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Legal RightsIcy_Monitor2870/r/MensRights30/07/22 10:48 PM
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I'm sure the pedophile by gender numbers are closer to 50/50. The issue is that there's a lot of bias where predator women are swept under the rug or not even classified as a predator when it comes to the totals. A boy "sleeping with" a woman is seen as a positive by too many people to ever acknowledge women predators as a true statistic. I mean when news reporters fail to use the word "rape" when it's a female perpetrator and frame them as a victim, it's fairly obvious that the pedophile number…
/r/MensRights15/04/25 06:51 PM
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Check the pinned post at the top of this subreddit, it lists in detail a lot of disparities that men face.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 09:19 PM
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It's an interesting angle, most definitely. I don't think there's much difference in restrictions when it comes to men versus women, at least not in terms of severity. For example, arguments comparing compulsory roles to reproductive rights or scholarships to workplace dynamics miss the bigger picture—these issues stem from very different systemic and societal causes. In Western societies, both women and men have their own sets of advantages and disadvantages, privileges and limitations. However…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 08:35 PM
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Outstanding update. Did you or anyone else inform them to do so, or did they seem to do it on their own accord? I'm curious.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 11:43 PM
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Well put, I'll raise my glass to that one. I do want to point out that what you outlined falls more under egalitarianism than feminism, however. I think those "all men are bad" types have invaded feminist academia and literature, and even the common day feminists. It's time to create a new egalitarian movement that focuses on both sexes without making it into a competition or zero sum game. Everyone, including men, women, and those who identify as others, deserve their right to not be hated for …
/r/MensRights04/02/25 11:41 PM
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OK, so I'm with you at Intersectionality. I do think it's an important topic and it should definitely be studied more widely. The issue is I just don't agree with it being used one way only. You lost me at "Patriarchy," which is a false construct. Intersectionality is almost always used from a Feminist/gynocentric framework. It's possible to construct your own viewpoints about men's issues using Intersectionality, but you must do so while acknowledging your blindspots. It's the greatest weakness…
/r/MensRights12/01/25 02:15 AM
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Ah, apologies. I'd also check out this pinned post as well. It covers Men's Issues but not concerning feminism necessarily. It still provides a good backdrop however. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/5nrN4Slz7D
/r/MensRights14/12/24 12:31 AM
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Apologies if it's been posted already, but this post made recently covers a lot. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/ohFW2Lf73T
/r/MensRights14/12/24 12:27 AM
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Believe it or not, I've seen people change it to "womyn".
/r/MensRights08/12/24 01:57 AM
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It's also important that insurance covers them, as most male preventative items and procedures are not covered by insurance while, unsurprisingly, the female versions are Of course, this goes for the USA. I'm not sure how other countries handle it.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 02:07 AM
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Chatgpt is biased by the information it's trained on. As someone who studies Deep Learning, I can say the model functions genuinely like an auto complete, but much more advanced. Chatgpt, for example, with the right tone and word choice, can still be swayed into stating the exact opposite of the above as it always works to appease the user. In other words, the sources it uses are biased, so you can expect bias.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 02:16 AM
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Not really sure why you're getting downvoted when you seem to be asking in good faith. There's some other studies as well but this is an aggregate link to some older ones. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/
/r/MensRights29/10/24 11:10 PM
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I think what a lot of people in America don't realize is that this isn't really a "right" or a "left" thing. It's a case where a right is being attacked. Even if that right doesn't affect people who "matter" to them, it still should be supported because believe it or not, once the removal of rights begins, it never stops. Both the Left and Right are targeting free speech, for example. And once free speech is gone, it'll quickly become a totally different country. A lot of people thinks free spee…
/r/MensRights25/10/24 01:43 AM
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I honestly feel you have a good take here. I'd like to add that like all things, change starts with little steps but Browsing Reddit is far from the ending place. It takes an actual effort to bring about change and your recommendations are spot on. They're great baby steps for people to gradually get their way up to massive reform. There will obviously be pushback from many groups but that pushback shouldn't stop people from trying. There is a lot of pushback from Feminist groups no doubt; Look …
/r/MensRights13/10/24 12:23 AM
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Thank you for the reply. It's not often we get a good faith feminist present on this sub. I also agree with most of what you have stated here, but I would like to build onto your prejudice statement. I think it's not just that the people here see most feminists as bad due to limited interactions, although that is a contributing factor. The largest issue many have with Feminism has to due with its most prominent leaders. There are many Femenist "leaders" who have both legally and academically wor…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:08 PM
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Honestly a lot of the posts seem to show some awareness, at least. It's like when someone's close to solving a mystery and they're just missing that "aha" moment. The proportion of posts there kind of give me hope in a weird way. I was thinking it was a nearly invisible minority but it seems like a lot of posters are actually thinking about the issue. Not to say I have it all figured out, of course, but communication is a good start.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/24 07:48 PM
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You have a lot of people who believe nothing comes of false allegations (not all of course, the most malicious are usually the ones doing the accusing). It has become so normalized that people really don't think about the consequences. Honestly, I think the great digitilization is the main cause. As people move their lives further online, they become more critical and ironically, less experienced. The real life aspect has been dwindling for a while, so now you have people who, just because they …
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/24 07:17 PM
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"(7/5) represents the 75%, The ignored men who felt so alone they felt the only option was to take their own lives." Taken from the main post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/24 08:26 PM
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One of my favorite books, I never thought about such a connection before.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 08:45 PM
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The thing about fake posts is true most likely. I've seen the "future is female t-shirt" copypasta post dozens of times at this point.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 08:08 PM
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You've been through a lot, and I'm glad that you have such a strong support in your life. I think the most important thing is honestly supporting the youth and teaching them before they learn the hard way. Others need support too, and we can and do make a difference when we reach out. I don't think it's too late, but I do feel we are at the tipping point of a huge shift. Good or bad, it's coming, and it's up to everyone to steer the ship. Mentoring and being vocal makes a huge difference, especi…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:08 PM
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It wouldn't hurt to ask and see who's confrotable with it. That way, they're at least have a head's up with whatever your choice is.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:23 AM
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I mean, childbirth honestly isn't a very balanced labor effort. There's really no refuting that.Traditionally, men do toil and labor to ensure their family's safety but there are situations where the mother is already the primary breadwinner. Although fairly "untraditional", these fringe cases are starting to happen more and more. Of course, I'm not denying that these people have terrible takes. Pretty par for the course on Twitter though. And I believe in the USA at least, it is possible to cha…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 11:15 PM
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This is a good counterargument in a hypothetical sense, but I feel that most relationships are not one where a single partner leads 100% of the time so in practice this is a terrible idea. The idea of Alpha does great harm to men who need emotional support from their partners and peers. Even harmful relationships place the submissive partner into the leader role at some points. To believe one can be "Alpha" at all times is a fairy tale. Additionally, this feels a lot like a "tit for tat" argumen…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 11:05 PM
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Egalitarian would be a better term. It encapsulates the rights of both sexes.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 01:19 AM
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I understand your frustration and rage, but I do want to remind you that this is Reddit. Additionally, dating subs on Reddit. These subs are filled with misandry, packed to the brim. Places like Reddit and Twitter are definitely not representative of real life. Instead, you'll find a majority of these people are "chronically" online, which has been proven to cause a slew of mental disorders. Things are different in certain circles. Obviously not some places, like Colleges or schools, but smaller…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 01:10 AM
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Egalitarians (probably a term fitting your ideals, although I am not trying to assume) are welcome. Even Feminists are, should they actually bring a reasonable discussion or thought to the table, which is wishful thinking at this point.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 01:04 AM
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I'm glad I finally took the time to sit down and watch this video, it had been on the back burner for a while. It went a bit different than I thought it would. I honestly feel some MRA's would benefit from this video as well.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 08:17 PM
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Do you have a source for that 25%? I'd love to have it saved. Edit: I'm dumb nevermind haha
/r/MensRights12/12/23 08:37 PM
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I understand your personal experience. The train of thought here though is that men are being victim blamed for not being responsive to the same strategies and techniques that help women, but there is a large enough difference in gender that warrants a different approach to the problems men face. The issue here is that due to misandry, the development of such solutions have been sidelined and vehemently opposed. I don't think you're familiar with the actual "base" concepts of Men's Rights, so yo…
/r/MensRights03/12/23 09:09 PM
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This is a great question. I don't think there's too many studies on this one, at least not directly answering your question. I think there's more a "social code" that men adhere to. This social code is almost like a set of rules. The ancient belief of "honor" is still slightly ingrained in society, as there are things men hold their other men friends accountable for, and things that men would not do to men who they hate. This code is seperate from morals, and has a lot of facets. For example, a …
/r/MensRights28/11/23 08:48 PM
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I don't think street protests/picketing are necessary or as effective as general promotion. Simply talking about topics with peers, family, and coworkers increase awareness, which is certainly a vast help. Society is funny, it lacks critical thinking so it is turned into a situation where people only believe things if the people they like the most believe them. If you don't ever raise awareness of issues, either in person or online, then that would be a disservice. I think at this point just gen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/23 01:16 AM
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I don't think it's just Feminists, although they are certainly a prime example. It seems like people in general are becoming less accepting of having disagreements. It took a while to find a friendship circle that is ok with disagreeing on topics and views. This lack of critical thinking and ability to rationalize and identify with others is increasing at a scarily large rate. In the near future, I truly can see things becoming Orwellian if classical debate, logic, and critical thinking is not r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/23 07:58 PM
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I'm glad you're here for actual discussion and not just blatant dismissal of valid arguments. I think the problem here is semantics. When so many outspoken Femenists attack men and are not criticized by their peers, it paints the whole of Feminism as a problem. What you call the "Patriarchy" is different from what another Feminist would call it. All of these differing viewpoints means that the "Patriarchy" can never be societally accepted and is instead diminished to being the "Boogeyman" for la…
/r/MensRights17/11/23 07:39 PM
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Super hard agree here, great argument against feminism as well.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 12:24 AM
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Outstanding video, outstanding commentary.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 08:05 PM
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Absolutely agree. There should be less emphasis on punishment, like locking people up for the rest of their lives (although for private prisons and those who invest in them, this is a gold mine) and there should be more emphasis on compassionate reform. There are many criminals in the past who turned their lives around to do great things and invent devices we still use today. In modern times, though, just think of all the talent that's rotting away behind cells instead of being nurtured, unlike …
/r/MensRights03/11/23 07:17 PM
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Really interesting read. The take is rather grounded and the article seems to be written from a mostly unbiased perspective (looking at the last sentence here). I suppose feminists aren't exactly known for caring about sons though, as the empathy gap is ever-present. I'm surprised to see a feminist write such a logical analysis. It feels almost egalitarian. I can only hope this sparks some thought in the feminist domain.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 04:17 PM
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I absolutely agree. I really hope we get to a time where society has the mindset to care about helping people like this, regardless of gender. Check in with your friends people; be there for support. Everybody needs it now with mental health resources failing a lot of people, especially young men and boys. I'm not asking to be a therapist but work on listening and being emotionally available. Those skills take a lifetime to perfect, but there's no reason not to start now. Actions like that save …
/r/MensRights29/10/23 08:11 PM
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Thanks, I'll pass it on to my friend group!
/r/MensRights22/10/23 10:48 PM
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I don't think it'll take years for that group to build up. Just make sure everybody's sharing it around and you'll have a big group count in no time! I'll even share with some of my friends.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 10:24 PM
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The fact you got downvotes for highlighting that being too tall is bad on a post calling out male body shaming is pretty wild my guy.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 06:46 PM
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I do hope you stick around. This community is very statistically oriented. The more calculating minds can misunderstand inexperience for bad-faith acts due to the number of trolls we get. If there's no statistic or critique of sexism, you have to be very careful not to generalize. Your initial post did come across as generalizing, which obviously wasn't your intent. Of course there's still the vocal few who attack anyone whose views don't align with their own, but that's just life. I would not s…
/r/MensRights06/08/23 06:17 PM
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For me, all that attention feels good and it's a great confidence booster. Me and my friend group are comfortable with our sexuality so we do a lot of things that may seem homosexual to outside observers. We cuddle, groom each other, hold hands, sit in each others' laps, hug, talk about feelings etc. Nothing ever goes too far. It's not seen as weird, and we're all hetero. Of course, we're also all young ( in our 20's), so I'm not sure how this would play out with older men but from the new frien…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/23 08:05 PM
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I'm not disagreeing. I'm just pointing out that nothing will change without talking about issues with people who have different viewpoints. She seems at least open to conversation. I havent read her book, so i cant speak for her actual values but she at least admits many of the issues men face are real, and if she did so in her book, it's hard to see why she would not be genuine. Such admissions of the issues, even if solved with "the Patriarchy" would still cause backlash from the feminist sphe…
/r/MensRights04/07/23 05:50 PM
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I'd have to agree. These are the kind of feminists we should be supporting. She is showing signs of actively wanting to change. This is a great first step, especially with how she acknowledges all of the issues that MRM advocates cherish. Although her conclusion and results are wrong, this doesn't mean that we should demonize her. Instead we should reach out to her and make efforts of collaboration. Only by sharing experiences and talking with the "villains" will things get better for men. The w…
/r/MensRights02/07/23 08:06 PM
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An interesting read, but wouldn't be better to hold individuals accountable?
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:29 PM
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Yes they are US states. Thank you for taking a look though.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 11:43 PM
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I'm absolutely in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 11:40 PM
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