Iceinthewater Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	[LR] At the Dry Cleaners [with audio & texts] lmao "big black guy"???? Where's that going? I'd personally never imply that other men intimidated me which could be a possible interpretation of that. Funny - she saw you as needing to work up hutzpah, meanwhile she was probably number 5 that day haha...	/r/seduction	25/03/13 05:50 AM
1	[LR] At the Dry Cleaners [with audio & texts] Sounds like she seduced YOU. You turned her on and she pulled you back to her office because she lives with her parents. That's the best. I like your style. Who was the girl who blogged about you?	/r/seduction	25/03/13 05:41 AM
1	"How to Be a Pickup Artist?" by Wayne Elise (Juggler) Actually he published a second edition called "How to meet and connect with women" - it's way better.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 03:20 PM
12	On Why You Should Never Take Dating Advice from Women Upvoted. Good stuff. I'll add that if you want to bang women fast, and have casual sexual relationships with them, good luck getting a girl to admit that she had that with a guy, and how HE made it happen. "Oh yeah there's this guy I used to go see at 2am after getting approached all night at the bar. I'd show up in my miniskirt and blow and ride all night, but he'd never call me during the week or take me out. I was secretly in love with him, but all I could get out of him were mouthfulls of ji…	/r/seduction	14/03/13 08:07 PM
2	Do. Not. Deal. With. Shitty. Women. Period. "HB 8.5" lol... You can't be manipulated unless you are trying to manipulate. (Stolen quote from somewhere).	/r/seduction	10/03/13 09:56 PM
2	This subreddit needs better modding and GOOD advice. What is really going on with seduction/pua stuff is guys trying to do advanced shit. Unfortunately, it is like you say - guys with weak social skills and little experience, trying to run before they can even walk. Most guys will have sex with few women, and have a few girlfriends before getting married. But the seduction stuff seems to be about MORE than that - approaching well in any situation, connecting and fucking fast, with HOT girls, and controlling the relationship terms. Most guys can't …	/r/seduction	04/03/13 11:39 PM
1	[FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?" They have a nice balance of humor and sexuality without being retarded. I'm TAKIN EM.	/r/seduction	03/03/13 12:46 AM
8	[FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?" I love the openers - is there a source you are finding this stuff?	/r/seduction	02/03/13 09:16 PM
1	What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"? Paragraph long texts/texts so long that they come in 1/3, 2/3, 3/3 before the second hang out.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 11:20 PM
1	Sex isn't the goal. Attraction is the goal, and sex is the reward. nah. way off. lol @ attraction=goal.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 06:20 AM
2	Sex isn't the goal. Attraction is the goal, and sex is the reward. there it is.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 06:19 AM
1	[FR] # Closed Columbian Fitness Instructor HB10 in Train Station Oh I didn't know you were in Bangkok. Get a drink - maybe pick a nice bar then. Food isn't as fun as a drink, and if you're hungry you can still get an appetizer. Go for a walk through a nice area after, and kiss her.	/r/seduction	22/02/13 06:45 PM
2	[FR] # Closed Columbian Fitness Instructor HB10 in Train Station do not call her "fatty." You don't have to keep thinking about attracting/impressing her. she likes you. set up a time to meet later in the evening - "hey lady - you, me, some finger food, and an adult beverage or two. Tell me a dive near your work and we can meet when you get off."	/r/seduction	22/02/13 05:21 AM
2	[FR] # Closed Columbian Fitness Instructor HB10 in Train Station You are money. Everything is light, fun and moving in the right direction. Be careful of day dates. They can end up with a platonic feel if you don't have a lot of experience escalating with new girls. If you meet her in the park, cool. Get a bite afterwards. You want to bring the energy down, talk, and get physically closer. If she can't meet up, meet for a drink/bite at a cool dive bar near you or her. Your texts are great - short, simple, direct and playful. Keep that up!	/r/seduction	21/02/13 11:36 PM
1	[FR] # Closed Columbian Fitness Instructor HB10 in Train Station I go direct 99pct of the time. The only groaning I do is when i'm getting blown by girls I opened with a compliment ON THEIR APPEARANCE. nothing strange about being a heterosexual male. If it doesn't work for you, you might be doing it wrong.	/r/seduction	21/02/13 11:33 PM
5	The only line I use, and it's magic. This is my default opener, and has been for years. Good stuff. (Now watch as all the kj's say "Oh this won't work unless you're goodlooking" lol)	/r/seduction	20/02/13 05:29 PM
1	I'm a freshman in college and I've become the campus creeper. How can I change my reputation to a positive one? chill out with the girl stuff and get involved in some community activities, intramural sports, etc. Don't just avoid socializing. Take a proactive approach to changing your rep by being a guy PEOPLE respect. Again, getting involved in activities where you are helping others, gym, sports, campus groups...And DUH, focus on your courses first and foremost. And thinking about internships. You could even do a year abroad and leave your campus for a year - this would re-set your status as no one woul…	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:56 PM
2	New to this whole thing, decided to try it out, got a number yesterday nice man - be sure to keep a journal and focus on what you did RIGHT! That's how I got good.	/r/seduction	16/02/13 11:16 PM
1	Opener that I have been using with my wingman... what do you think? Also do you have any recommendations for other wing man openers? I like it.	/r/seduction	15/02/13 11:38 PM
1	Interesting feedback after valentines and f closing.. yeah that's good. this other guy sounds boring (who asks a girl to be his girlfriend?). You're the fun guy. I'd put money on her hitting you up in a month or two.	/r/seduction	15/02/13 10:52 PM
1	F-close on HB8 with a sad ending She had male friends and I wigged out. I was like 22. Jealousy is a problem bro. It's already created unhappiness for you. I'm not preaching, I'm just saying look at it. In every relationship, one person wants the other more. Don't be that person.	/r/seduction	13/02/13 02:21 AM
1	A list of fun, useful "social games" yea idk about the racial dynamics of america etc just don't stare people down with a serious look. black/white whatever it's creepy wherever you go.	/r/seduction	13/02/13 02:19 AM
1	F-close on HB8 with a sad ending the jealousy is an issue you may want to focus on tackling. I lost my first real gf of two years - totally in love with her - due to unfounded jealousy. I'd say my biggest strength with women is that I have zero jealousy, zero emotional reaction when I don't get my desired result (other than "Damn.")	/r/seduction	11/02/13 09:05 PM
63	A list of fun, useful "social games" 2 - careful with this - depends on the neighborhood. Be sure to nod or say hi. Just staring at someone might feel threatening to them. A better thing to do is lock eyes and smile.	/r/seduction	11/02/13 08:06 PM
1	F-close on HB8 with a sad ending leave it alone and hit her up in a week. don't come off like you want to date. just be friends. If you liked her, then why shouldn't you be her friend? There's obviously attraction and the sex was (hopefully) good. So this can be a female friend that you sleep with. Again, no dates. Talk to her like a human being and chill together. Watch the attachment stuff. Allow people to do what they do. Enjoy them while you're with them, period.	/r/seduction	11/02/13 04:24 PM
1	can you really just talk to random girls on campus? "you are too cute. I haven't seen you before. What's your name?" "Hey what day is it? I'm kidding I think you're pretty and had to think of something fast." Have FUN. That's what makes it work. Fuck confidence. You won't have it. You get that over time. Smile, let yourself be clumsy, and go. No regrets.	/r/seduction	07/02/13 12:08 PM
7	I've just started my journey of self-improvement, and now I'm worried that I might regress. Sedditors, please lend me a hand here. this is the conflict seduction/pua fodder creates. blind leading the blind.	/r/seduction	05/02/13 11:50 AM
-1	A girl sends pictures to you, how do you respond? just wanna add...I've had so many women take dick pics I sent, and show them to their girls, to women at the office, etc, bragging. Chest/abs is toolbag jersey shore. D-pic is pervy, but again, tried and proven over and over. Gotta use at the right time. So as far as "never" ....I'm just shaking my head and laughing cus I know how much it turns women on.	/r/seduction	04/02/13 04:40 AM
1	A girl sends pictures to you, how do you respond? If you've slept with her its a VERY good idea, used at the right time. Don't disagree unless you have tried it. Dick pics are standard for girls I'm sleeping with. But hey, I got one that gets good reviews. But it's not like a bombardment. Every once in a while. Girls love the D. Once you lose sight of that, dating feels like an uphill battle.	/r/seduction	04/02/13 04:34 AM
10	A girl sends pictures to you, how do you respond? tell her she's looks pretty/cute, something specific you like. she's just trying to turn you on and stay on your mind. if she wants a pic back, send one, but if it's a selfie, don't smile. To 4, shirtless pic, in boxers. To 6, dick pic with caption: "look what you're doing to me"	/r/seduction	04/02/13 12:47 AM
1	Seddit, how do you improve your wit? actually I can see it if parents count. I always stood out from my friends, but they accepted me anyway...	/r/seduction	27/01/13 08:50 PM
-1	Seddit, how do you improve your wit? this isn't true, it's just something that gets repeated a lot because it sounds good.	/r/seduction	27/01/13 04:19 AM
1	Seddit, how do you improve your wit? speak your mind with a smile, and deal with rejection and less-than-desirable reactions until you find the balance between weird, boring, obnoxious, and apologetic.	/r/seduction	27/01/13 04:19 AM
100	20% of the men get 80% of the women (x-post /r/OneY) it's so funny when women tell men they are "immature" or not "manning up" when the men dont' want to settle down. Really, these women are saying "woman up." Men are wired differently, but women like to use emasculation as psychological tactic to get what they want. A man who won't commit isn't "afraid," he just likes fucking a lot of women.	/r/seduction	20/01/13 11:49 PM
-1	[FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist". I'm not excusing the manager - he's only worried about money (which is his job) while pretending to be a white knight (even more pathetic). But I gotta say, this is what happens when you use a scripted method and run a lot of "sets" in the same venue. Especially now that PU is more popular after that retarded TV show... If it's working for you, cool. But maybe you are confident and calibrated enough to just use "hi" and maybe talk to the 1-2 girls you find the hottest. Also chill on the kino and…	/r/seduction	19/01/13 07:37 PM
2	The 55 laws of the Alpha Male Make your own laws. Follow them.	/r/seduction	22/12/12 11:09 PM
3	Bruce Lee and the Art of Expressing Yourself I love this. 70-80pct of my coaching programs are spent showing the guy how he is holding himself back to avoid discomfort, and applying exercise structures to hack the beliefs behind that discomfort. As long as you're emulating another, you will not grow as a man. The M.O. 99pct of guys have with women they want to sleep with, is to present a false personality. Ironically, this is the one thing women are wired to notice, and screen out. It's not even conscious most of the time. They just feel "…	/r/seduction	19/12/12 03:06 AM
0	[FR] How to pick up waitstaff nice hair pull move. As I say, no woman is 'harder' - different situations and personalities require adaptation.	/r/seduction	18/12/12 10:12 PM