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Ewww. I'm 31 and was just showing the ropes at work for a 20 year old dude. It literally felt like talking to a teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:41 PM
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Tbh I feel like him using the hair towel to dry himself is a power move... There's no way he didn't at that point know what towel it was. Guys always do this, like you get a new towel, they use it to wipe mud off the floor and then act like "welp I'm such a goof I didn't know what towel it was." I think it's malignant incompetence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:50 PM
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Based on my dating experience, guys who cook like to think of themselves as chefs despite not having any formal training or even amateur hobbyist experience. I've dated two guys like this that both had some similarities despite not knowing each other: a) not using recipes, wanting to create their own b) not even googling how something is prepared, just think it's obvious by how the dish is c) using tons of salt, butter, bacon d) never using measuring cups
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:42 PM
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YESSS!! Love Baggage Reclaim!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:40 AM
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In my first relationship I used to get my ex's relatives Christmas presents, because it would have felt awkward to visit without bringing something. My ex never got his own family anything, instead he pretended the gifts I brought we're from both of us. Except I had bought them with my own money and he never even suggested what to bring. I was such a 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:47 PM
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I got an operation and was still under some drugs when I got released. My bf drove two hours to get me, got me food and drove me home, see that I don't get confused and get lost or something, then drove two hours back to work. In comparison my ex bitched about having to drive to get me because he'd be late from heading to bar with his friends to get drunk. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:07 AM
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Once when I was getting home from late night shift I got approached by a stranger. Just when I left my nearest bus stop and started to walk home. At night. He started to walk by my side to the same direction and his icebreaker was "where do you live". Dude, not the time, not the place and definitely not the convo unless you wanna be a total creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:54 AM
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I suspect that my ex-husband is asexual or closet gay. Possibly a porn addict, but I never saw him watch porn and he never jerked off. But he claimed that he did He had severe ED and after trying everything I came to the same conclusion as you: his ED, his problem. Are you me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:52 PM
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I've heard this before. It was BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:56 PM
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Imagine my face when it was my birthday and he had gotten me... Yup, his book. That I had already read multiple times while proofreading, correcting grammar and typos, and dissecting it for constructive criticism on the plot and characters. Gee, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:46 AM
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No musicians, artists, writers. From now on I charge hourly from feedback of works in process or editorial work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:08 AM
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Free love= free community dick, and fuck you if you have emotional needs. I went to a rainbow gathering once, there was one guy exactly like this. He didn't use soap either because he wanted to be natural. Got really pissy when I rejected him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:52 AM
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initially presented to them as modeling opportunities, Am I just paranoid, or does our media start laying the groundwork for grooming girls very early? We have top model shows, today I saw a seven year old carrying her "top model"-notebook/calendar, bratz dolls and such where the coolest profession ever is being model or a pop star... Basically every little girl dreams of being a model. In reality very few models make a living out of it. And then there are these skeevy "modeling castings" where …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:04 PM
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One massive problem all over the world is, that when you call the police as a victim of dv, the responding individual might very well be perpetrator of dv themselves. And I don't for a second believe that they can be objective in that situation. Even men with charges/convictions of dv can still work as police, and they are not restrained from responding to dv calls because remote areas have no other choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:54 PM
3

Surely the conclusion was to CoMmuNicAtE? "Hey honey, when you assault me it really makes me feel bad, mmkay?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:06 PM
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It all makes sense now. I'm not even joking. My father was in his 50s when he decided to start a family. I'm his eldest. Due to my experiences, I frankly think people in their fifties should not have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:43 PM
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Can we talk about the fact how a lot of women's beauty trends originate from porn? Lip fillers, breast implants, volume lashes, butt implants, anal and labia bleaching, labiaplasty, brazilian waxes... Even if it's not to the extreme bimbofication style, it still leaks over to the real world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:13 PM
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I know, we're all on a journey of learning! I'm just trying to pay extra attention of how we use language to shape the world around us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:39 AM
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Also, no matter what any man into "breath play" (or you know, as I like to call it "fantasizing about murdering women") tells you THERE IS NO SAFE WAY OF STRANGLING SOMEONE There's just dangerous and outright deadly ways. He doesn't have you hooked up on some machine that tells him when you get brain damage. Also (some medical professional correct me if I'm wrong) if he leans his bodyweight on your throat he could crush your trachea. We can't consent to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:49 AM
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This episode was truth bomb after truth bomb! Extra thanks for talking about sugar babys. I'm so happy to have found this corner of the sex work critical internet, when I feel like the odd one out in the real world that normalizes porn and media constantly pumping out stories that are basically onlyfans promo. Only thing that stuck out to me was using the sentence "woman got strangled". I prefer to say "a man murdered/raped/strangled this woman", as in there's an active attacker doing these thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:37 AM
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Every "body positive" post I see is "ALL women are BEAUUUUTIFUL" - Fuck being beautiful. A-fucking-men. I got no problem admitting I'm below average in beauty. That's how I got ehm, blackpilled, if you will, by men opening doors etc for my friend and letting them slam shut in front of me. Does that make me a less valuable person? No. I'm just less fuckable for scrotes trying to impress their dudebro friends with their catch. I'm smart, professional, witty and loyal. I like me. I've been in relat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:04 AM
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Wow. A guy once told me he had been a dv victim. Then he had a court case for breaking a woman's wrist (supposedly an accident at martial arts practice). I never linked these two together, but...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:22 PM
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Demisexual, as in "I don't trust strangers enough to jump in bed with them". So CONTROVERSIAL. Or you know, common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:05 PM
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My godmother never married, never had kids. Spent her time between her job, art, going to theater and taking solo trips to Italy. She dated some men but that was that, she liked her life as it was and I guess she met no men who could have elevated it in any way. I always looked up to her as a kid and as I watched my pickme mom fight with three baby daddys I swore I'll never marry and never have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:08 PM
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I watched a documentary, where a part of the reason why the woman in it got anorexia was that she was terrified of growing up and used ED to stop puberty from happening. She was 30 and had been maintaining anorexic weight, and doctors said that she might still start puberty if she gained weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:48 PM
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There's a sub for this called wgtow, women going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:25 PM
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There's a subreddit for this called wgtow, women going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:24 PM
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This is nowhere near as serious, but I'm lactose intolerant and my bf knows it. He prepared some food and we ate. After that I went to the toilet, and when I got back he asked if my stomach was upset. I said yeah, a bit, not thinking anything about it. He replied "really?" and seemed a bit shocked. I said yeah, why, and he told me that the ingredients hadn't been lactose free. I swear some of these guys just don't believe us and need to see for themselves. When I was vegetarian there was a few t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:00 AM
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Here's the infuriating ~sPOntAneOuS~ (=calculated) kiss scene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:21 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:58 PM
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And it's always "she was into it, she asked me to strangle her, and ooopsie she's dead". I personally have never met a woman who was into strangulation. I have hard time believing any of rough sex casualties asked to be murdered. The fact that the rough sex defence works in court is despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:55 PM
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Especially Joker fans are super creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:36 AM
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"Rough sex gone wrong, woman dead" After you start to question porn and so called breath play, you start to see these 'incidents' in a whole new light. And when I say incidents, I mean murders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:50 AM
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On true crime discussion subreddit there was a post how this is likely a PUA thing, and I agree. First lower the women's self esteem by stooding them up, then be the white knight and lift them up with a possible side twist of date drug/r*pe. If it's happening all over country it was probably posted on some PUA forum. Plus if a lot of women went missing this way I feel LE would have figured it out. Human trafficking targets more people in high risk situations (homeless, runaways, drug addicts etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:04 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:59 PM
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Chump lady and Baggage Reclaim should be added to the sidebar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:06 PM
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Cautious tale! I was 20 and my ex tried to make me jealous by commenting a pic of a teenage (15-16 y/o) girls sports team. Just a regular picture where they pose standing in a row, in a newspaper story talking about their teams success. He said something along the lines of them being so young that he should go to take a second shower. 🤮🤮🤮 God I regret my pickme days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:58 PM
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Hey could I get an invite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:12 PM
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Lemme guess, in original post pickmes were flocking in, shrieking "I LOVE WHEN MY FWB CUMS ON ME! BEING AN OBJECT IS SEXUALLY EMPOWERING! I'M A COOL GIRL WITHOUT EMOTIONAL NEEDS!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:50 PM
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Don't walk, RUN away from that guy! See a divorce lawyer and don't inform him until your moving day. See if you could stay with family or friends at first. Women get murdered often when trying to leave an abusive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:13 PM
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This is my nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:09 PM
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Imagine if women bought the wall theory. When you hit 30, you're done. You stop dating. Imagine if women would remove themselves from the dating pool, focusing on fulfilling their own dreams instead of chasing after relationships. Scrotes would loose their minds. It's blatantly obvious they speak of the wall just to lower women's self-esteem so that the scrotes themselves could get a shot at the dating market, but imagine if that strategy backfired, removing the potential partners...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:02 PM
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What if I'm a total newbie but I'd like to take pictures of landscapes, night sky and my dogs running and wrestling? I hike and trek a lot so I'd like to have better than smartphone pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:50 AM
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Cautionary tale: on a date I payed for my own coffee and movie ticket (the cashier asked are these together or separately, he told separately...yeah). Nevermind, I'm a cool girl. Later he tried to neg me, then make me jealous by commenting other women. When I refused a date after that, he got mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:56 PM
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I'm ashamed to admit that in my pickme days, I really thought that guys would appreciate a cool girl that payed her own way and was low maintenance and not emotionally needy. They don't. The minute they get a whiff that you're putting any effort in the relationship or go 50/50 they try to suck you dry. Emotionally, financially, all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:38 PM
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I had in my tinder profile that I'm a computer science student, dudebro quizzed me about intel and amd. Then when I gave the 'right' answer they were like "now we can go on a date", yeah no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:42 PM
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Do you remember when a guy used it because his date was fatter than in the profile pic ("catfish" was used in the thread). Then posted it to reddit spinning the "can't guys use this system, bartender was weirded out" and all the pickmes pandering over to him in the comments ("you felt unsafe and threatened!!"). Couldn't find it for the life of me but Pepperidge farm remembers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:50 AM
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It was more like a quick, blame shifting lie when he got caught, because he never said anything about this supposed depression to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:13 PM
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Real life quote of my ex: "I was lonely and suicidal so I needed someone to talk to." So he downloaded tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:21 AM
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"please pick me! I'll even let you hit me!" Also "enjoy getting my ribs broken". The fuck. Who tf enjoys that? Reminds me of the cool girls who post to social media about their porn watching. "Hey guys! I'm just like you, I even watch porn! I, like, really get you so much better than those other bitches!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:16 PM
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I girl I know moved in with her boyfriend, both were still on Tinder, because "why not"...it didn't last long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:38 PM
5

I was 21 and dated an ugly fuck-up, thinking he'd be grateful and appreciate my support (and "I'm not sUperFiciAl"). He was the exact opposite, cheating, borrowing money from me every month, gaslighting, emotionally abusive. I look back and I cringe. The worst part is I wasted 4 years with him, because I had some ideas how you should put in effort in relationship, not give up so easily and communicate and whatnot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:12 PM
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I was quite surprised when I a girl I knew to be in relationship was browsing tinder. I asked about it and she was like, yeah we're both still active on Tinder because why not, and they sometimes rate matches together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:42 PM
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Long story short and without going into too much detail, a guy tried to come to the bathroom although he knew I was there taking a shower. Luckily I had locked the door, as you do when you live with roommates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:31 PM
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