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| 1 | 23F and I find it hard to not dislike redpillRelationships take time. You have a better chance of creating and building them with like-minded people. They will not be necessarily into exactly the same things as you but if you have similar mentalities they will want to be involved in your things as much as you want to be involved in theirs even they are not fully to your liking. Expect it to be difficult and rare to find. Decent people are hard to come by. I have been the guy who plans and connects groups and friends into events for years. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/26 09:00 AM |
| 4 | Thought they're friends. I need to stop thinking like that.+1 on this. While a small sample, I have observed the same about people around me. Women with brothers, male friends, male cousins, a cool uncle etc and especially those with a good relationship with their dad have less or zero of these opinions. It is reasonable, if you think about it. They experience men in a safe environment and men tend to be more open and vulnerable around them, they share problems, worries, thoughts and emotions that usually men in the workplace or in dating (especially at… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/26 09:12 AM |
| 7 | Thought they're friends. I need to stop thinking like that.That's not "being comfortable". More like being inconsiderate or straight up insulting actually. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/26 08:53 AM |
| 3 | I asked my date after it went sideways on what went wrongShe has issues. Forget about it, move on and spare yourself the drama. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 07:11 AM |
| 0 | A girl ghosted me after I got std tested like she asked.(Vent)I don't get all those people blaming op for "spamming her" since he texted her like 1-2 times to inform her about something she requested of him and when/if they can hang out. Now, whether he was needy at the same time or not, cannot be established from what was in the post. You all just fill the gaps with your own assumptions. That being said, 1)patience and 2) the texting could have been phrased and handled better. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Yes, I agree with that. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.No, that's not what I'm saying. I am saying that you should take certain things with a grain of salt. Yes, they do want a "normal" guy and you should be able to hold a conversation casually without giving off weird vibes and indeed many men do not know how to do that. But personally I've heard some pretty wild definitions of "normal" over the years. That's my objection, if you will. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Women also say they like dad bods and they will literally show you a pic of superman on his not flexing pose so.... | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | I'm officially a 29 year old virgin.Practice communication with people at every chance you get. Family, friends, acquaintances, strangers on the bus stop etc. It helps your body learn to not treat interactions with anxiety. Go to the gym. If you think your physique is lacking due to height ( which I don't think is necessarily true) you should built the other aspects of your physique as best you can. It boosts confidence as well. Check videos or courses concerning grooming techniques so your hair, facial hair and style is top. You … | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Does a man prefer thongs, boy shorts, bikinis or no bottoms on his gf/wife, or can she choose whatever she wants & you're fine with that?For me they are all good as long as the partner herself turns me on. Yes , there are periods here and there when one seems more exciting than the others but it keeps changing in rotation and it doesn't mean that if anything else is chosen it will be a turn-off. Take care of yourself, work out, be thorough with personal hygiene and be positive. The rest come naturally. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Time to hit the gymYou are making pretty huge assumptions about things you know nothing about and believe me, they're wrong. Not every short successful guy is white. You come off as bitter and whiny. I'm ot pointing this out to cus you but I want to emphasize on the mentality part. If you wear black tinted glasses ,everything's gonna look dark and gloomy. Things may not be the best they could but there's nothing that says "loser" louder than sitting in your own corner sulking in bitterness, finding a problem to ev… | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Time to hit the gymYou are in no position to know that. There are countless short guys out there that are extremely successful dating. Is height a plus in general concerning girls? Yes. But it is not an absolute requirement. I've met guys taller than me with zero success and shorter than me with insane succes. They were not rich and famous. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 10:13 PM |
| 5 | Time to hit the gymYou must be trolling, otherwise in serious need of help. I hope you find your way. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 10:09 PM |
| 16 | Time to hit the gymSolid advice, toxic and brainless comments. Why are you guys like that? Gym is not the best thing for game specifically but it is one of the best forms of investment concerning health, looks and mentality. There are countless studies supporting that. And "gym" can be the stadium, a playground with a horizontal bar or even your room if you have enough space. While every one of these spaces can suffice for a proper workout, the gym and the stadium probably offers some chances for socializing that … | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Do we just let erections happen when there's intense sexual tension?If this isn't trolling, you have some issues there my friend. 100% not normal. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 04:47 PM |
| 3 | How exactly do you handle LMR for women who activate their 'anti-slut defense' before sexPersonally, I deal with lmr depending on the situation but usually I act pretty chill. Again, depending on the situation, that could mean playful continuity like I heard nothing and they go along with it or I may take the blame playfully like if she says anything like "I don't usually do these things or what will people think of me or I have a bf" , you can say "just blame it on me, it's my fault"-kiss!. That usually solves it. If the resistance is strong, I'll say something along the lines of "… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | And they say women can't be sexistWomen who feel the ease to say such bs because weak men allowed them to do so for decades hoping they would get recognized enough so they can have some mating success. The rest of the men kept their mouths shut and as a result we have reached today, an era during which you can say men suck all you want but should you dare look at woman, you can be labeled as an absolute monster and your life is gone in a snap. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/26 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Keep taking Ls with women?I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But you're right. | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 07:12 AM |
| 2 | American dating advice is useless in europeSome things work in some places on some people and in other places they don't. It does not only depend on the place though but on you as well, looks and skill. Many of my friends who studied or worked abroad tell me that the way they approached women there had an x rate of success and they were baffled to find out that's not the case back home (not a fully westernized country where women tend to be on the traditional side a bit). They did say though that in other countries things were pretty muc… | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 05:39 PM |
| 18 | Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night ClubClub game is tough. Club game solo is even tougher. Club game solo without very good looks and tons of experience is like playing on god mode the first day you bought the game. If you're interested in that kind of game I would suggest improving your looks, losing weight, improving dressing style if you think there's room for improvement. If you want Club game to become easier you should start with a smaller club, go often, get to know the people who work there, make friends with them. If you wan… | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 07:43 AM |
| 5 | Just finished watching ''DON JON'' movie (2013), and now I'm curious: How common are real life men like the main character?They are really uncommon. Men who are that successful in the dating market find themselves at the top 1% of all men. So someone on that group who is like that and at the same super addicted to porn? Probably 0,1% if not much less. If we were talking just about porn addiction, that would be higher than 10%. 10% of men self-report this kind of addiction. If we count in the guys who are embarrassed to admit it, in denial or ignorance, I can see it easily rising to doubles. I have met successful guy… | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?Short answer : yes to all. But mind you it also depends on the context. They help you built confidence, practice reveals weaknesses that you need to work on, they provide validation on some level concerning what works and what not. Physical touch helps rewire the brain in close contact situations, especially if you're used on p@rn. Touch also allows the body to produce chemicals and hormones that boost mental and physical health (testosterone). It improves your social value especially if your ci… | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend did not like one of the gifts I got her for bday and she asked if she hurt my feelingsThat I cannot tell you. I do not know her and do not know your relationship. The best judge for this is probably you. Her saying that means nothing because a relationship isn't a single response to a single issue. These things aren't black or white. You need to examine this as a whole and of course you need to also take into consideration the emotional aspect of things. There isn't such thing a guidebook to being an "alpha" (and I dont like using this term because it is not really substantial to… | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 06:03 PM |
| -1 | Girlfriend did not like one of the gifts I got her for bday and she asked if she hurt my feelingsYou should have made a smart light joke about it. Or just move past it completely like nothing happened. There is indeed a chance that if you were the epitome of male hotness she would have brushed it off but maybe not. It has to do with the context, how close you are, how comfortable she is with you, how much of a chill guy you are so she knows she can be open and so on. Yes , it is true that if you are of much greater value than them in their mind, they tend to brush off things like that more.… | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?If the purpose is revival I would leave it alone for a while and then suddenly come back much later. Like hey wanna do this or that, or I just saw this thought of you, what's up. Every few weeks/months a girl who is single may be in rotation mode and maybe this time the timing is right for you. But it also depends on how the conversation was going earlier. If it was too clear that she was not interested, I'd leave it alone. You don't need to be a begger and boost her ego even more. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 05:18 PM |
| 3 | My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial?Prenup or you walk. Don't fall for that bs. If a paper makes it less romantic, how does another paper make it more romantic? It's bs. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/26 10:36 AM |
| 16 | Wife threatening to leave. What should I do?This! ☝️ And if this doesn't work, prepare for a divorce. It will be much better than having someone threatening to leave you if you don't "behave". | /r/MensRights | 24/11/24 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Apprently an old friend no longer wishes to have anything to do with me because I’m a man. Honestly infuriating.She's hateful and you're better off without her If this is an actual conversation, you come off as too needy, too much trying for someone who's barely responding to you from text n.1 | /r/MensRights | 02/11/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketYou drive an expensive car. You arrive at the bar. You don't start telling people that you drive an expensive car, you just leave your keys on the table. They will see those keys and realize themselves. Or you may have good friends and when they try to introduce you to new people they tell them a few things about you before the introduction when you are not there yet. Women don't have to know exactly what you own. They just need a good impression. They will fill the rest of the blanks themselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketIt's not necessarily a millionaire. The example I provided is of a man who is not a millionaire. But considering the country he's living in, he's wealthy. Besides, having money isn't the only contributing factor. If you were in the top 20% you would have considerable success with women. If not, maybe you aren't. Or maybe you are but you're selling yourself short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 05:57 AM |
| 0 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketIf we say that within 1% are men like Brad Pit, Clooney, Bezos etc then within the 20% are people who are close to becoming or are "small range" millionaires. Your next door millionaire, if you will (or close to that). As they are not famous people , I cannot provide a specific example. I can say this. I live in a small European country, the average salary is just beneath 1000 euros per month. I know someone who's parents left him a fortune in real estate when they passed. The real estate consis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketYes, it is highly possible they will too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketTypical moronic response from an illiterate person. Your inability to comprehend written language is not my problem. Please carry on and bother someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 12:18 PM |
| 0 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketNot quite. But whatever is fine by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketMy personal opinion is that the highest point of a woman's perceived value has just passed us. Their value remains sky high, still. But what you describe used to be the case from (at least) 1980+ until 2010+ were the majority of men were simply going along with the social conditioning of those times, without question or knowledge. While things are starting to slowly shift in certain groups of men for the "better" , at the same time we have a boom of sexual content all around, lack of masculine g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketAs in most cases, there cannot be a black or white conclusion . It is a multi factor dynamic situation. Women are more liberated than ever, while men are more oppressed than ever. Sex is much more easily found, but real intimacy is becoming reduced immensely. The sexual value of women is as high as it used to be. But the competition is worse, mainly because of social media. Social media have distorted the sexual marketplace. How? Well, for starters, women used to have to choose between the males… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 01:04 PM |
| 0 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateYounger women have certain pros that many men like and prefer. For starters, they are youthful and good-looking. They are usually more easygoing and have more playful personality than older women who linger over bad things of the past and are shaped by them. Then, there is the compatibility issue. Most men want to explore the situation before going into a relationship and younger women tend to be more open to that while older women "don't want to waste their time dating if it's not going somewhe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Selfish ??Having children is inherently selfish to begin with. What you're describing is just preposterous. Are you completely sane and healthy? Are you mature? Have you discovered yourself adequately? Are you successful financially? Have you reconciled with everything major in your past? And so on and so forth. If the answer to all those questions is "yes," then and only then, you can say that having a child is not completely selfish or just mindless and instinctive reproduction. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 08:11 PM |
| 19 | This is the blackest pill. I just leave it here.Invest in your friendships from as early in your life as you possibly can. Keep your friends close. Build a group with a strong "why" that is common for all of you. Do not despair. You're not as alone as you may think. Be safe, be strong, love yourselves! | /r/MensRights | 11/09/24 07:36 PM |
| 5 | If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you?100% yes. What is more demanding? Doing chores for a couple of hours and spending time with my kids or working double shifts 4 times per week? Enough with this victim bs. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 08:06 PM |
| 11 | Has anybody else been randomly verbally abused by woman when out in public?Women are bybfar the worst when it comes to communication in a non friendly/family environment. Last year I worked part-time as a security guard in an area where really rich people have their summer villas. There are a couple of secluded beaches around and one private road that only leads to said villas. Whenever citizens lose their way and end up our way, I have to walk around and check what they're up to (they may throw trash , spray the walls or start a fire). The entire place has signs of no… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 12:46 PM |
| 78 | Not listening to Taylor Swift is "Toxic Masculinity".Is it toxic masculinity to not enjoy the most overrated female singer that has ever existed? If so, so be it 🤣 | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do people through the word "incel" around so much these days?Feminism created this trend to deal with the lack of reasonable arguments in serious debates that ruins their fairytale. On the other hand, these past few years there has also been a rise on single males that are angry with everything and having lost perspective, they tend to the extreme side of things, which gives more room to the lunatics that resort to the use of this word. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 10:00 AM |
| 12 | 24F conducting formal research - Why is there no academic literature published about violence perpetrated by women against men in Australia in 2024? There is outstanding 'legitimate' and anecdotal evidence from almost all other countries.It's not much better in Europe or in the US mate | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 04:43 PM |
| 11 | UK: Extreme misogyny to be treated as terrorismGeorge Orwell here we come | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?Even though that could be the case for some men, I'd argue that no, this isn't the norm. Me and my best friend are much more successful now than we were in our 20s and it is not out of revenge, and there are definitely no bad feelings involved. If we are in a relationship, the relationship is going nicely and smoothly, with no mistakes like in the past. If it goes full circle , we part ways, mostly in good terms. If there is no long term relationship present, we both happen to share the same phi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I am a victim of a false rape accusationWouldn't it be useful, though, to have this as a case in her file for future victims? I don't know if it's worth the trouble. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/24 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I am a victim of a false rape accusationI remember about a case in which a man was raped. When he was going through therapy , at one of his most vulnerable moments, his female therapist that was there after the police got his statement told him something along the lines of "Now you got a taste of what that feels like" . I can't shake it off my head. Whenever I read things like your story, this pops up in my mind. Your therapist is unprofessional. I would look for a male therapist. Women , no matter how hard they try to pass as unbiase… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/24 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Women to be able to avoid sitting next to men, on IndiGo flights.Oh how great that we see the gender wars go further into the business world. I can't wait to see what's next . Some casual sexism with the price of a ticket. Wonderful 😌 | /r/MensRights | 31/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 5 | How can you use reddit and demy the redpill its everywhere? Spineless men like this though i struggle to feel sorry for them.It is not entirely his fault that he married her back in 1999. Things were different back then, concerning knowledge and availability. If you were not a natural or lucky to hang out with a natural, you were on your own. It is his fault that since then, he seems to have remained uneducated. Also, forgiving someone who betrayed you like that speaks volumes of your scarcity mindset. That is what makes him pathetic. Stories like this make me sad. | /r/TheRedPillStories | 03/07/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Basically, what you're saying is that you experience a complete lack of understanding of trp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:07 PM |
| 8 | My husband makes over 400k a year, I dont work and we split all the choresFrom a male perspective, this sounds like kind of a bad deal for him. You indeed display some traits that are appealing to men but the relationship seems pretty unbalanced and you are lucky , in the way that you matched with someone of great value that has little to no demands / standards. The husband sounds like a textbook case of a man who loses everything , in case of a divorce. I do not know whether it is ignorance or that he is just madly in love with you and very giving as a person in gene… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/24 03:23 AM |
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