TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Icy-Organization-338 Archive

View 0 posts and 23 comments by Icy-Organization-338 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
59

Good for you. Make a list and start ticking stuff off 😊
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:14 AM
3

I’ll give you some very generalized insight: Women like to drink and dance and have fun. They will often refrain from getting absolutely wasted for safety reasons, this means they are likely (in your case, more sober than you). Ever been the only sober one surrounded by drunks? It’s a bit tiring and not usually very attractive. (Unknown) Men who are drunk are unpredictable. Again, safety - does a woman much smaller than you (I imagine) want to trust herself with someone she doesn’t know, who is …
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:53 AM
3

I used to be a bartender - I’m going to bet that your version of “Dutch courage drunk” is potentially either a turn off, they begin to feel unsafe with you or they are much more sober than you are and it just feels weird. Or - Depending how generous you are - they got a heap of free drinks out of you and gambled that you were too drunk to miss them when they left... Only way you can know is have a sober person with you to report back, or calm down your pre drinking. Are you out to meet women or …
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:36 AM
2

Do it! Choose your wording carefully and regardless if you get a no, you might still make her day 😊
/r/seduction25/04/21 01:26 AM
2

If it’s everyone, why don’t you join a group / class that focuses on public speaking. It will be scary as shit (from someone who hates public speaking but does it for work) - but you could learn so much and it could really help with your anxiety and general social / conversation skills.
/r/seduction21/04/21 12:28 AM
2

Do you struggle to talk to strangers in general or just women. Have you tried to talk to women you aren’t attracted to just to practice? Does it make a difference?
/r/seduction21/04/21 12:11 AM
2

Brilliant advice. Couldn’t agree more!!
/r/seduction20/04/21 09:04 AM
3

All I want to say is, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Everything you are thinking and doing is incredibly healthy - you just aren’t connecting with the kinds of women that are suited to you. Good news is, women bloody love house plants - they do in australia anyway. So that idea coupled with retail could be a winner. Moving out and away from home is great too because it’s a fresh start for you to be completely you. Wishing you a lot of luck in meeting some great people, you have a lo…
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:16 AM
3

Personally I think you are doing it the right way / have the right idea about it all. Have you thought that maybe you would be better suited to slightly older women that also aren’t into hook up culture, bars and clubs etc? I don’t know what your interests are but things like cooking classes, book clubs, volunteering your skills are places you might meet more mature women that also want relationships, want to get to know someone past a drunken hook up in a bar.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:31 AM
3

She sounds awful. I don’t think she was flirting at all, and even if she was, is that the kind of woman you would want to date?
/r/seduction18/04/21 11:46 PM
2

Wishing you a lot of luck - hopefully you can look back on this time one day soon and be grateful for how far you’ve come 😊
/r/seduction18/04/21 09:39 AM
2

Love it! Yes! Do as many things as you can afford and have time to do. Live a life that makes you happy and fulfilled, and hopefully somewhere along the line you will meet a whole heap of people that enjoy your company, want to spend time with you and want to date you. You might be able to join a virtual BookClub? Even with the pandemic there must be socially distanced groups still operating 😊
/r/seduction18/04/21 09:18 AM
4

That’s exactly what you should do. Cooking is a great one because it’s an awesome skill to have regardless. It doesn’t matter if you’re good or bad at it, and there are so many opportunities to chat - often you are even paired up for activities. Even if you didn’t meet a partner or someone you’re interested in, you could simply make a friend or they might even want to introduce you to other people. Give it a go, If nothing else it will give you a sense of achievement for simply trying! And you g…
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:56 AM
2

As an introvert, I get it. Can you find new ways to build up your friendship circle? Join clubs or groups, study, cooking class... anything you have a moderate interest in that would expose you to new people? Most people make their friends and meet partners through work, but it that’s a bit barren - it’s time to look elsewhere. Are there things you like to do, where you could meet some new people?
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:38 AM
1

Feel pity? Nope. Some were interested or uncomfortable, others couldn’t give a shit. I don’t flaunt my scars and the people I let see them aren’t worried by them. Mostly it’s other medical people who really want to look at them properly but that’s just professional interest.
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:08 PM
1

Honestly I’d take self harm scars over drug / alcohol dependency any day. I have a lot of medical scars that I carried a lot of insecurity over thinking it was a sign of weakness, crap genetics and that people would feel pity for me. We all have shit in our pasts, it’s how you carry it that gives off the air of strength or weakness.
/r/seduction15/04/21 10:40 PM
2

If she (assuming?) thinks it’s non-masculine to have self harm scars then she’s not worth dating. We all deal with trauma differently. You’ve grown from it. Don’t let this be a shameful thing, just another part of who you are and how you’ve grown. Definitely not a sign of a weakness.
/r/seduction15/04/21 10:19 PM
3

I would be as detailed or as vague as you are comfortable with. If they see them - “they aren’t fresh, I had a bit of a rough time when I was a kid, I’m in a good place now but I’ll wear the scars forever” Then kiss them and move on 😊
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:53 PM
1

I think it depends on your life, your libido and other factors. Ours dropped off significantly just before our wedding because I was so stressed with work, finances and planning the wedding. Again when we had our first baby who didn’t sleep until she was 3yo. Again when we had our second baby and we were living with my parents while returning from overseas work and resettling. Again during major work stress. Now it’s back in full force after work stress dropped significantly during covid, kids a…
/r/seduction15/04/21 07:33 AM
1

If it’s a gift, you don’t have to 🤣 Could be something you see in a magazine or window of a shop you’re passing by. You’re just asking for their opinion as a conversation starter 😊
/r/seduction14/04/21 09:54 AM
5

I’d be more inclined to ask their advice on a Gift for your mother or furniture. I think your appearance is too personal and they might see it as fishing for compliments... but approaching a group of women and saying, “Ladies you are all so stylish - could I get your opinion on something - it’s my mother’s birthday and she is very stylish / elegant / loves xyz - do you think she’d like this?” Show them a photo of jewellery / vase / designer scarf. This could lead into suggestions of other brands…
/r/seduction14/04/21 09:42 AM
1

If there’s something good nearby, “I just had a great coffee at xyz down the street, could I take you out for a coffee some time?” Keep it light and safe 😊
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:05 AM
1

Find a common interest and ask her to join you. Do you know anything personal about her that she has shared with you or do you just think she’s cute?
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:27 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter