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Fair enough, I think I see your points. Cheers
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:08 PM
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Maybe it's personal experience. Talking to girls via text used to be hard for me. Cheers for the feedback. I'd be interested to know why you think this topic isn't worth a video.
/r/seduction31/07/18 12:08 PM
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Texting is actually a great way to communicate with girls, but alot of people don't know how to do it. My advice is stop playing games and reading into how long the girl takes to reply and instead make sure your texts come from the right place(a place of fun and self amusement). You might appreciate this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jx_TQW7M2j8
/r/seduction30/07/18 11:22 PM
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I see what your saying. Self betterment is necessary for a better life, however developing your game is still a necessary skill especially in these current social media times. Ironically the journey to become a master PUA is one that you can't do without realising curtain truths (the same of which are taught in self betterment) but because you learn them through game, they are internalised more.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:47 PM
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That's pretty vague mate. I think i kinda get what your saying but being a master PUA isn't something anyone can just call themselves. I know people do give themselves that title but if we keep it real, what abilities are expected of a master in seduction?
/r/seduction20/07/18 05:10 PM
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But isn't that not really attacking the problem.. don't most people get into the community to become a PUA?
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:56 PM
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Then what is it?
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:45 PM
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Pick Up Artist.
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:00 PM
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Get your mindset right 1st. read alot of the popular articles on the girlschase websites based around mindset. here's a link. https://www.girlschase.com/pages/mindsets This is what helped me.
/r/seduction20/07/18 01:05 PM
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You have to build rapport (so that means find out who she is and what she's doing now and in life etc) then every now and again you want to break away from that "breaking rapport" by joke about what you've been talking about etc. You do this because it stops the interaction from becoming too interview mode. It comes with practice but you'll get used to it. I'm a solo london daygamer and I hope i've answered your question. I'll be making more posts on this subb forum so who knows, in future I may…
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:59 PM
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I had/have this problem too. What i've realised is that you're not escalating. Now you could just go for the kiss out of the blue and it may or may not work. Just going for the kiss will help you regardless so really you have nothing to loss. But if you want to help your chances then build the physicality in your interactions. Get the girls used to your touches before going for the kiss. Sex is the same, get them used to following your request before asking them to come home with you.
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:31 AM
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Hey man, so firstly I just want to help your mindset and tell you that all approaches are success. The fact that you talked to her and tried to make something happen is a good thing. Don't fall into the trap of "maybe I could have done more" because that's a slippery slop, you'll start seeing your previous interactions negatively. And too much negativity makes you not want to bother in the 1st place. You did your best and you're not perfect. Now to answer... To seduce, you must have their attent…
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:07 AM
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it's not your investment in her, it's her investment in you. You did good but since you asked, my advice would be to work on your small talk. That's the chance to show your personality and make her really attracted to you. If you can make her feel like you understand her unlike anyone in her life atm, then she would have made time to see you regardless of whether she was seeing someone.
/r/seduction20/07/18 10:16 AM
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Try not to have any expectations. Your priority should be to have a fun time infield on your own. A good time infield isn't dependent on whether the girls likes you or not Remember you're acting out of good intentions so be proud of that because, most people are too selfish to do what your doing.. I'm a solo London daygamer and this helps me.
/r/seduction20/07/18 10:06 AM
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When you feel a girl is taking you for granted, you're in the friendzone.
/r/seduction14/07/18 07:52 AM
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It's likely you aren't showing people your real personality. Your more on the people pleasing side than being a unique character. You don't have to be a douche. Just a real person.
/r/seduction13/07/18 10:07 AM
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Sounds like you found peace mate. Don't be afraid of the feeling going away. Now that you've felt it, you now know what to get back to should it go.
/r/seduction13/07/18 09:56 AM
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If you DON'T make a move you'll be friendzone. If you DO make a move you are likely to be rejected.. But here's the catch. It's pure upside if you make a move cos now she will respect you and know what. Given time she'll probably come round to the idea of you 2 hooking up therefore you can try again later. Just try to kiss her when you get a chance, you won't regret it.
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:06 PM
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I remind myself that girls actually want guys to stop them, it's a fantasy all girls have. I'm not disrupting their day i'm giving them the opportunity to experience that fantasy in reality.
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:57 PM
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Girls want a man with boundaries. By you chasing so hard you're clearly showing to her that you have none. Trust me, I know the feeling. But you've got to ban yourself from trying to talk to her if you ever want a shot with her again. I only escaped the friendzone because I drew myself a boundary and even when the tables turned when she was back messaging me I stayed strong until I got her full respect back. This took me 6 months, but it's the ONLY way. In future, if a girl starts taking you for…
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:32 PM
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Personalise your interactions, get to know the girl as a person whilst also putting your personality out there. Because it's new and refreshing for the both of you, you're both offering value to each other.
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:16 PM
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I'm a minority too and I had the same experiences too. Firstly you wanna learn to not let yourself feel like the victim. Nothing's impossible. So with every flake find a way to see the positives. If it's possible for someone else, then it's possible for you. You need to believe that. Secondly, try going out simple to try make girls' days. This is so underrated in game because after a while we all want results. But this is pretty much the foundation of all good game. Girls stop flaking when they …
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:06 PM
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Never make things all about the girl. you'll fuck your head up that way. Relax and have fun on your terms. Nothing's more sexier to a girl than a guy that's kool because he clearly got options. Girls only play hot and cold with guys they feel need her more than she needs them.
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:33 PM
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Respect has to be earned my friend. Your gonna have to put yourself out there in some way. The good news is that this doesn't mean selling yourself. People just need to experience you in someway. They need to know what you're about. By maintaining your boundaries and staying true to yourself, you'll get that respect you're talking about.
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:21 PM
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Remember that loads of people in your age group are in the same exact boat as you. It's not weird that you don't have a girlfriend so relax and enjoy what's left of school. The pressure you feel is self-inflicted. So until you give yourself a break and accept that you haven't got a girlfriend you're gonna keep feeling that pressure. Lastly, be positive and socialise with the guys and girls in your year group. If you haven't got long left of school then you really have nothing to lose. Girls are …
/r/seduction11/07/18 12:17 PM
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When a girl feels like you get her on a level no one else does, she'll put up with your flaws regardless of where you're at in life. If you want a girlfriend then my advice to you is to get to know your girls better and become a real person in their lives as supposed to being that guy she slept with when she was horny.
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:55 AM
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The more you approach, the better you'll get at gauging the age of girls. But there really is no harm in asking when you've spoken for a while.
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:38 AM
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Realise the person on the other end is human just like you and remember that life was good before they came into it and if things go south you'll live and learn regardless.
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:23 AM
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Good luck mate! I like your attitude.
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:09 AM
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What the lesser attractive but SUCCESSFUL guy realised early in life compared to his more physically attractive peers was that if he was to get success with women he could not be a victim about his circumstances. And so whenever he didn't get what he wanted he had to reassure himself that it was possible for him and resume the search to find a way. And what they don't tell you in school is that this is a lesson that every single person will eventually need if you want to lead a happy and fulfill…
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:03 AM
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In my experience, what you feel, she feels. So if your happy, she's more likely to adopt feeling happy too. But like you said, there's no guarantee.
/r/seduction10/07/18 08:31 AM
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People aren't robots which is why seduction is an art form. The quicker you realise that the better. Every situation is different. If you keep looking for a one size fits all method then your fucked because it doesn't exist.
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:17 AM
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Just put yourself out there regardless of the girls you are friends with or the girls you open. If a girl "rejects" a guy that's clearly a kool dude (this is rare btw), she ends up looking like the stupid one. Always have fun and please yourself not the girls. That's how you flip the script.
/r/seduction05/07/18 10:37 PM
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With that attitude mate, your fucked. just being honest. "Whether you can or can't, you're right". Everyone learns at a different rates. With seduction you gotta say positive and learn to love the game and not the results.
/r/seduction05/07/18 10:15 PM
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Be genuine, try make her laugh then and whatever happens at least you tried to do something most are to shy to try.
/r/seduction05/07/18 09:55 PM
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Sometimes you've got to be the dick to know for the next time what to do. If someone gets annoyed when you talk to their girl, that's there problem. Stay fly and let the haters hate is what I say.
/r/seduction05/07/18 09:28 PM
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Give yourself a break. It may be hard to believe but the people around you don't have their shit together like it may look like. Most people walk around angry and depressed so give yourself some credit coz at least your trying.
/r/seduction24/03/18 08:48 PM
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