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Idiot_Savant13/r/askMRP24/01/25 08:25 PM
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She doesn’t want to be part of your “crew.” Women aren’t built like that. They are not your homies they are women. She does not want to be your homie, therapist, pastor; or gym buddy. She wants to be THE woman to a high value man. Rollo talks about this extensively. Also if you’re trying to take her to the gym with you don’t. It’s time for you to have to yourself selfishly. All the vets say the same thing That mental model of your girl being your best friend is a tough one to unlearn. It was sma…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/25 09:30 AM
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OYS #5 Stats 29. 5’9” 184.2 lbs ~21%BF. Married 6 years SAHM for 1 year, 1 kid Lifts 5x8 BP 110, Squat 115, Dumbbell OHP 50, DL 145 1x5 Reading Praxeology 1 and 2, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, TRM, working on MAP Background lurked here and TRP back in 2018, thought I could sprinkle some alpha and call it good because my girl isn’t like those other girls. I was obviously very wrong. Sex dropped off after birth and NICU stay. Frame My last 2 weeks were spent finishing my transcript hunt, studying and pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 04:27 AM
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Fair enough. Should I care if I come across as whiny? Feels like wasted effort and I’d rather rely on myself for judgement, not her perception of me. It being on my mind as you pointed out is bad enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/25 01:09 AM
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I must have worded it poorly. I told her when I would be up as I do frequently to coordinate logistics. I always wake up at the same time on my days off unless I have more than 2 in a row. As far as reactive framing goes I’ll have to chew on that. I don’t feel like I’m trying to show her, I just literally do not have the hours in the day for any shenanigans. I’ve been making shit happen for this new job opportunity. At least that’s what I feel initially. When I say that I don’t care about upsett…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/25 12:30 AM
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At the risk of being rule 9ed again, she knew and agreed. I should’ve expected some shit since this isn’t the first time I’ve been blown off but I didn’t. I definitely wasn’t calm and probably did come across as whiny but I don’t care about upsetting her at this point. My focus is on my career hunt anyway. You are right in that I probably failed to be unattractive. By my standard I’m happy with myself for not dealing with that shit as I did previously: quiet sulking and choking down my anger unt…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 08:07 PM
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OYS #4 Stats 29 years old 5’9” 184.2 lbs 21.2% BF (Questionable) Married 6 years SAHM for 1 year, 1 kid Lifts 5x8 BP 115, Squat 125, Dumbbell OHP 50, DL 155 1x5 Reading Praxeology 1 and 2, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, TRM Background I lurked here and TRP back in 2018, thought I could sprinkle some alpha and call it good because my girl isn’t like those other girls. I was obviously very wrong. Sex dropped off after birth and NICU stay. Been busy with interview prep and chasing down transcripts the past…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 09:46 AM
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After marinating on this and events of this week, I’m pretty sure it’s because I have no frame and shit game.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/25 01:09 PM
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Thank you for the feedback and your time with both responses. I do appreciate it for whatever that is worth. I feel I have no other option besides acceptance until I am at least physically attractive and have broken at least 2 bad mental models you and Teh1 have helped bring to light. I am not at the point where I can start nuking rejections with some degree of OI. The response you quoted is similar to things I have said in the past while victim puking. I guess I am failing to see how it is any …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/25 11:45 AM
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I want to be attractive period. She might be a woman who fucks attractive men or she might just be frigid to a degree. Either way I want to know that I am not the problem and I want options.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/25 11:13 AM
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Overall this implies that I’m in her frame still. I think you’re right about that. I still factor in framing my responses based on what she will or won’t react to in my head. I do enjoy going to the gym and it is what I want. I miss being in shape and not looking in the mirror to see belly fat and love handles. “OK” is because it’s better than lashing out with a whiny comment or worse yet, a full blown victim puke about my needs as I used to do. More recently I have made the occasional snide com…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/25 11:09 AM
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It’s definitely my lack of attractiveness. What I can control right now is not being unattractive. The go-to response is “OK” and gym. I should be more hardened to it by now but I am still butthurt so I don’t think cocky/funny will come across as anything other than pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:39 PM
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Definitely was worse when I used to eat fried shit but even with eating healthy it never fully goes away. Low fat or high fat makes no difference. I eat a solid diet of lean meats, rice, eggs, veggies etc. It’s always there like a small hard lump.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:17 PM
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A lot of gold in here for a new guy like me but what really stood out to me is this the trigger is an opportunity to grow. Don’t waste it by shutting down your reasoning centers and externalizing the stimulus with a ‘fuck that guy’ attitude. Doing so makes you a reactive victim of their actions, instead of an agent controlling your responses Reacting to a trigger with internal anger is a big issue for me. I’ve rationalized that because I have gotten very good at not showing my anger, I am not re…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 02:29 PM
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OYS #3 Age: 29. 5’9” 184.6 lbs 20.8% BF. Married 6 years SAHM for 1 year, 1 kid Lifts: 5x8 BP 115, Squat 115, Dumbbell OHP 60, DL 145 1x5 Reading: Praxeology 1 and 2, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, working on TRM Background: lurked here and TRP back in 2018, thought I could sprinkle some alpha and call it good because my girl isn’t like those other girls. I was obviously very wrong. Sex dropped off after birth and NICU stay. Frame: I got temp banned for rule 9. I was mad about it at first but on reread …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 10:29 AM
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OYS #2 Age: 29. 5’9” 187lbs 22.2% BF. Married 6 years SAHM for 1 year, 1 kid Lifts: 5x8 BP 95 Squat 105 OHP 45 Reading: Praxeology 1 and 2, NMMNG, WISNIFG, working on MMSLP Background: lurked here and TRP back in 2018, thought I could sprinkle some alpha and call it good because my girl isn’t like those other girls. I was obviously very wrong. Sex dropped off after birth and NICU stay. She doesn’t like when I show strong emotions or have needs. Review: GI bug took me out for almost a full week. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 12:12 PM
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OYS OYS #1 Age: 29. 5’9” 191lbs 23.2% BF. Married 6 years SAHM for 1 year, 1 kid Lifts: 5x8 BP 95, Squat 115, OHP 45. Reading: Praxeology 1 x3 Praxeology 2 x2 NMMNG x2 WISNIFG, working on MMSLP Background: lurked here and TRP back in 2018, thought I could sprinkle some alpha because my girl isn’t like those other girls. I was obviously very wrong. After having a kid 1.5 years ago sex dropped off a cliff. Understandably the C-section was brutal and the NICU stay was hard. Baby is healthy now but …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/24 10:36 AM
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