Idigabighole Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	RP that somehow became BP		Idigabighole	/r/askMRP	25/06/20 11:42 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What other weapons in the arsenal? Youre still looking for road maps and answers. The stupid part is they exist, youve apparently read them, and still understand nothing. I feel like youre a step away from getting your wife to proof read your posts. Friend, from the bottom of my black heart, stop making your wife the focus. Stop attempting to control her behavior. Stop calling the fucking cops over some arguments. You are losing. Again and again and again. Nuke? Sounds like she'll leave you staggering and devastated. You're nowhe…	/r/askMRP	14/04/22 02:12 AM
2	Punishing LTR Id total up the 'shes' and 'hers' in this atrocity of a post, but it doesnt really matter. You're in her frame all to fuck. Even with all the shit youre talking, you're still worried about her. Kids worry about the shit you're talking about not men. Re-read, re-absorb, re-focus. Unfaggot yourself.	/r/askMRP	01/01/22 08:33 PM
8	Split after bachelor party Not gonna lie I stopped reading after that. I just went on my bachelor party, and I agreed with no strippers or anything like that. And at one time we decided that we would not go to bars without each other…. I don’t remember agreeing to this, but I said yeah, sure, whatever Not gonna lie I stopped reading after that, especially afyer I noticed the wall of text which I assume is one giant victim puke. If the ending is no wedding then good and beyond that holy shit man. Start reading, start lifti…	/r/askMRP	20/12/21 04:42 PM
3	The MRP Mods Are All Faggots + Other Shit You want to ACTUALLY be attractive to your wife or ANY woman? All the time you've apparently spent here, yet the most basic foundational point still escapes you. Fascinating. *self-deprecating	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/10/21 04:33 AM
6	One step away from a cuck Everything on the sidebar. Watch some channels like Rian Stone and Entrepreneurs In Cars. The answers are there. If I could offer a quick and valuable tip: dont view the reading material as checklists. Theres no such thing as one size fits all. I learned it the hard way. Its up to you to figure out how best to implement the knowledge. And dont continually wander in here asking for step-by-step advice. You wont like the feedback.	/r/askMRP	12/10/21 05:50 PM
5	One step away from a cuck Well you seem to have decided on the stfu part. Now read the sidebar, lift and get ready. Shit will get hectic.	/r/askMRP	12/10/21 05:43 PM
10	What does it mean if girlfriend wants to meet your parents Do it. Make sure you continue to follow all her suggestions and do what she wants when shes pushy. This is a guaranteed recipe for success.	/r/askMRP	09/10/21 03:40 AM
1	Inviting another man, shit test? A lot of posts with a lot of focus on the woman...in response to a post that was filled with 'she' and 'her'. 'Shes wants this' , 'she doesnt want that'. Who cares? Youre not defined by the quality of cooch. When its anything beyond a fun diversion, youre losing.	/r/askMRP	09/10/21 03:30 AM
1	I (31M) am upset about my pregnant wife’s (36F) sexual history - that has just surfaced again. Now I’m thinking about RedPill life instead of Blue or Purple Pill Life. Depressing but where do I go from here as a Beta - with a kid on the way … Last time you asked about this shit SBIII told you everything you needed to hear and you absorbed precisely nothing. Now here you are again, except even deeper into a whirlpool created by ego and you cant admit any fault. Go back and read his post again, except this time actually read it. Empty your head of any thoughts whatsoever. Meditate for a fucking hour to achieve this if you have to. Then read his response hopefully free of your obvious ego and realize everything currently fucked in your …	/r/askMRP	31/07/21 05:15 AM
3	Shit Test Question Thats a lot of words to say "I'm living in her frame." Didnt read all of this. The first few sentances were enough. The answers are there. Youre looking for validation for your actions and to assuage your ego Mr.8-9. Stop.	/r/askMRP	08/05/21 05:20 PM
1	Arming the nuke Not sure where you are in Canada but where I live its been wide open for months now. They even remodeled it. If they close back down, I have a gym ready to go in the house.	/r/askMRP	10/11/20 06:36 PM
4	The AskMRP Science Experiment has concluded. Conclusion: You're retarded. Was hoping to see the guy who knew how often his wife takes a shit.	/r/askMRP	20/10/20 02:01 AM
1	Is this counting as STFU? Look at the post linked above from u/SelectAirline, which apparently was 3 fucking years ago. Then go read the top comment. Repeatedly. Then ask yourself if you've internalized a goddamn thing since then.	/r/askMRP	11/10/20 08:23 PM
3	LTR suddenly got into anal You've turned her asshole into a shit test. I just.. You were both fucked up on a drug that people like to fuck on, and decided to try something dirty, and since youre getting clean youve allowed your hamster to spin it into an issue. Unless this was accompanied by other red flags stop worrying so much.	/r/askMRP	11/10/20 02:24 PM
9	Is this counting as STFU? "Honey why did you fuck a grapefruit in front of the window?" "Because I wanted to." Context has meaning. Stfu is more about not letting your stupid feelings do the talking and provide a base point to start passing shit tests. If shes asking you normal everyday questions and youre answering them like this then no, you're just being a retard.	/r/askMRP	11/10/20 02:17 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 06, 2020 This comment annoyed me because its true. Less talk, more do.	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/10/20 08:39 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 06, 2020 OYS # 7 42M, wife 40, 3 daughters 21,15,13. 6'0, 196 lbs. SQ-215, OHP-120, DL-240, BP-155, BR-155. Currently, my numbers are staying static for two weeks as I work away 7 days at a time any the gym at my site is currently still closed so I make do with resistance bands (the kind with hooks, varied weights and an attachment for a door), chinup/pullup bar, bodyweight. Although I did discover that the 2 mini fridges dont work bad as a makeshift bench for dips etc. READ- NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, …	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/10/20 01:45 PM
3	Has my wife cheated and possibly planning to jump ship? Working on yourself does fix everything. Most of the time, you'll realize that you didn't even know what really needed fixing.	/r/askMRP	04/10/20 08:05 PM
4	Has my wife cheated and possibly planning to jump ship? Now what I was told is that she has fantasized about a past boyfriend to get off "periodically" according to her over the years and celebrities. She admitted to flirting and crushing on a guy at work and even fantasizing about sleeping with him. She says that the thought of cheating has crossed her mind while she worked at that job but never went through with it. Shes gotten numbers from guys at work but never texted them according to her. Also According to her the reason for the emotional disco…	/r/askMRP	03/10/20 10:29 PM
2	What a year of Owning Your Shit looks like Read your journey in its entirety. I needed this.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/10/20 09:28 PM
12	How do you maintain attraction when living with your wife/LTR? I still don’t see how I would maintain attraction being around my girl all the time when she’s not wearing makeup or she’s on her period If you believe her naked face and some tampons will ruin your attraction, you should not move in with her, because thats reality. I’m confused on how one can even maintain frame all the time when around their wife. This is why MRP is called RP on hard mode. You're tested daily by a woman that knows you better than anyone, that knows your triggers and buttons an…	/r/askMRP	30/09/20 03:38 AM
6	How do you maintain attraction when living with your wife/LTR? Entire post reeks of uncertainty and indecision. I’m not planning on marrying or moving in but I was thinking about it Well which one is it? Either you want to do it or you don't. It isn't up to the men here to tell how to maintain your frame in an LTR. All I can say is if youre basing your attraction to her on makeup and menstrual cycle, then you definitely should not move in with her. Or anyone.	/r/askMRP	30/09/20 02:42 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 29, 2020 OYS # 6 42M, wife 40, 3 daughters 21,15,13. 6'0, 196 lbs. SQ-215, OHP-120, DL-240, BP-155, BR-155. Steady as she goes. READ- NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, TRM, DBF, TSAONGAF, Way Of Men, TWOTSM, OYS old and new. Current: Book Of Pook, NMMNG(2) LISTENING: Atomic Habits WATCHING- Rian Stones YT channel, Rich Cooper MARRIAGE/SEX: You know, the concept of fun is too often forgotten amidst the raging and rambo. The last little while, I find myself just having fun without effort. Sex rejection? Shit tes…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/09/20 09:14 PM
1	Is my wife cheating on me? Yes, and the rest of your post explains why. The only logical course forward of course would be to start spending more time with her, bring her unexpected presents, rub her back, have long conversations with her about your insecurities and attend couples therapy. It will work like a charm and you'll be endlessly happy just like the movies.	/r/askMRP	28/09/20 09:40 PM
6	Death of a parent Of course its a thing. Your woman is looking to you to be her port in a storm. The overhanging branch she can grab onto to pull her out of the river of her emotions. If you fall to pieces from a parents death, she's wondering how much worse you'll be if one of your children suddenly passes. Grieving is perfectly fine, but you still need to be able to hold it together to address the minutae of everyday life. This is just what we do.	/r/askMRP	26/09/20 04:22 PM
12	Death of a parent When my dad died, I cried, and our relationship was ambiguous at best. Your parents are monolithic figures in your life and when they die part of you dies too. Go ahead and fucking cry. If you're worried about her testing you're already in her frame. Embrace your grief. Its necessary. Sorry for your loss.	/r/askMRP	26/09/20 03:55 PM
3	How to deal with an ex in the workplace Quick story for you. One of the foremen on my crew started fucking a girl on the crew. Eventually things went bad and she literally started stalking him around the site. He manned up, set up a meeting with him, her and higher ups, including a fucking VP. It got sorted. Theyre now cordial and able to complete tasks working together on occasion. He learned an important lesson. She didnt, but that shocks nobody who knows her. So as not to make a scene, I would sometimes not transfer important infor…	/r/askMRP	25/09/20 06:38 PM
1	OYS - Learn from the Best... On Video... I wont be able to attend due to work. Unfamiliar with Discord. Will the video be archived or downloadable? Or are Discord vids always available?	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/09/20 12:41 AM
4	Low Sex Marriage as the Norm How do you deal with the influences of low sex marriage from some of your closest friends? You dont.	/r/askMRP	18/09/20 05:08 AM
5	Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Rpilled Go to MRP sub. You will find what you need there. Trust me. Just don't expect gentle handling. You won't get it.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/20 04:20 AM
79	Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Rpilled I see her social media posts. This is where you start to move on. You HAVE to go absolute no contact. Block/delete her off of everything, and I mean everything. Block/delete her #. Burn any paper reminders of it. Delete/throw away old pictures. I mean fucking nuke absolutely every last reminder of her. Use her cheating if you have to and get. fucking. ANGRY. Anger is more constructive than sorrow. Its your fucking life, not hers. Stop letting her own it. Trust me she doesn't gaf about your curre…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/20 03:23 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020 Solid advice. If I'm just talking to everybody then I'm just having fun and not making it all about pussy. I will add Day Bang to the library. Thank you. I should add, took the wife for a drink the other night. Chatted the waitress up about a little tat on her wrist and such. Didn't think much of it. Wife made some remark about 'hitting on our waitress' and 'guys are so obvious' etc. Later I realized I hadn't even been trying to actively flirt but apparently did anyways. Seemed like an important…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/09/20 07:08 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020 OYS # 5 42M, wife 40, 3 daughters 21,15,13. 6'0, 195 lbs. BF% Didnt measure this week. SQ-200, OHP-115, DL-230, BP-150, BR-150. Steady as she goes. READ- NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, TRM, DBF, TSAONGAF, Way Of Men, TWOTSM, OYS old and new. Current: Book Of Pook, NMMNG(2) Next: re-read all those again, continue to internalize before moving on to 48 Laws Of Power. WATCHING- Rian Stones YT channel, Rich Cooper MARRIAGE/SEX: Realizing that you have continued to make sex and intimacy about your own …	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/09/20 06:45 PM
3	Can I still Participate in MRP posts post LTR? Rant/Question I dont recall seeing a rule against it. Youve found value here so why not stay? Its your life do what you want.	/r/askMRP	10/09/20 04:49 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 08, 2020 Love those videos. Rip knows his shit and breaks it down in a very understandable way. SS has their own YT channel too with vids of Rip breaking down all the lifts in greater detail.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/09/20 06:24 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 08, 2020 OYS#4 42M, wife 40, 3 daughters 21,15,13. 6'0, 190 lbs. BF% 19. SQ-185, OHP-110, DL-225, BP-140, BR-140. Steady as she goes. READ- NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, TRM (fuck did I love this book), DBF, TSAONGAF, Way Of Men, OYS old and new. Currently reading: Way Of The Superior Man. Like a cold beer after a huge steak. Next: re-read all those again, continue to internalize before moving on to 48 Laws Of Power. WATCHING- Rian Stones YT channel, Rich Cooper, Anthony Robbins. (Im fascinated by this m…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/09/20 04:30 PM
7	LTR and Arguments My wife likes to pretend she doesn't shit. I'm fine with that. I do not want the visual of her grunting out a deuce popping into my head when I'm fucking her.	/r/askMRP	05/09/20 05:55 PM
4	Wife Hates Sex If you feel like lamenting the decay of modern man, its a great place.	/r/askMRP	05/09/20 04:53 AM
10	Wife Hates Sex I read his deadbedroom posts. His wifes pussy may as well be the Hope Diamond. Everything he does is based off of hoping she doles out even a crumb of duty pussy, which she won't because she has zero respect for him and every effort towards acquiring said ass just worsens it. This guy will hurt.	/r/askMRP	05/09/20 04:34 AM
10	Wife Hates Sex You've seen the word 'sidebar' a bunch of times already. It's not a suggestion. It's mandatory, and necessary. From reading your post history be warned, this shit will fucking hurt. You WILL have revelations that will hurt. You WILL get angry. You WILL resist. You WILL be called a faggot. Multiple times. You WILL be told that nobody cares if you succeed. You WILL realize that nobody really does, including especially your woman. You WILL have all of your bullshit and cockneyed faggotry laid bare …	/r/askMRP	05/09/20 04:12 AM
2	Can you be humorously stoic? You articulated a number of concepts that had been vague ideas for me up to this point. Great stuff.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/09/20 07:21 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 01, 2020 No, dude. You don’t get to rationalize faggotry here. You got drunk and had a drunken rage. That needs to be your last. That shit is so embarrassing and unattractive. I re-read that bit and youre right. I have to own that rage fag. Thanks for pointing that out. Can't blame the whiskey either. A man has control over his impulses. All the booze did was lower my barriers.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/09/20 05:27 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 01, 2020 OYS#3 42, M 3 kids, 6'0 189 lbs, BF% 20 and dropping, SQ 165, BP 135, BR 135, OHP 100, DL 205. Slowly climbing. Light cardio and supplemental lifts of on off days. READ: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, Way Of Men, DBF, SAONGAF. Late posting this. Had a 12 hour drive and just got in. PHYSICAL: Lifts continue to go up which pleases me. Every week I start feeling like Im getting more into grown man weights, even though I know Im still light. Just something about putting full plates on the bar that feel…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/09/20 02:52 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 25, 2020 I love this feedback and having it pointed out. It shows my mental point of origin still isn't where it should be. Its an insidious thing. A guy gets so used to framing it as a reward for myself, instead of a reward for her and doesnt even think about the implications of "she gave me sex". An excellent point on frame building. Thank you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/08/20 11:50 PM
1	Nagging in laws: the aftermath (Cringe warning) I could have sworn this is askMRP, not OYS. Was there a question in here somewhere?	/r/askMRP	28/08/20 04:16 PM
1	Dealing with super nagging in-laws (WISNIFG examples wanted) I was shooting for brevity. The awkwardness seems pretty obvious now. It gets really bad if you switch them around.	/r/askMRP	27/08/20 08:52 PM
5	Dealing with super nagging in-laws (WISNIFG examples wanted) Just the other day, I got a text from my mother. It was about my sister. It involved a bunch of drama. I had already said I wont do it over text. I just said it and left it at that. Cue wife. "I think you should talk to your sister." Me: No Wife: various things she thinks I should do Me: Smile. "The answer is no. Wife:... That was it. She didn't like it. Neither did mom. I felt fine. Youre involved in as much shit as you allow. Read WISNIFG again. I am. I'm hardly a master, but the concepts are …	/r/askMRP	27/08/20 06:09 PM
1	Help me help him I'm guessing you noticed the well constructed nature of the experienced members posts and decided that a thesaurus would gain you respect. Not how it works. Try asking a real question with your own words dickbag.	/r/askMRP	26/08/20 02:30 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 25, 2020 My Rambo faggotry seems pretty clear now. Thank you for the feedback.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/08/20 01:18 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 25, 2020 There's a ton of value in this comment. Not meant for me but damn.	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/08/20 06:37 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 25, 2020 OYS#2 Back from ban. 42, M 3 kids, 6'0 189 lbs, BF% 20 and dropping, SQ 155, BP 130, BR 130, OP 95, DL 195, 3rd week of SL5x5 so weights still lighter. Light cardio and supplemental lifts of on off days. READ: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, Way Of Men, DBF, SAONGAF READING: The Rational Male. Not sure why but this book really seems to be pulling everything together for me. STFU: This has been the hardest part. A wise man said to me "You really dont know how to just shut the fuck up do you?" and onc…	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/08/20 02:40 PM
10	I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) How many red flags were there? After reading this, I find it hard to believe there weren't any. Since I'd found such a great girl, why not go ahead with >her? I am 23, and a college grad. She is 20 Lack of frame, oneitis, scarcity, no mission, shes at peak SMV, you're nowhere near it yet. Ironically, all of that in 23 words. You fucked yourself way before she locked up the reason you married her.Take the L and learn. Consider it a gift that you have no kids yet. Then read the sidebar again.	/r/askMRP	25/08/20 05:23 AM
3	Big test over text "Did I handle this right?" If youre even asking this question you already know the answer. Nobody here is going to validate you with a yes and you know that already.	/r/askMRP	17/08/20 06:59 PM
3	Wife doesn't respect my wishes as much. Re-read your post and your responses and then do it again. After that...do it again. Continue doing it until you realize you made an entire post about a donut argument.	/r/askMRP	26/07/20 05:20 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 Its a work in progress. You wouldn't believe some of the bitch shit I'm guilty of. Wait yes you would.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/07/20 05:11 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 Based on what exactly? A few grand worth of renos that will be paid in 3 months? Don't worry its fine. Dont get mad because I don't value your golden goose. My main issue is the betafeelz cage ive locked myself into, lack of frame and no mission. Address that instead.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/07/20 04:50 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 The idea here is constructive brutal feedback i thought. If I'm not interested in it then I'm not. If its good for you then good. Where on earth did you get the idea that im broke?	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/07/20 04:37 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 I didn't say that. Its an honest statement of my finances. I have no interest in learning FOREX. That better?	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/07/20 04:32 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 Btw your post about sex and validation is a great read. Truth hurts.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/07/20 12:00 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 Getting out has to start somewhere. But you're right.	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/07/20 05:16 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020 OYS #1 STATS 42, Married 3 kids all teens. 6'0 190 lbs, no BF % yet. DL 225. SQ 185 BP 135. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, DBF, Way Of Men. Reading: WISNIFG, Dune. PHYSICAL Yeah I've got a lot of fucking work ahead of me. Dgaf when I hit the iron everything else fades for an hour or so. Out on a solo camping trip and did a 2400 ft elevation hike and ive never felt so keenly how much I've let shit go. Still powered up to the summit, despite many rest breaks. Weights dropping though and ive gotten control of…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/07/20 04:36 PM
2	Need genuine advice - getting shutdown on other subs No you're just looking for people to validate what you do and give you a magic trick to get your sex life back. No one cares about your feelings here and there are no shortcuts.	/r/askMRP	10/07/20 01:13 AM
6	Need genuine advice - getting shutdown on other subs So you broke your commitment to fuck some strippers and post wall table scraps. Super duper alpha bro. Read. Lift. Stfu. You know fucking nothing.	/r/askMRP	09/07/20 10:34 PM
1	RP that somehow became BP Quick ask before I go back into STFU. Reading through NMMNG and the author recommends getting my SO to read the book as well. Is this wise considering how early in the game I am?	/r/askMRP	28/06/20 09:22 PM
1	Reddit ban coming? Interrupting my STFU but is there a backup place if it is banned? I just got started.	/r/askMRP	28/06/20 08:54 PM
6	RP that somehow became BP Basically. I realized that I don't just want more sex. I want the entire picture to change. Sex is just a byproduct of something else. The idea was vague in my head and I saw a brief reference to MRP. Took me all of reading 1 post to realize its exactly what I need.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 09:02 PM
1	RP that somehow became BP I can be a cunt, and you both just summed up the last 10 years of my life.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 08:57 PM
3	RP that somehow became BP Even being new to this that seems like a terrible idea. If she thinks I'm doing it just to fuck her more it won't change a damn thing. Talking to her too much hasn't helped anything. Nah I'm doing this for me.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 08:56 PM
1	RP that somehow became BP Read the intro. Bought all the pre-reqs. A lot of work in front of me, but the resources are there. I like the way shits being laid out here.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 08:53 PM
5	RP that somehow became BP No I started there and there seemed to be a lot of people feeling sorry for themselves.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 08:39 PM
2	RP that somehow became BP I'm good with work. Just looking for a jump off point.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 01:28 PM
7	RP that somehow became BP I dont mind tough love. Being complacent is what got me into this mess.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 01:27 PM
4	RP that somehow became BP Usually things that are worth doing take time. I'm ok with that.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 01:23 PM
5	RP that somehow became BP Thank you.	/r/askMRP	26/06/20 01:22 PM
5	RP that somehow became BP Just to clarify im new af at this. I dont know what the sidebar is and I just made a Reddit account today.	/r/askMRP	25/06/20 11:45 PM
1	Wife making more money Has she raised any issues with you making more money? If not, then its your problem not hers. Check that shit now. Your insecurity (like every other fuckhead this happens to) will be noted and she will lose respect for you. If you're fine with what you do this won't be an issue. If you're not, then change your fucking situation.	/r/askMRP	25/06/20 09:02 PM