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Eh idk about the political aspect but there is definitely a common disparity between what women say they want in a man vs. the men theyre actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:55 PM
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Everyone I’ve ever met that had dated both men and women says dating women is way harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:48 PM
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Nope thats not what I said at all. Like many responses in this thread, feels like a willful misinterpretation of my point. Indulging meaning not shutting down other men’s advances and entertaining them even if it doesnt lead to full-on cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:43 PM
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I said “indulging in the attention from other men” what do you think that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:24 PM
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No one is blaming women for men approaching them, I’m blaming women for not shutting it down when theyre in a relationship and that happens, and I’m questioning why society calls men insecure for putting their foot down when things like this happen. Again, the woman choosing to entertain the advances, the bf gets upset, and then he’s considered the problem. Since I know you’ll bring this up, its of course different when the bf gets physical or overly verbally abusive in these situations, which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:17 PM
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Basically anything uncharitable toward women as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:03 PM
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“Hey, isnt it weird that women get judged so much less harshly in terms of jealousy in relationships?” “OP IS ENDORSING RESTRICTION OF WOMEN’S RIGHTS!!!!!” Hahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:04 PM
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Its because they know its true, dont want to admit it, and are offended that I’m calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:53 PM
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Thats exactly my point. Yes its the men initiating. Im talking about when the woman DOESNT shut it down. Men are still called insecure for having a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:52 PM
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Lol, exactly, theyll never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:51 PM
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I specifically mention indulging in the attention from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:41 AM
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They want to have their cake and eat it too essentially. They do that alot. Continue to engage in certain behaviors while shutting down anyone that draws attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:16 PM
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Talking about when women reciprocate that kind of attention from other men. Yes the man is making the first action there but her not choosing to shut it down and again indulge in that attention is her choice. Even if a man flirted first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:13 PM
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Its pretty clear that a large group of people will just reject anything remotely critical of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:04 PM
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Such an incredibly disingenuous and biased interpretation of what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:15 PM
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Again my point is that women more often get away with things that are worse than liking a picture by any reasonable metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:04 PM
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Women absolutely do have an influence on these things. You dont get to pick and choose when you have agency and when you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:53 PM
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The woman indulges the mans flirting because she enjoys it, instead of shutting it down. The woman posts the revealing picture of herself with the intention of getting attention from men despite having a partner. The woman chooses hang out one on one with another man while having a partner. There, now the subject is the woman. The examples I chose are things that most would agree are more severe than a guy liking a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:52 PM
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Resorting to insults cuz you know I’m right, classic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:33 PM
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Nah in the example with my friends I’ve talked to rhem about it and they know. Its impossible not to. If you were there you’d agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:31 PM
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So now you move the goal posts and say ok, yes, women do do that, but men do it MORE! Which was not your original claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:20 PM
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It’s common knowledge, clear as day if you are the least bit observant in the context of modern interpersonal relationships. Do you have a peer reviewed study to prove that everything needs a peer reviewed study to be proven?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:19 PM
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Incorrect there are plenty of examples of women murdering their husbands because of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:18 PM
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You’re still in the wrong for cheating, why not just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:52 PM
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Yall seeing the “why wont girls block their rapist” discourse on twitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:51 PM
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Lol i guess by that logic yes but come on thats obnoxious I also dont really care what lesbians do regarding this thats for them to figure out. Different set of rules
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:43 PM
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As someone who thinks women should be held accountable for picking shitty men over and over, this is totally fair. Reading the profile is a very simple request.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:55 PM
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That’s not what he’s saying at all and ironically this comment is kind of proving his point that men pointing these things out get met with people trying to silence them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:37 PM
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Definitely not drunk enough for it to be affecting how they act in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:09 PM
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I mean its not like I didnt want to or try to fuck them lol. I always ask the girl if she wants to come home with me or to spend the rest of the night together… you get the idea. Not in those exact words obviously but I make it clear that I’m down. And they say not tonight or whatever because they want to seem modest and not hoe-like. And there has always been heavy implication that itll happen next time. One of these girls said she doesnt even really kiss guys on first dates. I know women frequ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:05 PM
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Nah, definitely not. I do drinks for first date either way. One of the girls did actually throw me some money. I always pay for dates just as a gesture anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:43 PM
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Based on my experience with women. I do pretty well, have definitely scored above my league a decent amount, but like I said I’m not brad pitt or justin bieber. Some girls think I’m really hot and thirst for me, others don’t. I’m better looking than a good amount of my friends, and not as good looking as others. Its a fair score for me. Above average but not one of the “hot guys.” Edit: yes I pay for the dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:03 PM
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Its pretty weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:58 PM
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Then at least fuck me if you just want fun! Lmao just kidding. Consent is important. You dont think its a lil fucked up to tell me how bad they wanna see me again and ghost tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:58 PM
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So I’m a 7/10 27 year old guy, fairly high body count, but I’m not brad pitt or anything and definitely get rejected quite a bit too. I have had the following happen around 3-4 times in the last year or so: Go on a first date with a girl. It goes really well. Laughing, talking, having a great time, a lot in common, etc. She’s ALL OVER me. Walking across the table to make out with me, pulling me in to kiss me over and over in public, hanging on my arm, looking at me with wide eyes and a big smile…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:50 PM
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Me personally, piv and anal count head doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:15 PM
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A lot of people, both men and women, are just really terrified of criticizing women even if it’s 100% deserved, that’s really what it comes down to. They’re scared of being called misogynistic or that they aren’t a “girls girl” so they are overly charitable toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:28 PM
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What I’m saying applies to both hookups and the courting stages of actual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:15 PM
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Nah if a guy is tall/hot/rich/charasmatic (or even like… 2 or 3 of those) he will never have a problem finding women that want to date/fuck him even if he pushes old ladies in to traffic for fun. Maybe (big maybe) he’ll have “less” options than if he was a good person but even if thats true he’ll still never have much of an issue. An average guy with average income/status will always struggle harder even if he’s the most upstanding guy in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:36 PM
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Women really gotta stop doing the whole “I had consensual sex that I now regret and now I’m acting like it’s coercion” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:32 PM
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I would say we are equally bad. Thats what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:15 PM
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The opposite meaning what
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:08 PM
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That’s not true in the slightest. My friend had his female co-worker try to leave her bf of 8 years for him lmao and she freaked out when he rejected her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:05 PM
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Its crazy that even saying “women are just as bad as men” is a controversial statement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:04 PM
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Yes. A big part of this is the weird “girl’s girl” female solidarity. I’ve legitimately heard women admit, out loud, in person, that they will find a way to take the woman’s side in a disagreement, even if they know deep down she’s in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:18 PM
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How does holding women accountable for shitty things they do make you a pickme?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:16 PM
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You’re also not a bisexual woman. Im talking about bisexual women who have dated both. All the ones ive met say dating men is easier. You dont have to get so defensive about anything that is even the slightest bit critical of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:52 PM
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Dating women, as in when theyre already in the relationship. Not finding a woman to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:43 PM
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Every bisexual woman I’ve ever met says dating women is so much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:26 PM
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For men it absolutely is yea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:07 PM
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Awful comeback
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:24 PM
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Its just yet another way for them to dodge accountability and blame men for every problem in dating and the world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:44 PM
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Exactly lmao and I’ve seen these attitudes reflected irl as well many, many times from many different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:51 PM
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Just from that first comment you are difficult, transactional, and not conducive to a mutually beneficial relationship built on love, companionship, trust, loyalty and compatability. You are trying to avoid getting hurt while extracting as many benefits as possible from the situation. Dont be surprised when guys you want run the fuck away from you if you do these things to them. You can cope all you want by saying “if they cant handle that, I dont want them” but the reality of the situation is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:38 PM
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Hahahaha facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:51 PM
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Does this not reflect your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:11 PM
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All you gotta do is live life to understand that the vast majority of straight men care about body count and sexual past. There was a study that showed men ranked a promiscuous past as #2 most undesirable trait in a woman only behind infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:00 PM
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I asked that because it’s a very common figure of speech that you didnt seem to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:24 PM
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Its just a way of saying “the vast, vast majority” Neurodivergent i assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:45 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:45 PM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:44 PM
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That counting as “circlejerking” is crazy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:09 AM
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Yea I dont want a virgin. And most men don’t, just a weird vocal crowd online. We just want some moderation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:44 AM
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Women marry poor, short, balding men all the time too it doesnt mean these are good qualities to have or that women want them in a man. Every time ive seen a guy take a chance on a girl like that its never gone well, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:51 PM
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Promiscuous women make bad partners for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:22 PM
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No that isnt what I said. You have reading comprehension issues or english isnt your first language. Jesus christ man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:14 PM
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A guy lowering his standards doesnt necessarily mean he’s struggling. That doesnt mean there arent plenty of guys who ARE struggling, even after lowering their standards. This is what I’m saying. These things objectively do not contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:12 PM
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The guys I know that do the best with women are the guys who care about sexual past the most when it comes to a girl they may consider for an ltr. The idea that attractive men and/or men who do well with women dont care about these things because theyre more confident and less insecure or whatever is a bullshit myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:04 PM
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There are tons of men struggling. Never said there werent. Stop white knighting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:02 PM
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I do just fine bud. Nothing to cry about. Just stating reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:01 PM
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Guys lower their standards all the time especially for casual sex it doesnt really mean theyre struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:00 PM
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Those 2 things dont conflict with eachother. Its a standard. Women and blue pill guys have issues with every fucking standard or boundary that men have toward women. Fucking exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:51 PM
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Lmfao seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:50 PM
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Its lame to have standards that hold people accountable based on people’s personal choices? There is also a bigger conversation to be had about how any kind of standard/preferance men have is always shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:44 PM
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I cant speak for gay men but they seem not to care as much. Could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:39 PM
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99.9% of straight men care about sexual past and body count and there is nothing you can do about it. And it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:31 PM
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Never beating the no accountability allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:23 PM
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No, this is something you heard from a “baddie” on social media filming herself in an expensive care and adopting that mindset because you want to be like her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:16 PM
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You being demanding and mean is a good way for men to want you for sex and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:59 PM
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Can you answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:36 PM
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Men get shit on all the time for being deadbeats. You have to add the “on PPD” caveat for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:31 PM
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Cheating statistics are about the same. Women also get caught less. So “men cheat more” is a skewed narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:31 PM
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No we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:22 PM
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Why is telling women to settle such a problem but telling men to isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:22 PM
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I really dont think he would. In my experience this is not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:16 PM
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Nah, based on my own experiences with women, irl observations. Of course ive seen this displayed online as well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:15 PM
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Or women could learn accountability? As if women dont fuck up and/or do deliberately shitty thinfs all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:11 PM
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A lot of men are choosing whichever ever women give them the time of day, because they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:10 PM
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Show me some examples. If you think men are PRAISED for WIPING THEIR ASS you definitely dont live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:04 PM
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Men are not praised or given special treatment for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:02 PM
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Than men ARE. Not “than men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:00 PM
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What “basic shit” are you referring to? Shouldnt women be able to recognize that this is, infact, basic shit, even if they see men supposedly receiving fawning praise for doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:55 PM
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Idk, I see women’s flaws, shortcomings, and negative behaviors excused, hand-waived away, justified or blamed on men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:38 PM
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Explain how…?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:28 PM
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I dont know what world you’re living in that those things are considered special, above and beyond treatment when men do them. Completely out of touch with what I’ve seen in my life, in pretty much every couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:22 PM
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Everything always has to be men’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:19 PM
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Shitty fathers do not get “a pass.” That is completely out of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:16 PM
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In no way, shape, or form did I mean women competing with men… not sure where you got that from. Not sure where you’re getting the idea that a man remembering anniversaries or doing the fucking dishes is considered “special” or above and and beyond either. Never heard that in my life. Those things are a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:15 PM
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Nah, I dont buy this, I honestly think men are just easier to please when it comes to finding a partner and are much more accepting, by and large, of the level of woman theyre able to pull. And have a more realistic idea of who those women are. The resentment starts when guys start to realize the women on their level want guys who are above their league, which is often the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:07 PM
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What is the “bare minimum” to you? Edit: who downvoted me for a simple question? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:03 PM
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I’m aware , women frequently deny hypergamy exists though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:00 PM
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Its crazy and then you point it out and they get all defensive. Or in extreme cases call you an incel or misogynist or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:21 PM
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They will always cover for women, justify and make excuses for them. Youll never hear them say “yea, many women are unreasonable/unfair/uncharitable toward men”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:35 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 anything to dodge accountability for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:40 PM
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It was relevant to the convo lol. OP makes numerous points about the differences between western women and women from different parts of the world. I brought my own experiences up because they reflect that as well. Why is that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:03 PM
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How is that offensive lol. Yea most white people, men and women look like an anglo mis mash. Thats a hilariously bad example of someone not being in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:08 PM
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Your entire argument hinges on him not telling the truth here. What if he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:38 PM
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Lol, you clearly arent worth talking to because you have no desire to engage with me or the OP in good faith. I didnt attack women btw lol. Hope that dopamine from your false sense of moral superiority lasts as long as you need it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:31 PM
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Women do in fact whine about passport bros all the time on this sub and the internet at large. So many people really cant handle any kind of criticism of women or even just stating experiences that could be interpreted as even being remotely negative toward them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:19 PM
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So hostile lol. Women talk shit on passport bros all the time. He’s pushing back. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:10 PM
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I was sharing that info because its relevant to the discussion. You’re (for the 3rd time now) negating things because you don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:08 PM
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Good job man, really knocked him down a peg. Talking about his ego while sounding as smug as you do in this comment is pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:07 PM
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Again, he’s comparing and contrasting. Not really seeing how he’s looking for validation. That’s what you’re projecting onto what he’s saying, again, to make yourself feel better. Nothing about this indicates that he “needs” to do this to get laid either. I live in the US and I do just fine with women. I had flings with an Australian-Filipino woman and a Colombian woman last year (they were both studying abroad in the US, not at the same time) and many of the sentiments OP is sharing apply to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:04 PM
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He’s comparing and contrasting his dating experiences in the west vs. the east (taiwan in this case.) You don’t like it because you probably fit a lot of the critieria of the type of western woman he’s criticizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:57 PM
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“Support eachother” is a very funny way to frame what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:30 PM
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Sure that I can agree on. But equating men who do those things to “unicorns” is probably where my misunderstanding came from, because they are much more common than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:18 PM
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So be delusional basically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:25 PM
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While probably never asking themselves if they are of the same calibur of the men they think they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:07 PM
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This is also a false narrative that has no basis in reality for people who “touch grass.” Sure the chronically online pink pill, 4B (remember that?) types may be but women out in the real world want a man by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:01 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:22 AM
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Link me some please
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:13 AM
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This is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:43 AM
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Yea as a man dating especially in the modern era (I’m 27) you kind of have to operate under the idea that everything you say and do, whether its over text or in person, including every detail of intimacy WILL be communicated to the groupchat/friend group in excruciating detail. Really fucked up. One of those things men are just supposed to suck it up and deal with, when you know if men did the same thing back to women they would NOT handle it well. Many, many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:44 PM
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You’re thinking about the what and not the why. I am explaining the why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:41 PM
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I never said you were wrong. I just explained why what you said is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:38 PM
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Because the vast majority of the time if a woman is single for that long it’s by choice. If a man is single until he’s 25 and has no experience with women that means women arent interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:34 PM
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It does not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:05 PM
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Because it invalidates your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:04 PM
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Status and money are not the same thing. You can have status without being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:03 PM
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You are being so disingenuous that it’s not even worth engaging with you. Drake is literally known for women liking him. Its part of his image as an artist and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:22 AM
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Drake can fuck undisputed 10/10s at a moments notice, anywhere in the world. My point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:45 AM
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Not true at all. Dudes fuck girls below their league all the time. Look at drakes babymama, she looks good now with a ton of surgery but she was like a 7 at best at the time she had drakes kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:11 AM
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Yep one of my friends is a very good looking dude and ive seen take home some very mid women just cuz they made it that easy for him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:11 AM
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Does high body count in man necessarily mean fuckboy though? In my opinion, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:06 PM
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Same is true for women but that doesnt stop you guys (girls) from demonizing men for having that standard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:05 PM
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Are we pretending that women reject men for having high body counts? Its usually the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:59 PM
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Thats a false narrative strawman to excuse women’s inconsistency on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:32 PM
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The lie isnt that girls like hot guys. The lie is that you’ll be able to attract women by being a good person even if your looks arent up to par. Note: this does not mean men are only good people to get laid. Since women love to pull out that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:22 PM
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Dont really understand how thats your conclusion from what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:07 PM
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Yes, 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:46 PM
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That’s always the excuse. And yea it happens. Sometimes. The reality is that many women do indeed pick shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:09 PM
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They are attracted to her cuz she’s hot, not cuz she’s bipolar. Women talk about being attracted to “bad boys” all the time. And are also known for letting things slide for hot and/or desirable guys they wouldnt let slide for a more average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:09 PM
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Do you have any criticisms against women or anything positive to say about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:42 PM
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They want the pre-approved men that have been attractive their entire lives to be able to attract women, and don’t like it when guys outside of that box become able to. In college I knew this girl who was out of my league but was attracted to me. One night at a bar she basically attacked me. Like grabbed me and started kissing me during what I thought was an innocuous conversation. We had sex that night. The next day I see some of her friends and they’re all giving me dirty looks. I talk to one …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:15 PM
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You literally said most women arent insecure about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:19 PM
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Ok so they are insecure about these things. Glad we agree, thanks. You (purposefully) didnt frame it that way in your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:42 PM
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Most women arent insecure about being ugly or fat? Give me a fucking break lmfaooo. Women whine about beauty standards all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:35 PM
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And if they were really that much happier single than “settling” why are they complaining about how hard it is to find a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:12 PM
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What the fuck is the “urban casual sex scene???” I live in an urban area. I’m talking about people going on dates from apps, meeting at bars, parties, through friends, etc… situations that could lead to sex… that isn’t a “scene” that’s just humans being human. I’m talking about my experiences through that lense. Gotta remember you’re talking to fringe people on reddit… explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:32 AM
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So far from my experience that I cant help but think youre being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:30 AM
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Its a debate sub im gonna debate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:05 AM
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What do you mean by “give a shit” in this case? Do you mean they dont give a shit in the sense that they’ll fuck a slut? Of course. No shit. My main argument is that they won’t COMMIT to these women. Because for an actual relationship, attractive, confident guys can get a woman who isn’t promiscuous, and doesnt have all the baggage being a hoe comes with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:01 AM
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The difference is that ANY woman can be a slut. Any. With zero effort. A guy who has a trust fund, 6’5 and a chad face will get easy pussy, of course. But stuff like that is the only scenario where a man won’t have to work for it in some way. And that is like .0001% of the population. It does account for a circumstance like that because even he would have to work to fuck a woman that is actually on his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:55 AM
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Or promiscuous women dont make good gfs/wives, I said in another comment that every time I’ve seen a guy take a woman like that seriously it hasnt ended well. Myself included. Much higher likelihood of cheating, hard time letting go of attention from other men. Doesnt mean theyll never get married and end up as cat ladies or whatever, but the vast majority of men, especially desirable men, do care about bodycount/sexual past, it’s just true. Women talk about settling all the time and how its the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:52 AM
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Nah, everytime I’ve seen a guy take a promiscuous woman seriously it hasnt ended well. They often love the attention they get from men and have a hard time letting that go when in a relationship. Not every standard/boundary/issue/greivance/criticism men have toward women comes from jealousy/insecurity, which is what a lot of people love to claim. We can talk about manwhores when women start turning guys down for that reason which is something Ive never seen of even heard of happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:29 AM
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Women only have a problem with double standards when they’re the ones negatively affected. Yall love double standards that benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:26 AM
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Guarantee there are men out there that you’d fuck that look down on sluts. The guys I know that do the best with women (guys who are handsome, tall, successful in career) absolutely do care about bodycount and sexual past. Side note: imagine a man saying “who cares what women I’d never fuck think about anything” and the uproar that would cause, impossible to take seriously when yall say shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:25 AM
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Yea my most extreme example is I went on an awesome date with a woman, laughing, kissing, holding hands, all over each other. She was saying things like “I want it to be next weekend now so I can see you again” as well as calling me hot/handsome the whole time, the works. Texts me when she got home telling me she had an absolutely amazing time and cant wait to do it again. Ghosted lol. Cant even be mad cuz it’s just so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:20 AM
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Many women definitely go to clubs/bars to get hit on (by hot rich dudes)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:02 PM
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And then whine about how hard it is to find a man, while not seeing the irony in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:41 PM
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Sounds like this happened to you and you’re bitter about it. So you create narratives about men when they dare to call out discrepancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:40 PM
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And they often have a hard time letting go of that attention when they do enter a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:01 PM
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Women willingly offer themselves as a reward for successful men lol, take it up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:44 PM
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Eh at least you’re admitting that women will let all kinds of shit behavior slide for hot/rich guys, which is something I see vehemently argued against here a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:55 PM
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In this instance, it’s absolutely more common for women to marry for their own personal gain rather than out of love or companionship. Obviously there are terrible men out there that will fuck a woman’s life up in a marraige, but its for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:50 AM
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Yea and she could’ve made her own money and did all that herself but she chose to leech off a man. I’m 27 years old this didnt happen in the 1940’s. You’re just trying to downplay women doing evil shit like this because you don’t care when a man is the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:13 AM
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That women will go as far as to marrying and having a kid with a guy she feels completely apathetic about for their own benefits when toxic guys in the past have stimulated her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:31 AM
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Look man I get laid I know how these things work. Doesn’t mean it isn’t scary especially as a guy who would like a loyal, loving wife someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:20 AM
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A lot of the time women do date these guys And a lot of the time are actively attracted to guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:17 AM
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Well, it aligns with things I’ve heard/seen irl as well. I hooked upwith someone from my graduating class a few weeks ago. She told me she married and had a kid with a guy she never was really in love with, not even physically attracted, for financial reasons and to get away from her parents. I say “he was definitely in love with you though” She goes “yea, he still is” People can “its just the internet” all they want to cope, but these are things men need to be aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:09 AM
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Proof is right there in our faces and they will still call us insecure. Imagine finding out your wife’s best sex was with a toxic serial cheater. Jesus Christ nightmare fuel is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:05 AM
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It’s not just online. People like to downplay that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:04 PM
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Yea but a lot of women don’t do well with boundaries. And a lot of what I’m thinking of doesn’t have to do necessarily with boundaries. It could be something as simple as picking what movie to watch that night. I’ve been in situations where if the man gets his way on something like that, the (fully grown, adult) woman is passive aggressive and pouty for the rest of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:03 PM
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Yea one thing I’ve noticed in pretty much every relationship I’ve seen in my life, even long-lasting ones that “worked out” is that it can really seem like the woman’s happiness, what she wants, how she feels, basically always more important than the man’s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:50 AM
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Something I’ve seen many women struggle with both IRL and online is understanding that sometimes you can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:23 PM
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Women pick and choose when they want traditional gender roles vs. progressive ones depending on what benefits or is convenient for them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:03 PM
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Blatant hypocrisy such as praising a woman for something and shitting on a man for doing the exact same thing. Doing everything they can to take the woman’s side in an argument even knowing deep down the man is in the right. Using men for free meals or tasks. One time a girl invited me over from tinder and wanted me to set up and mount her new TV for her. Leading men on for attention Things like that. Have real life experience with all these things. If you want more examples check out LilithofBa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:18 PM
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Yea. Women hate us lol. Its morbidly facsinating to spend time with women and really see how deep the contempt goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:01 PM
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But if it doesnt matter why lie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:38 AM
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Imagine a man saying he doesnt want to help with cooking and cleaning the house and raising the kids because that puts him in his feminine energy. Would you take that seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:22 PM
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How do you know they don’t feel that way? How do you know that they even know about her past? Many women hide these things, forever if they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:24 PM
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We don’t “love sluts” in terms of long term relationships. We can end up loving a girl who happens to be a slut. But it’s not ideal. Women talk about settling all the time and how its a fate worse than death, marrying a slut is one way men settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:01 PM
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Ah but see, very telling how you say “constantly in relationships.” Not in the same relationship, constantly in different ones. I wonder why they never work out….? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:24 AM
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Nah it’s just obvious your ideology is based on what’s convinient and beneficial for you, and allowing yourself to not have to step out of your comfort zone. With a side of being able to judge people that don’t adhere to it. Not some grander belief about the roles of men and women and their dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:20 PM
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Normal people dont think this way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:08 PM
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Lol no, that’s not true. You’re just labeling them desperate to again excuse and validate your decision not to. Why is it desparate, and why dont you do it? Most women are terrified of rejection in this way so that’s my guess for the real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:02 PM
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Women approach men they find attractive all the time. Its not a gendered thing that’s just your excuse for not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:55 PM
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Proof that women pick and choose gender roles when it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:51 PM
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As a man, if you’re experienced enough with these women (sexually or otherwise,) you kinda learn how to spot them. It’s a vibes thing, like you can kinda just tell when a girl is/was a hoe. And most men assume women are lying about their body count anyway, even women who arent super promiscuous. Which then begs the question of if it really doesn’t matter, why lie? But thats kind of a whole different convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:38 PM
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Yea they do still end up in relationships and married, but it’s not ideal for men. Women talk about “settling” all the time and how it’s their worst possible nightmare. But many still do it. Marrying a high n count woman is one of the ways men settle. I’ve talked to quite a few women regarding this, and I say to them yes, promiscuous women will still get married and all that, they wont end up crazed lonely cat ladies for the most part. But I also tell them dont be surprised if a guy you’re datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:09 PM
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Lack of self control, lack of discernment, lowering your chances to have a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:49 PM
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Actions have consequences. They did it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:04 PM
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Women use that argument (men do it too) all the time, just meeting them at their level 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:37 PM
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Lol a tiktok. When men post tiktoks or other online posts on here to prove our points we get shouted down “thats just one example!” Or “lol your source is a tiktok and you expect us to take you seriously?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:21 PM
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Men arent thinking like this lol. 12 years old? Come on now. Do you really not see how uncharitable you are toward men across literally all your posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:11 PM
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Lol syndrome is just a word for it. It’s not an actual diagnosis. And I think in most cases it is involuntary - they dont even realize they think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:01 PM
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Then I think you have the wrong definition of main character syndrome. It means essentially thinking you are the main character of life - including other people’s lives. Thinking everything revolves around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:58 PM
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Most men dont think highly of themselves, women’s egos in general are higher most of the time. Women thrive off of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:53 PM
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Heavily disagree that men are more prone to main character syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:52 PM
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Lol women do the same shit, it’s just frowned upon to call them out for it. I know plenty of women who got pumped and dumped at 19 by a frat guy who was out of their league and adopted that I hate men mentality immediately after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:50 PM
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A rock star earned it by being a fucking rockstar lol. The only men who put 0 effort into getting laid are the top tier handsome guys, im talking like top 5%. Even most good looking guys have to try at least a decent amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:14 AM
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It’s not hating them lol, it’s just that it’s different when men do it vs. when women do it for the reasons that commenter explained. Men advise against taking promiscuous women seriously for a relationship because that kind of behavior shows a lack of self control, lack of discernment, and by and large they have a hard time letting go of the attention from other guys when they enter a relationship. Every time I’ve seen a guy take a chance on a woman like that it has never ended well. Again, its…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:12 AM
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It really is that simple, it’s always been weird to me when people act like its this big mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:20 PM
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The typical lean muscle six pack look. Zac Efron is a good example. Theres a video of I think ellen degeneres show where a model looking guy takes his shirt off… you will never get women reacting that way to a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:58 PM
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Women do lead men on though. You hate women if you acknowledge that? Seriously? No woman has ever led a man on in human history?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:32 PM
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Facts. I’ve talked to older women (40’s and up - which me being 27 counts as “older”) about things like the ick and theyre like what the fuck lol. Nurture definitely at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:29 PM
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Every generation says this about the younger generations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:19 PM
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I will drop my looks standards a bit when I go thru a dry spell cuz when I go more than 3 or so weeks without sex I feel physically and mentally different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:16 PM
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AFBB in action
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:15 PM
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You’re right. Saw one of those videos where they ask random people on the street about what their job is/how much money they have. This kid in his 20’s inhereted an emerald mine and just makes money off that without having to do anything, had $7m in the bank. Do you think women care that he didnt work for it? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:24 AM
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What are some examples of women being responsible for fixing men’s problems
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:49 PM
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No they aren’t, and no one thinks they are. Women just tell themselves things like this because it feels good to convince themselves they’re true. What is an example of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:44 PM
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they skip over any part of the argument that they dont have a rebuttal against. they just pretend it doesnt exist. they do this in real life too lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:55 PM
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yes they do. impossible to take seriously or have a disccusion when women just outright deny these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:54 PM
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How do they lack self-awareness to such an extreme degree, its insane
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:26 PM
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Yes they would absolutely say “boohoo life is unfair” to them. They dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:05 PM
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Women complain about men dehumanizing them and then compare us to literal monkeys to invalidate our grievances … cant make this shit up. And then you wonder why the manosphere and red pill are popular. Directly because of shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:00 PM
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I dont. I’m asking why she thinks EVERY fat woman has done everything she possibly can to improve herself, which is not the case, but is what she is implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:30 PM
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This is all pretty spot on but you think it was better 20 years ago than now???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:03 AM
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The benefit is you improve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:46 AM
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I dont think its super calculated. I think a lot of people do it subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:29 AM
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Probably the best comment here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:03 PM
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No one is talking about apps. You’re the one bringing that up. The average woman has a lot more options than the average man even without the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:49 PM
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Yea I could probably make a whole nother topic on this but it’s so crazy to me how if a woman rejects a man because he’s poor, or short, or gets the ick from the way he walks down the stairs (a real example of how a woman I met told me she rejected a guy) we just have to take that and say oh well that’s her preference she cant help it. And when she complains about how hard it is to find a man, she’s validated for it. But if a man wants a woman who hasnt been too promiscuous, for example, we get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:47 PM
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What do you mean by male exclusive just world shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:27 PM
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Yea benevolent sexism is absolutely real
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:18 PM
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Yea. I’ve literally never heard a woman say “I fucked up and lost a good guy. I regret it and shouldve done better.” Its always neutral: “we just didnt work out/werent compatible” Or hostile: “he was a narcissistic toxic piece of shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:23 PM
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The answer is improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:53 PM
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Such a reductive, dismissive way to view the point im making.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:23 PM
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Where are you getting me saying she should hate herself and have low self esteem? Beinf honest with yourself meaning being realistic about the type of person you can get. Men are forced to do this, or they get nowhere. No one has a problem with this. Where are you getting me saying she deserves to be with an abusive man? Or that that would make me happier? What an insane jump to conclusions. So disingenuous. If you don’t or refuse to understand how widespread attitudes like hers are and how that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:13 PM
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Yea I mean this is pretty spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:18 PM
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She’s one example of a common problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:12 PM
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No shit you’d date margot robbie. Vast majority of straight guys would. But you know that isn’t realistic. Many women have trouble understanding when a guy is out of their league. What do I want her to do? Be honest with herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:45 PM
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No one said women dont have the right to reject advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:24 PM
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My point is that if a fat woman asked how she could improve her dating prospects, and you, a man, told her to lose weight, that would ABSOLUTELY be frowned upon. Those women asking you specifically about fitness advice in a gym setting, is a different thing than what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:23 PM
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If a fat short bald broke mentally unstable dude said he deserved margot robbie, wouldbyou say that’s valid? A former female co worker of mine, around my age, was unnattractive looks wise and was pretty annoying and cringe, an opinion shared by others in the office, both male and female. She had a laundry list (100+ items) in her phone about her requirements in a man. She does not deserve the top tier guy that she wants. The older women in the office agreed, saying things like “how does she expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:22 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:16 PM
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No, there are tons of fat, lazy women out there who do nothing to improve their situation. The idea that every fat woman or even most fat women have tried everything and nothing has worked is absolutely ludicrous. Especially with things like the body positivity movement of the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:16 PM
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Ironically so many people replying are just proving my point. Any criticism of women gets invalidated. Any grievance men have is treated as illegitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:14 PM
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Well… no. The guys I know that do the best with women have the most “red pilled” beliefs. The guy I know that has the most blue pilled beliefs is a 29 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:13 PM
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Next time you’re in a social situation tell a fat girl to get in the gym, see how well that goes lol. I dont listen to RP figures. My opinions are from my own experiences and that of the people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:11 PM
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In general it absolutely is more frowned upon. Men get told by both genders “get in the gym” for example to improve their dating prospects. If someone, especially a man, told a woman that, he would be crucified.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:05 PM
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Yes there is because I never said women have to date men they dont want to lmfao. Being more reasonable with their standards is not telling them to date men they dont want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:04 PM
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Those are all factors for sure but at a certain point women have to take accountability for the ways they themselves negatively contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:03 PM
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I’m jacked and I do pretty well with women. I’m not brad pitt but I do fine. Ironically my views got more “red pilled” when I started getting MORE interest from women. Interesting huh? Women negatively contribute to dating, just like men do. The only difference is men get shit on for calling women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:02 PM
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Then why is it so frowned upon to tell a woman that? Telling a woman her dating struggles are her own fault is absolutely more frowned upon than telling a man the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:00 PM
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It’s not fantasy, thats just what you tell yourself to invalidate it. I have talked to women who have admitted these things to me. Also many men have to compromise on their standards to get any sort of attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:57 PM
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Ironically this is exactly what I’m talking about. Just immediately invalidating and saying that it’s actually our fault. As if women have absolutely 0 negative affect on modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:56 PM
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Strawman BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:43 PM
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The same can be said for women but it’s super frowned upon to even imply that a woman should improve herself to improve her dating prospects. Men get told things like “work on your confidence, change your hairstyle, get a new wardrobe, get in the gym” Could you imagine if a fat woman was complaining about how hard dating is for her, and someone told her to get in the gym? Even though that IS good advice for life in general and it WOULD improve her prospects in dating, someone who said that would…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:42 PM
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Honestly no not really. I dont follow andrew tate and myron gaines or anyone like that. My post is based on my own lived experience and that of the people I know both irl and onljne.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:40 PM
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I mean its absolutely true that many women think they deserve a better guy than they can actually get (for a LTR, sex is a different topic). It’s not about “dating a guy they dont find attractive” its about having realistic standards and being honest with themselves. Especially when they let all kinds of terrible behavior slide for a hot/tall/rich guy that they wouldn’t for a more average guy, while complaining about how terrible all men supposedly are. Men compromise on standards all the time b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:38 PM
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How seriously is the manosphere taken by people outside of it? Not very
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:15 PM
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Idk why it’s so hard for them to accept that women can be the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:04 PM
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This sub is not a reflection of reality, lmao Sure, on this sub, or maybe online or on reddit they care. In many spaces in real life and online people shit on men and no one cares. Women’s grievances with men are absolutely taken more seriously. Not true, valid criticism of women are silenced/invalidated all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:03 PM
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For sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:57 PM
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Idk what world you’re living in lol. That is the opposite of my experience. Both irl and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:56 PM
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The answer is no I wouldnt be afraid of that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:34 PM
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Most of my relationships have started as fwb, then we realized we liked eachother on a deeper level
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:27 PM
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Yes most people would. Your approach is not normal nor does it make sense but if it works for you then ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:15 PM
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I confessed my feelings to a woman one time after we had hung out and had sex a few times. She said she felt the same way. Awesome! Then like 30 mins later she tells me that she lost her virginity in a threesome that the guy doesnt even remember. Definitely a shit test
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:19 PM
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Ill be sure to keep this comment in mind in case this hypothetical scenario occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:20 PM
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Yea I dont date men but thats valid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:05 PM
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Evidence of what? And why not? Because a loyal, lasting, monogamous relationship is something of great value. Thinking you deserve someone to go back home to when you literally can’t stop fucking other people is an insane level of narcissim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:17 PM
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Cuz open relationships are bullshit and just a way for people to have their cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:09 PM
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That has nothing to do with the point I was making. I’m saying promiscuous women are less loyal in relationships by and large. A good partner is loyal, supportive, caring, and kind. People staying in unhappy relationships/marraiges is a completely different topic. Complete strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:03 PM
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Promiscuous women tend to not make good partners. In theory I agree with the “why does her past matter if she’s loyal in the relationship” mindset but everytime I’ve seen a guy take a woman like that seriously it’s never ended well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:55 PM
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I’ve met multiple bisexual women, all say that dating men is much easier. If that doesnt say it all idk what does lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:47 PM
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Maybe in 2005. Video game character designs have strayed from this heavily in the last 2 decades, at least in the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:13 PM
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Its interesting how women can use the fact that they’ve been mistreated by men as an excuse to have an implicit bias against them, but when men say similar things about women it’s “not all women are like that” “you just had a bad experience” “you probably werent treating her right”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:20 PM
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Is it just hard-wired in women’s brains to automatically assume the man is at fault in these situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:16 PM
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Me: Mentally unwell: ✅ Unemployed: ✅ (working on it - laid off 2 weeks ago) Obsessed: ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:08 PM
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I knew this was a post by you just from reading the title, before I even saw your username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:17 PM
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Hyperagency vs. hypoagency. People tend to ascribe hyperagency to men. Aka for men, where you are in life and the situations you end up in are a result of your actions/choices/decisions. People tend to ascribe hypoagency to women, perceiving them more like they float through life while things happen TO them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:45 PM
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What an incredibly biased and disingenuous interpretation of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:30 PM
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It really is crazy that holding women accountable for pretty much anything is so frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:05 PM
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Your statements back it up all by themselves. Thats why so many are calling you out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:17 PM
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It’s not worth responding to because you’re just not going to accept any answer besides the one that validates what you’re already saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:15 PM
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Because she thinks she can use it as a gotcha to invalidate your point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:14 PM
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It’s impossible that you don’t see how bad faith your arguments are and how biased against men (and even young boys, jfc) you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:13 PM
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Him calling you a “knuckle dragging c*nt” was uncalled for but your biases are very clear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:10 PM
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No. Yes. Theres someone in particular I’m thinking of who everyone I know that knows him has nothing but good things to say about him, both genders. To your 2nd point, yes they did. You’re just being disingenuous as a way of trying to invalidate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:10 PM
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I can’t speak to the autism thing as I’m not educated enough on the subject either practically or academically, but to your first point, while of course some men do fake being nice for pussy, you absolutely cannot deny that there are tons of men that are legitimately great people who struggle to attract women, while plenty of men who are total pieces of shit get pussy all the time, whether it be because of their looks or another reason. I personally know people who fall into both of those catego…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:59 PM
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The only one of these examples that actually relates to dating is the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:03 AM
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Lmfao that’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:00 AM
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They dont give a shit and proudly wear their biases on their sleeve
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:23 PM
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What am I lying about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:48 PM
5

No one has ever said that? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:56 PM
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Do those statements show contempt for men? Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:30 PM
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People make statements like this about women that are true and get called misogynistic incels all the time. How do I determine? By reading it and knowing what words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:09 PM
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Oxford definition of misandry: dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men (i.e. the male sex). Do you not think statements like: "A top tier men is just an average woman" "Its ok to hate men, because women who hate men get the best partners" "Men aren't dying at fast enough rates in wars causing this male loneliness epidemic" Show hatred and/or contempt for men??? Come on lol. Why the fuck is it so fucking hard for so many women to just say, yes, many women do have a contempt f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:06 PM
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How do you know? come on lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:59 PM
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Facts, women see eachother as prettier than men see women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:56 PM
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Stop deflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:53 PM
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Ok this is something that annoys me as well. When people make these statements, we are not saying every single woman alive today and in the history of humanity are like this/do this/fall into this framework. It’s just that it’s common ENOUGH for it to be something that men should be aware of, and something that should be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:21 AM
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Lol whenever a woman says something critical of women she’s a pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:07 PM
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Women are also at fault its crazy that some people cant even admit that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:06 PM
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It highlights a real issue that many men have talked about many times, you can even see that in the replies of other men saying they relate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:07 PM
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It’s awesome how no woman is responding to this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:39 PM
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Please tell me you’re not saying what I think you’re saying…? That men should just take the hit of not getting laid/dating/finding love so we can further the dissolution of gender norms…. Are you really saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:33 AM
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Not true. She knows in 30 seconds whether fucking you might be an option. Unless you’re a top tier hot guy you still gotta spit game, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:22 PM
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Im sorry I have no idea what this means lol… he’s a polar bear four leaf clover?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:03 PM
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Absolutely, it’s so strange how women feel this need to defend eachother as a collective and cover so hard for some women’s bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:39 PM
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Is it sad? I guess you could say it is, but like he said your perception is absolutely skewed. The vast VAST majority of people would look at a friend VERY differently if they became a sex worker or even did it just one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:15 PM
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As someone who does fairly well with women this is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:22 PM
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10000% this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:12 AM
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Very telling how you think any woman in a relationship isnt “in charge” of her life and is “mothering” her bf/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:35 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding men’s grievances with women if you think it boils down to “hating them because they can fuck easier”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:47 PM
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Sorry for replying twice but this is such a ridiculous comment lol. Every man who does well with women is a manwhore? What is indicating to you that they hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:16 PM
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Who says they’re man whores
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:27 AM
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It’s interesting when people say no “well-adjusted man” cares about stuff like this because the guys I know that do the best with women and have the qualities most women want (handsome, tall, successful in career, etc) are the ones that have the most “red pilled” beliefs and absolutely do care about body count and things like that. Not trying to invalidate your experience but it doesnt align with mine at all so its a bit odd when I read it here and see quite a few others online say it too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:13 AM
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Idk why so many women do this thing where when they see people make statements like this, they act as if they’re talking about every woman who has ever existed in human history. It’s just a common enough phenomenon for it to be valid to call out. Just men being misogynistic or abusive is a common enough phenomenon for it to be called out validly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:08 PM
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What? Complete non-sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:04 PM
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Explain how
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:02 PM
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Absolute facts. Don’t understand why women try so hard to uphold this collective positive image of eachother, when we really should be judged as individuals regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:42 PM
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At least you admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:31 PM
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Whatever fits the argument in the given moment. And then they wonder why they dont get taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:26 PM
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I’m just saying in general thats a common excuse for women to give for a lot of different situations. So defensive for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:19 PM
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You’re ignoring the part where I say women use the “caught up in the moment” excuse. That doesnt apply in any of the situations you’ve listed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:04 PM
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Im saying in general
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:59 AM
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Yea I get it it’s just a common phrase women use to absolve themselves from accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:08 AM
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Women love the “caught up in the moment” excuse lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:53 AM
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They willingly downloaded onlyfans lol… easy solution, dont make an OF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:43 AM
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You can literally find prostitutes on tinder in certain places like Vegas. I’ve done it lol. I was so stupid that I didnt even realize she was one until she got to my room and was asking for $500. I hesitated but she dropped her rate for me, I was horny, and I had some extra money. We fucked and then she went on to explain how awesome being a prostitute was, how taking a woman on a date to try and get in her pants is basically the same thing with extra steps, and how it’s made her life so much b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:31 AM
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Makes no sense because women willingly become prostitutes, unless they are trafficked into it, which lets be honest the average hooker a guy is paying for in the US is doing it by choice. So they are consenting. They know what they’re getting into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:08 AM
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Thats a good analogy. I consider myself around a 7/10 looks wise. I’m jacked and have nice eyes, but I’m fairly short and my face is solid but nothing crazy. Sometimes I get tons of matches in a week and other times none.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:19 PM
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Correct. Ive been both the average guy who has to jump through hoops and do every little thing right, and the hot guy that gets away with not saving her number and barely knowing her name. It’s really wild to see play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:06 PM
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It’s more than enough for it to be something that should be called out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:34 PM
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Why do you believe in these roles? Why do they have value to you? Why is this the “right” way todo things? You’ve yet to answer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:23 PM
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You have still failed to explain how it isnt the same when men do it, and why it’s not desparate or begging for men. “I believe in this gender role” is not an explanation. How is a woman desperate or begging if she had the idea to surprise him first with a proposal? Maybe she just, ya know, wanted to make him happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:05 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:25 PM
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I mean yea you’re not wrong, it just can seem like women a lot of the time (not all the time/all women) pick and choose when they want traditional gender roles vs. more progressive gender dynamics. Which is frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:04 AM
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I never said that there aren’t conservative women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:47 PM
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No that’s not the case in my experience at all. So basically you’re just that scared of rejection? You guys (girls) would not survive dating as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:16 PM
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What does “they offer themselves on a platter” even mean? Why does that not apply when men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:01 PM
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Why is it a bad look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:23 PM
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Those men are lame too then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:17 PM
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Do you have an actual reason besides “its how I was raised?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:16 PM
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“Making him the woman” is such a wild thing to say lol. Like another comment said it seems many women want traditional values/behavior when it benefits them and progressive values when that benefits them. And again you’re LEAPING to conclusions by assuming that the man didnt want to marry her, that his hand is being forced, that she is “begging” just because she proposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:49 PM
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Hope you’re in the kitchen and cleaning the house for him if you support rigid gender roles that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:38 PM
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But when a woman does it it is… why? That’s ridiculous. Seems like you just have an issue with a woman showing affection and devotion to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:29 PM
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Huh?? Begging? So a man proposing is begging too? How do you know he doesnt want to? These are huge assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:25 PM
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Why is she a stupid loser
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:17 PM
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Hmmm, interesting answer. I could see that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:08 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:08 PM
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Never said women are hypocrites, you’re putting words in my mouth. Again immediately on defense mode when something is said that you perceive as even being slightly critical toward women. It was just a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:06 PM
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Tend to. That does not mean “all.” Jfc lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:01 PM
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I really dont think they are but ok. It’s more of the “hating men is progressive and empowering and feminist” crowd that I tend to see spewing such vitriol in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:59 PM
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Ok, women tend to vote more progressively. Point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:58 PM
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7% is millions of people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:52 PM
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Show me where I said all women vote democrat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:51 PM
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Women tend to vote democrat, which maybe isn’t super “progressive” but it’s definitely more progressive than the other party. White women favoring Trump in the last election was such a big talking point because it usually doesnt happen. And even then it was only white women. It’s not just conservative women that have an issue with stuff like I’m describing in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:41 PM
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Can you answer the question in the OP instead of trying to invalidate what I’m saying? BPers are so exhausting lol. Anything that’s even slightly critical of women you guys go on defense mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:35 PM
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They sure like to act like they are most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:32 PM
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Women tend to care heavily about how they are perceived by others. Women also tend to struggle with accountability. This combination leads them to lie about things like this, while still doing them anyway, and not feeling bad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:01 AM
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He’s not saying cheating literally “just happens.” He’s saying that’s a very common excuse women use when they end up cheating after putting themselves in a position where it’s a lot more likely (girls night out/girls trip with single friends) Of course it’s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:45 PM
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Unrealted (I generally agree with your points) but its fucking hilarious how you spelled “mecca” as “mecha”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:58 PM
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Absolute facts and the fact that no one has responded to this is telling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:37 PM
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Who hurt you, honestly? All your posts are just shitting on men and saying everything is our fault. Incredibly hard to take seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:10 AM
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It’s well known but you cant find 1 example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:38 PM
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The idea that men are repulsed by women approaching first is not based in reality at all. That’s really all there is to it. It seems like you dealt with 1 guy that was like this and now you’re ascribing that to all men (very common for women to do this.) Show me the “plenty of guys” who are admitting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:25 PM
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This is absolute horse shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:15 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. I couldnt see it at the time but this was me in high school. I thought I was cool for being friends with hot girls but I was just the funny guy friend. The asexual goofball as you said. These girls are great people and I’m still friends with some of them but yea its a shitty position to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:56 PM
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The difference is people can accept that fact about men without batting an eye but get really uncomfortable and defensive when you prove the same thing is true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:56 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:56 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:47 AM
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Have another comment where I go into more detail
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:34 AM
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Like I said in my multiple other posts, I get farther being a dick. Not texting back for days, making slightly offensive comments, being more arroganf, generally caring less. These are not hallmarks of a good personality. But I find more success with them. Weird huh??? And some of my even more assholish friends do even better than me. So, maybe it is his personality, and women just lie about what aspects theyre attracted to in men. Which has been talked about to death on this sub. We dont need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:56 PM
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I get it, I understand and agree, my main frustration is how disingenuous people can be when talking about these things. I said in another comment that being an asshole, emotionally distant, and not caring as much has gotten and continues to get me further, and people just skip over that part. Not because its untrue, but because they dont like it or want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:44 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:41 PM
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Nice caterpillar’s comment sums it up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:39 PM
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Fuck off man you people get so fucking weird and defensive when someone pushes back against these BS blue pill narratives in dating because it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:39 PM
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I can accept this fact but the thing that really bothers me is how disingenuous women can be when talking about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:36 PM
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He is a great, morally upstanding, guy that respects women a shit ton and is funny. Those are things pretty much all women say that want in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:16 PM
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I never said anything was evidence, just sharing my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:15 PM
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I get it. I personally do just fine with women. I’m not Brad Pitt or anything but I do pretty well. Definitely have more success being somewhat of an asshole in terms of initial interest for long term, and just hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:07 PM
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I have a friend who would probably tell you he’s a feminist if you asked, he’s one of the most left leaning people I know, probably THE most left-leaning man I know. Great guy, funny, respects women (puts them above men in most cases in terms of how highly he thinks of them) emotionally intelligent, academically intelligent. Awesome dude, great friend. He’s a 29 year old virgin. A walking contradiction to the “its your personality bro” talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:51 PM
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AFBB
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:29 PM
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Men absolutely do compromise all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:04 PM
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Karma for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:58 AM
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Damn. This is super accurate in my experience. There are of course exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:02 AM
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Pretty fucking sickening to go to someone’s funeral and whisper that you “won” to their grave. Even if they were abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:51 PM
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Nah, some things people should definitely get over. Being overly picky and unreasonable is absolutely a thing in dating. Had a woman told me she cut a guy off for the way he walks down stairs. That should not be treated as valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:49 PM
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Not wanting to marry a ran thru woman is not an unpopular opinion and never has been. That is a fact, and men are not insecure for feeling that way. Jfc lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:59 PM
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No, that is blatantly untrue. On this sub alone there is tons of discussion about it, let alone on the entire internet, let alone in popular culture/discussion writ large. You people are fucking exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:56 PM
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So single moms are automatically whores? And come on.. kim kardashian? Madonna? Billionaire celebs…? You know they’re exceptions that’s a BS comeback lol. You can want to avoid getting into a relationship with a promiscuous woman without being “obsessed” with body count lmao…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:04 PM
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That’s just not true. Maybe in your bubble it is. But this wouldn’t be such a big topic of discussion if most men didnt care. Being worried about wifing up a slut has been a concern of men’s for like… all of history lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:47 PM
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Me? If a woman wants to reject me for my body count, no problem. The thing is I have literally never heard of a woman doing that, ever, to any guy. In my experience women like guys who fuck. And guys that other women already want. And I don’t believe men can be sluts, but thats a different convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:10 PM
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I’m not arguing that these women dont find partners I’m arguing that marrying a formerly (or currently) promiscuous woman is not ideal for most men. Women talk about settling all the time, that is one way that men settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:00 PM
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The classic “you only think that because you don’t get laid.” And I’m the one coping? Lmfao. Ok bud. I’m not saying they don’t get married. I’m saying it’s not ideal. What’s your body count? I’m at about 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:32 PM
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This is the same BS as when people say “my ugly short friend pulled a margot robbie looking model, whats YOUR excuse?” That’s not common and is the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:16 PM
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They don’t want a virgin but they don’t want someone who’s been around the block either. Moderation. Rich, hot, successful men don’t want to marry (keyword: marry, not fuck) a woman who’s slept around too much. Yes of course they’ll fuck whores who put out fast. Fuck them. Not date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:50 PM
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Disagree, I would say the vast majority of men care about body count. Do you think some 6’5, rich, ripped, blue eyed chad would want to marry a woman who’s been with 50 dudes? The best looking most successful (in life and with women) guys I know absolutely care about body count, in fact, they care the most, and they definitely “get to fuck.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:16 PM
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Men are known for being superficial. That is common knowledge. For whatever reason people dont like to admit that about women. Please spare me the “trauma” argument. If a man said he only treats women a certain way because of trauma from experiences women in his past no one would give a shit, and it wouldnt be seen as valid. Same thing with the “trust” argument. Hilarious for you to talk about accountability while saying the only reason many women exhibit certain behaviors is because of big bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:04 PM
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Women frequently let things slide for hot/tall/rich/high status men that they wouldn’t let slide for the average guy, plus setting way more rules and boundaries for less attractive men. This is where the animosity comes from. Seen it in real life and online many times. I cant find the screenshot but theres that tiktok that was saying “yea, he’s using me, but you know what else he is? HOT.” Had like 500k likes and tons of comments basically saying “yea i’ll deal with being treated like shit/used …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:51 PM
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It’s one of their common catchphrases to deflect criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:05 PM
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They don’t care. They’ll invalidate it no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:36 PM
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He literally says in the first fucking sentence “no one’s asking you to pick an ugly dude”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:55 PM
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Fiction? Alright. Lmfao. You people are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:50 PM
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Absolutely spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:36 PM
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Not everything can be statistically quantified. Why are you getting so defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:16 PM
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Explain how? These things DO happen all the time. What is the use in denying that? I’ve had women admit all of these things to me in real life. We tell them “choose better” because… well… a lot of the time that’s what they need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:36 PM
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I was responding to her comment not necessarily the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:25 PM
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Seen all of these things play out many times irl. What do you mean by “who?” Do you want names? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:18 PM
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Because many women shoot for men out of their league and/or are attracted to toxic/“bad boys” and/or let negative traits slide because a guy is hot/rich/high social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:12 PM
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So wild lol. The average experience for women, so much attention that you forget guys you were talking to…. Thats the experience of like .03% of men and I’m not even exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:18 PM
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Lose interest why though? It can feel like a lot of the time women can kinda just lose interest for no reason. Not even the ick or anything like that. Just kinda go “eh” and it can seem like they don’t even really know why themselves. Really strange as a man because when I lose interest in a woman there is always a specific reason (or multiple reasons) that I can articulate and point to. And I think this is the case for most men as well. Not saying any of this is good or bad. Just what I’ve obse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:35 PM
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You mention “good looking.” I never said that. I said out of their league. You are getting defensive. It is true. You have to deny my and many other men’s lived experiences to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:47 AM
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Does everything need to be statistically quantified? It absolutely does happen, all the time. You just don’t like it. Men have tons of issues too and negatively contribute to the dating scene in many ways, and rightfully get called out on these things all the time. Ill never understand why people get so defensive when you call out the ways women negatively impact dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:44 AM
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Basing it off my own personal life experience and the experience I’ve heard from others both irl and online Woman chases guy out of her league (not necessarily a “chad”), throws him easy pussy, dude takes it, they get into a situationship, she cries and complains that he only sees her as a fuck buddy and blames all men for it. Usually while leading on or rejecting guys who are actually in her league because she thinks she’s too good for them. As a guy who isnt an incel or a chad, but does decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:37 AM
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Yep so many of women’s dating struggles would be solved if they were more honest with themselves about what league they fall into. Also baffling to me why so many women think just because a guy takes them home for a night, they can pull a guy of that calibur for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:12 PM
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Female dating strat is a sub reddit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:30 PM
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Not flirting with other people while in a relationship = not being alive/not living. Jfc people are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:40 PM
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Flirting in a relationship is weird even if it doesnt go anywhere/mean anything. For both men and women. What the hell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:55 PM
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Yea. For whatever reason its much harder for women to know where they land on the attractiveness scale. So when an ugly guy hits on them they’re like… “am I ugly too????”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:27 PM
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I feel this is something, as a man, that a lot of other men fail to realize. As men, we are always open to women approaching us/flirting with us, etc, in damn near ANY scenario. There are situations where women simply do not want to be flirted with/approached by men, even men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:17 PM
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