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| 2 | Moved to NYC; How to make friends and eventually meet women? (cross-posting for visibility, thanks to user /u/LoganShoshin for his contribution) | IcyWork | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 09:12 PM |
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| 1 | Men 30+, how do you approach?Man, your words are really encouraging! Your reply gives me really good vibes! I had never seen everything from that perspective, that is moving was the hard part - wow, what a realization! I am going to do it starting from tomorrow; I'm going to approach but, above all, I will have fun. I'll keep your words in mind; it's a game. Just a game. Thanks again! | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Men 30+, how do you approach?Being sociable and friendly seems to be the key. I have been plagued by AA and fear of getting accused of harassment as it's portrayed in the media men must weight words and actions all the time. I mean if you're an asshole and touch inappropriately, they're right but they're utterly off if you're just hitting on a woman. You get rejected - stop, it ends there. Go find another one. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Men 30+, how do you approach?I totally got your point, this is golden. I come from a very small town in Europe and NYC to me seems overwhelmingly hard to approach. Thanks for your words, they help me a lot. If you any more tips, feel free to share them. I'd really appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Men 30+, how do you approach?First of all, thank you. This is very thorough and detailed. You're suggesting building up a scene presence by just showing up, being friendly with the staff and striking convos here and there. Do you suggest against opening women at the bar while 'building up the presence'? I know approach anxiety never goes away but the only way to suppress it seems through mere exposure and thus desensitization. Easier said than done. It's a game, you got it! | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Men 30+, how do you approach?Hi MS, I am wondering how you manage to meet women of such different ages in the first place. I am interested since I'm 32 and I want to meet girls up to 10 years my junior. Like you, I look younger than my age; in fact, I get usually mistaken for a 25-26 year-old guy, on my best day even for a 22 year). I dress for my age and not like an old at all spanning from business causal to just causal (leather jacket, jeans, boots for example). I've recently moved to NYC from Europe and I'm practically … | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 08:11 PM |
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