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Removed: Assumptions Based on Physical Appearance/LimitationsIcy-Mind-7954/r/seduction18/04/21 09:34 AM
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imagine if you had this attitude as a child when you were learning to walk you'd still be crawling everywhere
/r/seduction18/04/21 10:19 AM
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stressed and miserable is not very attractive
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:34 AM
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i'd just like to mention that not all girls are as awful as american girls are right now if you can find some first-generation immigrants, and/or travel when this pandemic is over, i think you'll be shocked at how garbage most millenial american women are :D
/r/seduction14/03/21 06:49 PM
1

right! wait til you're married to give up :P :)
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:15 PM
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psst! it's a common mistake, but "attractive" does not just mean "good-looking" in this phrase; it means attractive as in confident, healthy, fit, funny, wealthy, well-read, interesting, well-traveled, musical, a great lover, etc... all kinds of qualities that are much deeper. (that's why it says "be attractive / don't be unattractive" instead of "be handsome / don't be ugly" for example) :)
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:12 PM
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people-watching in the park with some disguised liquor is a fine, fine time
/r/seduction16/02/21 04:17 AM
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it's not the height of the pandemic anymore, and let's face it, healthy, people under 40 were never really in that much danger of anything super-serious
/r/seduction16/02/21 04:16 AM
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something like "i didn't want an arbitrary number in an app to deny you a fun time"? or, avoid the problem by meeting people in person :)
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:26 PM
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look, there was a time when you didn't even know this girl (who you miss so much) even existed and there are hundreds of other girls out there that you haven't met yet that are as good, or even better find one. find four or five!
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:06 PM
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it's called "cold approach" it's pretty brutal if you're talking about on the street it's much much easier in bars where people are usually open to meeting new people
/r/seduction15/02/21 12:23 PM
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​ the backseat of a car has worked since the 50s (it's actually part of the reason teenage car culture started -- sexually active teens needed to get away from their parents) BUT do not park in your parents' driveway! go to the beach or lake or park or sports field or someplace at least vaguely scenic and private.
/r/seduction15/02/21 12:05 PM
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omg is it that obvious
/r/seduction07/02/21 03:01 AM
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lol another attempt at dismissiveness? keep going, i think it's working, i'm feeling worse and worse!
/r/seduction07/02/21 02:54 AM
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you're right, go for it, have an upvote!
/r/seduction07/02/21 02:44 AM
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thats it in a nutshell i guess to improve your fighting skill you could walk through bad neighborhoods :)
/r/seduction06/02/21 04:58 PM
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hahaha, oh no! you think reality and truth will save you! all she has to do is have a bad day and bitch to someone about you, and you're on the train to fuckedville.
/r/seduction06/02/21 04:08 PM
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i liked mark manson's "models" and coach corey wayne's "3% Man" (i've been following this stuff since Mystery Method, but those two books are like, the real deal instead of tricks). Basically: become the best "you" you can be your confidence will grow your attractiveness will grow after that it's all so much easier!
/r/seduction06/02/21 04:05 PM
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i can't believe that any guy would risk a sexual harassment complaint following them around to every job interview they'll ever have meet women at bars, clubs, parks, libraries, anywhere but work!
/r/seduction06/02/21 03:09 AM
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i love this possibly because i aced everything except cold reading, but i think those Cumberbatch Sherlock episodes have totally warped my expectations of what's possible
/r/seduction06/02/21 01:46 AM
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or he could take things fast and say "hey let's grab a drink" next time he sees her, and she can say "yes" or "no" and he'll have saved a ton of time and energy
/r/seduction06/02/21 01:42 AM
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Confidently walk up to them and say something racist or sexist, if you need evidence that this is an exaggeration. OF COURSE what you say matters. But it's probably true how you say it is at least as important. I think your girls' point was the obvious fact that they'll be forgiving if you talk about cars or sports or legos if you have other qualities that make up for it. I still wanna try that Owen Challenge where you don't say ANYTHING to a girl, just approach and smile and communicate with yo…
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:23 PM
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i'm mid-40s. you'll have to conquer your shyness for ten seconds and ask him out. "Can i take you out for a coffee sometime?" but be prepared that he'll say no. He could have a daughter your age; he could just not be attracted to you; it could be against the university rules; he might be in a relationship... good luck!
/r/seduction25/01/21 09:00 PM
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re: skin care -- just wanna mention that you might not need a "great skin care routine" (i.e. buying a bunch of expensive products) if you eat well and drink tons of water eating healthy shit instead of garbage will improve you skin, your body, your mood, it's remarkable
/r/seduction25/01/21 11:41 AM
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perfect
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:17 AM
0

yes
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:16 AM
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is your social awkwardness coming off as aggressive disinterest -- are you folding your arms, angling your body away, avoiding eye contact, and giving one word answers? if you're being approached, the guys are attracted to you, but it sounds like you're shooting them down so they're bailing out without even trying for the number.
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:14 AM
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"what do you like to do?" "i like to cook/ski/sew/kickbox/paint" "how'd you start? tell me about your first time doing that. how'd that feel? i'd love to try that sometime"
/r/seduction21/01/21 03:20 AM
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​ because there's family around, i'd keep the gaming to a minimum, but you might hold eye contact a beat longer than normal, and do the occasional fun misinterpretation but mostly just have actual, relaxed fun with the girl -- you've already removed the pressure of anything happening, which is actually the best way to get something to happen, so.. just, you know, don't shit where you eat (there's family around, don't step to far out)
/r/seduction21/01/21 03:14 AM
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and even Gal Gadot has some idiotic tendencies that bring her down to more mortal levels (remember that tone deaf "Imagine" video early on in the pandemic, where she seemed to think her face and voice was the cure for losing your job and your mother?)
/r/seduction19/01/21 09:35 PM
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I used to be the same way Then after the 100th 9 or 10 says something idiotic about crystals or trump or whatever you begin to realize looks are only half of it and you approach them with the legitimate goal of ascertaining whether they're really worth YOUR time
/r/seduction19/01/21 09:33 PM
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argument as in presenting a point not "arguing" i agree with everything else you're saying 100%, but "on some level into you" is different, less active or engaged maybe, than "she likes you" -- that's why couldn't type "if she shows up, she likes you" on your last comment.
/r/seduction19/01/21 09:06 PM
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if only "she probably already likes you" meant the same thing as "she's into you on some level" you'd actually have a coherent argument! strong agree on your last two sentences tho
/r/seduction19/01/21 12:07 PM
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right, because girls only go on dates with guys they already like, that's why they never complain to their girlfriends afterward about how badly the date went
/r/seduction15/01/21 08:46 PM
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it's probably something you have to learn when you're young and miscalculations are more forgivable... growing up with siblings probably helps too (one of my go-to's is treating girls like i treated my little sisters, and it can be super successful super fast... it can also be a fucking disaster tho too)
/r/seduction15/01/21 08:39 PM
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i've met girls in lines, but *i* was in the line too, AND paying close attention to their level of engagement so you know when bail (where is she looking, how is she orienting her body, etc) the dude sounds like a beginner. he'll get better.
/r/seduction15/01/21 11:13 AM
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i don't doubt it
/r/seduction11/01/21 08:04 PM
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ever seen that comedian discussing "girls" vs "women"? Girls Gone Wild videos: attractive chicks showing their nice tits and smiling Women Gone Wild videos: crazy-eyed and somewhat lumpy women with knives
/r/seduction10/01/21 11:43 PM
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face-to-face, NOT over instagram or text, you ask her out, on a date. walk up to her. she can be alone or with friends, it doesn't matter. but she should be kinda idle (like not in a hurry to get to class, you need 30 seconds of focus here) "hey elaine. you wanna grab a slice of pizza sometime, just you and me?" she says yes, cool, "which is better, friday or saturday night?" she says no, cool, "okay, thanks" then give a smile and leave, it's no biggie. don't talk a lot and gum it up, and after …
/r/seduction29/12/20 07:14 PM
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haha well shit, what is going on? maybe too much assertiveness?
/r/seduction29/12/20 06:31 PM
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i was an international student myself (in the 90s) international girls that go to the Netherlands want polite Dutch boys with the blond hair and blue eyes and nice sweaters or whatever -- and that's not you, right? my advice: find a couple dive bars where you can play up the macho, slightly dangerous eastern european vibe you've got -- plenty of girls love that shit
/r/seduction29/12/20 06:17 PM
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do the Dutch have a negative view of Lithuania (is the economy weaker, are guys from Lithuania too aggressive/macho, is AIDS more common there, shit like that?) or maybe it's just a language barrier?
/r/seduction29/12/20 05:14 PM
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it's what makes bread all soft and stretchy and awesome, but it can donk up your digestive tract, cause inflammation, etc in some populations
/r/seduction24/12/20 01:50 PM
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i've found what works for me is allowing potatoes, bread, and rice -- allowing carbs when it's real food -- and then avoiding cookies, chips, and all the processed crap that is not recognizable as food to someone from 2000 years ago :)
/r/seduction24/12/20 01:43 PM
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you described yourself as confident and ambitious, but left out any physical description, so I think we all know the real reason you hate most of this advice ^_^
/r/seduction21/12/20 08:08 PM
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there was some study this year that (somehow) concluded that about two-thirds of posts or comments that start with "actually" are untrue -- there's some psychological distraction phenomenon thing about it, like the deceiver is trying to will the lie into reality? it was more common among women, actually
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:20 AM
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can you give us an update in a month or so when you decide you really miss Mr Sexy Confident Sweet Dates and "just don't feel a spark" with Mr. Texts You Everyday? :)
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:07 AM
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yes, two of those needs you die in minutes/days, the third one you die over months (note this year's skyrocketing suicide rates, or long-established rules limiting solitary confinement in prisons.) You're still dead. You still need those things to survive. In no way is it "natural" to have those needs unmet. So i'm verrrry sorry if having your views challenged is "poor energy," but if you wanna make claims like "not having your sexual needs satisfied" is "NATURAL" then you should probably brace …
/r/seduction03/12/20 11:36 PM
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"not having your sexual needs satisfied becomes natural" this is IDIOTIC and the opposite of what you want (replace "sexual needs" with "oxygen needs" or "caloric needs" or "social needs" to see why)
/r/seduction03/12/20 06:29 PM
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sometimes popping one off before going out can make you lazy, but other times it's just made me relaxed, so... try it I guess
/r/seduction03/12/20 06:25 PM
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i prefer "attractive" since there's a lot of hotties that are fucking ugh
/r/seduction01/12/20 02:08 PM
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haha last night, ended up at someone's posh one bedroom near my favorite bar; 4 guys, 5 girls, and if one of them had covid, it was worth it
/r/seduction29/11/20 06:55 PM
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you replied basically "yeah you're right"? that's not sufficiently creative/risky enough to provoke much of a response you've really got swing for the fences and risk striking out -- "you're going to die old an alone and be eaten by your cats"-level shit they have to be pretty solid with their self-esteem and everything tho -- they have to know they're pretty, worthwhile, attractive girls (that are just temporarily feeling down in the dumps). You couldn't run this play on a chick who, say, just …
/r/seduction25/11/20 05:27 AM
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the age old wisdom: be attractive don't be unattractive people often misinterpret this as physically beautiful, but i've walked away from interactions with physically beautiful women because they started smoking (bleah), ranted on and on about Trump (you can dislike him but for god's sake don't transform into a psycho), or talked shit about the friend they were with -- those are all unattractive to me.
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:19 AM
2

lol NO
/r/seduction22/11/20 10:50 PM
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you think the two-minute interaction i have once a week with a supermarket cashier through a giant plexiglass panel, while we're both masked, is how covid is spread? do you think masks don't work or something?
/r/seduction22/11/20 02:21 AM
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and part of life is deciding what level of risk you're willing to accept, and respecting others' ability to decide for themselves what level of risk they're willing to accept
/r/seduction22/11/20 01:18 AM
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regularly!
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:30 AM
2

enjoy your medieval european catholicism!
/r/seduction15/11/20 06:15 PM
1

there's nothing more I can say hallelujah
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:34 AM
1

that things that happen on the screen are not real and can/should not be emulated?
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:48 AM
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i scrolled right past
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:25 AM
1

they don't even say goodbye when they hang up the phone!
/r/seduction20/10/20 11:52 PM
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that's great, but how you gonna do kino if you're chatting via text? "hey let's meet up and you can tell me all about it" is your next step
/r/seduction20/10/20 11:32 PM
1

no! they're always struggling and crying, it's awful, and then you have to bury them somewhere, it's a whole process
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:44 AM
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most people find it had to talk to people ;)
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:02 PM
2

you just wander around, blindfolded, arms outstretched, head jerking, like Bird Box too?!
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:56 PM
3

city streets are terrible for cold approach, don't worry about it!
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:33 PM
0

you'll be the first boy ever to be nervous about a girl! it's never happened before!
/r/seduction01/10/20 09:31 PM
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people think it's weird to go out alone!? that's how i go out 90% of the time!
/r/seduction01/10/20 09:25 PM
9

ever try to imagine the outer expanding edge of the universe moving away from you in all directions at the speed of light? that usually helps me frame little fuckups i made in a healthier way.
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:58 AM
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yeah, it's a bit of a "just so" story
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:45 PM
2

one theory explaining approach anxiety and the fear of rejection revolves around the 100,000 years or so before cities, when we were small tribes: getting rejected by the five or ten girls of fuckable age meant you might never get laid ever, and so the guys that had a strong fear of never having sex tried harder and made babies who grew up to have that same fear, while the guys who DIDNT have approach anxiety never tried hard, never had kids, and that's why EVERY DUDE IN THE WORLD seems to start…
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:22 PM
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