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Woman: Some statement specifically for a reaction and nothing more. RP Man: Smirk no words.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:15 PM
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Yeah but you're a man, you're sexually attracted to the visual. A lot more complicated for women.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:01 PM
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Ghandi was a man whore. Not joking.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:00 PM
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But wouldn't not reacting in her head show her idgaf about her? She says I never take her around mu friends and family and she's my secret.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:29 AM
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No I don't. I just wish I knew how to act so it wouldn't have got to this point with her. Like how do I prevent this from happening again? I a woman is with an alpha she's not gonna be entertaining anyone else right?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:28 AM
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I know man. I'm my own worst enemy.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 09:20 PM
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the result of FEELING it is you give almost zero shits about whether she stays or leaves and have a backbone. So you never get attached to women any more since you've fucked so many?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:44 PM
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I wish I knew man. My fragile ego and the jealousy I get when thinking of her with someone else I guess.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:43 PM
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I'd suggest being single & fucking chicks for a year or two. They stop being a big deal after a hundred or so. I'm in the 20's. Passed up so many chances when I was a beta pussy. Been in one relationship to the next since discovering TRP. Why does fucking more make you less attached? The thought of a guy fucking my LTR makes me want to do things I will regret.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:18 PM
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To fight off oneitis you go game other women. It's that easy? Just knowing you can fuck other women? I have a couple I know I could fuck, one who messaged me the other day saying she always had a crush on me asking if I would come over and fuck her followed by nudes. I've known this girl for prob 12 years and she just said hello and asked how things were going then bam asked me to fuck and sent the pics. But it hasn't changed my mindframe in my LTR.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:16 PM
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Yes, I am not okay with it. I just found out she's been texting a guy from work supposedly just about something from work. I just lost it. I'm an idiot.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:14 PM
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So what if she's texting or messaging other guys?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:06 PM
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What if there is another guy crossing the line or what if she starts messaging them back?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:50 PM
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Did she used to try and make you jealous?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:49 PM
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Step 1: Realistic assessment of where you are, In my life, I'm honestly right where I want to be professionally and socially. Great job, great reputation, huge circle of friends and acquaintances, and I pursue my passions in my spare time. The only thing I would say I need to get better at is physically, but I'm also working towards that goal and I'm about 2/3 of the way there. and where you want to be in the future. Continue on in my career and make more money physically get to a place where I'…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:42 PM
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You're already thinking about the next chick you'll be with. In your mind you just can't be without one. That is sad, but that's also why you're here. As much as I say I don't need or even usually want one, I do. Just went a long time in my life without one and now I feel like I always need one. I do enjoy LTR's, but I fucking hate these games. You're so right bro, but how do you become your own mental point of origin? And how do you emotionally unattach? Serious questions.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:35 PM
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there are actually some pretty high quality women out there Everyone says this, but man AWALT has been true for my existence.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:33 PM
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You're right. I am really trying to work on them, and I just need to realize my insecurities are the biggest problem. I just need to know a way to work out of them,.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:33 PM
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Thanks a lot, this all makes perfect sense. Bad thing is, I know a couple chicks I could call right now and fuck. I just never had anyone be able to attack my insecurities like she does. I can be a fucking oak tree in any other situation with any other person, but with her I am taken out of my element and character.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:32 PM
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That's good to know. I keep working on my mission in life but I'd be a liar if I said she doesn't get me on the verge of literal rage.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:30 PM
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That's really good to know. So did you just literally quit paying attention to them?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:29 PM
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The beauty of that, not a single arrogant statement made but in her head, you're the dominant one, she's emotionally unstable and he couldn't handle her... Why does it matter if there is an arrogant statement made? And yes some could read that as mental manipulation but fuck it, love is a battlefield, she does that shit to you all the time That's exactly what women do and have been doing since the beginning of time. I just want to know why she does the things she does and how to best respond.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:41 PM
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And yet, you're insecure. Not jabbing at you, just pointing this out. Just clown em. You're right. No matter how hard I try to kill this my ego is so fucking fragile.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:40 PM
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I would say validate the orbiters compliments with a no fucks given attitude and acting like you're better than her and them Validate them how? Or you mean don't validate them? And how do I convey I'm better than her and them? The truth is I am better than her and them. Much better career, money, status, way bigger social circle, great reputation, etc.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:31 PM
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And work on NGAF. I know this is beta as hell, but how do you work on NGAF when you do GAF? Serious question.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:29 PM
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I read your post and cannot see a problem. Whatever you do, DO NOT CHANGE. You are a laughing devil may care douchebag and a saint. You are perfect as you are. You are a man FFS. I also agree with the other lads here. You have to get out more for your own benefit and amusement. All and all you're in the right place. Only thing I can think of is there isn't enough comfort, because the things she said are things women say about men they pine for. I know she is hooked, I just need to increase comfo…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 08:24 PM
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I will say: insulting a dude's generosity/hospitality of free beer implies you don't like the guy. Beer between friends is one of the most potent and ancient human rituals. Yeah i was a dick for that. Going to make amends ASAP.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 08:23 PM
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Doing everything right. She's just being female. Ignore and keep on your current path. Yeah when she said that and started to cry later, I knew it was more me not providing comfort than anything.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 08:22 PM
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Of the snapping because she lacked comfort. If she needed validation too, she would have cheated or swinged, maybe to a worse man who she felt she could control and "treated her right". You'd feel that right in your ego. True. It wasn't the bad kind. Man, it's not about her. You have to calibrate when you change environment, or you'll be seen as a dick. Yeah, I need to have a filter. That's obvious.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:57 PM
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Trust your gut. Think about each one of those alternatives, and imagine the interaction as though she was acting with that particular motivation. After imagining your way through this four times, something will seem more likely to you than the others. Thanks man. This is what I needed to hear.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:52 PM
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Thanks man. I'm gonna do what needs done.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:00 PM
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Good luck man. Lack of comfort is a far better place to be than lack of atraction. Just remember that funny vs offended is your frame vs her's. Thanks man, I'll keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:58 PM
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You are using logic and reason to deal with an emotional creature. Tread carefully. The typical gut-instict is to talk it out and reason and you can do that a few times but you get betafied hard and fast. there are two tried and tested approaches to emotional storms: Agree and amplify, treat as a shit-test. Say nothing and provide comfort. I basically did #2 after she calmed down. If you give in to demands, engage in "bargaining" about your behavior, you are leashing yourself up to a rollercoast…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:36 PM
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It seems like you are entering her frame too much, explaining yourself, rationalizing, defending, excusing. I kept my words to a minimum and let her talk, but I know what you're saying. hen shes a pleasant company, treating you well, doing stuff for you, good and frequent sex, you reward her with your time/attention/affection. When shes acting like a bitch, punish her by removing yourself from her presence, let her bitch by herself. Never reward bad behaviour, but its important to remember to re…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:33 PM
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Your LTR obviously likes the way you are (by the make out session at the end of her rant). Yeah, not going to change who I am, I just probably need to provide more comfort to her. Thanks for the update, OP. It's a rare thing that OP's ever update. No problem. I had some good insight given so a follow up was due.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:32 PM
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She got pretty much the good version. Good version of what, exactly? Most of her reasons are quite legit. You might have the jokes uncalibrated from one environment (your folks) to another (her folks/family). Work on this, for serious; Maybe just not speak about her or her fam anymore? It seems to be a legit gripe with her. Me and my family bust our balls all of the time. I will have to remember to not even mention them. It's hard though, she only hangs out with them. She only has like 1 or 2 fr…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:31 PM
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It doesn't matter what the fuck she's saying. Just do one of those four things. Don't respond to the bullshit she's speaking. That's just background noise. In this situation, does it look like one of the 4 more than the others?
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:27 PM
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Posted an update.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:45 PM
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Posted an update.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:44 PM
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I made a new thread with an update. Any input is appreciated.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:43 PM
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In Way of The Superior Man, David Deida writes that the content of any woman's complaint is not relevant. Her complaining is a sign in itself. So her complaints of me being a dick at the beginning of our LTR is probably not what she has a problem with? If not, then wtf could it be? Maybe since I am trying to balance in more beta she secretly doesn't like that? I have no fucking idea. After this relationship I don’t think I will bother with monogamy until I want children. I'm with you.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:45 PM
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Behold the power of the hamster. She might have known, but by the time it starts spinning, that's gone. By the time it stops, it will be your fault. I'm sure she'll say I am acting like the same asshole I used to be.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:42 PM
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My first relationship in bluepill days ended like that. I got tired of her shit and stopped initiating. I knew she'll shit test me at that but as blue as I was I still had a backbone, thank God. A week went by, two - this is were I knew it's over- three, four until she finally contacted me on valentines day, she said she wants to give me a gift. Just like that. I just said no thank you and ghosted her. Has she tried to contact you since that day, or have you spoken? I'm sure her ego was taken do…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:10 PM
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The end of LTR's are always so damn draining. Take so damn much energy and focus. You've given me some stuff to think about. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:06 PM
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Perfect LTD suddenly turns into a bitch? Not perfect. She has her own craziness and emotional highs and lows that get annoying. But, she is trustworthy, has a great relationship with her dad, doesn't go to bars, enjoys being at home doing domestic things, has a high sex drive, and basically just hangs out with me and her family. She can be overly emotional and act like a crazy person, but she's a female, that shit isn't a big deal. Being disrespectful, however, is.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 07:42 PM
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What bothers me a lot in the whole thing is that you didn't act pissed around her, so she has plausible deniability. I didn't get pissed, but there's no way for her to say she did nothing wrong. She knows.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 06:41 PM
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It could be a lack of comfort over the term. Remember, ltrs require a minimum of comfort. This is actually my biggest historic problem "i don't provide comfort nearly enough". Which I didn't do for a while. A long while, actually. I have tried to correct that the last 8 months or so without being a needy little bitch. Now I'm fully aware this doesn't apply to many guys, but if you're highly stoic by nature, it can (uncommonly) certainly be an issue in ltrs. Exactly how I am. She told me recently…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 05:50 PM
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How is the sex-life? Is she still getting wet? She is not your friend. She's your woman. Don't treat her like a friend, don't burden her with your need for attention or support. The best thing for you is going out and hitting on girls with a single friend. Look but don't touch, talk all you want. Go feel the abundance. Get back to IDGAF. Sex life hasn't been as good the last month either. It's followed the bitchy attitude.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 05:45 PM
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I don't use social media but that's up to you. What you wanna do is hold back on contacting her. You two are locking horns right now like a pair of moose. If you contact her first she will know she has more power in the relationship. So don't text, like or thumbs up anything on any social media. A good way to keep her off your mind is stay busy during the day Yeah, I hate social media, but I have been keeping busy. Fucking hate these stupid ass games.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 05:43 PM
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If she didn't, I'd call her out on Friday and put ourselves in an environment where I could display intense social value, then dread. Wait until Friday and ask her to do something to show high SMV?
/r/askTRP13/09/16 05:42 PM
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Thanks for the confirmation.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:10 PM
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This bitch need to learn she's replaceable in your life if she's going to be disrespecting you Yeah, probably. Fuck I have no idea why I even bother with LTR's, it's a fucking grind. FWB is how I may live out my remaining years. What tf is the point of anything else.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:35 PM
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She acted wrong, now she must correct it. She contacts you and apologize. Dont contact her first. If she doesnt, then its next time. You're right. Thanks for the reality check. She was fucking rude as fuck on Saturday, AFTER taking her out and showing her a nice time, introducing her to people, etc. Fuck that. She can contact me or fuck off. I needed to hear this.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:23 PM
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The 6 Stages of Breaking up: A Guide To Not Having Your Nuts Smashed in a Door by a LTR Good idea. Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:21 PM
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Give her a bit of dread. go do your own business chat up some girls. line up some potential new plates and if this breaks off you have a solid foundation to start plating. I'm not saying cheat but you can always have some female friends ready to go. Remember you don't need no girl, especially her. Make her aware of that. Thanks man. I have a few on the back burner. Younger and cuter than the LTR, too. Not nearly LTR material like the current GF, but looks and age wise they are better. Might be a…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:21 PM
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Thanks for the detailed post. I have a few on the backburner, one young cute one in particular who's basically told me she is DTF, but not sure if I'm ready to go that nuclear. Should I continue to hold off on the NC? I guess I could do something on social media to get some IOI's, even though I fucking hate social media. Not sure how else I would apply some dread if we're not speaking?
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:19 PM
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