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Fair enough. I can agree with having certain representation in government - but private sector should not be affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:33 PM
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Iceland doesn't score particularily good in percentage of female managers - countries like Lithuania or Russia score better, STEM students percentage is good - but still behind post-communist countries(though by low margin). And example with money and representation is flawed logic - because we can as well say that people who pay more taxes deserve more voting power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:37 PM
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I didn't watch any porn nor masturbate while I was in a relationship. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:29 PM
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I am not sure if having quotas or even recommendations isn't doing more bad than good. Plenty of countries without such policies have higher percentage of female managers or STEM students than countries which implement such policies explicitly and at the same time situation is clear that people were hired only due to their competencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:27 PM
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Business is really adapting fast to changing situation. Last year DEI newsletter of my company was full of plans for Pride Month, Women in Tech and other events, this year it's really short and states that we 'need to reflect', 'take a step back' and 'understand our values' lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:16 PM
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Behind every extremism in the west there is foreign influence. TikTok is banned in China where it came from, but it's freely spreading brainrot and woke/far-right degeneration in the west. Feminism is just bunch of useful idiots - like greenpeace in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:05 PM
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Everyone knows that best strategy to deal with little children is bribery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:49 PM
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Being fascist is no longer a taboo - last holocaust survivors that barely remember anything will soon die, and people do not want to talk about it, for youngest generations WW2 it's the same level of abstraction as Napoleonic wars. If smaller countries wish to survive they need to form alliances and build nuclear weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:26 PM
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Sawyer. But it's because he looks like my uncle when he was in his 30s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:14 PM
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Tomato juice. It's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:40 AM
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Right ofc. I do not like skinny women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:51 AM
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Attention seeking and some are promoting their porn. Every attractive person will sooner or later post their pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:41 AM
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AI Investors: AI will write a code, will cure people, develop new materials, boost productivity AI companies: we are working on chatbot and we proudly present you 'a chatbot'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:35 AM
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The reason for such a rarity of 'alpha men' is pretty simple. This is the product of popculture, feminists might say that it's just another manifestation of patriarchy. Humans have very complex social structures, and our hierarchies seem to be temporary, context dependent and have some specific goal in mind. We choose the captain of the team, because it makes our team effective - but it's gone after the game, we choose the president but if he fails we shit on him, there is a set of useful skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:24 PM
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Desperation makes men acting awkward, and being awkward is attraction killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:21 AM
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41M - I can cook variety of things - though I particularily enjoy barbecue(especially shrimps and fish). I can also bake really well - my favorite is yeast dough stuff and crumble when plums are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:07 AM
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Well - if your relationship is just bf/gf then it's cool. But if you start your family - have kids, then people sacrifice some things - women sacrifice their health, sometimes appearance, and take some risk to give birth. Men quite often work in hard jobs, impacting their health, sometimes they need to leave to different country and do some dull labor in factory for decades. No one dreams about carrying bricks whole day - yet many men do it. We need to pay our mortgages - so we stay at jobs that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:40 PM
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I think Elon Musk did too much amphetamine in his life and he is now irreversible nutjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:12 PM
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Big age gaps were always considered creepy, especially for people in their early 20s. Median age gap of first marriage in 1890(!) was 4 years in USA, and in 1930 it was already 3 years. What changed is that people were not using social media to discuss such things, but general views are unchanged. Even in wealthy circles when such age gap business deal was happening, women were still having fun with men closer to their age - paid dancers, waiters etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:44 AM
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I am not sure if toxic environment is that important for competitive women - figure skating, gymnastics and ballet are highly toxic including actual physical violence, yet women are not discouraged from competing . I would rather guess that risk calculation is the key - proffessional chess requires enormous effort, however number of women succeeding is low - so it's not wise for women to dedicate themselves to such career.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:29 AM
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I think that we should keep female-only tournaments for the sake of science. Currently men outnumber women in chess, so promoting chess among women might give us biggest sample to study the reasons for different performance. Success in chess is not only related to raw intelligence - there are more personality traits involved, including being risk averse, different patterns of performance change with age etc. Lefties obviously have brain-dead answer of 'sexism' to everything, but study shows ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:22 AM
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<image> Even as a woman I would be 4 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:28 PM
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Seriously. Every other Uber driver in Kraków looks like this photo. I think they are usually from Georgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:08 PM
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I think I saw this guy driving Uber.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:50 PM
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It mentions only verbal intelligence. Arithmetic performance has no effect - so guy who is stellar in math, but lagging in verbal communication will struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:25 PM
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Yeah and dating here is westernized. Girls care about men looks a lot - especially if guy is investing in himself, like gym, teeth, hair etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:53 PM
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It's not that simple. Plenty of young women bend over backwards to somehow get their husbands out of Ukraine, and plenty went back as well. These girls are not some selfish bitches leaving their men in the cold, lots of personal drama is happening due to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:34 PM
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You can remove Poland from there. recently I've heard that we are only 'technically' a Slavs according to Russians lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:20 PM
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Women here are born women and they are incels already. If they were born men they would be incel mass shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:08 PM
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It's statistically impossible due to practical reasons, but women lose 80% of brain function when they see attractive dude lol. They do not go for these guys because it's a pipe dream, but this is object of their desire - not some average beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:56 PM
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Not anything - bragging about ugly bf is attention seeking though. Maybe someone should come up with "my fat gf" or "my uggo gf" trends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:52 PM
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It's attention seeking and pretty much it's humiliating for these dudes. Girls try to get views by showing uglier boyfriend. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:32 PM
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What you mention is not really left wing but it's just late stage woke delulu. Social democracy is dead in the west, there are no working class to defend since there are no class of factory workers anymore. Working people are fragmented and have completely different things important for them. Last relic of social democracy is Germany and it's collapsing now, Germany will kill social democracy in 2-3 years and will move on towards American capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:16 PM
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The dark times of Viva and europop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:10 AM
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I guess you can say it about every major city in Europe, but you see mainly tourists and students. People who are 25+ are usually at work and in there it's average. At my office maybe 1 girl in 10 is not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:19 AM
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Reference to doctors and engineers suggests one place in Europe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:11 AM
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Oncology can be stressful. They need to wind down a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:08 AM
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It didn't matter at all for me. I was driving old Fiat Uno in my 20s and girls didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:00 AM
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Poland. Actually women here do not differ too much from Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:50 AM
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Tall, dark blonde, usually overweight. Fake blonde is no longer popular here, the same with being tan. Ukrainian girls brought thick eyebrows and pumping lips style - so lot of women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:47 AM
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Hispanic girl is hot. Black girl also looks good. Rest are meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:34 AM
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I'm totally ok with plastic surgery and makeup - since it covers some defects and makes people feel better, for me it's the same category as teeth implants. I do not like tattoos and piercings other that ears, for me it looks trashy and usually quality of it is dramatically poor, really not my style. However for my own sense of aesthetics - I've seen quite a lot girls of different body shapes and without makeup, for me it's nothing shocking to see acne, stretch marks, body fat, cellulite, non-sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:32 PM
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I didn't noticed such correlation. Doctors - yeah, and only doctors for some reason. Terminally online women are weirdos - one week they consider carpenters hot, next week obese guys, next week k-pop stars, and so on. But at the end of the day conventional atractiveness wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:25 AM
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Screaming Red Flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:53 PM
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When woman tries this kind of manipulation - it's usually some material gain behind it. No woman wants obvious idiot for a life partner. Most men do not fall for such tricks and most women do not try it with men they are really interested in - pretty much because every guy with a brain will consider such behavior as weird/creepy/insincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:26 AM
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The problem of GenZ is black and white thinking, you are an example and women obviously have similar tendencies towards extremism. That is why 'woke' took off so well, that is why far-right took off so well for this generation. 'Firm boundaries' for GenZ mean - 'everything is my way', there is very little, if any, space for discussion and compromise. Life is very volatile, you can steer it to some degree, but you need to accept that you will have to adjust or take some risks. You cannot be fully…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:03 AM
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Everyone is whining bitch nowadays - no matter the gender. I think people should stsrt starving or maybe some war would be good to make them less annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:10 PM
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"Galareta" in Polish. Очень вкусно.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:36 PM
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Oh I love it. I eat it at least once a month. Best with vinegar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:32 PM
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It's nothing "fascinating" about it unless you believe in some fictional "united male nation" lol. If men from wealthier countries lose due to influx of male migrants - they simply do not want them, left wingers are insane and dumb so they act against own interest, but normies make simple calculation. People(including men) unite to achieve some common goals - why should I unite with my enemies ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:22 AM
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Skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:56 PM
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Then it's just another cool hobby. I like to draw myself and I enjoy art but we need to be realistic about own talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:55 PM
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Yes. I have a friend like this. She is in her 30s - her 'art' brought her maybe 1000$ in whole her life, she managed to hold a job for at most 3 months and she spends whole days hanging out with similar losers. Except that they have either rich husbands or parents - she has neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:46 PM
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alternative medicine, healing crystals and this kind of new age bs wannabe artists wannabe activists wannabe intellectuals living on parents money doesn't like kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:37 PM
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Sure - wife of guy from my town have benn emotionally abusing him and forcing him to work 16h/day, while she has been drinking and cheating on him. Wife of my parents employee was the same story - but she was also drug addict, she left him with children for some drug dealing loser. My neighbor from childhood was also abusing her husband - and one day she packed her stuff and left him(with two 3 yo kids). Half year later she sent divorce papers - because 'she found love'.Her 'love' dumped her and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:43 PM
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I knew that you are are that younger sister i wanted for Christmas when I was 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:08 AM
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America is still doing exceptionally well. Eurofools sank European economy in the name of eco-voodoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:29 AM
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New York Dolls wrote a song about it. https://youtu.be/2aQTGqqXHw4?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:21 AM
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Making any kind of video about anything remotely related to sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:07 PM
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Become chief of morality police and execute whoever i don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:01 PM
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I will be playing Uno and checkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:01 PM
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How man-hating feminism happened: Women were extreme judgemental towards each other and imposed very inflated standards regarding appearance, behavior and lifestyle. Women blamed men for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:03 PM
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Nope. There are no progress without hardships. Europeans get brutal lesson of this simple truth and every person coddled too much will get it sooner or later. Life is demanding and everyone needs to be resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:05 PM
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For woke crowd minorities are good as long as they support leftist brainrot. If they have other views then they suddenly join the 'oppressors' lol. People are too diverse to not have prejudice against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:09 PM
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Idk. I love everyone so I would give everyone the best things on planet: portrait of Adolf Hitler and Human Centipede on blu-ray.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:35 PM
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Red Pill is not about men's rights - it's about improving attractiveness. One of the assumptions of Red Pill is that women do not tell the truth about what they consider attractive. In my private opinion they cannot tell the truth because the truth is not aligned with feminist narration which encourages relationships based on equality. While it is possible for men and women to have equal rights - the full biological/social equality is not attractive for women in context of romantic relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:37 AM
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I don't think men 'seek approval' from annoying type of typical modern women. I guess men just express frustration that (too)many women are no longer capable to be a partner material, and being partnered is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:58 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:44 PM
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I associate unnatural colors with being weirdo or with political extremism. I really rarely see it btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:40 PM
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I think it's not that deep. It just sounds better than saying to guy you don't like that he has small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:23 PM
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According to feminists there are 3 types of men: 1. Incels 2. Incels larping as progressives 3. My One In A World Partner Who Is The Most Caring And Emphatetic Person In The Universe And He Is So Handsome Tee Hee
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:12 PM
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Goddamit. Everyone is incel now. I bet next US president will say "Ich bin ein Incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:08 PM
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Obviously B. I'm a romantic person. But she has to have big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:05 PM
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Pick-mes are best partners. Pick-me will make a team with their man, because she shares their views. Guy is happy and they get along well. Hate-me has own way of seeing the world, and tries to force men to follow this. When men follow she will not respect them and they will end up cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:29 PM
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I've already got 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:30 PM
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Obviously by reminding young men that they have voting rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:00 PM
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I'm sorry to inform you that feminism is still alive. But our struggle will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:59 PM
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I do not really see 'age gap' relationships with women in their 20s, though I see quite a lot of them when women are like 32-35 and guy is 40-45. And it's way more often than it was 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:31 AM
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Heh - when you describe yourself I see myself when I was a kid. If you ask me - you are most likely pretty normal, maybe a bit spoiled by parents and quirky due to your more original interests and being a bit more academically gifted than other kids, but otherwise everything is boringly fine. Your fidgeting might be just compulsive behavior - it's nothing unusual as well, i'm also fidgeting to calm down during stress at work. Aspie kids are really hardcore - we have them in our preschool and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:18 PM
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Out of curiosity - have you spent majority of your childhood among adults ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:52 PM
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I'm curious of the answer as well lol. Ie.. I think in sort of mix of shapes, connections, 'animations', texts, and scenarios that happen between these objects, but it's hard to fully describe it because such things do not exist in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:23 PM
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Not having phobias is pretty strange for someone in spectrum. Kids usually have problems with sensorical integration which results in fear of height, fear of losing the balance and do not like certain textures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:07 PM
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Thinking in shapes is pretty common. I also think in shapes, especially regarding abstract systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:00 PM
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I know 3 types of 'cat ladies'. Ugly women - like not 3/10 but rather -3/10, they are unfortunate and nothing can be done about it. Mentally ill, extremely low intelligence - this type is also not really sought after Mid/below-mid looking but either bitchy or shy and bit weird. I also have 1 friend - we used to date in our 20s, she is good looking, nice, intelligent and overall cool. I have no idea why she is single. She was actually even looking for partner, but nothing seemed to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:51 PM
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Not really. Their socialization put the good of tribe/own good above the life of individual boy. They were not looking for excuse - they wanted to get rid of him like you get rid of rodents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:47 PM
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True. Societies conditioned in different way can ie. leave a child to starve to death. Like the boy in Africa that was called a 'witch'. Without incentives society detoriates quickly even if socialized to follow specific values. I've seen it in my country during economic hardships of the 90s. People were ready to do nasty things because there were no money to execute the law and social cost was irrelevant in face of actual material struggles. Once economic situation improved - people are again a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:00 PM
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Q4W: guy you've met recently reveals that he has a condition that is causing him to be unable to have piv intercourse with you. Guy is great otherwise, like totally compatible, good looking. It will be forever - he is open to satisfy you orally and everything else but piv is not possible. It is possible to get sperm and have kids together but actual intercourse will never happen. What do you do ? Continue or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:44 PM
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I think that women are more interested in a bit more sophisticated urban lifestyle than men. Not neccesarily in very expensive stuff but they put more emphasis on living specific way, having nice things, looking good, living in city etc. Some men care about it - but many would feel better living in countryside, having simple clothes, eating simple food and having quad or motorcycle for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:41 AM
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I do not have to pretend lol. I would try to convince them to not do it, fortunately my wife is way more against tattoos than me. For her it's like totally low class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:35 AM
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Nope. My wife is into things like Zaz, Coldplay or general pop, but she is casually interested in music. I am music nerd so I listen to huge variety of music from classic Chopin, through David Bowie, Beatles, The Cure, synthpop, death metal etc. I've spend over 5k EUR for hi-fi stuff so I can enjoy it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:26 AM
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These are open 24/7 but it's mainly booze, beer and sweets. Or if the store is running a library(yes library).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:33 AM
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Idc - majority of women I've seen naked had them. No matter the bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:24 AM
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We have stores closed. At least it's not as barbaric as Sweden with one booze store in town closed at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:22 AM
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Whenever women talk about women supposedly being more kind and considerate - I think about female behavior while driving a car, when they are completely anonymous and have nothing to gain socially. Women are almost never polite on the road, they never let other people join the traffic or allow pedrstrians to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:18 AM
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At least you have stores open o Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:14 AM
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Our math teacher (female) - once got annoyed by guy struggling to solve some stuff, I think it was some simple integral - anyway she pulled the keys of her pocket and told the guys to wash her car, and not waste his time pursuing engineering career lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:09 AM
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Guy made this pathetic post to fish for compliments, he reaped what he sowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:04 AM
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Men need to reinforce patriarchy and fight feminism. Both men and women will benefit from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:18 PM
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If I'd be single and in my 20s - I don't think I would pursue romantic relationships, especially in 2024. Women nowadays are not really trustworthy nor family oriented so it does not make a big difference between banging sex workers - who are at least open about who they are and do not try to sell you some bs about 'values'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:56 AM
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Nope. Actually hottest girls are usually dumb - the smart girls ruin sexiness with their dull outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:45 PM
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Every place had different trigger for "alt right" rise. In Europe it was rather a refugee crisis and Merkel's infamous "refugees welcome". It gave fuel to Victor Orban - minor figure from Europe's peripheries, which emboldened people in whole Europe who thoought the same but were not sure about being open with anti immigrant stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:42 PM
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I've watched "Machos Alfa" series. As expected - males are depicted as cucks, females are praised for being sluts. Cuckflix will never disappoint me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:10 PM
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<image> Poland should be 51st state.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:21 PM
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Yes. I completely despise modern world - but it serves me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:16 PM
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Shooting people is a crime. Lefties who are cheering should be put in closed mental health facilities. Following left wing ideology is a mental health issue itself, and we have a clear proof of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:15 PM
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Discussing feminism online with actual arguments is pointless - it will either result in brigading or with ban. Feminism is now just another populism and it can be approached only via populist methods. Besides it is a delight to watch that leftwing populism is getting beating from right-wing populism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:56 AM
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You are assuming that every criticism of feminism is caused by being reactionary for the sake of being reactionary. That is why discussion with feminists make no sense and every man should realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:44 AM
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Radicalism of 2nd wave feminists was justified - since they were real revolutionaries, but what we have now is just whining of entitled bitches. Nothing more - incels with pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:29 AM
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I say that ofc I know ppd and that i'm blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:06 PM
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Idk - i promote anti intellectualism. Office jobs will be decimated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:59 PM
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O buy a drone and drop grenade on sexbot promoting infljencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:58 PM
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Since march 2011
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:30 PM
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There was no choice. I was born into it. All of the resources are already owned. All of the land is already owned. Everything about how this operates was already set up, well before I fucking got here. If you refuse to acknowledge this then I believe further engagement is a pointless waste of time for us both. This argumentation is silly. No one of us made the choice to be born - you are not special, but we decided to make different choices how we live, and we can judge whether someone is doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:30 AM
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No one is 'throwing money' at child subsidies. In every country job market penalty for having children is far higher than child subsidies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:19 AM
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This is really weak rhetoric. I can say that plenty of people make the world worse by just living - but is it argument for mass scale euthanasia ? Having children is unique type of contribution that cannot be substituted by money, work or anything else. Besides childless people do not even pay higher taxes - but they use the work of young people and pay for this work exactly the same as people who took the cost of raising them. It is not sustainable and we have a proof it isn't - women do not wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:54 AM
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Congrats. You now seem to understand that society rewards those who contribute. Except those who contribute by having children. Do you think doing unpaid work is fair ? Not paying for work is a sin crying to heaven for vengeance. bet you don't - and millions of other women share your opinion, and here we are with plummeting birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:39 AM
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We reward jobless people with living on the street. Do you feel coerced to work ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:28 AM
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Moral obligation - yes though I am against forcing anyone to have kids, but I think that childless people are not good citizens and are not fully productive members of society. It should be reflected in taxation, access to housing and other public services. Current sitution where being childless is a bonus in life is unacceptable imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:14 AM
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Good. "When I hear the word culture, I reach for my gun".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:54 PM
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I do not read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:49 PM
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English is my second language so my vocabulary is limited. Besides I'm anti-intellectual and I do not read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:48 PM
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Where is the document ? Yeltsin lost it while drunk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:38 PM
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Please don't be silly. NATO before expansion would raze conventional Russian forces to the ground in 1 month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:36 PM
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They do it on small scale - which resulted in sudden change of views on migration among young polish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:39 PM
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Up to about 20 yo. I was really healthy, slim, fit and had great dark hair - no acne or shit like this. I even had a 6-pack. I wasn't maybe ultimate Chad but like step below. But I've ran into health issues being 21 and my hair started thinning, felt like shit and looked like shit. I suspect some auto immunologic stuff(I was suffering from it as kid but later it had remission). If you are 21, skinny, pale and balding then it makes things hard. However once I've turned 25 I've got much better, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:25 AM
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I am older than majority of guys here - but as I see not much have changed, and I have experience of being above average, below average and average in looks. If you are above average - your pickup line is 'Hi' or even 'Hi' is not needed because plenty of girls know your name and will somehow try to approach you. Either directly or via some mutual friend or by facilitating some situation to know you better. But the problem is that girls you really would like to hang out with seem to be indifferen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:08 AM
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Feminism has no single definition - we may even say that every self-proclaimed feminist has it's own definition of feminism that usually means "whatever benefits me is feminism, whatever i like is feminism". So she can totally might prefer that you will adhere to 'toxic masculinity' if this benefits her or turns her on, but she will want freedom of choice regarding what should be expected from her. Is it hypocrisy ? Yes - welcome to XXI century. So you may end up in relationship where you are de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:15 AM
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If not fitting into triangle would remain without real life consequences - then it would be ofc true. But this irrationalism has very serious real life consequences and people see it - if victimizing yourself can win something for you, then why not go for it ? The blunder of moderate forces was made when radical progressives were given a power to influence institutions: academia, corporate world, culture - reality was poisoned by delulu and we have to face consequences. I am pretty sure that it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:07 PM
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I personally have similar opinion as you regarding 'drama triangle' but imo we are at the time where every group(of young people) must victimize themselves because other way is to silently admit to being oppressor. No fence sitting anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:43 AM
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Everyone follows some sort of irrational ideology. Why red pill is worse than other ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:23 AM
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It can be taught and practiced imo. I've learned at work how to act to not look confident at the meetings and how to sell bs to managers. Funny thing - I've learned this also while online dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:55 AM
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Full blown uprising is a internet meme. But you have voting card, and at some point many of you will be able to make decisions. And you will decide what is the right thing and what is not. Unless you will allow yourself to be overwhelmed by defeatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:06 AM
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The fight is not about some left wing feminists acknowledging male problems. Fuck them. But men need to acknowledge that they do not have to solve problems of 'oppressed' groups, that they owe nothing to anyone and that they have voting cards. Young men are gaslit to think that 'right thing to do' is to feel ashamed for some made up sins of people who are no longer alive, and that right thing to do is to make space for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:00 AM
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Your take is both true and untrue. If you do not accept your lot in life - then you take a risks and try harder than others, it might actually bear fruits - but it also can be not rewarding and you can end up frustrated that you've spent time chasing pipe dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:41 AM
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This is also happening often. My female friend was fucked over like that. The saddest thing is that this dude is a total loser and idiot, fortunately she was not trusting him fully and she separated her finance. Now she has Chad boyfriend that has serious plans - but she could be with that guy 3 years ago. Life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:22 AM
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Well - being ghosted by some stranger that you know for 2 weeks is no drama, but when man or woman lie to their partner for well over decade then it sucks fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:15 AM
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At all. She was basically looking to have a chill life, with some well off dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:11 AM
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Guy I know was dumped by his gf of 15 years. He proposed to her many years ago - but she managed to gaslight him that they do not need a family since they are so happy with dogs and having such fulfilling life, they were travelling and living really above their means at his expense for all these years, she had some shitty job. But dude got into some health problems, got stuck in his position at work which was great 10 years ago but not so much today, meanwhile the woman got promoted at work and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:25 AM
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Yeah - in many European countries J is spelled as Y in English. Sweden, Czechia, Poland, Netherlands and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:40 AM
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Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:29 AM
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Polish name. Maybe you've heard about tennis player Iga Swiatek ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:19 AM
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Girl: Iga, Alexandra Boy: Jan, Victor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:17 AM
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Ofc I did. It was a common knowledge among boys/young men that you need to look good and show off a bit. Having fashionable clothes, being in shape, having nice car, doing prestigeous things like skiing etc. Other things like education or being smart were also crucial for certain kind of girls - but superficial factors were a must. Our biggest regret was that we are too broke to afford good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:10 PM
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In this period women (of upper classes ofc) became interested in living more hedonistic lifestyle and less focused on being in the role of mothers. If you will see depictions of women in Art Deco style - it puts emphasis on dynamic and urban consumerist lifestyle. Even motives of lesbian erotica start to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:38 PM
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I've seen plenty of such examples in Poland. I live in a wealthy part of small town near the major city and many guys have stay at home wives or women are working in some part-time chill jobs and real money are earned by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:42 PM
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It started getting popular here in the 90s, but my parents got engaged in 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:22 PM
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I think many men are afraid of taking the risk, being direct is the easiest way to know of ypu're on the same page but it brings the risk losing the opportunity since opportunity is more scarce for men. It's an illusion since opportunity is not really that scarce - women like men and are interested in them, but not everyone likes to gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:18 PM
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Terrible reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:13 PM
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It wasn't common in Polish culture either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:11 PM
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Why they got married then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:08 PM
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I think that yes - but it is caused by growing group of women who do not want to have serious partners. Like never have them - their perfect life is a dog, career, travel, parties and good looking guy in loose relation or changing partners. I think that many men would also gladly participate in such lifestyle - but they are not attractove enough to be 'total consumer'. While women can achieve that easily. Btw it is similar to ideal of interwar period and late belle epoque.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:04 PM
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Idk man - I've experienced a lot of good treatment in my life - unearned mostly since I was a bit of a brat, I'd say that I've experienced more good from women than from men. Be it teachers, classmates or even collagues from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:52 PM
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Straight preffered. I like typical Karen look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:25 PM
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I think that majority of women do not give a f..k about message to young women or about step back or anything like that. But it's a bad idea due to dependency on someone lese income and future problems after becoming retired. Otherwise - i think majority of men or women would embrace such lifestyle. I do not personally like to wake up at 3AM and think about firewall config or changes in SDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:25 AM
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Good advice = works in practice Bad advice = does not work in practice Women give men terrible advice - mainly to just avoid conflict if irl or to virtue signal/bad faith if online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:18 PM
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It's not worth to listen to women regarding dating imo, I've met one girl(4 years older than me) that was totally frank with me regarding dating and since then I've managed to succeed, she told me: "Girls judge by the cover and cover is enough. Take care of yourself and buy yourself a nice clothes and you will be good". She was so right that it was mind-blowing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:09 PM
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I am old enough to take internet stories of happy female LTRs with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:19 PM
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To be "invisible" - woman really needs to be unattractive, like bottom 10%. Usually the case is - woman is below average, but wants the same men as girls who are either average or are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:51 PM
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Better deal is getting to right school and making good networking. There is no shortage of brilliant people with good ideas in Vladyvostok, but people with money are in London, NYC and SV and their kids go to Ivy League.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:31 PM
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It's not internet - it's cultural shift that is mainly driven by women. Women want to live urban lifestyle - not start a family and buy a house at the suburbs, but rather consume typical urban experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:16 PM
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Musk is telling quite a lot of truth in a way that is very disturbing to lefties. They know he is right so they try to somehow shame all people that agree with him and label them as nerds/incels. At some point 3/4 of the world will be incels according to lefties as shaming is the only tactics known by left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:48 AM
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It's a strawman. Plenty of completely fine dudes are single (not by choice).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:31 AM
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You can make a good money while being on spectrum, especially in cultures that value merit over social aspect and being on spectrum is inheritable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:56 PM
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You have cultural capital and it makes things much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:47 PM
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Nope. But I've had a gfs that were going to church every Sunday, they didn't care about my atheism too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:14 PM
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Creators of tiktok should face Nuremberg trials.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:30 AM
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It's true but it sort of vicious cycle. If you're not a victim than you're oppressor - you cannot be unaligned, it is pretty much reflected in politics(especially in US since Europeans do not care about social justice).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:06 PM
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I do not need to hear her - it's enough to look at her for 3 sec.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:44 PM
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One good piece of female advice is that being communicative can get you quite far. Sure - shooting above your league lookswise will most likely fail, but within your league it's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:52 AM
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Can talk. Seriously - many women are just not too eloquent, i'm not talking about some intellectual bs, just ability to hold conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:08 AM
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School didn't have email of this woman, she might have been using his computer so that is why it is interesting. Second thing is that schools usually send documents via regular mail - why he hasn't get them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:41 PM
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I wonder how he managed to prove that she deleted emails ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:29 PM
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Fries are best with mayo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:55 PM
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Simple example- In a matter of months IT went from dream job into heavily oversaturated market. The same thing happened to finance in 2008. I observed newsletter about new people hired in different areas in my company - 3 years ago we've been hiring 30-50 people/month in single countries, now we hire 0 for over year and plenty of people were laid off. Recently we were looking for interns - usually we've got 20-30 applications from our city, now we get around 1000 and people are applying even fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:30 PM
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True - but there were no means to prevent unwanted pregnancies, and in comparison to previous centuries it was still better and more safe. Currently the reference point is time between 1950s-1990s, when things were exceptionally stable and prosperous in the west and even in communist countries there was a sense of stability. I've switched my career 3 times in the last 15 years(between completely different fields), my dad and father-in-law were working 40 years in the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:36 AM
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Poland and Nordics are not within Russia's reach - it's completely another level of military comparing to Ukraine, but Putin will definitely want to turn Ukraine into sort of weak buffer state between NATO/EU and Russia. I am afraid that he will succeed - Poland is already making plans to accept another millions of Ukrainian migrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:31 AM
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It will not happen. Trump will just offer Eastern Ukraine to Russia and Taiwan to China. Ukrainians should negotiate some cash from EU and US for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:59 AM
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I think that one of the reasons for low birth rates is economic reality changing at rapid pace. In theory unemployment is low and wages are ok in majority of the west/west adjacent countries - but whole industries can disappear in a matter of months leaving people with the need of rapid adjustment, months without income or a need to downgrade standard of living due to starting from the bottom. I think that starting point was 2008 when middle class went through bloodbath, it became pretty clear t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:55 AM
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I guess the source of this ignorance is stark difference between how Wehrmacht and SS behaved in Western and in Eastern Europe. Also I've met some people that were in forced labor in Germany and according to them lots of American soldiers were of German roots and they were treating Germans much better than released prisoners. With exception of SS that were often killed on spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:55 AM
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Well i think that you won't find too many nazi defenders tbh. My personal opinion is that these women should face proper trial and in case of proving them accepting gifts from nazis they should be sentenced for cooperation in crime. Nazis murdered and robbed many people and these women gained from it, even though they didn't killed these people themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:30 AM
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In case of direct physical attack ofc you should defend your family, but in a broader sense women are grown-ass adults that can take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:15 AM
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Such view is very typical for some feminists that insist on women not being adult people but always somehow manipulated or forced by 'circumstances'. These women made their choice - some people preferred to die or face hardships, they've decided otherwise - this is just a consequence of their own decision. They knew what may happen, but they've decided to make it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:12 AM
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Art should be primary about skill. I do not care about what painter wants to say - usually they have nothing to say like Banksy, but I appreciate technique and form.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:29 PM
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Low earner with weak character, blaming "system" for his own shortcomigs. Developed addiction from violent pornography. Virtue signalling leftist views to gain access to sjw pussy. Erectile dysfuction. Cucked and recording tiktok about his open relationship and being 'secure' in polyamorous relationship(one sided).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:10 PM
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They do and they are very strict in guarding of pecking order.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:47 PM
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Definitely further than childless societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:08 PM
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Ultimate Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/aC0EYufA4nY - my favorite Romanian artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:16 PM
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Amor fati. It's not a trad concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:10 PM
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125/75
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:35 PM
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Not really. People with children need to compromise on own consumption, since raising children is time and money consuming, meanwhile childless people prioritize only themselves. Families might consume more than singles, but parents consume less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:18 PM
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People with children consume but also provide new employees, so it is sort of 'economy', meanwhile childless people only consume, they do not bring crucial element of sustainable economy. Whatever the motivations of women are, outcome of being childless is net negative for society. And we need to remeber that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:14 PM
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It cannot - but it is fully technologically sufficent, losing intellectual value and high value added jobs costs America too much. This was not the assumption of globalization anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:11 PM
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Motherhood is presented as something uncool and basically as a slavery. Young people are taught to prioritise consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:36 AM
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Maybe they've went to Canada by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:17 PM
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That is why we have children. They live their best time and we experience it like we ourselves are through it again. Downside is that their worst time is ours as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:25 PM
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Try viola da gamba. It has frets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:18 PM
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It's not even red. This person is clearly before transition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:15 PM
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Nope. I just had one gf for long time and got back to dating after university. So i haven't got experience with dating 'adult' women. But it wasn't really hard to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:06 PM
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No man should ever honor this sub by even single comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:03 PM
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Unless you are really socially inept, adjusting to some specific type of social interactions is not that hard. I remeber that it took me like 5 convos with girls online to get how to do it right, and irl i've needed maybe 6 attempts to start doing well. This level of nuance is not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:59 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:30 PM
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Pushkin 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:23 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:26 PM
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I would be 2 and 3. But i'm not American so only 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:20 PM
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I didn't have any particular expectations - my wife was not working for 3 years, but in Poland we usually put kids in preschool/daycare when they are 1-1.5 yo. so she had a few hours to take a break and declutter a bit. My work after work was usually about making a bath for child, continue with daily stuff like loading dishwasher, laundry, also I was preparing formula for the night, we've also shared who is getting up during night etc. But my wife was doing all the stuff with physiotherapy. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:24 PM
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I'm not an incel and I've read some books in my life, so I am totally entitled to state opinion that reading fiction brings very little value to life, especially to young men's life. "...Discard your thirst for books, so that you won't die in bitterness, but in cheerfulness and truth, grateful to the gods from the bottom of your heart." There is much more to life than amassing money, chasing pussy, and shitting - but reading books will only distract you from these really important and valuable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:19 PM
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Some boys are failing and that is the fact - but the solution lies in hands of the parents. You cannot change the system in a way that will properly handle boys. Everywhere in the world there is a large group of boys who struggle - boys are risk takers, have a hard time to focus, are more prone to addictions etc. In my opinion boys need discipline and direction from a very young age, their energy has to be used for productive things, but we are living in a democracy so school doesn't have any me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:27 PM
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In the long run - your intellectual development has no meaning, you will not become second Tolstoy or even mediocre writer like Coehlo, at most you can be just another pretentious kid that with big dose of luck will bang some fellow female pretentious intellectual. But odds are 95:5 that she will go for conventionally attractive guy anyway so not really much profit for you. Meanwhile focusing on things that can be monetized and non-time consuming entertainment will bring you closer to other peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:51 PM
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Woman would not want to sleep in the woods. Unless she's weird but weird girls do not count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:41 AM
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From statistical point of view most people are either above or below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:35 AM
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The movie Clerks 2 is completely outdated. Some lame techbro is presented as a successful person, while 2 guys banging (hot and young) chicks despite working at burger joint, are presented as losers. It would be totally opposite in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:20 AM
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In act of desperation I've applied for a job at CD Project RED - but I think they didn't like it when I've told them that I do not really play video games lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:51 AM
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Reading fiction is the worst thing a young man can do to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:43 AM
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It's like the girls that never stepped into gym that expect their men to be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:13 AM
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Isn't it normal behavior of woman in her 20s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:05 AM
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And this is Martin Gore - prominent British new wave artist. But it doesnt change a fact that broccoli haircut is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:57 AM
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Yes - broccoli haircut is haunting humanity for a very long time: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:54 AM
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Yet another broccoli head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:50 AM
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Young men should not read any fiction, apart from light science-fiction. People like Kafka have bad influence on youngsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:49 AM
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In the long run - people with distorted worldview will expect that other people(including potential partners) will confirm that 2+2=6. I was dating a bit in my life, and it was always the case - that is why I simply ceased to date any person with troubled childhood or having hard time coping with bad experience. Besides - it is the same at my son's preschool - mothers are most stubborn insisting that their kids are perfectly fine even though they are consuming own feces or cannot speak being 5 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:18 AM
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I do not consider this a fault or lack of willpower. It's a serious illness like cancer - but i repeat, behavior caused by it is not normal. Every therapist will tell to person suffering from it that their view of the world is distorted and not true. It's a tragedy to suffer from dementia - but we do not take opinions about the world coming from people suffering from it seriously. We need to punish perpetrators of assault, we need to cure sick people, but sick people views are not valid. OP asks…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:55 AM
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I am not considering mental illness in moral categories, but we cannot pretend that ptsd is perfectly normal condition and that behavior being being a result of it is valid. It is not, it is called 'disorder' for a reason - it is a reaction to stress, but this reaction is not correct. Reddit has a tendency to normalize bahovior of mentally ill people - sure it's not your fault that you are sick, but you are not healthy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:38 AM
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It's perfectly understandable when women are cautious, but some women turn paranoid and instead of going to therapy or smth they consider their paranoia as completely valid. I was robbed few times in the 90s, some drunk psycho attacked me with a knife once, but i am not afraid of going out due to that lol. My wife encountered exhibitonists and stalker but she still dated online and wasn't too afraid. We both know that society - especially our social class does not consist of pervs and criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:59 AM
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I've bought my mom a flat and I am making renovation. I am also working on small open source project to create sort of 'intelligent insole'. I hope that it can help to measure wheter children made progress in rehabilitation of muscle tone assymetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:09 PM
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The people that voted but can be convinced to vote otherwise next time. It's democracy - but it seems to be no longer accepted by democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:25 PM
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There is plenty of in-between. Otherwise politics wouldn't makr a sense and democrats can give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:19 PM
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Thinking in absolute terms is a recipe for disaster in politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:16 PM
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It doesn't really matter in this context - abortion is optional medical procedure, while childbirth is physiological process. If you want someone to undergo this procedure for your own convenience - then you should take similar cost to even things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:52 PM
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Woman can do that at the expense of her own health. If we want to even things out - man should ie. donate his kidney to get rid of responsibility. Otherwise man can walk away without any consequences while woman need to risk her health.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:47 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:28 PM
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If you are not ready to take responsibility for a mistake then you're not an adult. If you spend your life savings in casino - you will not be refunded because you've made a mistake. If you deny responsibility for your own deed - then someone else has to take it, and the question is - why other people are supposed to be responsible for your dick ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:58 AM
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I am right leaning and I fully believe than man needs to take responsibility for his children. Even if guy does not want to live with mother of his child - he should take responsibility, we all know about possible consequences of sex, if you decide to do it - be ready to live with it if something goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:53 AM
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I'm not sure if I understand you correctly - but modern parents are more aware that internet is as harmful for children as alcohol, drugs and smoking. The parents that I know personally are doing parenting "old school" - we play board games, we invite kids to our houses or go play together, we encourage them to participate in group activities like sport/dancing/art. Basically everything to reduce exposition to online stuff and everything to give them as much contact with peers as possible. Ie. b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:22 AM
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It's at least moderated. Some spaces are 'moderated' in a way aimed at reinforcing extreme takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:01 AM
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Since we have children it is interesting to follow what is going on online regarding cultural changes and be able to somehow react when kids are exposed to toxic content. My lesson from following these spaces is that most important thing for parent is to keep kids in real life spaces. Both woke gaslighting from female dominated spaces and some in..l bs from male spaces are harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:57 AM
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So it's a more fancy name for being a functional adult ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:10 AM
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Lefties completely lack any self reflection and do not understand.people as living creatures. Example - nuclear power, majority of you is too young to remeber greenpeace idiots, but they were crusading against nuclear for decades. And ofc it was a gospel that nuclear is bad - no arguments, just moral superiority. We know the outcomes. Same with mass immigration. Lefties were wrong too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:22 PM
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When you know this song - it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:03 PM
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Comments are gold. Thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:57 PM
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Their feedback will not be genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:45 PM
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No pain no gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:39 PM
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Nerdy girls. I meet them sometimes working in IT and imo they are pretty much annoying and boring in the long run. Alt girls. They make the impression of being original, but quite often there is nothing behind the facade. Underrated: normie good girls. Plenty of these girls have interesting things going on about them, and are very often really talented academically, have huge knowledge in their proffession and are very down to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:34 PM
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I know 3 types - at least polish catholics: 1. Cultural - They go to church sometimes, but they do not care about faith or rules and in general are anti-clerical. They do not care about abortion. It's more just a loose tradition. 80% of people. 2. Bigots - they care about opinion of others and being seen as moral, but overall they are extremely selfish. These are prevalent in some regions. They care about abortion, but often follow some conspiracies or involve in hoaxes like chinese medicine. 3.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:12 PM
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If they refuse to help children in need then they commit the sin as well. But there is quite a lot of christian organizations worldwide that are helping families having disabled children. It's not that simple that all pro-life people are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:01 PM
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If you refuse to protect someone you also commit the sin of omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:52 PM
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The Godfather and Napoleon Dynamite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:50 PM
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Yes it's true - that is why I never trust in lefties superior morality. If they hate someone they attack like high school bullies - he's incel, autistic, fat etc. If he'd be short they would try to attack his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:55 AM
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Sad truth :) But if you're pretty good you can usually make a decent living out of it. But work-life balance is shitty if you want anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:52 AM
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I think some women do not like his right wing views, but he has tons of women simping anyway and considering him a savior, genius, saint etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:49 AM
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She was trying to obtain WEP key using ipr technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:37 AM
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Perfect woman - 180cm and 95 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:18 AM
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Bullying is not justified but world is not just - you can either adapt or suffer. Resentment alone is not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:33 AM
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In my experience you do not have to change your whole personality to succeed - as long as you are more or less 'normal'. It's enough to improve your appearance, get your shit together and gain some experience in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:54 PM
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Yes - i also have a feeling that most of redpillers discuss about improving, though there is not much action, but lot of self-pity about being wronged in childhood/adolescence. Some of these dudes however take action and it's good, it's at least better than some dissmissive romantic bs like 'be yourself'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:48 PM
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Not all boys are observant enough or care enough about building their own image. It's not pathetic - some boys are less assertive, so if mom tells them to 'learn, be nice, dress nice' they follow, some boys cannot afford having cool things so they miss out, some are subjected to very strict discipline etc. Girls are also excluded and rejected - but in romantic domain their shortcomings are sometimes even considered 'cute', while boys are just rejected and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:40 PM
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I'm <6ft and I was bald at 24 - fortunately I have terrible personality to offset for these flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:13 AM
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It should represent ability to properly handling your emotions - we have different personalities so we do it differently, some prefer being silent, some prefer talking, what is important is the outcome - that is keeping yourself improving your life and being overall content etc. Lefties twisted it into being soyboy following letist religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:03 AM
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You work in SAfe ? It's cancer ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:52 PM
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They are not reflective of single stories but in context of whole sprint or whole functionality they fit pretty well. When I estimate 200 SP i get capacity for 250-280 from PO and we are good to go. I need to provide some ranges for managers so they more or less can see the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:50 PM
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They've created sub with over 1M of users that is all about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:29 PM
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I'm scrum master and I need some numbers to not overload developers with work. If you are experienced technical scrum master then you can easily anticipate how many story points will be needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:27 PM
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I like the pretentious, emotional and PC language the most. It's like Wendy from South Park but irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:21 PM
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Post communist countries were a shitshow in the 90s and Putin due to luck managed to bring back some order. To give you perspective - when i got pair of sneakers worth 80$ from my uncle, i've sold them and bought myself cheap shoes. It was not worth risking being beaten with a baseball bat to show off at school. Police would do nothing - they were afraid even of minor thieves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:04 PM
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I've had bi girlfriend and dated 2 other bi girls for some time. For me bi=something wrong with her, either it's autism, introversion, some mental health problems or weird approach to sex. Only one girl i knew that was bi was normal - but she was kinda ugly and women were substitute, but once she glowed up she got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:28 PM
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I really like it and it pays well. It's chaotic, under pressure of time and lots of crystall ball reading, but I have quite cool people around, pretty much from all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:56 PM
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Drinking too much alcohol is like keeping yourself in permanent childhood. You will not allow yourself to grow up and learn to properly handle your emotions. There will be a moment in your life when this skill will be really needed - and at this very moment you may fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:20 PM
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I imagined being able to brush my hair. I feel a bit sad now, and disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:16 PM
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Deutsche Welle is one of the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:10 PM
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You cannot wear grey sweatpants in any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:53 PM
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Don't women in rural areas actually support conservative way of thinking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:55 PM
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This man is a God. Only Kanye is more God.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:11 PM
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Ok, but we would have to have children wiyh female users of this sub which is unacceptable. Male 4B.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:48 PM
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Feminists are crazy, not a partner material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:44 AM
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There is a lot of truth. My team(embedded engineers) is one of the best in the company, my teammates are: ex-taxi driver, ex-piano teacher, ex-farmer and only I have degree in cs but I used to be construction engineer lol. The older I am the more I see that either you have it in your genes or not, education in itself means nothing - educated guys are better because people with 'good genes' go to university, but they do not become smarter in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:54 AM
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It's the only sub where people discuss 'light' topics like male-female relations and are not completely crazy and hateful lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:29 PM
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I am lacking casual small talks. I work from home and my team is distributed around Europe. I can visit our office but it is usually empty, only some Ukrainian higher level managers are sitting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:20 PM
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Start travelling. Apart from having fun by travel itself, most likely you will sooner or later have sex with some drunk chick that is searching for herself in cheap european hostels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:51 PM
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I'm invited to my nephew's birthday - he is blackpilled and his younger brother is a Chad. My leftist female cousin will like always call me fascist, even though i'm not racist(contrary to her), everyone will say how great woman my wife is, that it's so good that i am not a bum, my brother will be indifferent and his Stacy wife will be patronizing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:31 PM
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I'm usually buying specific type of earrings and I order flowers. It's always 13 roses. Both earrings and flowers are references to specific events lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:20 PM
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Looks like latino men joined the bad guys club after supporting DT. Looks like Reagan was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:41 PM
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He had a good jaw line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:22 PM
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In Poland grades mean nothing - it's just for your private satisfaction. To get into university only anonymous test results are taken into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:26 PM
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Various research shows that women are far less likely than men to marry down regarding education.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:23 PM
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It's just a single campaign - and 'woke' at some point have been present everywhere. Including some weird educational experiments - all this is associated with democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:24 PM
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Actually I've seen some bloggers like Noah Smith(anti-Trumpist) accusing democrats of being too focused on culture wars and heavily criticizing them being taken over by 'woke' minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:11 PM
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Btw - it's interesting that shit content is promoted so hard. I mainly follow some stuff related to cars, sports and space observation, but still I from time to time get recommendations of some polyamory creeps and other weirdos lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:23 PM
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Many women are deep inside quite trad, even though they state otherwise in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:20 PM
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Yes - ownership. Female romance novel is pretty much about good looking men performing some spectacle to please women. Like a puppet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:09 PM
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Women do not want to watch attractive men fucking other women or showing their bodies in magazine. Women want these guys performing specfic actions towards them, they want full ownership of attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:01 PM
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It's not about work - as you say, making money is not gendered. But in dating world, private lives world - men still cannot afford too much weakness. Ie. depression in men is very looked down upon, being weak physically, being shy, making social faux pas etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:38 PM
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It is pretty clear imo - but it's not something you can solve by policies. Men want to challenge cultural gender norms in the same way as feminists challenged female gender roles. Men are under pressure to express traditional masculinity, but it is getting harder due to rising role of women in society. Ofc no one will put men in prison for not being masculine - but society will put a 'loser' label on them if they don't. There is also quite a lot of contradictory expectations put on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:14 PM
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<image> This is diagram from Sweden. USA is lagging most likely due to racial differences - but non-white population is declining in birth rates very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:45 PM
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The thing is - humans are monogamous species, we have small sexual dimorphism and human offspring requires enormous effort to reach maturity. It is even visible in changing stats regarding number of children in developed countries. As contraception became widely available - most educated women tend be married at highest rate, and also tend to have more children. You can clearly see the pattern - more monogamy=more children. We may expect that humans will become only even more monogamous. Sperm v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:32 PM
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It happens exactly to the same extent - just women have higher standards of what is attractive to them, therefore majority knows that there is no chance of getting a guy who will bring attention by his looks alone. Then women go the guys who at least have good jobs, status, are popular. At very last place there is actual personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:53 AM
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I am not talking about wanting attractive partner. I am talking about women objectifying men in the exactly same manner as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:46 AM
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Women also want attractive partners to show up. For women having really handsome partner is even more validating since such guys are really rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:29 AM
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Tbh - I am not sure if guys who are obsessed with women and pedestalize them, really do care about "women" themselves or do they care about the status that comes with having attractive partner ? Women obviously think in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:28 AM
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They've got their lives back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:17 AM
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Natural Born Killers, Leon the Proffesional, Clerks, Pulp Fiction, Interview with Vampire, Shawshank Redemption is just 1994 alone. 90s were literally the best decade of movies, economics, politics and probably even dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:10 AM
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My friend got married to Colombian 8/10. While still in Poland he could get even 4/10 girls so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:03 AM
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Christianity is a spin-off of Ancient Greek philisophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:09 PM
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"Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:55 PM
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I don't - I believe in equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:34 PM
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Nothing can be done. I have a theory that majority of dating problems is an aftermath of 2008 financial crisis. Uncertainity and anxiety prevented whole generation from forming families and this anxiety is passed to gen z. Job markets are changing rapidly and it's very easy to become obsolete. So people prefer hookups to avoid any obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:18 PM
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There is more of such ecosystems in the universe than hair on your head. It's irrelevant if you care or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:51 PM
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For me this concern about 'climate change' is hilarious. Even if earth will be too hot for some time, it doesn't make a difference in context of billions of years. Majority of species will go extinct anyway - only humans care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:28 PM
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1-2 points higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:55 PM
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There is more than enough men in this world who give fatties royal treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:53 PM
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It's not wrong to want Chad treatment. People need to have dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:42 PM
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Naver - I'm not patient at all, if things don't go very well from the start I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:28 PM
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You can farm some karma on TwoX ranting about how it's the fault of all men that you've deliberately chosen the worst deadbeat in 50 miles radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:33 PM
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They will be very surprised about this discount lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:03 PM
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Yep - but tall women do not care about smart men, they care about even taller men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:46 PM
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Men really go to Baltics ? Women there are tall af.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:43 PM
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Bottom right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:03 PM
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I think that Girls were far better. SATC characters are shallow and pretty annoying. Bunch of ugly-to-mid, lazy, shallow and quite stupid women looking for handsome sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:57 PM
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Agree. Except these experiences are not unique to North America, and not unique for gen z. When I read these guys - I went through exactly the same shit in dating 20 years ago, because it's just normal experience of young guy. Problem with Red Pill is that they think that western women are somehow 'broken' nowadays and it goes into conspiracy theory stating 'decline of the west'. There are some crazy women nowadays for sure and social media reinforce extreme views, but young girls were always gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:27 PM
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Me neither - but I find this pill stuff quite interesting. Red Pill has some good takes - Blue Pill is garbage and gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:53 PM
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Go to Korea - you will meet guys who look 25 but are 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:16 PM
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Actually it might work. I've put a lab picture in my OLD profile once - and pharmacy/chemistry/med students started writing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:15 PM
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If you're handsome you can draw atention by playing instrument, but there is plenty of guitarcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:41 PM
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In my case - at every point of my life I have one woman that I hang out with, you may call it a friendship, but for me it's a bit like having a sister. I simply like taking care a bit for such girl/woman, help, support, listen to her problems but there will never be any romantic move from my side, I am actually happy when they have a cool boyfriend or get married. It is my selfish need to take care of someone and women are more willing to accept such arrangement, but I also helped one guy with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:13 AM
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You mean - women are only good when young, small and white ? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:55 PM
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I didn't dated girls who have mid/ugly face. I don't care about extra weight - but plain face is a no. It was a good deal - my son is cute lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:36 PM
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Second option but not waiting for too long with family. If woman is assuming having first child at 35 or 40 then majority of commitment oriented men will run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:57 AM
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Looking at my wife with slight fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:17 PM
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I remeber when pack of Marlboro was 1.5 eur, it was too expensive so i was smoking L&M for 1 eur lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:14 PM
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Right middle is Anna Sorokin, right top is Brenda Spencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:11 PM
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It could be worse - you could be a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:37 PM
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Do not worry my friend - number of fast food 'restaurants' grows exponentially around Europe. One day everything will be America.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:11 PM
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Single people live different lifestyles than coupled people - it is totally justified to expect that partner will spend time with you. If you wish to keep single lifestyle - stay single, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:48 PM
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All of this is true - but on the other hand, they are grown ass men. Adult people usually pay the price for doing dumb things - and their price is being used, I feel sorry for them being dumb, and we should educate men - but imo there will always be more than enough orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:21 PM
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If this would be only about getting laid then it'll be fine. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. But these fools really like these women and really want real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:18 PM
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Feminism is not about equality - it's about making situation of women better no matter the cost. Feminists repeat that feminism does not care about men. Imo feminism is outdated - such views made sense in 1970s when women by default were discriminated everywhere, now it's far more complex and we cannot make such assumption anymore. It should be replaced by egalitariansim focused on specific groups of both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:02 PM
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you wouldn't give a fuck about some chick personality if you would be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:10 PM
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Not attractive people want to be like attractive people - it's very common thing. But you can be attractive only by being born attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:59 PM
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Apps do not encourage any deep thought since it's purely visual. I was using old school dating portal and I was messaging only girls I could relate to somehow, like regarding music, job, views, hobbies etc. If apps would be more focused on description and less on photos then guys could've been more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:24 AM
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It's not about women imo - it's about stability and purpose. Giving men direction and stability will benefit women, it's not the zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:41 AM
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Maybe to break some things ? We've had the same issue in Poland. There was a conservative center-right party ruling, but they were still repeating "can't do" and "we need to support business". Far right party came here and said - "we can do, from now on we will care about poor people". Ofc they cared about business - but also opposed illegal migration, invested in military and reduced poverty among children. They've said many things that other politicians were thinking but were too afraid to spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:38 AM
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I do not have the research - but 'typical single mom' i know about, are without exception girls who were abused as children. I have a cousin in US who is like that - but tbh, there were nobody to show her how to make right decisions. Her father was drunk all the time and her mother was working 12h a day 6 days a week. So she was drinking and smoking weed since being 15. Girls from good homes do not have 3 baby daddies. They have six figures incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:30 AM
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Making more men resentful and disappointed isn't the way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:10 AM
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I do not think that many men believe he will fix things, but they are sure that democrats won't fix things for them and they are just willing to give him a shot again. It's the same in Europe - old establishment is innefective and making the same mistakes, so new ideas emerged from far-right and were quickly adapted by mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:07 AM
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Usually they are in between good and mediocre - but yeah, interns very often suck no matter the nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:46 PM
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Usually Poles, Indians, Ukrainians, sometimes people from Turkey, Egypt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:35 PM
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Yes - alcoholism is quite common, along with burnout and being just crazy. One dude in my office is blessing laptops every morning to make builds passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:09 PM
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Idk about fizzbuzz - but there is plenty of applicants for embedded developer positions(C,C++) who do not know about bitwise operators or ie. ternary operator. They have no idea what C macro is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:37 PM
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I've started understanding why women do not want to date tech bros. When times were good - like 3 years ago, almost everyone had bloated ego and they were unbearable with their bragging about money and didn't giving a f..k at work. Now when there is a bit worse situation - still far better than other industries, they act like the world has ended and they've made biggest mistake by not becoming a cardiac surgeons(yes, they really believe that they would be able to become physicians just like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:20 PM
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Single mom willing to have more kids. Shit happens in life, life in general is shitty sometimes and kids make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:51 PM
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Current reddit consensus is 30. According to reddit 30 yo woman can safely enter age gap relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:55 PM
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Hitler was ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:36 PM
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Idk about US - but in Krakow there were 2 bars(not the cleanest ones tbh) where such things were happening, plus foreign 'tourists' were banging at hostels, actually majority of casual sex were backpackers of various sort, local girls preferred not to risk 'slut' etiquette. Anyway - there were no actual Chads nor Stacies in there, just plain people who were drunk and stoned lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:26 PM
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Sure - I do not want to put kids into nightclubs or some unlimited alcohol hotels(actually these ones are full of children lol), but I've seen 'no children' day in the pool, and there is growing trend of setting up cafes where kids are not welcome, and normal hotels - not having anything adult specific in their offer are also excluding kids. I can imagine that having zones with any other group excluded would spark public outrage - but excluding kids is fine. Besides it shows how adult people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:22 AM
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My 5 yo son was recently outraged by discovering 'adults only' hotels. Even though such hotels are not really anything bad - existence of such places shows that all this talk about 'empathy' is by large just empty talk. Modern people, especially young and wealthy, demand empathy for their own quirks, but are unable to put themselves in the shoes of children or older people, quite contrary - they show hostility towards such groups and are proud if they can mock or exclude these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:27 AM
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From my personal experience majority of women do not have casual sex, so it cannot be any test for desirability since it will just not happen no matter what. Girls who have casual sex usually do it in social settings like parties or clubs, and standards vary, some just fuck first not ugly guy that hits on her. Ultimate test for female desirability is if guy is willing to marry her and really take a risk of merging finances, starting a family and having mortgage together. And this is the moment w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:43 AM
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Alt guys are also conventionally attractive, criteria are even harsher due to changing trends. Ville Valo was 'alt' but this guy was just handsome, femboy types are also good looking, imagine balding alt dude with a belly lol. He would not be slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:50 AM
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I know how to compose female outfits, choose the right clothes, choose glasses frames, jewellery etc. My wife appreciates it - but for getting chicks its useless, you cannot tell the girl that her shoes do not match and are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:34 AM
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Nothing - I appreciate being mentally stable, typical romantic gestures do not have much meaning for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:16 AM
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I discuss politics only in very tight, homogenous and male only circle. When women bring up such topics i usually try to kill it asap, because i know where this will lead to and that this is dangerous ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:03 PM
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Men are not always taken more seriously. If there will be 2 candidates for manager position - and both will be 23, woman will be taken more seriously as being more mature and responsible. If she is good looking - man would not stand a chance. Older guys oth have more advantage over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:54 AM
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My wife used to constantly complain about me eating some cookies that she was eating once in a 3 months and we were usually throwing them away. But they've had to be there just in case she might want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:48 AM
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Dating is easy for women, no doubt about it and female dating problems are usually a result of being shitty person that normal guys are avoiding. Otherwise - not much can fuck it up for woman who has basic common sense and no deformities. In job market - mixed feelings, it's easier for woman to be mediocre in tech since women are hard to be fired in big companies, but also it's harder for woman to make a bigger career as typical engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:40 AM
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There is no rich country that is severely discriminating women. These outliers are countries rich in oil, like Saudi Arabia which is roughly at level of Spain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:24 AM
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Women have rights because they are needed to do the skilled work. You cannot reach the status of developed country without women being educated and working. But it's also unsustainable in the long run due to low birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:15 AM
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I'd never date IT girl - either vegan girlboss weirdos or introverted weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:51 PM
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Wasn't the case - girls had precise pecking order.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:52 AM
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Such guy is a treasure - there is always hot girl that is into him, and hot girls always have less pretty(but still hot) friends as a background. So number of girls in social circle is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:22 AM
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I do not care, my wife was a smoker when we've met - majority of uni girls here were smokers when i was in my 20s. However price of cigarettes is so high that less people smoke now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:45 AM
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That is a bit different than attitude of polish/ukrainian women. They are rarely insecure about their looks, it's rather used as a tool to be higher in pecking order or to get the right tier of a man, but not really a source of validation. Quite often they do not give af after getting married or once getting the higher job status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:47 AM
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I am personally quite curious why the 'relationship machine' seem to not be working that good anymore for 20-30 yo. people, when I was 24-28 I didn't know even one guy who would be single, but now my male coworkers are almost all single. These guys are not some weird spergs - quite the opposite, they have good jobs, are fun to be around, are athletic - in my times there would be no chance for them to be single. My local observation leads to conclusion that men didn't changed much in their life g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:17 AM
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It's just bluepill babbling. I know plenty of normie dudes who are fit, have jobs, care about hygiene(lol), have friends - but this is not enough in big city my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:01 PM
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Social skills are broad term - not every flavor of social skills fits everywhere. Some women fall for gentlemen, some prefer rednecks, you can be considered cool guy in one place and complete pussy in another. Problem starts when you do not fit anywhere. Definitions of social skills given by women here are pure trash, you can disregard them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:37 PM
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Tbh - girls i was dating were very similar, they were cute, smart etc. but i wouldn't say there was any quality that would make some 'wow' effect. So there is sort of baseline acceptable personality, but the rest is about looks. I've rejected girls who were ok but since i've had option for better looking girl - i didn't think twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:02 PM
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None - i really do not fall for personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:57 PM
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I've noticed funny thing about boys and girls (5-7 yo) - boys can play with other kids immediately even if they do not know each other, while girls first reaction towards stranger is usually hostile or indifferent. But when they know each other - girls are almost lovebombing and showing lots of affection, while boys do not differ that much from default.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:06 AM
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Bs - women glorify motherhood like it is some goddamn winter campaign until kid is 18, while efforts done by fathers is always 'bare minimum'. I was taking care of newborn and toddler including getting up at night to feed and then I was driving to work at 6AM being only breadwinner. Hardcore part ends at 3 yo. and hard part ends at 5 yo - later it is a walk in the park. The amount of demonising and fearmongering around parenting among young women is reaching the levels of absurd - young women no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:35 AM
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Pig - it fits me well, i enjoy company, fun and i'm pretty enhusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:05 AM
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Good looking gf is a chick magnet and regular sex is also good for mental health, so she is worth keeping while looking for a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:03 AM
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I don't think men care much about these personality traits. Men want good looking women, more or less on their intellectual level, it is still a feat to get such girl so adding submissive/dominant bs to the mix will make it almost impossible. Guys get what is given and do not care too much about it. As redpillers say - look at what they are doing, not at what they are saying. In practice if girl reciprocates interest and is not an ugly dumbass, guy will go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:27 AM
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Yes - this is asshole behavior and no one with basic social skills will say that. But not all people understand that politeness is not the truth, so they got bitter when seeing the truth which is pretty simple - hot people date hot people and dating market is pretty harsh for everyone except best looking people. I personally prefer the world where not everything is explicitly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:21 PM
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I think that some men and women do not really get that you simply cannot explicitly state your preferences irl because it might make people upset and insecure. It doesn't matter that this is just theoretical talk - if you say something about not dating fat girls in front of fat girl, then it's not nice, the same with short guys, poor guys etc. So guys get bitter when girl says some vague stuff about personality, but she is dating only handsome guys at some specific salary level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:08 PM
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I'm 41, my wife is 38. If I would for some reason have to date again, then 'for real' that is with thinking about starting a family, i'd go for 31-36 yo. For fun and having a nice time it might by up to 45. Women are attractive even in their 50s, but for obvious reasons there is a limit when men no longer consider women a potential for marriage/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:29 AM
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I'm into chubby women, no weight loss needed. Though ofc i'm realist so if this is bad for health then i will support weight loss, titties are less important than health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:47 AM
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Woke is dead. Pronouns also disappeared from linkedin, Europe is becoming very right-wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:26 AM
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But you need to hate-men to fit the ideal of bkue haired feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:11 PM
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It's not really masculine voice - I know plenty of girls with much lower voice pitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:09 PM
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Do you know any blue haired feminist ? With actually blue hair, man-hating views and septum ring? I know only one woman fitting this description but she has 3 kids and goes to church every Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:55 PM
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There is plenty of men who were not bullied nor rejected, but they simply look down on women without any clear reason. They consider them dumb and shallow - even own wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:38 PM
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It looks like written by redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:34 PM
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Looks like going to the gym vastly improved his emotional intelligence and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:22 PM
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Some women are childish and think that they can somehow fill the nice but empty packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:56 PM
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His resilience is indeed impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:52 PM
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Patriarchy is a necessity but patriarchs can(and actually are) be female and the lines dividing dominating groups and the rest of people are not drawn between sexes but by social classes and to some degree competencies. We need accumulation of capital and power in order to have effective capitalistic system, and that leads inevitably to creation of ruling class. Let's take law enforcement as an example of men not being the only keepers of social structure - women take huge part in it working as …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:58 AM
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Your husband remark about men pretending that non-tattooed women are children is far in weird territory tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:42 PM
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It's not a bad investment. Women put more value on small age gap and physical appearance than some exceptional money. Majority of guys will not make it big, but they look good and are close mentally to women their age and will make enough to make a living. Majority of women will also not get millionaire - since these guys are scarce, and still majority of them have partners they are not willing to dump. So most likely the outcome of waiting at finish line would be getting average guy but older, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:15 AM
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Majority of men never get successful - they pretty much copy their social class or in rare cases move up one level, actually women climb the ladder more often nowadays. So the safest assumption is that guy will be the same as his parents, therefore they can totally invest in guy when they are young. Majority of women are not supermodels either - even if woman is slim, majority of women are just pretty short, average face, short legs, skin problems - they walk the streets unnoticed. Waiting at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:11 AM
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It's general tendency, not really exclusive to social media. There is sort of 'goodness extremism' that goes into delusion ignoring quite obvious facts. It's like with open doors policy towards everyone - liberal politicians tried to convince Europeans that low-educated people who interpret Quran almost literally will for sure turn into liberal feminist men once they will see how good people in Europe are doing. Meanwhile they've considered European women whores and men cucks, and whole culture …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:21 PM
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We all do know that majority of porn is regular mainstream stuff involving people doing it for years and having sort of fame, they are running their instagram and twitter accounts to promote their business. Majority of porn is made in Europe and US where rape is punished. Rape porn is degenerate stuff watched by degenerates who look specifically for it, and its small market. It's not morality that is driving anti-porn. There is way more porn haters online than fast fashion haters - meanwhile it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:47 AM
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If they do not want to control them then why they care ? Besides womem do it too - all these anti-porn women are eager to control male brains, they are deeply upset when men have their own thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:23 PM
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Not at all. I think that behind this hate of 'sluts', there is a need to own and control female body. Some guys have a hard time accepting the fact that woman can do whatever she wants with her pussy and it's not really your business. It is not limited to religious guys - but rather specific for 'nice guys', behind this pedestalizing of women and false care about their safety, or false care about morality, there is a need to claim exclusive ownership over female body. I do not care about it too …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:52 PM
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I find incel/blackpill terminology amusing. Apart from currycel and ricecel, another funny term is 'kissless hugless virgin', like it is not enough for them to say 'i'm virgin'. The misery needs to be celebrated and it has to be emphasised that normal virgin is a rookie, real deal is being also 'hugless and kissless'. I know it's sad to be hugless, but i can help myself to find this self-derogatory term a sort of dark humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:33 PM
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Yes. My favorite side to pickled herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:00 PM
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I'm not old enough to know about it - I'm on 'The Creature Cases' level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:49 PM
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My wife is studying now with younger people, and in her group of ~100 people there is 30 guys, I think 3 of them have model-tier look, actually one of them is doing modelling. So these girls see guys like this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:17 PM
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Majority of people have decent facial attractiveness and acceptable proportions - but excessive fat is ruining it for them, I very often see cute girls who would look great losing 20kg(not really being into athletic territory), same with guys - dude has nice hair and everything is fine, but he is too fat. I am going mainly to avoid the fate of my dad who was obese at 40 and this ruined his health, I do not even have mild hypertension while my dad was taking medication being my age. I do not care…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:01 PM
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I have a woman in my family who seems to be having similar problem. She is one of these independent women, into feminism, psychology, veganism and stuff - and she is looking for partners who will share similar views to her, communicate in similar way and give her a lot of space for her passions. Once she is finding such dude - she is not attracted to him, it is visible how bored she is. What really turns her on are guys who are most stereotypical masculine guys - fit, having careers, money, ener…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:14 AM
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I think they are aware, but they are not willing to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:26 AM
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First emotion says "no", but I think that most likely yes. Girls I've met before my wife were really ok - only reason that I didn't marry any of them was me being a bit too immature. But otherwise everything was in place - I have the type of women that I like and who like me, and I am easy to get along with so quite a lot of people may be having matching personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:45 PM
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There is no such things like "talking to women" - majority of people have acceptable personality, sure there are differences between social classes, but within single social/cultural background - people act and think in pretty similar way. Whole game is about physical attractiveness - if you look good you will have more chances, because being good looking is way more rare than being good person and partner material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:03 AM
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I would prefer being picked - but by girl who values practical aspects of relationship, like she genuinely appreciates education, ability to make money, being good with doing household chores, cooking, ability to compromise etc. Women who are only into physical aspect or some quirk won't make me happy, even if this fascination would be genuine - I want to be appreciated for things I personally value and I really value people who are putting effort. I hate cluttered space, I do not like to live o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:37 AM
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I would look like Alica Schmidt - my everyday style would be preppy/girly leaning. I would spent lot of time taking care of my appearance since it's great capital and requires maintenance. Purpose of my style would be appealing to most people, especially the ones with money and some power, my looks would be just another tool on job/life market. Having such looks I would be ruthless in dating: only tall guys, only fit guys - but fit from sports like tennis, running or rowing not due steroids and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:35 AM
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It's the price we pay for freedom and lack of social control. If some random dude would show his d..k to some girl in xix century village, he would got beaten by her father or brothers and could become outcast, the same with girl who would decide to sell magic crystals to local idiots instead of helping on farm and raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:04 PM
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I am not labeling all women as weirdos, probably more than half is more or less inside what we call 'the norm', but being crazy is just more prevalent than one might expect. It's probably the same with men. I personally think it says something meaningful - my wife met quite a lot of creeps before meeting me, and i've met a lot girls completely detached from reality. Reason is not that common. Look at how many people believe in anti-science or conspiracies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:50 PM
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If this would be about dozen of weirdos then no problem, but scale seems to be much bigger which is disturbing, not only due to dating market but in general it seems that being nutjob is quite prevalent among both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:24 PM
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It doesn't. Dismantling of male patriarchy will also not benefit men since only gender of people on top will change, I do not think feminists will dismantle capitalism or liberal democracies and without dismantling it we will still live in patriarchal society, just more patriarchs will be female.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:33 PM
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I've seen article that in America 10% of men are not employed and not looking comparing to 2.5% in 50s. But some of them may be sahd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:19 PM
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Women are excited by upper middle class lifestyle, if guy also knows how to dance and knows basic aesthetics they get super excited. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:53 PM
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One thing that is most impressive in women is their ability to survive and even to thrive in boring environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:41 PM
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Probably quite a lot of men here had their period of being a loser(at least I had one) and some didn't grow out of resentment towards society/women for being rejected in the past even though this shit is behind them. They should forget it - otherwise they will forever be incels, even while having wives, jobs, fancy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:33 PM
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I totally agree with key role of parents, but now usually both parents are working, so one of the stops while coming back from school is fast food joint, these places are like centers for socializing of teenagers. If you have the row of kfc, mcd, bk and god knows how many other places, it is pretty natural for kids to stop there. Some people working with addictions claim that longer road to purchase alcohol has significant impact on alcholism. We saw it in case of cigarettes, the more expensive …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:35 PM
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No design can change the simple fact that gaining knowledge requires effort. The main problem is lack of effort from boys side, not the books, teachers, system, whatever. Boys require more discipline. Everyone hates this word but this is sad reality, it does not kill creativity - it enables it by giving kids the right tools and show them how far the starting point of valuable creativity is located. They need to know which doors were open to start opening new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:36 PM
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If guy is not into this girl he will move slowly, after all better option may happen. They can be couple for 7 years and proposal will never happen, but when he will meet the right girl he will propose quickly Guys are slow to leave girls they care about or if they lack options. If guy doesnt care and has some backup he will pack in 15 minutes and forget about ex 3 day later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:00 PM
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Finland fell significantly in PISA scores. Best results are achieved in countries with culture of cramming schools. Ie. Poland also has such culture, though less extreme than Korea and it scores higher than Finland even though education spending is fraction of Finnish. If you want boys to succeed you have to force them and parents have to be active in keeping them disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:26 PM
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All this batman universum is so nihilstic like it was tailored to appeal to incels and blackpillers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:22 PM
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There is more than enough mean Karens that do not care about good personality or intellect. Good looking guy will always get laid with no problem, ugly guy will always struggle since many specific things about him must appeal to very specific woman. He may be just unlucky and never meet such person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:20 PM
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Allowing for that situation. Fast food and junk food is actively advertised towards children and no action is done. Shit like candies and batons are always placed on low shelves so kids will notice them. McDonalds has happy meal and is using toktok celebrities to promote themselves. We do not allow 17 yo to buy beer, but 12 yo can buy as much junk food as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:01 PM
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Yes - hot guy need to be real retard to do bad with women, ugly guy needs a lot to make up for ugliness. Since majority of people finish their intellectual development at the age of 12, we end up with appearance being one and only important factor in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:50 PM
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It is projected that childhood obesity in Europe will rise by 60% till 2035. It is a crime against children. Unfortunately my personal observations confirm - fast food chains are growing like cancer everywhere and big group of clients are kids and teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:41 PM
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Society is worthless so are their advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:19 AM
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I've put a dead wasp on a toy car that my annoying cousin was playing with. I knew that dead wasps still bite, and i knew that he was so dumb that he didn't know that. My mom said that she is both proud and worried. Oh and I've lent guy from my hs class 50 eur so he can lose virginity with a prostitute. But maybe it was actually a good deed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:50 PM
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The problem is that these feelings are precisely caused by a fact that no one considers you good enough to be their partner, you are respected as a human, but not a single person wants intimacy with you. That is very often one and only reason, no hidden mental health issues. Some people are capable of deriving sense of worth from other sources, like some catholic priests - but after some time majority of them end up either with having partners, or they start drinking and visiting prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:19 PM
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This is not the same. For some reason romantic context is usually reserved for one, carefully chosen person - other contexts are open to many people. Even parental love can be given to many people, some of whom can be biologically not related. Romantic love is very special, that is why it is not widely distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:00 PM
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No hard feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:24 PM
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Same price in PL, though its called 2 for You.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:33 PM
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I appreciate your consistency in using males and women Approaching should not be gendered, my personal and unscientific evidence shows that women who approach, clean up the market from best guys and sometimes even from acceptable guys. We are living in hard times for people who are passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:46 PM
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There is no such turn, there is plenty of non-white migrants here. There is only turn against illegal immigration through Belarus, and it's pretty much political issue. It's about showing that Belarussian dictator cannot fuck with our govt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:00 AM
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This is the biggest issue in Poland in this week: <image> One company introduced alcoholic drinks in sachets, they look like sachets for kids and it sparked enormous moral panic. Looks like we've turned into boring country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:20 AM
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Marriage is a very serious business contract and you do not make serious business contracts with someone you consider just a fun chick to have sex with and do weekend trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:08 AM
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Looks like at least half of redpillers are closeted blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:54 AM
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Isn't it contradicting the RedPill assumption that all women have unlimited options ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:48 AM
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I know too many guys who went from teenage nerds towards grown up and mature men, who have their own families and enjoy their lives, to agree with that. You cannot make yourself taller, but you can lose your weight, dress better, try new things and make yourself comfortable in social situations, get better haircut, get education, have a career. Many guys do not believe in themselves - so they slack at school, are afraid to go to the gym, are afraid to dress fashionable, are afraid to join some g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:31 AM
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I imagined girl keeping the altar with candles around the photos and big sentence above: "Pro Memoria Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:39 PM
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If guy is average in every aspect and passive - he will fail. If guy excels in something or is good looking but passive - he may have a chance. If guy is average and active - he has 100% chance to have success at some point If guy is ugly but excels at something and is active - he will also succeed If guy sucks at everything but is active - he has smaller chance of success, but i would etimate at 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:36 PM
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That is why no guy should try for more than 2 weeks. If nothing happens in 2 weeks then most likely it won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:15 PM
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It's true that money itself do not spark attraction, but it may draw attention to you. Majority of men are invisible to women, since they are not scanning their surroundings, but if you show up somewhere in new Porsche, you are dressed up well, you are well taken care of, you are known locally for being successful - women will notice that and you are more likely to be given a chance. Even through some familiarity effect - everyone knows who you are, so it's safer to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:00 PM
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It's a sign of progress but it's unsustainable. Looks like humans by large do not have so called 'maternal instinct', the children happened due to sex drive and lack of protection. Since we have a means to satisfy sexual needs but without consequence - we are in situation where we've destroyed mechanism that was driving our reproduction. Some speculate that some of us have separate instinct to have children, not related to sex drive - and at some point those who have this genes will pass them fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:19 AM
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I think that you underestimate effects of obesity and overestimte effects of pregnancy. Obesity wrecks havoc in your body - loose skin, diabetes, high blood pressure, coronary heart disease, ruined hormonal balance, ruined joints - all these things destroy you and can even lead to depression. It's extremely hard to loose weight and majority of people fail to do it. Even if they succeed in rare cases - health impact stays with them forever. Like recovered drug addicts or people who managed to fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:07 AM
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Zoomers are terrified of everything that is impossible to escape from, they have tendency to escape when something is uncomfortable - one click and some person is blocked, one decision and you quit your job, you can escape from office to home office. I think it is related to epidemic of anxiety - people suffering from anxiety tend to have escapist thoughts, it's hard to escape your kid or getting old so it terrifies them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:22 AM
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Yes - but primary reason of gaining weight is eating excessive amounts of low quality food. Women in Japan are also getting pregnant yet they are keeping healthy weight(though some ofc gain weight, its inevitable). My point is that women are making far worse decisions affecting their health than having children, while gaining nothing. What can you gain from eating BigMac ? But for some reason pregnancy and having children is presented like being almost a death warrant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:34 AM
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I think that women suffer more health damage from frequenting McDonald's than from pregnancies, yet they seem to be perfectly happy to risk their lives and ruin their bodies to have frozen fries with lowest quality minced beef drowned in shitty mayo dressing. Having children is way more rewarding than cheeseburgers tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:59 AM
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Being good person will make a good partner, but it won't make you attractive partner - you cannot circumvent physical aspect with personality. Would you date 400 lbs woman who is a great person ? Most likely not. Women sometimes make decision that it's better to have appealing partner who is shitty person, they will complain but it's still better deal for them than NPC dude. I do not blame them, many guys also go for crazy chicks. Majority though want the whole package - whether it is always pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:21 AM
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In Poland violent crime is really low, like homicide rate is around 0.6/100000 comparing to 6 in US, but it wasn't always like that - 90s were crazy and it was scary to walk the street with new shoes on. What's changed is that now it's very easy for young man to get a job and make relatively good living, also firearms are very hard to get, and selling drugs is severely punished, doing heroin is in general looked down upon, we also have free education and pretty good system of education for adult…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:15 AM
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That's how heaven looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:17 AM
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Passport bros are just kind of sex tourists - they use their money to get pussy in poor countries. All their talk about 'hypergamy' and 'traditonalism' and other shit means that they are unable to buy/get pussy in the 1st world since they have nothing to offer that may appeal to western women. Or they can only get unattractive women, since they are unattractive themselves. If you ask me - I think that overall women in the west are pretty much ok, I do not give af what Chads or any other made up …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:01 PM
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Location, it must be having enough women and also must fit culturally Being around women, that is proffesion, hobbies Being open and good talker might help, but it has to be appreciated. It's not always the case. Status - it always helps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:18 PM
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I cannot help because for me it is enough when partner is there and has some wishes/preferences to be fulfilled. I prefer partners who are more passive/submissive in bed and for me it works pretty well, I can do the job for both of us. I guess the key is to find the right partner - but in my experience women rather prefer to be passive and enjoy caress/stimulation, maybe men expect it as well, but it's not my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:15 PM
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I think that is is way more likely to have high self-esteem if you consider yourself hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:37 PM
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The graphs presented by u/obviousredflag state otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:26 PM
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I wonder if faces had makeup on. If so - then imperfections of male faces might skew the result, while women are able to emphasize good features while hide bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:24 PM
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Btw it is really weird that assessment of female faces seem to be having normal distribution, while male not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:20 PM
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Women report same rate of loneliness as men do and also it's not that obvious that women find fulfillment in career or friends. It's even reflected in pop culture: movies, music, books, addressed to female audience are very often centered around romance, women are more involved in gender studies and are heavily debating relationships with men(including romantic ones), even childless women very often work in fields related to working with children. Like it or not - men are very interesting to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:15 AM
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I couldn't really afford sex work lol, but in general i was partying a bit, smoking weed and there were always girls interested in giving bj or some other stuff. Kids are curious and i was cute and pretty harmless, so there were not much risk that i will try rape or smth(such guys were not invited anyway). My wife is one of 3 women in my life i've considered seriously as life parters. I've offered her everything i am able to offer, way more than other women. In sex as well since we know each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:06 AM
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As a teenager I wanted to be jacked, have lot of money, live in warm place, smoke pot, never get into relationship and bang hot prostitutes, maybe even run my own porn site. That was my ideal. Later I've became normiest normie experimenting with variety of kinks, but in totally monogamous and loving relationship. I think majority of men want to be normies, have a lot of money, love one woman and have non-boring sex with this person. Rest is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:42 PM
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I like to look at good looking couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:35 PM
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Emotional Intelligence has pretty clear definition - yet popular understanding of this term usually means that people behave how person talking about Emotional Intelligence thinks they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:27 PM
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You need to participate to know who you want and who might be interested in you. No other way than practice - even this so called 'game' is nothing more than ability to just hold conversation. How can you learn it without practice ? I think what many guys are worried about is that it is very unpleasant to find yourself in social situations that you are not familiar with and have no experience in dealing with. I can understand that - socially awkward men are penalized more heavily than socially a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:18 AM
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I think that human nature is unfortunately unfavorable for women and it manifests in culture. Either society is dominated by men or it dies out. It's sad because it would be better to have truly equal and sustainable socities, but it just do not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:46 PM
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It reminds me the old fearmongering that Mortal Kombat and Doom will turn teenagers into murderers. After many years it turned out that violence among teenagers actually went down. Porn is just fantasy world and everyone knows that - people have their fantasies, regarding sex as well and sometimes these fantasies might seem degrading or weird for people who are not sharing them, but for 'insiders' it's just fun and pleasure. Yes - some people take things further and try BDSM ie. but such practic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:10 PM
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If niche is gender balanced or female dominated then yeah, chances are bigger - but if this is a sausage fest, chances are close to zero and standards skyrocket. In my metalhead days girls that were into this scene were not even looking at guys below 190 cm(6'2) - it was a magnet for female height fetishist lol. My niche was being normie looking(no tattoos, bit preppy) - but I'm also atheist and culturally liberal(i support gay marriage, pro-choice etc.) but I also value money and nice things, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:24 PM
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In Poland it's reverse. Men donate 40% more than women, though both genders are as likely to donate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:31 PM
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If you ask me - 95% of female dating advice can be discarded(you can only take advice regarding your wardrobe and only from women who lack any quirks but are 100% normie - not reddit). Women in general have no clue how dating other women looks like, and their talks with friends are bs, these theoretical talks usually are not applied in the 'field'. But you can also discard 70% of dating advice from men. There is no other way for you to learn other than by own practice and own mistakes. Most like…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:57 AM
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I was wondering why European netflix shows are more fun for me to watch than American ones. I think the difference is that American shows are also didactic tool and are much more loaded with social/political stuff, not only the new ones but very old ones as well. European productions are rather just lightweight entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:29 AM
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It's much less of a problem once you are past 26-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:01 PM
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I have similar opinion - if IQ is not paired with 'social intelligence', it may end up being 'incelligence', that is narrow specialized set of skills that sometimes are even useless on job market. Or even if they are useful such person may end up lacking basic knowledge about obvious things(popular music, movies, ways if spending free time, manners etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:39 PM
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IQ test is not extremely accurate, but in general it is good predictor of proffesional success. Physicians have much higher IQ than janitors, and it is unlikely for someone of average IQ to become PhD. Ability of solving abstract problems is crucial for majority of white collar jobs. I see it in my job - motivation, social skills are helpful - but if your brain lacks the horsepower you will end up frustrated and burned out. Unfortunately genes play a role - the higher the complexity, the more na…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:16 PM
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Majority of couples I know have man making 3-20× more than woman, and they are doing well. 3 couples were woman was making significantly more - are now divorced, women found parters on their financial level. Women have 2 major insecurities - shorter partner and partner making less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:20 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/14/as-u-s-marriage-rate-hovers-at-50-education-gap-in-marital-status-widens/ IQ is correlated with education level, and more educated women are more likely to be married and have lasting marriages. It may be linked to better financial situation of such couples which means at least one source of conflicts less. Educated men have healthier lifestyle, so most likely problems like substance abuse are less prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:04 PM
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I think that marriage is beneficial for probably well over half of people, but not everyone is the right marriage material. Marriage requires ability to adjust, but also to set boundaries. Modern people are good at setting boundaries, but terrible at adjusting. I don't think it will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:03 PM
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I'm atheist and I worship golden calf. Really - money can turn our short days in this world into paradise-like experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:47 AM
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Yup - Baltic Sea has it's charm in the Autumn. It's windy and not really hot but it is somehow relaxing ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:00 AM
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I am now on my workation at the seaside. My plans are: cycling, playing with my son at the beach(we have kite, shovel and good weather), we will go for sushi(my son is a big fan, quite odd for 5 yo but ok), and at the evening we will be swimming, going to sauna, jacuzzi tub etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:29 AM
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I've had one depression episode in my life - what is funny it was caused by pancreatitis not really by psychological stuff. Even though i started therapy and seeking help immediately, my wife started threating me with divorce if i 'won't get a grip' becayse she needs to 'save herself'. That pissed me off and I've lost trust to her at the moment. In the long run she helped me to get through this and did way more than she had to, so I've let it go, but it was really close for me to file for divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:20 AM
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This is how female blackpill looks like lol. If men would care only about sex - it is available via sex work and many lonely men can easily afford it. In Europe it is even quite cheap and easily available. But it's more than that - men want partners, friends, someone to rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:12 AM
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Priscilla Chan is good looking and managed to get to Harvard while being 1st generation to graduate University and being from immigrant background and she also wanted kids. It's like really top of the tops of wife candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:32 PM
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I'm passing like 100 such girls when i'm going to the office. Usually they come in package with 6'1 dark haired gymbro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:31 AM
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I was rejected due to height only by 2 very short girls(i'm 5'10), but taller were totally ok with it. Maybe taller girls just do not want to limit their choice ? It's obvious their kids will be tall even if guy is average lol, so no 'genetic pressure' on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:18 AM
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Discovering that my wife is a hick would be devastating. But in general I am not particularly jealous neither is my wife, we quite often comment to each other if someone is hot, my wife was crazy turned on when one of my female coworkers was hitting on me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:25 AM
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I think that overall for middle/working classes of both men and women it doesn't matter what is the gender of person who is in charge, at least in 2024. Women will also form patriarchal relations, they have very little in common with average citizens, let alone with working class and their goals might differ. Unfortunately such system is effective - capitalism done American way is a winner, Europe deviated slightly from American system by establishing social democracies and it backfired pretty b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:20 AM
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I do not agree. If girl has pretty face she can totally get handsome, high value dude. I know such girls - their husbands are conventionally attractive: tall, muscular with good jobs. My wife ex-bfs are also high tier dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:17 AM
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Ozempic is reducing harm - but it is not perceived as life saving drug but rather as 'hotness pill', sure if we can add 20 years of relatively healthy living for morbidly obese people then we should go for it without hesitation, but if we have epidemic of obesity(not only US problem, Europe is on a highway to obesity as well) then something is deeply wrong. Ozempic may be just excuse to unhealthy lifestyle choices - like "I can eat McD and then just cut the weight with Ozempic", teenagers are du…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:23 AM
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Loose skin on face, stretch marks, more loose skin everywhere. Ozempic can add some people 20 years, it is not silver bullet for making people hot. It is life saving therapy - this is purpose of this drug. Key to being hot is the right diet and exercise from early childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:25 PM
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Ray Kurzweil for some time seems to be having massive midlife crisis. By 2045 we won't even see lifelike single limb prosthetics, let alone whole human. I think around 2150-2200 we may see first realistic artificial hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:17 AM
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We use "AI" as advanced search engine in our Slack history. No one sane would allow it to write single line of code.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:36 AM
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I cannot imagine such thing tbh - unless guy is like 15. I cannot focus nor rest in messy space, besides these are just basics of adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:04 AM
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I think that it would be normalizing of beauty enhancers for men. Like hair transplant, cosmetic surgery, maybe some makeup, flattering clothes etc. Women seem to put more emphasis on men looks, and not necessary only men being big and rough. Tech will follow these trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:37 AM
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Fair enough - if it's working for you, it's good. But i still think that couple that is working as a team is capable of doing much better than single people or people who are just dating and i disagree that men in general do not consider women their equals. Me and my wife we plan together, we use our advantages to benefit together, my wife is doing better with people and managing our assets, while i am making better money. We do household stuff equally(i cook more), i am spending more time with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:32 AM
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You do not sound very happy about it. It also goes both way - i remember when my wife left her phone in her car once, it was cold and raining, and she asked me to bring this phone. I told her that she has fully functional legs and should do it herself, there was no reason to put it on me. She got mad at me - but later she realized that she should do it herself. Women are also socialized to put some inconvenience on men by default, even if it is totally easy to do be done by themselves. But i do …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:26 AM
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Your views are blackpill but with respect to emotional aspect of relationships lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:47 AM
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People in general make support circle with the ones they value, consider them equals - gender is not the key factor. I think however that women are more competitive with each other and more jeleaous. Men tend to rather be focused on themselves, not comparing to others, and even if they compare there is some admiration towards those who achieved more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:44 AM
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Eastern European woman from your description is probably existing only in some rural parts of Ukraine or Russia. In Kiev girls are well educated, make their own money(almost tax free!) and look for having fun life. EU countries look pretty much the same regarding education, independence, lack of religiosity, pro choice - with some local flavors ofc but overall it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:20 AM
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Middle East is not an option, I have coworkers from Egypt and no thanks - I do not understand islamic influenced culture. For me only EU would ever be option - idk if I was unlucky but American women i've met at my work were extremely off putting, mix of being stupid, loud and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:02 PM
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Men also struggle because money/career is no longer making it up for looks and personality. I've observed it in Poland, it was more drastic than US so better visible - in my 20s butt ugly dude with good job could pull hot girl, it was happening quite often even if guy was just some village dude working abroad. Now it's not the case anymore - girls want the whole package: looks+career+personality. I do not see Shreks with hotties in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:18 PM
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True - but girls who are 8-10 themselves won't go for 5/10 guy. For them 5 is 1 and 8 is initially 5 that needs to have matching personality, only after showing it he may upgrade to 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:12 PM
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I'm pro choice, and i think that raising child on your own is extremely hard and in many cases just impossible unless you have ton of money to hire nannies. Newborn requires constant care including nights - how to do it while working ? I was feeding our son in the nights and i was doing majority of care after coming back from work, but it was just tiny bit of whole day. I was exhausted and walking like zombie. Guys have no idea what it is to be a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:31 PM
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Men - constant whining about women wanting best guys(duh - we all want the best) Women - whining about men being too indiscriminate(men do not have luxury of choice, its stupid to waste opportunity)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:26 PM
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Sexually - sure, romantically - absolutely no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:19 PM
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Being friends with women have 0 impact on your attractiveness. Women do not want to live with and fuck your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:58 PM
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I can agree with that, but maybe it's more like form of noticing and validating attractiveness of other person, but it is usually not leading anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:47 PM
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Flirting doesn't need to have any romantic context, sometimes it is just exchange of smiles, jokes and some compliments. I'd say that is pretty natural for people >40, though I've noticed that younger people are way more official. I can tell to my female boss 'you look fabulous today' and she will just laugh and say 'thanks', on some other occasion she will compliment my shirt or smth. it's totally un-romantic since we are both married, but it's just nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:40 PM
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Let's see you are looking for a screwdriver, one is odd looking full of metal, one is beautifully designed but plastic. Is choosing the latter a wise decision? Attractiveness also fades overtime plus once you are with someone and form a bond, you don't care how they look like anymore so yeah it is not mature. You can choose what you want but not everything you desire is a good thing. It's not a good analogy. Better is - you look for screwdriver, you can choose the one that fits your task greatly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:22 AM
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If someone is valuing attractiveness only as a factor, it is the opposite of maturity not actual maturity Why it is not mature ? We are free to value what we want, and tbh being good looking is probably most valuable thing for human being. Why it is immature to go for best things - especially if they are in the reach ? Logically a good partner stays with you and doesn't hurt you. Choosing someone who can is purposefully making a bad decision. We need to define 'good partner' - if you value being…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:03 AM
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I may argue that men are also shaping society, so they are equally responsible for unfavorable conditions that men are facing. I think that women do not want to be cheated on, but they can live with such possibility and it it still infinitely better than to live with guy who is unattractive. His quality is not cheating, but this quality is irrelevant since they do not care what he is doing. Accepting uncertain things in life is also a sign of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:48 AM
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I just do not believe in genuine altruism, so for me every choice that seems to be altruism is in reality just another selfish decision. Following some moral code is no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:38 AM
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Sure - but in this case you seek happiness at the expense of your son. So not much of a difference, maybe the difference is number of people affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:30 AM
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On average women make far less life blunders than men. They live longer, healthier, commit less suicide, are less prone to addictions, perform better at school, they are getting closer to overtaking men with income. Choice of man more prone to cheating is not neccessary wrong - such men are simply more attractive so it might be better deal to risk being cheated than to be partnered with guy no one wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:01 AM
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I completely disagree with you. Girls are observing society from really early age and they quickly learn to understand the rules, limitations and ways to maximize their limited potential. Many boys for real dream about great things - making some big business, becoming pro gamer, athlete etc. and are chasing unreal dreams at the expense of real achievement or they are just straight living in fantasy. Some boys negate the rules at their own demise due to being driven by emotions, they either canno…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:49 AM
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I think this discussion shows that both men and women are pretty much incapable of empathy. Women identify with other women who will be left with children, but not really with their son, while men identify with their son but not really with women who will have to raise children alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:35 AM
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In this scenario we know for sure that Adam is beyond hope, while we do not know anything about grandkids. Maybe they will be actually happy getting good set of genes ? Majority of wealthy people are more or less narcissists and have psychopathic traits, yet their children do not want to trade being millionaires for being normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:30 AM
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If my son little Johnny wants another kid's candy am I solipsistic if I don't push that kid down and take it for him because it would make Johnny happy? But we are in situation where we have binary choice. Either Johnny gives prio to his happiness or is unhappy and depressed. He is guaranteed to be unhappy. You will suggest him to go for unhappy life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:20 AM
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In this hypothetical scenario we have a guy who is not in prison, killed nor anything like that. He is doing well, is happy but his acts are unethical. But if we think a bit - these women actually want this guy, and society also wants to have this guy on their side. It is a bit like choosing the guys to play basketball, if you want to win you go for good players even if they are assholes. Second guy is effective - so he gets rewarded for this, he is also sexy - so he gets a reward for this as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:15 AM
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This industry is tiny and within this small industry only small percentage of people is exploited. Women hate porn due to other reasons than abuse of porn models.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:28 AM
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Women do not care about trafficking, they personally do not benefit from porn or may lose due to partner watching other women so they are against it. Fashion industry hurts way more people, including children but it doesn't seem to bother women that much if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:24 AM
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Tbh second guy seems to be more valuable to society since women want to have his children and he makes a ton of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:57 AM
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If society wants to give this guy everything then he is not a menace but blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:54 AM
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What if someone has no friends and no romantic issues ? I am not keeping long term friendships due to my lack of interest in them, I like discussing things with people, like to do some small talk but otherwise I am rather happy with being alone or with family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:51 AM
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These companies are platforms, not actual content creators, you can as well criticize internet providers. Besides - without broad access to free porn it would become a good business again, so it would again be a gang-controlled thing. I think that ph and of should be more forced to control their content, but otherwise porn business should be official. It's easier to keep it transparent this way, and money involved is not big enough to encourage human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:19 AM
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I am not sure if 'porn industry' is still a big thing. These Czech studios making porn are 5 people with van and few cameras, it's something on the verge of hobby/fetish. These models are not forced by poverty to do porn, since its quite well-off country, people are not starving there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:01 AM
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I think it's both ego and need for purpose in life. Something big and lasting that is worth working for or making sacrifice. I disagree that men bear no cost, especially when it comes to bigger families it is on man to provide majority of income. There is a good episode of "Wonder Years" about Kevin's dad. It turns out that he had to give up on many of his dreams, go through hard time at work, he lost his friends fighting for things he believed in - but he didn't complained since it was his purp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:48 PM
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I think majority of people discussing issues like replacement rate are not fully aware how complex our infrastructure is and how much knowledge(so called 'human capital') and workhours is needed to even keep it running, let alone think about improvements. Pandemic showed what is happening due to temporary disruption of logistic chains, what will happen due to permanent shortage of skilled and non-skilled labor is unknown territory. Such discussions are reduced to some wierd takes abut 'legacy' a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:56 PM
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If by "free stuff" you mean the government actually taking care of its people by ensuring that they're fed, clothed, housed, educated, and provided healthcare, that's not petty either. That's providing for the common good, which helps everyone. I think that I understand OP a bit. Female social activists usually care about handout, and where the money should flow - but there is very little interest in how to actually make this money. You won't find too many women discussing about infrastructure, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 07:40 AM
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In my IT bubble it seems like young men in general want kids while women do not. These jobs are well paid and have great work life balance so it is not big impediment on career to have kids, it looks like guys once established in their career start thinking about buying home, finding wife and having kids, while women are rather spending money on travel, tattoos, clothes, they pick up some sports, buy expensive dog etc. Men are more conservative regarding lifestyle than women, so they quite often…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:59 AM
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I'm trying hard to be as stupid as you and still no success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:01 PM
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I am not as stupid as lefties who do not understand the concept called 'country'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:47 PM
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It's funny that it was possible to build housing for families of 5 while it is not possible to build for singles. Environment also seems to be in better shape than in the 70s. Non existent doctors and bricklayers will not solve problems with housing and healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:35 PM
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Full price for ie. police is your tax+your children. You pay the tax, but someone else pays the rest for you. Cost of raising children is huge, yet childless people do not pay extra for services that only young people can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:42 PM
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They use the labor of young people, yet they do not pay the full price.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:39 PM
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We all sacrifice something, women give birth - men do the dirty and dangerous jobs. We can ofc pretend that it is possible to have society without people but reality check will be brutal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:07 PM
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How they've managed to keep 50/50 when this program started ? Maybe they've been failing boys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:11 PM
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Second example is very good. When the rule favored women it was ok to have it, but once it started favoring men it is no longer good, right ? Modernity in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:59 PM
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Majority of growth is generated in service sector - where the main resource that is exploited is human brain. We are many years past the growth based on exploiting of natural resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:52 PM
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Even in countries where teaching is relatively good career - it is female dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:48 PM
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If you base college enrollment on GPA, then opportunity is not the same since your score is affected by biased teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:46 PM
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It's a good thing if you enjoy society without doctors, policemen, firefighters, nurses, teachers, farmers etc. drowning in debt. You need actual young people to do essential jobs, even to just maintain existing social and physical infrastructure and you need taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:43 PM
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Tell it to Nigerians. Population of western countries are stable or declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:37 PM
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This is the main part. Average woman in ie. USA is not under risk of malnutrition or homelessness due to having children, but it's inevitable that her lifestyle will be affected and body will be affected as well. This is purely cultural thing, it has nothing to do with economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:35 PM
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This choice is harmful for society. Like it or not society does not validate things that are harmful, if you choose to not work - you are a bum, it's your free choice and no one can stop you but do not expect validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:28 PM
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You are using products made by children everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:25 PM
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I believe bell hooks criticized 2nd wave of feminism for focusing almost exclusively on galss ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:54 AM
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They want to have more money for luxury items, exotic trips, they want to look better, have more time for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:10 AM
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We have similar system to Chinese in Poland - one exam is entry ticket to University and its the only criteria(only. I've studied cs and most girls resigned after 1st semester, the remaining were pretty much pushed by staff to not give up and guys were doing projects for them. Otherwise they would fail as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:05 AM
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GPA is biased so probably chance of graduating is also due to bias not the merit. If people with good GPA are better, why they cannot pass the test ? Merit based Chinese system is producing much better students than western systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:20 AM
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Even some feminists agree that feminism is in many cases just interested in fighting for interest of upper middle class women, which is no surprise since feminist activist are usually college educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:16 AM
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GPA based enrollment is weird idea. It's obvious that it is not merit based.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:11 AM
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Sweden is assume ? I am working over 15 years for various Swedish companies yet I never talked privately with any Swedish person. I've hanged out with Germans, Indians, Ukrainians etc. but Swedes were always opting-out of going out. Even 'socializing' at some sport event is not really socializing, it's more like prolonged small talk. From my perspective not much changed tbh lol, but maybe even these close circles are getting even less prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:58 AM
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It is repeated very often - but tbh I am not sure if this is the case. People were always spending a lot of time at work and having any hobbies or more vibrant social life(while being adult) was pretty much a privilege. Gym, playing squash or tennis was a thing of upper middle class people, average dudes were watching tv at home, reading newspapers and maybe having a drink. We have much higher expectations regarding our lifestyle than ie. boomers. We want to look great, travel, be fashionable, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:31 AM
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Yeah - but we cannot deny fact that singleness rate is rising everywhere. When the market is totally free and transparent women are becoming way more picky, and main factors are appearance and lifestyle(or 'status' as redpillers call it). I guess this is pretty much the source of grievance - what was enough for a guy in 1996 is no longer enough in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:11 AM
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To your partner. Not to some random dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:32 PM
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I cannot and majority of people cannot as well. Women just are not scanning men constantly, but if guy will make a move it is decided in one second if things will go further.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:28 PM
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Women 35+ are great, they can be your partner in crime and imo they are in many ways superior in life skills comparing to men. Young generation of women is spoiled, entitled and extremely egoistic. Good that they opt out of motherhood, their views should not be passed to next generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:26 PM
3

Your behavior can fuck things up, but not really uplift your attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:10 PM
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Bluepillers are coming to RP spaces to make themselves feel better, finally there is someone who suck even more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:30 PM
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I've gave up traditional dating - not because of some spectacular rejections, but due to lack of compatibilty with girls. By accident I've met a girl on some discussion group - I've just wrote her message, she replied then we started making calls and we were hooking up. Later she wanted things serious but i wasn't ready, besides i was 22 and she was 29, it was a problem for me. This group was both online and irl so there were 3 girls more hitting on me when they knew that i'm done with 1st woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:31 AM
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Outcome is the same - obssesive online whining about opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:39 PM
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It's not about that 1 man, it's usually extended to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:37 PM
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Idk in my gym there are dozens of guys looking like him or better - mayve im biased. He is pretty average facially, plenty of lean guys look like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:46 PM
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I'm not sure how he is good looking? He is just average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:29 PM
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If hand stuff would count then it's order of magnitude difference for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:52 PM
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It's just very primitive way of manipulating men into doing things that are good for women. Like saying 'that's how gentlemen do' when some dude will do some favor. These tricks are old and cringe. Don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:24 PM
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There is severe shortage of sluts imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:16 PM
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Do we count only piv or going down as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:11 PM
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I think that person saying such things unironically is beyond stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:03 PM
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Omg looks like we have the same uncle lol. But my uncle had also alcohol problem, but he is genuinely good person. He was helping his friend to raise her children, though she told him that they will never be couple. And this help lasted 20 years - this woman claims that he is the only good man in the world, and her kids(now in their 30s) are still visiting him regularly and and offering help if he needs anything(he doesn't, he is minimalist). But he is unbearable - after spending 2 days with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:22 PM
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Humans are not logical, we are driven by emotions. From purely logical point of view our lives are pointless - only emotions give us a sense of purpose, maybe you cannot understand certain emotions but they are crucial for our existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:58 PM
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I think that what they have in common is frustration at some point in life, that is why they know what resonates with frustrated people. Mainstream politicians do not understand frustration and cannot use it for their own purpose, I'd even say that they do quite a lot to produce even more upset people and this backfired. I do not think that half of US citizens do not have EQ - i think that if you expose anyone to enough hardships and volatility than you will get people who get overwhelmed with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:08 AM
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I've heard that in many clubs bouncer can kick you out if you are filming anyone apart from yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:32 AM
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I've had similar observation during my vacation trip(to Spain). There were plenty of teenage and 20s girls in hotel's pool area, there was music, drinks and girls came in groups of 2-4. People my age came as families. At some point me and my 5 yo son were only 'males' in the pool, he was complaining that there are only girls to play with, boys his age were coming for 5 mins and leaving while girls were there all day. I've noticed one group of young guys(from Poland btw lol), they were quickly ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:50 AM
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I may argue that there is a whole genre of german romance movies/series where men are actually gentle, they are doctors helping people in small village etc. The same with turkish drama, the same with k-drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:47 PM
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I don't think salespeople would score very high on their general life satisfaction. Meanwhile engineers and scientists seem to be most happy with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:16 PM
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Somehow they know how to use emotions for their own purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:08 PM
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I think that trend is important. We came from times when pimps like Hugh Hefner were celebrities, and Woody Allen was intellectual authority to modernity where even in Hollywood things regarding intimacy are becoming way more transparent. It has impact on private lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:52 PM
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I wonder if there is some consensus on how emotionally intelligent person is acting. Some people see emotionally intelligent people as calm, understanding and non-judgemental, but on the other hand we have guys like Trump, Musk, Hitler who are opposite of this characteristics, but their whole success is based on emotion management since all 3 lack any hard skills, Trump was mediocre investor, Musk was intern-level php programmer, and Hitler was wannabe artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:26 PM
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I think in many ways it is happening via various channels, not necessary school. Women are more aware of what boundaries they can set and how much they can expect from their partners, men are also starting to set their own boundaries - ie. by not accepting women who encourage them to follow toxic masculinity which is obviously harmful to them. We are now in sort of in-between moment of male-female relations, old ways are becoming thing of the past but still many men and women preserve some old h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:38 AM
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I do not believe in concept of settling - relationships are not mandatory so people do it completely voluntary, sure - there are people who are more attractive physically, richer etc. but it is not that simple like with the items that we would trade some lower value car for better one without much thinking if we only could afford better one. I personally had 2 girlfriends that were objectively very attractive - but it was not 'it', on paper everything was good, but we didn't have this magic when…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:50 AM
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We have education and regulation regarding drugs, yet drug addiction seem to be widespread. You cannot eliminate magical thinking from people, its impossible. What can be imrpoved though is the quality of food, pushing kids for sports and coeducational activities, fixing educational gap, in general bringing men and women closer to each other because they seem to diverge a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:24 AM
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When you are teenager - being cool is everything, peer pressure is strong and girls are under this pressure as well. They might probably even like guy who is focused on learning and is more romantic, but they cannot afford to show up with nerd. Good book describing teenage way of thinking is 'Christiane F', even though it happened 40 years ago, it's still surprisingly accurate. My advice would be to just fulfill superficial criteria of being cool - get yourself fashionable clothes, haircut, gadg…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:38 AM
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Yeah - I've also noticed that attractive girls with good careers are quickly taking most desirable and commitment oriented guys off market, from this top category usually only players are left. My close relative 'secured' her husband when she was 15(and he was 16) lol, she managed to influence him so much that he went from near-hs-dropout towards high-paying career.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:35 PM
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From my observation - it's getting less realistic. When I was in my 20s men were generally sticking with their partners, partially due to tradition and partially because if you were single in your early 30s your options were scarce and terrible. Nowadays desirable men have less incentive to commit - basically all couples that i know being in their late 20s either fell apart due to guy refusing to take things further(living together) or they stick in permanent bf-gf situation, where women will ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:29 AM
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I totally agree with this post. I can add that young people should not listen to complaints of people having children, because they do not see the whole context, only some clickbait statements that show only very little part of reality. Reality is that first year is hard, two next years are still hard but much better and from the age of 5 it's a walk in the park and good fun. I have similar regrets as you do - we've started trying to have our child being 28 and 30, but it took 5 years to succeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:16 AM
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True. I am from time to time taking trazodone to regulate sleep(though smaller doses than for depression treatment). I do not have depression nor anxiety, but for some reason spending long hours in front of monitors disrupts my sleep - so I can either quit my office job or get on medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:59 AM
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I've noticed that many people who declare themselves as normies/bluepill/whatever seem to not understand(though they love to declare themselves emphatetic) how fragile self-esteem actually is and how hard it is to build confidence when you are outlier in physical appearance or you were neglected as a child. There are plenty of people who were once confident - but quickly lost it once exposed to harsher reality. It's possible to build confidence - but I would suggest doing it gradually keeping so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:25 AM
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At my office - very often, I know everyone including top managers - really down to earth guys(female managers are oth very strict about hierarchy, they will not talk to you if you are not their level). In other situations - not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:56 PM
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There is very little science in this pamphlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:12 PM
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If you can generate child porn using AI and we have a proof that it is a good substitute then why not ? Or child-like sex dolls/robots/whatever ? It is repulsive - but people in general are far from perfect, we have murderers, pedos, sadists, even necrophiles and we have to deal with them. If there is a way of keeping them as productive members of society instead of spending millions on isolating them, then why not ? It is very tempting to punish people that are doing something we consider immor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:11 PM
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Plenty of children are exploited and injured making ie. perfume bottles in Bagladesh or making fast fashion. Scale of exploitation for fashion purposes is orders of magnitude bigger than porn - which is actually pretty small business.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:45 AM
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These two things are unrelated - we've had plenty of girls in the past who were fans of rockstars well known for being drug addicts, extremely promiscuous, alcoholics yet they didn't wanted to actually have guy who acted like Axl Rose to be their future husband. Porn is perfomance - it's exciting but we understand it's not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:39 AM
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In general there are meta-analysis studies which are showing that impact of pornography on mental health or violence or perception of women is really hard to prove. afaik rapists have some typical personality traits - it is not really possible to prove if pornography took any role in development of such traits, it is also proven in some studies that even teenagers are aware of pornography being unrealistic. Whole this battle against pornography reminds me of battle against video games in late 90…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:33 AM
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I think such detailed discussions are rather a thing of some low class people. Never heard detsils of intimate lives of guys i knew - we rather discussed if some girl is single, and if someone can invite her to our parties. Afaik women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:05 PM
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dom-sub relationships are not about 'real' humiliation. It is more about fulfilling the needs and fantasies of sub and vice-versa. Dom is in many ways also a 'servant' of sub - it has nothing to do with low self worth. If someone is sub against own kinks due to low self esteem, then it is just abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:10 PM
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I am elder millenial and what you describe was rather specific to rural/small town dating, big cities were pretty much as you guys describe it for ie. Germany. Guys are slow to make a move but overall no grand gestures, everything is serious but without 'romantic' entourage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:14 PM
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When woman gets money for sex without emotional investment from her side - its prostitution. Otherwise she is not getting money for sex, they both just put on the table as much as they both are able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:11 PM
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Btw - I've seen once when proffesional female rower punched this boxer arcade machine. It ofc went to end of scale and guys around were like wtf. I also remember how our university female ping-pong team humiliated us on our gym class, one guy got really nervous but i've managed to get one phone number. Average dude is no match to even mediocre pro female athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:06 PM
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Not sure if Poland is considered EE, but if I`ll have to do lovebombing, gifts and other cringe stuff I would become passport bro lol. Usually women here know precisely if guy is a fuckboy or serious - and if they like you coffee date or two is enough, couples that last lifetime can form in a matter of one evening. I guess this chasing stuff is more like a thing in Russia or Ukraine, but even there it is specific type of girls expecting such things - and this type is not really worth chasing tbh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:39 PM
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I think that for totally normie people luck plays a minor role - such people are pretty much easily compatible with each other, problem is when you are sort of specific regarding things that interest you, sexual compatibility etc. Solution for that is putting yourself in places where people similar to you may show up - though the problematic thing might be that male hobbies are quite often repulsive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:50 PM
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It is working like that with respect to social class. Average looking engineers are dating average looking accountants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:52 AM
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I think that problematic thing is that men are expected to do things that are mutually exclusive in some cases. Ie. - ofc it is good to study hard, but it is easy to fall into nerd stereotype and being nerd is uncool. Do uncool teenagers have the chance of getting first romantic experience ? Not really. So the guy should become more on the rebel side - this is interesting for girls, they won't be building future with this guy, but he is fun and it's cool to hang out with him. Later in life this …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:12 AM
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Ofc that good looking+good guy > just good guy, but when you have acceptable looking + good vs good looking + shitty, then the choice is not that obvious. Some women will choose the bear(i think it's way bigger number than bluepillers admit), but majority is willing to lower standards on looks, some will go for Chad no matter the cost. We need to have correct perspective - number of women willing to do anything for good looking dude is small, and getting smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:47 AM
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Please - I know at least 3 Chads kicked out of the house, and I know one guy who is totally ignored by his wife due to being lazy and immature. She openly said that she made bad decision due to young age and would prefer average looking normal guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:42 AM
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Well - you've discovered that it's easier to be confident if you have base for it. It's truism - ofc it is like that, and people who suddenly lose their social standing quite often end up even suicidal. But majority of people are somewhere in between, so they do not have the reason to be wrecks, people who have natural limitations have it harder, but they have no other option than to adjust. Your chance of scoring is lower, but you miss 100% of shots you don't make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:38 AM
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Women who put up with awful personalities are either insecure or have similar traits. Normal, even mid looking girls have no problem getting rid of Chads if something is wrong. Being a doormat is poor option, though ofc there is plenty of insecure and shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:30 AM
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You are assuming that almost all women want children, but this is no longer the case. Even if you have 20% of women who will be childless - these women not necessary are interested in man being provider or anything like that. Very often they are not even interested in living together, like in nordic countries and in this case man need to provide fun and pleasure. So criteria of looks and attractive lifestyle are becoming crucial. There is very high demand for men who are like that, very highly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:42 AM
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I did it - it worked perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:27 PM
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I wouldn't like to get married to girl that is into criminals lol. I wouldn't like to even be in 100m radius of such woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:26 PM
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I think that acceptance of outsiders lasts as long as it is not against private interest of some group. In Europe women are afraid of muslim and African immigrants so their stance against migration is hard. Both genders think in categories of private interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:37 PM
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I am not so sure about that. I am ie. willing to prepare my son to modernity, and plenty of fathers do the same. We do sports together, learn, travel, eat well etc. But there is a group of dads(and moms!) who are flat-earthers negating everything and bringing their sons down or simply not putting effort and feeding kids with cheerios, nutella and mcdonalds and giving them iPad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:08 AM
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European far-right is largely supported by women, 'gender war' has little to do with rising popularity of such parties. It's mainly about immigration from muslim/african countries and rising cost of living. Women are even more affected by these two factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:58 AM
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This is the way to seperate boys from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:30 AM
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I do not blame women with bad experiences for blaming men, its understandable. But tbh the worst and real misandrist are quite often women who get a lot of positive attention from men, but they take it for granted and are always unhappy that men still do not do enough, they still need to try harder to cater to their needs. It's good example when women complain how hard it is to be good looking - it's pure entitled bullshit. I am personally rather avoiding too good looking women putting crazy eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:34 AM
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For me the job. It was really lot of learning and grinding leetcode-like stuff to start. If dates would look like IT interviews it would be a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:21 AM
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Interesting. Kraków is about 1M but it's really infinite number of things that you've listed. Hundreds of bars, clubs, restaurants, plenty of events weekly, classes of everything, variety of jobs, sport clubs etc. Even weird people have bars for weird people where they meet each other somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:55 AM
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I know a guy like this - he is 190cm tall, face of young Enrique Iglesias, is doing PhD in engineering, has wealthy parents and is also semi-pro athlete. Guy is not womanizer but he gets these 'looks' when he enters the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:20 PM
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Its not just a plus. It is building your whole persona. I very often see a girl who is pretty much butterface, but she knows her strong sides so her outfit is emphasising them. Her bahavior, the way how she talks - you can feel energy and intelligence, you know that you wont be bored with her. The same girl with worn off clothes, and sitting silently barely being alive is not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:59 PM
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I understand this a bit - I moved from industrial city to small village. In city I was hanging out mainly with kids of local engineers, lawyers etc. so there was some specific way of living. We played tennis, we exchanged records and books, it was early adoption of computers, there were some board games we were playing so it was sort of subculture. In village kids were using local dialect i didn't understood, center of everything was a church, and everyone was dirt poor so kids are school were s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:39 PM
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I wonder how moving very often affects development of social skills in children ? I've been reading bios of porn models to find some common denominator on their career choice, and moving often was common trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:48 PM
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I have a friend who is someone like your husband, but he looked like chubby Andrew Tate. He found a gf eventually since he is a really succesful dude, but he went through many disappointments while being a teenager and early 20s. But after all he is doing well, never became biter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:26 PM
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If you do some sport you need to be aware of your limitations, otherwise you will end up with injury. There is plenty of motivated people, yet maybe 8 people realistically fight for medals - its hard to go past genetics. The same with all this self-improvment stuff, you need to slow down and have more realistic goals if you burnout easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:12 PM
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What are you doing differently than men that you think are desired by women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:39 PM
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I was the same as you are - but I realized that unwillingness to adjust is pretty much my own narcissism, laziness and being narrow-minded. So at some point I've decided to simply try doing all the mainstream things and be less critical of the general 'normie' things. It opened the world of women who are close to my views, but are also able to do very well in society. I know guys like this, they still refuse to get more fancy clothes, to get nice haircut, to try dancing or even trivial thing lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:57 AM
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Old school dating sites allowed for making detailed description of yourself and you could browse and message for some small fee. The big bonus was that you've had to use computer, therefore sit behind the desk and actually focus a bit. I've described myself by listing things that i like to watch, do, read, and referenced to some cultural things that clearly suggested my political views, religion, education etc. It worked pretty well, all girls that wrote to me or that I've contacted were close t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:32 AM
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There might be some truth in it since obese people are more likely to be depressed, however i think cultural factors play bigger role. Especially moving to bigger cities - keeping up with pace of living in a big city is exhausting, lot of people do not have time, energy or cannot afford to have real realtionship with living together and long term plans. But in the long run - vast majority of people pair up, even in Japan birth rates(and marriage rates) are decent. In America healthy weight might…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:04 AM
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My grandma was not talking about anyone else than herself. She liked to talk about how good person she is and about things that she needs. When she died we've counted 300 pair of shoes she had lol. She didn't cooked nor cleaned, she opened a can of meat for her and grandpa, and then she was busy watching people through the window or composing outfits for Sunday church. My grandpa was not talking at all - his only grievance was discovering alcohol so late in life. Grandmas are not the best source…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:11 PM
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No one sane claims that looks doesn't matter - it is the base for everything else to happen, bluepillers usually talk about stages after initial attraction, but even they do not disregard looks. WHat may be ridiculed is red pill claim that you need to be 666 to get a chance. It's not true, short and chubby guys have girlfriends, we see it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:57 PM
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From my personal observation: face > height. But I wonder if style and general feeling that guy takes care of himself can offset average natural looks ? For example I very often see women who are in theory not very good looking, but their clothes, shoes, makeup, glasses, body being in shape, give the feeling of 'freshness'. It's pleasing to look at them how everything is matching and their whole persona is 'dynamic', it's expressed also with lively eyes, gestures, way of talking etc. Do women fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:02 AM
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It's true - but there are areas which are abandoned by young women, while young men are still there. I personally know guys who are just regular blue collar dudes in small town, but there simply is not enough women in there for them. Their best option is to leave and pursue education - but they are afraid to make such change, so they are pretty much stuck and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:28 AM
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Interesting take about 5th grade - I remember that girls started to be really nice to me around this age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:23 AM
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I'd say that societies changed a bit and some men are struggling to thrive in these new societies, women got education, incomes, went to bigger cities and have different lifestyles, more urban and bit more sophisticated. So they expect more from their partners - they want them to look better, to have more interesting ways of spending free time, to enjoy some cultural events, to travel and to participate more in raising children, household things etc. Many guys cannot meet such expectations - it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:42 AM
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I am not patient enough to study in detail things like TRP, but I can relate to what I know about it. Country Poland: Looks - it's very important and importance is growing, especially in big cities. There is plenty of gyms, fancy barbers, guys spent a lot of money on clothes, older dudes more often use things like botox and specialized beauty medicine. Height is important but it's not a fetish as it seems to be in US, more important is to be fit and take care of yourself. Big change comparing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:12 AM
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It's nice to self-improve for your own good, but it is appreciated only by some women, it's not a magic key. Most women are just as average as men are and totally ok with average guys. It's good imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:38 PM
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Where Americans go for vacation ? Florida ? Someone has to report from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:29 PM
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Go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:26 PM
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Not really lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:26 PM
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Ghosting is the most effective and humane way of cutting contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:19 PM
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Gay guys that I know are either chubby and short or anorectic and short, average looks and average careers. Nothing impressive comparing to straight guys from my let's say 'social class'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:46 PM
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Straight men would also kill for women who invest in themselves as much as gay men. But we end up with average ladies - not very fit nor very rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:34 PM
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I'm just making fun of this discussion. I've had taller gf actually, but most fixated on height are totally short girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:43 PM
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I'm anticipating inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:38 PM
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Yeah but at some point 185 may be considered new 180. I think 180 is now average for 19 yo. in majority of Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:28 PM
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They decided to choose the beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:22 PM
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I recently came back from short vacation in Spain - plenty of girls in their 20s and almost no young men in the hotel. I see potential for our youngsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:20 PM
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Ask your female friend to take a picture. My wife makes a pictures of me that i look like 2m tall pro swimmer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:15 PM
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I am not sure if men not interested in religion should actually go to church to meet women lol. I do not think that porn and video games are main way of men spending their free time, most likely their interests are simply different. Maybe they prefer sports like basketball, hiking, motorcycles etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:12 PM
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I think prejudice against ie. black people has wider implications than being wary of men. Women in general avoid only some specific situations with strangers, but in general men are not considered as less competent or of lower cultural level etc. and usually are not actively discriminated, while black people were literally enslaved and subjected to apartheid policies. We should have some balance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:04 PM
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I think that you should try variety of options. In my case social circle didn't really worked - because I am from very religious region, and my views are vastly different from local mainstream. For me OLD in university city worked pretty well. But if I would be more aligned with my social circles regarding values - it would probably be equally good option for me, my friends girlfriends were very eager to introduce me to their single friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:28 PM
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Nothing can stop you from applying standards to women, and majority of men actually applies them. I know 2 women who openly ranted against men, and both of them ended up single, even though they were really cute physically. They do not embrace being single - they both are bitter and dirt poor ladies living in their parents homes located in shitholes, both of them wanted to have partners but good guys passed, while losers were no option. It is not that easy to get away with being negative person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:04 PM
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I'd say that there definitely are people who are in the type of big number of other people, and some of us are far less popular. Attractiveness is real and to some extent is objective - but it doesn't mean that majority of people have 'all or nothing' attitude, we can(and usually are!) be happy with less attractive partners, as long as we consider them close to our own 'league'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:10 AM
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Ok but overall - majority of men in America, including obese guys end up with partners. So probably women actually consider Average Joe as good enough, I've never been to America but i see tourist very often and I'd say that guys who come to Europe with their partners are usually not very appealing visually, yet they have wives, girlfriends etc. i do not see muscular and hot American men with obese and ugly American women. Stats say the same. Most likely if you cannot find partner you simply nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:49 AM
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Girls who do swimming or rowing are 15/10 for me. I think many men are into athletic women - but these girls have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:48 AM
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This would suggest that men in America are overall way more attractive than women, but it doesn't seem to be true. Obesity rates for men are actually higher - so most likely huge group of women is dating guys who are out of shape. Maybe European men being more fit on average make impression of abundance - but women are fit as well. Btw - women in Europe are far from petite, majority of young women here are tall and rather of strong build.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:29 AM
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I've made similar thought experiment with my wife, just for fun, but we've taken into account people that we know from work, our son school etc. Out of about 200 women close to my age - I'd really like to date 3. They are not hotties nor anything like that, but it clicks immediately - all these women are already married. Fun fact - daughter of one of this women is my son's 'love', they've both decided to get married in the future lol. I was lucky to look quite good - so there were always some gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:06 AM
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I was pretty much sheltered because my dad was relatively well-off and well known locally, and i was also considered very talented academically, but my classmates were: beaten by female teachers(sometimes even they've had their ear pulled) called idiots, retards, publictly humiliated in front of all school forced to apologize grils, even though they were clearly provoked by them called cripples when failing at PE lessons(by female teacher) nerdy and bad looking boys were very often mocked behind…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:40 AM
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I do not think that it is worth to actually engage in such discussion - pretty much because such posts are supposed to induce circlejerk. I think that mods of this sub prefer to keep it popular at the expense of women participating in it, so they do not bring any moderation unless it would be actual call for violence or smth like that - but it's forced by general reddit rules anyway. There is no value added for women in such circlejerk - they do care about men, otherwise they would just forget a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:18 AM
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It is justified for women to be careful, but sometimes it goes very far and many normal men feel like they are considered to be very likely to be rapists and this is not productive - it's kind of going too far with such generalization. I can compare it to security guard following you closely in a store, in theory this guy is not doing anything wrong - you might be a thief, but it is humiliating and very uncomfortable, so it brings rebuttal. It is justified for you to feel threatened but it's als…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:04 AM
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I think that in general men facing various problems and discussing about them bring more reflection that we need to improve parenting and how shitty in many cases was pareting done by our fathers. My dad was living in his work, he was spending his free time smoking and watching tv due to exhaustion from work, when he stopped working he died of cancer year later, end of story. I didn't learned much from him tbh - I was pretty much as reckless, hardcore 'tough', stubborn, ignorant about my well be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:30 PM
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I am not teaching him theory but we do things together, we ride bikes, swim, we go for a long walks, we play badminton, we play some board games, practice reading and we talk a lot, about his feelungs and emotions as well. He tells me about various things, i tell him everyday that i love him, i hug him - normal stuff. Regarding health we go regularly to the dentist together, to make blood tests, to do checkups, we discuss about our bodies, how they are functioning, he sees that i am controlling …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:13 PM
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In this particular sub probably not, but actual grown men having sons are mainly concerned about saving them from addictions, conscription(its real issue in Europe) and giving them good education. Fortunately men are getting less concerned about women making fun of people who discuss about male problems. My son will know better than i knew how to maintain good mental and physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:02 PM
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It's good and necessary to put effort, but there is no guarantee that it will be appreciated or will save you from being fired. It's good to have some distance to work and career, not becoming lazy and cynical but realistic and ready for the fact that things may go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:52 PM
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Actually most discussed topics are suicide rates, education, conscription and health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:45 PM
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I can spin fitness hula-hoop for 15 minutes. I really recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:42 PM
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In my quite long career i've seen plenty of people who were fired even though they dedicated a lot to the company. People whose work brought dozens of millions of bucks were fired just because guys on top were replaced and new ones had their own people. We are all just numbers in the excel sheet in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:39 PM
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I think that such intervention might bring more harm than good. People with bad eating habits usually love their children, so it's not abuse nir neglect but rather lack of competency or just lifestyle. Better to have systemic change making junk food crazy expensive and quality food cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:18 PM
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Oh that is indeed a difference - in my town we are usually just walking or riding the bicycle locally - car is for some longer rides or heavier shopping, at 8 pm in the summer there is plenty of people doing nordic walking, cycling or jogging, mushroom picking is also popular. We have extra tax for sweet beverages, so now most soft drinks are sugarfree. And it's the opposite with fresh food - it's way cheaper to buy and cook for yourself than to visit fastfood. Ie. for 3x Big Mac menu you can bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:48 PM
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Hungary is cheaper than top cities in Poland. Everything gone crazy regarding prices - in Spain I feel like everything is actually more affordable than here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:09 PM
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I agree with most of RP but I am pretty far from right wing. I support abortion rights, full equality regarding law, I am against bigotry(racism etc.) and i'm atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:05 PM
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I rarely see rational normie things here - at most i see some truisms repeated by BP women without much thought. World is not a cynical jungle as RP paint it, but it is not the BP fairytale where kindness and being genuinely good person pays off either. And you can make peace with things like loneliness or insecurities just like that. Every deviation from the norm makes it exponentially harder to live and thrive for both men and women, it exposes these people to open hostility and even violence,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:46 PM
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worked well for me, but we have different dating customs here. men are slow to make a move, so there is no 'serial dating' few times a week. If both sides are not doing well texting or knowing each other from other place then it's not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:26 PM
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If the 'non-toxic women' are similar to those who identify here as blue pill - well I have a bad news for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:15 PM
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In Warsaw/Krakow - full-time nanny would cost at least 1500-2000(we talk about people that are reliable, not some random granny or immigrant), cleaning twice a week would be another 400, and cooking - box diet for family would cost 40 eur/day(poor option) so 1200. You end up with 3000-4000 eur. This is pretty much base salary of young doctor(they get more money for being on duty but still). Sure - there are experienced doctors that easily make 25k+/month, but they do not need nannies. Out of our…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:09 PM
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to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:50 PM
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I guess in Europe having full time nanny, cleaning and cooking would be equivalent of monthly income of physician.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:22 PM
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I think you do realize that this is not true. Would you like to have male friends ? Real ones - not online ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:19 PM
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Why you do not have them while other women do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:11 PM
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Never is too big generalization, but usually the subset of things in common is bigger among men than women. You being not interesting as a friend doesn't equal lack of respect nor not valuing you as a person, men really do have female friends - but most likely woman interested in something typically male would be having way more male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:36 PM
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I think that people are so varied that we consider only some small subset of people as being a potential friend. It;s easier to form friendships with people of same sex due to similar experiences, interests, work etc. You are reducing everything to sex and misogyny(like angry young people tend to do) but it's just simplification from your side - men would love if women would share more of their interest or experiences, but that is not case hence what would be the base of friendship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:09 AM
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You are describing harassment and less pretty women face harassment as well, but they are also called ugly or fat. They get the bad part but not the good part - I do not really see any downside of being pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:52 AM
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I was one of these dudes and I simply started looking for girlfriend and then wife at top universities. In my experience men are bit more differentiated than women, and the group of men who are genuinely curious about different things is bigger than similar group of women. Women tend to discuss and think about everyday life things and quite often they follow what other people do or think without much reflection, men try to understand more and formulate their original opinions, but sometimes they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:46 AM
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This silly idea comes from place of extreme privilege and is insincere. It's very easy to become invisible in your 20s, really - becoming ugly is simple. What they do is humblebragging and cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:15 AM
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Getting old sucks - you can cope that you've finally got rid of shallow attention but it's bs. Everyone is flattered when other people admire your looks, we spend a little fortune and plenty of time to look good. Whether they want to fuck you or become your soulmate is irrelevant - ask ten obese girls in their 20s if they want to be slim hotties, they will risk their lives to become hot and they can totally live with catcalling. Women here are spreading bs - reality says different, women want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:06 AM
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Why is it happening ? I do not really buy this car centric thing, in Europe people drive everywhere as well. Food quality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:43 AM
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Interesting - it's different in Europe, i don't think if there is even one obese guy in his 40s in my office. About half is sligthly overweight(like 5-7 kg) while rest are just flat. In our nordic offices it's hard to even find overweight dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:59 AM
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It's not healthy justification but it's also nothing really that terrible imo. Some guys go full delulu, but majority will change. We need time to grow up and accept some unpleasant things. Women also develop temporary misandry due to bad experience, but they continue dating anyway. What i fo not like sbout blue pill approach is paternalizing - especially from people who have zero experience with loneliness or being unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:43 PM
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Many of these guys were first shitted on by women and mainstream society, people are not born misogynist just like that. At some point they will understand that resentment will not get them anywhere, but first they will be angry. It's normal - anger is just natural emotion and reaction to unjustice, because being born ugly or disabled is unjustice. It's part of life, but it's unjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:22 PM
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I am seeing mixed couples(black woman+local dude) so probably yes, at least in bigger cities. https://singlowanie.pl/ Christian dating portal. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:54 PM
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Come to Eastern Poland - guys meeting your standards are dime a dozen. But you need to convert to Roman Catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:37 PM
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Tech was a bubble blown during pandemic, before that it was regular path of engineering - you've graduated good university, then internship and job. Self-taught guys making huge money for nothing were rare. Now tech is just coming back to it's right place - engineering job with high barrier of entry, but it not going to disappear anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:05 PM
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It's harder to develop AI that will do the job of programmer than to teach some immigrant how to do welding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:51 PM
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I'm not sure how much of this is culture and how much actual biology. People differ widely around the world - probably due to proliferation of American/European popculture, phenotype of white people is considered most attractive currently, but white people are neither strongest, healthiest nor most intelligent and white skin is a problem in warm climates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:42 PM
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There is no universal standard of 'superiority', what survives is superior. Drunks with physical deformities can survive due to their low standards, while beautiful and intelligent people may die off - dinosaurs were monumental and had no match in animal kingdom, but clumsy turtles outlived them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:34 PM
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If she would like to study something useful - like teaching, med school, engineering, law etc. then sure - go for it. But i wouldn't pay for studying some bs thing for rich kids. I know enough women in their 30s who are still dreaming about becoming artists, journalists and writers while getting monthly allowance from their parents and spending time sipping prosecco at 'artistic' places. Regarding sex, drugs and drinking - every young person need to try things - otherwise fomo may hit them hard,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:21 PM
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Tbh - apart from some terminally online weirdos, women in general understand that men like pretty women, because everyone likes good looking people. It doesn't equal objectification - some people just look good and spark sexual attraction. It's only reddit bubble where we have some female ayatollahs calling for eradication of sexual thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:43 PM
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True - I've restarted my life at 35, my business failed and I've had to support my wife and little child. But I've managed to build new and very good career.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:56 AM
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You remind me of my older brother. His life also didn't go as he dreamed of and his dreams were also pretty naive - same as yours. And instead of moving on and just living, he pretty much escaped from reality - even though there still were some opportunities ahead, life doesn't end when you are 28 or 35 and you are no worse than others only because you are behind some of your peers. I do not think that you've wasted time - you've gained experience and some maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:54 AM
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If you are in your 20s and in Europe you can try going to some holiday spots. Women in their 20s heavily outnumber guys in there and I've seen some dudes approaching with success. Btw - I wonder why guys do not go to such places ? They do not like swimming and drinking ? At some times me and my 7 yo son were the only guys in the swimming pool - he even said that it would be cool to have at least 1 boy to play with because there are only girls in there. Situation is the same for 20-something as f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:17 AM
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And he has sense of humor and clever comebacks - it's more than enough to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:09 PM
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My hs girlfriend was cheating on me with a teacher, though i wasn't very serious about her tbh and she was imo heavy on spectrum. She remained single and she has no friends afaik. My gf met online dumped me when one guy hit on her online. Turned out this guy was a con artist that was even mentioned in tv, she was lucky because some girls contracted std from him, and some were robbed. Later she was writing to me for over 2 years to possibly get back together. She was really hot lol. My gf turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:24 PM
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Man being good looking is worth more for women than money, for women who value intelligence/education these things are also worth more than money. You need to meet basic threshold of income that is average for your social class and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:20 AM
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You will weed out guys who have less money(quite common for people in their 20s) or simply do not feel good in fancy places. If this is just some coffee date then after 15 minutes you do know what you want to know and you can leave. Unfortunately only way for weeding out fuckboys is not giving them sex too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:37 PM
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Yeah - first date is supposed to be easy to end if there is no chemistry. Expensive date would be considered uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:52 AM
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Lesbians are like breath of fresh air. You talk to them and it's a mindfuck - woman that actually get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:45 AM
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It depends - my first gf had fetish of my... hips. I do not have any fat on hips, its just bone and skin, she was literally crazy about it and touching this place was halfway orgasm for her. My wife has fetish of hard chest muscles, its the same - she is touching me there and not much more is needed. For me it's rather just funny. But i would have objection of getting married to a girl that is strongly into white guys. I've got 'this' kind of attention from my Asian coworkers combined with them …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:40 AM
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Even in countries with low share of institutional investors prices go up. It's just a good investment since interest rates are low and people are flocking to biggest cities. But ie. in Sweden some homes lost 30% when interest rates went up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:32 PM
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Maybe it's worth to change the city ? Being single in small towns everywhere in the developed world sucks, but big cities are much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:03 PM
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Actually environment is much better in many places than it was in 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:53 PM
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I do not know the stats for US but ie. for Poland the problems is not the mean age of mothers, nor the number of children but rather growing percentage of childless people. Also everywhere in the world there is a massive decline of teenage pregnancies - which is a good thing as well. Overall these problems will be solved in US and EU via immigration, temporary or permanent. Most likely 'fucked' nations will be places like Ukraine, Moldova or Belarus - too poor to draw migrants, and decimated by …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:52 PM
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We like attractive people - people who are both attractive and make a good partners are usually off market, so there are assholes and dumb sluts left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:30 AM
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There are gender differences that are easy to spot yet there is no 'moral flaw' in them. Ie. women have better understanding of social settings and better understanding of emotional states of other people, it is just a fact men are majority of top and bottom performers academically, so most likely top engineers and scientists would always be male women are more agreeable and tend to adapt better to new social environments. Some men argue that is due to favorable bias, but i doubt that tbh. Men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:38 AM
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I can risk saying, that your education and career would get you much further with women at high economic/educational status. At least that was case for me - girls were willing to 'forgive' me being shorter than them(i'm 5'11) not to mention balding etc. because we were matched with education. On lower soci-economic levels it's just about looks and being nice to be around. But my thinking is similar - being intellectual peers is more important for me than ie. overweight or even very plain face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:40 AM
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Long term single people give poor advice, but really shitty advice is given by people who did nothing to meet someone - sometimes it just happens, but more often it does not and then you have to compete. The biggest problem with good advice is that its so hard to follow. Losing weight and becoming fit is a no brainer - but struggles with losing weight inflated shares of Ozempic manufacturer into space. So it is not that easy to follow this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:51 PM
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I personally dislike only women babbling online about 'kindness', being 'considerate' and other virtue signalling bullshit. Women are as shitty as men are, and since they have more power in dating - they are corrupted by it. They abandon ridiculous standards close to 30 when they realize that reasonable pool of men is shrinking and their career can barely cover rent and food. Romantic/compatibilty factor plays much smaller role than women like to admit - majority are superficial factors. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:06 PM
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I've never heard anything remotely close to 'man up' from other men. It was always: 'we'll help you man', 'we will try to get you through this', 'don't give up' etc. Women are different pair of shoes - amount of microaggression and sexism was through the roof: casual remarks about man starting with 180cm in front of some short dude, remarks about general ugliness of local boys(they were not, but girls were very full of themselves), non stop whining about men not being men anymore etc. Main sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:46 AM
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Because you have very favorable environment to have them. You are out of hs, maybe in university, no family, no overtimes to make ends meet etc. Is there anything better than weekend trip on a beach with your mates when you are 21 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:00 AM
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They are thinking with their dick - they want to have 'secure' pussy at request, and freedom to chase new pussies. No big philosophy behind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:00 PM
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If you are in your early 20s and you do not have friends, well that's a big red flag for both genders. In your late 30s/40s you may not have enough bandwidth to process more than 2-3 people and valuable friends are quite often dispersed around the world. I personally do not like keeping these wide circles anymore, it ends up with gossiping and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:51 PM
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Women vote against their interest. Illegal mass immigration is hurting women even more than men, yet in ie. America women support migration.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:04 PM
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Yes - but both of them are much younger, it is very uncommon here for women in their late 30s or 40s to have male friends. I do not have much in common wiyh women my age because they are usually quite... immature. Younger girls are serious and have something to say, women my age are shallow and quite dumb tbh. When i was younger i was hanging out with group of girls, and one of them was my gf fir some time. Actually I've always had at least one girl that i was 'closer' with in every job i've had…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:36 PM
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True - but it is sometimes a bit of a revelation for 15-17 yo. that dating world for men is pretty ruthless and 'winner takes almost all' is unfortunately quite real. Women can allow themselves for trying to punch above their weight for quite a long time since mid options are always there, men quickly learn their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:45 PM
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Women swipe left on normie guys as well. These apps are like casino for women, they play for highest stake for years even though there is little chance of win, sometimes they are replied by top men so there is incentive to play more. Gambling is very simple and extremely addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:33 PM
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Yep, it's like a guy complaining that he didn't had much success with ig models lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:00 PM
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Application is the product, women are bait. You do not try to sell the bait, because you will quickly run out of it. Application that works is simple - both men and women pay some small fee to read/write messages and see who has been lurking, limit of people that you can message is 3 per week. Browsing of profiles is totally open, you see everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:23 AM
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It's simpler than that. Casual sex is hard to obtain so men want to keep attractive woman around. If guy would be real Chad he wouldn't give a f..k about emotional connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:13 AM
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Yes it is, but being liberal seems to be sort of ultra-orthodox religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:57 AM
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I was expecting such childish comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:53 AM
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I think men should enjoy their independence, and visit sex workers if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:52 AM
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Yep, that is why there will be less relationships in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:21 PM
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Ways of handling emotions inside relationship. Men imo do not understand what women expect from them, and those who do not necessary want to change their ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:18 PM
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There is no issue imo. People do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:16 PM
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Women want political compatibility and men to follow their vague expectations regarding general 'emotions'. Men do not share values nor views that women seem to be following.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:15 PM
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Unfortunately - for big and growing percentage of men 'good relationship' by female understanding is a net loss, men and women are becoming increasingly incompatible in almost every aspect of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:08 PM
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It's not linear. After sharp drop when pill was introduced there was sort of plateau above 2.0, it started falling again around 2008. US is more conservative than Europe, but is catching up so it may easily end up around 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:04 PM
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Alpha males are still killing people without any problems. Putin, Lukashenko, Xi to nsme a few. Democratic leaders are cucks and pawns.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:09 PM
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This data series ends in 2018, 2023 was historical low for US..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:47 PM
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Hormonal contraception is available since 70s in the western world, yet birth rates started falling more sharply around 2010. I think we have cultural shift - men and women have different goals and views and rift is widening. Ltr do not have enough appeal anymore, probably we will see rising rate of people being long term single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:26 PM
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Wasn't he a cuck ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:09 PM
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Plummeting birth rates paint a different picture. Family or commitment is worth less than week on Ibiza.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:57 PM
0

Then what is the real motivation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:43 PM
8

Smoking hot Ukrainian girls have smoking hot Ukrainian boyfriends with daddy money and at least 10 simps waiting in line. My wife is running a business and she has lots of contact with these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:37 PM
2

Nope. Far right parties are against abortion and this is a hard no for women. But left wing lost some support, but it's a niche anyway. Tbh if right wingers would support abortion, Poland would be ruled by fascist+far right probably forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:50 PM
5

Because only Poland have significant number of female refugees not balanced by male refugees.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:22 PM
2

Towards female refugees from Ukraine mostly from women, men are less hostile. Most vocal opponents are women aged 18-39.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:20 PM
23

In here we dislike immigrants equally. Though local women are more against Ukrainian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:01 PM
2

Bartender experience might be useful since he was able to make observations of women who are totally free to make a choice, in such setting only genuine inteterest is exposed contrary to everyday life where relationship is created basing on more practical reasons. The heart alone says Chad, but the brain brings a reason - so there is Beta Billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:44 PM
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Yes - it's 15 years now. I - contrary to you, know experience of these boys. You just want to shit on them and call them 'misogynystic'. Force them with shaming and mockery to accept your ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:10 PM
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If you want to give any advice to men, stop using slogans like 'rationalize their misogyny' its paternalizing and cringe. I personally have everything in my life - way more than i thought i will ever have, i only want my son to not go into doing drugs and alcohol when he will grow up. That's it - give me that and i can die as a happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:00 PM
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If you have some basic reading abilities, you may notice that she started with false assumptions and insults. She reaped what she sowed - she is far from a 'lady'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:36 PM
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Do you think the same about bluepillers thinking their experience is default and right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:31 AM
1

Them I am sorry to say but looks like western societies consist at least in half of 'anti-social degenerates' of both genders. People divorce, cheat, bang prostitutes, seek for better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:28 AM
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Dude, you are talking some crazy ass shit about 'alphas' and other unhinged teenage theories. Fact is - majority of us simply have marriage as business deal which working well for both men and women. Majority of couples in the west end up with divorce, because deal gone bad or people just are simply bored. There is no magic emotional bond, relations are pretty much consumerist nowadays. Thats it pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:06 AM
1

I should argue with your silly rant ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:28 AM
1

You are getting close. Marriage lost it's practical appeal so it's useless. Peopke do not want nor desire long term realtionships, we want to have fun, bang some nice body and watch netflix not bothered by some shit of other person. I bet that if we would get rid of material problems human relations would be like in 'Brave New World'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:04 AM
1

You are still very childish and emotional. Tone down and pretend being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:58 AM
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Men have different understanding of 'desperate'. Desperate guy goes for ugly woman, there is always plenty of them available and they are very easy to get. Having hot but otherwise whatever gf is actually a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:40 AM
0

And you've measured it with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:37 AM
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I can respond, but i am not as pathetic to brag about my life here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:17 AM
1

You sound like a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:17 AM
2

So wtf you are doing here ? You are feeling better whenyou call people dysfunctional ? Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:51 AM
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Please - take your antidepression drugs and stop quoting your therapist. Women here are insane, 3/4 have serious mental health issues - your truth is true maybe among similar weirdos lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:30 PM
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More buzzwords please lol. Women here really parrot the same bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:48 PM
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Commitment is valued, but empathy is mainly reddit buzzword. Women i've met in my life wanted guys who are tall, handsome, and fun. Empathy or intelligence were not even mentioned by them, unless being smart could be monetized.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:46 PM
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Not only anyone but plenty of women. Good looking guy is like a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:53 PM
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Empathy and commitment - women outsode of reddit bubble do not care about it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:31 PM
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I don't think it's possible or if women even care about it that much. If guy will leave her a house and some nice money it's a win anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:48 PM
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Men do the same. Obese woman in her late 30s maybe subject of desire for some fetishist, but for other guys she just brings her paycheck and my do some household work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:40 PM
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Majority of guys cannot afford hot and unemployed women, but those who can are changing their wives for younger women very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:30 PM
0

Being old doesnt mean experienced. Next time he will be smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:17 PM
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Yeah - i've made similar mistake once, but then i realized that sincerity does not pay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:15 PM
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He calculated that youre better than nothing. He is most likely pretty dumb or inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:46 PM
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Dating is a meat market - you buy the best meat you can afford, your currency is your looks and to minor degree your status/money. The whole compatibility, friendship etc. bullshit regards tiny fraction of outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:39 PM
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Men and women want different things, value different things and believe in different things: https://youtu.be/TP7V-r4A1rU?feature=shared Biology is irrelevant, it's the way boyh genders want to shape society is vastly different. Middle ground is unlikely to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:06 PM
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Handgun would be having rather psychological effect. Most likely women would simply move in groups with armed escort. This would limit number of places that women are safe to go. Basically like South Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:36 AM
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They are not afraid, they make calculation - hot, intelligent but abusive guy is quite often worth more for them than good chump. She is at risk of not finding new guy of same attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:46 AM
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If she is hot then she would be desirable, if she is ugly she would be not desirable. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:21 AM
0

But it is. All value of Earth is just human imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:15 AM
0

Yeah - modernity is a swamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:12 AM
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Men would start seriously consider how much money woman can bring home, and only top looking girls would be hit on since they would bring prestige. Girls who are mid in every category would be ignored, at work women would face more harsh treatment, in general everyday life would be harder for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:31 AM
3

Idk - for example no free schools, no administration, no police, no firefighters. All is private.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:22 AM
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No jail in my scenario. We would lynch criminals on spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:09 AM
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She used to have such idea, but for me marriage is rather just a business deal, i do not share views nor interests of typical woman and i am bored by these 'deep' conversations. I can pretend if needed but it's not really me - my wife is ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:05 AM
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This bargaining is pathetic indeed, but i would like to see the real free market with all social security turned off. That would be cool to see how it affects dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:44 PM
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I think many women do not really have this clear division sex/real relationship, for men it's perfectly normal to have sex, spent time together and not consider it relationship, women are rather thinking of men as potential real partner before going to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:41 PM
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There is no such thing as instant lust, but there are guys who are asked out and approached by women quite openly. It doesn't mean sex at first sight, but guy has to really screw up to be rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:29 PM
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They are attracted to almost the same top men, and to a very small number of men outside the top acvordingto more individual factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:53 PM
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Nope - we like totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:50 PM
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If you have oprion for less crazy and quite hot then sure. But majority of women are between 3-5/10. In US it's even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:40 PM
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You do not have to marry crazy girl, how can she screw up your life ? Everyone should try crazy girl at least once, trust me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:31 PM
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There is no diference between 6/10 and 10/10, both are desirable. But would you go for 2/10 with great personality ? Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:21 PM
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If we would be not married, most likely we would not be friends with my wife. We are from totally different backgrounds and we have vastly different views. Her friends are mainly upper middle class " good boys and girls"(lawyers, doctors, business owners), my friends are from working class/farmers background(but now in engineering mainly) and she doesn't even want to meet them lol. I've met her friends but our relations are mix of mutual despise and distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:00 PM
0

I mean sex only - personality is important to some degree if you plan to get married, otherwise its like whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:32 PM
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Hard disagree - if you have a chance to bang pornstar tier girl, go for it - normie girls are no match.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:33 PM
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I've made six pack doing only push ups, pull ups and plank while i was 17. It wasn't really that absorbing, maybe 40-50 minutes daily. But muscles were just slightly visible, not hardcore sixpack like pro bodybuilders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:30 PM
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It depends on what is valued. Ie. would you choose hot but crazy woman over ugly but good girl ? I would go for hottie, since ugly girl brings nothing to my life. The same with bad guy - he brings looks and emotions, ugly nerd brings nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:46 PM
1

Reasons for having sons were purely practical, why this wouldn't regard daughters ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:57 PM
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Yeah, but now family of a girl can get some good money from future husband's family, while having a son is a huge cost if he is about to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:44 PM
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Soon there will be million of dead baby boys, since having a daughter is a good deal in China nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:38 PM
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I am afraid that planet doesn't care about giving it a break, since it is just a huge, irrelevant ball of stones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:33 PM
0

I think loving a woman is a state that redpillers would prefer to avoid, since it is making you weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:28 PM
1

Nothing specific - just people 30-50, so in theory more mature, but not really lol. Women are simping for hot guys, men are simping for hot women. Real life looks the same - apart maybe from small bubbles, in wide society people get along with their looksmatch, but this is not their 1st nor even 2nd choice. Some are happy, but majority just gets what is given without much enythusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:06 PM
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I guess simping might be for example adjusting to needs of modern women. For example being emotionally involved - many men do not really like such idea as being too burdensome and complex, so men following modern relayionship patterns that women consider healthy, might also be considered simps. It doesn't have to be material simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:32 AM
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Georgia is still a middle income country with limited career opportunities for women. Once education will become a ticket to corporate big city jobs, tfr will plummet to 1.2-1.4. Women in Georgia have kids because there is not much better things to do - once opportunities will show up, you will slide downwards like every other country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:53 AM
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Nope - women go for most attractive men as well. Facebook singles groups are like: hot guy gets 1k comments under post, ok looking guy around 40-50, poor looking guy 0-2. Out of this 1k you have mainly women who are rather ugly, not even mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:50 AM
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In my anecdotal experience - it is enough to have 45/55 to make dating easy mode for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:40 AM
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From prctical point of view - pro natalists are using the right arguments to their target group. Left leaning big city dwellers will not be having more children no matter the quality of policies, pretty much because it is incompatible with urban lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:15 PM
2

I do not care about moral aspect of having multiple sexual partners, I am not one of those weirdos obsessed with virgins or n-count - i'm atheist so i do not care, but for me having dozens of sex partners is a sign of some problem. It is risky behavior, like binge drinking or using cocaine - and risky behavior is usually related to some mental health issues. I value stability in relationship - way above looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:23 PM
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That is true, buy nevertheless - there are guys who skate on looks alone and this may be a source of insecurities. I think their(incels/rp) point is that what they can achieve via improving themselves as a person, guy who was born good looking is achieveing without much effort and their personality will lose in a few seconds with looks. In many cases(not all ofc!) it is true - there is plenty of women who will literally simp for good looking guy, while this mid dude with nice personality will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:23 AM
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Many men fail due to being shy, silent, not having style(fashion sense is personality as well), not being active, being not educated, having extremist views, being boring. Yes - being good looking can overcome these problems if you are into dull shallow ladies(there is plenty of them), since being good looking is quite rare, but for the average dude personality may be a dealbreaker. But - unfortunately there are guys who are ugly or have other problems, and this is a factor that makes them bitte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:39 AM
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I've seen local singles group on fb, if some good looking guy post a pic then he gets 3k likes, the same with woman. Women were actually pissed in the comments asking "do you even respond ?". Average people get around 100 likes, women maybe 300-400 and poor looking guys 3 or 4. I think that both men and women do not fully realize how popular are top looking people - and they are wasting their time trying to match with these people. Less naive people find their partner quickly, quality of matches…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:11 AM
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It's true. Parenting is not valued - i'd say that even being human is not valued. The closer you are to organic robot optimizing it's productivity - the more you are valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:07 PM
4

It is more important than in xx century. We live in times where job security is low and cost of living is growing. It's harder to buy property, rent, eat out regularly, outsource everyday chores. Extended families are dead. Getting married make it way easier to build wealth, divide chores, lower cost of living, it also better for mental health to not live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:25 PM
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Covid only accelerated some changes that were already happening. Society is getting more and more divided( in every country) - wealthy people have more opportunities to socialize, have better health, are more active and no wonder that most educated and wealthiest people have better private lives. Meanwhile poorer people have it harder to thrive, or to just have good social lives - especially boys from families of low cultural capital are more affected. Parents sit them behind iPad and give them …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:16 PM
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People start looking for relationships later in life, but men and women are largerly living in separate educational and proffesional worlds after leaving high school. So they interact less. This leads to usage of dating apps which are designed to milk users, and are also ruthless for men who are not very appealing on their photos, and in general these apps exploit the fact that people are pretty poor at evaluating probability of success. There is a high prize and users(of both genders) naively b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:14 AM
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I've had the same problem when I was like 20-24. All girls were far ahead of me, they've had a vision of future and were actually making it real. And I was childish - detached from real life and not achieving anything. I didn't even have drivers license until being 23 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:04 AM
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In general It's pretty easy for me to read people after seeing them for a few minutes and usually I am not mistaken much. The way you look like and your body langauage quickly reveals who you are. Men sometimes have a hard time understanding that their appearance or some specific behavior may be off putting for women, or simply boring, not sparking attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:54 AM
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In my country mainly women are opposing immigration, it started once women from Ukraine started flowing in. But it has little in common with dating - it's mainly about competing for jobs and ie. access to doctors, preschool for kids etc. Overall migrants and natives are not really on the same dating market, there was ofc spike of marriages local man+ Ukrainian woman but it's in the range 2k/year so pretty insignificant number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:59 AM
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Women have better understanding of social relations, emotional states of other people and on average are doing better with communication(not in all social settings though), this is proven by various research. But this doesn't mean that women are on average more moral than men, they can use their skills for personal gains or to be more effective bullies. And they do it, human beings are far from perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:28 PM
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It's not that simple - some men get mainly privilege, but some get mainly harm, there is also group of women that benefits from patriarchy in some areas while is not really affected negatively. There are also women that are mainly affected negatively, while gain nothing. Gender roles are evolving and women also would have to adjust and take part in changes - they actually are doing it all the time since more women take role of breadwinner, they join the army, women are also not expecting that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:06 PM
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Polygyny is not capitalism. We can agree that bmw is better than yaris, but only if you are the only owner - if you have to share bmw with 5 other people, your free market choice will be yaris. It's the same with relationships - women agree on polygyny only of they are forced somehow(economically ie.), or due to fetish. Polygyny produces inferior outcome for women - therefore they prefer no man or even shitty man over shared man. It's purely free decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:14 AM
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Capitalism is not a product of choice, it's just most effective system of increasing productivity. Polygyny is the opposite - it is least effective system of raising children. That is why most prosperous societies are monogamous and capitalistic, while polygynous societies died off or were slaughtered without much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:57 AM
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Socializing people for suppressing basic emotional needs will not work. Catholic priests are living in celibate by choice, their choice is prestigous and they are miserable - alcoholism and visiting prostitutes are the norm, plenty of them have families or partners anyway. Besides how will you choose the ones that should be sexless ? Plenty of stupid, lazy, ugly and crazy men have partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:09 AM
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I think that they were simply nervous and they lack experience in dealing with people. People like to talk about themselves - but facilitating this is a skill, many men do not understand that they need to put effort into building a relation, male(boy) friendships are very spontaneous, women usually require some work to be done first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:40 PM
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Do we actually have any data provided by match.com ? It's pretty hard to find any statistics, they do not seem to be interested in publishing such info.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:49 PM
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Accused wasn't guilty but it not necessarily was false accusation. Woman might point the guy by mistake, not really as a result of deliberate action to form false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:09 AM
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Dating up is rare - just from purely statistical point of view, wage gap between genders is small. Sure we may consider teacher dating engineer as 'dating up' but wage and status difference is too small to consider it gold digging. However in these rare cases where woman sells beauty for money and difference is huge - man is also getting derogatory status of 'sugar daddy' or betabuxxer, women are maybe vilified but men are despised and looked down upon as the guys who are so unattractive that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:50 AM
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I'd argue that - they are both(Cristiano and Georgina) in above average category(though it is visible that Cristiano grew up poor) but not really in the 'hottest' category. Pretty looksmatched imo. Irina Shaykh is way above that - though I am seeing her face at least 20 times a week - plenty of girls have plastic surgery done to look like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:26 AM
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Please - I can go out to nearby grocery store and at least 3 girls working there will be more attractive than her. Girl driving bus in my town is hotter than her. She is good looking but not really on par with Russian/Ukrainian models - pretty far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:19 AM
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