Iganno Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to me Like I said, I get why you think that, but that’s just you telling yourself you’re ok with your current situation and don’t want to put the effort in to change it over time (not all in one day obviously.) Your reality is 100% shaped based around how you think and act. If you think being negative all the time is being honest, it isn’t. Being negative all the time means you’re lying to yourself and others about the positive times.	/r/seduction	29/06/22 11:37 AM
1	Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to me Whoa man, Imma say this because you sound a lot like myself and I’m trying to work on these things as well, but it sounds like you need to work on your confidence/self esteem when it comes to talking with women/people irl. If you don’t feel like doing cold approaches, start by making more guy friends to work on your confidence and to go out and have fun with (and to get advice if you trust their opinion.) This should help you feel better about interacting in social situations more often and not …	/r/seduction	29/06/22 11:03 AM
2	This experience instilled my fear in approaching women. Just to follow up, if there really hasn’t been a problem like that at the mall before for you, I would suggest starting to try out other malls or grocery stores and also adjust your introduction a tad bit when you might have a woman who wouldn’t enjoy being called cute or beautiful. At times like that, you could try saying that they seemed interesting and wanted to talk to them. Just from the bit you’ve said, you don’t seem like you’re in the wrong here. Just keep cold approaching and feeling ou…	/r/seduction	27/06/22 12:08 PM
16	This experience instilled my fear in approaching women. What I’m curious about is did security even ask for your side of the story to explain what happened or just get you off the premise? And has anything like this happened before this where security has talked with you?	/r/seduction	27/06/22 03:07 AM
7	Too many incels overtaking the forum ? If you aren’t actually putting the work in when it comes to trying to seduce women or get a gf, don’t just fall back on false statements like “women only want handsome men and game doesn’t matter” because that’s you quitting on yourself after not getting the result you want exactly when you want it. Also there are plenty of people on r/seduction legitimately looking for advice so don’t be that person.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 07:44 PM
1	i think too much about what to say, some advice would be nice So I’m also workin on talkin with women just to state the facts (there’s a chick at work that I’m trying to avoid this exact thing when we talk.) I feel the weirdest/most awkward when I’m trying to set up the conversation because I’m thinking about her romantically as a potential gf instead of being casual like I am with family/ friends and don’t feel weird because I’m treating it as a casual convo where I’m just checking in with someone as a friend (which then you feel out when it’s finally tim…	/r/seduction	24/06/22 10:49 PM
1	I see girls with several sexual partners as unfit for being gf material Hey man, If you think it’s always gonna be that way, it’s gonna stay that way because you don’t actually want to have it be any other way.	/r/seduction	23/06/22 12:32 AM
2	I see girls with several sexual partners as unfit for being gf material This is just my opinion so take it as you will, if it isn’t truly just the fact that you prefer women with small BC’s (which is fine, that’s your preference.) It could possibly be the idea that someone with a bigger BC will have more partners to compare you to, and whether it’s sexual or not, that could be something you’d prefer to not test.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 11:53 PM
3	10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dude SHOUT IT OUT FOR THOSE IN THE BACK!!! Seriously though this is some great advice though, appreciate you taking some time to post it. 🤘🏻	/r/seduction	22/06/22 06:19 PM
61	I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the year As someone who’s also working on talking with women, keep it casual and don’t make anything you say feel forced. Also if you are just working on approaching women in general, I always like to start with a compliment about their nails or shoes to start it off and work that into getting their number or social media if you hit it off with them.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 01:30 AM
2	Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy? No offense bro but that’s just kinda the way it is, doesn’t do anything to rant about it, it’s honestly a test women give to guys to see if they react. It’s the type of thing you get used to (speaking from experience) and just try to take whatever knowledge you can from the situation and just remember it with the next girl you’re talking to or texting. To everyone, keep workin on yourselves, don’t be an impatient douche, and get your confidence up, she’ll notice you. And even if she doesn’t noti…	/r/seduction	03/06/22 09:55 PM
21	You won’t get her by needing her Shout out to the guys working on themselves and getting their confidence up. Every time you mess up, learn from it and bring that knowledge to the next woman you got interest in. As long as you are honest about your intentions and aren’t a creep, you’re gonna find someone eventually.	/r/seduction	01/06/22 01:35 AM