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I've had really good luck when I really try to be clever and witty. Make a girl need to think then laugh after thinking and you'll be getting dates no problem. For example, I was in a restaurant and a girl was wearing an all blue outfit, including shoes, and had blue streaks in her hair. I approached her and opened with 'hey! I bet I know what your favorite color is!' You could see her thinking, trying to figure out what I meant, then she realized her outfit, but before she could finish her thou…
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:20 PM
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Massage therapy
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:04 PM
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The solution is so easy. Sleep with her best friend.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:15 PM
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I became certified as a shamanic reiki healer. Your question could be answered many different ways using different cultural lenses, but energy work can be as simple as holding eye contact with someone or as complex as working with hundreds of energy channels called meridians which are similar to blood vessels but for energy, finding and correcting blockages through the meridians. To adequately answer your question would take a very long and detailed response. If you're genuinely interested I can…
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:34 AM
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Seemed like this for myself, too. I would always get guys flirting with me. I got way more attention from men then women. Turns out it wasn't because of my attractiveness but the way I presented myself, my habits, and characteristics. I became self-aware and learned how to shift things a bit to let people know more easily who I am and what I'm about.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:41 AM
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Learn to be friends with the kinds of girls you want to date. Learn to listen to what they say, take notes, and apply what you learn to yourself. Ask them what they are looking for in partners, ask as a friend not as a guy wanting to get with her, you will learn everything you need to know to get the girls you want. And it's quite likely you will find a partner in this process once you are friends with a girl who likes you for who you are and enjoys your company. I couldn't get any girls, then I…
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:38 AM
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I just found the few passions that I had in common with a lot of women that also made women more attractive to me. The two that stuck out the most were fitness and spirituality. So I started going to a lot of fitness and spiritual meet ups, tried really hard to socialize a lot. Found that I vibed more with the spiritual girls, learned how to offer spiritual services and provide them unique experiences within our shared interest. So find a passion that you know women also like, that also makes th…
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:29 AM
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Find your niche and you won't get rejected too much. My niche are intelligent, spiritual women. Warm them up with intellectually stimulating conversation, then move into the deep heart to heart stuff, give them some space to breath and feel safe with you, move into the energy work, and at that point they're basically throwing themselves at me. I'm exclusive now, but I went from zero to hero within a year just by finding my niche and learning how to work with it.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:15 PM
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First sustained eye contact a few times. Then hugging/hand holding/shoulder massage. After that holding hips and leg touches/massages. If you get this far and she hasn't stopped you she probably wants to fuck, now you can move into boob and ass territory!
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:47 AM
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I chased a girl for 6 years, sometimes we would text, most of the time she would ghost me. I was really into her so I kept chasing. One day I just asked her why she ignores me. I was very direct and asked if she was into me. She said she was. A month later and we were kissing in her car lol. Girls just like to play games but if she's still responding to you she is still interested
/r/seduction04/09/21 01:08 AM
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I was a virgin up until 25. Started going on dates for the first time at 25. I was expecting 15 to 20 rejections before getting a gf. First girl I dated was into me and I had to let her down. Second girl was also into me,b we ended up dating, then starting a one year relationship. After we broke up, I was able to get another gf a year later, who ended up becoming my wife. Just keep focusing on improving yourself and you'll be fine!
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:14 PM
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No it's not, that's what I was alluding to. The more attractive the guy is, the more they will get stared at by women. It's not that women are entirely averse to making eye contact with men outside, it's that they will only do so if they find the man very attractive. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, it's just being selective, but from my experience, it's a very real fact about society. I get what you're saying, and if a guy is of average appearance yeah you won't want to hear the…
/r/seduction17/08/21 05:02 PM
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Maybe I'm the exception, then. When I'm looking my best and showing my muscular body with tight fitting clothes I get an insane amount of looks and stares from very attractive women. Only when I'm looking really good, though. Looking at me like they want to eat me. Or maybe you're the exception?
/r/seduction17/08/21 03:35 AM
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unless they find the guy attractive
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:39 AM
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I'm in LA and I'm a decently attractive 29/M, attractive enough that I can be a 5 or 6/10 if I dress homeless (a style I liked most of my life) or a 8 or 9/10 if I have someone with good taste dress me. I have noticed that the amount of looks/stares I get from women, aka the amount of eye contact I get, is directly dependent on how good I look at the time. If I'm looking like a homeless caveman after not shaving for awhile, I will have most women actively avoid making any eye contact, but if I a…
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:36 AM
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I think what he meant is, the last thing you want her to think is that you just want sex. Don't try for sex, just try to support her and be her friend. Show her you care about her, make HER want YOU
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:57 AM
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Easy. Just be playful, respectful, and nice
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:49 AM
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Bro it's crazy. I would be perfectly clear that I wanted a relationship, they'd say their not interested yet still hit me up to hang out. looking back I think the problem was that I didn't make enough physical moves, they wanted escalation but didn't want to say they wanted escalation, were waiting for me to figure it out or something. I also lacked confidence so I'm sure that played a role.
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:18 AM
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Too much work, I'll just buy hookers
/r/seduction04/08/21 05:02 PM
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Bro just buy your friends some stonks and they will love you after the squeeze, easy
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:13 PM
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It wasn't until I started having girls as friends that I got better at attracting and seducing them. For a while the majority of people I hung out with were females and man was it easy to get female attention at that point. Worst advice someone could give imo
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:11 PM
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My wife is still learning how to accept it lol. I hate being taken out of the present moment. Calls are fine, but I hate texting xD
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:35 AM
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I hate texting. Calling would have been a good way to switch things up. Go on the date.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:34 AM
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Humanize them. More attractive females are humanized much less and objectified way more. Once I started connecting with people on deeper levels, I realized that more attractive women can actually be easier to seduce. I used to get the same feelings that you do, but that quickly changed once I started being true to myself and flaunting what I'm good at. Now it's easy to get a girl interested, especially an attractive one.
/r/seduction28/07/21 08:08 PM
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Personally, I feel that you wrapped it up with your last text. I wouldn't wait a month. If you're still wanting to pursue, I'd wait 7 to 14 days then call. Probably not salvageable, though. Showed too much desperation
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:37 PM
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But I don't wanna
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:21 PM
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I remember being here. You just need to get better at seducing
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:40 PM
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I was the same way many years ago. My solution was exposure therapy. Just start holding eye contact with more people more often and you'll slowly get used to it. If you can find people to actively work with, even better, that's what I did. I would practice with other people just holding eye contact together
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:58 PM
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I experienced this, too. It's important not to fall for people who aren't showing clear mutual interest. Everything works out, just keep moving forward with a smile. After finally letting go of the girl I fell for, I ended up getting married a year later. You never know what's waiting for you
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:30 PM
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You are correct. OLD is shallow and forced. It can work, but both parties have to be the exception to the norm. Most people using OLD consistently are shallow.
/r/seduction24/06/21 11:12 PM
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It's all about body language and facial expressions. More open and friendly body language with chill but confident facial expressions usually works well with most everybody. I try to quickly learn what they like and don't like by closely observing their actions as responses to what I'm doing. Try more expressive facial expressions, more animated, and if you see any pullback or negative reaction, go back to being more chill and let them get comfortable again before trying something else.
/r/seduction21/06/21 11:08 PM
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True, you were referencing first date specific tips. Kudos to you for creating a quality post! From the sounds of it, your second. Helping a lot of people, my man!
/r/seduction21/06/21 04:56 PM
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Good tips. I would add that learning to hold eye contact without being intimidating and learning to read their eyes and facial expressions to better gauge how they're feeling in the moment
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:19 PM
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