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Question for RedPillIchtragebrille/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 11:42 PM
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Honestly I didn’t really care why a client was there. It’s always obvious pretty quickly when a man won’t spend money. You have to take care of the girls you hang out with or we would just leave. You may think you’re exercising power but in reality, we’re the ones with the power, as we’re the ones who can just move on to someone else. There’s always another guy to hit up. Once we noticed a guy wasn’t spending and was just wanting to talk, well, we all just avoided him. I have had some socially a…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:45 PM
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It's okay bb boy. I'd be upset too if I knew no one would pay a grand to hang out with me for two hours either.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 08:29 PM
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lol I stripped to put myself through college and now I'm a successful web developer. Plenty of women simply use it as a stepping stone.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:38 PM
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Are you nuts? Working out is the least sexy thing ever. I'm sweating and all red in the face, my nose is running, I'm a mess. Most people don't look good when they are being pushed to the limit by their personal trainer, and most personal trainers consider it nothing but business... like training an animal or working on a project.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 10:49 PM
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Yeah, but aren't you basically 14 anyway? Based on your voice? So of course you wouldn't want to go for older women; it's a bit intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 11:24 PM
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No, it wouldn't. I'm a very blunt person and exclusively use this tactic and half the time it makes men angry and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 02:47 AM
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I've worn this, this, and this outside in the past few months. Plus dozens more looks. If you look on makeupaddiction you see lots of other colorful looks that people wear out. Just because you don't see it doesn't mean it isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:16 AM
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Are you blind? Just check the makeup tags on Instagram or Pinterest. Makeup is an art form these days, especially in editorial looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:11 AM
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...because it's fun to wear makeup and play around with color. You think I wear makeup to impress men? Pft, men know nothing about makeup. If anything, I get happy when another woman notices and compliments my eyeshadow. Men don't know shit about blending or shaping eyebrows or getting that lipstick liner juuuust right. Why would I waste my time applying something for people who are mostly oblivious to it? Your logic makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:41 PM
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That's why it's parental and not just maternal. Funny how countries that have it don't seem to see it as a "problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 05:11 AM
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Yea except for that whole pregnancy/birth/after birth care needed by the infant that costs a shit ton of money and prevents the woman from working.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 09:40 PM
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Just gonna paste my comment about this exact same subject brought up like 10 days ago. Look, it is unfair. This is something I actually disagree with most of my liberal friends about. I actually think there should be a way for a man to walk away, but many things would need to change first. So, the reason we don't currently allow such an arrangement is for the good of the child. We can all get that. The child needs as much support as possible, and in America women don't get a lot of support when …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 09:37 PM
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Right?? My obsession with bright makeup began with getting my makeup done for editorial fashion. So fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 09:29 PM
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I see. I did mostly editorial work, so I had a little bit more wiggle room than the runway girls. I mean, I still did that on occasion, but only certain lines would book me. The girls who were exclusively runway were often quite small, size 0-2, while I'm a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 06:51 PM
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Hah, too convincing. Always good to have an /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:58 AM
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lol Your world view is so pathetic. It's okay to be jealous of men that have women that actually love them and enjoy having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:54 AM
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I've also done modeling as was definitely booked with 35" hips. So it obviously differs in agencies, shoots, and lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:52 AM
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Gah no. Certain conditions may have an affect on weight to a certain point. 15 lbs is reasonable but an extra 100, 200, 300lbs? That's lack of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:46 AM
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Lol yes. I'm just shaking my head like guuuuurl while reading. I'm just fucking sick of it. I'm 5'10" and 135lbs and you would think I was a god damn skeleton the way women have interacted with me. Women at work poke me and are like "you're so skinny! You never eat!" It's pretty inappropriate, the double standard. So maddening. Edit: it's not just women though. That whole idiotic dad bod movement, claiming it's better or healthier. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:41 AM
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While I don't deny that a fair amount of this is done by women, all women certainly don't think that way. Plenty of ladies over at fatlogic are bothered by the seeming hypocrisy of the body positive movement, myself included. But I think you are including two kind of separate issues. Like there is a problem in this country with obesity/denying the negative parts of obesity but there is also a problem of women being held to a "youth" standard more than men. Especially in Hollywood, where you ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:27 AM
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Sorry you're that afraid to put your face to your ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:21 AM
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It sounds like it's you who has a self-inflated "SMV".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 12:50 AM
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I've posted a photo here before with no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 12:42 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 10:15 PM
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Or maybe most people are as I describe them, and you're the outlier. See, how it can be turned around? It's not so black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:21 PM
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You can do whatever you want, it doesn't change the fact that you are wrong. You can have your personal experiences and they can color your world view, that's only human. You, however, appear to be taking your experiences as absolute truth, which is simply incorrect. BP people often say "I'm not like that/I know people not like that" to show you that your worldview is not applicable to everyone, not to say that their experiences are universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:26 PM
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I'm a woman who slept around a fair bit in my early 20s, absolutely enjoyed it, and am now in a stable, lovely relationship going on a couple years. My past doesn't matter to him or to me because it's my past; it has no affect now. If anything my experiences with a variety of relationships and people helped me grow a little. But the thing is that you didn't post here to debate. You didn't even offer up a question. You just came here to present a circle jerk wall of text and say "nope" to anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:22 PM
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Lol your "personal observations". Wow, compelling evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:15 PM
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With your charming personality I'm sure it will be thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 08:26 PM
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What on earth are you taking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:15 PM
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I go up and say "hi!" And make some comment/joke about the environment we are in. Pretty fucking simple. It's easy to talk to people if you ask questions. People love to talk about themselves. Just give them a hint and they're off. People seriously overthink basic conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 08:46 AM
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Like I said, it'd be no loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 07:01 AM
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Lmao if you're going to throw that big of a tantrum and equate a sex act with your children then you probably aren't a big loss anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 05:36 AM
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People are allowed to change their minds. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 01:37 AM
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No... She might've kept doing it because she felt guilty or pressured.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 12:30 AM
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I though it just said "did anal" not "enjoyed anal".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 09:03 PM
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Yes. I think think having more reliable male forms of birth control would help tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 07:51 PM
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Jesus Christ, no. Why would you purposefully do that to someone? That's vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 07:48 PM
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Lol speak for yourself. Some people never get used to anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 06:18 PM
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Look, it is unfair. This is something I actually disagree with most of my liberal friends about. I actually think there should be a way for a man to walk away, but many things would need to change first. So, the reason we don't currently allow such an arrangement is for the good of the child. We can all get that. The child needs as much support as possible, and in America women don't get a lot of support when it comes to children unless they are very poor. Yes, the government gives some assistan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 06:15 PM
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Okay. In this situation we are talking about a LTR. In those, love and sexual attraction are often intertwined. You're the one claiming this is black and white. I said that I mostly agree, not that it's an absolute. At no point did I say that statement. You're being oddly aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:48 AM
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...Yes. Part of being in partnership is occasionally helping the other person fulfill their sexual fantasies. This probably isn't a problem for most people because a blowjob is pretty banal. Unless a blowjob is a hard limit for a woman, which I would find pretty rare, then I don't think it's too much to ask to occasionally give one. If you find a partner who absolutely will not do oral with you, then it becomes a matter of how important oral is to you. I would personally find a lack of oral to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:37 AM
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Above average in looks and fitness. Works out regularly, has a sense of style. Is relatively popular among other women. Sure, I like an active guy. It's a requirement really. Has a non-nerdy, masculine job. Owns his own business, travels a lot, manages a lot of people, or works in a physically demanding field. Don't really care about this. IT is a perfectly alpha job to me and makes good money to boot. Has exciting hobbies such as rugby, rock climbing, dancing, or aviation. Cool enough. I have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:20 AM
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Ehhhhhh I mean, I mostly agree. I generally think that giving sexually is a huge sign of attraction, so even if she's not the biggest blowjob fan, it should be done occasionally as a compromise. But I also find women who are entirely repulsed by giving head to be pretty rare. There's a difference between disliking the act and disliking the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:09 AM
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God no, don't do shirtless. It just makes you look like a douchebag in the very worst way. As for other avenues, I had fun using okcupid because it's a bit more in depth and you can peruse more. Also local meetups are the best. Maybe you can even find some singles ones? I met so many people that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:49 PM
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So get a friend to take a photo of you at the pub. Also, while photos are important, don't underestimate the power of a witty profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:01 PM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 06:00 AM
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No, because no one is so special that they are the only person like that in the entire world. However, insofar of people that I've met and who've also been romantically interested in me, then yes I have met two men who were very unique and compatible with me. They both have their own substantial baggage and both were absolutely worth dealing said baggage to be with. One is still my good friend and I'm coming up on two years together with the other. All people have their own past and most of us a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:00 PM
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So witty, you had to write it twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:22 PM
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Lol I'm a woman. I've experienced heartache. It doesn't mean the relationships weren't important to me, simply because they ended badly,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:21 PM
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No individual woman is so uniquely special that it makes all that shit worth it. It's a pity your experience is so limited. Maybe one day you'll be lucky enough to find out how wrong you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:09 AM
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It's totally fine to have deal breakers. It's also fine for me to find certain deal breakers, like the aforementioned rape victims, to be abhorrent and speaks to your lack of character. It's also fine for you to not care what other people think about your deal breakers. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:56 AM
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East coast swing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:16 PM
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I teach swing dance on occasion and grew up doing ballet and tap. I can definitely dance and in doing so I think I've improved with reading people. You have to be able to pick up really subtle things in partner dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:16 PM
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Yeah. I make clothing as a side business and I've been working on a dress all night. I'll probably be asleep around 5 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:12 AM
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Blue lady here. My sleep schedule tends to be horrendous if I'm left to my own devices. Work all night til morning and sleep during the day. I try to work on it constantly, but I just drift back into it if my schedule allows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 09:57 AM
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Well, Reddit ate my comment so I'll try again. I was definitely more awkward and shy when I was younger. Incredibly shy. But I looked pretty much the same as I do now and was told that I was pretty. I didn't date much though because I didn't know how to be in a relationship and was full of self doubt. I did hook up with people though, as it was a college town. Popularity wise, I was okay. Friendly with everyone and known as That Art Girl. But I wasn't in the prom queen circle or anything like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 04:56 AM
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HAHAHAHA you're seriously so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:55 PM
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I certainly haven't seen as much disgust/vitriol in shaming men who date younger as I have in the ever present slut shaming here. They don't really seem comparable. That being said, I don't see much wrong with relationships with wide age gaps. I might tilt my head at a 50 year old dating an 18 year old, because I can't imagine that relationship would be emotionally equal in the slightest. But it's not really my place to tell people what they can and can't do. One of my best relationships was whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 10:21 AM
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Ha, I'm sure your biases don't color that at all. Most women I know tend to favor around 6" and we've discussed it at length in our fb ladies group. I'm more inclined to believe 40+ women then you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:09 AM
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Personality can make someone who was only average become more physically attractive in my eyes, and vice versa. If someone is hot but an asshole/idiot then they're going to be less attractive. Looks are important but not the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 03:52 AM
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Personally, I'm fucking hilarious. Of course women can be funny, Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:33 PM
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Oh. Because you never personally saw it, it just doesn't exist. Right. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:31 PM
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It was beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:10 AM
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My "feelz" are telling me to vote Sanders, and so are plenty of other women I know. In fact, we all met by campaigning for him. Not all women are voting for Hillary the same way not all men are voting for Trump and it's silly to think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:09 AM
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Most likely it would be personality, values, sexual skills, looks, stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:06 AM
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I hope a lady approaches you some day. :) Sort your, I'm quite tipsy at karaoke now and can argue no more. Might pick this up later, but it seems we might just have to agree to disagree based on our own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 06:37 AM
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Hah, your negging is adorable. I'm also quite tall and model myself, so that doesn't help. But it isn't just that. It's much more about attitude than you realize, so when a woman is really in-your-fave, some men find it almost emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 06:21 AM
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So? I don't see that and I host bar crawls so I get plenty of opportunity to sit back and watch. Your experience does not reality make. The truth is somewhere in the middle of our experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 06:17 AM
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If a woman approaches a man and asks him out it is because he has higher smv than hers. Simply not true. Such generalizations serve no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 05:53 AM
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Of course, it's silly but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. A lot of social norms are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 05:49 AM
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Common opinion is that I'm attractive. Actually, I've had people tell me that being attractive can be harder for women attempting to make the first move due to a potential intimidation factor. http://imgur.com/onBE5xP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 05:27 AM
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I don't agree with it in the slightest but I know some people would claim it's simply too much baggage. However, I imagine most rape survivors wouldn't tell someone about it until deeper into the relationship. To me, the idea of dating someone and becoming close enough to have such information shared, only to turn around and dump them because it might get more complicated due to the emotional "baggage" is just despicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 03:27 AM
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Hahaha I didn't realize this thread was indicative of the whole world. As for your second point I'm going to be hesitant to believe you because I was married to a Russian guy and all the women I knew through him were definitely encourage to be submissive, so your experiences aren't universal. Also the fact that you are Russian comes as no surprise to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 02:48 AM
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Isn't that kind of depressing after a while though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:52 PM
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Can't you just like bright colors? I love teal. It's my favorite. It's usually a pretty loud color. I don't wear it for attention or for other people. I wear it because I look down, see teal, and get a happy little thrill. Do you seriously think that everything is about getting attention? That it can't possibly be about personal preferences??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:36 PM
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Couldn't possibly be for fun, now could it? That's just cuh-razy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:34 PM
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Dude, I wear makeup sometimes because it's fun. I like the colors and designs. It has nothing to do with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:33 PM
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Hmmm I don't know about slut shaming. My social group, which is quite large and varied across ethnicity, background, and age, tends to be mostly liberal. But some things are deeply ingrained in our society and I think most of them think they are being helpful by telling me to be more coy. Most of them are extroverts who have no issue making the first move as well, so they have their own biases and experiences. This is the frustrating thing to me. Yes, it does suck having to be rejected and it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:48 PM
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that's bollocks Well, yeah, I know it's bullocks but many, many people think that way unfortunately. It's common. It was even mentioned in this thread, so I'm really confused as to how you guys don't think that kind of attitude exists. My male friends would usually caution me about being aggressive after I ask them for their perspective. I generally get curious about their opinions because I know I act outside the norm. They're like "Amanda, you throw men off by asking them out and it intimidate…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:34 PM
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What? How are you even comparing these things? I'm not seeing the connection here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:25 PM
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I mean, yes, feminism is trying to change that, which is why I'm baffled by this post. Social norms don't change over night. Hell, RP is more in line with that stupid "men should act and women should be acted upon" kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:22 PM
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American men around my age, 27, and some women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:20 PM
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Most of my male friends. My lady friends are split pretty 50/50 on whether or not women should make the first move. Hell, even someone in this thread proved my point by disparaging on women who make the first move. The idea of "if you're pretty enough/flirt well enough then a guy will ask you out and if they don't then you're just not up to par" is pretty damn standard in our society. I just happen to not give a shit because I think shy men are cute and I don't care about rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:19 PM
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Lol that image. Yea, no, it's because your point of view is really prevalent among our society. It's just funny to me that it appears even in this thread of RP guys claiming no such point of view exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:28 PM
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Haha, right? I like to do it mostly because it takes men by such surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:16 PM
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Whoa, great argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:11 PM
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if a woman asks a man out then it's almost a certainty that he has higher SMV than her and that she's aiming too high. If a woman can't get a guy to ask her out just by being engaged, flirty, big eyed etc, with a guy, then he's not asking her out because he doesn't want to lead her on. End of story. Gee, I wonder how women are discouraged from asking men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:10 PM
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You can think it's a lie, I don't really care. You aren't a woman. You haven't been told growing up that you are supposed to be the one who is chased, you aren't the one that's been exposed to a shit ton of media (songs, books, movies, whatever) that encourages you to be acted upon, not do the acting. Most of the people I know, very social people mid 20s-late 20s, tell me that it can be strange and kind of off putting for a woman to ask a man out. Do I agree with that? No. Do I think it's silly?…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:08 PM
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Yea no, I've definitely been told that by both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:02 PM
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This was worded kind of awkwardly. Are you saying you do want women to ask men out or you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:29 AM
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Because often women are told, by fucking everyone, that men don't want that. I almost always make the first move with men because I'm a pretty impatient person and most seem surprised or a bit caught off guard. I mean, afterwards they are pleased and say something to the affect of, "It's nice to be the one asked out." Yet, I've had many male friends say that my actions are kind of strange, or too aggressive and I should be more coy. Most women have been told that their whole lives and I think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 07:54 AM
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Lol, oh, so you don't like being shamed? How strange that you feel the need to shame others then. Telling you to simply not approach/date women who don't mesh with your views on sex isn't "shaming". Not getting to label these women in a negative manner isn't "shaming" you either. Quit playing the victim. I know people who feel the same way you do, who do not wish to be with people who've slept with many others. However, these people also feel no need to belittle a person because they don't fit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:43 PM
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Lol okay so this is all based on "sluts" you "know". Well, I know plenty of "sluts" who are totally normal, stable people with no mental issues. They are confident women who simply go after what they desire. Some unstable people definitely do sleep around, but not everyone who sleeps around is some kind of damaged person. That's a pretty big generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:39 PM
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It is a measure of her character, because most sluts learn how to deceive, manipulate and connive. And you get this... where? What, because someone has a lot of sex they become manipulative for... some reason? I fail to see your logic here. I've known plenty of women with higher n counts simply because of short flings or ONS. How does that make a woman deceptive? I think you're just projecting here. It's pretty easy to enjoy sex and have a lot of it while not being some sort of con artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:13 PM
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I generally don't waste my time caring how many people my partner has slept with. It seems totally pointless to me. However, anyone is totally free to label themselves a slut for whatever reason, usually kink related.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:09 PM
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Okay? So don't date those types of women? Why do you need a derogatory term to label them then? Why does it matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:06 PM
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It's not a fact. Not everyone agrees with your narrow definition of slut. Some people think someone who sleeps with more than one person is a slut, others may think you can sleep with 30 people before you earn such a label. This isn't a fact, it's simply your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:02 PM
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Lol wtf who cares? Why? Why does there have to be this label to "keep people's behavior in check"? You say I think the idea that a girl should have an unlimited number of shameless sexual encounters is bad for her and bad for society. and offer no actual reasoning behind it. Literally nothing. Just your arbitrary, because-I-say-so attitude. Why on earth do you care? Sex isn't some foul thing to be avoided, or something that loses value over time. Calling women sluts to shame them for enjoying ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 12:34 PM
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You mean the memo about how the majority of Americans are overweight? Because that's been the case for quite a while now...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 01:53 AM
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I mean, that's totally fair. And I can also appreciate that those physiques require a lot of work and that's admirable, but that doesn't mean it's sexy to me. It doesn't turn me on. You know, people just have preferences and I think a lot of men slightly over estimate the amount of bulk/definition that women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:50 PM
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lol you are acting so clueless. Joe Schmoes on the street wear shirts, not muumuus. You can typically tell what a man's body type is, for the most part. I usually judge by the arms. I like more slender men. To me it's far sexier. The whole "just finished a cut" look to me is grotesque. I'm hnghing for his body in this particular instance, but I'd be lying if I didn't like his face. I truly don't understand why that is so hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:28 PM
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Omg Brad Pitt in fight club is the ultimate hnnnnngh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:39 PM
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Right? Just too veiny. The sexiest people to me are sleek, with hints of muscle. I'm just not a fan of the "just did a serious cut" look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:37 PM
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Yeah, it's totally impossible for women to have different tastes in men. That would just be insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:11 PM
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Honestly? No. I mean, muscles can be sexy, but that person looks too body builder for me. To me, it's worse than someone slender. I find it kind of grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:09 PM
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All about c2-c4. I like swimmer's bodies. Ottermode. http://imgur.com/qnXqVVt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:07 PM
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Seriously? Jesus Christ, is it so hard to believe? I don't like A9 either. To me, it's just gross. Too much like a body builder. I like guys who are more sleek, like swimmers. I know many women who feel the same. All about ottermode. http://imgur.com/qnXqVVt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:06 PM
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Most relationships aren't like porn, where the woman is all "ooohh baby I can't resist you…" I mean... all the ones I've ever been in are like that. I don't understand why they wouldn't be. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that I didn't desire/want to please. I suppose I'm kind of confused by your question. Are you asking if all women's sexual interactions are inherently selfish? Like only concerned with what they need to get off?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 01:15 AM
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I do have casual sex and if I found out a man I wanted to hook up with was red pill, I'd likely walk away laughing. I do think it would take a miracle for any RP man to reach that point with me though. Negging and the like doesn't get very far with me. I'm acquaintances with someone who tries RP stuff on occasion at bar crawls we both frequent. Every time I see him trying my mouth just cringes right off my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 10:56 PM
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I mean, it really depends. A lot of people are still awkward as fuck when they get into college. Still just kids, y'know? I saw many, many women flounder while trying to be social, myself included, at the various events I went to as a freshman. Most 18-20 year olds aren't masters of seduction. I think there's a lot of sex to be had by the average guy... He just might have to lower his standards to get it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 07:14 AM
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Haha, okay, I was like... damn girl and I thought I had a lot of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:25 AM
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Is this a day or week? Ain't nobody with a job got time to have sex 10+ a day every day. Unless it's very quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:15 AM
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I mean, won't that make it worse? Escalating? I know death grip can be a problem, but isn't the usual solution to try and decrease it or use different methods of stimulation? I dunno, I'm sure you've heard all this before, but it seems worth repeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:57 PM
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Oh man, I get that. I used to date someone that I couldn't see for 4-5 months at a time and when we finally saw each other it was ridiculous. I hated it but, in a way, it kept things fresh because we never really got complacent with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:51 PM
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I hope I'm not being rude in asking, but why not? Performance anxiety? Death grip? General depression/malaise?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:50 PM
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One thing I've noticed is that my sex drive, which is already high, will get a lot higher when I work out more frequently. When I take breaks from the gym/classes and just do some cardio then my sex drive gets lower. Since RP is big into lifting and all that (though I doubt all rp men do it) then it might be a bit of an interesting correlation. So let's see, I'm blue as the sea, 27 female, and typically enjoy having sex once-twice a day. More if I've had a particularly active week. If I don't th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:47 PM
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You aren't answering how women "bring nothing to the table".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 06:42 AM
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Well, first I would take them to a hospital because that seems pretty fucking phenomenal. However, to answer your question about weight gain overall, yeah I'm not a fan. I keep myself pretty fit through dance and other things and I expect the same of my partner, and have told him so. We made it explicit when we began dating that if one of us ever became too squishy then we would alert the other. I've only had to do that once. I think it's totally fine to have such standards. I don't understand t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:27 AM
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Just wait it out to see Star Wars. Mockingjay is a fairly depressing movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 11:07 PM
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Look, I actually agree with you, that men should be able to opt out, but it's not just "discomfort". Women can die from being pregnant/giving birth. The childbirth stats in the U.S. are pretty fucking shitty for a developed country. It's not just "discomfort" and being willfully ignorant about it only hurts your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:07 AM
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I feel like tons of popular movie stars/bands are feminine men. Matthew Grey-Gubler, Cillian Murphy, Orlando Bloom. Lots of pretty men everywhere. It's a pretty big thing with about 2 out of 3 women that I know. Most of them seem to prefer the androgynous/slightly feminine look. I see you commenting often and you seem to feel very personally persecuted by women, in almost every aspect of yourself. Perhaps that is coloring your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 12:55 AM
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If this were true then k pop and j pop groups wouldn't be nearly as popular as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 12:29 AM
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Any woman that tells me she was raped is instantly relegated to plate status. No thanks I don't need that drama. Yeah, this is why most people think RP is scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 12:19 AM
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I just wanted to point out that women can let themselves go in low SMV relationships doing less attractive stuff (like farting and giggling at it... not very feminine, and I think most guys will agree it's not very attractive. Hahahahaahaaa you take yourself way too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:13 PM
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You've been pretty nice in this thread so I won't go to my first instinct of super sarcasm, because I genuinely can't see how you think I'm the one being cruel in this thread, after I've been continually insulted for how I look? Yet, I say one snarky thing and I'm the unreasonable one here? I really don't understand how you could come to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:08 PM
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Thank you, I think this is the most informative reply I've gotten. I suppose, the few RP people I've encountered and from the field reports I sometimes see on here, it seems very much like a conscious effort to control the situation around them, which seems counter productive to letting go and enjoying oneself. But, I suppose, that is still someone in the "learning" stage and isn't someone truly using RP methods yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:04 PM
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No, I'm pretty similar. It's hard to be with people who take themselves too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:15 AM
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Hmmm it is a fine line. I suppose I would say negging is done with the express purpose of bringing someone down/getting someone to try and prove themselves to you so you can eventually get laid. While someone who is simply teasing within a relationship would usually not do so just to get laid, it's usually simply a bonding experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:15 AM
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Well, okay, but do you ever just goof off and roll around on the floor too? Do you ever step back and stop thinking about an ulterior motive of passing a shit test or negging or trying to raise your SMV and just have fun with your SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:36 AM
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Right?? It all just seems so contrary to just goofing off with your SO to me, which is such a bonding experiment, which is why I was curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:29 AM
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I think I'll be able to pick up the pieces and move on from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:10 AM
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I am so mad yet also aroused. Must be those alpha gainz or whatever. Oh I actually just noticed that's a photo of you. Ack, yeah, you may have mad gainz but I don't find that attractive and I abhor facial hair. So you wouldn't be high up on my scale like I'm not high on yours. And that's okay because different tastes and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:08 AM
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Erm, your girlfriend is cute but, well, doesn't seem exceptional. A good, solid 8. Maybe a 9 but that picture isn't very good, no one looks good from underneath. But love definitely makes people seem more attractive so of course you'll consider her a 12, as you should. Pretty telling that you need to be so insistent on devaluing me though. Edit: And yeah, it's not the best picture of me. I was highlighting my dress. It's easy to pick and choose. There are some fantastic photos of me out there an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:44 AM
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Haha it's okay. It doesn't bother me. I get plenty of attention through out my life, I definitely don't need it from RP creepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:41 AM
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Lol k. I'm so sad now. :( You're not delusional or anything. I'm the one who made it personal when you're the one who wanted to know what I looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:40 AM
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But it seems to me like much of the cocky and funny parts involve negging in some fashion, with an ulterior motive. Do you think teasing in a non negging manner is common?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:26 AM
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Lol I'm sorry your experiences are so limited. If you're that curious you can see my photos in my post history. You seriously don't know any attractive people who like doing stupid goof off things like that? How bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:24 AM
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Hurt durr great argument
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:22 AM
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I don't know. Plenty of posts here talk about maintaining frame on a much more minute level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:14 AM
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I suppose so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:14 AM
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this reads a pretty nerdy low SMV stuff... See, this is what I'm talking about. You're so hung up on SMV and other such nonsense it infiltrates literally every aspect of your life and perceptions. I find it mind boggling. Edit: I've had a few red pill guys try to hit on me at the various bar crawls I go to and it was pretty obvious. Maybe they weren't what you guys would consider true red pill since they were still in the... Angry/not smooth in the slightest phase. They were all fairly bad at ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 12:13 AM
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lol, who cares about you getting laid? If that's the only motivating factor in your life, then you're pretty much a loss anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 01:22 AM
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former promiscuity will always take a toll on a relationship In what exact way would it do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 06:13 PM
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most men are conditioned to not tell the truth I don't know where you get this from. Most men are usually obliviously honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 07:17 PM
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Lmao, this is one of the stupidest things I've read in here. Come on. Do you seriously think that most men just constantly lie to their SO in relationships? You're seriously so bitter and cynical that you think that's how people stay together? God forbid you see most adults as being capable of loving and accepting their partners, for the most part. This is all just so absurd. I know tons of women who watch porn with their boyfriends, encourage healthy and active sex lives, encourage honest commu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 07:16 PM
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Because deep down most men using "dread game" are probably not apathetic. They're wanting a specific outcome and using specific, manipulative actions to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 09:24 PM
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Then you obviously don't like women with excellent asses. Nothing beats that weighted squat booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 09:21 PM
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So edgy. You totally outwitted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 06:34 AM
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But I feel like some women are also beyond hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 02:58 AM
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Lol I can tell you aren't a woman by how easily you think we can get laid. I'm a pretty attractive woman and there have been times I went home alone. Now maybe I could've dropped my standards some and gone home with someone, but guys can do that as well. I find it bizarre that you think I can go to a bar and men just throw themselves at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 12:57 AM
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Nah, I slut around thinking, "yay, sex!" I do it because it's fun and I want to. Same as you. Pretty simple actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 12:54 AM
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But do you not find that double standard hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 09:24 PM
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who fuck for sport and brag about headcount And redpill men aren't encouraged to do this...?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 09:12 PM
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You're seriously going to be that pedantic? You don't even have a leg to stand on. It's not all women. It's not many women. Most women have hobbies and interests and passions outside social media, despite your shallow views of them. Because they're, ya know, people. You know damn well what I meant when I originally critiqued you and instead of responding to the issue you backtrack with this well, I didn't say ALL bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 12:44 PM
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How you spent your day instagramming everything and the neat/cute whatever you saw on pinterest is not interesting. Well then, please enlighten me as to what you meant by this sentence. It seems fairly clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 10:38 PM
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You're an idiot if you believe that's all women do all day. Some of us actually have a variety of interests. Crazy, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 11:33 PM
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