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I am interested in learning more
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 03:40 PM
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For wifey material I am sure to get a high value good looking man then yes the woman will need to have good qualities. However to get an average looking guy with a basic job she just has to exist and doesn’t even have to work. The average looking guy also wont be attractive enough for her so she will think she is settling for him and he will simp over her while the woman gets a proper man aka 6’6 chads dick. To women ugly and average looking men are: “not sexually attractive, “betabuxes, “weak, …
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 03:38 PM
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Damn getting compared to the Rodger. Blackpill is the truth its everywhere when you see it. Redpill is for good looking guys who were too soft so they changed their behaviour and attracted women who were into the redpill behaviour. Personally I can either be bluepilled or blackpilled. Redpill goes against my natural behaviour. Im either going to treat my woman like a queen or I am going to accept I am unattractive. After being naturally bluepilled for a while with no results I accepted that I am…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 11:19 PM
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I did generalise a lot there however I do think in general they have it good. Ive never experienced life as a woman just as you have never experienced life as a man. Both genders have their good parts and both have there bad parts. Men struggle to get hookups and relationships and can meet a woman who is just after his money while women can easily get hookups and relationships however they can meet a man who is just using her for her body and she could be attacked or raped. A man usually is expe…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:59 PM
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What about the blackpill?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:16 PM
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True however isn’t this forum a place to discuss any potential wrong beliefs I may have
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:16 PM
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Women text men and go on dates for validation. Some even do it for a free meal. Women are not monolith but its amazing how similar their behaviour can be just like the nice guys who pretend they dont want women for their bodies. I will take a break. Date with the blackpill knowledge out of my mind for a bit and get back to you to update on how it went. I have a date this Saturday so its the perfect time to try a more bluepilled approach.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:13 PM
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Thank you for your response. Yes most women dont have 10k followers however they can easily do it if they so desired. Dating profile with revealing images with insta linked, be on the app for like 3 months. I reckon its possible as men are so desperate. I reckon online dating is mens worse nightmare. Usually the men a woman is interested in is good looking so he has options. Women will have 100s of unattractive men chasing her online. In person it would be a lot less especially if she doesn’t go…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:10 PM
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Thank you for your comment. It sure could show itself in some form even if a man tries to hide it. Ive usually said at times to women I have interacted with that looks matter to men and that women have easier dating lives. I have also said I would treat them like a queen before which I no longer do as it sets up unrealistic expectations for me as I am not rich and want to respect myself more these days despite being unattractive physically. It is a lot easier for a woman to replace a man because…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 10:28 AM
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Yes I understand its good to have a personal connection beyond the minimum. Of course there has to be a balance between being simping over her and not caring about her. Its important to be down the middle show you care but also show you have your boundaries and say no to things at times. Personality is a lot deeper than looks or height yes. But for a relationship to happen there must be sexual attraction to each other on both sides which comes from their partners: looks, height, body, pheromones…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 10:06 AM
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Yes that definitely makes a lot of sense for an LTR point of view. For sex however its looks based. For LTRs though I am doubtful how good they are these days as women have so many options. I know I am easily replaceable as a man or could fall into the BetaBux territory. If I had millions of dollars id happily betabux and woo my woman with my kind personality and generosity even if I am a betabux dude. As I am not genetically inclined to be an alpha plus I like monogamy and have a beta personali…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/22 08:53 PM
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Connecting to her does mean a lot. However that happens after you introduce yourself and her reaction to you will be based on your looks mainly and less so how confident you show you are. It is easy to introduce yourself if you know you are good looking as you can assume the woman will have a positive response as previous experiences have told you so. But if a man keeps facing bad experiences approaching then that will lower his confidence. I dont date anymore but when I did I got matches after …
/r/ExRedPill04/02/22 08:04 PM
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While that is true outliers can happen. There is definitely a girl out there who would rate me a 9/10. It is exceptionally rare and I like the rating system as it tells you your general levels of attractiveness to women as a whole. A logical way of telling your physical attractiveness to women as a man is by: do you get messaged a lot on tinder, do women try to continue the conversation or laugh at your jokes, do you regularly get complimented on your appearance? My experience shows. When I make…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/22 07:57 PM
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Coming from a 20 year old 5’11 slightly below average looking man (not ugly but like a 4/10). I believe it is very important a man is tall and good looking to succeed in todays dating market. I dont have high standards id happily date a 2/10 woman but even they are difficult to get because theres lots of 4/10s like me who also want her. So the only way you can beat the competition and date this 2/10 is by being a 6/10 and above or being at least a 4/10 who is wealthy and has a great personality.…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/22 05:07 PM
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Theres other ways you can enjoy your life that don’t involve women. Its also good to work on yourself and your personality. But remember buddy it is a harsh world out there. The blackpill is the truth. Play your cards accordingly and keep positive despite it being true
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 11:36 AM
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What if its over for him though because the blackpill is the truth?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 11:34 AM
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If a man is poor, and/or ugly this may be his only option or MGTOW. Theres no place for ugly men these days
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:47 PM
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If she tried being sweet with me I will see right through it. I think she has a boyfriend now although this isn’t confirmed. I am not gonna message her. I feel like I would get a hostile response if I did and also its best to show her that I am mysterious and leave her guessing. If she persists to message me then I will definitely have a different mentality to before: not aggressive or too nice but fairly neutral and friendly. I will make her do all the work if she wanted to come back into my li…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/22 03:14 PM
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Congratulations on your transformation. How tall are you dude? Starting weight and weight now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:25 PM
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For me average height and average face (good eyes, bad jaw) will the bulking up work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:48 PM
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Women are a big motivator for me. I also like lifting anyway. 1 month in here. I know how much looks matter and I desperately want to improve mine. What about the incels who say gym doesn’t work because face and height matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:47 PM
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Damn that’s impressive. I am very bad with women and am very skinny. Can see my ribs, no 6 pack at all, no chest definition, thin neck. Do you think bulking up to 85kg with a reasonable body fat % would get me a lot more women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:38 PM
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Great progress man. How long did that take? Body fat %?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:04 PM
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How much did you weigh before compared to your weight now? I weigh 66kg at 5’10.5 and want to get to 85kg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:01 AM
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I wouldn’t want a woman who didn’t chose me in her 20s but chose me in her 30s when she is ready to settle down and her standards lower after riding the cock carousel for years. If she is in her 30s and has a low body count and no kids then its fine
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 12:49 PM
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I feel like people definitely are shallow. Social media has had a big impact in this too because men watch hot girls on porn while women see hot men on dating apps and tiktok. Then when the women go out into the real world they are disappointed with how ugly the average man looks when they have been on tiktok and seen the Chads on there. Yes men were shorter due to agriculture and nutritional deficiencies. But before agriculture the average man was 6’0 tall. A tall mans height is associated with…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 09:37 AM
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Sometimes the reason why an average or ugly man is with a girl is because he has money or he has good status or the girl is insecure. This doesn’t mean she is attracted to him. Its natural for women to want tall, good looking manly men as that is what used to keep the human race going 10000 years ago. 5’10 isn’t tall its average. Id say tall status is 6’2+. My body language is open, I am approachable, have a good haircut, I have been described as looking sad in the past more like a resting sad f…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 12:09 AM
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However I dont get any girls no matter how bad they look. I think girls are very happy to be with someone better looking and they believe they are good because they get 1000s of men hitting on them online. I think that girl wanted a 6’3 good looking man
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 09:18 PM
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Yes could be very true. But why did she talk to me for 40 days if she thought I was outta her league. History repeated itself for me because once again I got led on and rejected. But I am very happy I have been motivated to hit the gym and get a 6 pack and hopefully this girl will come back
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 08:51 PM
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I have considered it and it is possible however this woman had high self esteem as a plus sized woman as she has had boyfriends before and owns her size like a queen. Also obese women have tons of options nowadays due to dating apps so she probably thought average looking me was beneath her. She did mention that all 3 of her boyfriends cheated on her in the past though. However I doubt I am out of her league as I have never had a girlfriend and am average looking with an un masculine face
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 08:44 PM
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She doesn’t have a job but she gets government money every month. When we was eating there was an old man with a young woman who looked to be on a date. She pointed that out to me and said they are a sugar baby/daddy situation. Maybe she was hinting to me something. But there are millions of possible scenarios as to what happened with this woman and we will never know the answer. Maybe she really liked me but my insecurity turned her off, maybe someone better came along, maybe she never liked me…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 10:50 PM
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Hey again thank you for taking time to invest in my post it does help (and I got to help myself). Yes telling her that was the beginning of my downfall because after that she went all cold on me and was a lot different. I am not too good for her as she can replace me: a 5’10 4/10 looking virgin softie with a 6’2 robust 7/10 Chad badboy. For how I look: full head of brown hair so no balding problem however I have a small lower jaw, overbite, large nose, recessed maxilla and a very boyish look to …
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 10:40 PM
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Thank you for your well written reply it means so much and brings a lot of new knowledge to me. I hate to self pity but its true: Im the loser here. The winner is the “Chad” as he gets to have intimacy with her. The woman is also a winner as she can get intamcy with good looking men and she got attention and love from me while taking it for granted, she can now feel good about herself because she feels attractive from all the validation I gave her. I lost because I am not attractive, masculine o…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 10:25 PM
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Yes very true. Bad boys win any day. I wish I could be the nice guy as its more in my nature and I feel more fullfilled that way. However once I get the physique and the testosterone up then I’ll probably enjoy being the bad boy
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 08:14 PM
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Yes there are hundreds of possibilities. I need to clarify that I did meet this woman in person and she knew I still liked her after the date. But after the date she wasn’t interested in getting to know me and got rid of me. The connection was good on my end probably the best connection I had with a woman im interested in but on her end we will never know. I do believe my looks had a part to do with it and she always kept teasing me about how much she likes guys 6’3, 6’4
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:26 AM
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Yes I do need to take a break from the internet and work on myself. I dont mind who I catch feelings with even if it is with this chick. But now that she has let me go, I have to find new women
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:23 AM
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Ideally I need a better face which means making my maxilla bone more upwards and forwards so my mandible can follow upwards creating a better jawline and midface. I also to be 4 inches taller (6’2) that will mean I will be a very good looking man. A finishing touch would be a deeper voice as mine sounds higher pitched than the average man. For body gym will help a lot however I am limited because my shoulder bones are narrow but I am still going to see where I can get to plus I am only 20 so hav…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:17 PM
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Damn. This is totally true. It was my fault I gave her all my time every evening which showed her she had control over my life. It was my fault I simped hard and paid for her meal which put her on the pedestal. Potentially I could of dated her if I didn’t show her my insecurity and had a resistant backbone like you said
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:56 PM
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That is very true she saw I had low self esteem. However I caught feelings and did want a relationship with her. But she probably sensed I wasn’t a great fit because of low self esteem. So back to the drawing board I go. Hit the gym for 6 months and see if women find me anymore attractive physically
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:53 PM
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I feel like most women and men behave the same. There are some differences however our biology is very simple. So almost all men do want to fuck women and almost all women want to fuck only men who are tall, good looking, are dominant (only possible if the man is intimidating looking, strong and tall like how do you expect me who is 5’10, skinny and look like a 15yo boy at age 20 to be dominant), and men who have high status. I feel like this truth applies. Also online dating has been terrible f…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 06:20 PM
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Yes it is a big jump to get committed
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 03:18 PM
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Thank you for the advice and these tips are certainly something I can live by now on. Im going to rebuild and try look more attractive aswell as integrating your tips. I am definitely at a disadvantage and while I am not good looking enough to behave like a redpilled fuckboy, I am more blackpilled than anything and this experience truely showed me how much looks matter because if I was very good looking she most likely would of behaved different and not used me for attention in the first place
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 03:17 PM
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Yes that could be true. I think a lot of big girls tend to get the wrong attention and get tons of creeps and men who just want to fuck her. So when I came along wanting to be serious she may of gotten scared. Perhaps she was expecting on the date that I just wanted her for her body but when she realised I wanted her for who she is, she got scared as she didn’t want me
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 02:46 PM
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Yes that is true it’s likely she didn’t want a relationship rather than get free stuff. However my question is why didn’t she want a relationship. While I will never know the true answer as like you said its an internal thing, I believe it’s because she thought I was unattractive which proves the blackpill. It could also be in my personality as in maybe I should of simped less and been more confident. It could also be that she found a better looking man. One major mistake I did make was when I w…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 01:33 PM
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There are a lot of great points here. However, females who are overweight or ugly still get attention online. Not in person however they have tons of options too. Sure a lot of these men will be ugly or average and probably just trying to fuck however a few of these men will even be happy to be in a loving relationship with her. Meanwhile most women don’t need to lower their standards because they can choose the most attractive mate and when men lower their standards it backfires because the una…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:39 PM
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