things but not complain about my lack of sex life either. You cant complain about lack of sex and then not approach
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:12 PM
2

I know them and party with some and even they get rejected and treated badly by women sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:09 PM
-1

make friends and go to bars and clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:09 PM
1

how? most black people in the us are socially conservative except in regards to race stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:08 PM
3

just bc women are doing what she said doesnt mean she’s the first to think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:07 PM
3

am a zoomer girl and have never heard of her. I’m guessing shes some feminist politician?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:07 PM
4

I have never heard of her but she must be an idiot to think this is groundbreaking advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:05 PM
2

thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:55 PM
2

Yep but out of choice due to being busy and having an autoimmune disorder that causes fatigue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:15 AM
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