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Opinion of 99% of women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:24 PM
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You are minority, and probaly as many redit women, a weirdo or outcast. I talk about so called "normi" women, and those are women I am surrounded with since elementary school until now in early 30s.. I have never met a woman yet, and I have a lot of gfs, hookups, female friends, sister and her friends.. due to stydying in field with 90% women, that wanted, not even a bi, but even just straight but feminine man. Stereotipical masculine men were always the most popular men, at least in my part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:11 PM
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That is why I said - maybe to married etc.. buf those men would still be sexually atracted to that woman. Point is, majority of women are repulsed by bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:05 PM
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No, since I think majority of men would be with bisexual woman. Or at least would still be sexualy attracted to one, if not being maried to one. While majority of women find bi men sexualy repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:52 AM
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So? What I said is a reply to you, and its a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:50 AM
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Its exactly that. Bi men are inheritely less masculine - more feminine, in the eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:46 AM
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Well yeah...but thats the OPs point, you want a straight man because you dont like your man fucking with other men becsuse its inheritely unmasculine, therefore repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:44 AM
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And thats the truth.. the relationahips I felt the best and had girls all over me are where they wanted me more than I wanted them. As soon as a woman sense you are heads over hills over her and afraid of losing her, she subconsiosly or consiously lose at least a bit of respect for you. Its absolute truth I will beleive in that until I die. Women DO need to feel at least a bit of "competition". Not from specific woman, but she needs to feel that you CAN leave her and WOULD leave her if she doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:40 PM
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There ia that, but I do agree that lack of PROPER socialization is one of tje big reason. When I say propwr, i mean socializing and overall being on places where you can meet women. Yes, majority of men who struggle that I know jave friends, but usualy only male friends that also struggle. And they going to have beers - by themselves without approaching any women ever, and usualy have most male dominated hobbies and interests Being friends with women is better for that, not becuase you will try …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:42 PM
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Its absolutely on them and its absolutely not a society fault that boring and homebody men struggle That is why they need to push themselves to get out of the shell and actualy socialize more, especialy with women. If is the sole reason for that, "getting a girl" - so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:37 PM
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Of course they should If they could
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:33 PM
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Or, thry enjoyed it as well, as many women do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:27 PM
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Sex is enjoyable per se, also novelty, adrenalin, dopamin rush etc...validation and ego could be a part of it for sure. Nothing did more for my overall confidence than when I started to have a lot of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:11 PM
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Yeah because women dont want that right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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Because finding a woman and creating a family is like, the main driving force of men since the dawn of human time? Because they want to feel woman's touch, they want to kiss they want to have sex...? All most normal human desires
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:58 PM
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Yeah, I dont really understand "dont do things just to get women" narrative. There are men like me me are social and love going out for the sake of going out, but many men dont. And if they "just do what they love to do", they would stay home playing games or participate in male dominated hobbies and activities "Getting women/the woman" is major driving force of life of a man, we do many thinga "just to get women" and its totaly ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:54 PM
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But shy guys are dime a dozen, serial killers are 1 in 100 millions, such an extreme example of, not a man, of human specie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:56 AM
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Yeah again women using an extreme examples of SERIAL KILLER. But make him a bit aggressive, thuggish guy, maybe used to deal drugs earlier etc.. 99% he would ge the girl compared to shy guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:46 AM
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Lol....this is advice grandma is giving "if you like a girl write her a poem" No, reading romance novels wont help those guys, it will make them even weirder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:17 PM
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Ofc if you are college student you shouldnt go to fine dining lol...I doubt any college girl expects that, I doubt that she even WANTS that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:42 PM
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Even if I do dinner I would still pay it all...I cant even comprehend asking her to pay half on FIRST date.. dont go to dinner date if you are afraid to lose 50-100 bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:56 PM
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Yeah, I am from Serbia and cant even imagine asking for half for the fucking 2 drinks she had on a date...only weirdos would ask to go 50/50. Big caveat is that we dont do fancy dinners as a first date, its very uncommon and not expected at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:19 PM
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I guess millenial, I am born in 1994, my fiends are the same, 1 year up or down
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:15 PM
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I’ll say this, though: nearly all my friends who found stable relationships were already friends with their girlfriends before. We in my case and in case of ALL of my friends, of my sister etc its absolutely the opposite. Every realationship started instantly, maybs nit at the same moment we met, but there was clear and obvious attraction and "positive tension", flirting etc from the very moment we met I met my gf at the festival, she was friend of a friend, we instantly clicked, met tomorrow fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:11 AM
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Yes, I did, thats why I dated them, regardless of their income. Majority of men arent like me, they dont approach and are not extreme extroverts and flirts like I am. It isnt deal breaker for me if she is a cashier, like it would be a dealbreaker for my female colleagues when they meet a hot make cashier. Thats the whole point. I dont understand how you dont understant the difference. We WOULD date a hot cahsier is not equal to We SPECIFUCALY LOOK FOR HOT CASHIERS. No one ever said they PREFER c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:29 PM
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Cause being in the gym is not a place where you can meet regulary innorder to develop something, compared to work enviroment or college. And also, majority of men are not players who can hit on a hot girl in the gym sucesfully Thats why men dont date "hot cashiers", cause where they gonna hit on her? While she is at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:24 PM
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Its not like someone will ACTIVELY pursue poor women. When we say "income doesnt matter" it doesnt mean "we prefer low income women" i mean, wtf I am not gonna hang out in ghettos and favelas of the world. But if I can by accident meet a girl from poor background and some job as bariata or reatil and she is good looking with a good personality I would be with her, yes. And I am highly educated with a corporate job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:55 AM
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Exactly, 95% of men are normal looking, good guys with ok personalities, who doesnt hate women and dont have bad hygiene. Reason most me are struggling is not being a bad mysogonist who doesnt shower
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:32 AM
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Again another reddit woman cant understand nuance (heighr matters - but but I know a guy who is 5'5 who is married) and take everything in extreme. No one ever said autistic women dont struggle AT ALL, compared to normal functiining women. But they do struggle way less COMPARED TO AUTISTIC MEN. Because men are those who do the pursuing most of the time. They can get purused buy some guys. Ofc not all and not maybe the men with the most option, but nevertheless. Autustic men are almost exluded fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:23 AM
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MCdonalds cashier that is also good looking is a 21old student, most rich men are 30,40+ ofc they are not marring each other But yes, its a bit exaggarated I agree. But you are moving goal posts, teachers are not rich, in my countey they barely make more than cashiers lol. Rich men marrying teachers still dont care about her INCOME
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:50 AM
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I explained in another comment and many other did but you seem that you dont want to accept the answer. Ita about proximity. And meny rich men DO marry lower income level than them, also antiehr woman explanied it to you on her example. Not extreme rich to aome poor woman who uses food stamps, but with some regular jobs like teacher, yes. Many hot teachers from my school were married to business owners, doctors etc. I make 3x more than my gf..she is a bank teller And also, poor women are usualy …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:17 AM
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A lot of people start dating with serious intent on college, or little bit later...when you are young professional and meet people from work or friends of friends, who are still in similar level with you since people are hanging out with people they are surrounded with I mostly dated girls in corporate since I was in that world, managers, HRs etc...but I dated girls into fitness as well regardless of their job, since I was into fitness seriously and was meeting girls at the gym. From retail work…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:50 AM
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Its huge difference. As always, reddit women take everything in extreme. No one said men dont care AT ALL. I just mean, I dont care in a way that women's accomplishments and money wont make unnatractive woman attractive, or vice versa. While for men, having money or not can make or break his sucess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:31 AM
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Yeah same thing as gen Z and drinking alcohol.. yes, that mighr be a positive thing, but reason behind is negative. Alcohol is social drug and gen Z drink less beacuse they hang out less, have less friends etc.. If i have a kid, I would rather them drinking and partying on weekends then have my kid rot in the room in fron of the computer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:34 PM
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Podcasts are nor real red pill. Red Pill is what was said on niche forums 7,8+ years ago. Incels and conservatives are not red pill etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:42 PM
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Red Pill doesnt say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:46 PM
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Its not generalization after ext with 2 women, actually came after experience with dozens of women, of various backgrounds, age, ethnicity, education level etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:12 PM
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Dont know...nothing red pills you the most such a sucess with multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:09 PM
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Yes, we are all doing our jobs, but we are not robots, people talk, have a chit chat and laughter..My father have friends he met on work, and they worked "manliest" jobs in factories. In fact, the "manlier" job is, the more people hang out betqeen each other.. firefighters, police, army, factory workers, construction etc Yes, not only tried, but I actually succeded...team building are often full of hooking up. You would kbow if you went on one, not being asocial robotic "professional" weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:52 AM
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Ni, this is not AFBB. AFBB means that so called "alpha" - which is not some charicature roided agressive douche like you imagining. It means good looking guy with confidence - can get sex purely by existing, meaning by charming, being hot etc...and women just fuck him without expecting anything else in return. "Beta" on the other hand, needs to impress women by other means, spending money, taking her ti expensive dates, buyuing presents, being overly servile...so it doesnt even have to be strict…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:24 AM
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I see your flair is Red Pill...what is Red Pill for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:40 PM
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Exactly.. this is a life of that weird shy kid in the back of the classroom, or that guy who comes at work and talks to nobody, not an average male experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:53 PM
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What is racialy charged comment here, topic is about different nationalities, i have to mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:18 PM
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No men actually call themselves Alpha . Baddie makes sense, baddie means hot girl who is aware of that, and dress accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:20 AM
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I never recommend going to bars alone unless you are extremely handsome and charismatic, which you are not. This is not an insult, but if you are, girls would approach YOU. So, you will look like a desperate creepy guy who is there just to approach girls. Point of bars and going out is to have fun with your friends and EVENTUALLY approach a girl if you like her. If you are doing that, girls will see you as somsone who is having fun and they will be more open when you SPONTANEOUSLY approach her, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:50 PM
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And yet peoole are hooking up at parties all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:37 PM
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Exactly, I am reading this and I jist cant comprehend.. young people living together...that house should witness 10 people passing around daily...people hanging around all the time etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:31 PM
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Are you hanging out eith your roommates?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:30 PM
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Have you ever invited anyone? People are today so afraid of rejection, of being "puahy" etc.. same thing at.work. I was always the guy who pushed "lets go drink after work " etc and you knkw what...many people sayd YES eventually and we started to do it regularly and spontanuously...yes, I was maybs annoying to few colleagues and they went on reddit to vent about "this annoying guy keep inviting people for a drink, get a life, you should be friends with coworker loser" or whatever, but guess wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:24 PM
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But being "charismatic" is a part of personality that is attractive. You know whem people here say to incels "is not looks is your personality". And I agree, they struggle beacuse they are boring, weird, shy and uncharismatic, but not becuase they are mysoginists, bad people etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:26 AM
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Girls like you are absolute minority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:29 AM
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I was overexaggarating, no one expect women to cook, but yes usualy women do it more than men, natiraly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:35 AM
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I completely dissagree with no.1...Although there are some women that will never ever emgage in causal, majority of women would sometimes engage in casual, BUT a man need to be exceptionaly hot so she will break rules. And I witnessed that on my own skin, being 1st causal guy fir many girls, and seeing this with my best friend who is superrmodel level handsome I am extremely succesfull with women, but I am mostly the pursuer, and it works for me because I am handsome ans good looking and extrove…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:48 PM
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Be attractive, dont be unnatractive, lift, hold frame, spin plates, hold frame cause women love a challenge not a doormat, and while they do marry they dont respect and sexually crave beta buxers, and enjoy the decline Thats red pill 101...not "i thinks parties are for degenerates i want a virgin girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:36 PM
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Yaah.. with ridicilous topics as "if women trear sex as a reward we should treat money as a reward".. so autistic That s the reason why my flair is "no pill", because 90% of people now think of Fresh and Fit when they think of red pill, or even worse, some conservative "i want a virgin and a white fence life" conservative and Trump suppoeters (Back in the day, conservatives were mocked, called cuckservatives and ultimate beta buxers) 90% of red pill flairs now are fucking incels and conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:33 PM
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Prostitues dont count
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:28 PM
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Ofc no one expect women to do anything by themselves...i didnt want to proceed answering to her since she is clearly in combatitive mood as majority of weird ugly women who write on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:07 PM
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To look good and be cool and cook ...me personally I dont care about cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:27 PM
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At least in my country...its every woman. No matter political beleifs, women like that men pay for dates, they have expectations that a man should drive, that a man shiuld be "a little bit more succesfull" "man should be a man" etc etc Maybe not traditional gender roles in a way "man works woman stay home", since we are former communist country where everyone worked anyway, stay at home wifes lived only in undeveloped villages even 50 years ago Yes, there are exceptions, but in majority of the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:18 PM
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In my country everyine went to party.. literaly, unless a.kid is some real real autiatuc weirdo Straight A students also drink, going out etc.. yes. Some like different type of music, someome goes to clibs someine goes to metal gigs etc...but I never met a person my age then never ever went to a club, or a bar etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:54 PM
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But many of your "competitors" are blue pilled "just be nice guy" which instantly getting you an advantage with a bit of game and frame
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:40 PM
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You missed the word "average" 5'3 guys is an extreme, like very ugly guy is an extreme etc.. 5'9 guy with average face structure can never compete with men that look like Jason Momoa and Henry Cavill yes, as well as I, being born in middle class house in Serbia can never become a billionaire and compete with Bil Gates's daughter, but I can become way richer compared to my parents. So they can greatly improve their position and sucess, buy getting fit, better dressed, having more confidence and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:05 PM
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No, it can help many people...but it was made for "average frustrated chumps".. so, for normal, average good guys, but who are kinda cluelees in "what women want" and who were brainwashed by media and society that "you jist need to be nice person and right girl will come" and who beleived in just world fallacy...so for men who did have a girl or 2, bit prone do idealize women, develop "oneitis" etc It was not made for basement dwellers with 0 social skills and 0 friends. I saw some guy with "red…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:48 AM
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When I was using Tinder I paid for premium and it helped. It used to show you who swiped right on you so I was just going swiping on them and saved time, which also pushed my alghorhytim higher (its the percentage of your right swipes compared to matches, it think...higher it is the more it pushes you to the top) It was also comming with "boost" option which used to pump you to the very top for 30min, which also helped A LOT Of course, it makes sense, but if you already getting matches and swipe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:10 AM
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Yes, many think otherwise, and this is one of the things stopping them become players and gold lovers... I always advise struggling men her and irl to stop thinking like this...its hard to make girl want to have sex with you if you think you have tl "convince" "manipulate" her etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:32 PM
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Well yeah, I disagree with this notion that having sex is decreasing girls value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:27 PM
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Well men and women are different and we obide diffrent set of unwritten rules, always was and always will be Altough more adventorous men, like myself, usualy dont care about n count, unless extreme. I actually prefer when a girl had some hookup in her life, is not chaste etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:23 PM
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Almost every man is ego driven. Its our essence. You need to find a man who already fed his ego enough. I was also like this when I was unexperienced, I am definetely better person and better boyfrend now after numerous hookups and wild experiences, comapred to how ai was when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:18 PM
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Your question was not from position of genuine curiosity. Your stance in this was already made and no answer can change your mind, hence the way you wrote "desired", which imply mockery. So, no, you didnt get downvoted beacuse of your qUEstIOn, you got downvoted for your attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:47 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:16 PM
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Yes, most women arent getting in relationship with men you dint find desirable AT ALL. But majority of women dont get to marry the guy they used to desire THE MOST. Men want to be that guy, ideally. Guy you break rules for, not the guy who had to jump through the hoops to get you Again, you dont underatand, becauae you are not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:00 PM
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I had more girls say they liked it rough then girls said they wanted it romaticaly...even in relationships Also many of them expressed frustration with previous boyfriends because they were to meek and too gentle wanting only 1 or 2 positons etc I can put my hand in fire that there are more men that prefer vanila and romantic sex than women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:53 PM
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Not that...aaaand something else. Only that. There are milions of struggling men that are stable and clean. In fact, majority of struggling men arent some basement dwellers. Thise aee nice , good stable guyss, that are maybe a bit boring or passive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:19 PM
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Being enough means being enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:47 PM
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But then you said being clean and stable is enough to get a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:28 PM
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Yeah, that part was utterly insane. "Why dont you just date men" type of respinse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:22 PM
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If, as you say, women only need someone "clean and stable", doesnt that make men being average enough? So if that is the case, why wouldnt a man that is fit, well dress and employed going for any girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:22 PM
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Which is Red Pil 101 - women dont consider unnatractive men as men But you kinda contradict yourself. You are saying being fit, well dressed etc as average, but then you say women only need "someine clean and stable'..and then you say you are 5 and ahe is a 10 etc...so is 10 also only looking for someone "clean" at that is enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:15 PM
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Hypergamy is not being attracted to an elite man, as an charicature of some ultra rich CEO you imagine, like when you imagine some rouded agtessive douche when we say "alpha" Hylergamy is being attracted and constantly seeking the best possible man AVAILABLE TO HER. Plain janes arent going out looking for Henry Cavilles of the world, becuasr they are not available to her, genuienly. Guys like that might FUCK her tho, but many women dont wnat just that. But you better beleive, if guy like that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:07 PM
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Yes you are judgy etc etc but many women atill are going for the players even whey they now a man is a player. Beacuse, any woman can have a high n count, but for a man to be a player, you need to be hot and charming and overall desirable to large number of women. So its easy for a woman to say in vacuum "i would never be with a player", but its different when a player approach you live... Women dont like that man is a player, but man is a player because women like him. Simple For women is same,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:02 PM
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I agree.. but its not that simple, being a man...which you cant ever understand ofc since you are not one, and we are different in million waya I just tried to explain you why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:54 PM
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Its not women's problem, its men's problem I was explaining it to you why men can feel like men feel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:37 PM
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Why are men different than women in milion other aspects as well? But to answer to you. We dont want to feel inferior. As a man, you are expected to be a leader, more dominant, more experienced (yes now you gonna say but but I dont care about that, but I am talking IN GENERAL with majority of women) .That is why women dont find someone being a player repulsive THAT MUCH. (again, as a redit women you will say that you do, please dont its futile) As a man, you will.most likely feel inferior, your …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:58 PM
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Lol how is market of the most desirable girls "less competitive"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:50 PM
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Exactly, if "having experiencing hardship is good", why dont all poor people who got some money leave ghettos and favelas and rasing their kids in nice neigborhoods with nice schools Mike Tyson (who is obviously well rounded individual due to his upbringing lol) sent his son to private school, not to a boxing gym in ghetto to "become resilent"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:52 AM
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Again, hardship can be many things...having to study all day all night for 3 days straight, hardship can be working as a bartender at night and studying in the morning, hardship cam be going abroad to a country ehere you dont soeaking a language and trying to find a job there, hardship can be going on 1000 job interviews before you land one, hardship is providing for family while also caring about sick relative... Its doesnt have to mean that you had Colombian narco cartel threating you with mac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:48 AM
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I read about that only online...every woman I know, like ever, wants to get a man, or keep a man, or if they are divroced wants to get a new man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:43 AM
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Exactlu, which is proving his point that is eaier to get 30+ y old than 20y old, as a 30+ y old man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:37 PM
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Yeah 10000%.. its a cope from women "women his age dont want him so he is going for 20ish y olds etc" Truth is - majority of younger women arent into older guys, unless you are exceptional. Its way way easier to get women your age at 35 than to get 22 y old. So, if you are 35 and dating 22 y old, you can defintely get 35 y old woman, but you wont, not that you cant But to answer the theme, majority of men will never reach that level anyway...dream tjat some 25y old virgin will suddenly have his …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:36 PM
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I would say, getting to early 30s late 20s will increases your chances with women significantly - but only if you are already sucessfull So what happen is that simply your dating pool expand.. you can now go 5,6,7 years younger (25 with 18 is too much but 30 with 23 is ok), and alao few years older, now even infinite older, 40y women are ok to hookup with 30+ guys etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:31 PM
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Yeah, for black guys from the hood I guess its different beacuse that swagger its more cultural...and also they dont have fathers, but have strong male role models they look up to, like an older.guy from the hood etc.. Since hoods are more like small communities or tribes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:40 PM
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Lol, wanting your body means wanting you. I am my body
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:36 PM
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My life is great, although I admit that one of main things making it great its because I get women... You cant change what you desire tho right...its like a natural thing. Like if you castrate me today, I will definetely be 90% less ambitious and driven in life. And i guess thats the case for majority if men, we are just wirred like this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:34 PM
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Lol bro you are living in a bubble and imagining engineering students as we are in shitty teenage movie, nerds with glasses and pimples...I went in a engineering school, same shit as every other school just a bit harder with more studying... In my university, everyone was socializing, partying, having gfs and boyfriends etc Most of those people now have good jibs, families, stable lives You are saying that therr are no doctors or engineers that are well rounded individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:39 PM
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Oh man you are talking in extremes...who said anything about Elon Musk Would you rather your.kids struggle finanicaly all their life, living paycheck to paycheck or be finacialy safe? Mose blue collar men would rather be lawyers and doctors if they are able to, its rarely what someone enjoys...yeah i prefer being a factory worker for shitty pay and having to ask boss for piss break, said no one ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:32 PM
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I dont know I dont have tnat problem...but I would probably be unhappy and unfullfiled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:28 PM
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Most kids grew up in rich families are rich or even richer now. 99% of doctors, lawyers, politicians, CEOs...came from highly educated rich or at least upper middle class families Literally the biggest indicator for life sucess if what family you are born into
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:15 PM
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Im gonna just answet to your first question. Paying for sex doesnt help, because, contraru to what some women hare are parroting, men dont simple care about getting their dick wet...men want to be DESIRED...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:03 PM
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You cam excercise resilence in fortitude in medical or engineering school, or playing competitive sports...you dont have to witness your alcoholic father beating your mother with fists and then beating you up for standing up for her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:59 PM
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Would you chose your upbringing for your kids or middle class suburb upbringig?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:57 PM
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Having supportive middle class parents wont make you weak or spoiled, it will.just give you head start and healthy mind, less fears, less anxiety...Being sheltered make you weak, like your roommate, but thats an extreme example and not am example of normal happy parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:56 PM
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I did but very very few, but they are also tall for example..."short balding chubby broke player" dont exist.. But even fkr thise people I knkw, those type of charisma and charm and confidence isnt something everyone can learn...as I said that is built from young age, plus its a natural born trait. Those are exceptional men, so you cant compare an average struggling men with them Its like saying yeas everyone can become top NBA player, even if you are not tall, look at Allen Iverson
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:41 PM
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Yeah that doesnt have to be the reason i agree with you. Bit I would say its opposite, majority of bullied men strugle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:36 AM
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Oh again this "not all" comments...of course there are, but if we gonna say "but but not all" then we can shut down this sub, cause every topic can be closed with that Point is, and which I agree, that for bullied men will be extremeley HARDER, not impossible. Same thing as height, as with ugly face etc... I often make parralels with being rich...yes there are some poor people that become rich later, but you cant say that its not harder for them and its their fault they cant compete with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:18 AM
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Which is not "ex nihilo", and it takes time and effort and continuois success to prove yourself that you are worthy. Those who doesnt have that natural confidence built from toddler age... needs to have that external validation of worth. Confidence is built by being sucesfull CONTINUOSLY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:02 AM
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I understand, its not your obligation to pander them...that is why I say that being shy (and boring) ia the worst thing to be as a man, for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:57 AM
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They dont seem interested becuase they are afraid so their brain shut down...and then in 3 hours they gonna ounch themselves in the head "oh what I didnt say THAT" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:49 AM
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I woukd add another perspective about confidence and those men who are confident and have "swagger" even without being good looking I actually talked with my friend about it recently, and all those men like that that we know, are men who have very strong father figure, who was also "a player" in his time, social.with a lot of friends etc...so those men who just radiate those spontaneous natural confidence, actualy hada good foundation in family. Thats is why "just be confident bro, I know a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:47 AM
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And ofc you intentionaly skipped the part about different cultures and how girls do fuck arojnd jist for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:36 AM
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Yeah, since USA ia not famous for casual hookup college culture at all And I worked on cruise ships and tourist destination worldwide, girls DO fuck around jist for fun, especially in areas when nobody knows them etc, so its more about being afraid of slut shaming. A lot of girls were from USА For example in sexualy liberal cultures such as Scandinavian or South America, girls are fucking around a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:21 PM
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*higher, not high
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:18 PM
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Most men DO prefer relationahips...but being ABLE tl have casual relationship For majority of men chasing casual stop being interesting. There are men like me who prefer casual and can never get bored of it, but, at least in mu country, majority of men are family oriented, so even the itch for casual might still be there, its worth sacrificing it for "wife and kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:19 PM
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Most women ARE open to casual, thats the biggest reddit lie and virtue signal. But, only for SMALL MINORITY OF MEN, while men are opossite. Therefore being able to have casual sex means more than being able to have a seriois relationship, beacuae being able to have casual imply you will for sure being able to have a long term relationahip
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:16 PM
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The more women wanta to fuck you WITHOUT YOU PROVIDING ANYTHING ELSЕ, means you are a desirable men...what else can it mean? The caps locked part is essential...that is why men are offended in those examples when wonen sau "you are relationahip not a casual guy". Because casual are all about SEXUAL DESIRE , that is pure, and non nregotiable. So women want you just beacuse you are hot and good fuck, she doesnt nees your emotiinal suport, doesnt care about your job, about your money etc.. You dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:14 PM
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Thats a copium and virtue signal from tall people.on reddit "oh Im 6'4 but i would trade it for being 5'9 back pain he he"...thats not a back achey height at all, in mu country every 4th men is 6'4 and taller, majoritu dont have some back pain issues...6'4 people on reddit sometimes act line they are 6'10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:00 PM
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There is some truth to it, but not exactly. Its still part of my personality...i playfully flirt with girls I dont even want, that i know I wont ever meet, like a stewardess, cashier in some random place etc.. I enjoy taling to random women amd my night is fun even jf I dont get anyone...its still better than doing...anything else really...therr is nothing I like to do more than "chasing" women...so its womEn not 1 woman in particular. I like dating casualy more than I like being in a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:52 PM
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To be successful at anything you have to love it, or at least not hate it. To be a player, you need to genuinly enjoy dating, hooking up, flirting...Me personaly I genuinly enjoy all of that...I enjoy going on a 1st date, enjouy getting the moment when I "seal the deal with a kiss", I enjoy build up, I enjoy casualu flirt and giving casual compliment and seeing her reeaction first time, enjoy getting that first "slight" touches from her when she starts "unconsionsly" touching you more and more, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:24 PM
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Its enough amount of DESiRABLE men...women dont consider undesirable men as potential partners therefore they are irrelevant...when women say "men" they mean "men that I want"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:58 PM
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SUCESSFULL men enjoy the chase...not chasing one girl while she is rejecting you, but I do enjoy flirting, gradually "melting"her, seeing her getting more and more into it etc...but it has to happen graduallu, ofc I dont enjoy buying presents and being dancing monkey, she needs to respond to the chase postively
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:31 PM
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Its a subreddit about male/female sexual dinamic, why are you in this subreddit if yoi dont want to discuss things like this? And yes, everyine is unique, but there are things women IN GENERAL prefer more than other things, and vice versa, otherwise why we have sciences such as antrophology, sociology etc...when "we all like different things"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:54 PM
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Yes, and thats entirely men's fault. Western men to be more precise...in my country men are cliser ti each other emotionaly, and men crying to each other in kafanas (tavern) its even celebrated in songs...and irinicaly, my country is very macho country, and we are very mucb naturaly red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:47 PM
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Yeah this is something why I dont consider myself Red Pill, beacuse today is sinonim for conservative, for Trump supporter etc, "christian values"..."women like our grandmothers were better" etc... Many of so called Red Pill guys are actually incels not red pill...you cant be red pill and being a virgin at 25 without being on a party in your life. Therefore they support Trump as a way of fullfiling their revenge fantasy towards women. Same as conservatives, they want to punish women for fucking.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:27 PM
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Lol i dont have sex with my girlfriend for 2 days and she gets moody or even mad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:03 PM
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You dont go clubbing since saturday 8 am to sunday 10 pm...you can be together during the day and sunday afternoon etc Or someine can go out on Friday and then stay home on Saturday...why doest it have to be extreme all day everyday...nobidy lives like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:32 PM
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Lol no wtf.. do you even know where Serbia is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:46 PM
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I still enjoy taste od pussy lo, like I enjoy kissing womam in the neck for example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:09 PM
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But I highlighted parts of the world where there are no arranged marriages but men still dont simp that much...such as Balkan or South Americe, Africa, Carribbean etc.. we are way more "macho" naturally...so its not that arranged marriges are reason we knkw we will get a girl at the end, its the confidencd and "frame".. That is why I said we Serbian men are naturally red pilled, when i first read about it, i was like "yeah this is the truth, like, duuh" its something older brother or older "play…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:24 AM
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Yeah its such and extrene outlier example...this is what some Americans think about rest of the world, arranfe marriages lol...except in India and muslim countries. But in thise countries men dint date around, they get married at like 21
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:19 AM
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How the fuck can ai chatbot cure male loneliness better than male friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:16 AM
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Not sexualy ofc, but you can at least have companionship needs fullfiled with make best friend. In my opinion is even better, i can never have fun in a pure hang out with a girlfriend conpared to my best friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:13 AM
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She can be a friend , but not THE "best friend"...therefore we cherish and maintain male friendships even when we have gf or wives...because we know we cant replace them with wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:19 PM
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Its wrong because I already have my best friend since childhood and he is a man...and this is how most Serbian men live...my gf is my gf, and she also has her best friends, who are of course female Dinamics between same sex friends are totaly different and is a different need that I am fullfiling. Men need other men, we need a tribe, a brotherhood...I cant satisfy my friendship urges with just my gf, its like trying to stop hunger by drinking water. Its a totaly different need I see wetern men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:59 PM
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But culturaly you were frowned upon if you werent married, especially as a woman.. and also its a self inflicted pressure when all of your friends are getting married...and also you will feel more isolated, cause married peoole with kids cant hang out as much as single When more and more people are choosing to stay single its also easier to mantain close friendships whxih perpetuates lack of necesiity to pair uo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:51 PM
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We dont have arranged marriages in Balkans and South America dor examplе, but men still act differently than western "my wife is my best friend" men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:39 PM
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But nobody is stopping you in forming close male friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:29 PM
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Yeah thats purely western thing tho.. I am from Balkan and we have strong male friendship culture, its a common trope whete men going to kafanas (taverns) with thier "best men" a lot, and we cherish ans maintain those hang outs even when married...most of us are friends since childhood or at least college I could never understand "my wife is my best friend mentality" western men have. How can she be my best friend when I have a best friend for 20+ years...where we lived through tick and thin...a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:01 PM
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Well if for you relationship needs to be 100% spontenaous then yes they are relationship killer But if you look at it like that, having job is relationahip killer, because I cant fuck her at 10:30am on Tuesday because we are both in our offices..we still have romance "on schedile" we can only fuck after 6pm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:54 PM
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Kids go to school, they go play outside with their friends, they go play footba, they go to idk english class or whatever hobby they have...I was out of the house all the time sincs age 7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:31 PM
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Some of then yeah.. not all of them for sure Many attractive men act like monsters but they dint struggle with women...there are no hardcore criminal that struggle with women as well..so its not personality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:07 PM
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You dont know.. some of them are insidious for sure, some of them might be really kind and carinng. Some of them used to be and they got bitter and resentfull, because of how women treated them. Yes you gonna say "if they changed opinion that neans they were never nice" but I dissagree. They are not saints or budhist monks, people cha ge for better of worse depending on their surroundings and dependinf in how they are treated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:01 PM
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Wow I see it now..i thought its banned for years lol Well to answers the question anyway...i can consider myself red pilled kinda...i dont have a flair here since fir me red pill is what I wrote here ...alpha fucks beta bucks, get hotter and improve your game (which doesnt mean lear some autistic pick up techniques, it means improve your social and flirting skills genuinly) and thats it...if you are hot eomen love you because of things you do TO them, if you are beta they love you becayse of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:57 PM
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Oh for sure I cant love like in books.. but thats ok, i dont need that love. There are amazing ones, they are bad ones, they are gorgeous ones...but there is no THE ONE. I am like that since puberty, so i never even desired that type of love anyway
/r/TheRedPill09/05/26 02:49 PM
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Which red pill sub?...OG red pill sub is banned for years...OG red pill is alpha fucks beta bucks. This is maybe the pov of a woman who is with beta bucks guy , or , as it used to be called - average frustrated chump. This is not who red pill wants to be, its who you want to grow out from
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:45 PM
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Women dont like assholes beacuse they are assholes...they like hot assholes despite them being assholss. Hot asshole will get multiple times more hot women than kind a caring 5'6 chubby guy Point js that personality matters, but not as looks and charm and charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:19 PM
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Yes, in fact many women especially on intertnet say that looks dont matter at all Mainstreem narrative is just world fallacy - if you struggle you must be a bad person, its not your lokks its nit your height.. but in fact, in many cases it is looks and it is height Hot misoginyst get more women than kind and caring but unnatractive men. You dont GET girls by being caring and kind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:16 PM
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Тhis is not redpill idea...red pill is get fit imprive your looks and game and that will get you more girls...So red pill 101 is that you dont have to do ANYTHING for a woman if you are hot enough since women are as shallow (i would argue even more) than men, but for minority if men. Providers and peoole who do things for them are mocked as beta bucks...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:13 PM
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You overthinking it since you arr jelous Most of the players arent "coercing " and "convincing" girls to anything. If you are tall pretty and handsome and farly social, you will be a player...beacause women then WANT you to "seduce" them...they WANT you to approach...they KNOW you just want sex but they dont care they want it as well.. But when you leave them THEN they create stories ans then they start to justify their unreasonable behavior, becuase they dint want to admit they were thinking wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:21 AM
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Bear didnt win, 99% of women who "choose a bear" went to suck a dick after that lol, its an internet bullshit performance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:14 PM
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Except for your 1st parragraph,becuase this is not a player behaviour, everything else is literally flirting 101 Ofc you will "test boundaries" with teasing..ofc you will give "enough attention but not too much".. I mean "do enough to please her but dont be a pushover" its not a malicious thing, its a common sense advice anyine will give you. Any WOMAN will give you that advice Ofc you wilant to present yourself in the best light...but they WANT that, its a part of a "dance", it takes 2 to tango…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:12 PM
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You overthinking it since you arr jelous Most of the players arent "coercing " and "convincing" girls to anything. If you are tall pretty and handsome and farly social, you will be a player...beacause women then WANT you to "seduce" them...they WANT you to approach...they KNOW you just want sex but they dont care they want it as well.. But when you leave them THEN they create stories ans then they start to justify their unreasonable behavior, becuase they dint want to admit they were thinking wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:05 PM
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Yeah ahaha exactly.. IT guys usyaly lose virginity at 24 and then marry the same ir the next girl and then live the most boring life ever.. and their woves lustinf for the same exiting guys we talk about. I have been with a few women married or in LTR with IT guys...same old stories "i love hin and he kives me sooo much.. but hw is boring"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:59 PM
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Its not necessarily like that... I consider myself and am considered by many women a player, fuckboy or whatever else...I am not FOCUSED on that, I have other interests and sucesfull career, a lot of friends etc...me being a player was never a goal, its actually a spontenous consenquence of my lifestyle and my character. I GENUINLY enjoy dating, parties, taking to multiple people, I enjoy not living "peacefull" life...I am naturaly flirty, i would flirt even if I dont want to get a girl, i would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:56 PM
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She is great looking at the right...but girls like that are dime a dozen, for an NBA superstar
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:55 PM
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They recently posted a video of all of his exes...they are all literally hotter than Megan, I dont understand women's obsession with Megan as some gorgeous diva.. Ahe is a good looking big ass girl for sure, but not at all some gorgeous beauty that top NBA player cant get every week
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:54 PM
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Even the women who "don't know what they want" are rarely actively lying Yes, I doubt that most of you are actualy liying consiously and maliciosly. I bet my girl realy beleive that she liked me because I am kind and smart and funny. But she probablu dont even materialze the thought that me being funny and smart is actualy amplfied in her mind due to me being physically attractive. I mean, we kissed at the first night we met...i didnt show my smart and humour in that 3 hours so much that she got…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:26 AM
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No, majoritu of nice guys are actually nice, neutral, normal guys. This is an absolute extreme example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:46 PM
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You gave me an example of a mentally ill man, that has nothing to do with red pill or what red pill stands for
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:28 PM
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Eliot Rodgers is an incel not red pill. Problem eoth this topic is that people are clueless about meaning of the word but still talking too much shit, like you Therefore all this arguments are futile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:32 PM
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I doubt it, since unnatractive people get what they can nit what they want. So yes, he might be delighted in the beggining to have any girl..but eventualy, is she what hw really wants? And thise men are usualy not respected by their wives and gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:12 PM
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So in your mind the only alternative to believing in the red pill is to believe in a logical fallacy? Yes, thata the whole point lol.. hence the red pill metaphor It's an attractive quality and it will make you seem more attractive to most women, or indeed most people. Yes, but not sexual attractive quality, which is the whole topic lf red pill I am not saying "dont do those things", "be an asshole" or evil person.. I am just saying that being an asshole or evil person is not as bad for getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:41 PM
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No, bluepill is "just be nice person and eventualy right woman will come". Bluepill is just world fallacy. Regarding kindness and compassion, you mean to tell me that someone who volunteers with children or animals isn't attractive to women? That women aren't attracted to men with cats or dogs? Yes, if they are already attractive, that would make them more attractive. Being kind to kids and having a pet is not what will make unnatractive man attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:11 PM
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Literallu red pill 101.. all this discussion about red pill are futile since everyone have different opinion on what red pill is. I see now that red pill is connected to some conservative bulshit..while 10y ago, conservatives were mocked in forums, called cucks etc Red pill is basicaly "dont listen to mainstream advices", being nice and being male feminist pushover js not what makes a pussy wet.. Good cluelles men "that do everything right" eventualy get fucked You need to improve your looks, im…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:08 PM
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Being able to have and attract friends in yoir life its totaly different skill than being able to flirt and create the spark...so yes, too vague
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:56 PM
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It makes them MORE attractive, but cant break a barrier from not attractive to attractive, this is rhe point. Same thing as being kind and nice person. Ofc rhat women love when men are good persons (there are some that actualy dont but they are indeed a minority) but this is not what makes a man attractive. Attractive misogynist would still have more girls into him than unnatractive male feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:46 PM
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Yes they are, with the hottest guy AVAILABLE TO HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:43 PM
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I always oposse this "dont do it for the girls" argument. Why the fuck dont? Its completely valid motivation. Finding thr best possible girl or multiple girls if you are i to that is onenof the most important thing in life For example, many artist or musicians started playing a guitar at young age because girls liked boys with guitars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:20 PM
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These type of women are actually liked by neighborurs, parents, kids etc...why wouldnt you aspire to be good mother, nice kind smiley person etc..or wouldnt want to be friend with a woman linebthat. Actualy these type of women are usualy having a lot of friends since they have this magnetic feel good feminine energy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:16 PM
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That means 90% of direct bloodlines are extinct, not that literaly 90% of men never reproduced. If my son dont reproduce my genes would dissappear, even tho I personaly reproduced. In Serbia we have a subject called Logic in 3rd year of High School, I guess it should have been implemented in your high school as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:59 PM
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Plenty of people (especially religious) place way more value on relationships than casual. Regardless if they can “get casual or not” Yes, they can place more value, but if they can they would still fuck around a bit. Regardless if they can “get casual or not” Well it they cant get casual then their opinion dont hold any value. They might SAY that they eill never do it, but intil they are in a positiin to actualy do it and decide not to, there word means nothing. Its like not rich peoole say "oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:57 PM
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I dont struggle at all...I know for a fact what I am saying is true. I am attractive to majority of women I meet. And I have best friend who is attractive to ALL of them, literally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:51 PM
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No, again this is stupid missunderstanding and taking shallow approach to it. Needing to be in a relationship to get sex, and not being able to entice primal sexual desire from women withouy offering something else (transactional) is beta, and BEING ABLE to have a lot of casual partners that are happy to engage in just that, casual sex without you bringing any other value except your sexappeal is "alpha". So, depending on your desires in life at that time, you can choose what you want, a serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:48 PM
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In reality, one woman might want a dude for casual sex. And another woman wants that same dude for a relationship. Yeah but not exactly. Yes, therr are some cases where it happens as you say, but there are SOME men that can get casual sex easily with many women (yes, not all, I have to highlight it for reddit autist women who take everything literaly) and therr are A LOT of men who cant get casual if their life depends on it. So they need something extra to entice a woman, since they dint have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:37 PM
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Of course, beacuse they were dying young in wars, in hunts...90% is exaggarated number
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:20 PM
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I giess that women who write here just want to argue for the sake of saying "gotcha incels", why do you even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:26 PM
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There were wars like all the time everywhere on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:22 PM
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Maybe they just want to fuck and have some short term fun...ans some men dont feel grief, they feel releif
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:21 PM
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Majority of women, as majoritu of men, are hardly keeping being single for too long. Sex and the City girlbosses arw quite few. At least in my part od the world, only weird shut in girls are the one who "dont want kids and family". Literaly almost everyone dream about hisband a kid since high school And this is nit some revenge porn of manosphere, they openly say it..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:37 PM
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Yeah its more like an ego thing - "he, who suposed to be delighted and forever thankfull that I choose someone like him and forship the ground I walk on, cheated. How dare he"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:34 PM
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Not in my country lol...and I guess whole Balkan and Eastern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:01 PM
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Yes, this is my point in this thread. I want to help struggling guys, and I hate when they are gaslighted "its because you are misogynist bro", when its absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:38 PM
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I am getting hot women. Because I am blessed with handsome face and height, although I have many opinions reddit feminist women consider misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:35 PM
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Why wouldnt he, when whenver he ask for advice women say to him looks and money dont matter, we just want a man who is kind. We also prefer men who are chubby we dont like muscular men, abs are gross for hugging etc No one ever said this, Go to literaly every reddit thread "does looks matter"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:33 PM
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Yes, but men usualy admit that we care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:24 PM
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I always try to date the hottest girls possible yes...and they try to date hottest guys, not the most funny or the most kind.. and THEN choose the most funny or whatever out of hot guys. Other men are not even in sight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:30 PM
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Its the MAIN thing she liked about him. We know that this is the truth thia isnt revelation for us, but for mainstream aka blue pill it is. Since mainstreem is "looks dont matter yoi cam be chubby and poor and date supermodels by being funny" I for example used to have all stereotypical "sexy" hobbies that reddit women advise - i used to play instruments, I am well educated, read classic literature, also I have engineering degree, was winning math competitions, I can discuss phylosohy, history, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:53 PM
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When OG RedPill people say "Alpha" they dont think abojt some uktra agressive roided muscle extremely dominant loud man, thats a charicature blue pill use to make all arguments futile... Alpha means person eho is confident, good looking and most importantly have so called "frame". So not a nice giy people pleaser who beleives women are angels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:44 PM
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In teen hears and 20s yes, in 30s and 40s not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:40 PM
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For some yes, but this is classic "sugar and spice an everuthibg nice is what girl are made from" stereotype. I worked in holiday resorts and cruise ships...and I can tell you that women DO fuck guys only becayse they are hot in heaps.. What me and my other good looking colleagues experienced there can be put in a book... Real female sexual nature is only shown in places where there are no possible judgment. So - away from home, holiday trips, student exhanges...Also go to Scandinavia or Rio de …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:38 PM
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The other place like that as an adult is - workplace. But reddit is full of bullshit like dont shit where you eat, so those struggking men who spend too much time online wothout irl friends read that shit and get even more scared of approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:31 AM
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"What dont you just date men" type of stupid ass question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:19 AM
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"Obviously not all men are like this. But the one's we're talking about are like this" This is the part of the comment I replied to. But yeah, majority of men goes to clubs and parties for women, thats common sense. If there are no girls at the club nobody would go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:55 PM
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Well of course, I agree with that, I am a big advocate if having close male friendship yoi meet regilary... But I guess he is talking about that particular type of struggling men, who are more on introverted, homebody asocial side, who prefer games and bokks over hanging out, have usualy solo hobbies... Their only reason of "leaving the house" is getting a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:44 PM
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Improve it overall..not only with women, but also to become natural...so you dont have to pretend or force socual interactions. Taking to women shohld be normal as talking to a cashier and same as talking to lifelong friend. Yes there would still be men who force and ick from a woman anyway...but those men are hopeless unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:18 PM
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Who said its "only"...But for the clubs and parties, they are for sure main one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:53 PM
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Or because women are tribalists that don't compromise to solve a problem Because they dont have to, since they always have someone approaching them. They dont have a problem lonely men have. I mean rhere are lonely women but way leas then lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:14 PM
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Well I dont inderstand your point. Asocial MEN are single because of it, not women. Women are the one being pursued ehile men are pursuers, so being passive will hurt yout chances while them nit so much. World isnt fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:20 PM
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That you have to accept that is gonna be hard to get a girl and that its your and nkt society fault
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:09 PM
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What's the advice you get "don't leave the house simply looking for pussy" "don't go to social events with the sole purpose of finding a woman". On and on. This is bullshit advice...men are going to clubs and parties for pussy majorly (not only beacuse of it and nit everyone, but...if there are no girls you probably wouldnt even go) since party scene exist. Its completely normal and natural driving force
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:06 PM
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World isnt fair. Being passive is a woman is not bad as being passive as a man. Introverted shy men have it way worse than that type of girls Also there are things where women are less fortunate then men. World isnt a meritocracy, adapt or fail
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:04 PM
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I absolutely agree with this. But the buggest problem is that they dont WANT to improve their skills and social life. They just want a girl who love them as asocial weird shut ins they already are. But that girl needs to just appear from the sky The most common denominator with unsucesfull guys are being passive and jjst nit being around people enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:01 PM
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Its literaly purpose of life, as a specie...finding a mate and reproducing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:59 PM
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For some reason, you seem to WANT the shallow woman who only is interested in looks over the women who DON'T chase Chad and just date and marry within their own socioeconomic niche. You assume a lot about me and I never ever mentioned any Chad and girls openly chasing anyone. I dont need an advice I am not struggling with women since elementary school, quite contrary...And this is why I am here since I like to discuss man/women relationships Behavior is everything from sense of humor, hygiene, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:24 PM
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But that is twisting what I said. So if an attractive man will get more gilrs than unnatractive, regardless of behaviour, doesnt that confirm that looks are more important than behaviour? Nobidy ever said that behaviour is totaly irrelevant. But its not that high on the list as mainstream narrative is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:17 PM
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Which is pure bulshit...handsome misogynist will still get more girls than ugly short "emotionaly healthy" feminist and you know it Behaviour yes...I mean being outgoing, extroverted, charismatic etc...and unsexy is being boring, shy, awkward...That is persinality that matters, it has nothing to do with being agressive, misogynist or being kind or good persin. Again, this is Red Pill 101...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:53 PM
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“be attractive, don’t be unattractive” This is red pill 101 and totaly oposite of mainstreem "blue pill" narrative. Blue pill is "looks dont matter I know a 5'6 chubby guy that gets all the gorgeus girls who have phds by being funny and charismatic"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:20 PM
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Exactly...I have been with girls where I didnt eant to commit and cared about them in that way, but that was so OBVIOUS from the start...but they still wanted me.because they were attracted to me...you cant choose what makes your pussy wet. And some girls alreay knew that I was like that, and still purused me lol, then after we finished, then they maybe talked shit that I manipulated them etc...because women and accountability dont go hand to hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:07 PM
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Getting pussy is literaly one of the most powerfull driving force since the dawn of human time. By getting pussy I dont mean only casual sex,.I mean getthing the best possible woman and having children to proovide for. Thats the main driving force for majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:03 PM
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Then show the thousands of matches that he gets with beautiful women in just a few days. Ahahabahaahah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:58 AM
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Career and well educated women are for sure better mothers..I would have been totaly different person if my mither was some bored housewife compared to being a surgeon.. She didnt spend milion hours pestering me, but she ingraned a love for science and reading books and phylosophy and overall greatly helped in developing my critical thinking. And ger being occupied with something else expect me and my sister made us more independet, while bored mothers who main and onlu thing in life was "being …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:49 PM
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Its not a bad thing per se, but its a bad thing when you actually have feelings for a said woman and she onlu look at you as a friend. And yes, I said feelings, since its not just about getting in her pants I do have girl friends that are just friends, but I am not spending time with them nearly as much I do with my male friends. And all those girls are oart of my large friend groups that started even from shchool eventualy college. I dont meet women now at 30 to be friends with. Acquiantances y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:36 PM
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I mean I got approached a lot, but i am conventionaly attractive...but majority of men dont have the same experience as me and dont have the luxury of waiting for it "just to happen" like majority of women actualy have. And what you just said even further confirn that 80/20 "rule" "It will happen when you least expect " is a bluepill fantasy or virtue signal advice people say to feel bwtter about themselves, not with an intwntion to actually help a struggling person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:31 PM
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But then they will say that they do it purposefully beacyse they know it will offend the said person. And when you say yeah but what about when some short small dick guy who isnt a misoginist hear women use his shortcomings as a mockery "well he needs to know that its not about him, and if he gets offended, then he ia probably insecure.misognist as well"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:23 PM
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It absolutely stunt your growth amd for some it crrates bitterness and trauma and fomo that never vanishes...peoole who say that "being virgin at 20something " or "oohh you didnt miss anything, you arr actually better that way" are the same virtue signal bunch that will say "looks dont matter I know a 5'6 fat guy who dates suoermodels"... I never met a person who missed on those things that is not at leaat slighly affected. Also its way healthier to have first "hartbroke" and first couple fights…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:42 AM
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Because if you were actually able to be RP you would never need TRP in the first place. This is such a stupid argument that I see peoole repeating as parrots. Sonetimes someone needs a but of guidance in their life Its like saying "when you have a talent tk be world champion in boxing, you dont need a coach"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:18 PM
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I dont know what "scam" you talking about, ir was a forum and discussuins, nobody paid any money for it lol As a sorority girl once said “this shit sounds like it was written by a guy who never even set foot in a frat, but decide to write how he THINKS you guys act and talk like. So he can sell it to men even more desperate than him Even if that hipothetic girl actualy said that...ofc she would say it. Because whrn you materialize those thoughts in writting, it looks a bit weird tbh. But those a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:14 PM
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As I said to someone else...red pill was usefull for "acerage frustrated chumps".. so for regular dudes, who did have good hygiene, did shower, had normal jobs...but somehow struggled with women. Not nececerily even virgins, many of those men were married, or in LTRs, but lacked passion in relationships and respect, even tho they did "everything right"...but was getting cheated on etc... It was not usefull for asocial friendless nerds and neckbeards or absoluted genetic outcasts.. And it was nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:39 PM
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Yes I was reading it.. no, its nit "all it ever doeas", you are just pinpointing what you want to make your biased argument correct. Red Pill started from PUA forums where people shared their experience, which was different from mainstreem narratvie, aka Blue Pill...and that developed further from just about hooking up. Rollo just materiallized some of that experiences and thoughts in a book, which was usefull at the time for many people. Was Rollo a player, probably not, but he juat gathered th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:28 PM
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So why are we still talking about "manipulation" bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:42 PM
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Most women want those traits in someone relatively close to their age, most couples don't have large age gaps Of course, majority of relationshops have small age gap, because of proximity.. you are surrounded by people your age most of the time, especially in young age...maybe I would date a cougouar milf while I was 20, but back then I was only going to student parties with my peers, so obviously I dated only other students. What I am saying is, that even when big age gap relationahip HAPPENS, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:26 PM
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is more "powerful" in the sense they are wiser, more experienced, better off financially, more cinnections, But thing is...all of things that you listed is what actualy make a woman ATTRACTED to a man in the first place. Women are in fact attracted to wisdom status, wealth, man having connections, being capable, and "ambitious"...and we are now shaming men that want to use the things women want in the first place, doesnt make sense I never understtod this "power imbalance" thing. Well duhh, of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:44 AM
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No, it was not designed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:17 AM
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Plus, adults can make bad/stupid decisions, adults can manipulate, taje advantage of and abuse other adults Yes, but older person doestn have to be the abuser by default...it can be opossite as well. Also no age gap relationships can be abusive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:03 AM
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I worked on cruise ships. Girls do chase high rank officers regardless of looks and skills. Hottest girls are NEVER with low rank guys, waiters, housekeepers, technicians... Yes, as a good looking young men I had a lot of success as well...but there are one big chunk of girls that didt even look at me before I got my 2nd stripe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:56 AM
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That position can be inherited or given through nepotism...women will still be attracted to those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:51 AM
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Well a rabbit hole deep inside maybe...when I say red pill, I mean mostly sidebar and main principles...and looks was always highlighted as the most important. It was always looks + game, never just game. There was a reason why gym has been promoted that much. Red Pill is actually where I learned about 5×5 strenght program firat for example...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:14 AM
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I dont care abour PUA itself.. I am talking about type of people who claim to be "red pill" now and type of people who were it before Red pill used to be field reports and talk about sexual dinamics, truth about womens sexual nature, self improvment, gym, clothing, clubbing...now "red pill" guys talk about christian values and ending no fault divorce and legaly enforcing women to marry undesirable men. There are no fiel reports becyase so calles red pill guys dint even go out and hate bars and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:22 PM
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but things like "ignore the girl you are pursuing that doesnt like you since that will cause her to be attracted to you" is just BS Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:38 PM
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No, my issue is many conservative incels that have 0 friends and like we say in Serbua " dont have 1 Friday out in the city" are using red pill flair spewing bullshit like "you cant find girl in a club" , "real women are housewives" "women shouldnt have male friends" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:33 PM
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Did you become conservative ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:26 PM
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How did I admit it? I saif it helped that I kinda beleived, but there were men as well that red pill helped
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:25 PM
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And I disagreed with the absolute of your statement...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:36 PM
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Ofc, some people overdid it and got too indulged in theories, analyzing...I got some principles that opened my eyes and just keep on living. It helped that I actualy realized many of those things on my own, jjst never materialized the thoughts. Also helped that I am from country where men, especualy men succesfull with women are kinda naturally red pilled, just they dont know the terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:28 PM
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I do agree with some parts...especialy with current RP discourse..I remember trying to give some advicd to one guy with RedPill flair and he casualy said he had never been to a party!!?? And he was 23... Like how can I help you with girls, I cant even comprehend that, like what GAME you can possible have, you need tk sort yourself first. I do think red pill helped many people and it helped me a bit for sure back than. But thing is, RP was made for "average frustrated chumps", not for raging asoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:02 PM
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Like real conservatives have deep lovely marriages with a wife who is traditional but not weak , care giving but also strong and co dependent not a slave of her husban I mean, yes, thats conservatives wet dream lol...how realistic is another topic. Not realistic for majority of conservatives for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:49 PM
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Are there any OG red pill guys in this subreddit? I am tired of reading comments from "red pill" guys eho are actualy conservative "women like our grandmothers were better" losers, incels etc...I dont knkw when red pill became correlated with right wing, conservatism...OG red pill was started from pick up artistry, it has nothing to do with being conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:31 PM
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Lol, definition of Chad is that he isnt spending money to impress a girl and that he fucks them even without spending penny, while actual betas are the one who spend. Hencs the term "alpha fucks beta bucks"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:09 PM
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Some women just doesnt want pressure of keeping up with standards that most of us who are jacked have. Also, many dont want to deal with jealousy of having other women approach us etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:06 PM
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Both are true...usual revenge fantasy of those men is the infamous "wall". Majority if women who take xare of themselves look better in 30s than 20s. And also many divorced women are still chased by quality men...majority of those men are usualy divorced as well, but thats normal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:56 PM
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Exactly lol...if a 40y man can get 25y old baddie, he can for sure get 40y old woman, he just doesnt want to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:53 PM
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Reward is having actual friends and some actual life experiences, and not being forced to rot in your room by yourself. Unnatractive men still have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:08 AM
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If your personality is being "shut in can't relate to any of the peers, can't talk about any of the nornal everyday topic" then yes, it's most likely good advice. Yes, you might find some of "your people" somewhere online but being able to talk and relate with your peers is a life skill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:07 AM
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His "relationship persona" isn't some completely separate and distinct entity of his overall personality. It actually kinda is.. guy with 0 experience with women CANT mAniPulate (such an overused word, according to reddit women world is full of mastermind manipulatora masters of puputets apparently) any girl with experience in dating, regardless of her age. His working experience and travels or being friends or whatever are not transferable to dating.. usualy those inexperienced men get played b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:10 AM
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But that's actual red pill 101 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:02 PM
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That's so black and white and totally not truez unless, as I said, you are still in high school and yoir friends are stereotypical mean girls from teen movies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:06 PM
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If that girl isn't attracted to you, her friends almost certainly won't be either. That's ridiculous, unless you are in high school still
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:02 PM
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It's not that they should actually set you up purposely, but just but being friends with girls, you can meet their friends organically. For example, when they have a birthday party, or just invite some of them for night out with your friend group etc.. This us absolutely normal thing in Serbia, we are mixing friend groups, mingling etc. I met my current gf when she came with one of my friends on a festival where I went as well. We just spontaneously started to flirt, this is how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:58 PM
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Well yes, I used Tinder before those "lookig for" options. And even if it had back then, in my country, where there is still social stigma for girls in hookups, many girls wouldn't go for you if you put "looking for short term" even if they would ve open for hookup, since they don't want to be seem as easy. Majority of girls still say "no no I would NEVER be in hookup", but at the end of the day many are actually open to it, but for the right man and when situation is right. Drunken hookup colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:39 PM
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But the average man finds a partner with relative ease. The majority of American men have sex for the first time at 17 or younger They do probably, not easy tho...however I think that it changes to worse by each year. Younger generation for sure has way less sex and relationships than my generauon. They are simply way less socialy active then us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:00 PM
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Successful actors are not your average persons tho...he is a bad example. You should compare his sucess with women with Al Pacinos and DeNiros and Jack Nicholsons of the world, not to to some middle class 5'6 guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:45 AM
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Female friends are great wingmen tho...and also you underestimate "social proof" by being in company of good looking girls even if you don't fuck them. I have many female friends, and I am not trying anything with then, because why should I? We are not BFFs where we talk every day and hang out 1 on 1, but my big friend group is pretty mixed, and we don't hookup in between eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:38 AM
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It's literally like most of Redditors live in different universe than mine...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:44 PM
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then you likely have a massive personality issue. Yes, but that issue is not "not being nice person", or "being mysoginistic". It's him being either too boring, or being pushover, or not having balls. Which are also traits that og red pill pushes as actuall shortcomings in dating. Dating is not virtue based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:28 PM
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Yes, and women on reddit are majorly weird asocial ones...so called "normie" girls are not here. And normie girls are actually the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:11 PM
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I am sexualy successful man and I absolutely agree with 90% of the red pill stuff (og red pill, not this trad con new bullshit). And, at least in my country, Serbia, most successful men ARE naturally red pilled. They just don't know the terminology. When I first time read red pill stuff, I was just like - yes, yes, I agree with all of this just never materialized that thoughts. And so most of successful men I know. It's actually average "betas" who oposse and who are most blue pilled. They are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:52 PM
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Exactly, I have been in many hookups, where girls happily engaged in the arrangement, and agreed on it. But I doubt that 90% of them would initially agrees if I blatantly asked them for a hookup on rhe 1st date. What I usualy do is to act distant, don't text that often as men in relationship would, and mostly talk about sex etc.. so clear signs of a man who wants a hookup...and they are cool with it. Then after I while I can say that I want only hookup, and then they say ok. Some of them stop it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:40 PM
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It's not strange, it's absolutely not necessary and even detrimental. You want to be in a relationship that is based on passion, so there needs to be an instant attraction. At least for me, relationship base is "lovers first", not "friends first" And it's bad advice because it's factualy incorrect. As an attractive man, I never had to be friends first with a woman to be with her. Therr were at least some obvious signs of mutual attraction from the very beginning every time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:31 PM
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Exactly,this is the most bullshit advice.. When there is an some attraction from the start, it's actually the opposite, you strike when it's hot. Women actually lose interest quickly if you don't react quickly. Yes, there us maybe some women who "require deeper bond to even be attracted" but those are huge minority compared to the one who lose interest. "Need to be friends first" is the last resort, for belliw average men who can't create the initial spark so they had to do it thr long way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:26 PM
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Most women don't want to date at all What? It's actually only a loud minority of weird asocial women who are like that. Literally every woman that I ever know or knew either dates, or want to date. Not by any means necessary, but I never met those who explicitly don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:22 PM
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Not for the primal, sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:06 AM
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They do thing no.1 tho... although in my part of the world men have great bonds with eachither and "my wife is my best and only friend" is not a norm in my culture like in USA. And yes, it's a good advice and don't miss a point. You need companionship of other MEN to be fullfilled, and I say that all the time, "male loneliness epidemic" is self imposed and exists in the west, not because you don't have girlfriends, it's because you don't have a brotherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:04 AM
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The female friends who always liked my platonic company are now suddenly touching me beyond giving a hug, going for rubs and caresses. Oh this is such a big indicator, and indeed it happens way way more after you get fit. Random biceps grabbing, or abs touching, holding the hug while greetign you way longer than they used to....they would probably say that they don't do anything differently , and rhey might even think so, but it's a subconscious thing, that primal attraction that is subconscious…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:22 AM
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And also most guys who are being settled for are guys who would be happy just to be with any girl, so they won't even notice any of the indicators, they are thrilled to be in any relationship anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:25 AM
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Exactly, most men who "can't move on because they are still in love in their exes and are still suffering" are men who can't find a new girl easy. They do suffer, but because they got addicted in having A girl not THE girl. You don't see Brad Pitts and Cristiano Ronaldos of the world struggling to "move on" after a break up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:21 AM
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Yeah, I was discussing something with a random guy, actually tried to give him an advice, and he told me that he was never being at the party at the age of 25. Like never, ever.. How do I continue conversation with someone like that, like what advice can I give him, I can not even comprehend it. When I was in HS and college literally everyone were going out at least on weekends except those really weird ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:54 AM
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Exactly lol.. and also they do care about looks, and prefer muscly party guys over nerds with quirky hobbies who "prefer to stay home" anyday of the week. For example, whenever I see a girl post about how she is ok with being with a gamer and she actually plays as well I immediately stop reading it further, beacuse it's such a small minority and outcast that their opinion is irrelevant for anything dating related in general. Also when someone say they are demisexual, asexual etc...irrelvant for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:51 AM
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Lol it's absolutely the opposite. I heard way more women complain about their men lack of drivr and how they want more sex from their man, and how their men are not initiatiig enough, hiw they ar etoo tired...than vice versa. Especially couples in their 30s. I had many girls be delighted on how sexual I am and that I want it more at least 1 per day or more. I have pretty high libido but 90% of women I ever was with could always do it more than me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:20 AM
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I mean you can, a bit...but you can't go from dull quiet person to insanely charismatic magnetic individual, no mather how much you "work on yourself".. but you can go from skinny/fat to fit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:01 PM
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Yes it is and it's bullshit argument anyway. Also many fathers right now are loving and caring and spoiling and their daughters even too much...The biggest "slut" I was ever with, in fact has ever present ever loving daddy who will do anything for her. It's a conservative revenge porn fantasy of seeing girls being punished by society since they didn't have dictator conservative parent to punish then instrad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:58 PM
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Pretending to be a different person is different thing. What guy who you are replying to is saying that good advice to those men is - understand and perceive where you can improve and work on that. If you are shy - you have to understand that you are not BORN shy, and you need to understand yourself, why are you shy, and work on that and eventually stop being shy Again, that is something you do for yourself and not to attract women, because you won't succeed if you just do it to attract women I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:54 PM
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Exactly, "sexy" hobbies are sexy if the person who do them is sexy. For example, generic advice to struggling men is - learn how to dance. But, (as someone whose ex girlfriend was salsa instructor so I know how those women perceive that men) that won't help them either. In fact they will even be labelled as "those guys who are here because they can't get a girl" Only men who fuck in dance classes, are instructors or top dancers. And those men are usualy physically attractive even without dance, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:33 PM
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If he just whines about never having scored in a game and just keeps rewatching and dwelling on his misses without formulating a plan to practice and improve, he's never going to get anywhere. Ofc, but he still need to have some outside success to build that confidence - by scoring on practice. If he keeps missing, he can hype himself in the mirror and mediate and go to therapy as much as he wants, he will still miss next one. All 4 things you mentioned are very dependent on external factors, es…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:47 PM
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What’s with the desire to become above average in social skills? Exactly...if you are good looking. The better you look, the less other qualities you have to posses. All men that improved theor looks drastically can justify how it changed their dating life drastically, even tho they are still same peoole. But these exceptions of "ugly fat guys who get all girls by being confident and charming" need to be exceptional in charisma and wit, on a level that is hardly reachable to average person. Yes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:23 PM
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Nobody ever said that ugly/fat men can't get ANY girlfriend... that's what blue pill people use as an argument to make person they argue with sound ridiculous. But there is no society, country, any niche or not niche place, where guy who look like Henry Cavil won't be more attractive to women then guy who look like DanyDeVito
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:15 PM
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Yes, ugly people do date - other ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:11 PM
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It's such a weird argument "instagram is fake".. I mean, in a way that people put only positive highlights of their life, yes, but it's not fake, jt serves that purpose. Why would I take a selfie of me eating beans for lunch or when I am sad, ofc I would just put most exiting parts of my life there.. But most people I know have Instagram...so as you said, couples on Instagram are the same couples you see in the street when you "touch grass"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:09 PM
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True confidence ultimately comes from genuinely believeing you're a person who's worth knowing, worth dating (if single), who can achieve most things you set out to do, and it comes from within, not just because people validate you - because someone can always make a cutting remark, no matter how meritoriously you achieve things in life. It's ultimately a self-assessment, rooted in reality Yes, but this part - rooted in reality - is the most important. Guy who got rejected 100 out of 100 times c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:03 PM
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In my country they usually offer to pay, but we don't accept. Usualy after few dates I do accept and they pay gladly. Or, after bar we go to the club, and she pays a round of drinks there etc... It's just that "1st date" is usualy on men, and we WANT to pay, it's how we are raised, it's a dating gentlemen courtesy ....You are overthinking, it's not that insidious, it's kinda dating bontone, it's fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:29 PM
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It is...but it's pain in the ass, like guy above said. Having boring internal meetings over Zoom every week is part if my job now - it's still annoying as fuck and I would rather avoid if I could
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:12 PM
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Exactly...I can't imagine why would anyone do that. I understand that there are some women who want to be treated to some super fancy high class restaurants so they can take a photo there, or that some women use a man to get to some places (table in the club, vip area etc...). But those women would probably ask in advance where are they going, even them won't bother for some regular ass restaurants, to which OP takes them most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:10 PM
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It kinda is unheard of where I am from... although dinner dates are not the norm at all...I mean I don't live in very rich country, but everyone have money for fucking food. I can't imagine any girl dressing up, doing make up etc...just so she can sit with guy she doesn't like so she can save 10 Eur for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:07 PM
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I did it when I worked as a bartender...yes. But it was fucking annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:04 PM
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Exactly...I never ever took a girl to a dinner on the 1st or any date tbh... neither are my friends, neither one of girl friends went to one, neither my sister and her friends, neither my girlfriend and her friends...no one that I know actually... that's so uncommon in my country. You go to bar/cafe and have a drink. Men most of the time always pay on a 1st date, but yeah, it's not some huge amount anyway. I don't count having a pizza or burger over drinks in a bar...that happens, and it's usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:00 PM
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In what way? I mean, it's a common theme amongst majority of "in can't find girlfriend women don't like nice guys" people... when you dig a bit deeper,. majority are introverted, friendless (or have few friends who are similar) and risk averse Also in my RL experience...the guys who struggle the most, are not ugly guys, not bad guys, short etc...it's PASSIVE guys, who just go to work and chill at home etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:09 PM
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Is It that women feel like a man's masculinity is threatened and therefore undesirable? In my country is this 100%.. women are repulsed by it even more then men, and we are very non-lgbt friendly as a society. My girl friends mocked one of their boyfriends since he liked finger in his ass, and when we talk about it they said most if them don't like it since it's unmanly... And that's just finger in ass by woman, to being openly attracted to men would be instant death of relationship for, let's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:33 AM
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If we overthrow Vucic, I don't fear someone worse to come. Beacuse these protests are led by students, young people whose main concern is actualy "systematic change". Older generations here still believe in "strong leader figures", who has all the power, and many are afraid to talk bad about ruling party. "Keep quiet and be satisfied you are not hungry and under sanctions"...they still think that young people are "spoiled" if they quit when boss is yelling at them, that we are spoiled if we want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:56 PM
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It happens, because some people are fucking idiots. For example, when I was in HS, I went to the best school in city, where all the best students went. And there were many of us having sex of course, but we had 0 pregnancies. Zero. While in worse schools, were worse students went, there were pregnancies left and right. Why, beacuse those were less intelligent teenagers, simple. We were more educated in the matter...like, wear a condom. If not, fucking pull it out, don't cum inside, restrain your…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:47 PM
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got picked over someone whose worst trait was being boring. Being boring to women IS the worst thing in terms of attraction. Boring men struggle even if they are physically in great shape, unless they are extremely good looking Unless you are literal demon, even being abusive is better than being boring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:41 PM
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Where are you from? A lot of North American men (going by the sub here, so it's largely about the US & Canada) are socially isolated, make little to no effort to find friends, and place the blame for their poor mental health on the women who don't want to be their only social support. It's beacuse they don't want to change, but they want a girlfriend that "likes them for who they are". So they can still be social shut ins, but with a girlfriend around. Which is weird, since many if them think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:33 PM
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People have very close intimate relationships with friends/family that are simply not possible in the US. Yes, for example, that "kick the kids out if the house as soon as they are 18" trope is unheard here. Parents actually want kids to stay as long, some older people even shame young ones who move out. " You are leaving your parents instead of staying to help" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:28 PM
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Isn't Laura a prosecutor who prosecuted many corrupted politicians? It's hard to be worse than Vucic regime tbh...he is 100% dictator who literally hired criminals and hooligans ti beat his own people. All members of government had bought diplomas etc. Corruption is rampant, people are prosecuted without evidence...There is a reason why he is close to China and their regime
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:46 PM
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I have been ti America... everyone found me being friends with same people for 20+ years weird and unrealistic... it's just a different cultures. You also move a lot across the country, while my father and his friends live in same houses for 50 years. And even if you move you are still 2hours drive away max I also worked in hostel and in tourist resorts... 99% of people who solo travel are Americans (or Aussies, Canadians...), so Anglo-Saxon overall ..solo travels, solo clubbings, solo whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:12 PM
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If they can't meet you beacuse they HAD to be with wives all the time, even tho they would like to, they are pussy whipped, since they are afraid of their wife being angry. If they don't want to meet you beacuse they actually don't care, then they are not good enough friends. Nobody is actually THAt busy, if they really want to meet you you would find a way. (Unless sickness, very small child etc...)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:05 PM
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Of course...10% of us was just in the street.. with even more people supported us from homes, like parents etc... But even before that...our culture it's just way less toxic then Americans in terms if manliness. And Serbians are arguably more stereotypically manly and "macho" then westerners. But I can still say Волим те брате мој..without being considered gay, and I can still talk about emotions and relationship problems with them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:02 PM
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That's great. Wives/gfs cannot say one thing nor complain nor try to reschedule, But why would they anyway? Don't American wives WANT their man to be happy? I could never be with a woman who complain about me meeting friends. Not solely beacuse of that, but beacuse that would mean that she doesn't actually care about me being happy and satisfied. And I can't be happy without meeting friends regularly, with or without girlfriend. It's a totally different social need. Like food and watter, I need …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:56 PM
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"Boo hoo women like assholes instead of meeee". Yes, but that "asshole" is out there, have a lot if friends, meets girls regularly, therefore not afraid of them and knows how to talk to them, socially calibrated...while complainer is 99% of the time " I don't drink, i don't party, I don't like crowded places, I don't have many friends, I prefer books/video games over people, I go to gym alone with headphones and not talk to anyone, I complain when neighbours makes a small talk with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:50 PM
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Actually, this did happen to me. All my boys got married and we as a group kinda dissolved because they had to be with their wives. Beacuse your friends are bunch of pussy whipped bitches. In my friend group nobody does that, we are mixed friend group, some of us have partners, some nit, some are married with kids. However we still hang out regularly. Ofc, those with kids less, but nobody completely disappeared. And also, you can bring your girl with you or she can meet her friends as well. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:37 PM
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I would even argue that many people who think they want a girlfriend/boyfriend, actually are lonely and need deep connection, but not necessarily romantic. That's why they stay in bad relationships, since they would rather be with anyone then lonely again. And that's why having real friends is essential, you can know if you actually like the person you are in a relationship with, or you just like the fact you are in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:32 PM
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Play football, drink beer or coffee in the afternoon...or just hang out for hang out sake. My father still barbecues and drinks, playing pool, going to football games.. with his HS friends and he is 60y old. He meets some friend every other day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:24 PM
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See my reply to MrOhLordHaveMercy..you are lonely because in the west you either have wife/girl or noone.. (meeting friends once a every 2 months does not mean shit, you need to see them regularly to have actual effect)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:20 PM
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It's way easier to handle lack of romantic relationships if you have deep friendships. Many times I saw "women handle loneliness better beacuse they have stronger support systems". So who is stopping men to create those support systems? Talk to your friends about emotions and relationships, don't take pride in "I don't know if my friend is married or not ha ha I am such a manly man" bullshit. Say, hey man I don't want to be alone on Saturday night, let's go have a beer. I would go with him, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:19 PM
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Confident men are more attractive. Yes, bullies are more attractive then cowardly victims. However, the one who stand up to bullies are even more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:51 PM
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Nobody said they are better people. But confident means they are more attractive. Attractiveness has nothing to do with being good or bad person, especially initial, genuine one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:32 PM
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Yeah.. muslims for example...see the brotherhood that these Dagestani MMA fighters have for example This "my wife is my best and only friend" mentality western people have is what makes them miserable in the long run. I never heard any Serbian men ever say something like that. And vice versa, Serbian women also have very close female friends they share everything with. Men CRAVE brotherhood, having close nale friend is one of the manliest things, while western men are brainwashed the opposite. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:19 PM
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I mean, wear a condom...yes, they can break blah blah . But chances of that to happen are as high as getting hit by a card in the street And you can also pull out,I do it even with a condom on. Men who get someone pregnant by accident are absolutely fucking morons, it's extremely easy to avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:11 PM
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And also, anime nerdy girl is most likely also unattractive girl, it's not like that type of girls are chased by hot guys. So they get what they can. Henry Cavil is so called nerd, by we don't see him chasing nerdy gaming women, he was also chasing baddies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:11 PM
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I don't know many lonely men, although I live in Serbia where we cherish male friendships, so I can never relate to this "men only bond over actions, I would rather be alone in a garage then chat with friends over coffee" That's a western men issue, and it's 100% self inflicted. Don't rely on your wives/gfs to be your sole source of socialization. You are not lonely because you don't have a gf, you are lonely cause you don't have a brotherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:05 PM
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Exactly...and it's more that these so called nice shy guys see only surface of how these "bad boys" behave.. and they think that guys are huge assholes, but many times they are just a bit brash and outspoken, and care less about being judged, so they don't overanalyze every word they will say in advance. Which is attractive trait per se. But these shy introverts are too afraid to put themselves out there, so they rationalize their shyness and lack of courage as being "nice person who care about …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:26 AM
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But there are wholesome men who struggle and not so wholesome who don't. Hence the conclusion - being wholesome (good person) or not is irrelevant to attracting a woman. I also don't say that being bad person is attractive, but I say that it's irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:54 AM
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it's not a compliment, and once it comes out, a woman's entire social circle tends to view that guy as grossly as the ragiest Lol they maybe SAY that out loud.. but action wise act differently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:18 PM
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Women don't take fuckboys seriously They don't WANT to be taken seriously.... that's why fuckboi is not derogatory term to me. I enjoyed that reputation, me being considered "guy for fun" was actually amazing, even something that made me proud lol "Oh, I get what I desire and I am fully satisfied, I am such a loser because of it" said no one ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:15 PM
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Yeah.. why would I? Life is not long enough to focus on every minority group in the world, people focus on people who are close to them I don't have anyone autistic in my family and friend circle, and even if I do, I would never require from anyone else to "learn about their issues". I would beacuse I would care about them, but rest of the world don't need to care. Same with mental illnesses etc.. it's not their fault they have it, but it's their responsibility to handle it, not anyone's else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:06 PM
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High IQ people were not bullied BECAUSE they had high IQ... it's beacuse they were most probably too weird, and could not adapt to normal social normals. I was high IQ kid who went on math competitions etc ..I was never ever bullied. But I was socially "normal", being High IQ was not my personality, I played football and basketball, I partied, was outside witb other kids doing regular things.. not beacuse I wanted to fit it, I did it because I genuinely enjoyed those so called "normal" things. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:54 PM
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That's bullshit generic "it will happen when you don't expect" tyoe of advice that women usualy give when they virtue signal
/r/seduction14/03/25 10:17 AM
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Where are you from? Nightlife is a phrase for clubbing, bars, concerts, party scene ..that exist almost anywhere in the world, maybe not in Afganistan or North Korea
/r/seduction14/03/25 10:13 AM
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So, no matter how well-crafted your message is, if she’s not open to meeting someone, there’s no way to change that. Exactly, so this straight to the point without hours of chit chat approach is great to filter those women. Bwtter to start with a flirty approach, then ask for a date fast and get rejected, then "making her feel comfortable" by asking a lot of questions over hours and hours and then get rejected. My exp was always - if she wants to meet she will meet after 1h of texting max, if sh…
/r/seduction14/03/25 10:08 AM
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