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you absolutely can wake up and consciously choose to water your relationship everyday. people don’t. they take it for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:28 AM
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because she left long before she left. a lot of women will fight to the death for a relationship trying to save it while the partner ignores all the nagging and pleas and attempts to fix things and it wears the women down to nothing and then she gives up. and that’s right when the dude suddenly wants to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:25 AM
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and it’s the opposite mentality of what i have, that’s the mentality YOU have. i know far more than a couple of nice girls. and i know them all over the place:
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:48 AM
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if any sane girl heard you using terms like “chad” and “high value” and all this dumb shit.. they are going to run…. i assume you are pretty young and absolutely horrendous to be around. you keep proving my point. your views on women are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:24 AM
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these men won’t even engage in the very real, much more serious Disadvantages we have… of course there is advantages in being a woman, but to downplay our disadvantages is where you lose any credibly as someone worth have a dialogue with. getting SA’d constantly and being afraid of violence and death from simply rejecting men sure takes the carefree fun out of it. just because 8 dudes from rural walmart are “hey hey hey-ing” themselves to death in a woman’s inbox on any given day mean we have mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:22 AM
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i don’t relate to those women, but i don’t judge them at all. i am loyal, yeah sure: and ive never cheated in my life. so what… it’s primarily made me a lesson for dudes i dated.. but it hasn’t benefited me in anyway... im certainly putting up with the same amount if crappy men without seeing greece or getting taken care of, i’m not judging them at all.. girl get you to Greece. get those bags pop off on onlyfans girl Yaaaasss. im just not built like that myself and i don’t think it makes me bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:17 AM
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it’s impacting my daughter in middle school because these boys ARE taking it to heart, and you can say they will grow out of it, but the damage is being done and this subreddit is FULL of these grown dudes.. so what if it’s not “real” .. the influence is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:05 AM
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they are not like other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:55 AM
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that’s why i was throwing this out there. my daughter is in middle school and this is having a real life impact on those boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:54 AM
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they are influencing boys to act like this and view dating this way, it’s ALL over this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:52 AM
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i’m not going to lie i got stoned and kept reading “A.K.A won’t get pussy” as a rappers name ….. and i just got loose from that ride and am now aware i should not be trying to comment in this state hahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:51 AM
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i can tell them IMMEDIATELY. and I know from a comment who i would not sleep with even if they were the highest value man and looked like Henry Cavill. it’s the way they talk about women, solely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:49 AM
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attraction and good match are completly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:46 AM
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both seem like outliers…. i am admittedly an outlier myself given my social scene, it’s not going to be the common woman’s experience and i stay aware of that when i’m arguing what women “do” and “don’t” like…. but i’m aware i am an outlier… guys come on here and talk about woman as if they are a hivemind…. like a woman in miami, is the same as a woman in colorado, is the same as a woman in appalachia, is the same as a conservative woman is the same as an alt woman… and all of those largely infl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:45 AM
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i’m talking about the young men they indoctrinate who actually fall for it and then come in here talking crazy everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:37 AM
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so you don’t think these men are cockblocking themselves from women they WOULD actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:17 PM
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then you will reap what you sow and cry when you’re replaced with something better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:11 PM
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i agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:10 PM
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ahhh the putting words in my mouth argument. i didn’t say you wouldn’t “get pussy.” i said it was having an ill intended effect of turning off the women they were trying to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:09 PM
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the amount of men in here openly admitting their disdain for women is … telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:45 PM
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neither do i, not even remotely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:22 PM
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if i heard someone referring to ANY other human as “low” or “high” value, i would immediately lose any interest whatsoever. This Rhetoric is an immediate no, and these type men have no self awareness whatsoever. Women don’t pick “abusers.” They pick men who are good at hiding the fact that they are abusers. Saying they “choose” to be abused makes me so irate. Abusers come in every shape and size, but i guess that doesn’t fit the narrative. good job in here tonight, you articulate yourself better…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:38 AM
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you are wording this really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:29 AM
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who talks like this. you are not someone a good woman would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:06 AM
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i grew up the with crushes that mowed you flat on your ass. i’m only now hearing of this being referred to as “limerence” recently. i thought it was because i was a hopeless romantic with a shitty dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:51 AM
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i don’t relate to these women they describe either. Not even a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:06 PM
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zero chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:01 PM
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because we don’t even need to ask? lol. hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:13 PM
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log in to mine and be shocked and feel real real stupid bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:48 AM
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false.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:21 AM
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i swipe right on personality. so many people are genuinely lacking it that i want to be friends with everyone who has one… i swipe for music taste also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:18 AM
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men do have higher sex drives HOWEVER, the studies that have compared male and female sex drives are flawed because typically a women’s sex drive fluctuates throughout their cycle and it’s made testing a baseline trickier. there’s a few other factors that factor in… we had a discussion the other night about how 25 year old boys fetishize 40 year old women and it happens that their sex drives match pretty well also…. but it’s definitely individualistic…. across the board i’ve met about as many lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:00 AM
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my 50 year old sister looks younger than pearl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:35 PM
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they forget most “other” women exist.. which are the majority, and instead focus on subsets of woman to justify how bad they actualy hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:48 AM
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my life experience would suggest this isn’t gender specific. men are way more into me if i’m bitchy or not interested. i’m not a bitchy person and i spent many a night in the bathtub wondering if i should just pretend to be so as to attract men…. and the answer for me is still no. it’s manipulative, disingenuous and wouldn’t attract the men with the types of heart I want. yeah. it works. for everyone. funny how that works bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:16 AM
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that’s called anecdotal evidence my guy, and it’s a cognitive distortion. There’s a ton of them, and a hefty list of Rhetological fallacies, so maybe trust your brain a little less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:08 AM
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that self awareness is awesome. we like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:04 AM
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B I N G O. and then they have a high chance of pulling an okiedokie on you anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:03 AM
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wait i thought you guys insist we ALL have abundant options and iTs JuST nOT FaIR… then it changes to… until you’re over 30 or a single mom… which is also a warped inaccurate view. All of it. I’ve dated a lot of jerks, and i’m super NOT attracted to jerks. every single fuckin one of them reeled me in by acting like very sweet and thoughtful people, because that IS what i want from a man…. and i bet that scenario is far more common than damaged women who openly like assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:01 AM
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you’re correct. i’d talk to you out of any of these redpillers who don’t understand basic psychology and think less of women if they are easily susceptible to/drawn to abuse. they are MAD at those women? really? MAD AT WOMEN WHO NEED HELP AND ARE EASILY TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF? We are judging victims because they won’t fuck us? This entire depraved mentality really drives home everything i cannot stand about red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:55 AM
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finally, a comment that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:49 AM
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the biggest cringe. ew
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:26 AM
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i will stop everything i’m doing to answer the text of someone i’m into as well. is that being desperate and clingy or just genuinely excited about someone. people are so warped man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:23 AM
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my kindness isn’t conditional on how other people act, it’s because that’s who i am as a person. If that’s not who you are as a person: why did you pretend you were to begin with. you literally prove the “nice guys” theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:19 AM
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keep watching your tate videos buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:12 AM
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women aren’t really into dating men who don’t actually like- like women anymore… as a whole.. and that’s what this person is trying to tell you. that attitude is a turn off and if you think it’s not evident to them.. it is. i am sorry you are frustrated though. it’s hard out here in AND out of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:53 PM
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there’s no denying that wanting beauty and status and money is the leading factor in many other peoples standards as well. also in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:25 PM
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well girls don’t talk about men to other women with that fear, and having these conversations with 272828’s other women over the course of 41 years… you’d be surprised at how simple what women want is…. it’s just that it’s not simple to find… in people of both genders. that’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:22 PM
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yeah. i’m not getting my “peer sample” from reddit. the way you would get wildly differing input from women in Miami vs Women in West Virginia or something… it’s absolutely ridiculous to make blanket statements based on anecdotal evidence and whatever feels right in your head. life’s easier when you figure out there is no black or white answer and it’s more varied and nuance then you’ll ever be able to “hack as a system you can get a leg up”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:18 PM
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this is a subreddit where i’ve noticed men are looking for things to be in black and white so they feel more in control of their dating lives, and it doesn’t work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:08 PM
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and your “sample” of “most comments” here are condensed to 1. women who use reddit. 2. women who come to this specific subreddit… so why you or anyone would think this has any real weight is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:05 PM
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i would never ever date a man who uses the word “simp.” neither would my friends. cringe cringe cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:10 AM
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wow. you sound so confident in your made up facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:14 AM
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i’ve been with that more than that many and i don’t know what you don’t find plausible about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:09 AM
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i was coming here to say this. you did it so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:43 PM
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i see it both ways. enough that i stopped believing in leagues in 2003. i thought it was pretty black and white before that… but no… to my surprise I saw both ends everywhere i lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:38 AM
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bro we see that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:24 AM
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so you want to be with someone who is with you for your looks…..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:38 AM
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if you are picking up women at them gym on a regular basis.. it implies you are either attractive OR charismatic… in which case a lot of women are going to be open to talking. you can be average or straight up wonky looking, but if you have that wit and charisma… you’re going to slay. That’s what a lot of men miss in here. women DO go for physically unattractive guys WHEN they have characteristics that are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:08 AM
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you get it Eugene, you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:49 AM
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i would say my lived experience as a woman has shown me it’s decidedly NOT a laughable small amount. But since Tom knows exactly what it’s like to walk around in a woman’s body.. what do i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:44 AM
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i mean. i think it was men who coined the term “butter face”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:22 PM
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running a list in your head of things you’re running out of, appointments for you, your partner, the kids, and other things you need to do to keep your household running.. ESPECIALLY if you have kids… deep cleaning. even my tidiest partners did not do deep cleaning, they did surface cleaning. there’s a bunch of articles about this.. women don’t even want to live with their partners anymore…. and this comment above you is EXACTLY WHY. the majority of men don’t understand what “invisible work” is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:57 AM
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why do you keep saying “rare”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:45 PM
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loads and loads of women are into that tall waify musician look. loooooooooooooads… it’s absolutely not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:27 PM
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yeah… you learn pretty early on that even if you lower your standards they will treat you poorly as well. why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:15 PM
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i used to think most men preferred underweight women… until i walked outside into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:13 PM
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shhh don’t tell them this, they got it all figured out 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:07 PM
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OH DAMN
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:55 PM
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yeah what a rapey perspective. i just can’t help myself, i have to fuck it, it’s BiOloGy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:50 PM
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pretty much exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:48 PM
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your evidence? also, are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:12 PM
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it’s a red flag because it’s used primarily by red pill douchebags and no one else. that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:39 PM
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100 thousand percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:37 PM
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as a teen in the 90’s, i can bear firsthand testament that it’s done A LOT for women and society… which is ironically now why a lot of boys in here think we don’t need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:34 PM
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🙌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:31 PM
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from my experience, you’re taking a real gamble on any choice.. made at any time.. unless its someone you’ve already known years. People put on fronts and they don’t come down until it’s too late. the whole thing is scary. the only thing any of us can do is be kind to eachother and keep our eyes as open as we can. No one is stupider than when blindly in love… thanks brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:59 PM
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this subreddit alone has made me lose a good portion of faith in humanity. and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:40 PM
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how is it different master edward. no connection is no connection. no option is no option. you are SERIOUSLY overestimating the number of humans that are even datable. meeting a nice genuine guy is just as difficult as meeting a nice genuine girl because nice genuine people are hard to come by. no option is no option. and can be excruciatingly lonely waiting around for decent people to even enter the chat, so to speak. i’ve been so lonely and sexually frustrated i wanted to kyle punch the drywal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:55 AM
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what do you mean? isn’t the entire narrative how it’s NOT a challenge for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:39 AM
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oh we are comparing people to apartments now. if you can’t meet anyone who doesn’t suck.. you are miserable and lonely too….? why do so many men in here think this doesn’t happen to women all the time… no option is no option. no option is no parter. no partner is being alone. if you want a bunch of women you’re not interested in JUST so you have the “option” of being alone... lower your standards a bit… maybe try toothless tammy and her friends over at walmart. you have options. you just don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:38 AM
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this is where this whole subreddit of men start to disgust me. no option is no option. you guys are more concerned with the lack of ATTENTION… if 12 shitty options is a deck you’ll settle for.. then suddenly how badly men treat women sometimes can be explained by how many women were simply settled for. gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:26 AM
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ok dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:22 AM
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12 crappy options = NO options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:21 AM
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oh yeah? you there or is that what your buddies tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:20 AM
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“keep your legs closed” …. ok buddy. 😂 i’m here to impress you. i bet you’re so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:20 AM
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not an outlier… have so many girlfriends who deal with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:13 AM
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choice of what? crappy option 1 - 12 ?… cool… right.. it’s a good time.. super easy. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:05 AM
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finding.. people… you click with… sexually.. or relationship potential… is wildly difficult. the MAJORITY of people suck, let’s not pretend the world is chock full of great options. good people are the exception, not the rule. it doesn’t matter if you have 5 or 50 options of all of them are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:03 AM
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meeting people you are compatible with for EITHER sex OR a relationship is fuckin difficult bro… for everyone… the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:00 AM
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thank you for this post. it’s tiring to hear such black and white perspectives constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:58 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:43 AM
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maybe i’m the exception but i couldn’t really know… i think lying is awful, and most people don’t realize how easy accountability actually is. I don’t cheat. i’ve been cheated on and i wouldn’t cause that pain in someone else. lots of dudes in here saying all girls say that. i don’t give a shit. i haven’t. don’t be in a relationship if you don’t respect them. communicate you want an open relationship if that’s what you want. i’ve had a ton of partners. i like sex. so what. i’m a retired hoe now …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:40 AM
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Whhham
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:33 AM
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i’m in trouble/responsible for others womens actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:32 AM
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there’s so much nuance. Sex isn’t as important to some people in a relationship as it is to others, and in my experience it’s been varied across both genders. I will not settle for a subpar sex life… it’s important to me as much as other comparability dealbreakers. That’s just me, though. I never stop being shocked and dismayed at how WRONG the dudes in here are in their misconceptions of women. It’s just so far from what i’ve experienced as an actual woman, around actual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:40 AM
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i’m not into Chads myself, so that really doesn’t hold weight for me as anything negative. we become better not bitter, AbeBacon, ok.. so let’s do that. people suck. and since we are people, we suck too, so hopefully you’re out here trying to identify your sucky parts and suck less.. because that’s all we have control of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:34 AM
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so not well, is what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:02 AM
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i thought i had amazing sex. until i had AMAZING SEX.. and then again till i had @&@;)wtf sex… and then again till i had &&;$&&@wtf sex. I think she’s overestimating how often people have THAT chemistry.. because i’d have never experienced it had i left it at 5… 10… 20… i’d have not known. chemistry, feelings, connection, etc.. all different variables.. i’d have not know you can love someone with every fiber of your soul and have a mediocre sex life.. and then have the most intimate connected se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:01 AM
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better ask each other this regularly!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:41 AM
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i don’t know.. if i hadn’t been promiscuous in my 20’s.. i wouldn’t have experienced what sex CAN be.. and then would have settled for some pretty subpar sex in relationships. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:32 PM
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more recent studies have started accounting for not factoring in on womens sex drives in context to their cycle in previous studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:29 PM
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yeah but does she like you very much…? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:27 PM
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do you do well with women, Abe?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:39 PM
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and terms like “butter face”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:37 PM
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you approach as equals bringing the strengths of feminine and masculine to the same table creating a balance. (in cis relationships) no one is wearing the pants. no one is leading. we are a team. i would not want to be led. it’s not necessary for being desired and taken care of. … you take care of eachother.. you choose eachother every day consciously. THATS romantic. my dude makes me take my vitamins, tries to make me drink pond water supplements and I wash his hair for him.. He cooks, i organi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:17 PM
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i actually feel horrible down to my soul for women who get into marriages with men they aren’t sexually compatible with, or who in general just suck or are selfish. Which in my experience, has been the majority…. because they don’t know what they COULD have… but i guess that would be what men are most afraid of in a woman’s promiscuity… because with no stds or repurcussions, the purity bullshit is on the same note.. a stroke to your ego. men who want to be the womens one and only everything need…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:01 PM
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rarely. the “us vs them” thing they have going on in here is also kind of worrisome. There is only one type of women in their eyes and that’s is where the base everything they “know”… like have you been outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:45 AM
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wow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:43 AM
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wow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:42 AM
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why do you think it’s unattractive to women? Don’t you think it will be a natural filter for the type of women you would want to partner with anyways? I don’t think it’s unattractive. someone women do. those aren’t your people. fukkem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:39 AM
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i read it. i disagree with a good portion, but i read it. you are really downplaying the amount of influence psychological factors play in things like “staying with an abuser.” obviously it’s so duh.. like DUH ya stupid idiot why would you CHOOSE that..? um well because that’s not how brains work.. and a brain that’s been beaten down and abused believes they can’t do better. That’s the main goal of abusers of both genders. Break them down. i would also counter that men reward shitty behavior in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:38 AM
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weird how that’s also been my experience as a female. we should look into that. probably like.. a human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:30 AM
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this is all influenced by so many things including region! I was speaking with a man and found out he was in Miami.. of course all of his experience is going to include a certain type of women. i bet they DO give a shit if your six foot and have money.. that’s a scene that is large there… you’ll probably meet a wider spectrum of women in appalachia that wouldn’t give two shits about it. A man from either place is going to perceive the women as the standard from which to pull all their opinions… …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:28 AM
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yet you all argue with every single female perspective that comments in here. every day. all day. women CONSTANTLY come in here and say what they want think and feel and you guys CONSTANTLY DISMISS IT. You speak amongst yourselves, who literally admit to struggling with interpretations.. and then take other mens opinions as canon. then you speak in absolutes.. about women. all women. none of this is reality. It’s actually bananas. this subreddit is a whole other world in some whole other reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:11 AM
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who are these women you’re speaking for. what women. what is your sample group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:39 AM
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glad someone is calling out the black and white thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:27 AM
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it does.. but it’s not been a party for me or the women i know either… it makes you more hopeless and discouraged than anything, “match number” or not. and i always tell women to not download it unless they want to end up depressed. and of course this is because “women think they are worth too much nowadays” and not because 99% of the guys in a two hour radius of me should be on farmersonly.com instead and the handful that aren’t are lacking in personality. men have it hard but it’s really tires…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:02 AM
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how is your reading comprehension Kentucky, because i said good women were the minority too. None of you guys will ever find them though, because you’re in here acting misogynistic and entitled and GROSS.. and it’s laughable because they just CANT figure out why they are struggling. There are so many awesome men in my social circle and none of them are. hmmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:46 AM
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and are confused as to why they are struggling. I am so grateful for the cool ass men who come in here and speak up because they don’t listen to shit any of the women say.. which… because of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:41 AM
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i adore my partner, but the majority of ya… ugh, no. hard no.. He just came back from spending six months exclusively around men and came back sickened by how they talk about women and said if he didn’t see it before, he sees it now. like as with women, good men are in the minority. sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:40 AM
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you need to be on a watchlist jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:28 AM
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“WOMEN HAD REALISTIC STANDARDS OF THEIR WORTH” gee. i wonder why he’s struggling 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:27 AM
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y’all just suck. i’ve seen a wave of intolerance for bullshit happening and it’s been glorious to watch. and if you don’t know what the “bullshit” is.. then really you should sit down and stop assuming you know what life is like as a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:25 AM
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oh yes. that’s all we care about. all of us. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:17 AM
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they didn’t when i was young either? haven’t seen them last long ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:14 AM
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none of these people live in the real world. i’m convinced they are all 20 and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:13 AM
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the advocation for womens rights… which are still very newish in us history… does not automatically mean mens rights aren’t important or supported. this is exactly like when “black lives matter” came about.. the “all lives matter” crowd came out in response because they couldn’t logically deduce that it was a statement on them not having historically mattered and wasn’t at all inferring anyone else’s didn’t. historically this country has treated women badly. We aren’t even out of the woods with …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:12 AM
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is this like when the MEN finally let my grandma and all the other women here in the US have a bank account in the sixties, or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:08 AM
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since fuckin when doesn personality not matter. delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:03 AM
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i mean.. biologically speaking, women were typically mating with multiple people at once in primitive culture to increase the chances of procreation… it’s been speculated that the tip of the penis is shaped that way as a scoop.. to remove other mens semen and prioritize theirs, you know.. alpha male stuff 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:01 AM
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yeeeeeeah. no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:56 AM
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this is something that’s a common occurance? because i am pretty sure it’s the most disturbing thing i’ve read all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:51 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:08 PM
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it’s not personal in a way that hurts when you understand what i said. it might be you specifically in that moment but it’s you and everyone else they encounter that fits that criteria. someone not being attracted to you is personal only in the manner that you fit into a larger concept of what they do not find attractive and spans across a lot of people than just you. so i am wondering in what manner you are finding this a negative mark on your value or person.. even from person rejecting you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:44 PM
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if they reject you because they are into thick women and you’re too skinny.. does that mean somethings wrong with you, or is it personal preference based on influences in their life? If someone rejects you because you have a lot of personality and it’s too much for them, does that mean somethings wrong with you? If someone finds my face unattractive, does that mean there’s something wrong with me? Because others are attracted to those same things…. it’s not personal. I am not attracted to people…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:58 PM
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i am rejected all the time. it’s not personal. every single person has been influenced their entire lives by different things and have different preferences. what’s for one, is not for another.. and that has nothing to do with ME. why would you make it about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:44 AM
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i do all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 AM
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good question because all of those signals, i do with everyone. i make eye contact and i talk excited and smile a lot and ask questions.. i fidget and forget the two feet personal space rule.. you’ll know because i’ll ask you to hang out.. ya think a girl who is interested in you is going to let you disappear into the abyss? … in this economy? not me. no sir. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 AM
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rejection isn’t personal anyways. ya don’t want date them anyways, they aren’t for you. toodleloo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:32 AM
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READ THE ROOM. perfect. i’d further that by saying open the conversation briefly then go do your own thing. come back once at most with casual banter.. go do your own thing. after than if she wants to talk, she will come find you because you already broke the ice and the hardest part is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:30 AM
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i wouldn’t bag either of those men for a million dollars. only certain types of women can turn on their attraction for money and status. if i’m not attracted to someone i can’t even kiss them let alone fuck them and i don’t care if it’s means i never have to worry. if this was the case i have a few phone calls i could make..: my life would be easy af. plenty of women are like that but are you telling me those are your idea if quality women? because most of them men in my social circles would not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:17 AM
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cool story alpha beta delta omega tod.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:08 PM
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again.. taking accountability and self examination in recognizing patterns is important.: but that doesn’t mean that manipulating those people who haven’t got to that point in their journely is ok or acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:02 PM
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laughing during sex is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:36 AM
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sounds like more victim blaming. guys lead you on to get in your pants all the time. it’s outright manipulation. if they were honest about their intentions and communicated them like a mature transparent man; that’s different; but that’s not what usually happens. you’re basically standing here doing huurrrr duuur you stupid dumbass you chose that. you hardly hear men saying it because, as you say in here, the desperation for sex isn’t as strong and the “many” other options available make “using”…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:33 AM
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how are you supposed to know which one he perceives you as. because this might also differ man to man. where does the fact that women want and need sex too, and shouldn’t be held to a different standard for “waiting” or not come in. you can want casual sex and a relationship at the same time. that ends when you actually start a relationship with someone though if that’s the terms of your agreement. this seems to be an accepted norm for men, but when it’s a girl, she just getting played and playi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:51 AM
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you already said it super succinctly. the men answer for the women, and when the women answer anything different than their perceived truth, she’s wrong or it’s simply dismissed. everything must fit in a little box so they can understand it and thus feel like they have control through a solved riddle. not control as in controlling.. but the sort of control we all want to feel because the anxiety of uncertainty is godawful. there’s a huge cry to validate their suffering while they refuse to valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:46 AM
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isn’t that universal though? liking the one who doesn’t like you, not being into the one who does.. this is a trope i see play out all over the board with men and women. and there is a lot of variables that influence that. what do you mean when you say “leagues” it’s very strange in here how there seems to be need to neatly categorize people into little boxes and then stack them up according to whatever “value” is valuable to them. people aren’t below or above you. or me. what makes someone valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:36 AM
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the “old women” the “old women” says the person who claims to respect women. loooooooort. for every old women in here trying to offer insight.. there’s a Ramzabeo and y’all don’t listen to him either. echo chamber is EXACTLY what you want. otherwise you would be open to hearing other people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:08 AM
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oh for SURE. we are both like this too. we both have very silly personalities. He makes weird little things and weird little notes for his friends too, it’s really endearing. i am fully grateful and i try to make sure he knows it. i spent months on one of those tiny 3x5? sketchbooks where i hand drew something significant about, or that has happened in our relationship and gave it to him for christmas. i had his late brothers childhood drawings made into patches, and there’s a bigger art book th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:47 AM
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the fact that people in here seem to not understand everyone laughs at dudes who use terms like “beta” is so sadly tone deaf. Its the top of red flag vernacular. Women are repulsed by men like that tate guy and I think that’s been made pretty clear lately. absolutely tool. the incel red piller is now a household term… so good luck with all that Tod the Rod01. please stay away from women this is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:35 AM
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i’m not entirely sure there isn’t something up there already. i came home one time and he had used one of those internet sites that let you print out dozens of sheets of paper than you assemble into a mural.. so the entire wall in my foyer was burt reynolds for almost a year 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:26 AM
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as soon as i was done typing all that a scenario played out that might support what i’m talking about. i am walking around stressed tf out because i can’t find my tweezers and i have FIVE huge black unsightly hairs on my chinny chin chin … and because i have an unreasonably conventionally attractive boyfriend, apparently making him high value, and i am constantly being told if i don’t maintain my looks he will move on to younger fresher meat because my value as a woman has plummeted at 40 becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:52 PM
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also, red pill man, i don’t think all Red pill men are toxic, i think there are a small subset who are genuinely confused and looking for guidance. they just REFUSE to take it from women and that sort of explains a lot huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:38 PM
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i can’t imagine blue pillers having those views of women.. but there’s always a chance im misinterpreting the term “blue piller” to be the opposite of red piller in perspectives but maybe i am wrong. I think they are thought of as more progressive, liberal male feminists types. i think what red pillers would call simps or something rediculous they shame them with. I don’t know.. they seem to attract women for obvious reasons. who would be better to observe you in a dating environment? the people…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:37 PM
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let’s change “attractive” with “confident” from here on out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:23 PM
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who gave anyone control over anyone? our fragile egos that long to be liked and accepted DUH. this is true for both genders. to say shame SHOULDNT affect someone doesn’t mean it doesn’t. it absolutely buries people in toxic cycles. who gave men control over women? i mean my grandma was the first generation of women to be ALLOWED to have a bank account, for christs sake Duriel. whether or not we are oppressed that way now doesn’t mean that those attitudes have phased thier way out of society yet.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:18 PM
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people suck. probably your automatic defense mechanism. understandable and your byline happens to be in my head pretty often.. i think because i am tickled pink by the way she says “SHEESH!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:47 PM
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honestly i don’t slut shame. it is my opinion that there are some ethical codes you should maybe be implementing. generally it’s, do what you want, be safe and don’t hurt other people. edited because my grammar has become mortifyingly abysmal and i always catch it after “send” this is my forever disclaimer and apology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:44 PM
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social skills are at least something that can be learned. yeah, some people are just born naturally charismatic and that trait is a godsend for attracting people without looks status or money.. charisma is absolutely intoxicating but you can develop a good personality… and a lot of that will come naturally with confidence. There is a point where you get to a level of confidence where rejection doesn’t even FEEL like rejection.. it’s not personal. you aren’t their thing, so what, onward to someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:25 PM
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i would 100% not recommend a PUA those guys are so skeezy. A dating coach, maybe.. your best bet is to figure out how to gain self assurance and confidence and letting rejection hold no weight with you. regardless if your friends are successful in dating, i hope you have some that can be open and honest with you about where you might need some polishing. those kind of friendships are important, and if you don’t have those kind of friends, i encourage you to find them. My friends have no issue ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:58 PM
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well ed started coming in almost daily for a few months and then just regularly.. so i saw a lot of Ed’s personality. He would even come during the day and bring us lunch because he worked at the bank next door. the boy is precious. his social skills with women were horrendous.. he had social skills with other guys because of both his endearing qualities and the fact that being somewhat cringey is a phase a lot of guys go through in college so it wasn’t a detriment for him in that area. he was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:45 PM
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slut shaming? homeboy i have a BODY count. i love sluts. GET IT. i am saying you can be both things. you can be a slut and the type of person who can be monogamous if they want to. i encourage the fun. be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:36 PM
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oh some of us do live in fantasy land.. that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:17 PM
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“i don’t think it’s as many as you think” i disagreed. more news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:16 PM
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well then read my second to last comment where someone asked me to detail what guys succeeded in cold approaches at the bar and which ones didn’t.. in my EIGHTEEN-NIGHTEEN years of observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:15 PM
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Ed was a patron of mine.. a younger college aged guy who started coming in regularly. your average mediocre white male… Ed was one of the most ENDEARING and genuinely sweet men i’ve ever met and it was killing me to watch him strike out with the ladies. Ed’s problem was he is tone deaf and the things that would come out of his mouth were so goddamn painfully douchey it ran off the women he wanted to talk to. watching this over and over i finally was like fuck it.. Ed. i can’t stand it anymore. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:12 PM
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personality and confidence hands down. not arrogant confidence, no cocky confidence.. just the self assurance to approach women and not view rejection as a personal comment on his worth or value. The way these guys DID handle rejection when it happened was actually so attractive in and of itself, i can’t explain it. the successful men also didn’t cold approach women in a creepy, lingery, over bearing way either.. they seemed to be able to read the room and engaged in an introduction and then bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:04 PM
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edit.. no one is curving average guys with incredible personalities.. if i’m curving someone it’s because i’m not attracted to them for some reason that doesn’t fit your idiotic narrative… have rich hot guy trying to date me currently and i’m not attracted to him… that’s not the first time that’s happened in my life.. attraction is so much more multifaceted than your are claiming. the hottest girl at my high school went to prom with someone people thought was one of the least attractive men. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:51 PM
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i invite you to my bar. i will introduce you to the women i know who have zero standards. i’m 5 minutes from west virginia, but the bar i’m talking about has a whole other level of women.. the type that gamble at 2 in the afternoon. That’s not a dig on west virginia i am a fan of appalachia.. that just happens to be where those women congregate, go in there and tel me you can’t get laid.. and then get the fuck out of my fave if you think the majority of male attention women have to deal with isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:45 PM
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pretty privilege is absolutely real… and i found this out by discovering I had it by LOSING IT when i got heavy for a brief period of time. The way I was treated was NIGHT AND DAY different. I wasn’t smiled at or given friendly banter, doors were not held open, (i live and die by holding doors open for people so that was noticible to me immediately) men didn’t even look at you when talking to you.. people didn’t respond when you said hi or opened conversation with them.. like it was eye opening …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:37 PM
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you have plenty of options too, in reality.. you just aren’t interested in them. FACTS. lonely desperate women fuckin everywhere but you don’t bang them. how is that different? attention does not equate to ease of getting sex. take your ass to the small bar over the state line in west virginia near me, and you’ll get laid… ahhhhh but your standards. we don’t want to fuck weird guys name todd barking in our inbox or constanly say ayyye girl i like your TATS and this is us having options? then fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:25 PM
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nelson.. again.. false. not true for everyone. endlessly seeing girls upset because the guy they are seeing doesn’t want a relationship or if in a relationship., anything more. jesus christ i lived that scenario a hundred times over MYSELF. THIS IS NOT GENDER EXCLUSIVE WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU GUYS. black and white thinking is a cognitive distortion and shoving everything into that frame to try and understand isn’t going to make you understand it. Because it’s not fuckin real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:19 PM
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how old are you? i am a bartender, cold approach is happening CONSTANTLY and successfully in some cases. I watch couples meet all the time and then start coming in together.. it’s not a rarely seen occurance. it happens. and then i get to watch it play out when one of them comes in complaining (or not) about the relationship at the bar, or watch one of them get drunk and cheat on the other. what you see as a bartender is … everything. 🤣. the guys who approach women and succeed and the ones who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:11 PM
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bring “attracted” to someones physical attributes does not mean they have match the societal idea of beauty. have been wildly attracted to objectively “not great looking men” several times. they were hot to me… that being said.. there are people who don’t even require the physical attraction be present first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:04 PM
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where in anything she said did you infer this outside of bitter bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:00 PM
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you know.. i don’t think i even factored in the fact that cold approaches might be more rare now.. that’s the only way to do it when i was growing up, so it permeated everything as the natural and normal thing to do. Thank you for bringing that to my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:59 PM
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that’s kind of why i don’t feel validated by anyone complimenting a picture of me whatsoever. never have. they don’t know if they would be attractive to me in person, i could open my mouth and say something and be unattractive to them in 20 seconds or less. also people never look like their pictures. thank god for video chatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:56 PM
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“but but but tinder studies show…” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:53 PM
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man you guys will bend your brain every which way to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:52 PM
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bro what are you talking about… meeting anyone at a party doesnt automatically make them “vouched for” or safe? what in the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:52 PM
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i’m going to venture and say nearly all my relationships were a result of a cold approach. mutual attraction is sometimes really obvious and i think that gives people the confidence to go for it. it’s not always obvious for people who ruminate in self doubt but there’s pretty neon flags in “initial” attraction. whether you wake up a day or too later uninterested after getting a better glimpse at their personality.. … the initial attraction is easy to spot. past that it’s anyones guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:50 PM
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my insecurities are not an excuse to control someone else. those are my deficit and if they are founded or realized in that person there’s was nothing going to stop that person from cheating on me anyways … you can’t and should not control other people because of your own fears. What your ideas of respect are should be discussed but with the understanding it’s never your place to tell someone else what they can and can’t do, if you don’t trust your partner, why are you with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:41 PM
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i second that, however i counter with the idea that biologically wanting to feel desirable is completely natural and if you’re in a healthy relationship it’s not a threat to either of you. i’ll send my boyfriend out there knowing he gets hit on and not in any sort of denial it’s probably a little thrilling… but i also don’t believe people are possessions or that all human wants and needs can be fulfilled by one person, and that’s ok, that’s not threatening. i lean poly in that manner… even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:35 PM
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then you must dial it up to a 10 on Qveen Herbys “sugar daddy” hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:30 PM
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beauty is largely subjective my friend. and changes with societies influence over different epochs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:28 PM
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yooo i wish i was 5’10… imagine being able to see literally anything in a crowd. sign me up for gorilla life so i don’t need a stool to get in my cabinets. i hate it down here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:26 PM
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men can get sex easy too then. droves of nasty desperate women out there. go get yourself sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:24 PM
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you’re operating under a wild assumption that i myself am not queer. that’s how much tunnel vision you have needing that to justify you taking that as an insult. bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:56 PM
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he could have been a horrible partner when he was younger? da fuq? VERY TELLING that you take the suggestion of being gay as an insult. i don’t think it’s an insult but good to know you do. classic homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 PM
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expecting advanced self awareness from the majority of humans is a futile endeavor. most people can’t hear anything bad about themselves whatsoever. i’m not those people. tell me how i suck so i know where to investigate improvement. you’ve done me a service here is a coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:19 AM
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sorry. i was replying to the statement about educated therapists calling out men for attracting toxic women but you seem to think women are not called out for it. By therapist. by friends. by family. by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:14 AM
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comin in red hot once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:45 AM
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i appreciate the honesty and self awareness. you do you buddy. have fun and be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:43 AM
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oddly specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:42 AM
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straight men are sexually attacted to women, but don’t like them very much. it’s more a conquest number to impress other MEN. not all men. that guy up there happily married probably doesn’t give a shit what his buddies think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:40 AM
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women are programmed with the same biological need for sexual variety..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:39 AM
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in which case the hypothetical that’ it must be one and not the other is moot. you can be a man whore who eventually grows into a loving husband who genuinely respect and gets excited about his wife. people.. they contain multitudes… or whatever Whitman said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:38 AM
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in what what’s does it benefit women as a whole. that’s exactly the opposite if everything i’ve ever read. im genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:35 AM
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i agree.. this is the seventh idiotic take i’ve seen you really think you did something on tonight. i’m sure this has NOTHING to do with why you struggle with the ladies. 😬 ugly as shit men out there getting sex left and right, this is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:25 AM
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there is a widely believed notion that they will never achieve sex with a beautiful woman because life has put them in an impossible disadvantage .. especially not a Thrrrrreeeesome… and i’m like yo… have you even walked outside .. or i dunno.: visited a poly community? and then i saw your tag, poly chad. 😂 i know so so so many not even remotely good looking guys out there absolutely swimming in “the pussy” as they say. DROWNING in it. with no money or status whatsoever. it defies every truth th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:20 AM
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they really are disgusting in here huh. imagine thinking you were entitled to chunks of someone’s nonrefundable lifetime, to be used as a placeholder or last resort. i imagine that relationship is WAY better than being alone… where is the logic. is everyone here 8 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:10 AM
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and that’s why they can cheat on you so easy. they settled on you. what a good feeling. would upgrade at your expense the minute it was available.. but it’s better than them being alone tho right? um. please do not do that to people because you’re afraid of being alone; that’s fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:08 AM
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are we villianizing someone ending a relationship with someone they weren’t married to at the time? and then judging both of them for reuniting ten freakin years later and different stages in their life? is that guy pathetic for feeling pain? is that women a monster for ending their relationship a DECADE prior?? man y’all are toxic as hell. oh wait.. ridiculing him for being a “simp” or whatever you douches call it. My grandfather is the same way about my grandmother. they’ve been together since…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:03 AM
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the only way there is respect shared in that dynamic, is if a woman is sexually turn on by being submissive and this is all agreed upon in the beginning. otherwise it’s an unhealthy power balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:00 AM
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i’ve been recently wondering if some womens preference for their partner to be taller is some sort of unconscious influence of a preferred power dynamic. the want to be smaller. i’m not saying that is you, your comment reminded me of it. what do you think? what, at its core, inspires that as an ideal trait for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:57 AM
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i spent six months sexually frustrated and mad at tinder so i disagree with the women have it so easy thing. yeah i had options. no i cannot sleep with just anyone. when i was younger i was wildly promiscuous but im in some sort of forced hoe retirement and i apparently need a lot to share that intimacy with someone, although i have no regrets with my past and would 10/10 do it again. it’s was FUN af. i think what happened was i had SOOOOO much fun with no health repercussions and i feel like i …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:53 AM
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the increasing evidence that women need as much sexual variety as men. and they have been finding women need it sooner in LTR, which is not what we’ve all thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:47 AM
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the power of shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:44 AM
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i see objectively “ugly” men (by societies standards) achieving this all the time in the poly community.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:43 AM
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not true in my case thankfully. at some point you learn that the need for chaos and excitement is basically a form of trauma bonding where your brain is addicted to the frequent and sudden extreme fluctuations between dopamine and cortisol. if you aren’t able to call yourself out and recognize your toxic patterns and behaviors, you shouldn’t be in a relationship anyways. Part of the problem is no one has laid out what’s actually happening for these people and i doubt many people recreationally r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:42 AM
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to be honest you should both be into changing. constantly. growth is important and lifelong. that’s a both of you thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:33 AM
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finding someone with compatible hygiene habits is massively important in a relationship. i mean i think a daily shower sounds exhausting so i’m not the one for you, but i like that you added that as an important factor for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:31 AM
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i no longer judge women who can be with someone only for their money anymore. and i used to in my 20’s, rather harshly. I have an cousin who is much younger and gorgeous. She moved to LA and became an escort and now literally travels the world. Meanwhile her friends are back home getting cheated on by doogong potato boys and visiting mcdonald’s. This bitch is in Greece. good on you girl. life is hard. get yourself to greece. i wish i was in greece at that age but instead i was engaged to a guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:26 AM
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i do not share this fantasy. but i appreciate you sharing yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:04 AM
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more like a level of significance than “better”. having achieved something others deem as impressive. women are endlessly redicule for being attracted to the bad boy walking red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:03 AM
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no they aren’t. i have three very old “spinsters” in my family and they have a goddamn blast. you don’t “need” someone to feel fulfilled and happy. Being single is pretty great and i love living alone when i’ve had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:00 AM
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you’re right.. people act like being a spinster is the worst thing that can happen to you… then we find out our grandparents marriages weren’t the old fashion romances we thought, the women couldn’t leave because they weren’t allowed to have bank accounts.. and then suddenly you realized everything else you’ve been led to believe is total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:58 AM
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how did you entirely miss what she was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:56 AM
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doesn’t sound like an equal partnership based in reality and respect. always willing? what does that even mean? I don’t expect my dude to be always willing bruh what if his gramma just died or he isn’t in the right mind space at that time. why do you describe your fantasy as just having a submissive partner.. i mean it’s your fantasy… but christ give them some agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:55 AM
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and y’all mad girls are a bit choosier knowing guys are like that? which not all guys are, btw. the biology of sex is pretty standard and well known.. sex is physical for a man. it is emotional for a woman. that is fact. some guys are emotional and some women are emotionless but the biological predisposition is the difference between it being an emotional and physical event. that’s why a lot of guys can just fuck anyone and a lot of girls can’t. which answers a lot of the same questions being as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:52 AM
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what does he have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:48 AM
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there’s a dozen other replies that aren’t a disney romance trope. but I suspect this will be the one latched on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:47 AM
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really.. because that’s not the case for the women in here with good partners… and it can easily be said it’s the same for men being attracted to crappy women. don’t play the i’m a “nice guy” victim card. i have a nice guy and he wouldn’t say any of the shit i hear on here about women. not in a million years. the bitter barely concealed dislike of women isn’t going to attract the nice women you are looking for, and i keep trying to tell you guys this to help you out. ultimately you be open to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:46 AM
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we are. and we pay dearly for it, and then we try to talk about it and are told to shut up, our lives are easy. there are lot of reasons people pick bad partners and it’s not conscious until to you get to a point in your growth where you recognize the patterns so i don’t judge anyone for it from either gender. it also sometimes happens that you date someone you haven’t known for years and people can pull an okie dokie on you out of nowhere a year into a relationship.. now people are gonna shame …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:40 AM
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we are in happy relationships with good men, but experienced alllllll the bad ones before this. why the bitter comments? because we have met alllllll the terrible ones, and have been ran through the mud by them.. cheated on, ghosted, dishonesty, abuse, power plays, jealousy and insecurity control issues.. and we found men who aren’t like that which … by the way IS hard to find. as hard as it is for you to find decent women… because most people aren’t decent people and that’s just facts. sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:33 AM
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maybe as someone in a successful relationship and also a women with experience, with you know.. life and .. being a women, could possible afford you some insight on all these wild questions you have about women that you for some reason rather cling to some other clueless unhappy confused males theories on what being an women is like. also what do you think 40 feels like? do you have this expectation that it feels different than 20? i still wear the same things, like the same things, go to shows.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:27 AM
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sounds like “older” womens input would be more valuable to you having lived through all of it and met 3738484 times more women then you have. i didn’t assume it’s all 20 year olds in here. the last guy i was talking to in here was fifty fricken three. which also isn’t even that old but the ageism is real holy moley.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:18 AM
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me too. 40 and in an awesome relationship. you can offer these boys insight but it will never matter. i am almost hypnotized by things they say … like in the post itself “i know women can get sex easy” like.. they are just so confident in their knowledge of women and it couldn’t be more wrong 89% of the time. luckily there are some in here that give me hope because they are open and don’t come across as openly hostile towards women and do not parrot the generic assumptions made by everyone else.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:15 AM
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finding a partner who puts in all the effort needed in a successful partnership and treats the relationship like a team.. not you vs. me… us vs the problem. Invests in things like identifying each other’s communication patterns and understanding where someone’s coming from instead of taking things at face value. mutual accountability and patience. makes me feel beautiful because i know he genuinely thinks so even though i am don’t feel like i am, shared vulnerability and transparency. making sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:09 AM
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you accused her of not understanding the life men lead without an hint of irony in not knowing the life women lead beyond your assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:07 AM
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anecdotal biases? do you know what it’s like to be a woman? because these are universally shared experiences if you ARE a women. that’s not a community of people complaining they aren’t getting laid, that’s women who are vocal about the actual realities of being a woman. of course they hate men. you would be dead on your ass to know how many women are and have been sexually assaulted. almost all of them to some varying degree. men are assaulted too; and i am very vocal about that as well because…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:02 AM
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how do you automatically like people? is it because you automatically trust them to not take advantage of you, so there’s no precautionary skepticism and feeling it out period? you haven’t had to be selective for your safety? i have a 12 year old daughter and i literally lie awake at night terrified for her, knowing what it’s like to be a women in this world. knowing what’s happened to me and the vast majority of women i know.. knowing what she’s facing. The fact that she’s beautiful doesn’t mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:31 AM
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how do you automatically like people? is it because you automatically trust them to not take advantage of you, so there’s no precautionary skepticism and feeling it out period? you haven’t had to be selective for your safety? i have a 12 year old daughter and i literally lie awake at night terrified for her, knowing what it’s like to be a women in this world. knowing what’s happened to me and the vast majority of women i know.. knowing what she’s facing. The fact that she’s beautiful doesn’t mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:31 AM
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they are the other half .. of the couple.. so 50% of the success demographic….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:10 AM
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i was just reading an article that supports that. it seems to be working just fine for men too, since there are two parts that make up a successful couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:53 PM
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chances are you wouldn’t be interested in 99 out of a 100 of the likers. and then as life goes.. the one you did like turns out to be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:34 PM
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The amount of guys who come in here who are very bitter and very clearly do not actually like women. The ones who come in here with so much ego that they cannot hear anything that challenges their narrative. The ones who have the audacity to assume to know what it’s like to be a woman. That whine because women have it easier. the barely contained entitlement and bitterness. The stupid ass value scales. Then endless commentary that talks down about women. the. endless. talking. down. on. women. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:31 PM
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dating is actually freakin horrible. BECAUSE most people suck. woman don’t walk around aware of the leverage. it’s hard for us and at least for me and the women i know, it’s a constant struggle to meet someone who is a decent person. I’ve been cheated on in every relationship i’ve ever been in except two. and men started wanting longer relationships when i started being mean. i’m not mean and i hated seeing the difference so in my face. it was discouraging. it’s a struggle to find a partner that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:19 PM
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thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:24 AM
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24 thousand upvotes for you. Predisposed universal “most women” blah blah blah. any and every single time a woman’s view is shared in here, it’s dismissed or argued. the women are answering and it doesn’t fit the narrative, so they are clearly outliers or bullshit. every. single. time. claim after claim about women. no input from actual women accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:23 AM
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so hugh hefner was a HVM? to what women? those ones? that’s the women you’re basing this all on? the kind of women who are into that sort of shit? the subset of women who think that is what a hvm is, is probaby not representative of what most women like. just because a man has 40 women bagged doesn’t mean is of value. not to most women. that’s something that impresses other men. those type of women like him because he’s rich and hot and that’s the demographic y’all base alllll your theories on. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:16 AM
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what the fuck? she never said to go sunbathe my dude, or even going outside. no where. she said skincare. sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:13 AM
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they do only value other mens opinions. that’s why you cannot ever offer yours here. i have yet to see a women come in here and have her insight be welcomed unless she’s agreeing with something. they just don’t count for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:11 AM
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i take issue with the assumptions about how easy it is to date as a women, and all the labels and value assignments thrown around. i do not lack empathy for loneliness. i lack empathy for people who do not have empathy for others. You do not know what it’s like to be a women any more than i know what it’s like to be a man, and i am not going to have the audacity to compare something i don’t know. but.. the assumptions you guys constantly make about women are so off base it’s not even funny. who …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:07 AM
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me either. never. i have seen a lot on this subreddit that have actually made me afraid of men. after reading these comments everyday, i don’t think i’ll ever be interested in dating again. it’s scary out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:00 AM
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i would counter something here that most men in this place seem to not understand women face… the one you like doesn’t like you, the one that likes you, you don’t like.. It’s more than something that can easily be dismissed as just wanting something you can’t have., it’s about mutual attraction being uncommon. it doesn’t matter if everyone here shits on womens for having “options”. options are not options if you don’t want them. men have plenty of options too. you guys harp on ugly women for hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:53 AM
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what’s wrong with therapy. I think everyone should be in therapy, not just stuggling people. we should all be trying to grow and improve. if you don’t get that insight and impetus from therapy, fire your therapist and get a better one. there are unfortunately a great deal of bad therapists, it doesn’t mean it isn’t a valuable resource. it’s not a backhanded pejorative. i only settle on therapist who offer me tangible solutions. i don’t do well with “listeners” i need direction. i am versed in ps…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:43 AM
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they have realized something recently when testing the sex drives between men and women.. they were missing out on a key set of variables.. where a women is at on her cycle will dictate her level of sex drive.. none of the testing being done was factoring in those variables. It’s also widely known that sex drive ITSELF is influenced by MANY things for BOTH genders.. so it’s disingenuous for men to claim they need or want sex more. They’ve also said that it turns out women need variety more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:34 AM
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you make a lot of claims to understand the life women lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:28 AM
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data on the subset of people who use dating apps. just them. people who are using dating apps. that’s the pool we are taking absolutes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:25 AM
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i’m more shocked by your entitlement to sit back and judge a woman’s appearance and make bold face claims like they are fact and your opinion matters even the slightest. the self importance is painful. “in your eyes” ugh give me a break. I don’t find benedict cumberbatch attractive but it doesn’t mean that he isn’t attractive.. my opinions don’t matter. they hold no weight in fact or importance. it’s subjective. you’re shitting on a woman and saying she can’t do XYZ or land a man because you.. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:21 AM
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also why do you think you’re “missing something” by being rejected by some girl. She could be horrible and missing plenty herself. Why does her opinion hold any weight? why are you giving her that power? You really have to work on that confidence because you don’t want to invite power imbalances in your future relationship. The girls you ask out aren’t above you. they aren’t below you. they are just people. people who shit themselves and make mistakes and act selfish and all the things that make…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:09 AM
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i for one, do not believe anyone is so hideously ugly they are doomed to be alone. one trip to walmart should dispel that notion fairly quickly. if it is something wrong with your personality… why don’t you ask a few friends? sometimes there are obvious things but your friends aren’t going to be rude and bring it up, if you ask them however it might open the door. i ask my friends all the time. again.. criticism is easy to handle when you understand it’s not personal and not a measure of your va…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:03 AM
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i’m so shocked as to why you’re having trouble with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:16 PM
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the generation just above me (yours) came from a different time for women and you’re seeing that play out. mine and under aren’t taking much shit as our mothers did and i’m seeing my peers far far more happier. I watch my own mom play mother to her husband and i know that was the norm. These women are as miserable as the single women their age who were told love is a disney movie and you’re worth is tied up in getting married. That’s fazed out for a lot of women. as it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:33 PM
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you’re dead ass claiming beyonce can’t land a man as rich or without as much status. with a straight face.. with a lot of confidence. 😂😂 jesus christ i’m so glad i don’t have to deal with guys like you in the wild. This has to be satire, you’re trolling… omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:28 PM
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you realize we are getting bashed for both aiming too high, and settling for shit men. There’s a guy commenting that Beyonce can’t do better than Jay-Z ffs. none of this is real. none of this is real life. i’m ugly as shit, my man is suuupppper conventionally attractive. Beyonce is gorgeous, Jay-Z looks like.. well let’s say he’s not a looker. Nothing fits into these neat little catagories everyone keeps trying to shove them in to feel better about themselves for being alone. being alone isn’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:36 PM
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what is a chad.. when i was growing up, a chad was a frat boy with a puka shell necklace and a golf shirt. i’m not sure what makes you the authority on what being an older woman is like. Are you one? Do you know what that experience is like first hand are you pulling things out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:13 PM
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wow. you got it all figured out huh. 😂 Basically there is no such thing as a women who is high value enough to make men not be assholes. You’re saying this with a straight face as if Beyonce couldn’t have cheated on her ugly ass husband 384839933 times. in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:10 PM
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your commenting about womens shitty personalities to an echo chamber that already has such a deeply harbored resentment of women it pours out of them and further scares women off.. this is not a place where women feel welcome or liked in general. what’s the point in saying WOMEN have shitty personalities? it’s everyone. you singled out woman so yeah.. come on now, i know you’re not obtuse. i’m careful not to say things like “most men i know are cheating ass ghosting ass man children”. It’s 100% …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:04 PM
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i agree with leaving your height off your profile. it doesn’t MATTER. and if it matters to someone.. there you go.. free filter.. that’s not your someone, fukkem. rejection feels like nothing when you don’t let anyone dictate your worth. i would probably be suicidal if i based my worth off of the boys from purplepilldebate… but really… those aren’t the type of males i would ever be interested in anyways, so it doesn’t matter. They want to sit and put value labels on everyone, it’s so demeaning a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:54 PM
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you think women intentionally consciously go for disloyal men? and what’s with the condescending “female logic” shit. gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:36 PM
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it’s a shame.: i don’t think they are going to fully realize what it truly is that makes them unattractive. but what do i know. i’m a woman who hangs around women who hang around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:54 PM
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are you saying beyonce isn’t attractive 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:48 PM
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i’ve read all your comments dude. You’re deluded. am i supposed to deduce i’m “hot” because i have 4844738 dudes talking to themselves in my inbox? you guys said it yourself.. men will hit anything. the playing feild isn’t level… they hit on women they do t even like… why would that make me think i’m attractive. what it DOES is stress me TF out, because i barely manage a text to my best friend once every other day, and if i don’t somehow gather the mental capacity to engage with these messages i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:47 PM
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the very simple truth of the matter is GOOD people of BOTH genders are in SHORT supply.. because humans. These labels are stupid. These assumptions and generalizations are stupid. The ageism is stupid. The poorly hidden animosity and bitterness for women is stupid. People suck. No one has it easier. 4884838 dudes in my inbox does not “feel good” .. it doesn’t feel good for any women i know; i don’t know why that seems to be the general census for why women have it “easier on here” no. people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:37 PM
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those women are my peers and they are definitely single because men are not worth the trouble. but i’m sure you hang out with toooons of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:23 PM
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that’s anecdotal evidence. i see entirely different things. doesn’t mean either are the rule or exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:22 PM
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you are so wrong. you are so so so wrong. they aren’t your peers either.. so admit youre assuming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:18 PM
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woman over 40 really aren’t that afraid of “being alone” speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:17 PM
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she would not have choose you because of the way you stereotype and view women. HER idea if a HVM is probably not one who comes in this thread talking the way you guys talk. just a wild guess. if you want a nice girl… maybe try and be aware of how toxic you come off. getting attention from men doesn’t distort a females perception of herself in the way you think it does kiddo, and your attitudes and opinions about women aren’t going to attract the kind of partner you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:16 PM
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the definition for HVM was made by other men. These men have no clue what women actually value or they wouldn’t be in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:13 PM
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they are hypothetically mad at women that reject them for men out of their hypothetical league who they hypothetically wouldn’t want to date anyways. i’m not real sure what exactly they are mad at, but their contempt for women is so off putting i have literally NO CONFUSION about why they are in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:12 PM
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nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:09 PM
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you really assuming this troll account is a woman because you really need to huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:08 PM
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how do you know it doesn’t end well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:55 PM
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so what about this specifically makes you angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:54 PM
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tell that to Beyonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:53 PM
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as are 98% of the guys here who can’t figure out why they are alone when they are just “so nice.” personality holds more weight than any dumb generalizations made about “what women want”. they want a dude who is cool and sounds literally NOTHING like the men in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:45 PM
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“i can’t understand why women don’t like me” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:42 PM
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ohhh here comes the “aging out of value” but. hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:42 PM
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these guys know what it’s like to be a woman, dontcha know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:36 PM
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the title of this thread had me bent over laughing unable to breathe. what a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:35 PM
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they would dismiss that by saying it’s because you now work a “lucrative” job. It’s so so so misguided. There’s so many generalizations to scramble together excuses. side note… it’s incredible you were able to find recovery and a better life for yourself. I am so very proud of you because i know what that took. the weight of the judgement from others and on yourself often keeps people trapped in a shame cycle. taking accountability and still finding self acceptance is a hallmark of growth and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:05 PM
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right. i was just talking to my boyfriend about this specific scenario.. i don’t know what either of you look like… at all, whatsoever… but i can tell you who i would want to hang out with and who i wouldn’t. attraction is soooo subjective. i’m attracted to “ugly” guys all the time. i’m not attracted to super attractive men all the time. it feels kind of random. It just happens. Psychology is complex and the reason we are attractive to certain people isn’t as easy as X=tall, Y=rich, Z=convention…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:36 PM
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I seriously think the men on this sub have seriously skewed self images. There is a lot of whining about how hard it is for these “good decent men” and i would bet my whole left foot they are far more than just “short” or “poor.” Having been a women for.. i don’t know.. forty freakin years… and a very social one whose lived in both major cities and small appalachian towns… the MAJORITY of women i’ve met do not care about those things. The MAJORITY of women i’ve met have other issues with men, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:03 PM
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yeah i’m pretty sure psychology has covered this one… and it roots in… other men. their fathers. men look down on women for having “daddy” issues without a second blink to the core issue being bad fathers.. but the women bear the brunt of the judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:51 PM
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maybe the type of women who go to “clubs” and the type of women who give a shit about a man’s height are the same demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:46 PM
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lol nevermind. cool buzzwords bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:37 PM
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wtf is a liberazi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:56 AM
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there are horrible women. there are horrible men. then there are entire subreddits with people trying to prove which gender has more horrible people and it’s wild to see so many confident opinions based on generalizations and cognitive biases. absolutely wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:37 AM
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all the most recent studies have shown that’s not at all true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:07 PM
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you’re inferring that women don’t have as high a sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:31 PM
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you lost empathy for womens problems because you dates some crappy ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:28 PM
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just when i think i’ve seen it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:34 PM
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I suppose it depends on what is important to you. Sexual Chemistry is important to me and i would rather know if it was there before it’s too late, and i’m in a sexless unfulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:16 AM
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i have not seen it. correct and apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:11 AM
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wow. i’m sorry you are bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:06 AM
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i don’t see that as a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:52 PM
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say what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:37 PM
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i respect this realization a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:35 PM
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how do you get into the female mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:26 PM
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Anyone who thinks women “lose value” at any point is a doorknob. If you view women as breeding cows and arm candy, you’re tellin on yourself. I like those type of men in a way.. The red flag is unattractive nope neon. That’s a time saver, thank you sir. 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:01 AM
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i don’t mind short guys. I think it’s weird how many people care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:10 PM
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which one holds you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:06 PM
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my boyfriend speaks this way? I know a lot of guys who speak this way, what is with the absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:42 AM
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i think using the terms “beta” and “alpha” speaks for itself… that’s a commonly identified red flag in and of itself. If you’re not an incel, stop talking like one. I believe you, but that terminology is so cringe. yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:27 AM
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By the time you are 40, “afraid to be, or end up alone” is no longer a motivating factor in dating. We like alone. We are not scared of alone. Most women choose it and insecure young men who can’t fathom being alone themselves chalk it up to older women not having the ample options they actually do… I guess i used to think 40 was old as hell but now i’m there i’m like, oh. nevermind. this is fun. i like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:15 AM
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every. time i log onto this app, some incel is making a comment about my value as a 40 year old woman.. it’s almost like they’ve never been a 40 year old woman because this shit is a good time, what are you talking about. 😂 40 doesn’t feel forty, 40 doesn’t even look like forty these days, and the MAJORITY of men are not put off by age whatsoever, not even for long term, and most of us don’t care if they were.. we are so over douchebags at this point.. being alone is not the big scary outcome yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:02 AM
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I didn’t say you went to yacht parties. I said I can’t speak to the experiences of women who attend yacht parties. I didn’t say all yachts are owned by billionaires. There are a lot of variables that make that a world far removed from most peoples reality beyond class position. Where you are getting this is beyond me, and I’m done with your “good faith argument” you should like you learned a new word today and are trying to condescend me with it, because it’s not even relevant because you are tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:58 AM
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I don’t know people who go to yacht parties, or would want to go to yacht parties so I cannot speak to that world.. but it seems like that scene would be harsh to older women. Outside of the yacht party club however, I don’t see much of that. Also don’t rhetological fallacy nitpick me in circles, I literally asked a question directly from your comment where you said you hear women say that. It’s the 6th time I’ve heard this on Reddit today, with the last fellow going as far as to say older women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:19 AM
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I’m speaking to the part where you said you hear women your age complaining because younger men don’t want them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:03 AM
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I am curious to know what your age is. I’m very suspect of the common narrative on here that older women are not wanted or pursued… that’s not been my experience whatsoever, or for those in my peer friend group. What do you base this on? The opinions of other red pill men who couldn’t even pull these women themselves? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:44 AM
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What if I told you…. Older people hook up and have fun too! 😂. … lord y’all think the world stops when you age. You just have to stretch more so you don’t break a hip. Be in a relationship if it makes you happy. For no other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:00 AM
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Kevin Felderline?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:39 AM
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Yeah it’s a misfits reference, it’s been in my screen name for about 17 years now so I just keep it. And that was what I mean, at least with a lot of girls there’s not really an agenda. Thank you for the compliment! I’ll count it! Hahhaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:48 PM
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I have no idea if I’m attractive, because I’ve never trusted that male attention equates to being attractive... from other women, on the other hand.. I trust that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:11 PM
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Also accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:59 PM
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Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:59 PM
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My boyfriends been living exclusively with like 30 dudes the past six months and the last time he visited he just looked at me and said “I think the tiktok you showed me about how men inherently and unknowingly hate women but still want and seek their validation is correct and I’m glad I’m coming home soon because I am done being here.” He’s being worn down by how men talk about women when they aren’t around. I don’t know why men cry bias bias bias when he is one of THIRTY who this is the norm f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:57 PM
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