IchBinBorracho Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1638	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me.		IchBinBorracho	/r/seduction	05/08/17 02:15 PM

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9	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Ha I definitely didn't expect to be asked this question, and I've never asked it to myself but let me give it a shot: I think it boils down to seeing in women what I see in myself. Yeah, to be honest I've noticed that a lot of women (especially attractive ones) are complete assholes. They will say mean things just because they can, they won't treat you with respect and decency even when you've done nothing wrong, etc. But as I've gotten to meet so many different people throughout this past year,…	/r/seduction	07/08/17 05:37 AM
5	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Thanks man! I just hoped it would bring a new, more positive and healthy perspective for some people struggling with the idea that they can't get "any girl they want, any time they want" like a PUA is supposed to. My message is: Don't be a PUA, just be a sexual human. Here's how to be a sexual human, for those of us to whom it doesn't come naturally	/r/seduction	06/08/17 09:52 AM
2	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. I'm not sure if I like this! In my opinion there's a lot of approach anxiety out there that is totally justified. It feels weird to approach a random girl walking down the street because... well, it is kind of weird. If you can do it then more power to you but you shouldn't put pressure on yourself to approach every attractive woman you see regardless of the situation. If she's just sitting around playing on her phone in the coffee shop, go for it. If she's got headphones on, walking quickly dow…	/r/seduction	06/08/17 09:50 AM
4	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Hi, I'm 27 now and been working on this part of myself since I was about 19 or 20. By that statement, I mean that it didn't feel right. You know? There's times when you can hook up with a girl because she's drunk or you know she's lonely because she just broke up with her boyfriend, or some reason like that. In the moment you might lie to yourself and say that it's fine, it's good for both of you, etc but when you wake up in the morning you feel... kind of dirty. Like you did take advantage of h…	/r/seduction	06/08/17 09:44 AM
1	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. That's a good point, it kind of removes the need for a follow-up question and may even disarm a woman completely. All she can do is think of what you said and the type of guy you are for saying it!	/r/seduction	06/08/17 09:37 AM
1	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Yeah I think I could have combined it all into one sentence. Some women will want to have sex with you and some won't - that's completely OK.	/r/seduction	06/08/17 08:47 AM
8	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. No way man, you're just a cult classic! I'll tell you what, I grew my beard out and it looks OK. Nothing great, just ok. Most women don't like it. But I don't need to be "good enough" for most women. I have a lot more luck when I find just one or two women who are really into it. That's probably where you're at. You're nothing special to a lot of women, but there are some out there who are looking for someone just like you. Don't give up man!	/r/seduction	06/08/17 08:44 AM
6	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Being attractive has more to do with self-confidence, self-love, and and openness that it has to do with which face you happened to be born with! Don't give up on yourself brother!	/r/seduction	05/08/17 09:03 PM
24	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. You've got a lot of really good points, but I can't see your perspective if I use the terminology that you've laid out. But since we're just discussing semantics, and we've arrived at the same meaning, then I'm glad we understand each other. Thanks for the input! Even if I'm not completely on board with it, it might help someone else in their journey.	/r/seduction	05/08/17 09:00 PM
5	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. I never attack her character even in a playful way, but if she does or says something kind of silly I'm absolutely going to tease her. But it's the kind of teasing that makes us laugh together, and I never press too hard about it. Whenever I give her some shit, I make sure to invite her into the joke with me. It's never, "You fucked up, now prove yourself to me." It always has to be, "Something funny happened, let's laugh together."	/r/seduction	05/08/17 08:45 PM
43	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. I appreciate the feedback, but I don't agree. Seduction implies a me vs her mentality, it's not an equal way to go about things. Seduce is itself a transitive verb. You say, "I seduced her." It puts you at odds with her, and her role in the equation then becomes passive. I seduced her. I played that piano. She becomes an object (in the grammatical sense at the very least) and not a partner in something that you're doing together. Im advocating defining a relationship that you'll share together f…	/r/seduction	05/08/17 08:41 PM
5	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. so you are no longer a man? i dont get it. when is seduction no longer necessary? you are seducing people all the time. this skill is applicable to everything else in our social life as well as business career family etc I mean the rigid, PUA style of seduction that's brought up so often. Having a canned routine and using little tricks and hooks to get girls to like you. I don't view it as seduction anymore really; that puts the relationship in more of a predator/ prey mindset. I'm not out to fo…	/r/seduction	05/08/17 08:34 PM
6	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Thanks so much! Its hard to say... I've noticed girls being more interested in me lately, but I think thats because growing as a person has led to a lot of girls being more interested in me than because I've gotten better at noticing. Honestly the only "trick" I use is to look at her feet. If she points her feet/ body toward you then she's interested. This also helps me especially because I've got a foot fetish haha so it's something that I guess I would do naturally	/r/seduction	05/08/17 08:30 PM
10	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. That's... Yeah it's true but a totally unnecessary thing to say	/r/seduction	05/08/17 06:18 PM
26	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. To each his own. That's just my style, what's your preference?	/r/seduction	05/08/17 06:13 PM
7	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. If that's the only thing you got out of that post then I'm sorry! Hopefully you re read it and interpret it in a different light	/r/seduction	05/08/17 06:12 PM
3	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. If anyone is struggling with this mindset, let me know. It's a mindset that I'm just recently adopting (in a true sense) so it might be helpful to bounce ideas off one another. And thanks for the awesome response! I'm glad the community here is interested in a different (and probably healthier) perspective.	/r/seduction	05/08/17 05:17 PM