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| 1 | When a conventionally unattractive woman low-key brags about her hedonistic sex life, how to rationalize it?Men do the same thing and high five over causal sex. Nobody is saying these women are victims, people are trying to explain that the women bragging about casual sex are not actually getting what they want, they just want people to think they are and feed the illusion of attraction. It’s very clear you aren’t getting the answer you want, but that’s not the fault of the people on this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 10:56 AM |
| – | Can y’all stop telling each other what both genders are attracted too?The problem is in a world without stereotypes how would we ever be able to make a decision about anyone? Literally every human interaction would become incredibly hard if there isn’t a base line of how that person might respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:02 AM |
| – | I am losing my mind here i need comfortFirst of all, don’t be embarrassed by your feelings. I’m not sure if that helps but maybe a lot of the anxiety is your fear of how people would judge you if they knew. There is no way a 40yr old woman is going to be offended by your attraction, she would probably find it flattering. If you want to shut down how you feel you need to find something else to focus on or simply find something about her that gives you the opposite feeling and focus on that. I think you’ll be alright regardless, having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:56 AM |
| 20 | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?Like in theory bedroom maxxing definitely works but a woman isn’t going to have sex with someone she doesn’t find attractive in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"What’s the appropriate word then!!!!! That’s what I’m trying to get out of you. After this I’m not replying, the poor OP doesn’t need this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I don’t understand why you think I am having a go at people who are involuntarily celibate. I’m saying the coined term incel which applies to SOME involuntary celibates is a thing. Otherwise they wouldn’t have private forums and websites. From my perspective you are implying the same thing as calling someone a terrorist and then saying stop hating on muslims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Yes that would help clarify a lot of this back and forth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 01:52 AM |
| -2 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I’m aware nobody chooses it but there are men who don’t call women sluts just because they haven’t had sex. There is a movement of incels that spread pure hate not just for women but for men as well. I never made a blanket umbrella you did. You defined incel by grouping everyone together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:31 AM |
| -5 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Thank you for the mansplain but I meant the movement not every male virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Would a lot of people be more happy with finding partners if they were willing to expand their age ranges?I only ever filtered for people older than myself but as soon as I included younger my dating life got a whole lot better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | The bald mans handicapThe only kind of women who care about that are the ones in denial about growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I’m not sure how, someone who thinks like that might not have called themselves incels before but they still existed. Numbers aren’t growing more people have just found a group to identify with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of virgin women?Is it preferable to have someone who used other people to find out that they like you? Yes, it sounds like you have a very romanticised of a relationship but not all people feel the same way you do. It’s not “using” other people it’s just life! How can personal growth happen without experience? Wouldn't you prefer to meet someone who really loves you and doesn't need failed relationships to let them know they want to be with you? No because all I care about is someone loving me for who I am, inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of virgin women?Rough!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of virgin women?That’s not true. Some people need to fail at relationships to either understand the kind of people that don’t suit them or because they need some experience to show them how to make a relationship work. I would much rather someone who is a little enlightened as to how a relationship works and what doesn’t work for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:14 AM |
| 13 | Modern Western Women Are a Historical AbominationDo you know why? It’s not because they aren’t trying to reproduce. Do you know in medieval times women had periods at a less frequent rate? They lost less eggs throughout their life which made them more fertile. Don’t blame women blame evolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:02 AM |
| 61 | Modern Western Women Are a Historical AbominationThe modern western woman became what they are today because of their mothers and grandmothers. They told this generation to be independent. They told this generation it’s safer to be self sufficient than to rely on a husband to take care of your needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:50 AM |
| 0 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?I don’t think this at all. Lonely men online aren’t all about sex. Sometimes they do have unrealistic expectations of what a woman should be though. Hardly anyone has the perfect relationship and perfect girl straight off the bat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:05 AM |
| – | Dating is much easier than most men make it for themselves, and they are misguided in their pursuits if they value a long-term relationshipYes it could be, but I’m saying so the same rule applies to yours. They said if someone is incapable of loving a feminine woman they could either date a more masculine woman or go to for the other team. Did not say everyone is inherently gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Women actually want to be approached by a manToday I learned I am a mid woman. Thanks that really clears up my whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:08 PM |
| – | Dating is much easier than most men make it for themselves, and they are misguided in their pursuits if they value a long-term relationshipAdding that as source does not support your argument Source. I think the whole point of what the OP was getting at was that people should be true to themselves in order to find a relationship that works for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Oh okay then good to know your original comment was pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:53 PM |
| – | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?That attitude is probably why you aren’t getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:20 PM |
| -1 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?Then break up. Losing weight is hard work and is not just a physical process. Are you going to do a year without sex as long as she hits the gym and eats salad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:44 AM |
| – | Men and women have an unforgiving view of each otherLove a good generalised blanket grouping but I think you’d find a lot of people wouldn’t agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?But I mean the monogamous way does make you less likely to pick up an STD. Contraception only lowers the risk of this like herpes it’s not a guarantee and people can be infected without visible signs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?If you are questioning being with this person because of the weight then you need to move on. If you feel you don’t care about her enough to see past the weight then that’s ok, just don’t force your ideals in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:26 AM |
| 13 | I present to you my pill: The Final PillI hate to say this but you are kind of proving the OPs point by responding this way. This was an angry response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:43 AM |
| 7 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??Gotta be an Alpha that dominates or you suck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??It’s not the women who create the drive, it’s the societal expectations they have to live up to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Female access to education, and their social and financial independence, are the primary cause of male loneliness, falling birthrates, and hypergamy.If being educated has lead someone to this conclusion, then clearly they can easily get a submissive. An educated man is a viable partner after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason that men "play games" when pursuing sex/relationships is primarily because women are more attracted to men who can hide their level of attractionI’m sorry you seem to have been mislead by some disingenuous female, doesn’t mean everyone is like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 09:50 AM |
| -1 | CMV: The reason that men "play games" when pursuing sex/relationships is primarily because women are more attracted to men who can hide their level of attraction?????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:33 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The reason that men "play games" when pursuing sex/relationships is primarily because women are more attracted to men who can hide their level of attractionAs a woman I feel it is my duty to tell you that game playing after 25 is not hot and becomes a turnoff. So there’s a hot tip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:06 AM |
| 1 | How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"?Are you saying an alpha would eliminate most of the people that may actually be right for them, if they weren’t their “first” something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Women getting upset over the fact that Men like younger women is mainly irrationalDefinitely a different context. It’s the last paragraph that tags it as not very genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 07:12 AM |
| – | Women getting upset over the fact that Men like younger women is mainly irrationalWhy you mad? Writing a super long essay about how it’s not creepy is the kind of thing that makes people assume you are doing it in a creepy way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | You get $10,000 if you can make your date reject you in under 1 minute, how do you do it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC“My fetish is licking eyeballs. Can I lick yours?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Yes it happens more than you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:01 AM |
| 18 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.If only some women want to be treated special just because they are women, could you not agree that some men expect women to be transactional and perform for them. That would make us even. Equality! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?Honestly how do you know if you’re low quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:03 AM |
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