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13

The comments I see here are not cheering, aside from a couple of them. The rejection of feminism by young men is the product of what surrounds them, we can awknowledge that, but I doubt anyone here is happy that often the only safe space boys have is full of bigotry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/24 06:22 PM
2

This is an experience common to many of us. My female friends say I'm likeable. Still, I am 23 and got no hope to ever be intimate with a woman.
/r/MenSupportMen07/03/23 06:15 AM
-2

Women are not a protected class.
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/23 05:17 AM
18

She seems empathetic enough, but I still don't understand why to keep using a term that your target audience doesn't like. They'll never listen to you like this.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/23 11:53 PM
9

Young boys can't in any way that makes sense be put at fault for the violence adult women suffer.
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/22 02:32 PM
11

It's still up on the Twitter profile
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 07:00 PM
8

I understood the meaning, it's unnecessarily hyperbolic. On a sidenote, most of the girls shamed on that subreddit are actually cool, in my opinion.
/r/AntiFeminists27/07/22 05:07 AM
10

It's also stupid to claim that some women deserve no rights.
/r/AntiFeminists27/07/22 04:54 AM
13

Feminism isn't about women's rights.
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 01:25 PM
2

Provide one single real example of how feminism is great for men.
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 08:36 PM
9

These ads are a waste of money. No man is going to look up EE Hope United with such a message conveyed.
/r/AntiFeminists22/07/22 04:24 AM
1

No, the women I know are mostly wary of abortion, and polls in western countries show similar rates of opinion on the topic between men and women.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/22 04:12 PM
2

If the pool of people who can get drafted doubled, half of the men that now could be drafted would not.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 03:07 PM
2

Most of us do even if in little ways. To the last two questions: both men and women, as it is in every other aspect of life.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 01:11 PM
1

Do you actually participate in politics?
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 01:10 PM
20

Oh then she probably just assumed you as entirely on her side.
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 09:06 AM
66

If your colleague did not share this merely for humour, then please be careful around her. People like this are dangerous.
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 08:10 AM
2

It's a bigoted comment by a not less bigot user, but does it deserve a site-wide ban?
/r/AntiFeminists17/06/22 10:10 AM
4

Imprisonment is the usual punishment for assault
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/22 06:12 AM
2

What do they even want?
/r/AntiFeminists08/06/22 08:22 AM
2

Mods of the most popular subs live on Reddit
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 05:06 AM
3

Abraham Lincoln was what you consider "right wing man".
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 07:00 PM
10

About the same rate of women are strictly anti-abortion as men. About the same rate of women are anti abortion after 3 months, in lack of health risks, etc. as men. To keep pretending that it's men and only men who want to restrict women is nonsense. And sorry, but "right wing men" are not assholes by default.
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:36 PM
1

Rowling hasn't been canceled from anything, just bombarded on Twitter.
/r/PussyPass01/06/22 11:43 AM
0

I think yours is the worst way to criticize this. Instead, what does mocking male tears have anything to do with "burning the Patriarchy"? There are even a couple comments from men "poor me, I cry for every liitle thing! I am one of the good ones!" and "I want to wear this among my friends to trigger them". I can't remotely understand how this is framed as feminist activism. Doesn't empower anyone whatsoever.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 08:18 AM
6

Yes, she had made up her mind before texting you, yes, she probably wasn't willing to a honest conversation. But also shame on you for publicly mocking a person who asked to hear your opinion as she doesn't understand you. This accomplishes nothing. Only by being open to explain our positions we can get more people to sympathize with us. You could at least censor the nickname.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 06:29 PM
11

It was a satirical ban.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/22 11:01 AM
8

The fact that the author sympathizes with fascism is irrelevant in the comic here shared.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/22 10:59 AM
10

Women who become famous are generally not funny. Met plenty who are, though. Don't base reality on Hollywood.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 04:45 AM
19

Why would a man even stay with a person who admittedly hates him? There are plenty of women who don't hate men nor would find this sentence a joke.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 07:38 AM
11

I think that on average men want women more than viceversa. But with bisexual people it gets interesting because they can compare how differently they feel sexual attraction for the two. Anyway I'll never forget a female heterosexual friend of mine telling me with a straight face that women are just so much more attractive than men ("objectively", she said). I was mortified.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 10:04 PM
2

Trust me on experience, you can get along well with feminists as long as you avoid mentioning anything slightly feminist-related. They are often into cool edgy stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 09:59 PM
3

To me, the concept of dating is boring. I despise being in restaurants and bar. When I hang out with a friend, we walk and walk while while we talk and talk. If then you buy something to eat/drink together, everyone pays his/her own order (one of the two can pay at the counter, then fix up what s/he owes later). I also find the idea of "who invites the other must pay" nonsense, as "the other" is complicit in the meeting, not a will-less mannequin.
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 06:09 AM
1

How deep has The Guardian fallen. And they rely mainly on subscriptions... I wish them well.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen11/05/22 02:19 PM
3

Downvote and write your dissent. And if you feel adventurous, report for not being on topic with the subreddit (although in my experience no mod will ever answer your call).
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/22 09:15 PM
9

They are full of nonsense, but you deserve to be banned. Even this post is nothing but childish, and has nothing to do with anti-feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/22 10:10 PM
21

It's literally what the picture is about.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 06:33 AM
8

Student debt is a women's issue because enrollment and graduation disparity is a men's issue.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 06:31 AM
2

Everything is misogyny.
/r/AntiFeminists04/05/22 08:39 PM
7

Dude, I'm very skinny so my testicles have plenty of space, albeit in summer I do spread a little because of sweating. But other people may have less space. Understand others' experiences.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/22 05:13 AM
1

He's telling you that FDS hasn't been banned.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 05:37 PM
3

They haven't been banned, but the post isn't wrong either because their mods willingly closed the subreddit.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 05:35 PM
8

They stated in another thread that FDS is an example of toxic masculinity. Don't value their opinion.
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 08:36 PM
2

A news source lenient Socialist/Labour...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 12:45 PM
4

Yes, it's best to post links to archive.org.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 12:44 PM
3

Fap at least 10 times a day
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 06:53 PM
11

Can you use archive.org links so that we don't generate traffic on these articles?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/04/22 05:46 AM
4

She condemned the action, not attempted to defend it. The comment you upvoted is overreacting. She did not even summon a double standard, instead she mentioned that women react badly to rejection a lot. Come on, let's not push away people who are on our side.
/r/AntiFeminists13/04/22 12:25 PM
7

Feminism is mainly based on lies, can't trust people who perpetuate them.
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/22 04:12 AM
3

See the name of the subreddit. Most people are there just to have the opportunity to lash out at people in videos. For how disgusting, that's really the morale of that place, don't let it get to you.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 04:10 PM
2

Aside from your particular situation, finding a romantic partner and be corresponded has gotten overly complex. More and more young adults will be alien to intimate relationships, going on.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 04:06 PM
3

Sales taxes on superfluous goods are essential to tax more people who can buy more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/22 05:46 PM
5

I find it cool in a person to be as easygoing as the man in that post
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 12:42 PM
8

I had a counselor confront me on every slightly critical word on feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/22 06:33 AM
7

"privilege" is written on the dictionary. I'd take that definition over the one you made up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/22 06:31 AM
5

The working class has been mostly male
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/22 06:29 AM
1

Do you walk around with blindfolds?
/r/MensRights07/04/22 05:03 PM
5

How creepy can be to stare at someone? We are close to just existing as a man being considered harassing to women
/r/MensRights07/04/22 06:16 AM
3

It's not mostly not required. You are thinking of jobs where men are not even hired, so how could they be priviledged?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:32 PM
5

makeup This is one requirement women, even autonomously, keep pushing on themselves. Unless your job relies solely on your appearance (a female exclusive type of job, too), no one will care if you don't makeup.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 06:41 AM
8

Being a leader requires that you have at least a bit of apathy, otherwise you wouldn't become a leader. Your argument implies that women in leading positions behave masculine and not feminine. When all of them behave like that, isn't what you call masculine none other than feminine too?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 06:31 AM
7

Most assent, at least.
/r/AntiFeminists02/04/22 05:08 AM
2

Writing it as one word offers yet one more surface to attack you, and disprove anything you are stating. Hence the suggestion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/22 04:35 AM
3

"trans man" is preferrable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/22 07:54 PM
1

I think it's counter-productive to our goals. This leads to the conclusion that if a shiity radfem looks beautiful, then she is faultless. Moreover, we need women on our side more than anything else, even the ones you may judge ugly.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/03/22 08:51 PM
2

I can't even watch porn myself (turns me off more than on), but I'd have no issue if my partner did. I think it's beneficial, when you can't have sex every time you want it.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/03/22 08:42 PM
8

You can avoid making petty comments about looks, although insecurity is probably why some women dislike that their partners watch porn.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/03/22 06:00 AM
7

You can forget hate when you get pleasure.
/r/PussyPass25/03/22 06:53 AM
1

Switch "boy" with "girl", and tell me if it's still a joke.
/r/PussyPass25/03/22 06:52 AM
8

Feminists argue that misandry doesn't exist.
/r/PussyPass25/03/22 06:50 AM
1

If you look at punishment rate, it's not comparable
/r/AntiFeminists23/03/22 11:35 PM
1

perhaps there isn't an epidemic of murders? Why, there is? Where?
/r/AntiFeminists21/03/22 07:16 PM
1

an epidemic of dudes who send unwarranted dick pics. How many of these dudes do you know personally? If none, then there's no "epidemic".
/r/AntiFeminists21/03/22 09:43 AM
1

It makes no sense, especially because while a business may be owned by one person, is more often than not managed by multiple people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/22 11:46 PM
6

Tsunderes I've read are made mostly lesbian, too, and their character is not even hateful in general.
/r/AntiFeminists19/03/22 06:14 PM
4

South-Korean beauty standards are on another level, though. May even be that most girls undergo cosmetic surgery.
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/22 11:56 PM
9

Ghosting is just avoiding responsibility and guilt, despite any excuse you may come up with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 09:55 PM
6

Don't mix up women who seek fame on Tiktok with the vast majority of women who do not. I'd also avoid using words like "misogynist" and "misandrist" so freely, as they imply hate. Most women, almost all of them I would argue, do not hate men. Many feel comfortable saying bad things about men though, as you point out. /u/Lanky-Net6717 summed up what I see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 09:52 PM
6

Feminists think the same as her, but are more dishonest. I don't agree with any of them: draft for all able adults, or no draft.
/r/AntiFeminists14/03/22 12:00 PM
8

The teachers that made the biggest impression on me, were male. Same for me with my philosophy teacher. Having met him out of school too, I even got to see that he treated his 4 y.o. daughter with little difference to how he treated his students.
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 02:29 PM
3

He's a tradcon, don't fall for little good.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 07:34 PM
20

Good point. Most of feminists' social media issues is men doing exactly what they themselves do.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 06:40 AM
3

I am weaker than any other man I have met. I don't panic when I am alone with another man, though.
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 11:34 PM
11

a lot of posts claiming women are fighting “equally to the men” Not only internet posts. Prominent political representatives as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/22 08:19 AM
2

Sometimes you find extreme takes like that. Just downvote and report to mods.
/r/AntiFeminists06/03/22 03:41 PM
4

It's mainly because many get what they want before even desiring it. Probably not related to biology.
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 06:45 AM
6

What porn did she watch?
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 11:03 PM
0

But they claim they are. Often the topic is about boyfriends.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/22 12:49 PM
71

They are usually victims of abuse in the relationship. To shame them like you are doing is just as shameful. And being stronger means nothing, when violence is punishable by law.
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/22 07:06 AM
1

For what reason?
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/22 05:42 AM
-3

Many of them are married or in a romance, not incel
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/22 05:36 AM
17

Feminism is a State-endorsed religion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/22 07:51 AM
1

Avoid universities, join board games groups. It's just an example, but you'll find a whole different population.
/r/AntiFeminists26/02/22 12:25 AM
2

I can't find a girl worth the effort --> hating women Sure
/r/AntiFeminists26/02/22 12:23 AM
5

It's already something that they even mentioned men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/22 06:16 PM
1

Unfortunately that kind of subreddit is shaped more by mods than by users
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/22 07:26 AM
1

Most child sexual abuses are not committed by pedophiles. Offenders target children because they are defenseless, not because they are attracted to pre-pubescent features.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/22 07:13 AM
1

You are incredulous, the fact is incredible.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/22 07:54 AM
23

Most often than not they don't devolve in circlejerking about women, but mere criticism of one or more women is considered as such.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/22 09:36 PM
2

Feminism as a doctrine against men is popular among tradcons too.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 08:06 PM
5

Men's advocacy Egalitarianism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/22 12:43 PM
3

Bi people are not exempt from cheating
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 12:29 PM
3

I've had a friend suffocate in front of me because of one little biscuit. That day he was hiding his allergy to avoid looking weak to the girl he liked. He survived, but could have died if not cared for on the spot.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 12:11 AM
17

Tradconism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/22 12:02 AM
4

Most of them are heterosexual, the subreddit is supposed to be a guide to date men.
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 06:27 AM
11

They're the readers of Washington Post, keep in mind that you can't expect much else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/22 06:33 AM
10

Even governments do an exception for anything slightly feminist, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/22 06:50 AM
2

I'll add one purely anectodal experience. I was taking part in a feminist initiative last summer; at some point it was decided to have a discussion on gender imbalance within the group, because there were too many "cis males". The idea that the majority agreed on was to set a maximum quota for cis men based on the number of everything-non-cis-men (like 3:2) The dumb part is that people advocating for this were majorly cis men, who wouldn't have been allowed to participate if this rule existed.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen09/02/22 07:10 AM
6

Perhaps it's because men who choose to pursue a career that ostracizes them are more inspired. I can't make the comparison on my experience since here in Italy female teachers till high school are way more than 75%, so I have had only two male ones from kindergarten to graduation.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 07:48 AM
6

In person, plenty. On the Internet, not at all, I admit. I usually avoid WWW's women-only spaces.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 08:16 PM
12

Never wonder for a moment that you might not understand completely male specific problems. Men and women largely share reasons for being sad, but largely don't as well. Women don't experience what men experience, and viceversa. You could at least try to understand each other, and listen without calling it a victim complex.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 07:30 AM
7

We're telling you that it is.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 05:30 AM
0

Feminism is conceptually anti-Marxist. It swaps capitalism with patriarchy, and minimizes men as the major victims of society.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 07:47 AM
5

I hate that behaviour. Recently a female friend I privately asked advice to told me "I asked my friends about it and they said..." You did what?? And in the past she told me expressly not to tell a friend of ours something she was confiding me. So this time I tried to explain why what she did is wrong since I expected secrecy, but she doesn't seem to get it.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/02/22 07:41 AM
1

What are you trying to prove?
/r/MensRights24/01/22 07:03 AM
3

I can partly agree with your second point (despite threat of violence and drugging not being the only means to coerce someone, at all), but the first is unquestionably false.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:57 AM
5

And let's be more explicit, many women do have violent rape fantasies. That doesn't mean they wish it to happen, nor that it is enjoyable at all. They are fantasies. A teenage boy can fantasize on their own older teacher, and even believe they loved it when they are coerced into sex. This still can cause trauma in a developing adult, or condition them in other future relationship where they are abused.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/22 06:40 AM
22

Thank you for this elaborate review of part of bell hooks's work. She is often presented as a feminist friendly to men, but in the texts I've read of her there's so little attempt to empathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 08:03 PM
1

I agree with you on the reasoning. Anyway, in my mind any type of sex work implies giving away your intimacy. I wouldn't desire that for myself nor for a partner of mind. But yes, if sex work is just another job that anyone should be entitled to do without say of the people around them, then those same people should be entitled to access external sexual gratification themselves as they please.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 12:16 AM
3

It's not beneficial to an argument to bring extreme cases. No one in this group of mostly men will ever even see an Oscar prize in person. It is a strictly gendered issue just because someone rich and powerful is above the rules?
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 11:53 PM
2

While your second argument stands, the first doesn't. You buy a performance from the worker, not the worker him/herself. It's comparable to buying a massage / tour guide.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 11:35 PM
2

Well said. I for one am one person who experienced gender disphoria growing up, and did not decide to be trans. I wonder what a statistics of people who feel like this would look like. Among the people I know, about half has experienced some kind of gender disphoria.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 06:46 AM
7

Feminism dictates what we treat women as entitled children incapable of behaving themselves. I wonder how that could possibly lead to men empathizing more with women.
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/22 07:07 AM
2

Women as a group are not more vulnerable than men.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 07:02 AM
1

BBC reported the same
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 07:00 AM
1

Not really. The company apologized and could change their aid policy because of this. It's just a temporary denial of pussypass.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 06:53 AM
-2

Although I am anti-feminist, this pic seems fair to me. Nice to meet you
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 05:47 AM
6

Because...?
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 09:13 PM
5

person disagrees with you "You are ignorant and I am morally superior to you" Way to go, boyy
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 12:55 PM
2

They are non-issues compared to the class struggle
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/22 11:56 PM
5

These numbers are reassuring!
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/22 07:43 AM
3

They do this when they well know they have nothing to lose. Accuse your male coworker of sexual harassment, but make sure you don't press charges, otherwise you risk to be found lying. Limit yourself to accuse him publicly and just by that he'll lose his job and will have a hard time finding a new one.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/22 12:18 PM
14

Don't worry, the rest of the world is finally following suit.
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/21 12:12 PM
5

It seemed a simple and pleasant chat to me... regardless of who's the woman or the man.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/21 08:19 PM
-38

This is not criticism of feminism, just silly and nothing else. Reported for removal.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/21 01:50 PM
12

Feminism isn't your ignorant mother who sure believes in equality. Feminism is based on lots of prominent author who had nothing better to do than state that all of their problems' are men's fault. I considered myself a feminist all through growing up, I was (and am) more easily friends with women than with men too. I stopped being a feminist when I was full with so much bigger other problems that made me fed up with constantly hating myself. In middle school I often had thoughts of cutting my p…
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/21 03:46 AM
4

She is right there, though. It's the same derailment that feminists operate to block acknowledgement of male issues
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/12/21 08:42 AM
1

The trigger warning is minuscule, it claims that no news media reports falsehoods ever (no one really believes this), addresses no actual man at all, and asks not to repost to reddit or discord (I wonder which men are supposed to read this, then). It can't but be fake, right?
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/21 10:03 PM
25

I would be more than happy to discuss men's issues What prevents her? Patriarchy, once again?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/12/21 08:50 PM
8

I would say mine was a bad reply to that post too. I knew I was to be banned. But really, this is the group who calls trash any man who doesn't express emotions, as well as any man who does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/21 07:28 PM
19

https://www.reveddit.com/v/WitchesVsPatriarchy/comments/r4lk8r/_/hmi6ldj/?ps_after=1638221699&add_user=Idesmi..c.new..t1_hmi5q4w.&#t1_hmi6ldj A recent ban of mine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/21 10:36 AM
6

I would have liked to write this under the original post but I didn't want to steal your comment.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen22/11/21 06:19 PM
4

If he had two sons, he would think the same. My parents' families were emotionally destroyed by the draft of their oldest sons. But of course he is not capable of such complex reflections.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen20/11/21 01:33 PM
4

They say their body is not inherently sexual, and if you see it that way you are at fault. As always, disregarding any male experience.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/11/21 06:55 AM
4

I think it's fun to try it with your friends, if you do not take it seriously. As a self-test. On another topic, I do agree with you that male masturbation needs to be destigmatised for everyone, not only men. We have quite deep phallophobia.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 06:51 AM
1

I understand you. I would be filled with fear that she might claim I did something to her, after that statement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/21 07:39 PM
6

The shortest argument you can make to "but men are in power!", that even in its simpleness can move something in the mind, is: "Am I?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/21 07:12 AM
12

Feminists are the ones who most downplay abuse on men nowadays (or say that it takes attention away from "the real oppressed").
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/11/21 05:28 PM
5

Clothes are misogynist!!!
/r/FeminismStopsWhen10/11/21 05:18 PM
2

soon you'll have to denote your understanding of women's issues and state that even though this issue is objectively less harmful that women's issues, it deserves a side note Read any research paper on men's issues, they are already compelled to do this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 07:38 AM
3

I agree with you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/21 11:30 AM
8

To me it seems that the problem is that feminists want to be constantly infantilised but then get mad when someone does it in a way that makes them feel less considered.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen07/11/21 07:35 AM
6

Going by the example of insurance: fair and equal access to political participation and running for political roles; not equal representation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/21 07:18 AM
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Now we should advocate for change to make it more fair. The subreddit name starts with "Left-wing".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/21 07:44 PM
0

It's more appropriate to use a non-participation link (np.reddit.com)
/r/FeminismStopsWhen03/11/21 07:24 AM
15

Be careful saying "the mods". baryon conceded nothing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/21 06:35 AM
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Me. When I landed there initially I thought I found a place interested in the hardships I and men around me go through. Many articles posted and many comments are well-thought and constructive. The main problem seems to lie with their "mission" to see everything through a feminist lens, which inevitably prevents honesty and balance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/21 06:32 AM
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I was desperate and that was the counseling service provided by the municipality for free. I really wanted to avoid weighing on my family as much as possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/21 07:49 PM
2

You should! :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/21 07:08 PM
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If you ignore the mentions of Left, God, war and governmental financial assistance, this is overall a good speech. You may not agree with much, but there's still a lot to take away.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 06:39 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/29/penelope-jackson-guilty-stabbing-husband-death [A]ddressing the court, David Jackson’s estranged daughter from a former marriage, Jane Calverley, accused Penelope Jackson of being the abuser in the relationship and suggested she had “taken advantage” of a culture that does not support male victims of domestic abuse. “My father was a proud man and this consequently cost him his life. He would not seek help from someone bullying, berating and psychol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/21 03:41 PM
4

I have to stress that I am not the one downvoting you. I am not worked up about this, trust me. I also have to admit that I didn't open the link before, I was on my phone. Sorry but I think I didn't want to concede that you may be right because it hurts to. It sucks how men are treated as expendable, and I strongly wish this wasn't the case.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 01:32 PM
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You try to police masculinity and you create a generation of frustrated boys. There are aspects that have been generally called masculine that are harmful to boys themselves too, but being a man is fundamentally good. Who tries to shame you for the way you were born is not. I have dealt in my childhood with the pressure of not being masculine enough, but the polar opposite is detrimental as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/21 01:21 PM
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I struggle to find a therapist because I'm worried any disagreement I have with feminist establishment will paint me as a "problem" client. I had a therapist like that. I would say that many of the problems I deal with come from feminism, and she would go on with talks of the patriarchy, female oppression, male priviledge, in a quite aggressive tone. I said "I have a problem", she would reply "I see, but do not forget that women have it harder". To her excuse, the place where I went was only for…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/21 07:02 AM
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In Australia (yes, the country incessantly burning every summer) firefighters are being subjected to feminist ideology, that wants to push a 50% quota of firefighters. To note is that women are not subject to the same evaluation for men, meaning that departments are being pressured to hire people who can't physically perform in the front line.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/21 07:49 PM
1

Linking an article with paywall/protected by copyright and copy-pasting its content in a comment is still infringing copyright. Have you considered it?
/r/Male_Studies30/10/21 07:07 AM
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Marxist ideology simply poorly matches with today's world in many aspects. It served its time, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 08:42 PM
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I doubt it. You are working, and for a job that pays very little. You want to avoid any possible risk to lose it. You wouldn't be up for it, even if you claim otherwise.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/21 04:07 PM
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It's also worth noting that discerning people's opinion only as "pro-life" or "pro-choice" is extremely simplistic; no one I know holds a so clear-cut stance. In my opinion, the right to abort pregnancy safely and legally should be upheld (), but still considering it a grave procedure. And this does not come from a desire to control women, or the belief that a fetus is a full child since two weeks. It is what you describe as considering abortion as birth control that makes me very sad. I can car…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/21 02:00 PM
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The argument against around abortion has little to do with the woman's body, and much to do with the potential child. Men and women are against abortions in similar numbers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/21 04:13 AM
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Consider that titles are rarely written by the article's author.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/21 05:02 PM
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In my experience I have found plenty of female leftist supporters of men's rights. They are just not loud, but I am not either. Everyone fears to be ostracized.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/21 05:34 PM
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The counseling office in my town available for free in my town is avaiable to both genders only up to 16 years old. After that age, it's only for women.
/r/MensRights22/09/21 02:07 PM
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She seems to get very irrational when it comes to gender topics. If she hates men, she hates you too. she started mocking me "Aww, does hearing those words make you sad, are you gonna cry like little baby?" and I told her that it's a really weird thing for her to say since she's said in the past that men should be more vulnerable and that vulnerable men shouldn't be infantilized All the hardcome feminists I've had the pleasure to spend time with do this. Ask you to be vulnerable, only to shame y…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 11:30 AM
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Maybe people who jumped to conclusions about your intentions saw the previous post you made on this sub.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:25 AM
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Uhm, I've recently spent time in a radical feminist setting, and actually gay men are treated as bad as heterosexual because they are cis male.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:08 AM
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As some comments on the original point out, if it had been OP discovered masturbating at work he would have been fired on the spot. He's doing wrong too by laughing it off, should have reported it.
/r/PussyPass20/09/21 06:19 AM
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Rape should also include "made to penetrate", but it is not in her statistics. The 2% of women in her numbers is penetration with an object.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/21 06:15 AM
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You won't get anywhere with this rhetoric, when "toxic femininity" is not contemplated. No one uses, and should not because it doesn't make any sense, as "toxic masculinity" doesn't as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/21 04:09 AM
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Why can't we leave this gender war aside I am all for it. Starting from excluding mentions of women in any way when talking about men's issues. But somehow I am compelled to always present also the group that already gets plenty of talk by many others, and to clearly specify who between these groups "has it worse".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/21 07:15 AM
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Would give you an award if I wasn't poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:42 AM
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It wouldn't be a big sum, anyone can afford it if it was their main goal in life. The reality is that men do not have it hard to find sex, but intimate affection. Sex is the most available ever, but people don't want a escort, they want a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:41 PM
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It's a choice for everyone really, in a world where you can pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:37 AM
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You are free to go there and fight for their freedom.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/21 05:55 AM
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The weakest men are still stronger than the strongest women Not true at all
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/21 05:15 PM
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They are. I am, at least. At night I only cross well-lit places. When someone starts shouting on the subway train, I get as far as I can. And I will never physically intervene in a fight or robbery. My life is more important than anyone else's, and I think everyone should feel like that. It's also true that I very rarely reflect on statistics, and much more hear groundless "opinions". What I always have in mind though, is that I don't want to be another victim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/21 05:04 PM
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As always, beautifully crafted informative cards. Thank you for your activity! <3
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/21 06:57 PM
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I'd say that calling people with acronyms is pretty discriminatory in itself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/21 04:06 AM
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I didn't mean to come off confrontational. It's just that in my experience, those kind of safety measures are broadly employed. I've always had company walking through the night, either physical or in call. I've never reached home without telling a friend that I made it. I've always waited and been waited outside the bathroom/shower of a stranger place. Finally, I don't drink, but (both M&F) friends avoid drinking if they didn't see where the glass came from. I can agree on the higher needed lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:20 PM
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Men don’t have to pair up to go to the bathroom or to walk in public at night, check for roofies in their drinks, carry mace, avoid certain places at night, etc. You know this is false, right? Men aren't some sort of over powerful superheroes. It's just based on you knowing no one who does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:57 AM
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Hope you get happy by diminishing everyone's experiences just because "you don't think". Yes, men can feel traumatised by sexual assault. And bringing up one specific case of sexual assault doesn't benefit your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:53 AM
1

It would be best for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:43 PM
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You're not a weirdo. The American hair-less standard is what is weirdo, in my opinion. It's not the same where I live, in a European country.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:25 PM
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Men generally have no intimate/close friends, differently from most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:48 AM
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You are right. It's just not worth it if you have to lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:25 PM
1

I feel like any scale below 1000 pts is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:20 PM
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In my country it was "Anarchics" till a couple decades ago. Apparently everything bad was mandated by Anarchics. edit: "Anarchists" is the correct word.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/21 11:30 AM
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I understand wanting to be precise, but this is much more than other women commenting here would do. I can't speak for myself, but even men I know only approached someone who was already in our group, and even with milder proposals than visit the apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:47 PM
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It's risky for both parts tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:18 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree. You'd think that in a society where sex is relegated only to certain areas and situations and only monogamous sexual relationship are allowed, we would understand that we need affection in some other way. Instead the opposite is enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:05 PM
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How can you think of forcing someone to do something you didn't and wouldn't do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:59 PM
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Little more than 25% of adult women in Italy consider themselves feminist, makes sense to me when the messages thrown around are not that inclusive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/21 11:50 AM
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80% of men have lost their virginities by the time they get to their mid 20s Did you make this up? If so, your point doesn't stand as it's all based on this stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:50 AM
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Yours is the best mindset, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:14 PM
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I am a straight man and not to go against you, but even though I'm sexually attracted to (few) women, I can't help but finding almost everyone I meet so attractive. So this alone disproves my comment above, really. Thank you, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:26 PM
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Then I am wrong. What makes you believe that women are more physically attractive than men? Do you have some external basis, or is it your very own judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:19 PM
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That's because you're sexually attracted to men (or also sexually attracted to men). OP seems to miss this simple point: we are biased by our own sexual preferences, so of course women look better to a heterosexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:34 AM
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women a minority of men attractive This is true for men as well. I highly doubt most women would agree with you. Instead I find it plausible that you find women more attractive than men because you are sexually attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:22 AM
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I do check almost all the boxes myself, not pets and financially stable for example. What actually rub me the wrong way are two things: be treated like a checkbox list "emotionally stable, can show their vulnerability and be there when I'm vulnerable" The mention in the second point presents a contradiction that many men suffer from, you just need to look at the top posts on subreddits dedicated to discuss men's issues. What is wrongly implied with vulnerability, in this cases, is "it's okay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:19 AM
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Apply those same requirements to yourself and see how do you feel. There you have the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:34 AM
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Most mental health issues for men derive from social expectations. But I agree with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:32 AM
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I've found that, as it happens for men, most really funny women I know don't hang out that much at parties / bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:59 PM
1

Yes, humor is the main thing I look for. When you seek a partner, you want to make your life better. I wouldn't even call it funny, my humor is terrible and I prefer other people who makes terrible jokes. But they even make me feel like someone deeply understands me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:51 PM
2

I'd call myself a loser as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:29 PM
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I am not a woman; I am not getting laid either, so that's maybe why I don't understand your point of view. To me, all my friends both male and female are beautiful, and I really mean good-looking. It might sound like some sweet crap like "everyone's beautiful in their own way!" but I actually don't believe that. The reality is that, the more time you spend and the more experiences you make with and learn about a person, she/he will grow more pretty. I personally never wanted to "bed" one of my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:04 PM
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It's a good message, thanks! :) I think that if boys and men were able to have more real male friends, they would realize that they can have the same level on intimacy they find in friendships in women, in all relationships. It was relevant for me to discover that what many men (me included, at the time) call sexual attraction, is more often that not desire for bare affection, that they are not getting from anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:20 PM
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I think most men in Western societies are like you, probably not most men on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:14 PM
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To me, sexual attraction is mainly a choice. If I don't want to see a person as a sexual being, I won't. Of course I'm still attracted to the female body and my female friends' too, but I mean, they know it and are attracted to male bodies too. I think they are good-looking and they know I think that. Acknowledging a person's sexuality only opens a choice for you. When you get to understand that, you can even talk about each other's sexuality as openly as you want, because you trust each other's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:02 PM
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I think there's some truth in your reflection, also because today's feminism is largely about "women vs men" when actually the patriarchy should be intended as the rich. My survey, if so we can call it, comes from university as well, but a public engineering one, in Italy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/21 06:53 PM
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I would like to know how many women call themselves feminists. I don't know many that do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/21 12:26 PM
1

Thank you. I feel OP's opinion is warped by popular senseless posts on social media. There's nothing wrong in desiring things from your partner, and doesn't have to be a transaction. It's different if the woman/man expects me to do specific extra things for her/him as a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:40 AM
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Fellow (northern) Italian here, I see the same you do. Unfortunately it's mostly girls and women who are willing to help men to 'liberate' themselves, while I have to be careful about which men I mention men's emancipation with. I do fear this last year in lockdown though: everyone's main view of the world has shifted on social networks and the opinions expressed on i.e. Instagram and Tiktok are not always so inclusive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/21 09:23 AM
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You have a point at the end, most of my friends would consider me a feminist but I would never call myself such, although I'm mildly active in feminist spaces. I think much of the issues with nowadays feminism come from the social network spread: people have grown unused to hear and see people and opinions different from what they want to see. To refer to the opening post of the thread, all I can do is try to be a counselor for younger boys and girls, to at least make them understand that the ot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/21 09:14 AM
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It doesn't matter. Aside from the fact that the object is people perceived as males — doesn't matter if you actually don't identify as such — it considers boys too, so if we really want to nitpick, 'men' would not be comprehensive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/21 09:04 AM
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My reply may sound a little cynical, but the best way to carry your fight for men's liberation is to find some women who understand your point and agree and let them be your "battering ram".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/21 09:01 AM
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A person is not going to call if they know they will get no help. Can you imagine being abused by your partner, maybe only slightly convincing yourself that that is wrong, and being replied to at the phone that no, you can't be the victim. It does the opposite of helping you. You're not going to call.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 02:07 PM
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Acknowledging that there's a problem is already a lot. Thank you for this.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 02:03 PM
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The more black, the more intimidating, right? I wish we were able to look past petty differences at some point, and join forces instead of seeing the neighbour who is just like us, but oh well they were born with a penis/vagina or with light/dark skin, as our enemy.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 02:01 PM
1

90% of bosses are jerks, that's how they become bosses.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 01:50 PM
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Isn't it triggered by the query victims alone?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 10:47 AM
3

We need to look past gender quarrels and acknowledge that the problems we see and face everyday are class problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/21 06:12 AM
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It's illegal in the UK to be discriminated against gender and sex (and lots of other factors, like age, sexual orientation.) That means that in the COVID pandemic you can't restrict only the elderly. And you can't impose curfews only on one gender.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 06:48 AM
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The post is presenting a statistic of harassment in general. Not that I agree with that, I'm just pointing out that there is where the numbers come from.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 06:40 AM
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I'm active there, and appreciate the community very much. It's a place where I can feel comfortable and sheltered. But, there are some issues, especially with the main moderator. This was my first — and last — interaction with them: https://i.postimg.cc/W1sC48M0/Screenshot-20210317-094946-Sync-Dev-1.png Their reply: https://i.postimg.cc/Nftp8xdF/Screenshot-20210317-095630-Sync-Dev-1.png
/r/MensRights17/03/21 08:58 AM
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I'm speaking from a mid-European perspective. Here it's definitely not the norm to hear it in conversation. But children have socialized the most on social network in the last year, we can't keep pretending that it's not real when sure is real for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:48 AM
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You keep hearing "dude it's only on social media, it's not real!", but for boys growing up right now is as real as it gets. Social media are not a fictional world, they have an impact as anything else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:07 AM
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A serving Metropolitan Police officer has been charged with murdering and kidnapping Sarah Everard, who went missing in south London last week.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/21 06:44 PM
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I agree with this, but I'd add that we can't move fortward by chastising even based on the things that people do have control over. Every time you attack someone because of "progressivism" without hearing reason, they will be skeptic to join your side.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 05:30 PM
2

Hey, what about the law?
/r/PussyPass27/01/21 04:25 PM
1

Aaaand here is where I unsubscribe from this sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/12/20 03:50 PM
1

Car crashes kill only 0.01% of population every year, why even wear seatbelts?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/20 05:57 AM
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