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the fuck?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:44 AM
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My bad, I misread. To answer your question, yes you need to relate to them on some level. You might dislike TikTok and IG but to them you just seem like a "im too good for you" contrarian who's "too good for the drama bullshit". That doesn't mean you have to force yourself to watch the bachelor, but im willing to bet there are guys you either really respect or look up to who probably have IG and enjoy the occasional tiktok videos themselves. And is there honestly not a single or a handful of tik…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:50 AM
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LOLLL. You went to a bar a few times and you're giving up already? Okay here's what you do. Stop talking to people with an agenda. You can smell that shit from MILES away and it makes ppl uncomfortable af. You should talk to people because you're content with your life or where your life is going and you honestly don't care how people see you.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:38 AM
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No matter how "normal" you fake it, you're not gonna get the hot college girl because the baseline for the guy she wants to fuck is normal + already hot. Even if you manage to shove all your awkward autism into a compartment of your brain while conversing with a hottie, it wont amount to shit if you're not good looking and/or aren't popular. Seriously, work out the kinks in fixing you social and physical life before demanding hot girls
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:34 AM
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There's way too many variables to give a straight answer. If you're a drug dealer living in a shit heap house - you'd be getting laid right now more than living pay check to paycheck at a shit job. If you want some girl who's also broke and doesnt care, you could be gettting laid right now. If you're pretty damn good looking and halfway not autistic, you could be getting laid right now. if you're the quintessential loser who's paycheck to paycheck cause he didnt problem solve his way into a bett…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:28 AM
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If youre at a level where you cant even muster the social acumen to initiate a conversation, then youre not at a level where you can start expecting women. You need to start by shedding a bit of pride and accepting that unless you want to settle, youve got a long ways to go. And im only saying this as a person who started out where you are. When you have acquired all the physicial, emotional, social, and mental traits of someone who is naturally attractive, you wont even need to be asking urself…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:08 PM
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.....is this a real question? Ask yourself - are all students depressed?
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:56 AM
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Im saying that once you get to a certain financial bracket where you not only can comfortably cover all your bills, not have to worry about an emergency fund, can comfortably save for retirement, and still have enough to to fully spend on hobbies and housing of your choice, then a substantial portion of your depression is dealt with. the remainder has to do with the quality and quantity of your social circles and how valuable they view you within those circles. Not to mention of course being at …
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:40 AM
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ideally yes but i can't really answer the "how to solve ur depression" question for you. Most people nowadays are depressed on a societal level and aside from a small chunk of society who have a lot going for them currently, most of us are sort of stuck here
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:25 AM
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Let me put it in another light. When you're depressed, there's two things that happen. You either look 1. defeated 2. or like an asshole. When you look defeated, you become an easy target which makes assholes want to pick on you. On the flip side when you look like an asshole, people don't want to talk to or associate with you cause you appear like you're gonna be someone who's nasty.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:09 AM
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agreed. as someone who was stick thin and short, op has no idea what shit tests from men really are
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:08 AM
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simple $6k surgery. rip.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:20 AM
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if you're as good as you claim, girls find out cause girls who are interested in you will google stalk u anyways. people google stalk those they think are attractive
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:19 AM
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I can give my 2 cents on this. During college, I was unpopular to say the least. My friends (when i had any) were just a bunch of nerdy ass guys with similar lack of interesting hobbies, social skills, and looks. We tried to throw parties. Lots of them. To get girls. Had a sweet house with tons of booze? Didnt matter. Even had drugs? Still didnt matter. People would come, drink our beer, take the drugs and just leave. Why? Cause essentially we were alll lame boring and awkward people. fast forwa…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:17 AM
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Thats true, one of the biggest things that matter is relative attractiveness. Bring a musician into a footbalk game and he’ll be laughed at. Bring a football player tobwatch the musician play, the musician will have the authority. Find a group where ure in the top 15% and ull do fine
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:44 AM
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U solve this one of two ways: baby stepping or throwing urself in the fire. Baby stepping is getting a girl that ure totally not nervous around and making out or having sex with her. Then the next girl is similar but a bit more attractive, and so on. Trial by fire is putting urself in a situation where ure forced to interact with a ton of very attractive women. Bartendings one, bouncer, etc. be creative
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:40 AM
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Typically a good sign is if the girl is okay with sharing very close space with u. Like shoulder to shoulder sitting next to each other or if she leans in a lot. Whenever a girl rests her head on ur shoulder too is a good sign
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:36 AM
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Yep. Hence why cuffing season and summer flings exist.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:31 AM
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Passive mogging or active moggingg? If hes actively putting u down for girls hes not ur friend. If he just exists, then theres nothing u can do except make ur own way. I had a friend who was way taller and more jacked than me. He never flaunted it or put me down but the girls acted exactly like u said. Over and over again night after night. Its a great way to internalize how superficial the world was and how u didnt owe anyone anything. I remained friends but kinda branched out. Eventually ended…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:30 AM
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In theory: yeh why not. In practice: good luck gettingg away with that in most modern societies.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:24 AM
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Idk why u got downvoted, he looks like a clown
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:22 AM
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capitalism encourages competition and wealth funneling into the few. Thats not even hypothetical at this point, its well known and observed. I can't speak for socialism but an ideal government probably lies somewhere in between.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:22 PM
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i agree. as a child i thought the religious aspect of it was the focal point of church but ive realized its much more of the community aspect
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:20 PM
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Strawman argument. I didnt say it ruined my life, i said it ruined fulfillment by undermining a sense of community overall. If you disagree youre more than welcome to explain your point instead of resorting to name calling
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:32 PM
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Imma go out on a limb here and say capitalism + western emphasis on individuality has basically destroyed our capacity to feel fulfilment. Back in rhe day it was about community. The community was small but if you were a valuable member and u knew what ure doing contributed to everyones well being, then it felt like ur existence had meaning. People appreciated you. People wanted you. You still see this in a lot of developing nations, where they dont have many things but damn is it easy to be abl…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:14 AM
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Hi, so Im actually a guy who loved clubbing and did it often in my 20's. The thing is, the clubs absolutely suck without a good social group to go with. Your friends also have to be the type who enjoys partying, and if you're not with a solid mixed group, it also sucks. Therein lies the problem with 99% of people on this subreddit: most guys here dont only have issues with girls, they're also probably loners. And if they have friends, its mostly a group of guy friends and not a normal mixed grou…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:32 AM
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i get what you mean. Especially as a guy who's a minority and 5'6, if i showed the slightest feelings of anxiety for any reason, some classmates and coworkers picked up on it and were relentless. You gotta go into a deeeeep dgaf state of mind to get out of it. U have to learn how to roast people if they try that shit on you. Embarrass them, make them the butt of the joke. Cant let that shit fly or else those kinda ppl will take advantage indefinitely
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:39 AM
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Estrogen from large beer consumption as well. U see a lot of gyno on those craft beer fanatics. Long beard, loves going on about hops n shit, gyno
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:51 PM
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talk to any lifter whos been serious for over a year and they'll tell some days are just high gravity days. Some days the lifts that were super easy a week or two before are just heavy. It happens. Its a part of progress and its unavoidable.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:07 AM
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u went on one date the other day. One. If due to your physique you had 20 dates lined up this month, you think by the 20th date you'd still be as awkward or do you think you probably wouldve figured at least some semblance of conversing like a normal human being by then? Socializing needs practice. Even people who are great at it will turn awkward with no practice. You just gotta keep at it
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:15 AM
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late to this but I legit thought I had to get stacked in order to pull on tinder. I dont mean "on gear" stacked, but pretty muscular for a natty. Then one day just for fun I posted up some cat fishing photos of some LEAN guys with arms that just barely passed the cut off for "works out". Basically a physique most people could attain in 6-8 months. In the gym world, he's DYEL but in tinder world, boy that pic got a lotta matches lesson learned - u honestly dont need to be as stacked as u think
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:06 AM
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LOL no offense but there's absolutely no way brad pitt was on gear during fight club. That's attainable within 2 years natty, even less if you're genetically gifted
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:04 AM
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Lmfaoooo. Dont forget to hold your frame while you learn nothing about the real world or how to evolve or stay competitive.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:27 PM
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Thats right! Only degenrates like 99% of celebrities, musicians, athletes, normal fucking college students and young professionals go clubbing! What clowns all these well adjusted, social people are! All of them are just going to clubs getting TrICKED into paying a corporation! Thats not already inherent in capitalistic societies at all! No, only the CLUB could ever be so crafty! Thats why its important as a TRP Alpha stud to not give into those greedddy corporations who trick you into wearing d…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:22 PM
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Change your thought process from: someone help me im stuck. To: i want x, here are all the steps to get to x. Heres my first road block. How do i get over this roadblock? Ie- “i really dont know any people to learn from” The right mentality: how do i find people willingly to help me? Maybe google has a pua group woth experienced members i can get in contact with Maybe there’s actually a decent life coach i can try Seriously, the ability to run hypothetically problem solve in ur head and test the…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:16 AM
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Nah. Books generally help either while youre learning to clear up some sticking points or they help you focus on one aspect of ur flirting that u set a goal on. 95% of flirting is based off experience and cringe worthy embarrassment is the price. Wanna get better at anything you have to take action. But just like anything, finding someone whos good at it and learning through proxy will speed things along. Get someone u know is very good at flirting. Watch what they do and ask them to observe u a…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:56 AM
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Yepp this 100%. Live life cause experience will teach you through nuance way better than any post can
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:52 AM
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No in my 20’s i went to the clubs with my gf and my friends to have fun drinking and dancing. Most people by the time theyre out of college know how to moderate themselves so they’re not hung over barring the occasional banger. Even nowadays working full time with great careers, we make it a point to turn it up once in a while. Except since we’re in our early 30’s we can afford to go to more upscale bars and clubs. Dont knock it till you get good at it
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:51 AM
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Ill caveat this. If your girls hot, shes gonna go clubbing or to a bar with or without u. Thats the reality of being a hot girl and the more u force her away from the party life, the faster her resentment builds up and the faster and more willing she’ll be to branch swing. If you are going to a club, there r situations in which its ok. Youre with a latge group of ur friends, you know youre attractive enough to get other girls attention there, youre already cool with all the staff cause ure a reg…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:01 AM
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How bothered would you be if outside of work you were friends with a celebrity. Or if you were secretly a trust fund baby who chose to live a normal life. Or you had a hot model wife waiting for you back at home. You'd probably find it amusing cause you have "fuck you" power in some form or another. How would that guy react to a boss who makes little jabs at people? Most likely an amused "haa".
/r/askTRP29/12/19 04:41 AM
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going against the grain here but anytime i got into a relationship knowing that the girl was a big hoe, it made it so much easier for me to treat the relationship as nothing serious. And for those wondering, i knew she was a hoe because she slept with me while still with someone only to branch swing over. to be quite honest, if a girl's a hoe up front, i'd much rather that than someone who hides it well and I find about it months or years down the line. I trust a hooker more than a girl pretendi…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:06 AM
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The answer is: dont think about it and just figure it out as u go along. Ive been working under a medium sized multimillion dollar company under the owner and u know what ive learned? No matter what in life the answer is: dont overthink it, figure it out as u go along
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:51 AM
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imagine how attracted shed be towards u if not only were u indifferent to her hitting on other guys, but in fact u were happy for her all while u were getting chatted up by another hot girl. Her mind be like: wtf??? All these guys try so hard to get into my pants and this guy not only doesnt give a shit but is happy that i find someone, WHILE talking to that really cute girl. Holy shit i need him
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:26 AM
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Dude we’re all gonna die and life of dread and pain is so absurd it’s hilarious. We might all fuck off and die by accident one day. We might fail at everything on the way there. Oh fucking well. Treat it like failure is the default no matter what and ure just gonna experiment with life to see what works
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:20 AM
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Send memes, shoot the shit. As long as u r truly in different to what she thinks of u while she finds u attractive it dont really matter
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:17 AM
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Every time I successfully brought a girl home we were already making out, holding hands, her sitting on my lap by the end of the night already. All i had to say was “wanna head out?” And she got what it meant. If a girls resistant or hesistant then fuck it let her go home. Personally i want to bring home a girl who cant wait to jump me and has no qualms about it
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:15 AM
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Are you so selfish that you wouldn’t help an old lady cross the street? Are so you selfless that youd give up all ur money to everyone in need for the betterment of society? Is your character so rigid that it cannot change or adapt to ur environment? Or is it so fluid you second guess everything. You make your judgement call somewhere in the middle
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:12 AM
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had a model gf, shit was pretty normal. the less i gave a shit about it, the more she wanted my attention, but only because she knew I had other girls like me too. its not enough u dont care. she also needs to know that other girls r actively chasing u as well. never in a braggy way. but maybe leaving ur phone open and it showing whos liked ur pics or seeing who keeps sending u flirty messages.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:54 AM
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you take urself way too seriously. chaddeux rex? no actual chad calls themselves a chad since to them its just normal life. as the other guy has said, u might legit benefit greatly from smoking up a bit or maybe even trying out beta blockers. that or one day you just come in super hung over where you dont really give a shit about anything anyways. point is, the person who gives less fucks is the winner
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:32 AM
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ghost her. if she asks if you're ghosting her, just say "oh my bad ive legit been busy". then ghost her again.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:17 AM
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u legit might be autistic. Not even saying that in an insulting way but judging by your post, your username, and your responses, its something you might need to accept and look into
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:15 AM
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yiiikesss.... well we all fuck up. at this point i'd say do you own thing and move on cause it seems like even if she gave you the ok and yall hooked up its pretty obvious itd be you who's into her more than her which is a big no no.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:09 AM
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this could def be her trying to get an orbiter. Also, it could also mean that she wants u to try again because she mightve rejected you based on how badly you did it. sometimes it happens. You really only ever know with experience
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:59 AM
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it's not as simple as "i treat them badly therefore they will stick by me". You can go up to a model, punch her in the face, tell her she's worthless and she'll probably call the cops on you. the prereq is that 1. you're high value enough both in general and relative to her and 2. she sees other women want you. pre selection is a motherfucker
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:57 AM
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Youre on the more intense side relative to most lifters if youd rather put aside time at the gym than time with friends. Thats not to discourage you, because if you have a specific goal in mind like competing or getting to a certain lift # or something specific, its fine to set aside that time. On the flip side of that tho you dont want to sacrifice so much time that your friends no longer see you as someone whos willing to hang out with them. And also when youre older, most people cherish the e…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:48 PM
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this is a pretty easy fix. Keep doing what you're doing - trying really hard not to be anxious or socially awkward while still getting disliked and disrespected left and right. Realize one day that you give up. Fuck what everyone else thinks, you were just trying to be friendly. Realize that maybe even though no one owes you friendship, that kinda goes the other way too and that you dont necessarily owe anyone being friendly either. You further realize that maybe its best just to be friendly and…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:01 AM
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honestly, major life changes
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:44 AM
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was literally about to write this verbatim. When im out having fun and completely relaxed, shit tests roll off like butter. when ive had a long day at work, i feel like punching the first guy who cuts me off in traffic. energy is a huge contributor to good mood. take good care of it
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:41 AM
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opportunity mostly. You're not gonna have an environment in your 30's where there are ton of hot single girls and college was really the last place to do so. also by your 30's most people are tired as fuck from clubbing for the 4millionth time in a row and would rather branch out into something more substantial.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:37 AM
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contrary to what trp believes, its completely fine to have female friends so long as you're not the one attracted to them. Ive always had female friends and we'd send each other memes, meet up for food, have a good laugh but at the end of the day they're not girls i'd find attractive enough to consider dating so its fine. of course, i know that guy friends will take a bat for u when girl friends r there during the good times only, but if u accept that then go nuts
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:35 AM
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time. literally just time and the hard ass fucking conscious effort to distract yourself. If you are truly as great as you believe you are and you know this to be based on objective reality, then know that she will be going from one guy to another constantly comparing them to you and realizing she fucked up. i know pua and rsd get shit on here but Tyler did say some profound things, one of them being: I gave her such a fun life filled with such a great social circle and parties that basically it…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:29 AM
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asktrp is probably occupied by a majority of college age kids so take advice on here with a grain of salt. Especially if they go the whole "hurr awalt is awalt bro" route Also, if your son sees his parents bickering and arguing frequently, he might be better off knowing you guys are happier separately than miserable together. He may even feel guilty for feeling like he's the reason you guys are wiling to put up with misery Having said that, use divorce only as a last option when you know for sur…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:20 AM
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think frat boy energy
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:06 AM
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You dont. U just kinda give up on the idea of trying so hard to need certain results to go a certain way.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:05 AM
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coincidentally your life sounds eerily similar to my experiences. Went from being a complete loser with no friends to all of a sudden actually voted the most popular guy, back to having no friends. Whenever I did have a lot of friends, my mentality was this: Imagine the worst case scenario being that no matter how cool or friendly or awesome you were, everyone just disliked you anyways. It was just a curse u had on you. No matter what you did, it'd result in people thinking you were annoying and…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 12:47 AM
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energetic is more polarizing. If people already like you, they can like you more. If people already dislike you, they'll dislike you more. If you're chill at worst you'll just be ignored and not actively thought of as annoying but on the flip side, unless your other SMV makes up for it, you wont have as big of highs energetic is also higher risk higher reward. You can do crazy shit with girls if you have higher energy but if you fuck up, the fails r bigger. best to use it sparingly and congruent…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 12:39 AM
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Yeah those quaker chicks sure will be into that. As for the rest of the women in the world, they’ll call you controlling weird and leave u for someone who can dance and who likes grinding up on her
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:44 PM
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ill give some advice that goes against the grain. In trp terms, Im on the older side. In the end, do what benefits your life the most. If that means doing it the natural way, go for it. If that means taking a high test short cut, go for it. When you're dead it wont have mattered. Life is ammoral. Your goals, results, and how you get there are all ammoral. Live your life that'll bring the highest quality and fulfillment. I know guys who've taken the "right" natty hard way and found happiness. I k…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:19 PM
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thats a good way to eliminate 90+% of women. Club women, church women, nerdy women, all will break up or cheat on you eventually so just date them if you want
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:17 PM
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its ur first relationship and it was for 3 years. no matter what anyone says, its gonna take a while to get over. It'll be especially hard to get over if you felt it was cause it was your fault and you should've/could've done something to make the relationship work. it sucks. take some serious time to distract yourself as much as you can. whether that's burying yourself in work, working out, or as a last resort video games, but it will be a while till you're better. Nothing you can do till u wai…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 12:19 AM
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Thats highly region relative. Whatever gives u enough to afford ur own place + hobbies + eventually the ability to raise a fam
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:10 AM
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i get it. i get this completely and unfortunately you're not gonna get better until you either have massive fuck you power over the ones yelling at you, you completely stop giving a shit (which is the equivalent to fuck you power), or you get a few wins under your belt when it comes to confrontation. Like a lot of things, theres more than one way to skin a cat. If you have the money and patience, you can pay for a therapist who deals with confrontation. Alternatively you can also get into mma/bo…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:38 AM
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Only if it leads to a high status + high paying job. That shit doesnt matter when you're in your early to mid 20's. It matters significantly as you turn 30. A good career in your 30's is compareable to being in a good frat in your 20's because depending on your region, most people your age are already at that point
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:12 AM
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k well i guess all those other college age kids who do it initially who only to grow out of it once they get more experienced dont count
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:36 AM
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Day game is hard mode. Like really hard mode. It was theoretically easier in the early 2000’s when things like “pua” was really unknown. Nowadays people get that theyre being approached by some newbie and might kick up a fuss. If you’re gonna approach, do it in an environment where people want to be approached and arent busy with life shit. Also most people use supplements as a crutch. Like 99.9% of people either use alch, molly, weed, or whatever to lower inhibitions. Until life grinds u down t…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:19 PM
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Its best to read the situation and reply accordingly. Also its based on ur mood
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:32 AM
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For context, I think this ones particularly difficult for me to get over because I basically had this one in the bag and I managed to some how mess it up completely. For the record, this girl fit the bill of my "type" - tall, thin, artsy, model-ish body, introverted, nerdy. Whenever I was entirely too focused on my work, she was on me like moth to a flame. But instead of continuing that frame, I was too concerned with making her happy. She didnt even want that and made it clear to me. I knew it …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:11 AM
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you understood frame wrong previously. Frame includes having boundaries such as how you demonstrated by roasting back. Guys test each other through roasting and the guy who takes it is the guy they'll hound on
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:01 AM
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okay well there you go. no girl gives a shit about the guy whos on his way. they care about the finished product.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:40 AM
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along side agreeing and amplifying and laughing along, roast him. and learn to roast. it's one of the biggest assets a guy can have with other guys. every time that dude does something stupid, call it out in a roasty way.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:36 AM
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there's honestly way too little information on how you look and dress to properly evaluate what your issue is. Maybe you have an ugly face. Maybe you're natty and shredded but its hard to see under your clothes. maybe you're just too short. Maybe you are getting ioi's and you're too autistic to tell. could be a lotta things
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:34 AM
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doable. you have to play your handicap to your advantage. instead of "he's that short handicapped guy", you gotta be that "he's that wheelchair guy who's upperbody is beast and does tough mudders". We all know the trope, the guy who despite having lost his legs has more than made up with it with a massive arms, chest, neck, back and traps. Practically, it's not really your appearance that'll be getting you laid as much as the massive status you'd receive from being the less fortunate guy who's k…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:20 AM
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It is rude sometimes. Some people are very rude. Why r u trying to get the approval of someone whos rude to u
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:39 PM
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Are you being nice because you expect niceness back or because it's the right thing to do? What if you were respectful to people just because that was who you were as a person regardless of how they decided to respond to that? What if then, you realized certain people didnt actually deserve being respectful towards? I dont mean active disrespect, but they didnt require too much effort on your part. Would that make you a bad person? Probably not.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:47 PM
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In every relationship ive been in where i came out fine, i had a tit for tat rule: whatever she’s allowed to do, so am i. Wanna check out other guys in public? Cool, im allowed to check out other girls. Wanna have tinder installed? Cool, same here. Girls are insanely jealous and competitive with guys they believe other girls want. Worst case scenario, she fucks another guy and u shrug it off while 3 other girls r waiting to blow u. But realistically, it doesn’t even get to that point cause she s…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:23 PM
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You feel disrespected because you've internalized that the people being passive aggressive towards you are either equal to or maybe even better than you. If some toddler were to insult you, would you honestly care? How about some absolute fuck up of a person with a drug problem? Probably not. What if tomorrow you won the lottery for several millions of dollars and there was a harem waiting for you at home. Or if tomorrow you were to suddenly have the skills of a black belt in jiu jitsu. How woul…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:09 AM
0

are you saying looked at you differently in a negative crabs in a bucket way? Cause i've definitely witnessed that
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 11:51 PM
2

Half the people your age going clubbing for the first time r nervous. My first 3-5 times going out to clubs were horrendous. I was incredibly out of my environment, awkward, and just didnt get it. Loud music, noise, dancing - i thought - what was the point when people could just be having a good time talking to each other? Then at some point itll click. Its an excuse and an escape from the logical where you just let your human/animal side loose. Its to enjoy the absence of logic and have fun. Ta…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 11:40 PM
2

for me, my boundaries with relationships are as equals. As in whatever my gf wants to be able to get away with, im equally allowed as well. She wants to install tinder, im allowed to install tinder. She's allowed to wear something revealing, i'm allowed to wear something that'll get girl's attention.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:31 AM
22

No dont listen to that comment. Move out of ur shit situation to where ull thrive
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:23 AM
5

Maybe he has a type
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:33 PM
2

Thats some pedo shit
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:32 PM
2

I can relate and i def know the anger ure talkin about. It does feel like anyone could start shit with u at any moment.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:31 PM
1

Here we go...
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:15 PM
-3

LMAO
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:10 PM
3

Wow. Da fuck
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:09 PM
2

To me, i dont try to focus too much on trp stuff like “escalating” or “frame”. Its too many things to juggle and i just end up getting too in my head. I go to parties or up to girl with only one thing in mind: there’s literally zero chance this girl will be into me. I imaginr she already disqualified me as being not good enough. Now im completely free from the burden of expectations. Now i can talk to her like one someone who i dont need anythinf from and ironically, that entices her. If she ins…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:07 PM
1

“O damn that suckss, I hope u feel better! And no worries there’s always next time :)” Why? Because this is what an actual non-butt hurt person would say. A butt hurt person whos trying not to act butt hurt wont even ask if she’s feeling alright. It doesn’t actually matter if u give a shit or not if she’s feeling sick. But if u wanna convey non-butt hurtness, you need to reply like someone who cares if they’re ok.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:02 AM
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Ok, i can clear this up for you because u have the same problem I and many other people have had: you’re trying too hard. You’re trrrying to be outwardly calm, youre trrryiing to meditate and have a clear head. Youre trying oh so hard to be positive and non needy instead of BEing not needy I know that sounds confusing so ill try to give some examples. Think about when youre trying not to care about what others think. What usually ends up happening? You care a lot. And people notice cause u start…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:40 AM
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There are levels to smv. High enough to get swipes on but either ghosted or ignored High enough to have an ok conversation but will almost never actually result in a meet up High enough to plan a meet up but get flaked on cause she’s feeling lazy, or there’s something else to do, or she’d rather just pass out at home. High enough where theyre the ones who make the conversation easier on their end and barring emergencies, will consider it their loss if they cant actually meet with u
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:23 AM
6

Where are you guys living where you think this is true? 90% of young professionals end up in larger cities where the competition is much higher and fitness is a lot better. If you're talking about small towns, hot girls wont live there
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:37 PM
1

what is this, incels?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:00 PM
8

you're being clown funny. Girl's like asshole funny.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:42 AM
1

There r roughly 3.5 billion women in the world. Think ill survive
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:32 AM
2

Ok, all the girls r all taken up. Sorry
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:47 PM
1

Yet I’m also a very idealistic visionary concerned with liberty, power, and legacy. I seek to change the world around me and bend it into the way I believe it would benefit the ones I care about and myself. Oh please do enlighten us as to how you took action so far to change the world and bend it to the way you want.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:57 AM
0

they're fine.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:54 AM
-1

"Chad the waiter" says: YO DIS BITCH, SHE A REAL BITCH. MUH SMV BRUH. HOW I GET DIS BITCH learn to relax.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:38 PM
3

the best reactions ive ever gotten when getting looked at is to make a stupid D: face with my eyes crossed. 8/10 times it gets them giggling.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:35 PM
5

guys who are that hot literally dont have time to fuck every girl and they're gonna be fucking the best girls they can get. meaning a shit ton are never gonna come close to fucking them
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:21 PM
1

yepp. I mean your genetics and age could allow you to recover from going to failure on compound lifts in which case go for it. But you're going into every workout still sore or tired af, lower the intensity on compounds and save them for iso's
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:19 PM
9

aite so, this goes against the grain but fuck it. I've been quite a few relationships and had my fair share of hook ups, make outs, one night stands etc. Yea awalt is awalt but to equate an emotionally damaged girl who titty streams on twitch to someone raised by well adjusted parents is in itself insane. Girls, despite being awalt, exist on a spectrum where you will absolutely find women who will treat you very well and lovingly in a relationship, even for years and years considering you hold u…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:54 PM
2

so basically you're going from a beginner who can make weekly gains to an intermediate who needs more volume. switch to a PPL program. switch to a 6-12 rep range scheme. On compounds, leave 2-3 reps in the tank by your last set and on iso's go near to full failure based on recoverability. Source: been lifting for 2+ years
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:39 PM
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He’s more outgoing while I’m more serious and rational. bigger than me Honestly those are you two biggest issues. I had a friend who's big brother would always give him shit. my friend was skrawny af at the time. He spent 2 years getting huge at the gym, his bigger bro never fucked with him again. Also, stop being so boring and easy to fuck with. Learn to be a bit of an asshole yourself so you can objectively talk shit back.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:36 PM
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No one's gonna like this answer cause its not a hack or a trick but it's the truth: massive relative status. Forget genetics for a second cause a guy who has significantly better status will win out with the average chad lite. I've been a promoter for a bar before and around the same time I've also gigged for bars as part of a band. In my subjective opinion, these were considered upper middle venues in that particular city. Definitely wouldn't get the highest end patrons but it'd get good patron…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:31 PM
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It doesnt really work that way. Yes, women have lots of options but Ive also seen plenty of women who despite having a lot of options will still complain that they can't get dick because 99.9% of men who hit on them dont meet the minimum criteria for giving dick to them. That, plus the wall, plus the fact that you're competition is not brad pitt. There's enough leeway that a solid chunk of women 7 and below won't be paired up
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:25 PM
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they're treating you like a rehab patient for sobbing? I mean if people know that your grandmother passed away last week it would seem understandable. It definitely seems like you're leaving something out. In any case, time + living well is the cure all to most fuck ups. I've fucked up tremendously before. 6-12 months later + a bunch of postings on social media about how good my life is (aka, trips abroad, posting before and after pics from gym progress, pics going out with friends showing that …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:22 PM
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with girls like this I just treat them like an acquaintances from church. Friendly, detached, surface level niceness, with brief courteous interactions. Sort of like how a politician would greet some supporters. It gets the point across that I can be civil, friendly, and in a way even charming but it's also very clear that I have no investment in the person and everything will be on a surface level only.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:18 PM
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bring a penis. preferably yours.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:16 PM
9

at a bar or a party where people are in the mood to be social
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:05 AM
1

did she answer you yet?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:37 AM
1

i believe the next step from uber rich is either power moves of philanthropy. Either become the next vice chasing pedo or someone who donates to help others in need. I've heard ofc tho that the philanthropy route typically comes with a lot more life satisfaction
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:36 AM
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bruh. Literally every solution is just u using common sense. Think for yourself what the very obvious answer to ur solution is. "hmm cant do team sports, how bout i join the powerlifting team? How bout i join a club. Those dont work cause of x? Ok, is x solvable realistically? If yes, great. If no, then how bout i see i can try something else" and then keep going down the list trying to problem solve you way into a solution
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:29 AM
1

;) lmk how it goes bro
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:15 AM
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nah if she's this ready to be sexual she's ready to get fucked. send her ur address. have fun tonight
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:11 AM
2

noice
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:06 AM
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pick a frat you think parties a lot ask when their next rush event is join. in the mean while pick a sport you like find out their schedule join. congratz u did it ambitious guy
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:05 AM
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nah just "show me ur tits" cause if u fuck around too much and dont keep it sexual she'll lose interest
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:03 AM
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"show me ur tits". pretty direct. she'll find it funny
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:00 AM
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Newbies don't need instruction manuals, they need to learn how to figure out their problems for themselves because something like "how do i make friends" at 19 isnt difficult. join a frat during rush week join a club or a sports team make some friends in class really, how difficult is any of that? The real issue with newbies isnt that they dont have solutions, it's that they have analysis paralysis and they need to stop asking for someone to hold their hand and just do the thing they need to do.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:58 AM
3

what sort of pua techniques
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:50 AM
1

keep us updated fam
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:49 AM
15

"come over" for sure. She's 21, she wants to be commanded and not see you as a bitch
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:47 AM
2

It's because I don't have the social life/social media/confidence/status that some other guys have. I mostly keep to myself despite probably being an extrovert deep down. yeah, no girls arent gonna give a shit if it's because your parents died to a mugger in a dark alley one night. They care about the value you currently posses. Dont have a social circle at 19? Sucks to suck but you need to go figure it out instead of asking this community for patch work advice. You know what most of us at a par…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:45 AM
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You pretty much hit the nail on the head with the last sentence. HB8+'s are already very inclusive with a close knit group of other HB8+'s as well as having a large social circle of other acquaintances that they can rely for socializing semi regularly. At a certain point, they're aware that they're the ones who are being sought after while those who go to hobby/meet up ones are the ones who are seeking to join groups. Every hb8+ i know on social media will typically post up pics of house parties…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:33 AM
1

A 20 min ride costs you $30?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:53 AM
1

Not a fan of uber i see
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:21 AM
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Your friends are cunts. Thats not something theyll learn till they get older and look back at what awful cunts they were. Up to u if u wanna stick around such a group. At your age bracket u have a lot more room to find a new circle if u really need
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:29 AM
1

9’s in my world are models. Not ig models, but actually contracted models who are able to financially support themselves. Our scales might be different
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:21 AM
1

Anti slut defense is real and exists. Needing comfort also exists. Not every comfort test will lead to being a beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:19 AM
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alright, i know AWALT is AWALT, but can we all agree that there definitely degress of crazy depending on the girl. The sort of girl you're talking about has lowwwwww self esteem. The kind of girl you're describing is the "edgy" color her hair purple sorta girl who has 0 girl friends and hangs out with just the guys. Typically the type of girls who are in a strong clique of other pretty girls wont fall into that pattern of "oh he's disinterested in me, thus i need him"
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:23 AM
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she's a girl. in 18 months she could have gotten grossly infatuated with someone new, pair bonded, and introduced him to her group of friends. Imagine the emotional and social catastrophe it would cause if she suddenly left him for someone completely different, even if she knew you from before. Sucks but it happens
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:18 AM
1

yeah ngl, calling her a pussy was probably a poor move. a lot of girls (and guys) can't take insults, so you gotta purposely make them as lame as possible so they get that you're not overly offensive.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:12 AM
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yeah way more likely than not she's trying desperately to let u know that you're in the friend's zone. Any girl that gives you the "omg id totally fuck that guy" is basically considering you her gal pal. Move on
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:08 AM
1

Yes. unequivocally yes. You're not smashing tonight but she's trying to build comfort with you first. If she sees that you and her dog get along and you're not butt hurt about not getting laid on day 1, congratz: you're gonna open up 5 more days in the future where she can get pounded by you guilt free. She doest wanna go over ur place for the first time without a good excuse and feel like a slut. She wants plausible deniability. Let her have that so you can not cock block your own dick.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:05 AM
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insta only works if your insta is = or > than hers. So unless you've got tons of pics up of you traveling, you shirtless hangin with a buncha hot girls who r all over you, you having pics with your dog, and generally showing that your life is phenomenal, don't bother. ONS on average only happen with 3 girls below your scale. Either you're hitting up girls who can do way better than you or you're not as good looking as you say
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:03 AM
2

uhhhhh not sure what the other comments are on about. This is a classic comfort test. She gets that you're the shit. she wants to know that you're not too cool for her you're not gonna just use her for a pump and dump. believe it or not, girls do reject guys if they think they're "too good" for them. If you care enough about actually getting with this girl for a LTR then beta it just a bit.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:00 AM
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Be realistic. If youre built and tall and can easily take guys down, you can afford to be nicer without running the risk of being disrespected. If youre friends with most people at the party and really well liked, again you can afford to be nicer. Conversely, if youre skinny short and brown and youre in the middle of america somewhere by your self, you cant afford to be too nice. Respect comes with realistic, readily viewable understanding of power dynamics
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:50 AM
6

As someone who’s the active in life type, im also into alpha women. Youre right, theyre just more fun and interesting to be around
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:39 AM
3

Since youre making bank, if you dont mind trading in money for time, do meal prep services. Also, if its not a big deal to put off breakfast, have ur first meal at work. Otherwise yes. Welcome to adulthood. Either accept it or find a way out
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:36 AM
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"I cheated on her, got caught, got pissed about getting caught, and now i'm pissed cause she 'won'". You sound like a baby back bitch.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:42 AM
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many disagree because what you posted is generally true but isnt an iron clad rule. There are enough valid exceptions and variables involved that it'd be unreasonable for it to let the average or slightly under -average guy down
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:19 AM
14

You're right, what are you trying to get from this post?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:15 AM
5

yeah as soon as a girl starts the "omg this guy Greg is sooo hot" talk with you, you're her gal pal
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:06 AM
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with regards to women, being shit tested is actually the clearest sign you're on the verge of getting her. As crazy as that sounds, all it means is that she finds you attractive but she's on the edge of committing to her attraction because she doesnt want to realize she just let a simp who bitches about his height put his semen in her. Being shit tested early on in the initial meeting is a god send. Welcome it. Pass it. Fuck her. Thank her for giving you the shit test for which you can pass beca…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:01 AM
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what even is macho nowadays anyways? I've seen plenty of guys try being macho and fail miserably. It seems like college frat boy asshole seems to have taken over that role since the 2000's
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 12:45 AM
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^ listen to this guy. social circles naturally diminish once you enter the "my friends are off getting married" stage. Once yours dries up, it'll be a struggle, so look for new ones in a subculture you can enjoy and be active in
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:10 AM
13

so ill drop some red pill bombs a lot of people here will be salty about: ease of escalation is a two way game. The more attractive she perceives you, the more she'll entice you to escalate, the more she'll escalate on you, and the more receptive she'll be to your escalations. Meaning: game, as amazing as it is, is ultimately capped by genetics and status. So based on what you've written, it sounds like you did a lot of things correctly but unless you were suddenly to show massive status, it was…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:01 AM
9

Pre selection for the most part works higher to lower.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:47 AM
3

yep. ur responses were perfect
/r/askTRP11/10/19 01:57 AM
2

finally some level headed advice on here
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:46 PM
1

Oh I get it, you're referring to the one I made ironically to mock the bad advice on here. Tbh I was gonna go through your account to roast you but it just ended up being really depressing. In all seriousness I hope you find help. gl
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:43 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:39 AM
2

Why should i feel bad for being 30 on this sub???
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:15 AM
1

LMAOO. I'm 30, most people my age are either decent enough to return money they've borrowed or they have enough sense to know who not to lend it to. But hey if you need tactics then go for it bud.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:55 AM
5

lmaoooo, ngl this had me chuckling
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:51 AM
2

Being able to talk about normal shit then joke around, then back to normal shit, then back to joking around. If all you do is talk about life goals, careers, school, etc it just gets too serious for most people and even boring. If you joke constantly and wont' stop, it's weird and makes you seem like there's something actually wrong with you have both mixed in
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:49 AM
6

You can tell the level of autism here by how many people are taking this thread seriously
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:43 AM
0

lol idk what kind of people you lend money to but typically I lend money to my bros who i dont have to pussy foot around and need "approach tactics" for.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:36 AM
6

Old guy here, most of these comments about meditating and reading the side bar suck. here's the thing, if you want to solve anything in your life, you just have to deal with it directly until its actually solved. Stop pussy footing around the issue. What do you have anxiety over? Making conversations? Talking in front of people? Whatever it maybe, you're not gonna solve it until you actually put in the effort to solve it. When i was 20, I literally could not pick up the phone to make a call to c…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:35 AM
0

either OP has some shitty friends if they get butt hurt about it or he has some decent ones who'll make sure to pay him back based on what i've said
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:22 AM
2

don't listen to half these comments, they're trash. No, forced eye contact doesnt make you look dominant, it makes you look like you're forcing awkward autistic eye contact. Eye contact is a SYMPTOM of feeling comfortable with people you're around, not the other way around. do you FORCE eye contact with your best friends or with your little siblings? No, you just have eye contact cause you believe they won't do anything to harm you out of no where. Your issues lie with feeling like the people yo…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:19 AM
-1

"bro i gotta make rent this month, you got any of the money i lent you you could get back to me?"
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:11 AM
1

yeah ngl out of the social media you could've quit, you picked the two worst to stay on and the two best to quit. this is going against the grain but social media only fucks up your life if you have a shitty life. Everyone who's out partying, having a great time, doing fun shit is using it to their advantage. get back on insta/fb, get off reddit and youtube and do it like with teh same mentality of going to the gym. Just force yourself off it every day until its so habitual u actually feel guilt…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:07 AM
1

bruh, there's no hard 8 that exists in the world that's "going behind a guy's back". They're 8's, they're gonna be hit up by every good looking rich cock in the world. Once you've accepted that you're just fun until someone better comes along, you're gonna be a lot less stressed. and yes, hard nexting her was dumb but in the bigger scheme of things you did the right thing by cutting off someone you were getting too emotionally attached to.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:05 AM
7

lets be real, 3 has a serious cap to it if not assisted by either 1 or 2.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:55 AM
6

a lot of it is from the earlier days when proper technique was thrown out the window. Kipped pull ups, deadlifts, squats, and other technically important movements being done haphazardly. Modern crossfit probably already addresses these issues. also, it boomed into an every-man fitness routine tailored to the masses almost overnight, which on reddit (which is filled with elitists) is a big no no.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:53 AM
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lmao girls do actually put their bfs on their social media, but only as a trophy to show off what they've caught. i know plenty of average looking girls with very good looking boyfriends who wont stop putting up pics of them together. I also know girls who started relationships with providers who seldom do. if you ever want to know which one in the relationship is the prize, count the number of couple pics she displays
/r/askTRP08/10/19 01:50 AM
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i've had really really good wing men before. Some of them were gay guys who said "oh man icybear7's sooo cute. Dont you think he's cute??? if he was gay id' eat him right up". That helped tremendously. As for straight wingmen, they just talked about you like u were the fucking man. I had joined a flag football team and the captain on there took a girl from a party over to me and said "this guy right here, icybear7, you gotta meet him. he's a fucking beast on the field" or something like that. th…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:33 AM
6

Bruh, as someone who's had your issues before and got better this is what you actually do: as someone else has said, you have to diversify your interests and get with the times on current events, pop culture, fun hobbies etc. You know how people actually connect? through similarities. I've got a few friends i got a long great with cause we loved watching game of thrones together back when it wasnt trash. I made other friends from playing league of legends together, other friends from being inter…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:29 AM
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i've been lifting for 3 years and no it doesnt magically fix your frame of mind. Going out and socializing helps you get better at socializing. Liftings great for a lot of things, but it doesnt fix anxiety, it doesnt fix social awkwardness. Facing your issues with anxiety and social awkwardness fixes them
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:25 AM
9

you're actually in the perfect spot to get tons of dates, u just dont know it yet. Most of my younger years, I was one annoying needy sack of shit. I always asked everyone i knew to hang out, I always messaged people non stop, and I was neeeedyyy af. needless to say, i had almost no friends. At some point, I became so filled with depression and absolute self loathing I finally told myself this: Alright, nobody likes you. Even if they incidentally invite you to things, they still dont want you th…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:09 AM
1

Im assuming other public places are out of the question, otherwise this post would be retarded. In that case, some times you're shit out of luck. Nothing you can really do about it. If you still wanna meet people, you gotta be valuable in the social circles in the small ass school you've got. Luckily that actually works in your favor since you have less competition and can stand out more in a positive way. Join the most popular frats, meet and get along with the popular kids, join the sports tea…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:23 AM
12

men typically shit test other men who they feel they can get away with. If you've been raised in a super religious family or one with a weak father figure, it'll be tough to get used to. If you want to get over it, you need a group of guy friends who are cool enough to accept you but also love roasting each other. Remember, there's roasting in good nature with people who ultimately respect each other, and there's roasting to put others down. Find people in the former to prepare u for the ladder
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:15 AM
6

Your life sounds like my life 2 years ago. Some times no amount of positivity will magically make you feel better about a shit situation. Sometimes forcing yourself to feel positive can even back fire if it keeps failing. For shit situations that you're aware are only temporary, you just have to wade through the bullshit. Find ways to cope to relieve the stress, whether thats partying, playing video games, reaching new PRs or hanging with ur bros. Personally, I put up 3-6 month goals to focus on…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:12 AM
0

A lot of deluded comments on this post unfortunately. Fact of the matter is you're right. Most people on this subreddit are a mix of young guys 18-22 years old who have very little or no experience with women, let alone a gorgeous top tier one. If some college kid on here is telling you that an actual NYC or LA model, who's probably been around and dated high tier men, is some how beneath him, he's full of shit. If you ever do manage to land yourself an actual mid 8 and above, you're probably go…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:06 AM
1

LOL jesus. No guy that you've just met who you have 0 trust or comradarie with is gonna bros before hoes you unless he himself has a crazy about of abundance.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:17 AM
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not gonna lie, thought OP had a genuine question but it just turns out he's a an asshat. "im BORED wItH tHe BaNaLiTiEs of CHILDREN" lmao what a shithead
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:14 AM
3

she's waiting for you to make plans. hit her with something like "there's a food festival next friday at X. You down?". But obviously your variant of whatever it is you want to do
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:09 AM
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you have high-functioning autism, tremendous social anxiety, and lack of flirting experience - you have low value problems. just let go of ur ego and accept it, you'll get better faster that way. If you're honestly that autistic, do whatever high functioning autistic guy did to get better: record yourself interacting and go through it meticulously until you get your mannerisms, tone of voice, body language right
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:01 AM
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yes, i understand that. This is a pretty normal phenomenon among low value guys with 0 prospects where they ask themselves, "why do i get attached to any girl that gives me the slightest signs of interest". You're just taking it a step further by rejecting them before they have a chance to reject you. Again, this is a very common pattern seen again and again and again. You wanna get out of it? Keep getting actually rejected like a man until you're numb to it
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:32 PM
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You can logically think through and tell yourself things but if you truly felt like there was not a chance taken away from you, you wouldn't be on here posting about that exact scenario. Sorry but human's are really shit at separating their rationalizations from their actual feelings. What you WOULDVE done if you actually had 0 care is you would've went on your way playing frisbee, chatting with everyone, and having fun. Sure, maybe you didnt have oneitis, but based on what you wrote, you defini…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:25 PM
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You feel this way because you caught oneitis for the one girl who took interest in you and then you started viewing the other men as competition for the girl who couldve been. How do you get over this? A lot of ways. Start dating other girls already so you have abundance. Increase your looks to the point youre clearly the one other girls would go for among ur team. As for myself, i have such low self esteem that i assume any girl whos into me is a moron for having such poor taste in men. Hence, …
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:09 PM
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I assume in this context you're using your doctors visit as a microcosm for your general feelings of not being respected. I'll also assume that by "respected" you mean that people don't brush you off, are attentive to your needs, and treat the way you would treat others since you probably put in at least some effort to hold the door open, are considerate of others' time, speak in an positive tone of voice, etc. Ill start off by saying half of being actively respected (aka people putting in effor…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:52 PM
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