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After my divorce at 37 I had the best period of dating in my life. Your results may differ but I found dating with me being more mature than my early 20s was so much more satisfying. I had so much fun. I took some time then I got out there when I was ready. I also ran and took up hobbies. Found myself again. It was very intentionally done
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 03:52 PM
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You can be good and strong equally. Sacrificing good for strong leads to shitty behavior imo
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 07:16 PM
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Get your paperwork signed as quickly as possible. Edit and happy new year. I went through this 2 years ago
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 12:00 AM
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I’m at 2 years now. Heading to party. It got better
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 09:08 PM
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After the pandemic I went back to the office and sent my entire family on our text stream a message with a picture of my office with the caption, "It's finally nice to be back in the office." In the bottom corner of the picture was my desk garbage can and the framed desktop picture of my ex sticking out. It still cracks me up to this day.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 09:22 AM
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Throw a little goodbye party…. Without them
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 01:06 AM
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I don't have kids. I found it best to mostly move on.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 05:55 PM
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I believe so
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 01:31 PM
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Melinda French gates was worth of 100 mil when she married bill. Wealth she built
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 06:14 AM
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When she told me she was leaving
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 02:07 PM
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You can get divorced by mail in Washington for a few hundred bucks with an attorney uncontested
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 04:34 AM
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this hit so close to home. honestly? she left but I'm super happy about it
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah … two 8 year marriages no kids … sorry
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 01:17 AM
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I don't know your situation but it took a divorce for me to quit drinking. 10 years later (and sober) I'm much better for it. In my 30s it progressively got worse to a point where it was very difficult to control. Hiding it is a sign of a problem.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 06:09 PM
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I kept the house but miss other things
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/22 06:04 PM
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Reddit can't advise you. Trust your gut.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 05:21 PM
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She left behind everything that was associated with our marriage. But she took the $12k ring
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 12:25 AM
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"She's made it clear that she's getting the house and custody of the two kids. Her dad has much deeper pockets than me and will open up the checkbook." So?
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 07:28 PM
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I'm having trouble understanding your situation. Am I reading this correctly that you both changed your last name to a different last name than what you each had before the marriage? And the name you both changed it to was your great grandmother's last name on your mom's side?
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 07:26 PM
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I am so sorry for what you are going through. I'm not sure this subreddit is the best place for you as it is largely a support group for divorcing/divorced men that often encourage splitting up. That's not always the best advice. I help support my mother and father, who has had Parkinson's (PD) for the past two decades. I highly HIGHLY recommend leveraging a PD forum / support group and talk to your doctor. Pursue therapy with a PD capable therapist/psychiatrist. You have a long road ahead of yo…
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 08:02 PM
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I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advice. Work with her sensitively to see if you can develop an amicable separation agreement. Use that to file uncontested in Washington. If it is super easy path to that agreement and you both agree you could even do it completely by mail in Washington state (no court visit) and a number of attorneys will prep a completely by mail uncontested divorce for a few hundred bucks.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 11:27 PM
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I'm not defending the person replying or the subreddit. I'm nearly fifty and have dated, and lived with, a number of women through my life. They were all largely awesome. That said, I've never had a more consistent disagreement, or argument, when it comes to house cleaning. I've found inexpensive housekeepers and when I've lived on my own, they've been *fantastic* and save me tons of time. When I've lived with someone romantically, I've repeatedly had resistance to a housekeeper for reasons I do…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 12:43 AM
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Getting divorced is usually a complex, emotionally traumatic situation for everyone involved. Distilling it down to 'regret' is often an oversimplification of that complexity. I think a better question is how many who initiate divorce, over time, end up in objectively worse situations (financial, emotional, mental health, etc) than they were before the divorce? I think that happens a lot, for a lot of reasons. I am guessing that most, if not all, initiators of divorce underestimate the toll it t…
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 05:22 PM
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