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ConversationIcyCalm3526/r/seduction04/08/26 02:05 PM
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LifestyleIcyCalm3526/r/seduction16/08/26 07:04 PM
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Inner Game IcyCalm3526/r/seduction08/08/26 02:41 PM
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Inner Game IcyCalm3526/r/seduction03/08/26 01:53 PM
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Inner Game IcyCalm3526/r/seduction29/07/26 02:32 PM
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Fundamentals IcyCalm3526/r/seduction07/08/26 03:47 PM
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Fundamentals IcyCalm3526/r/seduction07/08/26 04:12 PM
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Inner Game IcyCalm3526/r/seduction30/07/26 03:52 PM
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Exactly. So if I project good body language then I don’t know how people pick this up
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:18 PM
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I have friends. I go clubbing. I go to bars. I try be around women. My point is that women give off an aura to me like "fuck off" or "dont talk to me." And its destroyed my confidence being so tall but also so invisible especially considering i actually have siblings who actually GET attention
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:12 PM
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I have friends. I go clubbing. I go to bars. I try be around women. My point is that women give off an aura to me like "fuck off" or "dont talk to me." And its destroyed my confidence being so tall but also so invisible especially considering i actually have siblings who actually GET attention
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:12 PM
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I have friends. I go clubbing. I go to bars. I try be around women. My point is that women give off an aura to me like "fuck off" or "dont talk to me." And its destroyed my confidence being so tall but also so invisible especially considering i actually have siblings who actually GET attention
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:11 PM
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childhood trauma (growing up skinny and unathletic), all boys school, having better looking siblings, etc. Its all absolutely fucked up my game and mindset (no idea to this day as a 31 yo how to talk to women i dont know in a sexual manner/flirt - any success i had in the past was luck which eludes me now).
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:06 PM
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childhood trauma (growing up skinny and unathletic), all boys school, having better looking siblings, etc. Its all absolutely fucked up my game and mindset (no idea to this day as a 31 yo how to talk to women i dont know in a sexual manner/flirt - any success i had in the past was luck which eludes me now).
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:05 PM
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childhood trauma (growing up skinny and unathletic), all boys school, having better looking siblings, etc. Its all absolutely fucked up my game and mindset (no idea to this day as a 31 yo how to talk to women i dont know in a sexual manner/flirt - any success i had in the past was luck which eludes me now).
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:02 PM
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honestly - you're probably right. but im very consciously aware of projecting powerful body language and have been for years. Never look at the ground, shoulders back, chin up. Nobody cares.
/r/seduction16/08/26 08:12 PM
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childhood trauma (growing up skinny and unathletic), all boys school, having better looking siblings, etc. Its all absolutely fucked up my game and mindset (no idea to this day as a 31 yo how to talk to women i dont know in a sexual manner/flirt - any success i had in the past was luck which eludes me now). I wonder how much the confidence comes from receipt of positive reinforcement.
/r/seduction16/08/26 08:07 PM
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already have done that but the devil has a leash on me :(
/r/seduction16/08/26 08:02 PM
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Ill confess. Many days i do nothing but hang wit my better looking siblings. So I get to see first-hand over last year or 2 especially the different in treatment and looks especially from women. Im talking me blatantly ignored sometimes. Can you maybe see how that would lead me to make these type of conclusions?
/r/seduction16/08/26 08:00 PM
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I get it. Its not my race or height or looks. Its just me. I cant explain it and ive tried getting through to people both here and even to a therapist or 2. It feels like i might give off an invisible negative aura even when pretending to be happy or genuinely happy - but in the absence of woo woo i end up blaming my face (receding hairline, bad beard genetics, etc.)
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:58 PM
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When im out clubbing or at bars these days most women give me "fuck off" or bad negative energy aura. Especially being a tall guy (albeit a minority) this has completely destroyed any confidence I might have with women especially being someone with siblings who lets say actually get attention and i see it with my own eyes while i stay invisible. Honestly makes me wanna curl up and stop going out.
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:50 PM
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I have friends. I go clubbing. I go to bars. I try be around women. My point is that women give off an aura to me like "fuck off" or "dont talk to me." And its destroyed my confidence being so tall but also so invisible especially considering i actually have siblings who actually GET attention
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:49 PM
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I told you before my problem is it feels like being average simply dont cut it
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:37 PM
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deleting and remaking my account for noob boost
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:36 PM
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I really wanna change that. How can I?
/r/seduction10/08/26 01:27 PM
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Then we in the realm of metaphysical shit now cuz I go out trying to maintain a good vibe and feeling like a million bucks and then as soon as I feel good boom - some woman brings me down. Because my vibe seems to be something about me they see which turns them off completley
/r/seduction09/08/26 06:23 PM
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Thats the vibe I get based on my life experience and what I see with other dudes I know getting that attention
/r/seduction09/08/26 06:07 PM
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Cuz it’s not about height it’s about face in 2026. I try be a confident man but when I go out and see how women look at me — man a nigga gets down
/r/seduction09/08/26 04:00 PM
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Has not been my experience being tall. I get zero leeway to screw up or make mistakes in convo. I really struggle with what to say especially because I don’t get those invite signals and basically have I to in cold so much of the time - and the negative aura vibe I get just leads me to think there’s something wrong with my face
/r/seduction09/08/26 03:58 PM
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Maybe cuz it was nightgame but I got so in my head. All I could manage was a compliment and the girl saying thank you and that’s it. Literally in the moment I just have no clue what women wanna talk about. Especially if I don’t meet their looks standard.
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:59 PM
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Day game I get too in my head like “would this woman want a below average dude talking to her”
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:49 PM
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scared of rejection and humiliation since im there daily
/r/seduction09/08/26 03:20 AM
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Deleting and remaking my account too much
/r/seduction08/08/26 08:24 PM
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I deleted all dating apps. Tinder banned me and the others get me nothing.
/r/seduction08/08/26 07:55 PM
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I shaved a few months back did not like how I looked ahahh
/r/seduction08/08/26 07:32 PM
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Introvert and feeling women find me physically unattractive
/r/seduction08/08/26 07:10 PM
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So what kinda vibe do I need? I try go up to women respectfully but they just blow me off within a few seconds. And yes I dress well and take care of my hygiene and go to the gym.
/r/seduction08/08/26 04:35 PM
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Idk how to do this. I try talk to women just get brushed off within 30 seconds. Last night was first time in a while I went out to do nightgame wit a pal. I feel shitty that the women I want don’t want me.
/r/seduction08/08/26 04:34 PM
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It seems in 2026 looks is all that matters. I approach these women and get nowhere
/r/seduction08/08/26 04:02 PM
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Ya I’m just a pussy scared of potential consequences is all
/r/seduction04/08/26 08:16 PM
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Yes I could have but I’m too in my head
/r/seduction04/08/26 06:14 PM
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Ya not for me. Only attracting women I’m not into.
/r/seduction04/08/26 05:53 PM
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I literally am signed up to coach Kyle’s skool right now haha
/r/seduction04/08/26 02:50 PM
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I feel you bro. Guess I’m too stuck in my head
/r/seduction04/08/26 01:43 PM
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Banned from tinder and don’t get shit on the other ones
/r/seduction04/08/26 01:03 PM
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brings down my self-esteem and removes me from my desire for a family one day
/r/seduction03/08/26 09:13 PM
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I would notice. I guess being tall and black dont work unless you a rapper or athlete (im neither)
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:58 PM
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Idk man lots of black men in Toronto and a ton of em I see having success. But overall I feel if ur not a rapper or athlete it’s muuuuch harder.
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:09 PM
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Needed to hear this. No clue where I stand on that scale but I guess I give off bitch energy. Rationale is always “they’ll make it obvious if they want me chatting em up”
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:08 PM
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Lack of IOIs from women I’ll say is #1 thing that’s destroyed my confidence
/r/seduction03/08/26 04:24 PM
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Dating apps are fucking useless for me. Borderline unusable I get fucking nothing
/r/seduction03/08/26 04:24 PM
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Idk tbh. I’ve gotten the main character from everybody hates Chris before
/r/seduction03/08/26 04:21 PM
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See this is the #1 reason above all others why I have zero confidence or esteem with women. I would have no problem introducing myself to a woman if she gave an IOI. Never happens. Hence I think I’m unattractive.
/r/seduction03/08/26 04:18 PM
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Do you approach random women and get dates that way? Dating apps are unusable for me now
/r/seduction03/08/26 04:12 PM
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My brain is extremely rejection avoidant. Just needs confirmation a woman would be interested in me talking to them before I do. I do not have this problem with men.
/r/seduction03/08/26 03:57 PM
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Even this kinda shit I find hard to commit to given my current life setup but I’ll check it out
/r/seduction03/08/26 03:55 PM
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Trying to but it’s hard cuz my mind tricks me into thinking “go see an escort these women clearly don’t want you”
/r/seduction03/08/26 03:46 PM
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Interesting man cuz my experience wit escorts has been opposite - I just feel shitier. Also dating apps are no bueno for me rn as I’m shadowbanned/banned from most. So they give me very low volume of likes or matches and usually women I’m not interested in. Guess I need more of a zero fucks given attitude
/r/seduction03/08/26 03:39 PM
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been going to one but not helping as my body physically cant take action
/r/seduction03/08/26 03:02 PM
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hey just turned them on - messaged u
/r/seduction03/08/26 02:47 PM
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Ya man. These apps r rough im mainly attracting women im not into
/r/seduction30/07/26 07:51 PM
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I feel better bro just needed 2nd opinion
/r/seduction30/07/26 07:49 PM
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Yee just feel I can’t rely on apps no more
/r/seduction30/07/26 05:21 PM
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Brutal
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:21 PM
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Caribbean
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:19 PM
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I even try smile at women sometimes they just stare back blank. In 2026 being facially non-handsome hurts man.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:57 PM
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I wouldn’t do that. I’m scared of being labelled a harasser.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:54 PM
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Ya I think I’m a bit pain avoidant. I know I’m generally kinda ugly so I avoid the pain of female rejection.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:54 PM
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Every 2 weeks haircut (but my hairline is receding which has destroyed my confidence). Just upgraded my wardrobe. Saw a dermatologist who put me on some serious shit. Nothing has made a difference. I’m just the invisible tall guy solely due to having a subpar face.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:41 PM
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Diff situation. He has an objectively handsome face.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:39 PM
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Lack of choosing signals. I’ve been with dudes who get stares and eye fucks from girls. Doesn’t happen to me. So I’m pissed and jaded.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:38 PM
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At least with ones I find even semi-attractive - Yes. There’s just too much competition from rich guys and male models.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:36 PM
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Interesting. So would you say my biggest problem is just the fact that I don’t approach women at all?
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:35 PM
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No clue where to find em
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:31 PM
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Good stuff. Should have rephrased - in addition to intimidation there seems to be an element where women don’t find me facially attractive (they seem to want pretty boys now)
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:22 PM
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I’ll dm u
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:13 PM
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It’s my face then clearly
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:56 PM
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It’s more I get the sense women aren’t attracted to my face.
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:52 PM
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I feel that. I just got tired of bulky looks and wanted something more lean and athletic as I hear thats more for the female gaze.
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:52 PM
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I already watch my posture and keep my head held high. Has made zero difference - still get zero choosing signals from women.
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:49 PM
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Hard gainer here. Got up to almost 200 wit gainer shakes but problem is made my face bloated. And facial aesthetics seem to be eveything.
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:39 PM
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Was 195 but I’m obsessed with getting abs and a lean face so cut down to 182ish (still no abs or lean face)
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:35 PM
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I get you just felt there’s something wrong with me if I can’t meet women the way everyone my age is
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:33 PM
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Huh interesting. So bad vibes women throw my way might just be how they treat everyone?
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:29 PM
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All my friends met their SO on dating apps. So without that avenue I’ve just been frustrated. If women find me ugly on apps I just don’t wanna bother irl
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:14 PM
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Ya I’m telling you I don’t like initiating with women because I’ve seen in action how women make it obvious to men they actually want to talk to that they interested in talking.
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:11 PM
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I can dm you.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:55 PM
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The problem is I have seen women approach men or make it very obvious. So it’s left me jaded feeling like they find me unattractive.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:54 PM
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Evidently in Toronto. I’ve seen things about how women generally only want a black man who’s rich or an athlete. I’m neither hence my league seems to be obese women.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:44 PM
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Not really. I mean my standards aren’t sky high. As a lifestyle thing I’d like a partner who is at the least a tiny bit active. I can’t see myself with an overweight woman who doesn’t gym. But if that’s my looksmatch then I’d rather just be single for life despite wanting kids and family one day.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:41 PM
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I’m so in my head. I just hate the vibe women throw me. Like at the gym I do see dudes chatting up the (very few) women there - when I know if it was ME chatting up those women I’d be banned or get the police called on me. Because women make it clear they don’t want me talking to them.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:37 PM
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