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| 2 | How can I make women like or be attracted to me?Get rich and status | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:24 AM |
| 5 | How can I make women like or be attracted to me?This is getting really annoying | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Of course. But being disagreeable isn't always attractive | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:26 AM |
| -8 | “Women make their own money now”A woman being poor from kids is probably due to not managing finances well and kids are expensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 02:21 AM |
| 0 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?And I still won't cold approach. Maybe when I'm rich, have ton of game, or have insane looks sure. But until then nah | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Look man, if you're out, you see a girl you'd like to talk to, and you don't talk to her, you've done nothing but fail yourself and potentially her How did I fail myself? I'm confused here. And why would I be failing her? She's not giving me a written test. It's that simple. All to protect your ego Damn right. But that's not the only reason you shouldn't approach. What if it could have worked out? You'll never know. 999 times it wouldn't have. So why bother? | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?But that doesn't mean you have to cold approach | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Cuz you literally did not tell me that most women like anime. You said you did. Use your brain woman | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?He invited women out of state all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?The bar is so low..... For what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?This is actually very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?If I'm being completely honest. Coming from a guy who does support alot of what fresh and fit says (not all) I think he probably wouldn't argue with you fairly. Chris will constantly insult you and/or Myron will say probably say that you are speaking more on opinion then facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | art of flirting?Well you're a girl. All you have to do is show up. You don't have to worry about how to flirt. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:58 PM |
| 0 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?It's probably not too late. But it's gonna be insanely hard to get back in the game. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?Dude why do you keep spamming YouTube links? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:57 PM |
| 0 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Which is why you shouldn't approach unless you are insane the attractive or have a lot of game | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"I have noticed a decent amount of men on Reddit who proclaim this.... Usually I think it's because those men are not spending near enough money on themselves. You mean to tell me you're in the top 10 percent of earners in America and you don't look like one? Like wtf are you doing bro. My biggest problem with dating was me being broke. So I can never use it to my advantage. Money has endless. You could buy a bunch of tattoos, get better looking clothes, better cologne, teeth whitening treatment,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | This isn’t a men vs women crisis, this is more of an attractive vs unattractive people complexagree with what you said but I want to ask the men confused about what women want and find attractive, why they think this is? Why is it such a mystery what women want? Because frankly sometimes it is. Do they think women understand themselves? Alot of times I don't Is it because men have controlled most of art, business, film and advertising so we haven't been exposed to as much female gaze/perspective? I think we are exposed to female gaze and perspective but sometimes we won't understand how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | This isn’t a men vs women crisis, this is more of an attractive vs unattractive people complexr/foreveralonewomen has a very identical tone to r/virgin. This has lead me to believe both men and women can have nearly the same experiences, if they’re super ugly or super hot (average men vs average women is the middle where there’s a noticeable imbalance). We need to stop thinking the “other” gender is the enemy and look at humans as individuals. It's extremely unlikely that most women and men will have the same experiences if you're talking about super ugly. But maybe the same if they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Nah that's not why they are fighting over them | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?By the way I'm 50 and watch some anime because my daughters in their 20s love it and they play tons of video games. You just stereotyped yourself out of getting with any gamer girl who is sick of being told they don't belong in male spaces. And even better, if you want women to game you and your buddies should be crushing any men who act like women don't have a right to play. Such naive response. It's cool that you like anime. And I'm aware that girls like video games or soorts. That doesn't mea… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 09:01 PM |
| -5 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.Alot of guys feel defeated | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?This | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:54 PM |
| 0 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?You are protecting a defeatist mindset No I'm not not intuitive, but the only way to get out of your defeatist mindset is more rejection. No it wont. It will make you even more defeated Without risk there's just no getting what you want, and you are going to get burned 10+ times before you make progress. I understand that. But that doesn't all of sudden make cold approach worth it tho. Which is the topic at hand. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?it just takes 1 yes. unless ur tryna bring home a different woman every night then i suggest you do typical PUA bullshit because it works good enough No it doesn't. And what exactly is she saying yes to? If I'm having friendly conversation should I all of a sudden show interest and then ask her out? So is she saying yes to this? Or is she saying yes subconsciously in her head that I am the type of guy she wants? I think you're talking about the first category but then again where exactly am I su… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Which is why I stopped doing it | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 0 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Your problem is that you think rejection is a bad thing. It is Rejection is a good thing. I'm some ways it can be a bad thing. But it's primarily a bad thing Rejection doesn't materially hurt you in any way. I'll tell that to all the guys not approaching Every rejection is an opportunity to learn and grow. Cool. But most guys aren't willing to go that level of trial and effort with women because takes an incredibly amount of time and effort to get good at. The rejection rate will flat out blow u… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?As long as they back off when it's clear they aren't welcome, not even close. Nah buddy. You really don't know the dudes I know that got labeled with harassment for not doing much because they were unnattractive | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:46 PM |
| 5 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?That's the problem. Me and my guy friends can talk about sports, video games, and anime all day. And spent the rest of the time ragging on each other. Which most girls aren't got to be interested in talking about. So yeah we might be able to have normal conversation. Sure. But you can have normal conversation with anyone. It doesn't mean anything. We might just talk about the weather or how incredibly hard it is to get a parking spot in Times Square. But that doesn't mean most of the time it wil… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Wym | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?It's a better night than endlessly approaching women who are going to reject you anyway | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?It's already enough people on earth talking about how horrible men are at dating. Why further talk more about it? Unless we are talking about chest thumpers because those guys irk me. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:25 PM |
| -1 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?Cold Approaching is only attractive when other attractive men do it. But honestly it's not worth it in the end. If you see a hot girl cool. Just enjoy the eye candy from a far and move on | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:16 PM |
| 6 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?Rule of thumb dating. Almost nothing is ever needy when you attractive. So yes cold approaching is somewhat needy behavior by default because you are going out of your way to make yourself known. If a guy is insanely attractive he will get approached alot more by women. But there will always be alot of women that still won't approach because they believe it makes them needy since they are the girl. And they are not expected to approach. So alot of women will give men choosing signals to approach… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:15 PM |
| 7 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I think this is a bad answer. I'm actually tired of hearing it. Do people on Reddit actually believe most men view women as a wild horse that they need "break in"? Seeing women as people has nothing to do with it. You see women as people and still struggle with women. Alot of people present the chicken and the egg scenario and say "SEe ThIs Is ExACtly WhY You CAnt geT WomEN. You See tHEM as ObjecTs and not Pe3ple!! You're Misogyny Is the Re3son!!". Well there are plenty of men who struggled befo… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?How are men blowing great chances? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:59 PM |
| 5 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Exactly. You're climbing mt Everest without equipment | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Which is why it blows | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I think that's bogus. Most guys are authentic. It doesn't mean anything. They'll still reject you. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 0 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Good for you. I don't think it's worth it for me and the vast majority of men. Unless you are insanely physically attractive or have amazing game. Best just avoided | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 18 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Nah screw that. Those are abysmal odds. Sure you can get better results but no guy wants to approach 100 girls a month. That's incredibly time consuming and annoying. The seduction community has grown too accustomed to men thinking 1 percent for 100 approaches is a good thing. It's really not. Id rather tell a guy to try to get famous or some shit. Yeah it's incredibly hard to do. But who the hell wants to approach 100 women a month? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Does the phrase "strike while the iron is hot" applies to dating?Definitely. You don't wanna ask a girl out or to go home with you when she's not feeling it. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:27 PM |
| 31 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Game and Experience. It's a weird balance because to get dates and more women you need experience. However, most girls don't wanna date a guy who has no game and experience. So it's a catch 22 for most guys. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:26 PM |
| 9 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?You're half right. More men should be willing to face more rejection BUT..... There objectives are to minimize it. And more rejections leads to more anxiety and depression. So mean should increase their success more than anything | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:24 PM |
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