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Idk maybe do things to prevent a dead bedroom in the first place. If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you because you ignored her and made her do all the work, that's a you problem, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:28 PM
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I'm not understanding. What exactly are you trying to say? Like no shit people doing their jobs benefits society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:06 PM
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be forced to see the value of men Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:58 PM
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No. I've never seen a good-looking "right winger".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:54 PM
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Good, she should sue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:53 PM
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The already disappear from my existence. No buttons required. I just pay them no mind. Even the male relatives. And thus they disappear from my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:51 PM
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It wasn't honest. It was rude. And slimey toad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:44 PM
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Again, that wasn't honesty. That was hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:17 PM
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I loved horror movies for first dates. Especially because of the the shared scare or surprise reactions. It was a great way to connect, in the dark, grabbing each other for safety. Definitely upped the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:12 PM
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Lmao. Nothing what he said was honest it was hurtful and needlessly malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:02 PM
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Lmao. He had no physical standards. He was mean to his girlfriend for no reason other than to be a dick. Good riddance. He sounds like a little punk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:50 PM
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And you're gonna get a dozen more different definitions. That's what RP is all about....vagueness. Keep it vague and you can call anyone a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:46 PM
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Ick. Hope she leaves that twerp. She deserves far better than that slimey toad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:44 PM
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Yes, I care so much what high school, 20-somethings, and unwanted men on the internet think about me and sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:12 PM
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So don't get married. Nobody is forcing you. Don't live with someone. Don't work. Don't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:01 PM
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The internet was invented by women, too. Female engineers and construction workers also build buildings. JFC. but one of those basic needs is sexual, Ick. Sex isn't a fucking basic need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:56 PM
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Weird those have never been my two options. If those are the only options, I'm staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:53 PM
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Nope. Definitely disagree. So when you ladies say “men are trash”, I hope you realize it’s kind of making the point that you are attracting that kind of man. Based on what I've learned in this sub, men are attracted to anything with a pulse. Regardless of what I do or did to attract them. Them being attracted to me isn't my fault. And I refuse to blame myself for men's bizarre abilities to be attracted to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:45 PM
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You can't view sex as both an intimate and recreational act, You absolutely can, kid. Maybe one day, when some of y'all are old enough, you'll understand that both can be true. Good luck out there, kid. Y'all need it far more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:41 PM
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Lmao. Sure, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:40 PM
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traditional female gender roles, Such as? What does this look like? a man who plays the traditional male gender roles. Could you describe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:39 PM
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I have no idea what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:38 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. Demand a paternity test from your faithful wife and end up divorced and a tense relationship with your kids. Great job letting fear control these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:37 PM
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Y'all make up the most unhinged concepts. It's fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:35 PM
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Men are just telling you that they're done settling for them Lol. Okay. I fail to see when this has ever happened, but pop off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:33 PM
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eventually I want to have sex with her. Okay so why is a month so bothersome? Sex drives shift and changes constantly in a relationship. Age, stress levels, work commitments, children, other commitments, etc. Many years without sex in a marriage is a problem. A month or two without sex is just a marriage with a newborn or some other valid obstacles (work, older kids, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:04 AM
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Idk depends on the woman. Why is waiting for sex such a hassle? If you want sex immediately go pay a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:32 AM
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while they themselves lack the values and behaviors that attract traditional men. Such as? A modern or semi-modern couple that finds a happy medium within their relationship will thrive more What does this look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:50 AM
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I simply don't want a high body count women, I don't want a sex worker and I want a family orientated women that doesn't prioritise getting drunk at clubs. Okay so don't... nobody is suggesting you do so. Date a religious person with your values. Now, if you're having a lot of sex yourself and getting drunk at clubs, well that's hypocritical and people understandably have issues with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:25 AM
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At any point, someone determines they feel uncomfortable or don't want to proceed or say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:03 AM
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Sex is way too fun to never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:19 AM
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What would you say is a decent enough amount of time to know a guy before getting physical with him? Depends. There's no hard and fast rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:15 AM
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I've been thinking about if or why I care about this topic. I've figured out that I don't want young women to believe musty insecure men who shame, insult, and rage out at them for having whatever consensual sex they want. Seems my duty as a Fairy Homother to guide the next generation of women into their best sexual selves. 🧚‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:04 AM
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Who think I'll warm up to the idea if they push the right buttons. Ick. Luckily, they all use the same moves, so it becomes really easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:57 AM
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What guys are showing low effort? The ones I mentioned? I don't use online dating. How is refusing and turning down these men, giving them power? I'm not even sure what you're referring to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:55 AM
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Men lying, men refusing to wear condoms, men pressuring, and men demanding is somehow MY problem. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:51 AM
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Every time I've been single it's been about men lying to get me naked, men demanding sex before I felt comfortable, men refusing to wear condoms, men pressuring to me to have sex, men upset that I won't have sex. Basically, it comes down to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:47 AM
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Pro tip: If a man complains about wearing condoms, walk the fuck away. He's trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:44 AM
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I don't think most men are physically ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:41 AM
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I'll take the cooler chill dude over the supposedly more "goal oriented dude" who thinks respect is driving 3 hours to see them or only seeing them once a week. I'll take employed dude with dorito dust. I'm repulsed by men who say, "she never gives attitude and is going all out for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:36 AM
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Why do the fears include demanding a paternity test? That's the part that doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:48 PM
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You ever hear of Siri?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:22 PM
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That's a good question. You'd have to ask the kid who told me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:11 PM
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Someone who doesn't hate men. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:08 PM
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Oh did you want me to keep going? How many men should I list off to prove to you that I don't hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:08 PM
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I don't believe this for a second. Someone's true hatred can come out online. Especially on Reddit. I've been called "cunt" online far more often than in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:06 PM
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I don't hate men. My dad's a man. My dog is a man. My robots are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:02 PM
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Yet with women, they’re always praised and admired for going single Not in this sub. In this sub, being a single woman is a threat and a consequence. I'm all for the choosing to be single. But do it because you want to. Not because you're trying to spite woman kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:00 PM
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you're just a closed minded feminist cunt With this comment, I got my first PPD BINGO of the day. Rewarded myself with sushi for lunch. 🍣 Seemed fitting for the "cunt" insult. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:57 PM
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I'm still wondering what is game about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:55 PM
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Agreed. I sharpened my flirting skills as a bartender as well. It also helps you read people, too. Ooh, it helps you avoid those creepy customers with that leering look in their eyes. Bartending gave me so many skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:48 PM
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Unmarried single men are afraid of a hypothetical future wife cheating on them is a revenge fantasy. It is not anything rooted in reality. I'm not angry in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:41 PM
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Very attractive men, who often flirt with old women and aunties. This is more like a game. How is that game? Flirting with old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:25 PM
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That's why i don't buy this "flirting = leading someone on". Agreed. There's levels of flirting. I flirt with a lot of people, men and women. Flirting literally means doing it for amusement and not serious intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:24 PM
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I understand lots of men. I don't understand men who complain about their hypothetical revenge fantasies. I don't understand men who complain about their choices but refuse to make different choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:21 PM
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This isn't my opinion on relationships This is very much your opinion. You're not telling me the origin of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:03 PM
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phone and text a male friend " wanna come over 💦🍆" and 9 times out of 10 a dudes gonna be down... Ick. No. An average or even above average dude can't do this What have friendships with women? so your average dude goes for a relationship because access to casual sex for him is very limited. That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:00 PM
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Why are you marrying someone who cheats on you? Seems like a personal problem. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:56 PM
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You just said that I could easily find on by looking out the window. Implying it's incredibly common. Some of us have options Uh huh. I'm saying that monogamous relationships were introduced to us for this purpose For what purpose? Sex? So that the average man could have a woman and pro create children with. Wtf. Y'all have some really deranged opinions of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:52 PM
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They implied that it's as common as seeing a man in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:51 PM
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Lmao. What? Are you suggesting that every man is in a relationship for causal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:43 PM
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A lot of men get into relationships because they can't have access to casual sex. Who are these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:35 PM
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Commonly women have to conciously choose a guy that is not top 5%, because they have to consider the risk of the man having too many temptations to go astray. What? No. Never done this, never seen this done either. How common is it for really attractive women to marry really attractive men? Very common. Why do certain men have harems or women who share them? They don't. Certain men lie to women to get sex. The women, once finding out they've been lied to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:34 PM
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(b) The kind of people who paternity tests are designed for given the stats provided by these services about their clients. Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:27 PM
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whose partner has a history of frequent or recent infidelity Who are these people having children with women who frequently or recently cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:13 PM
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100%. This is absolutely the case. So much of what we see here is their fears and pushing them on women. Men here are apparently attracted to every woman that crosses their paths. So they assume women are the same way. Men here are obsessed with being compared to past sexual partners because they compare their limited experiences. It's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:48 PM
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My question is, why is an accusation of cheating by asking for a paternity test any different to any other accusation of cheating? It's not different. But a random accusation of cheating is break up worthy. And really, what's most annoying is this conversation is these intense stances from men who have never had a relationship, let alone a marriage. Why are y'all so hard up for paternity tests for relationships with women that you don't even have? You're talking big game about a scenario you've …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:44 PM
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Idk. Presumably, the dude is also having ONS/random hookups, and having sex without relationships.....so he doesn't feel that jealousy described above. People tend to date people with similar past experiences. why do I want to be the "nice and stable" guy she ends up with and courts her formally, putting a ring on it and taking her on all of these nice dates and trips? You don't have to be. Nobody is expecting this from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:32 PM
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And these guy’s don’t overshadow her. Maybe they don't want to. Maybe they just want to support and encourage her. And they're perfectly okay doing enough to be a functional contributing adult. Why do these men need to "overshadow" her? These guys tend to be fairly blue collar and plain. And? What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:24 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:43 PM
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Kudos to any woman who refuses a DNA test because the man is an insecure meat stick. And it gives children the truth so they don’t have to spend years wondering either. What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:28 PM
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What's "free"? they got a higher product for free What product? Inflation seems to impact products all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:22 PM
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but I do feel like people should let people know what turned them off so they are aware and can work on themselves Lmao? What? I'm not gonna work on myself because there was something that turned some side of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:15 AM
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You will be one day! 💍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:40 PM
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I'm not a troll. I just don't agree with some of the content here. your online persona What's that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:23 PM
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Lmao. Stay mad, kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:17 PM
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For what? You clearly know something more than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:10 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:56 PM
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Who lives under bridges?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:39 PM
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Or maybe just stop cold approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:32 PM
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It definitely seems to increase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:32 PM
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Out in the world. Just running errands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:20 PM
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What? Did you read? How does "cold approaches" mean to you that I'm "noticing other guys more often?" The actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:17 PM
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I've had a ring on my finger for less than a week and have gotten a noticeable increase in cold approaches. Stop with the cold approaches. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:02 PM
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Nope. It's because some women don't care. Plenty of us who do care wouldn't be swayed by "attractiveness." Because there's nothing sexy about misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:54 PM
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Lmao. Bro. Dude. My guy, what you described in your OP is manipulation. My comments all refer to your OP. Not whatever that nonsense is. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:44 PM
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Im just wondering if you gals really think you can "sense" the "virgin men" and the "sexist men"? Yes, absolutely. I'm very rarely wrong. But i had "friends" who ive even made posts about, who are proud sexists, and women love them. Because those women don't love themselves. In 10 years they'll forget all about your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:38 PM
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Comments in this thread believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:15 PM
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Yes, anyone, manipulation is manipulation. I'm not sure what else there is to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:45 PM
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Yes, what you're describing is manipulation so that you can fuck somebody. Anyone who uses manipulation to get laid is ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:32 PM
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We who? Cool, I'm glad that's what you've seen. I've seen countless women walk away from this kind of manipulation. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:24 PM
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If you find a person you're courting, and you know for a fact that there are other people after them, the fastest and easiest way to make them want to be around you, and crave your presence, is to hit them with the most novel stimuli possible. You want the best music they're into within the genre, but NOT all of the songs they like. Their favorite foods, but slightly different. Their most cherished places, but with something new. You want the most stimulating smells, flavors, sensations, visuals…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:18 PM
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Agreed. Idk why they complain so much about people being toxic together in toxic relationships. If you want a toxic relationship so bad, go get in one. If you feel "lied to", blame the men who made the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:04 PM
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They have few things to obsess over. And they've half convinced themselves if they just look a certain way that women will fall at their feet. It's really bizarre and cringe the obsession with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:20 PM
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Yes, I care that men insult women they don't know. Do whatever the fuck you want. Date who or whoever or don't date whoever. Do you pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:51 PM
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Yes, I'm indifferent to high school kids and 20-somethings who say shit like "304s".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:20 PM
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My responding doesn't mean I care. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:17 PM
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They've all had consequences. Like I said, be the abuser of your dreams, have a toxic relationship, and deal with your consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:49 PM
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No, it just means don't compare us to cars or locks or keys or some dumb inanimate objects. It means don't view women as only a means to a sexual end. But, I think y'all know that and it still upsets some of y'all because you feel entitled to access to women. at least top men have to keep a frame, game, etc. which takes time and effort Yup, it takes time and effort for a woman to keep "frame and game". Ick what a saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:48 PM
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the amount of mental gymnastics some women pull just to refuse to accept the fact that many guys find them plain unnattractive from a romantic pov Fine by me. Let them find me unattractive. Doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:46 PM
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Ted Bundy got the electric chair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:43 PM
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Why do y'all think women who have sex are more likely to cheat? And please miss me with shoddy research data. And skip the "pair bonding" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:48 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:08 AM
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Yup, people with trauma will usually date abusers resulting in a pretty toxic relationship. If a toxic relationship is what you desire. Go for it. Just be aware of the consequences of being an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:54 AM
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I meant....more like you remember and pay attention to people post high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:15 AM
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Yup, because we have to filter through all the cold approaches, creepy, liars, cheats, unemployed, etc. Can feel overwhelming to wade through all the pests to find a good man. As OP said, they don't bring much to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:01 AM
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You said you still go through this to this day. As in today. So it seemed weird that you're engaged but also dealing with this beta myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:59 AM
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the fact that I'm engaged is even aggravating. Umm....so why are you engaged? Doesn't make sense. It's something that many men go through And yet we've never actually see it. Or know it. It's all just smoke and mirrors. Dime store magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:26 AM
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I'm college educated, so I want someone college educated. Odds are that person is more employable, is able to adapt to life's stressor, more likely to have connections and a professional network, and most importantly is fucking educated. It has nothing to do with the actual career choice. More to do with having things and experiences in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:21 AM
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I'm impressed you know that many. I don't think I know any. Granted, I've been out of high school a long time and talk to maybe 3 people max.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:07 AM
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unassertive betas I have no idea what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:05 AM
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It’s hardwired into men to care. Lmao. No. the same men who would let a guy slap your ass and not do anything about it. Lmao. Also no. Fucking hilariously no. It means their territorial/protective instinct is weak. It means they aren't insecure about what happened in the past and are territorial/protective of their present and future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:58 AM
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What is the solution, in your humble opinion Idk. I guess it depends on if you're attracted to people or cartoon characters. Generally, though, my solutions are socializing and never ever ever ever cold approaches. Bonus points for wearing clean jeans and a clean, crisp white tee.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:23 AM
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Neither. Both sound dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:27 PM
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It doesn't really "start" anywhere. The fuck. Personality is seen through appearance. Men approach woman they find attractive. Cool for them. Annoying for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:44 PM
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Lmao. What? Are you saying it is karma to have a pay gap and to pay bills alone? All women dating and in relationships today are reincarnations of women from the past, who were dependent on men to now not be able to save because they are no longer dependent on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:15 PM
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I'm not seeing the karma in this example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:59 PM
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How do you read those articles and come to these unhinged cringey conclusions? but basically it is just Karmic justice Lmao. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:31 PM
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If he made me laugh, could support himself, folds laundry, cooks, and cleans, and knows where the clit was. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:16 PM
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Lmao. Insulting is never valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:03 PM
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Idk what this weird story has to do with me. If you don't know him from your day to day life, and just got to know him on a romantic basis, you might really want to be more cautious. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:34 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:34 PM
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I'm not following. What exactly are you trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:33 PM
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What? I'm not even sure what you're talking about. Are you trying to insult my guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:33 PM
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Well, you've got all the answers. I'm sure you're a shining example of what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:24 PM
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Lmao. Don't need your luck. Go ahead and keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:17 PM
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Attraction doesn't start at looks. 1 in 5 women. That's not a very big number. I'd also bet my left ovary that those 1 in 5 women come from either religious communities or higher economic communities where they themselves had a stay at home parent. a good looking man is going to get his foot in waaaay more doors Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:12 PM
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Oooh, online dating studies. So cringe. Good luck with the 3s and 4s, kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:09 PM
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This hoe is becoming a housewife! 💍 I'd like to thank all the blow jobs given in alleyways and parking garages. The one night stands. The fuck buddies. The exes. The liars who broke my heart. The liars who weren't good in bed. Because of all of them and their pumping me with cum, I found love with a Chad Alpha Wolf. Thank you dicks! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:08 PM
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What's bullshit is thinking that looks is the end all be of attraction. looks threshold More made-up myths. I bet Joe Merrick was a cool guy but I doubt very many women gave him the time of day. Why? Cause looks threshold. No idea who that is. Then they say, "doesn't have to do with salary", which everyone knows is bullshit, since virtually no women date homeless men, vagabonds or video game addicted weirdos. So SOME salary obviously does matter. Well, yes, being employed is a key part of adulth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:05 PM
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Yes, there are many successful business owners. The fuck. Because the 5s and 6s are taking the 3s and 4s. It's a domino effect. Lol. Sure pal. Once again, this all sounds like made-up drama to feel better about being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:01 PM
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It takes me far more than 10 seconds. Seems like there's complaints here that having a job, hobbies, friends, and interests beyond sex are too high of standards. My standards for dating are more values based. Are they kind, loyal, have goals, care for their homes and themselves, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:56 PM
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What exactly is sus? That's attractive men have interests and goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:54 PM
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Let's be real this makes no fucking sense. And now the guys who are 3s and 4s have almost nothing for themselves. Why not the 3s and 4s of women? sheer improbability of landing a good looking younger doctor or business owner Doctor might be harder but business owner is fairly easy. So now guys in the 5.5-7.5 range have to mess around with girls 5s and under most of the time and they aren't willing to commit because most of those girls are below them in attractiveness. They will get smashed but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:53 PM
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Idk. My relationship is perfect. Not much compromise or bargaining. Can't think of a time we did either. Everyone has flaws Some are worth putting up with. Some are not. Idk why women leaving unfulfilling relationships bothers y'all so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:47 PM
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Yay proof that women won't stay in shitty, unfulfilling relationships! Hooray for lesbians. I wish all women had the courage to leave their shitty, unfulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:32 AM
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Yup. It's a friend date and she wanted to make clear she was single. Turns out, people still make up their own stories about strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:48 AM
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Nope. Awkwardness and creepy are very different things. As for the buying stuff free meals,random gifts of stuff you said you wanted, will likely be your ride to anywhere etc I do that for friends all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:02 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:01 AM
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Leering = creepy. Creepy has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with vibes/behavior/demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:48 AM
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Leering = creepy. Creepy has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with vibes/behavior/demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:48 AM
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Are you suggesting that half the human population at creepy men? I certainly didn't say anything about half the human population. If that's what you read, it sounds like you believe half the population is creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:34 PM
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Creepy men =/= men who buy you things. women have grown accustomed to simps and getting free shit while putting out minimal effort What kind of free shit? These robots would take all that away because then they would be getting laid and wouldn't need to simp and hope anymore I hope they enjoy robot vag. Sounds delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:33 PM
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It is when it’s how you make ends meet lmao (read OnlyFans, Instagram, etc.). Then it's not pests, it's paying customers. And people will still pay for flesh over robot. Fleshy content will just cost more. Also you know most of women’s IG followers aren’t incels or low value males, that’s a strawman. Idk what you're referring to here. but most normal men follow IG models. No..Normal men don't follow IG models. Unless you think the majority of males on this planet are incels or “pests”. No. Btw I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:16 PM
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Especially the ones that thrive on social media and irl attention (i.e most women). Attention from pests isn't worthwhile attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:26 PM
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My prediction is that women will try to make them illegal, will fail, and only get regulations on them. Why? Creepy men would finally leave us alone. Why would we get rid of something that would reduce pests?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:32 PM
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Rare. And almost always over a mediocre musty man. Generally, though, I haven't experienced or witnessed much competition. The few instances I'm aware of are minimal and usually in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:51 PM
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I don't see the problem. A friend treated another friend to a fun day. Why must this man that y'all don't know be in the friend zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:35 PM
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actual struggle I've yet to see any real struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:49 PM
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One day, I hope that the young kids here will learn that red pill teachings are just myths sold by old creepy men who have nothing to show except old stories of hookups. Such a shame to see such young people giving up because they don't have the same success as some man with a podcast. Kids today, man. They really create their own struggles by letting stats and memes dictate their lives instead of actually living their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:28 PM
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It's Mediocre Monday. Perfect day to watch hoa hoa hoa hoa movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:24 PM
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Men are very attractive. I love men. I'm just not attracted to every single male who comes across my line of vision. It seems weird to expect that someone is going to be attracted to everyone. Men aren't even attracted to everyone. Men like to think they are attracted to everyone but they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:22 PM
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Probably because the reply didn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:27 PM
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Don't be a perfectionist date. Nor someone who see everybody's flaws first and deems them very lucky that you are willing to date or settle for them. But stick to your dealbreakers and only ever date someone that you are sexually attracted to & who shares some of your ambitions. Good luck!" Where does this above comment say this? going after someone you exclusively have a sexual attraction towards (and not anything else), The comment above literally didn't say anything about only sexual attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:10 PM
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"Nice guys" aren't nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:59 PM
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Once again y'all are confusing things. Creepy guys are ones who say inappropriate sexualized comments. Creepy guys are the ones who don't respect no and keep pushing. Creepy guys have a creepy look in their eyes. Socially awkward or shy guys aren't always creepy. Generally, a shy guy or socially awkward guy is cute and worth pursuing. A creepy guy is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:57 PM
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If you want to let one person keep you from having a relationship, do it. Seems to silly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:37 AM
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Nobody is attacking standards. People are calling out hypocrisy or insecurities or unnecessary insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:33 AM
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Like I said, I'm not hearing that from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:32 AM
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I've dated a quite a few 5'5 men. Good luck! Don't let height keep you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:28 AM
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describes most women Weird. That's not been my experience as I talk and socialize with women. Seems what's fucking sad is comments insulting women you're not interested in to the world wide web. With the hopes that it's going to reach those women you hate so much, and they are going to be devastated that someone online and who they've never met isn't interested. The pretending to have moral high ground is revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:53 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:10 AM
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So share your standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:09 PM
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You're the one who thinks there's a difference. Are you unable to share what that difference is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:01 PM
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Sure... 5'11, bearded, balding, athletic but not ripped, who is kind, cooks, fold laundry, gives great foot rubs, and has his own hobbies, interests, friends so he's not dependent on me to complete his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:50 PM
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Lol. You're the one who declared it was different? Alone is alone is alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:47 PM
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How are they different?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:05 PM
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I'm saying the stats are wrong because people lie, and the sample size is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:38 PM
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You seem to be confusing sex worker women with non sex worker women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:53 PM
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No idea. Avg is very broad and will differ depending on location, socioeconomic, college or not college, etc. What's average for your BYU students in Utah is different than your ASU students in Arizona and is different than 20 years, not in college. Seems silly to boil it down to "average" so someone can feel better with their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:44 PM
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So caring for children and a household is LAZY? I'm gonna assume people who think this still live at home and have zero experience maintaining a household.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:30 PM
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Lack of accountability is really outstanding. Men can't do anything wrong, the women made the angry and hateful. It's a sick cycle: Man starts getting dating experience -> Constantly gets played following terrible advice from growing up -> Grows pessimistic and loses trust for most women -> Treats them accordingly moving forward -> Women complain the dating pool is sullied with men who don't want to take them seriously -> Women too grow jaded and treat optimistic/good men wrong -> Cycle continue…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:29 PM
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That's cool. Not sure why I should care. approximately 1 in 3 men aged 18 to 24 years reported no sexual activity in the past year So that means women are dating 2 out of 3. Because the third is chronically online and never socializes offline. That lonely 1 in 3, is creating their own obstacles. The other 2 men are out and about socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:13 PM
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Long-winded responses read like someone is trying to convince themselves that it's not insecurities. It's funny to me how folks think that they are better, "we don't want someone like you." So why do you talk about us all the fucking time? Writing entire essays about us? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:07 PM
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I don't know if I believe that. People lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:03 PM
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I have no idea what you're trying to communicate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:23 AM
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The second one has millions of dollars in inheritance, the other doesn't. It's not a coincidence. Dude..... one INHERENTED MONEY. Shoddy conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:41 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:35 AM
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I will admit that dating has changed in the last 20 years. The internet has connected more people on the fringes of things. Which great, I'm all for representation. But... instead of it being a place of comfort and encouragement. It becomes a competition of who has it worse, or why life is so bad, and not bothering to try, or just very childlike behaviors pouting and breaking toys. It becomes these giant rage pits that suck the life force out. It's fascinating from some perspectives. Terrifying …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:11 AM
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Wild to see the stars of Halloween Town getting married some 25 years later. Be still my millennial heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:27 PM
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That and the promiscuous ones don't choose them either. They assume that they'll be able to have sex with a promiscuous woman because she's "easy". But being "easy" doesn't mean you're still not picky or choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:24 PM
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423
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:44 PM
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Brads are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:46 PM
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Chad, Chad, Chad, Tyler, Chad, Chad, Mike, Chad, Chad, Todd, Chad, Chad, Tony, Chad, Chad Chad, Jason, Michael, Freddie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:03 PM
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I stopped counting after high school. Nobody has cared since. So, I tend to assume those who care the most are still in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:17 PM
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For example a 20 year old woman with 10+ sexual partners is pretty wild How so? In my mind, that's 4ish years of being sexually active. And at that ages, more likely to be lied to by 3 or more of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:15 PM
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The best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:52 PM
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Y'all are gullible af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:51 PM
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Neat. Bots be botting. Algorithms be rhythming. I really don't understand the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:57 PM
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Lots of people date to get married. So yes....it is relevant to people who are "just dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:21 PM
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I'm shocked that y'all are shocked at thus information. We've been saying in this sub that rejection has a lot of factors at play. It's not just about looks. But some of y'all don't want to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:45 PM
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Same here. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:44 PM
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They're here! 👻 Maybe this time, I'll find out the so-called consequences for having sex. In the meantime, I'll keep getting plowed by my Chad boyfriend. 💦🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:37 PM
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Or is it that there are some single people just not willing to hear advice that requires them to take self accountability? Married people don't give bad advice. They give advice from a married perspective. If you don't want a relationship of course you're not going to like their advice. If you want advice on how to have sex with as many women as possible.... well, that's gross, but there's concasts (podcasts by con artists) who have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:25 PM
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80% . 90% if this sub is a representation of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:26 AM
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It's Friday night and this slut is gonna get fucked!!! 😝🤤💦 So excited for some sexy sex sex sex. All that promiscuity is paying off. 🍆🌽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:59 PM
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Cold approaches are creepy. "I just wanted to tell you that you're cute and beautiful." Unsure of what he might do, I thanked him. Before I could turn around again, he asked, "I was wondering if you would go out with me sometime?" Doing this is fucking creepy when someone is just standing randomly outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:23 PM
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I love how women are like, "taller than me", "healthy", "can financially support themselves"..... And some men are like, "oh ya, well, I want a cartoon character so there! I'll just stay single." Like a cartoon is far more delusional than someone being employed and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:20 PM
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Yes. And women they aren't attracted to or even like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:17 PM
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Nope. Not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:22 PM
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I don't get "super chill vibes" from a coffee. I get low effort vibes because they are trying to be cheap because quantity over quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:45 PM
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Nope. I don't do those either. Not on first dates at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:08 PM
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What are water dates? I prefer activity dates or non chain restaurant dates. I'm not 22 and broke, so a coffee date doesn't work for me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:08 PM
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Coffee dates are trash. I refused coffee dates when I was actively dating. Idk if it's disrespectful exactly. But it definitely isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:57 PM
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I see poor people all the time. I don't think +100k in this sub (or other subs) are men struggling to enter relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:05 AM
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I hope one day that people will learn to not take the internet so seriously. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:47 AM
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Sure, I care about discussing dating and gender dynamics. I don't see many men struggling to enter relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:44 AM
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I honestly don't care about men's success in dating. It's not a concern or anything I really give any thoughts to. Do you think they’re going to tell exactly how to find emerald? We tell y'all all the time but you don't want to hear it. Y'all will insist you know how to mine the emerald. But you're never even in the right spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:05 AM
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surely male feminists that try to gaslight you in to being a whore, and having sex with them. Wait, what? Since i am a Man, and i trust my own eyes, i know what kinda game those „male friends“ are playing What game is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:58 PM
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There is not a single heterosexual male on the planet that wouldnt fuck his 8/10 Friend if the Opportunity arrises. I personally know of <10. So.... It's okay if you can't do it. But not every man thinks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:52 PM
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Ooh goodie a Tiktok. That link isn't work for me. Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:41 PM
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So what is high about women's standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:39 PM
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Lmao. What? Provided for how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:38 PM
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I'm going to start my Tinder convos with "show me how big your bed frame is daddy" Please do!!! 🛌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:37 PM
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That's super cool for you. Neato.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:37 PM
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I'm still trying to understand what is so high about women's standards in dating. Is being employed, having a bed frame, and having friends that big of an ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:17 PM
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Nah, it's a swamp with no drinkable water. You don't need to drink Dasani, but your "struggle" isn't a struggle. Sure it is. It's a struggle if the store doesn't have what I need or want. Why would I settled with mediocre water that I don't even like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:24 PM
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I'm glad marriage rates are falling worldwide. My comment specifically refers to the topics in the sub about all the men screeching they don't want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:20 PM
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Lol. It's in my first comment. I already answered it. Seems like some people failed to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:18 PM
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Even just looking around for examples of the common topics here makes me feel like I've lost my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:18 PM
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ex that I used to cheat on occasionally Ick. No women have made any strong attempts at getting to know me or reconnect with me since then. Therefore, I have no idea where I stand. Although I'd prefer not to act on it, my ego would like to know if women are interested in me or not Why get married or be in a relationship if you're looking to others to feel attractive? Do other married men suffer from this problem? Maybe the shoddy, icky, cheating ones who end up divorced in <10 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:14 PM
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Like I've said three times.....NO. Seems like a pretty simple yes no question No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:11 PM
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It comes off unhinged and made up in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:01 PM
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That hasn't been the case for me. But my circles range from 20 years younger than me to 30 years older than me. People my age are a mix of married, single, divorced, widowed, unmarried, but in relationships, separated, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:01 PM
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who've been around the block. What an odd saying. We're all pretty tame, dating or married high school/ college partners, only been with 1-2 people. Sounds boring. Not tame. Just boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:50 PM
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Yes exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:49 PM
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Asking about men who say shit like "slutty women". Which again, I'm not gonna respect that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:49 PM
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For men not wanting to get married, I certainly get a lot of wedding invites. Already preparing for the onslaught of holiday Engagements too. I'm constantly looking offline for the discussions I had here. I seem to never be able to replicate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:39 PM
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Oh I was asking from your life......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:37 PM
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Yes. Cold approaches are annoying and can be dangerous. A cold approach in a parking garage is sketch. A cold approach in Walmart isn't sketch but is very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:14 PM
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Well, you're the one who included examples of clothing and socializing as a hoe phase.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:13 PM
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How is that a slut phase? What the actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:12 PM
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Can you share an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
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Women who never intend to marry are permanent hoes. Lmao. What the actual fuck? Y'all are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
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So a hoe phase isn't limited to just sex. It's also clothing and socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:07 PM
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Lol. This is the best answer so far. Everyone else is using their very specific definitions that don't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 PM
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I've never heard that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 PM
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What about sexual exploration in a relationship? Is that a slut phase too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:04 PM
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Women. Decision fatigue, threats of violence, lonely and angry men who blame women, cold approaches, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:03 PM
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I don't think I've seen any encouraging of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:57 PM
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How do you mean? I still don't understand "slut phase".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:57 PM
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Huh. I'm guessing you've witnessed women in your life doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:56 PM
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His comment was full of insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:56 PM
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Very specific definition. I wonder how many real-life people actually fit that definition. I can't say I've ever seen that, and I've had sex with a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:55 PM
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a chick starts actively sleeping around As opposed to passively sleeping around? purposeful departure from their normal behavior and is temporary... Meaning Normal behavior is passively sleeping around? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:49 PM
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But I thought men didn't want to get married anymore? And what about women who don't want to marry? Are they always in a hoe phase despite being in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:47 PM
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No. Because I don't respect someone who insults someone else simply because they do life differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:42 PM
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What the heck is a "hoe phase"? Seems like some men here have a really interesting definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:41 PM
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That's not what asexual means......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:17 AM
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she’s a perfect metaphor for your modern woman who after being part of a harem rotation for 10 years wants to settle down and find a nice guy and start a family or something. Lol what? How is a porn star a metaphor for men lying to multiple women to have sex? What’s incredible is the outpouring of support and “you go girl” type shit she’s receiving. Why shouldn't she receive support?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:08 AM
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Idk what you're trying to refer to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:57 AM
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Nope. Not new. I'm always questioning, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:39 PM
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What the heck is a "looks threshold"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:13 PM
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Seems like the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:03 PM
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Because I like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:49 PM
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There's been plenty of people I wanted to be liked by who didn't like me. Still didn't make me not likable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:36 PM
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then you aren’t likeable to every person you interact with. No shit. That would be exhausting to be likeable to every person you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:24 PM
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they want to enjoy, love, like, and admire you Sure and they can and be apart of my life. Or they can't or won't or don't and aren't a part of my life. If you’re okay with that, rock on loving yourself alone. But others like human interaction. Don't need to be alone. It's just not dependent on other opinions. why do you guys reject being likable to someone you like? Isn’t that just called a mutual bond??? I'm not rejecting being likeable to someone I like. I'm rejecting that someone else needs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:15 PM
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they can’t deny my experience either. They will certainly try their damnest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:05 PM
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Lol. Okay, pal. That wasn't the only thing you said, hence why I asked to clarify. Keep the silly insults coming. Might get blackout on my bingo card.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:25 PM
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Well, that's not what you said the first time.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 PM
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Go BINGO on my PPD insult card. First of the day. The insults are so predictable and always so wrong. Makes it hilarious. Always something about weight, something about education, something about age, etc, so damn predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:20 PM
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You added grad school..... Insults aren't your strong suit, I see. In my 30s, look finally after many fails, you got something right. What am I bitter about? That some guy I'm not interested in is married? So bitter. The bitterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:17 PM
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So your perspective is that successful dating is never struggling to find partners before 23....and getting married? Glad that definition of "successful dating" works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:11 PM
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How do you define "successful dating"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:00 PM
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Huh....if it was a bloody butch apron, I'd just wear that. No zombie makeup is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:50 PM
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Have you worked with any research in your entire life? Have you? What are your credentials? I can't imagine missing the point this much. This is kind of hilarious. I know the feeling. 🙄 It's always fun to see the experts that pop up in this sub. It's also adorable to read your condescension as if you're actually making any points. Precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:50 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:42 PM
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Ignorance to what exactly? Peer reviewed research? Who is obese? Who didn't graduate high school? Why do you try and insult someone because they disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:42 PM
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I don't need data to call some research methodology shoddy. It's called peer reviews. To say that we have zero choices will laugh you out of the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:35 PM
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We aren't consciously choosing our spouses Yes, we absolutely are. vast majority of factors that go into physical attraction and love are subconscious. No. We then derive narratives based on our biology. Lol. What? We see this all the time with things like the Halo Effect and other research topics in love and attraction Shoddy research methodology prevails logical and critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:29 PM
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No, it's not..... I'm physically attracted to Sophia Bush, I'm not romantically in love with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:19 PM
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People who have never had sex and are obsessed with it talk about choosing spouses based on physical attractiveness. People who are looking for real, adult, and mature relationships are choosing their spouses on a multitude of things, including both attractiveness and love and values and lifestyle and partner expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:16 PM
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Defensive? I'm not even offended by the comments here. I do find it silly that some men seem to think they know everything about promiscuous women. Especially literal teenagers and virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:12 PM
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Found an old work costume to wear to a Halloween party. Gonna add some makeup and call myself a zombie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:06 PM
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Meh. I don't really care if someone things I'm enjoyable, lovable, likeable, attractive, admirable or confident. I think I'm those things and what matters is my opinion of myself. The opinions of the peanut gallery don't matter. The opinions of toxic people don't matter. The opinions of others generally don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:48 PM
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Nope. Which seems like their goal, honestly. To just keep kicking the complaining can down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:46 PM
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I'm not sure what you're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:45 PM
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think a man on the road would like her for more than just sex is crazy It's not really crazy. Plenty of men travel and are loyal, in committed relationships. Men here are obsessed with sex. I don't think it's a representative of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:44 PM
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then complaining that their “relationship” isn’t working because he “travels too much”. Also, a valid complaint. You’re just a groupie for a hot musician. Own it. Or a woman interested in a relationship with a man and conflicting responsibilities make things challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:10 PM
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Promiscuity isn't a lifestyle choice. JFC. The fuck do you think promiscuity is? I've been in long-term relationships. And then some casual sex. And then a long-term relationship. And then some casual sex. And then some celibacy. Some casual sex. Some relationships. Some celibacy. Some relationships. Some celibacy. Some casual sex. Some relationships. Y'all seem to think that promiscuity doesn't mean relationships, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:02 PM
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None of what you described sounds rational. that they don't find him as attractive as they found their ex-boyfriends Who started this bizarre rumor? It's so fucking dumb. Why would you marry someone you're not attracted to in 2023? Maybe in 1963 or even 1983, but in today's world? Most men want above all to have a good sex life and be genuinely loved and desired. So don't get married and have kids. Stay a bachelor getting laid all the time. Marriage and kids is a lot more than "good sex life". m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:55 PM
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Nope. I refuse to do it to 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:49 PM
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RP....it's more mythical than it is reality. It also keeps folks from taking accountability and instead pushing blame elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:47 PM
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Umm.... being promiscuous doesn't mean you don't have long-term relationships. Lifestyle choice? The fuck. Is sex a lifestyle choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:43 PM
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it is always women complaining about a guy who clearly has casual sex with several women but has no desire get exclusive with them. Valid compliant. Women want relationships, not casual sex or being used for their vagina. Women don't want fuckbois. They want loyal boyfriends and long-term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:41 PM
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Lol. Sure, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:13 PM
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The proof is in the daily chat.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:42 AM
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It's a con. A grift. A scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:36 AM
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The daily chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:34 AM
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No. Seems like some men are obsessed with it, not because they want a partner, but because THEY WANT TO BE tall. Napoleon vibes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:01 AM
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Where did I say that the other was bad? I said it was gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:26 AM
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Why is mattress on the floor a problem? It's gross. The fuck. Their expensive $50? So why do you shit on them instead of just accepting you value different things? Nobody should accept a mattress on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:21 AM
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What's wrong with mattress on a floor tho? It's gross and unsanitary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:19 AM
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Living in a dirty home on a mattress on the floor is bad living..... Other than that, I'm not really sure what specifically you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:19 AM
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Empathy towards what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:03 AM
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Men are bashed about not organizing their homes, simple to nonexistent decor, often pretty messy, low effort etc. Women were just bashed for wearing crocs in this sub. Women are bashed for wearing makeup in this sub. Women are bashed for wearing shorts in this sub. why men tend to become resentful is they're being forced and pressure to live their life according to someone else's values By showering and not having the mattress on the floor? I think the narrative has been pushed that women's valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:00 AM
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Idk....I think it's a question to better understand how to proceed. If there's love, there's no point in trying to salvage a relationship. If it's just raw sex, maybe there's an opportunity to salvage and reconfigure. Maybe not. Would depend on the raw sex circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:12 PM
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What society hates boys and men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:32 PM
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Don't get upset when you get rejected or told to fuck off by cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:50 PM
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What facts? These are just insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:45 PM
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Yes, aging gives you perspective, allowing for more maturity. Being a parent doesn't necessarily mean maturity. Just means parenthood. Many parents are immature af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:50 PM
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Beautiful example of unhinged comments towards women who have sex. Well done!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:35 PM
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Great day! Still no consequences for having sex. Idk. A few months ago, in an exclusive relationship. I don't really remember or keep a tally. Y'all seem to think that promiscuous women don't date or have long-term relationships or exclusive relationships. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:21 PM
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Men do not have access to quick "become more attractive" hacks women usually have. Men can't wear shorts? Men can wear makeup. Men need months/years of work for some dubious improvements on attractiveness, things like gym, having funds to throw around, build a reputation, etc Not really. A shower, a clean white t shirt, some clean jeans, smelling nice, a smile, and ability to engage in conversation. I can't think anything men can possibly do to bump their attractiveness in an emergency. A shower…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:22 PM
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What male advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:06 PM
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Nope. Self-improvement should be a lifelong journey. It's not something to hyper focus on for a decade to then hit on women 10+ years younger than you. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:57 PM
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Idk what a 4/10 dude even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:54 PM
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You are better off studying, grinding out and gym maxxing to become a HVM by you late 20s or 30s This is what I was referring to as being fucking pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:54 PM
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Lmao. Y'all make up the strangest scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:35 PM
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Yes, I've vaguely used "maxing" because it's a dumb word prompting dumb concepts. learn to talk to women while gaining muscles and better looks. Barf. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:34 PM
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Absolutely but spending your 20s doing it without socializing so your 30s will be a success is a NET NEGATIVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:32 PM
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Lmao. I'm not making fun of self-improvement. I am laughing at being a recluse for your 20s to focus on self improvements like y'all will be Oliver Queen at 30s and suddenly the oceans are going to part and you'll be drowning in pussy. That's dumb and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:31 PM
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Improving yourself physically, mentally, and finacially and just trying to be the best version of yourself is funny Doing it for an entire decade for the goal to be better in your 30s is DUMB AS FUCK. You sound like the pathetic one Lmao..cute try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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Lol. So the options are either 1 be a bum or 2 neglect socializing for a decade so you can gain muscle? LAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:22 PM
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Whatever it is is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:45 PM
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she wants a year off And then he'll be the SAHD. So it seems like him being a SAHD is still the plan. Not sure how he's a chode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:44 PM
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I eat out with vegetarians all the time. I've never had to adapt to the other person's needs. Weird, isn't it? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:43 PM
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Most the RP advice is so fucking pathetic. I'd laugh my ass off at some guy who spent his 20s doing nothing but maxxing this that or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:32 PM
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One of the most common redpill beliefs is to "ignore women for all your 20s, work on yourself, make money, grind, and once you hit your 30s, you'll have a bunch of hot 20 year olds lining up to date you" This is one of the dumbest concepts. 🙄 Anyone who follows this is going to find themselves angry and alone in their 30s. but it's the exception, not the rule Agreed. It's absolutely not common. And if she found out you were a hermit at her age, she'd probably laugh and walk away. How are you gon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:24 PM
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Lol. The lock and key analogy makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:48 AM
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Simplest explanation is that you are willing to lie or say anything to “win” here There's nothing to win. Lol. For not liking promiscuous women, this sub sure does talk about them a lot. Wow, you must have a cool life knowing all these rad super sluts Yes, I do have a pretty charmed life. I'm very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:21 PM
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Idk how someone can be avoided based on your description.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:20 PM
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Friend zone doesn't exist. They create it for themselves after being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:18 PM
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Nope. Kindness is a great turn-on for most modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:05 PM
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The promiscuous women I know aren't easy. And they are all in relationships. found a low value man I thought that 6 ft, 6 figures, etc was considered a "high value" man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:04 PM
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Why are they all in relationships or married?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:01 PM
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Why though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:00 PM
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Occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:00 PM
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I don't know any woman who is repulsed by kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:45 PM
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Because relationships aren't built on the exact same experiences. Seems weird not to date someone because they have different experiences than you. Eta - also don't get into relationships with people who don't have similar values. That's what dating is for, to determine if there's potential for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:30 PM
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I can think of multiple. I don't think I've ever done 50/50 in romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:12 PM
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Definitely, leave relationships. But maybe don't get into relationships with people you would leave because they had a life before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:57 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:56 PM
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Sure but I was asking why men think it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:56 PM
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If I feel insecure about my partners past or something I shouldn't be judged for leaving her. Ya I'm definitely going to judge someone who does this. to care about understanding where our insecurities and fear come from Ooh this I definitely care about. Always curious about someone traumas. Ultimately why can't people have some empathy? I have lots of empathy. I don't usually share it in debate subs, though. I haven't really seen the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:51 PM
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Yup, I enjoy having discussions on the internet. I don't think the men here represent most men. And yes, most men here seem to very irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:49 PM
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Who determines who is average or above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:47 PM
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There's always that troupe in movies/shows where men will just hit on every single woman until one says yes. Women are far more selective. Which some men complain about it because they don't understand being selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:45 PM
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Idk it's all nonsense. So I was just curious why some men here think that women should find most men attractive or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:40 PM
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I don't think it's weird that women find most men unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:39 PM
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They wouldn't be promiscuous if men avoided them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:34 PM
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Lol. Sure. I'm just dying for attention from musty college kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:33 PM
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What's the fraction y'all shout about? 70/30?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:32 PM
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What that fraction that y'all shout all the time? 70/30?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:32 PM
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What does that mean? The league y'all think these women are in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:29 PM
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I was inspired by a comment I just saw in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:28 PM
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I see it every day. Complaints about women not paying attention to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:27 PM
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Every comment that complains that women aren't attracted to every male or see men as invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:25 PM
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Ah, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:17 PM
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Not every day. But as often as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:14 PM
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Why do men here want women to find every single male desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:13 PM
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Just hang out and vibe, laugh, talk, share experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:12 PM
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He didn't get me anywhere. Not here nor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:10 PM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:37 PM
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Oh I know many successful "alpha" guys who are working class. So I was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:13 PM
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Yup. Still, it doesn't mean I'll agree with you or others. Or that what you think I should be introspective of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:10 PM
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Idk who or what you're talking about. I have no idea what an "elite man" is anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:57 PM
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Depends on the context. Eh, the women I know who hate men don't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:21 PM
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Depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:10 PM
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Your 20 to 40 something juggling a family, finances, work, and everything Those are the folks I see volunteering the most at festivals, arts and cultural events, conferences, board service, etc. Volunteering is very broad, and there's lots of various opportunities. Especially if you're in or near larger cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:04 PM
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Dont project your defective self on all women just because you were a trashy ass fatherless 304 who gave head since middle school and you were too damn retarded to realize dudes being horny for you didnt mean you were highly valued but instead you were an easy lay. Loads of women already knew better than that since 12 withouth having to be the football club's cum dumpster. Idk why these kinds of comments are necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:55 PM
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This is probably another big reason why men avoid them. I've only seen this online. Never in real life. Not a single "promiscuous" woman is avoided by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:54 PM
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Not a damn thing. I'm mostly just laugh at the college kids screeching about going 50/50, and how they won't get married, and all the ways they hate women but yet still try and have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:44 PM
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Like I said, it sounds like a bond to keep tabs on someone's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:42 PM
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Yup. Happy indeed. There was plenty of heartbreak, rejection, and loneliness. But I wouldn't change any of it. Depends on the relationship. Some of them I admire. Generally, I prefer my life. It's pretty fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:39 PM
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described my now-fiancé as “cute in the way a puppy is cute. I wouldn’t fuck a puppy” Lol. Yes, exactly. We all say, "oh he's cute" in like a polite way but not in a we're attracted to them way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:35 PM
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Haven't felt the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:34 PM
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Are you talking about my current relationship? Yes, a rekindled relationship aiming long term. And as I also said, I've had that in the past well. The goal is simple and achieved a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:16 AM
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As I just said, I've realized my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:08 AM
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Rarely, if ever. I don't think it's ever happened. And they've never been attracted to my guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:55 AM
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I'm not sure I understand your question. Is there another one you're trying to ask or lead me to? Have I put effort into my romantic relationships? Yes. Have I had happy, pleasure filled, adventurous long-term relationships? Yes. Am I currently in a happy, pleasure filled, adventurous relationship? Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:30 AM
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Lol. Sure. Eta - seems like your definition of bond is marriage. Which is a bit odd. But you do you. She seems to have made an impact on you to remember and keep tabs on her relationships. Impressive. Maybe she does bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:51 AM
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You cannot have two cultures coexisting. Yes, you can. but idea you have hoe phase young and marry when older The idea that you date and experience different people and get married when you're married. No "hoe phase" required. Romantic courtship culture is not romance but idea that how phase isn't needed for romance and romance happens when we are young Great option for those who want to marry young. What about those who don't want to marry young? are different mating strategies That coexist and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:26 AM
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So...do you expect women to go up to strangers and say, "Hey, that dress looks ugly on you?" I mean the probability is low if they don't have a single different opinion on anything. I thought we were talking about compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:19 AM
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Strange assumptions to make because someone didn't bond with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:07 AM
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Who is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:06 AM
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Yup, seems like both can exist. Hook up culture can still have romance and sex. sex is intrinsically romantic. Meh. Idk if sex is always romantic. Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:06 AM
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Yes and no. My assumption is that this is what girls go for on Tinder during their slutty phase (if they have one?). Is that correct? No. If someone is looking for a slutty hookup they aren't gonna to care about their job or apartment. They just want a safe and satisfying hookup. You can have that unemployed on a mattress on the floor. Lots of women between 18-24 are looking for relationships with men who are employed and can financially provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:03 AM
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I was in a throuple for a few years. I think one or two other threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:34 AM
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This is just genuine enjoyment of other women in the world. I can see how this is complex to understand for some people. It's zero criticism, zero debate, zero confrontation Why would we do this to strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:31 AM
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High n women can't bond. It's hard to describe They didn't bond with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:29 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:28 AM
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Happy, pleasure filled, adventurous, loving, long-term partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:27 AM
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Oh...well, most of the ones I know are married now or in long-term relationships. Cheat, learn, forgive, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:10 AM
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Astroglide. 💧
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:16 AM
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Why can't we have both? Hookup culture and courtship culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:15 AM
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And what place is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:14 AM
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I'm over 30 and have a sexual history that matches my age. AMA. I've yet to see or experience the so-called consequences. Unless you count some college kids who live at home, screeching that I'm unqualified to date them as a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:30 AM
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Delusional about her own physical attractiveness. According to what authority? Tells me about her sexual adventures (even without me asking) Can you provide an example? Actively compares me to her previous partners In what way? Goes out of her way to make men feel inadequate (not just her partner but all men), I believe this stems from just hating men How? Do you have an example? can't seem to bond Do you have an example? It's almost like they view men as inanimate statues who were born to serve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:46 PM
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What consequences? What negative outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:14 PM
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Lol. So, your assumption is that a woman couldn't possibly enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:41 PM
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these women usually make sure that ignoring it is not a possibility Do you have an example? Y'all always speak so vaguely about what exactly is so terrible. Y'all also never define "high body counts" and knowing y'all it's usually something low like 4. 🙄 So pardon me for not trusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:39 PM
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Lol. Sure, Trevor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:07 PM
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Lol. It's always 1 example. Ladies, don't waste your time with Chris, Justin, Tyler, Trevor, Ted, Ryan, and any other generic male name because I dated one once, and it was a train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:04 PM
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If multiple people have sex with one person, then there’s no connection How do you know? The men are using her like an object for their own pleasure. Is it possible that she also is using them for her own pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:03 PM
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Why is a gangbang worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:54 PM
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met god Who? Idk who you're talking about or why I'd meet them upon death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:56 PM
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not treating men fairly Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:54 PM
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Makes what worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:18 PM
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What exactly warranted this reaction? Him sitting down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:14 PM
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will lead to them idolizing pleasure above all. They already do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:11 PM
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That’s kinda boring? You’re proving my point. Yes, it's boring to only have sex to procreate. I really don’t think you’ll be happy if you spend your life trying to sleep with women. Agreed, spending your life trying to get laid is a bit dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:59 PM
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It has nothing to do with their "high value" and everything to do with the trauma of the person dating them. Y'all always ignore emotions and feelings. That shit really impacts dating choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:58 PM
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People only have sex for pleasure in this context I've only ever used sex for pleasure. What are the other reasons to have sex? To procreate? That's kinda boring. Prioritizing men sleeping around with pleasure as the main focus will not make men happy Idk guess it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:55 PM
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Honestly, it seems like some men hate promiscuous and because they've been rejected by one. They can't get her, so instead of just moving on with their life. They form unhealthy revenge fantasies about what will happen to that woman who rejected him. That she'll end up alone because she didn't give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:54 PM
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What is hedonistic about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:51 PM
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Yes, don't approach people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:15 PM
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Sex before marriage is just cheating on the spouse you have yet to marry, CMV. Hahaha. Thank you for the morning laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:12 PM
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Idk what repercussions you're referring to. I'm not sure how I got in the middle of this little conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:20 AM
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Yup. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:19 AM
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Idk..I tend to date men who don't see women are flesh suits they are entitled to use. Easy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:50 AM
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Did you think my comment to you was serious?....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:47 AM
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No, we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:07 AM
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I'd definitely immediately end things with a guy who focused to much on the past. Why not create new memories and experiences together? You want club bathroom sex? Let's go to Ibiza.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:07 AM
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Nobody says that Many comments in this topic disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:17 AM
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Yes, we can fuck a bunch of guys for fun and it has no repercussions. And yes it is weird to fuck every guy you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:05 AM
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All the comments about how "promiscuous" women don't deserve relationships or marriage or can't be great moms or wives or blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:32 PM
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Yes yes yes!! There's many attractive men out there who I won't have sex with because their personality is not my vibe. Men who are “successful” with woman don’t actually have the possibility to sleep with any woman they like, they just find those that match their personality and energy and leverage their personal charisma which some people may like other not so much This is the winning concept. Be a nice, fun person, and people will want to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:31 PM
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Seriously. I never think of that guy. Lol. Why are they thinking more about the past vs their present with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:32 PM
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Beautiful display of revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:44 PM
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It's always some obscure thing that was obscure and random even in the moment. It happened. I have a club bathroom story. But what gets ignored is that the club was closed. And we got in trouble for the inventory "overtime". Lmao. Instead of focusing on creating new memories with their hypothetical woman, they are to busy comparing her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:21 PM
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And yes, I did various sexual acts with them that I now have sworn off, What acts are you referring to here? Let’s break it down in terms how “what women say” vs “what men hear” No, I can't get behind someone adding meaning or subtext that wasn't there because they are jealous or insecure. to men, they can often hear that as another way of saying “That guy was hot enough to get sex with ease, but you are not”? That sounds like a personal problem. Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:12 PM
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Just because a woman doesn't fit your standards to be a wife Definitely. It's all the other surrounding comments that sound like some men hate women who have sex with others but not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:45 PM
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Idk. Maybe create a different system. Seems silly to build a system that depends on future human capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:32 PM
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A social circle has many smaller circles inside of it. A social circle isn't all friends. It's mutuals. It's people from work. It's people from this area of life. People from that area, etc. A social circle is easy to have with hobbies and interests outside of pursuing a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:10 PM
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Lol. What? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:06 PM
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Social events, hobbies, work, professional development, etc. Cold approaches have always been trash. There's a reason that cold calling laws exist now. That shit is annoying. How is this a question every single day? Go make friends and hang out with people offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:44 PM
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will get you a partner when a woman is 30 and ready to settle down, since u re better from a pragmatic point of view, but dont expect any passion or love from them the same way Chad got it from her when she was 20 This is such a lie that y'all should really stop internalizing and spreading. It doesn't even make sense. Love doesn't have a use limit. Love doesn't run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:03 PM
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Do you think those hoes that are now housewives are loyal to their men? Yes. How do you know they've never cheated on their partners? We talk......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:42 AM
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What "men's issues" are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:02 PM
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Emotions are how they differ. Sex with someone you love is different than sex with a causal fling or fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:58 PM
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Yes, a man who cheats, that is his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:49 PM
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JFC. 80%-90% chance it’s the woman that’ll start it. Women file paperwork. Not START divorces. Just that they file the paperwork to divorce their husband who is cheating on them. 50/50 chance of divorce Oh, please. 😩 The religious research studies aren't something I'm gonna live my life by. Good luck to you, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:41 PM
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Sounds like if women don't fit your extremely specific standards, they aren't undeserving of a relationship? Do you believe it is possible that the men dating these women are attracted to them? That they like and love these women? not somebody I’d look at and go “yes I can see why somebody would find them attractive Nobody cares what you think of their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:10 PM
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Why bro gotta do all the relationships shit and be responsible when the other mfs got to beat guts and be irresponsible Because he wants to be the boyfriend and the only one "to beat guts".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:29 PM
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marry someone with similar past Or idk maybe don't get married if you feel the need to cheat. like I said as very few men get to have the same lvl of sexual past as an avg woman.. Very few men get to have sex before marriage? Weird. Never seen this in real life before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:28 PM
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Why do I love being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:18 PM
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Those are pretty trashy people to cheat in their marriage and call it "fair". Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:16 PM
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women fk around and then marry. Yes, this makes sense. Cheating and lying during your marriage doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:02 PM
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then post marriage play around on the side.. this is what most men i know are doing at least So most men you know are cheats and liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:19 PM
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Yes, yes. Always sharing the same data that was collected with the specific goal of shaming women for having sex while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:16 PM
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It's not a standard. If it was a standard, more of us would see it in our realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:59 PM
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That's because slut and whore are common insults by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:12 PM
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Huh. That's not my experience or my fellow hoes. It's always the ones with least experience who stay with men who don't like them very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:10 PM
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I'm a "promiscuous" woman who loves being in relationships. It's weird how often y'all say we aren't great for relationships or wife material. All the hoes I know are now housewives. There is a feminist idea that men don't like "sexually free" women Nah, it's more so all the name calling and saying that women who have sex while single are somehow incapable of having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:02 PM
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figure out why she's only interested in men she can't get, and to figure out how to reverse that Idk. Some men I like like me back. Some men I like don't like me back. There is nothing to really reverse or figure out. Some people you like, some people you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:29 PM
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Yes, because women have a chance to win. So it does apply to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 PM
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you're only interested in a few guys who you have no chance of getting. You win some, you lose some.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:11 PM
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How many guys have you rejected though? Idk. I don't really keep track. Do you count the kids from high school? The random man who approached me in Walmart in 2019? The dudes I've shrugged off at the club? We are only seeing half the story What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:04 PM
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Caveat being that you can't leave them and you cannot ask for a rematch Wtf. Ew. Don't want this. Would it solve the current sexlessness epidemic? No. It would increase because people would be trapped in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:43 PM
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but usually takes some time. How much time? I am talking about slipping out. I'm not familiar. Do you have an example? if a woman has had casual sex but makes the guy she wants to date I am gonna assume she doesn't find him attractive This is such a bizarre conclusion. I've had casual sex. I've waited until exclusivity for sex. Neither impacted attracted levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:48 PM
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Those things are slipped out in conversation sometimes by the person themselves At what point during a first date are these things slipping out? What exactly is said? or the people they know Okay so gossip? finding them attractive enough immediately to be interested in them is. Right...so you can wait to have sex and be immediately interested.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:33 PM
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I'm always confused on how y'all know these things. How would Tim know what I did with Jake, Chris, Todd, Chase, and Steve? Am I only allowed to be attracted and aroused if I act on it immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:53 PM
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No self reflection whatsoever. Why do they need to self reflect? toxic dating culture. Is it toxic to not be interested in every man who shows interest in you? Is it toxic to reject people you aren't interested in? Women don’t feel threatened Umm... why should we feel threatened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:27 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:25 PM
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If I'm physically and mentally exhausted, I'm not sleeping well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:17 PM
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It's refreshing to hear someone so well versed in my lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:09 PM
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I had create a really detailed night time routine to make any changes in my sleep. Giving myself 30-90 mins before bed has really helped my sleep. This routine also includes cannabis gummies (little thc and some cbd) and melatonin gummies. This portion isn't necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:34 PM
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I actually don't have all the time in the day to hear women whine. So obviously, you don't know how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:14 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:13 PM
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Super cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:10 PM
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Yes, I know his fans are dudes.......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:10 PM
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Cringing in jealousy and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:07 PM
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Seems like some men are huge fans. Otherwise, why are they so hemotional about his engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:45 PM
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that said I don't think all the criticism has to come from jealousy What root emotion do you think it comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:44 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:43 PM
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What do you believe is the root emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 PM
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It's parasocial beef between Logan Paul fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:40 PM
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Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:39 PM
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Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:36 PM
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Idk who Logan Paul is but a handful of men are big mad and jealous he's engaged. Parasocial relationships are creating really interesting dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:33 PM
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You realize a woman can be well-liked, and not sleep with a bunch of guys right Yup. Never suggested I didn't realize that. I don't give a shit if a woman can sleep with other guys, I give a shit if she did Cool. Do you boo. but because I've been disrespected Lol. Okay. Even if I was "jealous", I'd rather get that shit tattooed on my forehead than be with a woman with a high body count. Good thing nobody is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:28 PM
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I find it challenging to hear men whine. I find it challenging to hear been use multiple hateful verbs to describe women and then say, "I'm so ronely". I find it challenging to hear men whine because they refuse to take accountability. I find it challenging to hear men say that something isn't reality because they haven't personally experienced it or they personally wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:27 PM
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Not according to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:06 PM
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Yes, sex differs in casual vs relationships. I kinda doubt someone who has lived a life of novelty and variety can truly be happy and fulfilled in a life long monogamous relationship without even flirting with someone else or regreting now having the freedom to do it again Do you boo. I'm glad I never thought this because I've had some phenomenal monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:25 PM
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Yes, it's definitely someone who is very social.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:21 PM
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Huh. My experience has been different. It's truly amazing how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:19 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:32 AM
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Not just at the 9-5 job. But work related things like conferences or other events. It's just an overall great way to meet more people. Yes, socializing. Classes, hobbies, clubs, etc. Whatever. Just go and explore and enjoy life. Join a hiking group. A jam band. A chess club.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:30 AM
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Most of the men I've dated I've met through work or social events. I don't use dating apps. I've used them once over a decade ago. They've only gotten worse. High school and college is easy because you're social and around the same people for months and years at a time. Recreate that with hobbies, socializing, travel, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:15 AM
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What a wild ride. Brother B has a bad reputation in the city by those who know where he lives, especially the closest neighbors, being considered a bum parasitic on his elderly parents, however he doesn't care about that. This is weird. Either way, the sound like the same people. Both sound like eligible bachelor's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:28 AM
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You're looking at a comparison of the 1960s and 1980s. Data from 2000s, asked with the specific intention of trying imply marriage satisfaction is tied to sexual history. statistically speaking it will probably have an affect on your marriage, should you choose to marry Cool. So says the 10+ year old data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:02 AM
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Yes, as I said in the first comment you responded to. Age and lived experiences contribute to how this conversation is had. Thank you for repeating what I said several posts ago. if I projected my personal experience on to everyone I'd also be wrong You're doing this. Right now. Suggesting that someone will have "risk" because they didn't do what you did. I don't make a habit of looking for sexual history data. It really doesn't come into my day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:38 PM
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Do you have anything that would support your claim at all or is that just how you feel? Just lived experiences. Most people I know have way more than 7 former partners. Some of the most promiscuous women I know are now moms and wives. Sources, More info First link is old data from 2000s and 2013. Second link is comparing the 60s and 80s So I'm not relying on outdated data that doesn't reflect the last 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:06 PM
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good for the white picket fence wife and kids thing, 35 is going to be a deal breaker for any guy who has options And yet.... it's not. It's weird that you think a woman isn't capable of being a mom because she's had sex. Or that a woman can't live with someone, be monogamous, have commitment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:19 PM
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This is a horrible thing to say. The ignorance is really just breathtaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:05 PM
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Does 35 seem high to you? Idk...it doesn't seem high to me. But I've also had more than 7 boyfriends/long term relationships. Age and real life perception make a huge impact in how people engage in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:44 PM
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An abortion is a consequence. Abortions aren't done joyfully. They are a very heartbreaking decision, even if you don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:43 PM
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Umm....being a parent is the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:31 PM
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The consequences of unprotected sex is a human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:27 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:51 PM
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Of course they do, that's why you vet them Right, but they lied during the vetting process. A guy who just wants to bang isn't usually going to hang around for long. Okay. Noted. I don't just start investing emotionally in a woman a week after dating her. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:19 PM
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Right, so change it. Men need to change with the times. Build friendships. Check in on each other. Encourage each other. Support each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:59 PM
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If someone is a maybe, it's not withholding sex. Ick. Do you think that some men lie during the vetting process?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:56 PM
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So don't be competitive with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:51 PM
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It's not. It's a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:42 PM
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7 dates is a lot of money and yes it can be a long time So you just want sex? Pay a professional for that. Or be up front on date 1 that you're only looking to bang and delete. Uh huh. The sexual experience came after 7 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:32 PM
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The pleasure is seeing themselves look and feel nice. It literally has nothing to do with attention. I didn't spend time getting ready this morning to be noticed on the bus. I spent time getting ready because I spend large amounts of money on quality products and textiles so that I can play dress up every damn day. Smarmy male attention is like a fruit fly pest. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:30 PM
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properly vet men whom they find very attractive How do you suggest a woman do this? some of these dudes are walking red flags Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:23 PM
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7 dates? Is a long time? Lmao. I always wonder how you'd know this graphic in-depth detail. Wasn't into you because she didn't do something you just said was disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:21 PM
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AFBB isn't real..... Who is being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:16 PM
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You get positive regard in the form of ingroup bias from this sub This sub has a very negative and horrific bias towards women. Women can have relationships or sex if they desire them. Yes, I have desired them at some point. And it's taken time and effort. That choice is opportunity that not everyone shares. What choice? The choice to have or not have sex? I made a million more choices before that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:00 PM
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It's because all their views come from social media and manosphere. So they assume the same is for women. They also fail to account for female friendships and how we talk, share, and validate experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:53 PM
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Ya, that's kinda the point. Imagine not doing something you love and making you happy because it might attract a pest. Seems like a kinda pathetic life. Pests exist unfortunately. Doesn't mean women should stop doing things they enjoy. Just means that pests shouldn't think the fruit plate is put out for their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:41 PM
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Based on this sub, there's no positive regard for women from men. Opportunities for relationships if you desire, That desire needs to be reciprocated. Lots of women desire relationships but aren't in them for a variety of reasons. opportunities for sex, almost anytime you desire. Again, a man wanting sex from me doesn't mean I want to have sex with him. None of what you described sounds like a privilege. Sounds exhausting and being desired for simply having a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:27 PM
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Weird. That a woman would spend time and money on something that brings her zero enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:24 PM
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I have no idea what this has to do with women wearing makeup and clothes for their own enjoyment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:23 PM
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Not a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:56 PM
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If a man has sex, he should be prepared to deal with the consequences of his actions. If a man has sex, he should be prepared to take accountability and responsibility for his actions. If a man can't handle the consequences and take accountability + responsibility for his actions, he shouldn't be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:55 PM
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and the bitter normies upset that their girlfriend - who made them wait 7 dates - once tried out sucking off the cute guy in the back alley behind the club and decided it wasn't for her. Wtf. Y'all really are unhinged. Shitty men are shitty on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:52 PM
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What are the horrific dating conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:50 PM
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That is privilege What exactly is the privilege here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:45 PM
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Men don't even want attention from other men. Yet somehow think a woman does everything in her life for a man's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:44 PM
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So women can't do anything for themselves without it being for attention? If women get ready and make themselves happy with their appearance, they must be doing it for male attention, right? They couldn't possibly want to dress nice, do their hair, put on makeup for their own pleasure in looking nice. Women must do all of that for some male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:42 PM
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you are insecure about n count that you resort to denying reality? Nope. Having sex hasn't stopped me from bonding in relationships. Having sex hasn't made me a cheater. But you do you. I've had no problems doing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:37 PM
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It doesn't mean they like her. No shit. We know this. Everyone knows this. You equate a high value man being desperate enough to stoop down and fuck you to you being on his level. Okay, cool. You solved dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:34 PM
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Not really. I guess it seems high if you can't imagine even meeting 35 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:32 PM
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Right, that sounds like playing a game or a sport. Not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:23 AM
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Would you feel like you defeated all the ex-wives? I didn't realize that I was competing with ex wives. They are ex wives, why am I wasting energy thinking about them? Weddings are expensive af. The avg wedding is like $30k. If he's been married that many times, I'll take the low key wedding and skip the honeymoon. You didn't have a honeymoon, but your ex-wives had trips to Dubai, Disney, Fernando de Noronha and other incredible places; That's fine. We can travel to all those places and more dur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:14 AM
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I would call that a competition. We're competing to win the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:57 PM
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Playing a card or board game or sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:57 PM
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Yup. That's my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:53 PM
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I'm not really competing for a job either. I'm interviewing the job just as much and might decide they aren't a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:35 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:32 PM
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can’t afford to be picky like that. Picky like what? Overt communication of needs, wants, and desires in the escalation stage is abnormal in western dating and will generally be interpreted as awkward, needy, and unsexy. What are you talking about? Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:30 PM
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If that’s average , why are there numerous scientific data that’s suggest the average lifetime sexual partners are between 4-8? People lie, questions are asked weird, the audience, the time the data was collected, etc. I didn't say anything about this internet personality being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:14 PM
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It's really weird to measure it by year.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:09 PM
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Okay and? Saved you both trouble. Now you can go find someone who is interested and feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:52 PM
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She's 31. Presumably, she's been having sex for at least 10 years. 35 doesn't seem high for someone who shows up as "internet personality" when I Google her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:46 PM
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Idk doesn't really feel like a competition. It's more like trying on different styles and types of jeans. Idk how I can compete with someone I don't know or don't have the same goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:43 PM
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Honestly, it seems to come down to jealousy about the woman being far more social and well liked among their peers. Someone who has had lots of opportunities for sex are people who are well liked, have active social lives, and have many examples of interacting with others. The men who seem the most upset always bring up the fact that this woman has had more human interactions than they have. And that's what makes them upset and run to made-up myths like pair bonding, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:18 PM
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If a man doesn't have his career listed, I assume he's an unemployed bum, aka a financial liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:04 PM
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So have you got any practical advice? Use your words, talk, and communicate about your needs, wants, and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:13 PM
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Nothing, what you said is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:48 PM
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I'm just going off what I observed in this sub. Most men here who struggle all have the same things in common: unrealistic expectations and unresolved traumas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:47 PM
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don't be fat Y'all think anything over 0 is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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Dating for money sounds exhausting. Y'all really hate 30-35 year olds. I can only assume that you're super young if 35 seems old and destitute to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:43 PM
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sexualized clothes. What clothes are these? Are there certain clothes that women should wear when riding the bus in the middle of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:41 PM
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Some men's unattainable, picky standards are what keeps them single. They have a list a mile long of what a woman must look like, what she can and can't do, how she must treat the man, and how frequently he must get laid. And then they wonder why they are still single or have trouble meeting women. They do it to themselves and then screech online about "women's standards." 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:03 PM
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Why do you think someone going to a club can't dress modesty or be loyal? It seems like going to a club somehow makes someone a "bad" person in the can't be loyal and can't dress modestly way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:00 PM
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They don't go to the club and assume anyone who dances on a sticky dance floor to an Usher remix is somehow a poor quality mate. And then they wonder why they are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:56 PM
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enough to screw with their ability to pair bond Made up mumbo jumbo. You should just learn to emotionally detach yourself from the relationship while you’re in it. Or don't get into a relationship if you're gonna act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:54 PM
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Finding 35 guys attractive is easy. That's not even a high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:53 PM
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Yes, agreed. They are flirting and showing off to get attention from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:51 PM
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I've met men in all the places you listed. I've dated some men I've met in those places. I've rejected most men I've met in those places. I reject most men honestly because I'm not interested in all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:49 PM
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The conclusion I come to is that far too many men aren't socializing out in the world. They are spending too much time online feeding their anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:46 PM
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I didn't realize I was competing with strangers at the gym. I'm not at the gym to socialize. I'm there to sweat and leave. Not make friends or compete with random women. Men seem to socialize at the gym. But only at the gym. I'm also confused on what men are competing for at the gym. Are people aware they are competing when they go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:44 PM
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What do women offer men, that men want, besides sex & exclusivity If a man thinks that's all a woman has to offer, he's not even approaching me for dates. This man isn't even on my radar. With that dutifulness to being a mother and partner. Again, this guy isn't even on my radar. I think men desire a woman that is happy to be with them and pleasant to be around, who enthusiastically offers intimacy and sex. Not a man I'm interested in. Good luck to this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:02 AM
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You want a man for his money. I've got my own money. I don't want a man for his money. You clearly don't have good intentions or you wouldn't have a problem being direct. Okay. I'm fine with you thinking this. Doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:33 PM
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Why would they be pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:05 PM
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Do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:04 PM
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None of your examples are women living alone. They are living with their children or roommates. young "feminists" Um....what? women weren't even allowed to have bank accounts until the '80s" No. Because it wasn't the 80s. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:36 PM
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Good thing I don't date men who view dating as "providing shit".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:50 PM
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Yes, exactly. The men I've been on dates with loved picking out a location and planning something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:40 PM
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Where did I suggest that men owe me shit? I've said that if a man is interested in dating me, he will show his actions through planning and paying for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:32 PM
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And today is completely obsolete Seems like many men haven't gotten this memo. Those are the men that I date. you believe in gender roles? No. You support traditional roles, so it makes sense Not really. I do support the courting process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:17 PM
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Agreed. Age, economics, and locations make a huge difference. In my early 20s, park hangs were cute. In my 30s, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:13 PM
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Cool. Filter me out. I'm filtering cheap dates out too. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:10 PM
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Lmao. What exactly should I be providing men? And no, I don't expect men to provide nice things for me. I do expect anyone romantically interested in me to act accordingly. As I would in return. I tend to date grown men looking for relationships. Not young boys focused solely on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:09 PM
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There is no such system. Lol. What? ,good job at practically going along with the system you hate lo I don't hate the system. infested by tradcons Lol. First time I've ever been called that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:50 PM
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Are you 50 years old? Nope. Way, way younger. We changed Not much. Hold up your end Which is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:49 PM
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Ghosting was absolutely a thing in the 70s and far easier to do. Also, women did go on 5 dates in a week in the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:48 PM
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paying a lot for a date that might not even go anywhere further is. That's cool for you. Do what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:47 PM
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Why should I spend $50 on someone I might never see again ?? Nobody is forcing you. I’ve personally never been with an escort but seems better way to spend money than on dates So do your cheap dates. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:43 PM
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got old real quick Not really. Took centuries. And we're still dealing with it in a lot areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:42 PM
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they have to want to waste it If you feel dating is a waste that's your prerogative. Men didn't set anything, you are setting and enforcing it. Ummm......you might want to review history a bit. I'd prefer system to be way different, as a man. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:40 PM
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implication being that men exist to provide for women. Up until the 1970s/1980s they did. It's a relatively new thing for women to have the ability to provide for themselves. 30 years ago, women weren't living alone like they do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:39 PM
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There doesn't need to be a reason to reject someone. women have inflated egos. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:29 PM
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Where did I said it needed to be expensive? I said it not free or cheap. There's a whole mid range section before expensive. Are you just looking for a provider? Yes, I'm only interested in men who can provide for themselves and share with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:21 PM
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At my age, I'm not into free dates or very cheap. It doesn't need to be a Michelin star restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:16 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:16 PM
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Because it doesn't happen that often. It's a risk of sex. It's a risk of any relationship, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:54 PM
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Idk who this Connor guy is.... Y'all also fail to understand that attraction isn't just looks. It's emotional, too. It's weird how men judge other men's appearances and then say they know how women feel. Dennis Rodman is in his 60s. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:49 PM
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"The average 16′, 2-person canoe can hold 940 pounds of passengers and gear at its maximum capacity." (Paddle Camp)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:07 AM
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What does "average" mean? That stats say below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:42 AM
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Yes. Average men are in situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:22 AM
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I love finger foods. Are you trying to insult finger foods?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:16 AM
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No. It's a made-up myth to help some men avoid processing their mommy issues or trauma or anger or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:00 AM
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Yes, cars are dangerous. It's why I don't drive. What is there to give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:29 AM
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women are never accountable So don't date us and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:24 AM
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Exactly the group exists to call out the men doing it. It's not a group recruiting, it's a group warning other women of fuckbois and "nice guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:43 AM
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If they're single mum, they were, by definition, interested in a below average man. Lol. Funny how women can never argue properly and always rely on shaming tactics This entire thread is shaming women with children. Shouldn't women be a bit more humble Humble about want? Not being wanted by some random on the internet? I'm a queen who doesn't need below average dudes because I'm worth it" This really bothers y'all. Is it the confidence? That y'all still aren't picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:41 AM
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Have standards that you don't want to date someone with kids. It's not standards to insult random women because they have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:47 PM
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With all these negative comments about single moms....I wonder how many single moms are actually interested in any of the men complaining? Seems like there's a lot more complaints about single moms than there are single moms interested in below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:34 PM
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I wonder how many of them have even had a single mom interested in dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:17 PM
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Yes, being single over in a terrible relationship is preferred. As should be for men. Doesn't mean that they aren't a parent and don't have some custody. 50/50, weekends, etc. Are you advocating for men to not take responsibility for their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:41 PM
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If there's a single mom, there's a single dad. Why is there never any conversations about the single day?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:34 PM
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They don't want to? Are you suggesting single fathers also abstain from dating? Why don't they prioritize their kids wellbeing over their dating life? Why aren't you telling men not to abuse children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:55 PM
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I'm not offended. I'm confused on your assumption as that's not the reality I see around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:53 PM
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Sounds like their own little fantasy. If it was a real thing we'd gossip about it over brunch or something. We'd recruit our friends into the fold. We'd brag all about it. And yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:51 PM
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So Jason Momoa had no other options? Johnny Cash had no other options? Daniel Craig had no other options? Sure, pal, men all over the world at various income levels are only building lasting relationships with women and their children because they've got no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:47 PM
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Women - What is male loneliness to you? Is it men being literally alone or it refers to something else? It just sounds like men without friends sitting in a dark room obsessing over sex. Make friends, have hobbies, do things for others and you'll feel less alone. But some men always have excuses to avoid even friendships or socializing. So then I assume they bring the loneliness on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:12 PM
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both physical and material than her So in your example, the guys can cook and clean? That's what makes them out of her league?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:02 PM
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going for a guy out of their league What makes those guys out of their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:51 AM
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your not a woman that is highly attractive to most men, you most likely wont be able to hold onto said guy So unless you're the hottest woman ever you won't be able to "hold onto" a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:13 AM
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They repeatedly date clones of the same guy, which is any attractive dude they can match with on OLD. The guy hits it, quits it, and the women are left scratching their heads - AND THEY KEEP DOING THE SAME THING What do you think they should do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:18 AM
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Parties are usually full of mutuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:33 PM
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Thats like trying to solve world hunger. All the smart scientists in the world haven't figure out how to do it. They have. Capitalism won't allow it. What can you do to solve your loneliness or sexlessness problem. Agreed. It would be nice if folks could take accountability. Instead, they just rage online and spew hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:31 PM
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Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:07 PM
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If there is sexual or romantic feelings, I'm sorry, but the friendship is over and it is not anyone's fault. That's not a friendship.....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:14 PM
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Are online dating and cold approaches the only way to get into a relationship? How do you explain this? Parties, mutuals, social events, etc. I swear some of y'all think that the only way to meet a woman is through online or a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:11 PM
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Plenty of men enjoy having female friends. being orbiters Men decide this for themselves, and it is pretty pathetic. women complaining men want sex rather than friendship with them. Yup. Because women want to be valued and viewed for more than their pussy. Curious... why do you think that men want to tear down women's friendships and relationships? So she has no comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:08 PM
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but the reason is that men need fewer friends, and they don't necessarily see all friends as valuable, but usually a loss of time. And that's why some men have such rage towards women. They are insanely jealous of our friendships. We see it in comments here all the time about how female friends hype each other up, and men just want to tear them down. women are way more likely to use State Assisted Death than men where legal, and older women are way more likely to be on antidepressant medications…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:43 PM
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I find it super valuable when someone knows what they like and don't like during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:41 PM
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That stat only means that 45% will be UNMARRIED and no kids. And 25 to 44 is a huge age range. I would expect that most 20-somethings won't have kids by 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:15 PM
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If a guy is single it’s because Of his attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:03 PM
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Yes!! Completely agree. Men and women have more opportunities to meet more people, end relationships, and find another one, again and again. Today's 35 is vastly different than the 35 year olds of the 80s or even 90s. The early 20s are a mess for everyone. This is the time to try and fail. Again and again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:45 PM
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It's not their lack of experience. It's their attitude. and I’m just gonna be stuck with garbage This attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:17 PM
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Was it ever a sex symbol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:02 PM
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Okay, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:53 PM
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a doctor isn’t the status symbol it used to be. way I hear nurses and other health care workers talk about doctors is about how attractive their career and income potential is. So, how is it not a status symbol anymore? medical field are single due to them wanting someone who makes more money than them while also being attractive. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:33 PM
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idea that women are killing it does not seem to be rooted in reality Reality meaning that in comparison to married couples, they are poorer? seems they are terrible with money. How did you get here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:27 PM
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Idk. As long as there's mutual attraction, I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:16 PM
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Seems to be working for almost 10 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:11 PM
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those who struggle finding someone due to them not being high value themselves. What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:09 PM
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Why do you think this happens? Wage gap, pink tax, etc. more poor than married women with children. Hmm.... maybe because TWO incomes can save a lot more than 1 income. What point are you trying to make with this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:08 PM
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the highest standard individuals all cave in eventually to lower their standards forcing them to settle with someone close enough to meet routinely Huh..I've yet to witness this phenomenon. Seems like everyone I know with standards find someone who meets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:50 PM
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None of that is gatekeeping or gaslighting. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:47 PM
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In the current system, men are still expected to approach women to initiate a relationship. Yes, because women couldn't open bank accounts or credit cards until the mid-70s. So... take it up with your dad and uncles and grandpa. Men started the system that some of y'all are so upset about. If women were the ones approaching men, it would even the playing field Women approaching has consistently increased over time. And continues to increase as women have more access and independence. Change take…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:46 PM
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A broken society is getting approached by 55% instead of 100%?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:23 PM
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What exactly am I gaslighting? What am I gatekeeping? Girl bosses are happy not being approached by 100% of 18-25 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:16 PM
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some women would make you think the average woman today is being harassed whenever she leaves her apartment Because 55% of men 18-25, are approaching women every time they leave the house. extent they're not even trying to "bother" women with approaches out of fear of coming off as intrusive Finally!!! Alexa play Finally by CeCe Peniston. 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:55 PM
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Hey pal, date whoever you want. Why are you so upset by the women who you claim have fallen off a cliff? Why are you screeching into the world wide web?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:43 PM
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Hey pal, date whoever you want. Why are you so upset by the women who you claim have fallen off a cliff? Why are you screeching into the world wide web?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:41 PM
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Lmao. This has got to be the dumbest thing I've seen today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:12 PM
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So why are we letting these unintelligent, undeveloped baby adults out of the house? Same reason actual babies are let out of the house. Exposure to socialize with other babies their age. There's a reason why all the toddlers play together and all the 10 year olds play together. They are at different levels of experience. This sounds like a much bigger problem than dating...these baby adults shouldn't be voting, driving, or working until they're complete adults, right? No. Again, they are learni…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:06 PM
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Yes, at 20, you don't have much intelligence. Your brain is still developing, you can't assess risk as well, etc. And you're still figuring out your agency, you've had maybe 2 years on your own. It's incredibly creepy to be 35 and interested in a 20 year old who is basically a baby adult. Ew. They aren't quite adult women yet, so I will worry about young women still figuring out life being preyed upon by a creepy 35 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:28 PM
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Scrub your past of as much evidence as possible What does this entail exactly? This works unless the guy finds out, doesn’t like it, and is mad enough to leave Ooh no. A man is mad I've had sex before. Yes, please leave if you're gonna be mad. There’s a reason this is so common Lol. It is so common? Can't say, I've ever experienced it or heard of my friends experiencing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:23 PM
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It doesn't have a limit. I don't see the value in sharing quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:16 PM
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What do job interviews have to do with me thinking I'm a 10? I'm not seeing the correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:56 AM
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Mid/low n men probably can't relate well to her or keep her excited long term Why not? Quantity of sex partners doesn't necessarily improve the quality of sex. are liable to get resentful over her having a more active sexual past than them (if they find out). Why feel resentful?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:43 AM
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50% of reddit said Lol. Oh no. 😩 deviant social circle though you might have a different experience. What makes a social circle deviant? 5'0 guy who has a girlfriend to pretend it's the norm. Is being 5'0 even the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:40 AM
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Exactly. My opinion is the only one that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:02 AM
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but you have to accept the fact that most men do, particularly the good ones That's not been my experience. So I'm not sure what there is to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:57 PM
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How so? I don't care or need for you to believe it. It doesn't change that I'm a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:45 PM
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Nah, we know we're 10s and aren't swayed by someone else's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:23 PM
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To many what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:10 PM
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they believe in their worth and in the process they say the unattractive men who want them don't have enough worth, they believe those men are not good enough for them, they won't give those guys a chance because "they believe in their worth" and "they know what they deserve". Because they aren't interested. You can be attractive, and not all women are going to be interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:58 PM
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A boyfriend is like family....especially if the relationship is headed towards marriage or they've been together for multiple years. should subsidize your living costs Where was this said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:25 PM
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Would you be willing to participate in that? If he asked. Certainly. If he just assumed, no, I can't participate in something I don't know about. would you not be willing to disclose your number of previous partners if asked Nope. At this point, I'd end the connection. If a man my age is asking that I'm gonna laugh and ask for the check and leave. There's far more valuable questions to discuss than the number of people either party has had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:58 PM
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Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:52 PM
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She should be honest to them What does that mean to you? your choices that have ruined your opportunities What opportunity? Relationships? Marriage? Are there no men who don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:52 PM
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So you think going through 485 messages is easy? Lol. And then, of the 15, how many are still attractive once you meet them and start talking? 3 and then how many are attractive, safe, and sex is accessible? Maybe 1. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:50 PM
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Why not? I can ignore but also help. Ignoring doesn't mean not helping if someone needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:10 PM
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The man obvi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:09 PM
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That sucks for them. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:57 PM
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Nope. I understood and made an observation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:57 PM
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least one person you find attractive enough to sleep with Sure, but that takes time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:56 PM
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Huh? Why are the responses always about what the dude wants or does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:48 PM
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That's cool. That doesn't mean she'll do anything with it. Hence, my point, just because men are interested, doesn't mean she'll reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:48 PM
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Why would she be the center of attention at a swinger club where there's plenty of other 200 lb people at the same club?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:42 PM
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Nothing. Lol. I just ignore men because I'm going about my day and don't need their opinions. But you speak like you're the expert on why women ignore men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:41 PM
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Really? Doubtful, at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:40 PM
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I ignore men all the time. What is there to be deeply bitter about myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:37 PM
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If women have such high standards, how is it so easy for women to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:35 PM
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Does RP have the monopoly on "move or workout"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:27 PM
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"bald heads are beautiful" campaigns Oh I'd love to see this. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:25 PM
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At what point does a relationship become a success More happy times than bad or unhappy Is a relationship still a success if it ends? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:11 PM
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When you say, “being honest doesn’t mean being graphic”, what does that mean? I'll share why relationships ended. I'll share that I've had casual sex. I'll share things I like and don't like during sex. Are you going to lie to a man who doesn’t wish to date a woman who isn’t willing to be exclusive while dating him If we both discuss and decide on exclusivity, why would I be lying? If he's thinking exclusivity and hasn't discussed it with me, how would I be lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:07 PM
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Lol. What? Not sure how that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:03 PM
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What are you even going on about? Having sex with someone requires effort for women and men. Because two people need to agree on wanting the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:36 PM
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You're perfectly capable of getting laid, you just don't wanna. Nope, that's the point. You are capable and want to, but you don't find anyone, despite interest in you, there's no interest in return. This is what y'all fail to realize. Some man being interested in having sex isn't the only part of the equation. The woman needs to be interested, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:28 PM
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slightly receptive to those messages and they could be fucking within the hour And yet, there's nothing to be even slightly receptive too. I don't know why you're talking as if getting offered sex immediately makes it somehow harder to have sex Just because it is offered doesn't mean, I want it from the person offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:12 PM
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but I could get it done in less Are you a woman? to 'almost any bar on a Saturday night' Yup, I've gone home empty-handed many times on a Saturday night. Just because men are interested in me doesn't mean I'm interested in them. I recently coached a friend who got out of a three year nothing burger situationship That's cool, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:10 PM
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I prefer the person attached to the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:04 PM
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be stuffed like a Turkey within an hour No. They'll receive tons of dick pics and graphic sex descriptions. To find an actual fuck would take a lot more than 60 mins. But don't pretend the guy who's been situationshipping you for the past 3 years is 'the one' or indicative that you have healthy boundaries/standards/self respect What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:59 PM
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Women get slut shamed because sleeping with a lot of guys is really easy since men are not nearly as picky and having a high body count suggests a lack of standards, discernment or self-control on her part What about the woman's pickyness? Why do you assume it's a lack of standards, discernment, or self-control? 10 guys could be interested in the woman, but the woman isn't interested in any of the 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:55 PM
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Oof. Just paid rent. Gonna make sure I stand in every corner today. 😒😫
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:50 PM
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Agreed. It's used to show off to other men. So they can brag about their behavior and then shame a woman for doing the same because it was "easy" for her. The concept of sex being "easy" to obtain is fucking laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:44 PM
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What? If you want exclusivity from date 1 or 2, say that. Set your expectations so the other person can either adapt to meet them or move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:41 PM
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Yes. Men pay for dates because that's how men set up the dating system. It's slowly changing as more women have more financial access. If women could have paid for first dates in 1880s than maybe we wouldn't be having this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:05 PM
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Idk. First response on Google. Bank rank or bank rates or bank report. I can't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:00 PM
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That’s the perfect method for dating people whom you do not particularly like or respect. You can like and respect multiple people at once. fuck whatever they want in a partner as long as you get whatever you want, right? Nope. That's what you're figuring out before deciding to become exclusive. It’s not as though these people are worth caring about, is it? I can care about multiple people at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:56 PM
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when it's a one way street full of men doing it. What exactly are you referring to here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:49 PM
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Idk. Unless we're exclusive, I'm going to do what I want with whoever I want, and it's none of anyone's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:16 PM
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What if they are highly paid and able to pay back their debt?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:07 PM
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saving on rent and utilities/expenses. Not necessarily. Utilities and expenses often increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:23 PM
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How much do you and your partner bring to the shared budget (in percent)? Split based on income. Something like 60 (me) 40 (him). Approximately how much time do you and your partner spend on chores and childcare? No children. Chores are based on free time. Usually someone will start something and the other will finish. Ie one will load the dishwasher and clean the kitchen, and the other will unload and clean the kitchen. Or one will start laundry, and another will fold and put away. Are you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:14 PM
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I traded time and money for a skill that gives me a higher wage. As does everyone else with a degree. You age with or without a degree, so that's a weird element to include. I'm discussing the economic aspect of the matter. Same. It is amazing how the economic aspect can shift depending on the person. Financially (net worth) at the exact same level as where I was after finishing high school That sounds like a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:52 PM
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I'd rather pay 100% on my own than split 50/50 with someone who makes SIGNIFICANTLY more. As would most women according to the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:46 PM
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Why do you think marriage for couples who were cohabiting before marriage do not last long. Non religious couples don't see a need to stay in unhappy relationships. 😒 What's the goal of this post? Are you trying to imply that couples shouldn't live together before marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:33 PM
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Okay, let's play a hypothetical scenario. Sexual past matters. What are women with sexual history supposed to do next? She's single and looking to get married. What should she do to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:29 PM
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Hypothetical: If you are both paying $1500 a month in rent before you move in together and your new place costs $2800 a month than you shuld both pay $1400. And split expenses. No. Split based on income.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:53 PM
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The comments in this thread are horrifying and exactly why women are staying single. Who wants to date a man who thinks like the provided comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:50 PM
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What? Who is saving 50% of their current expenses? Motivation to do what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:48 PM
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you're at the exact same level as you were at the start before you went to college. What? How is that possible? Have you gone to college?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:45 PM
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Why wouldn't a PhD. in dance therapy give someone a return in their investment? If they are working in the field and earning a living and have an enjoyable career, it sounds like a great return on their investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:20 PM
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Nobody is acting entitled. Many are saying to split based on income. Because you're partners. Partners help and support each other. Yes, I'd rather pay things alone than split 50/50 with someone who makes significantly more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:16 PM
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Lol. What? We can split according to income if someone makes SIGNIFICANTLY more. This is what they call showing up at the finish line The fuck are you even going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:13 PM
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Degrees that cost thousands but won't increase the amount of dollars you earn for one hour of labor, aka bad investments. Umm.....all degrees increase earning potential. What exactly are you referring to here? Feminism is about equality, right? I have no idea what you're referring to here in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:07 PM
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taking more financial burden If living together is a financial burden, we can break up. Would you date someone who earn less than or equal your current income ? Yes. As long as they can financially support themselves. Would you date someone who earn 100k while you earn 350k ? Yes and I'd expect to pay more considering I make more. 100k is still financial independence money yk. Not really. 100k doesn't go that far anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:05 PM
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For all of your money, joint accounts are still the most common among married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:03 PM
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Making SIGNIFICANTLY more and demanding 50/50 isn't a partner I want beside me through the journey of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:25 AM
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I do date. And I'm not subject to other people's opinions of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:24 AM
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Joint accounts are still very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:23 AM
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No. We split according to income. If he's not down with that, that's fine. We can break up. don't have kids so there's not that much housework, and it's split roughly 50/50 as well Two people in a home still make messes and require housework. He's frugal and doesn't want to live a lifestyle that's outside of your means. The means are different because our incomes are significantly different. would you feel that he is cheap Nope. I would feel that he's not partnership material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:22 AM
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Lol. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:15 AM
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I'm not missing, I'm disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:09 AM
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My worth isn't defined by my dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:22 AM
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outdoors work is a frequent chore Nowhere near as frequent as dishes, laundry, cooking, and grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:56 AM
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If past doesn't matter, what's stopping you from being 100% honest about your past? I am honest. Being honest doesn't mean being graphic. But not in 2023 in a world where access to private information is only hundreds of dollars away. Cool. I didn't realize background checks came with a page on sexual history. despite your faults and ignore your higher possibility of breakups in future. What faults? Higher chance of breakup because I've had sex? It's such a strange concept to me. It's not the se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:31 AM
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Um.... do you know how hospitals work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:19 AM
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Reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:19 AM
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Myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:14 AM
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Idk because my worth is defined by some dudes or do or don't want to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:10 AM
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I'll say this from personal experience. I think women overestimate what they do around the house Are you a woman who manages a household? husband does maintenance on the house, does the yardwork, takes care of the vehicles Yearly or monthly tasks aren't the same as laundry, dishes, grocery shopping, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:52 AM
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He can go find a woman who hasn't got her life together and try to fix her enough to do all his work for him. This is why they are so obsessed with 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:48 AM
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Lol. What in the made-up story?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:47 AM
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The dating market tells you what you are worth. No, it does not. If I grew up going on luxurious vacations everywhere, why would I marry someone who has never left the state? What would we have in common? Music, books, movies, values, food, all the other areas beyond travel....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:45 AM
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but it actually being someones favorite says a lot about how they think. Lmao. Always the arm chair analysts in this sub. I can't answer your question directly without insulting you, sorry. There's no need to insult someone because they enjoy different music than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:41 AM
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lets not assume nurses are constantly facing life or death situations Yes, constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:39 AM
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What do you mean? Are we all supposed to enjoy the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:25 AM
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Did you look at the chart? Overall, it's trending upwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:22 AM
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Generally speaking, women want an employed man who can contribute to the relationship. Women want a man who can pay for more than just the damn light bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:20 AM
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No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:04 AM
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Anything that I'm not interested in. I don't like dating someone with all the same hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:48 PM
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Yes. One is literally life and death. The other is not just software.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:35 PM
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Women earning more than their husband is indeed an increasing trend and not slowing down. What exactly is untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:34 PM
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a worthless degree What are those? the person who decided to make better choices What choices? If you want your partner to contribute more, you should compensate elsewhere in the household, or be intellectually honest about your lack of desire for equality Is this what you do in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:33 PM
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are you saying women have to do house chores because they earn less? Yes. His whole concept is that women earn less, have zero work stress, and thus have no reason to complain about doing all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the household labor. And she should do it all while being grateful that a man goes to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:05 PM
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Okay, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:01 PM
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She's one of my faves. And Sexxy Red.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:48 PM
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Lol. So if it's her passion, it couldn't possibly be stressful?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:46 PM
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Spending time at work in of itself doesn't do anything for the household, How do you get the money if you're not spending time at work? Make it make sense. require significant sacrifices beyond just the hours you spend on the job. Such as? Engineering majors have the highest workload of basically any college major, What the fuck is this? Software devs have to regularly learn new tech stacks on their own time just to keep up with the ever-changing industry Sounds like a consequence of a personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:46 PM
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No. Idk what you're even referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:08 PM
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You willing read my replies. That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:36 PM
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What people? Strange people on the internet can see right through my bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:14 PM
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They've always existed. Today though they are obnoxious and act like people will miss them or be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:03 PM
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Never suggested they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:08 PM
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That's your singular perspective. College was a long time ago in my eyes. I wouldn't expect to hear much about college, especially their sex life. Do you boo. Good luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:51 PM
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Ya I've got no desire to play video games that are fighting or violent. I like cute little quests and fun colors and good stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:42 PM
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What women are you talking about? They can’t do much better than bare minimum ben. I don't understand what you mean? Because someone is ugly to you, they shouldn't get the bare minimum? They should just accept a boring and unhappy relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:36 PM
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I don't hate video games. I just don't like the same video games. I don't like anime, but I do like cartoons. Expecting women to like the same exact things is weird and boring. That's what causes dead bedrooms, boring ass relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:46 PM
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You're not wrong there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:42 PM
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Idk, man, add your own answers. You're the one who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:18 PM
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I admire your dedication and persistence in repeating a lie with hopes that one day it will start sounding like a truth. Lol. makes me suspect that you know deep inside that it does matter but you want it to not matter. Lol. This is hilarious. Do you say this to the men who say it doesn't matter? Try volunteering your actual stats going forward and see for yourself if it matters or not. Okay, "I've had sex before. Is that a problem for you?" Will be my new opening line. concealing these facts is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:41 PM
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Who are these women lowering their standards for bare minimum ben? Where are these women. I'd like to speak with them. Give them some advice to break up with men they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:27 PM
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Past doesn't matter. You can't determine much from it. those people who say the past doesnt matters a 100% have loads of dirty rags they are trying to hide Nope. I've just had sex and don't see the point in discussing an intimate moment with someone to someone else. value sucking parasytes trying to convince commited people who dont separate sex from love that the past doesnt matters when they realize a life of reckless shallow encounters only attracts shallow people Seems extreme to insult peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:20 PM
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Women have game and make 6 figures. do all the heavy lifting in the courtship process…etc What heavy lifting? Y'all act like picking a location and date/time is some big fucking deal. It's not. And if it's so difficult, don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:16 PM
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Laughing in 2013 rents, groceries, and gas prices. Most families need two working adults to make ends meet in 2023. Be so fucking for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:12 PM
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Lol. Not at all. I'm not impacted by the views of internet strangers. I just find this topic hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:01 PM
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I'll respond in whatever polite manner I want. Instead of telling others how to act, you could focus on the actions you can control. You can control sending, "you free" texts..... Stop wasting your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:06 AM
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No, it means don't be boring. Yup, they exist. I'm not one of them but lots of my friends are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:58 AM
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Yes, men asking women out has been the societal expectation on both sides for centuries. At least. plan the date, You mean pick a coffee shop or restaurant? Is that really hard in 2023? pick them up for the date, Like call them a rideshare? then pay for the date Again, a social custom. And often discussed ahead of time. Plenty of women are willing to go 50/50. You can’t be boring, so keep her entertained every moment of the date This goes both ways. A woman can't just sit there and say nothing e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:32 AM
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women just show up....men do everything else Could you provide an example? “father” we HAVE to play to a ADULT WOMEN.. Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:59 AM
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To laugh at the made-up myths, the silly lore, the self-made struggles. Entertainment mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:49 AM
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Nope. I'd just not spend it with the two options provided. Luckily there's more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:47 AM
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They are neither high or superficial. Some men just don't want to do any effort and just want sex handed to them. Based on what I see here, some men don't want women, they just want sex. So they see a standard as high or superficial because they are too lazy or incapable of putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:14 AM
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there's a plethora of sexual experiences that would leave a lasting impression on these women for the rest of their lives Such as? Could you please give us an example? I think many of us are curious. Don't be fooled guys, just remember there's guys out there just as horny but better than you doing multiple rounds on your girl only to discard her for others to marry. Choice is yours. What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:11 AM
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Idk. That's for you to determine in your relationship. I don't frequent bars often, so I wouldn't necessarily even start a relationship with someone who frequents bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:51 PM
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In my 20s, it was full of many dates, many loves, and so much heartbreak. This decade was about learning and failing. My dating life was full of relationships that taught me about myself and what I desired in a partnership. I've been dumped. I've dumped. In my 30s, it is about intentionality and longevity. Finding a partner right now is about someone to make the mundane fun. Someone who makes errands a silly and fun time. Someone who can make filing taxes not seem like such a chore. A partner wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:38 PM
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It's only a thing of someone is boring and stagnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:05 PM
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It’s about overfamiliarity imo. That's not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:19 PM
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I’d say the sex is the biggest difference between a relationship you’d characterize as familial and romantic. Have you been in a romantic relationship? Sex isn't the biggest difference between family and romantic..... Less sex = less reactivity (intimacy) = Overfamiliarity. No. Having sex doesn't decrease familiarity. It’s about recognizing the presence of sex in a romantic relationship and what it tends to represent interms of how reactive we are to our partners. It's never the sex. It's always…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:55 PM
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It certainly reads as though you're blaming women for not having enough sex in marriage. It's jumping to conclusions to blame women. Seems like a man's obsession with sex is why his marriage is decaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:00 PM
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Always bringing up the lesbian divorce rate. Lol. Good for them not sticking around in unhappy relationships. More people should leave their lackluster relationships. All I saw with the quotes is more blaming of women. It seems like men take zero accountability in the problems within a marriage. I say we get rid of marriage altogether. Marriage is a choice. So don't get married. Plenty of other people still see the value in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:38 PM
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Yes, I'm absolutely devastated that strange men on the internet aren't interested in me. As for the guys who do care, their comments are quite irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:19 PM
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Have all the standards you want. My body standards aren't to adhere to some rail thin archetype created by some math dude in the 1800s. No need to insult someone because they don't adhere to your standards for their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:16 PM
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I'm trying to understand a "trad man". our traditional courting culture Who is our? I'd love to see more courting from men. How does your culture court?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:30 PM
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I've never heard of a woman losing attraction because she was the little spoon or being spoiled on her birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:24 PM
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us trad men Please describe. how we value and view sex Do trad men not participate in casual sex? protect our culture What culture? Protect from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:06 PM
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How long do I need to live and learn before I see what you're describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:02 PM
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I swear, the way that some of the male posters here describe relationships sounds really boring and loveless and uninspiring. Why be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to do nice things for you and complains that you wear shorts + tank tops in the summer? Who wants to be in a relationship with someone who never shows emotions and complains about everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:02 PM
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That hasn't been my experience as a woman. Or from what I've seen from other women in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:53 PM
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My sexual history has never prevented me from relationships, love, romance, being treated like a Queen, etc. According to the lore here, you'd think that would be impossible. Impossible things are happening every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:52 PM
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you'll get yourself a lack of ladyboners. Why would a woman be turned on that a man is crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:47 PM
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it doesn't actually reflect reality. Seems to reflect the reality of all of my relationships and those around me. repercussions of doing that What are the repercussions of being little spoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:31 PM
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I read posts like this and wonder about the relationship experiences. Because what you described sounds like a loveless and boring relationship. In romantic relationships, people tend to do nice things for each other (princess behavior, spoiling each other), pay for the other (gifts, surprises for birthdays or just because you want to do something nice), both parties are the small spoon, etc. they simply want a willing and enthusiastic partner because that's exactly what they're also bringing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:09 PM
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Are you supposed to stop wearing shorts in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:14 PM
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Lol. Okay. I'm sure those guys are so happy to hear that they don't have to do something they don't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:14 PM
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Okay, so don't get married. Nobody is forcing you to get married. Plenty of men want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:52 PM
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It is upsetting that some of yall think marriage is a reason to put up with shitty behavior and being unhappy. It's only, "your turn" if you're an asshole and she realizes she doesn't want to put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:43 PM
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Yes, it is controlling and misogynistic to expect someone to dress differently because they are in a relationship with you. This is humiliating and embarrassing for this guy his girlfriend has no respect for their relationship and acts like she is available to other guys. I'm failing to see how a tank top and shorts signals she is available?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:35 PM
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Yes, men do tend to face greater judgment because their concerns are rooted in judgment. Men detailing preferences in their partners concerning appearance, behavior, or past relationships Rooted in judgment of others for not being exactly how they want or think women should be. A man expressing his wish for his partner to prioritize their relationship or family over frequent outings with friends More judgment on the friends or what the hang out is. Often heard when a woman wants to go out once i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:06 PM
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Did you know that you don't have to get married? If you're not interested in marriage, don't get married. Marriage is a choice. Don't want to be married, don't do it. Marriage isn't a life sentence that guarantees another human being won't change or will put up with shitty treatment. Just don't get married, FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:03 PM
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Uh huh. I'm still not sure what you're actually going on about. It's weird to think that having anal sex means someone still thinks about you years or decades later. Or again, that sex with you somehow means they've never had relationships as a result. Amazing the ego here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:55 PM
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Nothing about what was laid out in the OP is normal in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:48 PM
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In retrospect I know what I've done to the women I've been with sexually in the bedroom and how they acted. Please be specific. What have you done and how did they act? I'd love an example. I feel for the poor souls who go on to fall in love with these women Why? I for one would never marry a woman who has been absolutely blasted by a guy like me. Do you think these women are still thinking about you today?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:10 AM
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People are always concerned about the mythical woman with 100+ sexual partners. Always afraid of the boogeyman. Funny enough, they'll have sex with a promiscuous woman and still look at her with disgust. It's easier to view the woman as disgusting than to view yourself as disgusting for using someone/doing something that didn't fill the emptiness inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:05 PM
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Neither. I'm not interested in sharing. And I'm not interested in a lack of ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:54 PM
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Not a damn thing. What does it indicate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:03 PM
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Okay, it's still on their Instagram....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:55 AM
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Yes, it's fine. And encouraged in my relationships. Trips with friends. Trips alone. Bon voyage!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:16 AM
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Boundaries are for how others treat you. What you're describing is controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:05 AM
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So why are you even having first dates with people who show their ass on Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:51 AM
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How do you not know what she's posting on social media or going to clubs? Like....all the examples provided in OP, you know at some point in the process from first date to committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:50 AM
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I would never marry a man whose social circle includes having strippers at a party. What in the Sam Levinson TV show? Ew. Who is having babies with men who regularly party with strippers? What freedoms are you even talking about? Partying with strippers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:09 AM
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Every single one of those is extremely controlling. You knew this behavior occurred, still pursued them, declared commitment, and now you're expecting them to dress and pose differently? That's controlling. I don't really understand getting into a relationship with someone who does things you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:56 AM
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Reality is don't date someone who posts social media content you wouldn't be comfortable with. Don't date someone who wants to spend weekends at the club. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:54 AM
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Harder things to spot than someone's Insta or going to a club..... How is this even the argument? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:53 AM
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How is hurting someone the same as posting a photo online or dancing to Usher at a club? Posting online and dancing at clubs is pretty obvious behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:25 AM
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Absolutely agree. But expecting you to suddenly change your upcoming travels or change how you dress or stop hanging out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:12 AM
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posting thirst trap pictures online, or hitting clubs scantily clad at the weekend Simple, don't date people who do this if you have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:45 AM
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Ya it is very controlling to say how someone can or can't travel, dress, who they can hang out with, what they post on social media, etc. There is nothing normal about controlling your partner's travel destinations or social media posts. It's simple. Don't date someone you feel you need to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:20 AM
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Finally admitted what? Lol. That people might want relationships? Okay, if 7 is high, and you're not interested, why do you even care what I or other women do? Why do you care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:24 PM
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The next person will think she's a stranger and the reality is she's average And I'll be there telling her to keep it moving. Tell her that she's a queen with a stunning body. Telling her that she deserves a partner who will hype her up not tear her down because he can't step up to treat her with loving queenly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:01 PM
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Yes, men proposing doesn't mean that couples aren't talking about marriage. Do you think 97% of men are just proposing without discussing marriage with their partner first? So if the avg is 7 sexual partners, why are you even bothered about the outliers? Promiscuous women want relationships. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:46 PM
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In my experience, both parties tend to decide if they want to date or get married. Seems weird to be so pressed about what 5-10% of women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:55 PM
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Yes, 1 and 1,000 is the same. It doesn't matter. Especially because 1,000 isn't even really common. I'm not even sure pornstars have that high. I don't use 1,000 because it's an unhinged and unhelpful number. You didn't break my idea. Lol. All you did was add unhinged theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:31 PM
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Lol. Okay. If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:19 PM
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Which one would you choose for sex? Whichever one I have sexual tension and chemistry with. Both are probably on the roster. Which one would you be open to a relationship with? Neither. I'm interested in just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:13 PM
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I've never had any issues with men committing to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:06 PM
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Some men have this hang-up. Never men in real life. Always men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:05 PM
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Why is it always such exaggerated scenarios? Can't we be actually realistic 😕 There's nothing indistinguishable between a woman with 5 or 25 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:57 PM
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Nah, I just laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:55 PM
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Wait, what? Not everyone wants to be in a relationship with everyone they have sex with. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:54 PM
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Random to assume that every sexual counter is a "pump and dump". They have standards way beyond their own value This seems to bother some men the most. Y'all act like the value authorities. Truth is, promiscuous women are happy in relationships every day. Seems like the men who care the most are always single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:46 PM
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Cool for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:23 AM
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Lol. How old do you think I am? I'd say that most posters here moms had multiple sex partners before they were conceived. Causal sex was a thing in the 70s, 80s, 90s, 00s, etc..... Y'all act like having sex before marriage is new. It's not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:59 AM
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Meh, I've got mommy issues, but I won't commit to anything without trying it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:13 AM
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Britney Spears or NSync haven't been forgotten..... NSync is actively teasing us right now. Most musicians I know are constantly talking about the songwriting talent of Swift.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:59 AM
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According to what men tell me here, I'm supposed to have married the first man who ever found me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:42 AM
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Yes, I tend to ignore shoddy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:34 AM
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I mean, shoddy research with a very specific outcome in mind isn't scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:30 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:25 AM
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I've had multiple long-term partners.....they all paid on the first date and we didn't wait 6 months to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:21 AM
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Nope. They get sex. Just not because they paid for a date. I expect men in their 30s to be able to pay for a first date. A dude has no bearing on my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:15 AM
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I don't get mad. I block and move on. Easy enough. There are plenty of men who pay for dates and don't demand sex immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:10 AM
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I'm not wasting 2 or 6 months on someone who can't or won't pay for a date. I'm not waiting 2 or 6 months for someone who can pay for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:07 AM
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think that kegels are women’s go to ticket for faking orgasms. I never suggested that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:01 AM
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If my boyfriend acted like he had one foot out the door, he'd swiftly be finding both feet out the door. Why bother getting into a relationship if you're gonna act this immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:57 PM
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Nothing you listed included attraction, which was my point.....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:52 PM
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Orgasm*. Attraction has nothing to do with having an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:48 PM
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To signal being finished so you can quickly get dressed and never think about the terrible sex you just had again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:19 PM
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Personality is a factor in attraction. Part of what made Ted Bundy so deadly was his appearance AND his personality. Seems like there's confusion between character and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:02 PM
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It's not hard to fake an orgasm. Far too many men are consumed with their own pleasure they don't even notice or care if their partner also has an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:47 PM
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Kegels can easily be used and still fake an orgasm. ETA - I'm gonna assume that the downvotes mean you've been fooled by a kegel squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:46 PM
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After a 7 day ban, I'm still convinced that "body count" doesn't matter and isn't a predictor of relationship success. Seems like most who are upset by a woman's promiscuity is because he's been turned down by a woman he deemed promiscuous. It seems like many think that promiscuous women don't have standards or expectations when picking who they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:33 PM
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If men can't tell an orgasm was fake, how are they able to tell if enthusiasm is fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:07 PM
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How does hobbies and socializing not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:39 PM
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Some women today don't want children. We don't give a fuck about women being confident or insecure.It doesn't affect their life in any case Multiple daily threads, every day in this sub would disagree with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:33 PM
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I'm definitely failing to see what was specific about her cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:32 PM
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It's cheating in a specific manner with a specific set of circumstances Such as? What you described was cheating. her standards changed once she realized she wanted a kid Obviously. Who wants a kid with a fuckboi? Or who wants a kid with the guy whose mattress is on the floor and never seems to have clean sheets? It's wild to act like it's some gross behavior to want a partner to have a child with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:04 PM
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I'm sure you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:36 PM
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I'm over 30. And don't find this to be an example of anything other than cheating. Why would she hold herself at 30s to the standards of her 20s? That doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:34 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:24 PM
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Uh huh. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:21 PM
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It was very mainstream. Match/Yahoo Dating/eHarmony for the 30-something. MySpace for the 18-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:57 PM
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Some women are choosing not to have children. Some men are choosing not to have children. Definitely not most. SOME are choosing, which is well within their right. .I know some losers who want to have kids but are with childrfree women because they are scared of being alone How many exactly? I want a number. Lots of women have inflated self worth based on matches on app but even a ugly women can get same number of match Ah, here it is. The real reason. Y'all are just unhappy women have confidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:28 PM
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20 years ago, that was still the case. 20 years ago was 2003. Idk why you're acting like it was 1803. They had to choose from someone near their Circle No they didn't. The internet existed in 2003. Yahoo Dating was connecting people in CA with people in CT. no falling birth rates ,rising % of childess women doesn't indicate people are having loads of babies It doesn't indicate that Tinder is the problem either. It indicates that people are actively choosing to not have children. Which isn't a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:17 PM
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The median man is having sex with random women on trains? The median man is having sex with a woman and his homeboy? Interesting.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:13 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. Tinder isn't preventing people from having babies. People are still having loads and loads of babies. Some of them with the person the met off Tinder. Y'all put way too much stock into OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:11 PM
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Yes, parasocial relationships are gonna be their next downfall. We're already seeing it with Logan Paul and all the testerical reactions to his engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:06 PM
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What kind of response would you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:05 PM
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Okey dokey artichokey. Thanks for your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:56 PM
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Sounds good, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:56 PM
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If I didn't read so many threads that started out, "Most women blah blah, I saw on Tiktok or this Reddit thread".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:47 PM
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imagine being seen as fuckmeat by the ones closest to you and in the whole of society What? So the only time you feel your voice matters is coming to a Subreddit full of loser men to gloat about how sane and happy not having to rely on a man anymore Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:47 PM
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There is nothing RP on here I've ever seen in real life. Ever. And nobody can ever provide a real-life example. So...that should tell you right there, that it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:44 PM
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What else? Unchecked anger/rage issues, mommy issues, lacking social cues, focusing on the wrong things, lack of personal accountability, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:41 PM
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I tend to make assumptions here.....such as... In my mind, when a male poster says, "most women", they are referring to 1-3 women in their family and/or a handful of Tiktoks or Reddit threads. Wildly concluding "most women". For example, the single mom thread. When a female poster says, "most men", they are referring to men they've interacted with, their friends have interacted with, their family have interacted with, etc. They are pulling from dozens upon dozens of lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:38 PM
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All of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:32 PM
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Not really. only men have to adapt to these changes . What changes? Women don't Women haven't adapted from needing men to wanting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:14 PM
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It happens. A few years go by and you'll meet someone else who made you forget all about the other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:38 PM
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No. It hasn't changed my mind. It's reinforced that some men want to be treated like royalty simply because they have a cum scooper. It's reinforced that some men are lazy and refuse to take personal accountability. It's reinforced that some men are jealous of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:37 PM
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Most of them simply stopped taking birth control or using condoms with their boyfriends. False. Grossly and icky false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 PM
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Dating hasn't really changed. Women no longer care about marriage and kids Plenty of women want marriage and kids. Plenty of women want marriage without kids. don’t need men for money or “protection” Yup, we want men. Not for the money or protection or perfect 10 face but for their companionship, kindness, loyalty, and adding fun to our life. so physical appearance matters more. No, it doesn't. We’re all trying to adapt Based on what I see in this sub, it doesn't seem like folks are trying to ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:21 PM
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That sounds like my worst nightmare. I would choose zero. I'd stay as far away as possible from them. Let them Lord of the Flies themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:18 PM
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I'm good. Thanks, though. Enjoy your scooper!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:08 PM
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Why won't you go into specifics? If it's so easy, you should be able to share the specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:56 AM
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The thread is about dating..... So, one could conclude that my comment was specifically about the "struggle of dating."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:55 AM
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Is it a problem? That's what I'm failing to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:54 AM
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I'm not a prize to be won....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:40 AM
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I'm specifically referring to the idea that I should care that some man can't get a woman to willing sit on his dick because he told her she was pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:39 AM
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I'm his first girlfriend. So....it does seem to apply. What did he win?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:37 AM
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So gossip. Rumors. Idk. Those didn't really matter after high school. Most of those rumors weren't even true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:33 AM
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Yup. I'm asking how does one win through sex? How does on win through relationships? What is my boyfriend winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:32 AM
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It's not a s.m.a.r.t goal. "I want attention from Megan from chemistry class by Christmas." Is a smart goal. "I want to wear an eye-catching outfit at Friday's party." Another smart goal. Saying shit like, "attract women", is unrealistic and setting yourself up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:32 AM
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How do you win dating, sex, or relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:25 AM
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Seems like an unrealistic goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:25 AM
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I'm sorry I'm not sorry for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 AM
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certain behavior and traits Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 AM
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If she knows your buddies, why wouldn't you know her or she know you? or people talking about it Gossip? I swear, some of the men here are bigger gossips than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 AM
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What exactly are men supposed to be winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:09 AM
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How long on avg would you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:49 AM
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Sounds like a very specific, time-consuming, long con.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:39 AM
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Why aren’t you mature at 21? Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:39 AM
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Any woman? No. Plenty of ugly women are struggling to date because they are ignored by the ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:38 AM
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I'm not fully understanding the struggle. The struggle to get a date? Using your sister example. I'm sure the sister has told her brother multiple times to change his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:18 AM
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Just pointing out that most women would find out something is wrong in dating for men if they actually cared, but they don't. I'm responding to this. Why would women care? You keep bringing women up. So I'm curious why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:01 AM
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Like I said, why should women care?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:59 AM
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It's not women's place to fix male loneliness. not even to men in their own lives, such as their brothers over 25 has have never date. Why is that his sisters problem? What do you expect the sister to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:52 AM
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Sure it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:48 AM
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How does she mention it? Over how much time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:47 AM
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Male cheating is less bad because it can have very soft and silly reasons why he has done it That's exactly why male cheating is worse. You're gonna cheat for a soft or silly reason? That's fucked up and way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:45 AM
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Cool. I've never had a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:04 AM
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only to know How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:01 AM
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I really don't care. That's why. Enjoy your cum scooping!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:53 PM
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Not an argument. A question. That you didn't answer.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:52 PM
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Lol. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:50 PM
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It doesn't make sense to call cheating a made up name because women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:50 PM
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Lol. These links aren't adding the credibility you think they are. None of these links are substantial. Good luck with your scooper!! 🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:44 PM
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What the heck is a "bad relationship"? I'm a woman who dates men and spends most of my time talking with women. Actually, laughing with women over the discussions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:05 PM
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Fatherly.com 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:04 PM
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Neat a study. None of this suggests that it is "the most supported scientific theory". Especially when "results obtained by MODIFIYING AN ARTIFICIAL PENSIS". Also, used with a fucking fleshlight. JFC. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:03 PM
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evolve penises specifically designed to scoop out other men’s cum What the actual fuck? Lmao. Who is making this shit up? Marriage was created as an alliance between FAMILIES (or countries). For political reasons. Not because a woman had sex..... No, I haven't heard of unhinged theories. invent modern paternity test This is a recent invention, like the last 34 years. What also happened during that decade? Women could leave marriages. Paternity tests are used to hold men accountable for child sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:55 PM
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, the human penis has a scoop, Tostitos chips has their new marketing campaign. 🤣🤣 A penis is curved to hit the g spot. Scoop? Lol. Like a damn ice cream parlor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:45 PM
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What emotional damage are you talking about? I've been around long enough to not see the results you're talking about. Always the empty threats towards women who have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:41 PM
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So now you're talking about sex addiction. Which is very different than having causal sex while single. take someone who doesn’t have those issues in the first place What issues? Enjoying consensual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:41 PM
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"Paternity fraud" wasn't a concern for most of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:39 PM
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That's not an accurate assessment of human history.... (Like the fact that a guy with a high body count has to be high-value and attractive in some way. Meanwhile a woman with a high body count is.. just a woman that says “yes” a lot.) Lol. What? Oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:26 PM
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Not really. Maturity happens with aging. What someone did at 21 isn't necessarily a prediction of what they'll do at 41. Especially given that brains aren't fully developed until 25ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:24 PM
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Absolutely agree. They are projecting their own insecurities and obsessions on others. It's really bizarre. They go on and on about it not being an insecurity, but all of their reasons are insecure reasons. The best part is how many of them are so upset about Logan Paul and him putting a ring on a woman who had sex before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:15 PM
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I would give zero fucks about my imaginary child's sex life. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:13 PM
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This doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:09 PM
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What the heck is a "monkey branch"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:05 PM
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Sometimes relationships end....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:47 PM
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Lol. What? There are plenty of skinny, ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:21 PM
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I've been lonely. I have not been morally corrupt. Are most men morally corrupt? Maybe that's why women are choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:17 PM
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I'm a woman. With libido. I just want my damn coffee and don't give a damn how attractive or unattractive the barista is. Most women aren't going about theirs days actively looking for the most attractive man. Men seem to go about their days actively looking for the most attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:12 PM
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Most men lack any significance to women. That's cool you go around rating people's attraction levels. Most of us women just want to get our coffee and go to school/work/get on with our day. We're not standing around rating the appearance of the dude who made our PSL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:01 PM
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There are so many experts on what women find attractive, and yet those same experts complain about women not being attracted to them. The cognitive dissonance should be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:53 PM
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False. No idea how to even pick a "top 20%" or "bottom 80%" out of a lineup. I've interacted with 6 different men today. Couldn't even tell you what 4 of them look like. 2 of them I could say have brown hair. Does that mean all 6 of those men are "bottom 80%"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:49 PM
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Lol. It literally has nothing to do with how attractive a guy is. Most people are invisible and unremarkable. How exhausting to look at every single human you see in a day to determine if they are attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:44 PM
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And we don't like/feel attraction for every single man who comes into our line of vision. Because that's fucking weird and exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:34 PM
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I already did above.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:25 PM
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Nope. Not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:18 PM
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Yikes. What a wild ass assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:56 PM
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Sex is fun. That's it. That's the reason. I don't think many turn down relationships for casual sex though. People have relationships AND casual sex. It's not one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:51 PM
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Care all you want about the people you date. Stop caring about the people who you don't date. Stop acting like every man thinks like you. Some people care, and that's all find and dandy. Some people don't care, and that's all find and dandy. What many, like myself, have an issue with is the empty threats towards women who have sex, the extreme projection that one man's thinking is the same for every man, and the overall name calling/character assassination of people who have sex. Care all you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:50 PM
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It only leads to heartbreak if one of you has intention of spending the rest of your life together. There's no heartbreak when people agree to date until the relationship runs its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:41 PM
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To therapy. To work. To socialize with his friends in person and not online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:37 PM
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Again, you're ignoring that someone with an undefined number of former sexual partners is only getting them through ONS or relationships. It's typically a combo of both. Relationships and bouts of singledom. otherwise any kind of breaking of trust would be equally bad to cheating It is. Breaking trust is the immoral thing about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:00 PM
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Twas dicktentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:56 PM
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Cope with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:40 PM
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Are you suggesting that staying at one job for a year and moving on to another one isn't holding onto a job? What exactly are you trying to say here? I don't think this analogy is working for you. Do you want to try another analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:22 PM
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there's not a single other guy on the planet that can claim he's slept with my wife Cool for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:08 PM
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Lol. I'm saying your analogy still doesn't mean that sexual history matters. Because job history isn't preventing people from getting jobs. Which is what your analogy was trying to prove.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:07 PM
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Lol. I'm saying your analogy still doesn't mean that sexual history matters. Because job history isn't preventing people from getting jobs. Which is what your analogy was trying to prove.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:06 PM
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Not really. People don't stay at jobs for 20 years as often. It's typical to see 1,2,3 year stints. As a hiring manager, I prefer someone who has hopped because they tend to bring a lot of experience and knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:59 PM
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Doesn't he fight in underwear? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:55 PM
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What does this have to do with sex? An employer is looking to see if you've done the work before. So.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:34 PM
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Some dudes here are very hemotional about some internet dude (Logan Paul) being engaged to someone who had relationships before being engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:27 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:21 PM
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It is tied with being obsessed with the sexual history of women who don't even know you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:20 PM
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They are obsessed with dicks. Their dick, Logan's dick, Will Smith's dick. Constantly thinking about dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:19 PM
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Uh huh. I'm sure he's devastated that you think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:18 PM
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Men put themselves in the friendzone. The friend zone is a man made zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:17 PM
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These men who are upset by Logan Paul's girlfriend/wife are unhinged. They are so upset about being lied to that instead of questioning things they are doubling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:51 PM
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More often than not, they are creating their own obstacles. So eyes are rolled because it's the same damn problem, and they refuse to make different choices. We're tired because the self-made obstacles are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:41 PM
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As a woman, this couldn't be further from the truth. It's two types. Ones we like and ones we don't like. It's that easy. And we don't like every single men that comes into our line of vision. Because that's fucking weird and exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:36 PM
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No. They are talking points that like cling to like their life depends on it. Spend any time offline, and you don't see those stats in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:35 PM
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You're assuming that someone with an undefined "high body count", has only had casual sex. Which is rarely the case for women. A monogamous relationship is more fulfilling than playing musical mattress with strangers Depends. Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. Just because you were in 37 micro relationships doesn't somehow make you morally superior to the adulterer. It does. Because you didn't break the trust of someone else like a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:32 PM
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In my scenario, the male wasn't inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:23 PM
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It's not a normal reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:21 PM
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During make-believe scenarios? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:16 AM
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I'd watch it like a football coach. "Do you see where you went wrong here?" "Never do that" "Ooh, that's interesting, I'd try that."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:05 AM
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Oooh... .I was expecting actual lurid details. Not just that they've had sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:59 AM
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pair-bonding Doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:58 AM
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provided with a detailed history of their partners' past sexual encounters and experiences Such as. Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:56 AM
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I know how sex works. I'm not sure what details would tell me that I don't already know. The details that they started in doggie and moved to cowgirl? Like.... that's cool. Sounds like she was satisfied, high five! Why would there be resent?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:56 AM
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You seem to be dwelling on dicks of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:51 AM
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Seems weird to dwell on how many vaginas my boyfriend has made wet or how many he's licked. What is that knowledge supposed to do? Make me feel resentful that he had sex before he knew me? Am I supposed to be disgusted that he gained experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:50 AM
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Dating isn't easy for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:16 AM
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Obsessed with the Ghost bros!! 👻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:08 AM
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Do you learn anything here? If you've learned something, tell us what you've learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:46 AM
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I understand the concept. A cal deficit isn't the smart choice for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:43 AM
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Cal deficit isn't sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:37 AM
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I think he'll prefer a sustainable approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:24 AM
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are you in an open relationship? Nope. I told a recent story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:12 AM
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I'm sorry but am I supposed to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:52 PM
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Okay, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:42 PM
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I'll let him know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:42 PM
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10 lbs in 10 weeks sounds unhealthy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:41 PM
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thermodynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:41 PM
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You have a boyfriend already again? What like it's hard? 10 lbs is easy. Don’t overeat. Stop snacking. Do HIIT. I'll let him know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:40 PM
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Alright, fitness experts! My boyfriend was just told he needs to lose 10 lbs. What should he do first? Diet? Exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:16 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:11 PM
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Yes, it's annoying. And as you get older, you'll see that all the stories are about high schoolers. Or single moms in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:10 PM
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Please define "his place"? Based on your responses, I don't think we're using it the same. I say, "his place", because that's where he resides. Not that he lives alone in this place or that he's even on the lease for "his place". For the purposes of storytelling, "his place", made sense. But I forgot that there are experts in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:05 PM
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I'm a woman. And I wasn't expecting to "sound cool". It went exactly as expected. Experts came in and told me this and that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:03 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:52 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:52 PM
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Lol. Yes, here again, the expertise. their home Nope. by yourself More nope. with no protection. More nope. Not even actual strippers do that Lol. What? You probably could use some guidance tbh... From who? You? Bwahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:50 PM
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None of this is facts. Lol. No mistakes made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:45 PM
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He's been raging about it to a mutual friend for over a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:45 PM
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Lol. Yes, because there's no truth to your comments. Just judgments and assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:36 PM
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A couple of days away from this place, I forgot how all the experts in my life are right here. It's a miracle. I'm still alive without all these experts on me and my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:34 PM
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You've got all the details on who this guy is and how I know him. You're the expert here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:33 PM
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<2 hours for a lifetime of laughter. Sold! I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:32 PM
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I know, going on a 30 min rant about tattoos is toxic and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:29 PM
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Lol. What? You sound like you make bad life choices and put yourself in situations that leave you with bad outcomes Lmao. Sure pal. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:29 PM
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What the fuck are you even talking about? Go lift or something. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:26 PM
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He's not religious. I think he just liked the word "heathen".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:22 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:19 PM
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Both. The angry text he sent was hilarious. He called me a "tattooed heathen". Which I promptly made into a coffee mug on Etsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:18 PM
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Why would you compete with them? You're only competing with yourself. Trust me, half the men approaching those women are fuckbois you don't want to waste time. Best way to get approached, by anyone, is your outfit/bag. Add stickers, pins, wear bright prints, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:12 PM
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I had a date recently who told me he doesn't like women with tattoos. He went on and on about it. Going so far as to tell me that I was his preference because I don't have any tattoos. At that point, I went out of my way to display a small wrist/arm tattoo. Using that hand to grab my drink, etc. Finally, he said, "oh you've got a tattoo. If it's just one, we won't have a problem." I laughed and said "let's get out of here." Went to his place, started to get hot and heavy. I got down to my bra/un…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:09 PM
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Not really. Your physical appearance will change between 13, 16, 19, and 22. My personality is the same today as it was at 13. I'm still the same goofball. I look very different than I did at 13 or 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:24 PM
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Very true. Looks change over time. Personality is what keeps a relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:04 PM
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E) none of the above. I'm not staying single and I'm not dating those limited options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:38 PM
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Personality matters the most. For whatever reason, men here seem to ignore that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:37 PM
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I don't think dating is hard for most people, aka average below. Dating is hard for below average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:35 PM
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Back after a ban. What did I miss? Used my time away to roast Chris Evans with my friends. Turns out, none of us even know a 26 year old. And the few <24 or younger family members we do know, are annoying 20-somethings. Wishing them the best from my side eye. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:27 PM
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They want everyone to be as unhappy and angry as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:01 PM
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You don't. Skills can be gained through clubs, volunteering, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:36 PM
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emotional maturity, competence, decisiveness, confidence You don't need a romantic relationship to gain those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:55 PM
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I'm convinced the majority of men here aren't real. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:14 PM
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