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You can because we are generally concerned about casual sex. Partner number and not the count of how many sexual acts are preformed are the primary concern. Perhaps a better way to be it is 20 percent of the men enjoy sexual success with 80 percent of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 03:02 AM
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Not everyone or most people who want causal sex can get it. Most don't succeed but most do want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 02:59 AM
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It's not precisely the same. There is an anti - intellectualism in the later. If you view everything by how it matches post modern ethics, they are more a less equa-distant from it, but if that's not your yard stick there are pretty different. I meet an irish - American trust funder once, friend of a friend. We got to talking and he had to marry since he was in line to be the family patriarch. Hearing about some of those trust funders stipulations makes me feel better about not having one, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 01:05 AM
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I don't care how people other than me act until it effects me. I like being a traditional man, I like tradionally feminine women. I like tradional gender roles. If you don't that's fine. The difference is caring how relations I am not a part of are. I also like booze, gambling, atheism, intellectual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 01:02 AM
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I have to disagree here, we live in a world where to get what you desire you have to worry about how you get others to do things that create a situation advantageous to one's self. It has to be a mix of both. You need both competence and compliance. You need to get people to surrender some measure of their own will. It's a matter of social engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 10:59 PM
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See I skew younger. 18-25 women look there best. After that it's a slow decline. Mind you there us something attractive about experience but in general youth outweighs that. It's just a matter of taste.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:27 PM
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She's essentially asking How do I turn my alpha boyfriend into a beta, help me random internet people I'll never fuck
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:40 PM
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The only person you are is the person you are now. Also are you looking for sex or intimacy? If it's sex, if you get it now, it's the same. You're part of the cock carousel. Congrats. Intimacy is different, that it's easier with someone you're own age. You already have more in common. I am in my late 20s and have guy friends who still brag. It's not that rare, especially in a city. How do you get over it? That's the wrong question. Whenever you go through a shitty thing, there is a lesson and yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:32 PM
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Yeah agree there. Outside of the once a year event, where younger alum will do the bar crawl some schools have. Being a townie, is a huge turn off to college girls in college towns. Plus who'd want to live in a college town as a actual adult. Also there are lots of college girls in big city colleges. That's not a small exception.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 10:16 PM
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I'm think it depends on (A) how much older and (B) where the college is. If it's in a city, like NYC, Boston, Philly etc... there isn't the same bubble as a college town. You have to be in good shape, you also have to not have the personality of an accountant. You can't be a responsible guy to some extent. College girls also have lots of sex. Put it this way if you're good looking, fun, look in as good a shape as a college athlete, have an interesting back story (have traveled, made it though so…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 09:38 PM
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You're looking at it wrong. It's about how exciting it is to be around. Being around a very genuinely nice person isn't a very fun experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 02:00 PM
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When it denied men and women are different, that much of it is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 09:06 PM
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I guess I define burden differently. It's a responsibility, that can also provide satisfaction or not. Some do others don't. Yeah pretty much. I hear, I don't care if it's a mess, you do, I'm the guy stop expecting me not to be. rolls eyes That's what my reaction pretty much is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 08:19 PM
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I'm not gonna do homemaking. That's something that will never happen. I don't want an equal partner. I'm not a my girlfriend is my best friend person. What I look for in women and like in my friends are completely different. What's good in one, is not wanted in the other. That's I think a difference between the type of relationship you're describing. To me a woman who wants me to do feminine chores, or who enjoys masculine ones, is off putting. I love a woman who enjoys cooking, who expects me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 07:36 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding me. I prefer being in those "cookie cutter roles". I like a woman who acts tradional. I don't enjoy feminine activities, for example I hate to cook. I find a traditional feminine personality attractive. I don't find those open to non tradional roles, and doing non tradionally masculine things at all enjoyable. For me it's less a restriction, more insurance I won't be expected to do something I don't want to do. I think BPers assume everyone doesn't want rigid gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 06:39 PM
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Conservative part of a liberal city.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 06:02 PM
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That's fine. I'm not in the business of telling anyone how they should live their lives. For short-medium term relationships many women prefer more tradional relations. Even ones that have access. I've known some very well to do women who prefer masculine men. I think it's when many are older, when it's not an ONS, short term, or medium term thing you see the shift. I don't want to be around anyone forever so it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 05:46 PM
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Where we disagree is the type of mate we want, and the lessons, values we choose. My values are first and foremost for me. I don't choose to be or do something primarily because it's attractive to some woman. It's not just generating attraction that is important but doing it in the terms I want. I like being a traditional man. Nothing is worth giving it up. I like women who act like women. Being one has been one of the things that for me, makes my life something I enjoy more. It's not that it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 05:22 PM
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Or lessons could be taken from skills that are exhibited under hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 11:11 AM
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Yeah. Even though I had a beta dad, hippy type feminist mother, since he was black there were things taught early on, fight back, don't be submissive especially to other guys, smiling isn't my default face. A general not giving in to fear. Despite being out of shape in college, not putting myself out there I'd have a few women attracted to me (I had no idea how to move it foward then), the bearing that comes with part of black culture is definitely helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 06:22 PM
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Eastern Europeans/South Americans/Africans, African Americans and Arabs already have and come from backgrounds that have tradional views of being a man. Asians in America are usually the furthest removed from that, aren't taught to be assertive and have to learn it as adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 06:17 PM
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Dread game works on anyone who doesn't realize if you're with someone only because you don't want to be alone, you already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 05:43 PM
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It's not PUA. The dating part actually isn't the core of it though is the most visible and possibly makes up the majority of content. Really it's more general and about holding yourself to tradional masculine virtues. The goal isn't to be average. It's to be the top at what you're pursuing, I mean sports is an easy metaphor, that's something you need to start early (not 8 depending on which sport it is, baseball for example isn't gymnastics). Being beta is essentially being the average guy, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 05:16 PM
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TRP is a conversation around a few fundamental ideas. It's not a handbook that's finalized. So there is gonna be internal debate around some issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:38 PM
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Yeah. To me being married is a nightmarish idea. I think people who really don't want to be married the whole experience seems awful, the day in day out proximity with the same person, the lack of control of time, personal plans etc... The who it is to, is negligible to what marriage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:29 PM
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You explained it, he's gorgeous. I have a friend, total wimp, but tall and good looking. Women want to fuck him because he looks good, and fucking people who look good is something instinctual. He could be in a coma, and they'd still wanna fuck him. We're animals. If you don't naturally look good, you have to have your performative aspect be what generates an animal lust. Humans are pack animals so status or things that appear as status can have similar effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:24 PM
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Or kill time. It's fun to debate, especially topics you can't bring up in one's normal social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:21 PM
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Why does there have to be a "wrong" side? They are seperate goals. The state of achieving eminence is a seperate thing from achieving dominance even though they share certain benefits. The competition itself is the point for some, the ends, the motivation all in one. Eminence is great for something you don't really care too much about for some people but isn't something that is something that charges people to actually dedicate themselves to it. Ted Williams didn't work non-stop for eminence. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:18 PM
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Isn't that reddit in a nut shell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:10 PM
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And not London, they have to think of underrepresented areas of England in the media. Preferably a drab two story in Manchester with some plumbing problems and bad electoral wiring.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:19 PM
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Find out what you want to be, research how to get there and take those steps. I have a friend, not an extraordinary guy, came from a lower middle class home, not exceptionally smart, he's going to Harvard grad school soon. He went to community college for two years, transferred to state, did internships, took shit jobs in his industry that gave him connections, brick by brick he moved up. In every elite group there are many places everyone came from in this day and age. My suggestion look for pe…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:25 PM
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For me that actually never worked. I could never be that motivated for something small. For other people like me here, I'd say it's more just plowing through. Realize you have to slog through whatever to get where you want, there simply isn't an alternate route. What you think and feel is inconsquential, the universe gives no fucks. It's like being stranded and having to swim to shore. It's gonna be a shitty time, but what's the alternative drowning.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:16 PM
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I spent most of my life undisciplined. I think you're suffering from the same issue I did. You wait to feel you are confident to do something, rested, prepared. Here is the simple way to get shit done, DO, don't think, just start doing it. Your mind will follow after the task begins. Discipline is an action and not a feeling. Nothing else besides doing will fix your situation so just get up and start on something, always maintain a foward momentum. If you make a mistake, remember you can't undo …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:04 PM
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Female ejaculation? I don't agree with any of them but that one isn't even agressive. UK guidelines for porngraphy 2015 Only missionary sex between average looking thirty somethings, the act should last no more than five minutes, with both parties preferably unshaven. The excitement level must be of a couple whose spark has completely died, has been married for too long and are just going through the motions of what once was...Also no anal.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:23 PM
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I've seen women cheat on perfectly good guys. Most times it's not the man's fault. Hell most times anyone cheats it's not the other person's fault. It's simply people and in this case women who enjoy uncommitted sex, have a habit of it are more likely to pursue it, in or out of a committed relationship. Most people who cheat don't plan to, it's an impulse and you want someone who isn't gonna be as tempted by it.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 03:17 PM
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I've seen people's opinions evolve here. The problem is your seeing it as a competition. I think the debate here produces what debate should, people who have more nuanced opinions and an appreciation of the complexity of the issue discussed. The best conversations here aren't those with the aim of converting someone to one side or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 01:11 PM
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Yeah. It's hard imagining an attractive adult who is socially adjusted never having had any other partners. Now a high partner count, and partners outside of a relationship is I'd wager a better measurement tool.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:09 AM
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I guess. I look pretty much the same, probably a bit better then I did then. I think if anything I want more of what they want now, a good time and nothing else. Nothing feels the same, but it doesn't mean in won't feel good.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:49 AM
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All my friends are single guys, and I'm going back to school so thankfully I don't have to deal with it. Before I moved/went back to school the work friends I had all were on the serious box yourself into a corner life track. Honestly right now I just want to put up numbers too. I don't get the shame thing people have about it. I guess it'll only get more of a force to reckon with. Do they confront you outright about it?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:05 PM
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Sincere question as a guy getting older What don't you aim for girls in their early 20s?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 01:46 PM
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Power for them is what hotness is for us. I mean no matter who I was dating if say Kate Upton offered to blow me, I'm not passing that up. Luckily as a guy for us, humiliating ourselves and groveling never gets us laid.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 01:17 PM
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There are many differing opinions here. Certain points have been brought up so often it will elicit downvotes because it's repetitive. A newer user may not be aware of that. This isn't generally a debate subreddit, r/purplepilldebate debate is probably a sub that would interest you A lot of people get confused and think they are being downvowted for dissent, when really they don't yet get sexually strategy is amoral. Very few times have I seen someone being descriptive about a flaw in TRP as a s…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 10:54 AM
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Men get "old" later, depending on how well they take care of themselves it's from 40 to 50, for women it's 30 to 35. A guy can also leverage his social position. It's how politicians and businessman have affairs with younger women. A woman being a self made extremely successful person however doesn't increase her level of attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:51 AM
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Yeah it's our equivalent of nonsense Victorian medical advice.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:44 AM
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Prestige is a reasonable substitute especially outside of LTRs. Having been interesting places, and doing something exciting added to being fit, confident all that can be a solid trump card over height.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:40 AM
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All good things must come to an end. On reddit the most interesting subs often run out of material to discuss, suffer from some drama exiling the reasonable users or become too popular for their own good. Much worse are the subs that live as some weird shadow of their former selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 01:05 AM
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Those just earnings the guaranteed income will be socially poor. People forget over time standard of living increases for everyone, it's where you stand economically in relation to other people that matter. Second there for a long timewill be jobs that will not be robotosized (teaching be it in highscool, college, coaching, academic research positions, also things that are dependent on human interaction like police work and private investigation, trial lawyers, anything in the arts etc...). You …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 12:58 AM
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Yeah part of what attracts it's members is it isn't for social engineering. Everything isn't viewed as some poltical act. It's a social strategy for individuals and a descriptive of gender relations that is apathetic about how it's makes people feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 12:40 AM
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Also low partner count is relative. I'm red and if I wanted an LTR, I think a low partner count would be preferred but a virgin might be overboard. Preferably for me it would be a ltr partner who had a few ltrs, but never had sex outside a relationship (or at the very least not after college).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 12:37 AM
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I think it's well meaning but misguided and stupid. In general I'm not for draconian parenting. Within reason accept your kids might be different from you, trying to change that never actually works. This is also a regional thing. I'm from New York, where everyone above 20 is pretty much two degrees from a guy who sold coke at least once, and a low partner count below 30 is 7 so the whole purity thing is probably extra weird for me. Also if I had a daughter I don't think I'd want her to be that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 12:33 AM
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Yeah, this isn't even a red or blue pill thing, it's about just not abusing animals. It should be sickening no matter a person's view on gender relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 11:47 PM
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Unfortunately those same sorts of people are the ones who enforce laws and who make them. Getting the law involved makes it even worse. I agree the problem is too many people think free speech is only what doesn't effect my values or what makes me feel unsafe. It's just one solution creates an even worse situation than the present situation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 06:15 AM
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We have protection for free speech. In general when you try a litigious solution it seems you end up creating more new problems. The solution is as a society we need to get over the whole, he's in a position of authority so it might make someone feel bad alarm bells.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 05:48 AM
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It helps with swimming too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 05:34 AM
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You know they do still have hands. Maybe I'm weird but a dry spell has never made me thought a goat is a reasonable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 05:32 AM
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If youe partner fucked a sea lion, it's in the past. No need to judge her for it now. She was just exploring her sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 05:29 AM
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Yes but you're saying you care whether the person feels obligated. I suppose the difference is better put is you need to care on some level beyond will this person fuck me about them, it's how you state it's intimate as fuck and being reduced to a transaction. That no one wants it to be a transaction. My point is, it's intimate for one party, it's primarily a human interaction for the woman, for a man it's comparatively more of physical action whose mechanics simply nesseciate another person for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:03 PM
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The ostracism isn't justified. He is speaking his honest informed opinion. For a dialogue to exist, you can't politicize every view on facts. It's not unreasonable to argue that on a population level there are differences in genetic traits. That this might partly explain nations, especially those with a homogeneous make up economic condition. Silencing observations doesn't help. You can't dismiss something because it's offensive. If you want solutions you need conditions that make honest assessm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 07:27 AM
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Sex for men and women are two seperate things, I don't care why you want to fuck me. If you hate me but are physically attracted that's extra rewarding. The physical act of sex is seperate from the emotional feeling of love. The problem here is the false premise men and women are looking for the same thing. As long as innate differences are ignored there can be no dialogue. For women it's intimate, for men it's physical. Who I fuck and who I care about don't effect one another. Our prioties and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 05:20 AM
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It's being who she wants to fuck, not who she likes. For women sex is a diversion, long term love is more rewarding. For me as a man sex is the rewarding part, the disconnect comes when it's men would rather be the guy you fuck, than the guy you emotionally care about. We'd rather be your vice than your provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 05:16 AM
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Be yourself and you'll get laid if you're who we want. Be yourself if you're who we don't want to fuck, so we know not to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 05:13 AM
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Also being a man involves certain elements that often aren't healthy. I just went out drinking, the stories I tell from my life when drinking aren't good idea stories. Being a man often involves things that make you sound like a poor provider. The problem is they wanna fuck a guy who has some wild boy stories, but say they don't. Honestly be yourself is good advice. It's the rest of the advice, what being yourself should entail that's bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 05:11 AM
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Also only cause you bought up the German hippy, thought you might find this interesting. Germany never goes halfway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 05:06 AM
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Actually it's posture, as we walked upright the position of the vagina shifted foward, a larger penis was needed for successful fertilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:31 AM
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Well here it's warning men about a male delusion. It's like I mentioned earlier giving advice on what not to do, so you can get something you want. It goes on to what are the effects of this. It's not about how male behavior effects women outside of advising men how to get to a goal. Personally I agree with it's assessment on women, however most guys I've known weren't entirely selfless with their GFs. Selfless love from anyone isn't a real thing for the most part imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 01:16 PM
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My mother constantly planned on moving to Sweden. This was before it was cool. If it wasn't for the fact my step dad took care of his parents I would've grown up in Sweden (assuming immigration have let us in, which is a big if). If I had a nickel for every time I heard about Sweden, I'd have a nice little trust fund. In America it's easy to isolate yourself even if you live near a big city. You just choose people who only agree with you and not have personal relationships with anyone else. Yep …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 12:38 PM
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I remember in highschool when Jackass the movie came out, I couldn't see it because it was prejudiced against the disabled (wee man), that was the only reason none of the other stuff. I wasn't allowed to watch the Man Show that was a big one I remember. James Bond (this was the Pierce Brown an era so they were PGA 13 and this was the TV version). I was 16 or so then so it wasn't age totally inappropriate. More it was just movies and TV shows I can't name cause I didn't see them. You don't rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 12:04 PM
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I'm having a few seperate back and forths at the moment on other threads and haven't read the article yet (I'm wagering it's a prerequisite for replying to your comment). I'm also cramming for a few tests I have coming up and really should be sleeping now. I'll probably reply tomorrow after I read the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 11:29 AM
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I grew up on old books. The funny thing was I wasn't allowed to watch and read media that was considered anti-progressive or non-feminist growing up. Old books though and classic films, I never was restricted on. So since I couldn't watch action movies, I'd read high brow stuff cause it had alot of war, and action at some point in it. All those novels generated out of world war one, or earlier writers like Joseph Conrad, Melville, Goethe had secret agents, war and ship wrecks, lots of ancient hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 11:20 AM
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You got me. I'm like a inverted Horatio Alger novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 11:10 AM
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Yeah people conflate empathy with kindness too much, I have very low empathy. I'm also a generous guy, I do more favors for friends than a lot of more empathic people I know. Likewise the people I know would back me up aren't the ones that are the most emotiomally empathic. I let a guy I was just coworkers with crash with me for a summer cause he had an internship that was a career changing opportunity and he was too broke to stay anywhere. I think that's one of the positive masculine virtues, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 10:39 AM
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I've noticed the lacking of the cooperative end with non naturals mentioned in the link . I'm in sort of an odd position, I was always naturally macho, probably some of it was just inherited. I'm the result of a cads and dads scenario, I get my genetics from a cad and from an early age was competitive but also good at being one of the guys. I was raised by a dominant mother and a beta dad. I was never really meek, wasn't a nice guy, beta orbiter etc... I notice sometimes when people who maybe ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 10:02 AM
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One thing I forgot to add I've noticed that backs up your theory is if you read the biographies of guys who were usually macho in some way, men who are otherwise pretty profoundly different they all have some form for father issues where he was either absent of overshadowed by an overbearing mother (i.e. Hemingway, T.E. Lawrence, Humphrey Bogart, Steve McQueen...). All of those guys were very trad, so I think it's more nuanced than your argument but it does produce when mixed with someone who na…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 05:23 AM
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I feel it's disgusting but no I don't think there is any factual objectively evil thing. I'm not trying to be edgy, I don't think I'm insane (then again who does). Saying we agree we don't want to live in a society that does X is still at it's core a matter of preferences. I'm quite sure there are points we disagree on once we get passed really simple things like the cold blooded murder of innocent people should be discouraged. Advocating against something, strongly believing a set of values sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 04:23 AM
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I enjoy the process it self. I'm near 30, and I used to be the worst kind of slacker until about 24. I'm not happy with what I have and always want more but just the processing of building towards it brings me a lot of fulfillment. Even if it's just reading a couple of books on a subject I prevously had no knowledge of.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 03:36 AM
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Trying to be happy is like trying to be full, it's not meant to be a permanent state.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 02:55 AM
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That escalated quickly. One of the most redpill guys I know is Jewish (serving in the IDF as we speak). Conservative, opposed to liberal censorship. Somehow it's the Jews plan to make Sweden more ethnic, because the secret Zionist cabal wants the nations of Europe to bend to the will of Arab immigrants who generally are anti Isreal. Also are the Jews money grubbing or marxists, it gets confusing.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 02:51 AM
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Can you please describe the suspects appearance? Human, officer.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 02:45 AM
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"Scrotum sweat is unpleasant..." What, I don't even understand. What does that have to with sitting, Sweden still allows men to wear pants, right? Also there is more than one way to sit in a bus chair? Everyone gets one sit, if it's really empty maybe you get to put your back pack on the next seat. The bus is miserable for everyone. It's a bunch of strangers and vagrants setting in giant unsanitary van. Swedes get your shit together this isn't about feminism, this is about knowing how to ride tr…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 02:38 AM
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My point is there is no objective good or evil. If you're stating that there is, the onus of proof is on you. How is there, how is it factually determined?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 02:02 AM
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I go to local blue collar barbershops because it's almost always all male barbers, usually some old Italian guy, I just want a short conservative haircut that's versatile. I've lived in a few cities across the northeast now and it's the first thing I find when I move. Basically my head should look like if I needed to time travel between now and the end of World War One, nothing would seem options out of place.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:51 AM
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Woman love to just label whatever they do exploring as some get out of jail free card. Here's what any good betting man will assume. She'll cheat (which she has more than likely all ready down), lie to him because she's invested too much, become more distant. He will grow to resent here, leading to two miserable people. Trust is the most overvalued trait there is.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:45 AM
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Woman can be good, decent, morally right or wrong according to whatever values you adhere to is a different conversation. Honor is a metric for judging how good a man is at adhering to masculine virtues. A man being masculine is correct and admirable a woman being masculine is not. At least if you believe in that sort of thing. So that's outside of an alimony situation. Which goes back to my pervious comment, anyone can leave anyone for whatever reason they like and there is nothing right or wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 12:19 AM
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Red pill isn't a monolith. It would depend on who you asked. I'd say honor doesn't apply to women. It's a male concept for men. A woman can't be honorable one way or the other. Anyone can leave anyone for any reason they want. As long as they don't try and claim some portion of what the other person earned, there is no right or wrong to it one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 12:05 AM
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Let me rephrase myself. TRP isn't concerned with how male behavior effects women outside of how that effects the goals of men. TRP is concerned with strategies that help men get things they are looking to attain. This is more about how can a female keep a man, that's advice for women and not our department. Honor isn't love. Love is concerned with a person's relation to another person. Honor is concerned with a person's relation to a code of ideas, to an abstract. Honor isn't an emotional or emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 11:47 PM
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Men commit more violent crime. The police in general don't have to worry about self defense when dealing with non violent suspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 11:44 PM
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Under that criteria all issues involving at least a man is a men's rights issue. See that's the problem with most liberal movements now they don't understand not everything is the same issue. They can't get themselves to tackle an issue without going overboard and trying to tackle every issue no matter how much of a reach it is to make them one in the same It would be like a university putting sociology under the physics department under the argument sociology is the study of groups of people. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 11:43 PM
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Ask a guy who wants love. I'm probably not the best guy to comment on guys who genuinely do. TRP is focused on what works for men to get women. This isn't that, it's why do men do X to women and how that effects their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 11:31 PM
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AWALT reallys mean Almost All Women Are Like That. It's how when (almost) anyone makes a generalization they mean X applies to the vast majority and pretty much everyone we are concerned with. It's a common aspect of informal conversation to use all and every that way especially when speaking about a class of things or people. Also TRP is pretty against hypersensitivity so disclaimers aren't constantly used. If I was giving say a lecture of child development I would be speaking about the milesto…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 11:23 PM
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I won't try to explain all men. That would be silly. You're looking for a blanket answer, people often do the same outward things for vastly different internal reasons. Some may really want love, others may not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 11:08 PM
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I agree with redpill assessment of most women. However I don't think anyone loves unconditionally. It's about ego, self image (the idea someone can love unconditionally being the condition itself). I'm a red piller but I never went through a nice guy phase, I never believed in blue pill ideas, and I'm probably even more cynical than most of TRP. So I never had to work through that which probably gives me a slightly different perspective of red pill ideology. I'm not after an LTR. It's either an …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 10:57 PM
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I'm kind of this guy, except I now realize I never wanted love. I've turned down women so very attractive because they were "good". Way out of my league attractive. It's boring, some people want their life to be like they'd want to read. Who wants to read about a pleasant functional couple that doesn't break up. Also that new girl feel, it's just exciting. It's the difference between stepping into a nice hotel in a new city, and you're apartment after you've lived there for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 10:39 PM
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If you were a Milesian, you'd probably consider Athens on the ultra masculine scale. In fact the Athenians were barbaric (as someone currently taking ancient greek, that turn of phrase is like nails on a chalk board). Civilization is just as savage, we just export it to outside (military actions abroad, companies outsourcing to places without workers rights, Rome subjecting Germania giving them "wilderness instead of peace" as Tacitus put it). Also I think you have a lot of misunderstandings abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 10:25 PM
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Well if you believe that the things that are masculine objectively evil, you've reached a conclusion no one can really argue against. Being and having always been a masculine guy, it is probably less stable than someone who is more feminine (though while it maybe more self destructive it's a personality that also makes coming out of really tough times easier). Most BPers, blue leaning purples, have values they believe are objectively morally good. It's kind of like arguing with a religious perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 10:07 PM
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Is they were okay people good enough, or at least not worse than me? I never judged a woman based on promiscuity. In fact those sorts of girls are generally pretty amusing to be around. Most girls who turned me down I didn't know them well enough to evaluate their moral fiber. I don't think anyone deserves a happy life, life's a crapshot. I've rejected allot of good people does that give me points, I think it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 07:57 AM
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See I'd rather know why not. I think it's much more respectful to say why. A rational guy would invest time to get into the pants of a woman as long as she looks good. Unless you're just speaking about LTRs, even medium term relationships can be, you're an awful person but you look pretty and maybe your entertaining too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 07:53 AM
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First I hate these SJW buzzphrases... When she isn't dating you, someone you know and besides not wanting to be with her, you give a fuck. I mean you cannot like them for it, but if you go out of your way and you don't benefit from it, at that point it probably is. I don't get these whole, it's wrong to break up with someone for any reason. You don't need any criteria to not want to be around someone, it's just whether or not you want to stay. It's not a court case, anything no matter how capric…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 07:46 AM
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It means behaviors that don't fit your moral system of choice. It assumes there is an ideal morality to be deviated from. It's not toxic, so much at odds with certain parts of what you believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 05:31 AM
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We aren't the animal we wish we were, we never will be. We've created an artificial peaceful ideal, but the problem is like all other animals we are contradictory, self serving, and at times viscous. The fix is accepting ourselves, excepting life if rough, unfair and we need it to be. You don't lock a bunch of lions in a zoo, and get confused why they still fight when there is enough food to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 05:28 AM
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That assumes what is attractive in a man, and what is attractive in a woman is the same. It's a double standard because different roles have different rules. You are putting caveats here; effort involves doesn't count, male and female roles aren't different here. If you preload those conclusions you're just looking to have people confirm you're conclusion. I don't care if a woman is a slut, but I don't want an LTR, but unlike a guy it's not impressive. Getting a guy to want sex is just waiting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 04:11 AM
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I left a comment. That's not really an energy investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:20 PM
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Podcasts, music (classic rock, old jazz, some classical), stand up comedy albums. It's been years since I've even had a TV, just was never my thing. Edit: I didn't mean that in a douchey I don't own a TV way. I just didn't grow up with a lot of exposure to pop culture so it probably just never became neutral white noise to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:30 AM
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You consume more American pop culture than me. I've actually never watched an episode of Gilmore Girls, and saw fifteen minutes of NCIS once when I was jetlagged in a hotel room. I concede your point about television.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:19 AM
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That does nothing for me. I don't think it's all upbringing either, I have always been this way, it's a core part of my temperament. Different people respond to different things. What you describe just doesn't motivate me, and isn't something that brings me any remote sense of accomplishment. Americans are very emotional about poltics. Much more than Europeans, it is an American speciality. Even allot of people who work in the poltical industry here fall into that divide. Related to that I'm pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:07 AM
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It's more most redditors are American. I also figure most know what the coasts are as the world is inundated by American pop culture references so if I'm incorrect about my assumption the person will correct me and still understand my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 09:39 AM
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It's both. One thing I take immense pride is, I can take more than most people. Hit hard and take hard hits. Embrace the ability to be indifferent to suffering. I disagree about the ego part, I'm an egoist, I don't think that's a negative. However if you aren't willing to suffer to win, work at something for years through setbacks, you don't really want it. Winning is the end of the road, but you're starting the journey to get there. The two aren't mutually exclusive. Winning is also motivating,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 09:23 AM
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I don't think they are morally reprehensible, but I really would rather avoid being the beta sap. Basically it's a situation to avoid. No I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:41 AM
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No :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 05:11 AM
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I don't cook. There is a middle ground. There are pretty cheap delivery food, supermarket prepared foods, okay frozen stuff. You can get a pre made quiche from most supermarket delis for under 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 05:03 AM
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If I was into being an SJW, I'd say blaming parents for that is really victim blaming because it's the fault of a society that lacks equanimity or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 05:01 AM
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I mean feeding a kid fattening shit when the kid is a captive audience in regards to what it eats is a pretty shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 01:24 AM
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I'm pretty red and I've never gotten angry about this. I mean I wouldn't want to date someone who didn't match my aesthetics and would leave someone over changing them. The closest I've gotten is how the presence of hipsters will generally annoy me a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 01:22 AM
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Everything else are distractions or unimportant diversions. I like a good iced coffee but I can't say I'd care that much if it ceased to exist. Every important thing, worth more energy than asking "...can I have that with almond milk?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 01:18 AM
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I think you misunderstood me, got part of what I said backwards. I'm saying that wasn't really appreciated by that sort of environment. I was/am not emotional/sensitive, am goal oriented, agressive, competitive and that was viewed as being part of the "problem". The only yardstick of worth was being sensitive and empathic. Confrontation is a useful thing, so is aggression. If you want something and there are forces in your way, people, and it's adversarial it's a good trait to have. It's differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 01:14 AM
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Rather than saying men, I'll say I don't. For me physical actions don't effect my emotional feelings. Sex, pain from injury all that and how I emotionally feel for whatever reason they've always been completely seperate for me. It's the risk and the fact that you'll never see the person, that gives it the rush of excitement for me. Outside of the physical urge, the only other thing I feel is the thrill of excitement. On everything else nothing is there. So for me at least knowing the person make…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 01:03 AM
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Value versus having it be the main priority. I enjoy and care about my friends but honestly they aren't as important to me as my goals. Yeah, it's the risk, and the fact most fail that makes it something motivating. It's the rarity in general of attaining a level of accomplishment above most that makes it worthy of pride and distinction. You feel differently that's fine, I'm just explaining how another type of guy does. Also my point isn't whether people who don't feel this way should, I'm expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 12:57 AM
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The point of getting ahead for guys like me is how many people are below you. It's about who many people you can dominate as well as how good you are. Having emotional bonds be central to your life is. See you see competition as a tool to help people in some fashion. You find competition at any cost irritating, that's fine, but my point is the point of something is the competitive aspect. It's the most important thing, it's about conquering in some manner which is very different from what you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 09:34 PM
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I don't feel the emotion part, for me it's just physical pleasure, something I do to get off enjoyably so I don't have it on my mind for a while. It's a physical craving like being thirsty. In general am not risk averse, so we just have different formulas, feel differently about it. I think sex is admittedly more risky for a woman, the guy is the one who has to make sure it's safe sex, is physically in a more dominant position in regards to physical strength etc... women naturally have some leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 09:28 PM
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What age range are you, and did you grow up on the coasts? In general it's anti competition, anti ambition. Anyone who wants to win, it isn't just about personal best, being stable, moderate and being healthy is treated like they suffer from some type of vice. Basically advice that gets you ahead isn't given. If you're a guy who is good a tradionally masculine thing, cool under pressure, naturally isn't emotional, can take a lot, derives happiness from goals, winning and not interpersonal relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 09:03 PM
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In general people even outside of sex respond to dominance. In a lot of professions if you're competent being cock sure is the thing that will help you get ahead. It's more than just getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 07:41 PM
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How is wanting to be alone selfish? If there was a club whose activities you didn't enjoy, and didn't need a new member would you call that person selfish for not joining? I don't get how some people get so angry about people who really like spending their free time by themselves. No one needs me. I don't need them. I am not taking any opportunity from someone. Is the be all and end all of who is a good person long term mate paring, cause that's kind of a silly metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 07:38 PM
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I don't care. To be honest I'd rather someone just not care about the rest of me. If I'm never gonna see you again why should either of us be required to really care about who the other person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 07:29 PM
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If you don't want what red pill offers, than no it's not for you. Am I happier now. A bit yes. Am I more dour and jaded, not really but I've always been really cynical, I don't think I was ever blue pill. I never put women on a pedastel, never was a nice guy, so I might not have been the usual pre red pill guy who found the sub. Has it helped me. I work harder than I used to, am getting in better shape, have better body language. We're all predictable animals. It's just complex the suite of reac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 04:01 AM
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Also Universities have a vested interested in keeping things of the court record. An accused rape, even if the charged is found innocent is on the record, and hurts the school's reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:48 AM
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Good for you. I'm not the one criticizing what makes you happy and how you find meaning. For me it's my goals, hobbies, reading, mostly solo intellectual and other things I do by myself. Occasionally I grab a drink with friends or take a call from a family member. I love being alone, I love being the sole person I have to worry about is happy, not having to consider others in regards to my life choices. It's not very mature to call people who enjoy different things from you broken, frankly it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:44 AM
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TRP stands out on reddit. There are plenty of guys who hold TRP views who aren't even aware of the subreddit ' s existence. Basically it's just a codification of what a lot of guys know, however it's introducing this to an audience (nerds, redditors, "nice" guys), who probably never were exposed to it socially because they were never one of the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:53 PM
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I need to read the cocktail party thing. Yeah TRP is a reaction to self censored advice that is more concerned about how people wish people are, than how they actually react. It's close to books about sales techniques or any other field (emergency services, private investigation, used car sales, trail law, negotiations, poltical strategist) where you can't keep pretending people tick in a pleasant, altruistic Disney sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:50 PM
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No you changed. Having a libido and wanting to be alone isn't some big sign of emotional retardation. I just like the rush of having sex with a new person and prefer being alone the rest of the time. Some people just don't find happiness through relations and connections with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:44 PM
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It's sad for you because you want that. I don't, I never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 03:48 PM
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I value having control of my time above all else. No compromises to my life, no discussing big changes. It's sex without strings with someone you'll never see again. I don't get emotionally attached and only want sex went it comes to those sorts of relations with women. The rush of newness, it's just not as exciting. You've been there, now it's more ordinary that excitement. Not having to deal with someone long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 04:49 AM
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My hand but more out of honor than actually caring. I don't think I could live with myself knowing that I'm truly a coward. Depends on their reasoning why. Either answer being majority view would allow society to be functional (functional defined as being able to maintain the current level of social and technological complexity).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 12:20 AM
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I'd rather be with a wife who didn't love me but never cheated, than one who loved me more than anything but fucked around. Then again I never want a wife so maybe I'm not the best judge. There are a lot of people, no one is special. It's like a job applicant pool, low risk applicants make it to the next round where time will be invested to see in more detail if they qualify. You may be great but there is probably someone just as great but with a more preferable history. It's not repulsive. It j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 11:38 PM
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Yeah, so? Honestly why is it a problem is a man just wants detached sex with a pretty young thing. It's strange to have people who are against slut shaming, while also being against men who want sex, just sex, that's it, who are those sluts supposed to fuck? I don't give a fuck if I'm sexually objectified in return. I just want to fuck her pussy. If she consents to it, no one in TRP that I've come across supports rape, why do people care if the method is using dark triad traits to create tingles…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 10:17 PM
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I don't like long term relationships so it works out. I get tired of someone before very long has a chance to happen. That being said, yeah I can't imagine it working in a long term circumstance, but if I wanted that, I'd probably feel different about the nature and experience of sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 05:11 AM
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One thing I notice is natively how different blue piller experience sex. It's a physical rush, but the whole intimacy thing, that doesn't mean jack shit to me, it's just another form of intoxication that feels good. Only reason I care about a woman getting off is my ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 04:46 AM
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The fact I want sex but never want a relationship, ltr, friends with benefits. Women and men are mentally different due mostly to biology. A man ought to be a traditional man, if he can't I generally think that's a deficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 03:42 AM
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Women want kids more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 03:36 AM
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I disagree with part of this. You play to win, you play to be number one. You give it your best damn go. Only one person wins gold, but everyone who is serious is trying to get it. It's not the whole gen Y, every who feels good gets a trophy mentality. I think a lot of guys perceive being alpha when first starting out through a beta lense. They see women are attracted to boldness and don't want to be bold because of any other reason but women might like that. It's the wrong mindset, it's being s…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:34 PM
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Yeah. I think it depends on region. By most plus pill descriptions I'm "hypermasuline" don't cook, don't comprise, am prideful, hate being around kids etc... In the northeast middle and upper class environments being a guy isn't exactly seen as the best thing a man should be. Also are there that many men who wish they could do feminine things. I can understand women who want to do masculine things allot more than some guy who really wants to wear pink, take a dido up the ass and bake a bunt cake…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 10:26 PM
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One problem I have with both pills is they care too much what women think. The view of any woman, is secondary to the the respect of other men. We all know that guy who has no physical courage, no leadership abilities, no stoicism but gets laid. That doesn't make him admirable. It's what terms you get laid on that matters. Above even that being a traditional man; capable, resilient, stoic, rational, aggressive, domineering (which is too often confused with bullying) and self reliant matters. Bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 10:00 PM
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No such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:50 PM
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Tyson isn't that machivelian. That's part of the reason the people around him where so able to take advantage of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:57 AM
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It depends on what you want. I just want to fuck, and otherwise not have to comprise on my life, not have to listen or consider someone else's feelings. I'd rather have the flu than a LTR. Extra work, less sex, harder to leave, it's like the world's worst lease agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:44 AM
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T. R. is my hero. The guy guarded a prisoner in the old west and read Tolstoy to keep awake. Patrick Leigh Fermor is a great example, all those tough scholarly guys who you see in the 19th and early 20th centuries are what I think a man is best when he reaches for. Also in regards to affairs, there is something kind of romantic about having a few, almost every really interesting historical figure did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:30 AM
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One thing I kind of disagree with is the emphasis on sexual success. I mean it's a sign you're doing something right, but isn't the bigger reason to be "alpha" to be in charge of your own situation to display and use traits that give you increased hierarchal status. The respect of my peers (other men) matters quite a bit more than the amount of sexual attraction I generate. Ideally one should create the side effect of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:26 AM
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Tyson... This is kind of a loaded question. I mean you're purposely picking a guy who has other issues that really aren't due to masculinity. Ali, Foreman, Jack Dempsey never bit a guys ear off. Wladimer Klitchko who is a statesman and academic on top of being a boxer and exceptionally tough. Jack Johnson held patents for inventions. Tyson wouldn't have been normal in the Old West, Ancient Rome, Medieval England... he's not some example of what was normal before post modern ideas of gender, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:13 AM
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Then don't be shocked when said nation decides they don't want to immigrate there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 01:20 AM
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No, I hate that argument. Nations in general introduce and displace the less complex indigenous culture (Rome and Britain/France/Germany) through invasion, in fact indigenous people's replaced other groups of indigenous people's in the same manner, Olmecs conquer sovereign tribes in South America. The Europeans did the same thing on a larger scale due to superior technology. Second the U.S. isn't monocultural or homogeneous in the way many European countries tradionally have been. We're a nation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 01:16 AM
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Girl would pair with beta but fuck the alpha behind the betas back, perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 01:04 AM
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Norman Mailer is actually a good example of women being attracted to an abusive sort of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/14 11:44 PM
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In general it's a mans ability to fight other men that's actually important. To be frank winning a physical fight against an average woman, is not a physical challenge for the average guy. Their bones break easier, they have less upper body strength. Add they aren't sexual or in general social competition in hierarchical situations. I'm an angry guy, and in general was prone to fighting when I was younger (I have and would never hit a woman). This didn't get me laid as much as a lot of people mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/14 11:41 PM
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When ever I see these trial by court of public opinion I remember the case of Jonbenet Ramsey. Her mother died, with the world saying she killed her own daughter, she had to live with the fact her daughter was murdered and the country blamed her for it. I absolutely hate these public witch trials. We drag someone through the mud because we're bored with our lives and the media is happy to oblige what ever brings eyes to the TV screen.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:57 PM
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California and New York are the fuck over individuals in the name of the system states.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:53 AM
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I have no idea why anyone would get married. Why would you trap yourself in a situation. It's like buying a boat, handcuffing yourself to the wheel of it so if it sinks you have no chance of escaping. Beyond even TRP ideas, people change, no one knows what someone else is gonna be like in a decade.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:24 AM
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I think it's more after 40. It's more college girls don't respond to the same things. Being interesting, well traveled is more important than your net worth. If you're a guy teaching esl or an emt, you're in terrific shape and you lived in some exotic third world country, did volunteer work in Africa and play some sport that gets then more tingly than decent shape, high paying job, stable life. They want a exciting book, a roller coaster with abs, not something more corporate. Basically experien…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:17 AM
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I'm not sure he's the ideal TRP guy, but this is who you are basically describing. Honestly adventure. Travel to exciting places more like Richard Halliburton or Ranulph Fienes. I think the ideal TRP guy lives for himself, does what excites him and that success is what makes women see you're an alpha male. Sex is a side effect of success and dominance not the other way around imo.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:09 AM
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Also the fact she considers it, "leading" dirty work (also it sounds like she is in H.R. which is in general the most feminine part of the work world). Leading, making decisions for actual strong people is more enjoyable that not having control. The whole need to take a break shows someone is doing something that they aren't really hard wired for.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:01 PM
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When ever I hear any sentence starting with "in tune with..." it's almost always something that is feel good and meaningless that follows
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:37 PM
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Yeah TRP's sexual strategy is designed for heterosexual tradional male dynamics. That being said one big boost it gives people and I can see how for both heterosexual and homesexual men it helps is being "alpha" a aggressive, socially capable dominant male is something that helps in all sorts of social environments where leadership and hierarchy is present. Work, school, one's social life etc... In fact I'd argue that that's more important than the sex part. That fact it appeals to women is a te…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 07:39 PM
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It's still better to be alpha. Women's approval isn't everything.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:06 AM
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I have a friend, former roommate. Good guy, dumb as a post in regards to book smarts, complete stoner, can't fight, not tough. The thing though he is ripped, good looking. The guy got laid without even trying. Ivy league women, women who worked at the beauty parlor, hot chicks, fat chicks (if there was a pulse he'd fuck it). One thing that is the same for men and women (though at least us guys are self aware and not looking for a provider as fully grown adults) is what our brains may like, and w…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:11 PM
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I have high cortisol levels, oh well. Guess I will keep using extra strength deodorant.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:32 AM
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I've gone back to jacking off without the use of media. It's a healthy comprise. It takes less motivation out of you, and you only do it when you really need a release. Plus you still maintain a strong enough attraction to women you will encounter out of cyberspace without a mini team or make up artists and analysis bleachers that you still get excited about them.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:07 AM
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More than a few here, Patrice O'Neal is like the patron saint of TRP
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:03 AM
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Or as Uncle Paul might claim, they were just exploring each others sexuality
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:43 PM
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The irony of her commenting on the Woody Allen situation us quite hilarious now. 17 is old enough to know incest and a sexual relations with a child is wrong. Just wanting to that shows there are some serious screws loose.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:38 PM
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She just lost a bet to allot of people. I think I speak for most us saying she can pay us but no subjecting us to her nudity.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:36 PM
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There should be a weekly brawl thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 06:33 PM
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Too much work. I'd just rather not jack off at that point.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:12 AM
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Also poltically like fundamentalist neocons, most popular strains of feminism really produces as the Soviets used to call them, "useful idiots". They'll vote for you, mobilize, promote an issue, candidate, non-event, but lack a view that is actually in line with any social or poltical reality.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:48 AM
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TRP is just the internet version of it. Before I came here, plenty of guys I knew, and I to some extent already came to the conclusions before knowing this subreddit existed. We didn't invent these ideas, we are a group of people who discovered things, men before us did, and discuss them. All TRP is at it's core is discussing dynamics that for a very long time was common knowledge but now in professional, middle class environments, anything close to the new American mainstream is extremely taboo…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:07 AM
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Most stand ups have a lot of red pill views. His buddy Ari Schaffer or Colin Quinn, the late Patrice and Greg Geraldo. If you're observant don't care about poltical correctness, spend time in bars, clubs, cities at night, most comics outside of the one's who view humor as a tool for social change, don't punch down gag, there is gonna be some TRP like conclusions.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:02 AM
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J Lo in her prime waa way hotter than Kim. Kim is a bit of a butterface, take away her ass and she's just meh.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:59 AM
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I knew a guy who fucked his teacher back in high school. I am sort of divided on this issue. Men are different, sex can be just sex for us, I think a 16 year old guy fucking their teacher it's a fun time for him. A man isn't looking for a leader, a rock, in a woman. For a female that's a minor, in that case I can see how maybe it might fuck them up a bit more comparatively.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:58 AM
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It's just this isn't the place to discuss it. Personally I am part black, and don't get offended it by it, I am aware of J. Philip Rushton all that stuff, get population trends aren't comments on individuals within the population. It's a fairly interesting topic and debate but it's not for here. That's not what this sub is about, it's about sexual strategy, masculinity, displaying social dominance and self improvement. It doesn't help those. It doesn't help guys coming here to work on all that. …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:35 PM
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Not something I enjoy. I just get uncomfortable blue balls and random boners the rest of the day. Not very fun for me.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:30 PM
1

I'm doing my last replies to stuff. So this probably should count as my cheat day. So early happy birthday.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:29 PM
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Good points. Doing the whole November challenge myself. No booze, porn, reddit, unhealthy eats till Dec 1st. Hoping the extra time will get me that much closer. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:39 AM
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Pretty much the same for me. TRP for the most part is more accurate in what I've seen people do and how they act compared to the now more mainstream view of gender relations. I enjoy the debate, especially when it's an idea that doesn't fit neatly into either camp that's being presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 02:16 AM
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Neither. I didn't come to have my mind changed, or change others. If it happens because I find of new information I'm exposed to, I'm open to that, or if my discussing a thing changes another's opinion that's fine too, but it's not my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 02:12 AM
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No problem. It's a legitimate question, if I wasn't me it would raise my eyebrow, probably less rude than assuming I must've never met my father which is actually the case.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:07 AM
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I hate to fit into a sterotype...but never met my biological father. Only know indirectly what he told my mother. Apparently he wasn't sure about one of his parents racial make up.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:25 PM
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NY and LA are the big ones, besides the comically liberal places like SF, Portland... Southern and Midwest girls are pretty tradional, lady like and so on. Boston ones don't get offended as easily as NY ones. Upstate NY is actually pretty rural, and is culturally the American south (country music, stars and bars bumper stickers), despite being north of NY.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:38 AM
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TRP and slate have agreed on something. It's time for us all to take a nice ski trip to hell, it must be pretty cold there now.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:33 AM
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I think this is more getting annoyed at the viral popularity of something so self righteous and hypocritical.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:32 AM
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Yeah. Similar experience, conservatives, libertarians or even moderates see me as a person not a token. I'm mixed, but my race isn't a huge part of my self indentity. I'm just a guy, after that maybe a New Yorker. Modern conservatives are really more open minded, less patronizing towards minorities. When people expect you to fend for yourself it also means they don't see you as someone unable to do so.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:28 AM
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I was a liberal feminist and a Marxist at one point in my young life. One thing that changed my mind was, and I'd add is how they look down on the working class. Their goal, what they consider equality is to turn everyone, socially, culturally and in view point to a liberal middle class member. I realized that they didn't understand, you know, there are plenty of people who don't want to be like you. Heck I didn't want to be like them. So much of liberalism and feminsim in modern America really …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:17 AM
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It's sociologically related to Marxism in how it sees division between classes (patriarchy, womyn) as the man driving for in social structure. Personally I wouldn't considered it Marxist, it's a bit of a stretch but an argument could be made. Also a lot of radfems are self proclaimed marxists, so you have that too. Though some marxists hate feminism as much as us, especially first world feminism, I have a grad school buddy who is a marxist (who wants to go into banking, cognitive dissonance is a…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:09 AM
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Edit: was a bit sleep deprived made some errors, got confused Patrice is by far the biggest influence of any comedian to TRP sub. I think the key to OP'S point is that she was raised black and middle class. That combination puts a higher emphasis on poltical correctness that either most non middle class African Americans, and middle class white people. Chris Rock is a good example of most middle class black people's opinions. Poltically liberal, socially moderately feminist, perhaps more direct …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 06:29 AM
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Women even if they are in rhetoric not aware, will avoid those areas at night. To me avoiding ghetto areas, being more cautious around demographics that present higher risk isn't racist so much as it is reasonable. It is more dealing with other people outside red flag situations that I think, women will act more judgmental, categorize ignoring other factors compared to men, those if you ask them consider tthemselves more open minded than men.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:53 AM
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Most lsat tutor companies pay the same across the country , except in NYC, Boston and DC cause of cost of living.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:07 AM
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More than paramedics too. I'm willing to bet a slew of jobs that pay less, either are harder, more important or take more skill than one that is; not good enough to be a top tier dancer, not pretty enough to be a model, hey I was a good cheerleader in college let me do that.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:05 AM
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Or work as a vendor, work maintenance for the stadum. All things that go into making a basketball game. If the NBA got rid of cheerleaders how much would that really effect their revenue. It's 2012, the internet is chock full o'porn. No guy is getting his rocks off, really cares about professional cheerleaders who aren't ever going to fuck him, don't effect the game.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:01 AM
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I am no fan of white knights, but at least it's I have to do something to earn love, affection... Women seem to think mere existing means the deserve to be wanted.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:13 AM
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Scandinavian, Isreali, Netherlands, Brazil, I've heard Venezuela are all near the top. America is around England in terms of sexiness. Lots of doughy, self entitled women.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 09:32 PM
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Also hood, and blue collar black guys are different. There are a lot of both but the later is never really portrayed in fiction so everyone assumes sub middle class black equals hood. There are also plenty of rural black people in America. Usually religious, pro gun, for the same reason rural people are pro gun, it's a tool in the country. They all get lumped together. My dad came from blue collar black, definitely not middle class, probably has more in common with an irish, Jewish or Italian Am…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:01 PM
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I look incredibly racially ambiguous. So much so that how I dress, have my hair cut, facial hair styled etc.. effects whether people think I am white, hispanic or even asian. I'm actually 1/8 or 1/4 black. When I am perceived as white, I can say hi to women I don't know, they will ask me to assist them with their luggage on the train, I can go to a bar, chat up a girl outside of it. Men are not nearly as racist to other men, as women are to guys. When I am perceived as hispanic, women get incred…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:54 PM
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I'm 5' 9, I've noticed that if I am talking to someone with low self confidence who is taller than me, I actually assume they are shorter. Someone really confident, really outgoing I'll remember them as taller than they are. Because we associate height with confidence, you can short circuit perception by just being really cool and collected.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 08:40 PM
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Exactly PUA is a set of techniques for a specific purpose, getting laid. There are many PUAs who surf this subreddit. Red pill is a general philosophy of being dominant and masculine, which helps in many things from increasing your place in a social hierarchy, personal growth and so on. Getting laid is a great bonus. I've seen plenty of happy betas. I think some guys are much more strongly wired to be betas. I had a roommate like that, insufferable, goofy, political correct, happy as a fucking c…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:33 PM
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Some people like cities. I'd much rather live in a city than a safer rural area. Cities are generally more dangerous than some of the nicer rural areas. There are plenty of shitty methed out ones that are just as bad as an inner city ghetto.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:26 PM
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Transplants love to. Real New Yorkers love to hate their beloved city. NY has become pretty safe, one might argue it has become absolutely boring thanks to hipster gentrification. As any city it depends where, when, and if you have awareness, common sense.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:23 PM
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Exactly. She is a white girl with a big ass walking through ghetto-ish areas. She purposely choose an area for this video where (A) cat calling is part of the culture, and (B) she would receive an unusual amount of attention.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:45 PM
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I had a friend who used to hang around with a guy who cat called. You observed an interesting trend. When a homely girl was cat called she would smile and blush. A good looking one, would be pissed.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:39 PM
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I remember I had a gig where I needed to dress nice but lived near a bad area. I felt like people saw a walking bag of cash. The amount I heard about impounded cars, lost train tickets tops comments this chick received because she's a white girl with a big ass.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:31 PM
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There is no point for anyone to stay alive. Life doesn't have a point. Make a goal, fuck maybe it's increase SMV, gym, plastic surgery, hair plugs (you make money), honestly you probably don't even need to go that far. The biggest bullshit lie about be yourself is, if you pretend to be someone else you will eventually become that person. That meh personality changes, your demeanor changes. Start small, start displaying good body language, take up space when you sit, use wide gestures, it'll make…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 08:01 AM
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I knew a guy who got laid like crazy. 5'6, had women try and get him drunk to sleep with him. Obstacles are obstacles, most all can be got over.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 07:51 AM
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The episode with the lingerie bowl chicks was the best example of this. Ant was trying to be all nice beta bux, and Patrice gave him shit for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:52 PM
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Big fan. Classic O and A has talk about a lot of redpill issues. In general stand up comedy podcasts from friends of the O and A show, members of Rogan's death squad are all pretty Redpill. It actually lead me to redpill ideas before I know about redpill.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:38 PM
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It depends on what you define as a campaign against racism vs complaining over what in reality is just asking for over accommodation. Do you mean more basic civil/voting rights, or SJW "grey-racism", the more radical elements that have historically been there. But she was feminine, did the house work, it wasn't an equal partnership, interchangeable gender roles. A man could enjoy being a man, enjoy the company of a woman. It's a trade well worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:10 PM
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I'm curious do you mind providing citations?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:41 AM
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Well there are separate reasons why it is better in some areas. That is sort of a loaded question, penicillian and feminsim have nothing to do with one another. Parts are, technology, less racism (someone is going to say interesectionality, but that's another area I disagree). Are things better for the average guy in regards to gender issues, marriage etc..to that it's a pretty clear no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 05:54 AM
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Better is subjective. For some yes and others no. Feminism is good for for women and non gender normative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 06:54 PM
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Some people want to be what you don't and visa versa. For some it isn't being a victim of your genes. I also intellectually have no interest in finance. It's an uninteresting topic to study imo, I care about my time more than money. There are plenty of people smart enough for finance who don't want to do it, some of them also lift. You also sound plenty arrogant. Physical violence is contextual. Male physical violence didn't happen in mass randomly and uncontrolled. It happened in battles, gladi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 06:27 PM
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It's a mixture of both social and biological. Behavioral endocrinology, sexual dymorphism applies to humans we aren't some extra special animal exempt from it. How we judge it, those who are outliers, less prototypical of their sex to a large extent is social.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 06:21 PM
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Red pill isn't a political movement. Personally I think we have way too much gender/indentity poltics floating around in the popular discourse. It's gotta be one of the least pressing issues, but one of the most easily packaged and harped on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:47 AM
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I think we need some people who have fought their way up and others who had an easy rise. Both groups create competent people and both experiences create a different suit of positives and negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:43 AM
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Sorry. Pulled an all nighter last night, have had a hectic schedule all week so I'm probably a bit grumpy right now. Thanks for the compliment, it has made my day feel a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:05 AM
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Not really but you're sarcasm is appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 02:53 AM
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No. Not my thing as well as other reasons that it isn't worth it to me. I can be interested in a woman genuinely if there is an expiration date on the interaction. Otherwise to me it feels like a movie that's gone way too long, and you've seen all the good parts. Also the thrill of the chase is a absent from a prostitute. There is no challenge in sleeping with one. That's a good quarter of the enjoyment as well. If it's a shallow game, with someone I'll never see again, that I like. No genuine e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 02:17 AM
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No but more because I like to keep friends and benefits separate. I also don't enjoy female friendships that much either. I'm not looking for a fwb. Have I worked with a pro, I don't understand the question, a pro what? Do you mean have I hired a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 02:04 AM
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Heck even royalty doesn't want that, unless they're looking to hire a servant.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:17 PM
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Same reason white guys go for Asian women. Typically more feminine. Also a fair amount of white girls have a mandigo fetish, so while they may not date a black guy they would fuck one because it's "adventuresss". Liberal white women will also date a black guy to prove they aren't at all racist to themselves. Black women aren't really interested in white guys. Dating a white guy isn't braggable like being black and dating a white girl. In fact I think part of the reason I don't date black girls, …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:38 PM
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Women tell you what they want to want. Not what they actually do.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:25 PM
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Evolutionarily speaking, yeah if they are successful. Really all we are is a pair of genitals that has other stuff connected to us to keep us alive, and produce more walking genitals. I don't want kids, so as a baby fertilizing machine it looks like I'll be a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:41 PM
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AWALT, really means AAWALT, almost all. In almost all circumstances when anyone says all it is assumed to mean almost all. I don't want an equal partnership. Not what I'm looking for and same for some of RP. For me running dread, asserting dominance is much less abhorrent than not being able to be the tradional male, and having to consider her opinion equally valid. I just don't want that level of comprise and required communication in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 03:50 PM
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A lot of guys want short term relationships. It's a reaction for almost all advice being about LTRs, or someone telling you, you really want an LTR. Even in PUA circles, LTRs have become primary. Others want it, but not enough to but up with the compromise of a more egalitarian one, or just prefer not assertive, androgynous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 03:48 PM
1

Is there a type that usually likes that look? Do they tend dress a certain way, or is it a stab in the dark?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:32 PM
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I look vague. I'm a fraction black, but I always here after I tell someone that they never would've guessed that, or before they know what I am remark I look like I could be anything but black. I've been mistaken for thai, korean, mexican, turkish, morrocan, Puerto rican. So that maybe gives an idea of how I look.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:57 PM
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I look vague. I'm a fraction black, but I always here after I tell someone that they never would've guessed that, or before they know what I am remark I look like I could be anything but black. I've been mistaken for thai, korean, mexican, turkish, morrocan, Puerto rican. So that maybe gives an idea of how I look.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:57 PM
1

Which ones are more receptive?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:39 PM
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I've never offered favors, or bought anyone flowers. I was never servile or clingy. I have bought a woman a drink a total of once in my life. I was never obsequious and didn't fold on my opinions. Yeah I wanted sex. I didn't want a relationship. I would rather have no sex and no relationship, but would prefer sex and no relationship much more, I really really do not enjoy relationships. I am surely not the only person who doesn't. Why do so many bps have a hard time understanding just because yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 02:26 PM
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Yes. I work hard, that is causing me to get closer to my goals. I have motivation, and I have a sense of pride, purpose. I don't dwell on things, little things don't really bother me, dwelling on things is a waste of time, you can't go backward, only foward. I always maintain a foward momentium, where I'd find excuses why I couldn't do something, now I look for reasons why I can. In that swtich you see how many things we all don't do or quit, that with a clever solution we actually could have. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 02:04 PM
1

In regards to white washing. I'm mixed race, but act like a white guy, didn't have minority friends growing up. The problem is most minorities who act white, do it horribly. Think Richard Prior white guy voice, sickenly polite, inoffensive, like a guest star from Friends. Different minorities have different fetishes for women. Black guy, laid back, sexual, physical or for hispanic dances salsa, a bit but not too much machismo. There is a curve to white women and their acceptance of fucking a min…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 04:42 AM
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He was needy. Hence abundance mentality. Everyone could smell the desperation on him, for men especially desperation is probably the most unattractive. I'd also argue he was narcissistic but not high status or sociopathic. He was definitely unhinged but that came from being emotionally hurt, not lack of empathy, he also wasn't high status. In his university being in a frat was the bench mark. Out of college being rich works more, but in college it's not a huge trump car, a funny, confident pre m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 04:00 AM
1

People are more bluntly honest with men. No one owes anyone anything. You have to work to get what you want, more so if you're further away from what gets you what you want. Life ain't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 03:57 AM
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I've mentioned this a bit in reddit. I had a near death experience, I had what I felt where my last ten seconds. Time slowed down, that's what the movies get right, what they didn't get for me... All those feel good films, books, articles. They say what you care about is at the end is going to be friends, family, relationships, loved ones. It wasn't that, it wasn't didn't help enough people, or that I wasn't morally good enough. It wasn't even about happiness. Maybe it is for some people. For me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 03:07 AM
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It's really it's just something I don't enjoy doing. It's not depression or anxiety for me. In general I prefer thinking to interacting. Thinking through my problems makes me feel better, it's a process I enjoy. I just don't enjoy doing it with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 02:56 AM
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I get more stressed if I share. Thinking by myself through problems alone, in a very quiet space is what makes me feel better. I lash out, when I am pressured to share. Relief for me comes from spending time not being around, thinking of, or caring about any other human being. With may be the company of a beer, cigar and some music. Stress relief and human interaction of any kind are antithetical for myself. Having to interact with another person is adding another annoying choir to what ever iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:34 PM
1

Separately as other commenters have mentioned it subconscious has a negative effect for most women. It shakes their confidence in their man, and makes him seem more effeminate to her. If it happens rarely it's effects might be negligible. Personally I've never been vulnerable in that way, and in that dynamic with a woman. I'm not a open person irl, so personally I can't speak to it, but I can with what I've read, seen with friends and have been told by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 04:32 PM
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I prefer to deal with my problems internally. I don't want a partner in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:49 PM
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See I prefer to read things that I don't agree with a certain amount of the time. If something bothers me I need to in some way confront it. The more it bothers me, the more it means I need to expose myself to it, and wrap my head around it. Some of it, I read I get a reaction from, same way I do if I read a novel. I'm not frothing at the mouth, my day isn't ruined, but I enjoy disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 08:59 AM
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Yep. Witnessed that myself. Especially if we aren't talking lts, trust fund girls, hot working class girls, grad student girls. All get the tingles for pretty similar stuff. Really it's the same for us guys. What makes a girl hot is the same for Joe the plumber and the guy who just got at job at wall street for JP Morgan.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 10:34 PM
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You're very welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:50 PM
1

Mormons are very good government employees, a lot in defense and conservative policy jobs. Made me almost wish I grew up Mormon. See to me that is a worthy trade of for not having to spend your time around an assertive woman, whose bearing to me is the least sexy thing I can imagine. I'd rather be alone, than have to deal with that. I have acquaintances who are assertive, masculine women and have nothing against them, just for the sake of romantic attraction it's absent for me it's the almost as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:35 PM
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I've been an asshole all my life pretty much. I lacked other skills which one needs for getting laid with ease that go along with that. I'd still much rather be a sexless asshole, than a nice guy rolling in pussy. Edit; My point to the above is being an asshole or a nice guy is not necessarily a facade. Becoming more attractive isn't nessecarily, any more fake than becoming a better public speaker. Unless the key point is the method and delivery system of a communication be as raw and unskilled …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:23 PM
2

Not everyone's goal is to simply be happier. It's to engage with other ideas, sometimes thus engagement comes in the form of disagreement. This isn't always pleasant. There are more important things than happiness , I think just trying to be happy is unsatisfying. Satisfaction and being interested in a thing is a very different and better feeling than happiness. Even if it includes some amount of discomfort which is imo a part of what a person ought to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:15 PM
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I don't even think of the second as an asshole or a dick, or not one in any pejorative sense of it. I just think that's someone who wants to get things done. You only get one life, and putting yourself first is understanding that. In general I think if someone is hurt or offended about something whose worse sin is apathy, it's on them for giving too many fucks. If they enjoy it, and I'm benefitting from it, then there is no reason to be different. Even being type 2 by in and of itself isn't enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 03:39 PM
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Exactly domineering is that loud angry guy at that bar who just seems silly. It's a show, and it masks aching insecurities, which ever one can see. Being dominant comes from a place of actual strength. The prior with work can become the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 11:53 PM
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Getting laid for me is the part I'm weakest in. In general otherwise I'm pretty alpha, in that with people I've known I'm trusted to get things done, good at being level headed. For a lot of guys, I think this is the case. You have to have certain leanings but lack practice to want to be dominant and work at it, not read some don't worry feel good about yourself material. I think kindly sensitive is optional, one doesn't need to to be kindly and sensitive to not be abusive. One is an active choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 11:34 PM
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I'm naturally an "asshole". I am not nor have I ever been charged with being a "nice guy". Being alpha and an asshole are not the same. Being an asshole in and of itself won't attract women. There are places where there is overlap between asshole and alpha which I think causes the confusion. One can be an asshole and neurotic, indecisive. Being a kindly sensitive man, instead of a nice guy, is what being alpha is to an asshole. The fully developed equivalent, that is a person competent in the ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:30 PM
2

I guess I just lack that compulsion. I either try and fix it, or if that's impossible (very few things are unfixable) I move on. I haven't had an easy life either so I'm not saying this from a place of not having anything to complain about. It just never did anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:54 PM
1

This is something I just can't understand. Why would anyone want to be vulnerable with another person. What's the point of it. When you doubt yourself the only thing that ever makes me feel better is finding a solution to what ever problem is causing the doubt. Edit: I actually had a bad luck day yesterday for example. I was taking a class that had an online option and had midterms that day. I live close to said university. My internet stops working. I call my cell phone service to pay for a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:26 PM
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Learning about it's history, the context, techniques etc...I find if you learn about how something is made, how it conveys it's information, it becomes enjoyable. Just staring at a paintings for long enough won't do it. That's interesting. I am very similar. That is an exact problem I had. I live in my head, I don't really care about my external environment, and you describe what was my daily routine and the condition of many an apartment I had for a very long time, paper plates and delivery sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 03:36 PM
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Hitler wasn't amoral. He considered what he was doing to save Germany, to rid it of non "volkish" culture...he had a twisted morality which compelled him to do what he did. I read the really terrific biography of him by Ian Kershaw a while back, he was hardly driven by a level headed strategic goal. Otto Von Bismarkon the other hand was amoral. He viewed statecraft as more of a chess game. Getting back to sexual strategy. It's more Bismarck. It's how do I get sex, what is the most efficient way,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 02:56 PM
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I disagree. I think we can change more about ourselves than we give ourselves credit for. Learning to appreciate being alone, isn't wholly different from say learning to appreciate art, or anything that requires you to learn a way to process an experience. Add picking up new activities to help pass the time, it's not an impossible task. I think maybe it's generational as well, being alone has been greatly undervalued these days. It's a basic life skill I think a lot of people are missing that op…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 02:47 PM
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By alone I even mean without friends too. I mean alone, alone. That is different from saying ditch your friends, don't try and get laid/date whatever... Because yourself, that's the only thing you can have control over. You may move, get unemployed, your girl may leave you, your group of buddies drift apart, you may change and the people around you aren't really what you want in your life. If you aren't principally a self sufficient unit, those things will throw you, or you won't be able to foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 02:17 PM
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The only person this guy lacks caring for is himself.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:23 AM
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Huge Kaka fan. His literature is rife with ineffectual betas who the world kicks around.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 12:01 AM
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I think a classic short fiction piece that is one of my favs, and very red pill is The Short and Happy Life Of Francis Macomber.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:32 PM
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I really love that story. Reminds me of something growing up. I remember growing up I took horse riding lessons from this guy who trained race horses, looked and sound like the most interesting man in the world. Cuban exile who was late 60s, dating hot twenty somethings. Anyway he had a daughter who was maybe 16. She was asking him for something, and said he should buy it for her, and adding I love you to get it. He responded, don't tell me love you, act like you do. He made everyone taking less…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:28 PM
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I was kidding one the first part, why I said "in all seriousness" in the second, should have made it more clear that part was a joke. No doubt she is fucking on the side for the tingles, and married for the security. If I were husband, I'd even get a paternity test. I don't doubt some side alpha guy has got her wrapped around his finger.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:06 PM
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Can't argue with you there.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:43 PM
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Yeah but not marry her, and have her fuck other people, take care of kids, stay with her as she gets older and her looks fade.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:54 PM
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I never thought I'd feel bad for the guy who gets to date Megan Fox. Apparently she's alpha as shit, and spinning plates.(*) In all seriousness I'd bet she is a beard, or the husband has some serious issues sexually and emotionally as does Megan Fox. (*)Only meant first part in jest. In reality yeah, this is classic beta getting short end of the stick by a girl. Kind of was making fun of people who act like male and female roles in a relationship are interchangeable.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:53 PM
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1 Yes, within reason. I wouldn't lie about a relative dying, but about my opinions, my life etc... I have no problem BS-ing for a one night stand. 2 I'd like to think I would. Honestly though I don't know, I've never been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:30 PM
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I don't doubt it. It's just I can't go to class, ride the subway, go swimming with random boners. Plus I couldn't study without thinking about tits. For me it got in the way too much. If I can take a long vacation I'll give it a second go, so I can go through that phase without getting in the way.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:00 PM
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Yeah but it's not in your mid twenties, which happened when I tired no fap by day 3.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:22 PM
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She knew it was wrong. She was looking for a loophole to save herself even if it meant putting others at risk. We need to block incoming flights from countries experiencing the ebola outbreak and turn away any non citizen who has been there within the time frame of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:42 AM
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Sperm wars is pretty much bunk. As for no fap, and whether that particular claim on the book is righy. I have no idea. No fap does temporarily increase testorone. I tried it but got near random erections like I was in high school and couldn't focus.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:37 AM
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First love is just that. It's not last love, or your greatest love. I know of no one who stayed with the girl they had at your age. All of them either broke up, or were broken up with. They dated someone else and are perfectly fine. You can compete. You can focus on material goals. Advice to not focus on that never worked for me, personally I can't not think according to more, I'm not doing this to compete in some way. I don't know you or your therapist so take this with a grain of salt, but may…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 11:16 AM
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Billy. I had a roommate. He was one of these guys who didn't get he owned his own life. There isn't a program, there aren't really rules, there are only suggestions. Billy is that guy. There is a program, there is the agreement among the surrendered bored, that boredom is the only real choice.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:31 AM
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California has wildland firefighting jobs.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:17 AM
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World's your oyster then. Tutor, write term papers, tend bar like I said in my original post. Think about what you're hobbies are, what you like to read about and do something related to that. I think for a lot of us who grew up with white collar office parents we forget it's not fanciful to not do that. You could take scuba and diving lessons, and after a while become an instructor, or take flying lessons and be a cargo pilot in Indonesia or Africa (jobs with low time requirements for pilots). …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:04 AM
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I think they have good intentions, and are funny. It's they let those good intentions inform how they think reality is. Essentially like a lot of people they assume human nature is whatever makes them feel hopeful. Sometimes they will critique a TRP item and it's clear they think so differently they won't let themselves understand a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 12:25 AM
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Check out r/travel. Programming can be done at home, also interesting jobs like Private Investigator, Firefighter are options. SAT tutors, bar tending isn't nine to five. It depends on what you feel you need. Do you have to live in a "nice" area. Do you want to have a family? If not you have plenty of options.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 12:06 AM
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Your relationship isn't your life, if it ends you'll feel bad for a few months, you'll feel something for someone else, wash rinse repeat. Everyone needs to be okay with being alone. You're the only guarantee you have. You should try and top that guy, and do it for you. He doesn't have super powers. I used to get intimidated by people. After a while, every impressive guy you meet, you learn they are just a person. They have insecurities, blind spots, make errors... Therapist like everyone else a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 09:58 PM
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What in it do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 04:30 PM
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What book?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:49 PM
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I have not had a five way with one swede, one ginger, a Korean chick, and Brazilian girl, so no. Despite the many letters I have sent to the UN and various embassies to try and make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:14 PM
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Maybe she's mixed race those half Japanese girls do it to me every time...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:06 PM
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I knew poli-sci majors. Plenty of them wouldn't have dated but would have fucked the criminal guy in a bar, especially if he dressed in a suit while at said hook up bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 11:41 AM
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There should be a narcissist drinking game for every time an anti-red piller makes a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 11:36 AM
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I knew two guys who would count. One would date fat chicks with low self esteem. By fat I mean obese. He collected disability, was on welfare and used them for extra cash, they had to have a car too. Would buy him food, pay his phone bills. Not quite the level of jewelry and minola blancs. Another guy who was crazy good looking used to get women to be FWBs, and buy him expensive sneakers, hats, tickets to games. He explained his theory "good dick don't come free". The pay off is less dramatic in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 11:18 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 11:09 AM
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Sweden, why did it have to be Sweden. Fuck. Paradise lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 11:08 AM
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I grew up in a feminist household. The problem was I was always a traditional guy. Naturally had "alpha" tendencies so to speak. I wasn't allowed to play sports, or engage in any competition. Basically the problem was the whole tabla rusa didn't work. My mother made every attempt to basically rid me of what she considered a tragic personality defect, masculinity. My father was/is "beta". Smart though. Self made, working class family, ended up graduating from an ivy league law school. He cried, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:42 AM
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Classic jazz (Bix, Frankie Traumbaer, Benny Goodman...) Some a bit later stuff too Stan Getz, Buddy Rich, Gene Krupa. Also I like some pre war Germany Jazz, Odeon records sort of stuff. Russian classical (Rachmaninoff, Tchaikovsky...) Various classic rock, Stones, Boston, Cheap Trick, Squeeze, Animals, Stones, Sonics, Nirvana all that sort of start Pill color: Reddish purple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:59 AM
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A couple of things No one intends to do the wrong thing. Very few people who cheat plan on it. People tend to hide when they cheat so I may not even know about it for some time if ever. So it very well may occur during the getting to know you phase without my knowledge. We have very biased portraits of people we are connected to as well. I may actually have a more inaccurate judgement of you after getting closer (think family members of someone guilty of a crime who never stop believing their in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:53 AM
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Most behaviors I like in women I would never want in a friend of mine. Sensitivity, vulnerability, nurturing, emotionalism. Basically I find feminine women sex, I find feminine men annoying and off putting (no offense).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:45 AM
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It's more the men who got sex without having to compromise where you were in your reproductive prime were more tradional guys. The guy who has had to compromise more essentially is the one you settle down with. Let me ask you this, would you have had a one night stand with someone like your husband? Would you still have sex with him if he as unaccommodating as those other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:39 AM
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Yeah I've never read anything on TBP I agree with, though at least they've made me laugh which is something SRS has never (intentionally) done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:56 PM
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Might be my misunderstanding then. Thanks for the correction. Am newish to the sub and will assume it's my mistake and glad to hear. As I like the majority of it, it's glad to hear there is another positive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:51 PM
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INTP I do tend to try and solve everything though theory or abstraction and live in my head allot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:49 PM
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Dat alliteration
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:35 PM
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Thanks! Yeah I don't trust any cure all. It's tempting to get drunk on I've found the key to fix everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:33 PM
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Aww, that's sitcom material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:27 PM
1

I like those definitions For me my personal goals I'm pretty much all TRP (ONSes, tradional gender dynamics in my personal life). Though I've seen very blue pill relationships that work for those involved, though it's something I'd be miserable in. I've also known women who do, and don't fit in what they say all women are. It's more I don't think any advice applies to everyone , don't think men are naturally altruistic as TRP makes us out to be. You take the negatives both sides say about each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 11:21 PM
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I'm pretty red pill-ish. If she isn't leading anyone on I see nothing wrong with it. I can't care about other people's lives and what they do that has no effect on me. Their life, their choose. Edit It's her not saying she doesn't believe in sex before marriage during the first date. Thats pretty unfair to the guy spending his time and/or money with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 10:55 PM
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She's cheating. You don't need proof, relationships aren't a criminal court, you don't need evidence beyond a reasonable doubt. Bail.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:47 PM
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Just finished listening. It was really good. Definitely am a subscriber now. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:24 AM
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I'd say I'm slightly more red than purple in that I agree with between 60 and 80 percent of what I read on there. The biggest difference is I don't believe any advice applies to everyone, that men don't give particularly altruistic love. Because I tend to agree more with one side though according to your metric I am. Then again I don't base my indentity on my preferred subreddit. Isn't purple simply not adhering to any dogma, that's what the side bar says? If that's the case I'm all purple (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 01:27 AM
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It's a risk I'm willing to take. I don't hate people, and most of my happiness comes from solitary activities. I find even pleasant social interaction tiring. For me (and I think a lot of other men and some women) is physical, sensory and not social. So getting sex with the minimal amount of social investment, and effect to other areas of my life to me is optimal. If what you enjoy about sex is the deeper human connection part I can see why it would seem at odds with introversion. Besides very f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 02:26 PM
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In their direct interpersonal relationships maybe. It's not really a political movement. It sometimes goes into politics, but that's more mens rights territory. Also for a lot it's just a sub; that has some material they agree, some they disagree, like any other part of reddit. Reddit leans left, so it's more that it's distance from the main stream of reddit seems more dramatic. Blue pill is much more drawn from those who view themselves on some level as people trying to make the world better. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 01:58 PM
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See I'd think amoral is more about self interest and less about proselytizing. People who believe there is a moral right will feel an imperative to convince others to their view to make a better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 09:34 AM
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I think each is a lens to try and understand gender relations. I just look at them as models that dependant upon goals one is more useful than the other. Poltically both are really just indentity poltics which is a pretty shallow type of thing and it seems unavoidable to engage in hypocrisy with it. I've seen posts in each that are ironically hypocritical. Pua strategy works better than witch craft. Really it's just a specialized form of and rooted in sales strategy. It's not supernatural, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 09:30 AM
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Thanks Artie is great, that's gonna be the next thing I give a listen
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:38 AM
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Can't get into Beige Philip tried to cause I'm a huge fan of the late Patrice O'Neal (aka Black Philip). I think it's his pacing, though he seems like a cool dude, maybe will try and listen some more, any episodes in particular you'd suggest?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:12 AM
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Yeah. Reddit loves to take either the most extreme stuff here, or large parts out of context. Really any sub by that metric would look pretty bad.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:45 AM
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Yeah. Most men want to shape but not change society. To be a leader in their chosen field etc... Or if they are denied entry want to join to test the medal so to speak (I.e. racial integration of the armed forces). Not create a system that is more comfortable, at the expense of meritocracy. Women focus on equal safety, and happiness and don't understand that men want to compete, need the risk of failure. Anyway I think the point is these masculine women think more like men, assume they do so for…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:31 AM
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In practice I have a hard time maintaining interest especially compared to most people I know, but I have non TRP related goals that demand it's something I get good at. It's not really complex in the right way enough either to make it really interesting. It's kind of like some friends I know who became lawyers to do something else, where being a lawyer helped but found the subject time consuming, boring and tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 06:12 AM
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I was and probably am that way. Books in general informed me what to do (sadly they aren't very good at in practice.) I never got for the longest time not to correct superiors. Or what type of defferrnce and when is appropriate. Social status is a tool, like money. It doesn't mean the person is more intelligent, insightful etc... It's like how a degree is more important often than actual mastery, but in can allow you to have to be effected less and have less higher ups. Assuming you aren't a dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 07:42 PM
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I'm odd myself. Here I think you are probably closer to the norm than me. I am sexually almost solely visual. Below quite a high threshold I feel close to no attraction. I also don't like extended contact with people. The fact I'll never see the person again is extremely comforting. It's about maximizing chances and increasing efficiency. There is only so much time I will spend on sex. I have other interests and sex isn't the priority one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 07:13 PM
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I agree with this. If you're goals are what trp gives advice for than it can help. If it's not, than you may want to look somewhere else. Though even if one doesn't agree there are posts that are interesting and worth looking at if for nothing else than seeing an alternative perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:03 AM
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I think most people care about social status. It's important at work, in your social life it is what dictates pecking order, who gets advantages, get away with things, whose judgement matters and who can be inconsiderate or not compromise with little consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:01 AM
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For casual sex it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 09:58 AM
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Steve McQueen was 5'10 too. He is a guy who definitely lived on and off the screen what most of us here try for and displayed many of the same principles.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 06:20 AM
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I've noticed that really ugly, and almost hot girls tend to be the most bitchy. One cause they are just aggravated at their biological raw deal, and the other because they were hot enough for it to be a pillar of their self worth, but not secure enough not to need a healthy stream of validation. Really good looking women don't need to be bitchy to prove their value. Same way most really good looking guys I've known have awful game from a technical stand point because they get laid no matter what…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:07 AM
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One half of me is WASP, am the owner of a nice old name dating back in the northeast US to before the revolution. I am just WASPy enough to be able to smell who is and who isn't. Not enough to fuck those women really easy though. Yeah there is a ton of nuance (speaking right but not too proper, having the right amount of dysfunction, dress well but don't look like you enjoy it...) Often the same thing that would make on successful as a professional will make you seem too servile. Some regions wi…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 12:21 AM
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I have other non sex related goals that are why I am working to get in damned good shape. Yeah I've noticed 9 and 10s aren't really bitchy. It's 1-3 and 7-8 that tend to have the worst altitudes.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:14 PM
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Not be a 225 pound chick So you think it's that futile?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:10 PM
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Indian guy, tall, thin, very witty, sarcastic, confident and he would tease women a little never outright insult them but never give them the compliment they wanted. Turkish guy was just a regular mildly succesfull guy. Well built used his accent to his advantage. Chicks dug it. In fact in DC you see a lot of them do well in clubs. DC is probably the best city for a non white guy who is equally successful to his white counterpart to have good sexual success.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:09 PM
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If one is outside lambo territory what can they do to enter the top ten percent. Is it just; lift, game, body language and wardrobe?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:12 AM
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Skinny is neutral, isn't more that one needs to be less not fat and more visibly athletic to really reap benefits out of their build.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:10 AM
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I've seen Turkish guys slay in bars, and knew an Indian guy from Australia who slayed as well. I don't know how to myself but it's doable.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:53 AM
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What if that's just what OP (like myself) prefers. I get why that would be his objective/concern
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:50 AM
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There's something in between where we are now and vikings (though they actually had a well ordered society with a government, legal codes etc...) It's like saying had the victorians been less prudish it would all fall apart. Personally I'd rather have the risk of being axed as I could do the same. Individuals who decide not to play ball can take advantage of said system or rise above the lot there would have normally gotten. They have the advantage of decreased competition from the more conditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 08:22 PM
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I guess it's just whether it's a positive or negative force we disagree on. What you see as uplifting to the individual I see as stifling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 07:44 PM
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I'll say men from 18-50 and women 18-35. Though men don't have as set a cap on reproductive viability so I think it's hard to make a set with them. As for facial expressions on mass trans the general rule is to avoid eye contact and I think many people who don't think they have a shot don't grin. You don't grin if you're hungry and see a pie you think you'll never get. Civilization in general is about containing, hiding desires above your paygrade and seeing one you think is, does not a smile to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 06:30 AM
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Like cybersex is sex, or homeopathy is part of the healthcare field imho It's certainly not nice and a bit more than I would personally do but calling it abuse is hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 06:04 AM
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You're selling TRP better than he did in that comment. Yeah that wouldn't be a bad guess. Though to be honest I think that's what most people women and men want. I know it's what I do. I think it's most likely inbetween you and the TRP viewpoint. The vast majority of us are like that, of those that aren't many aren't because of for men they think they've failed that game and quit for fear of loneliness. For women it's also some measure of denial or suppression. A few outliers it's genuine differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 05:53 AM
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It's manipulation but it's an overly widened definition of abuse to call it so. Not everything not very kind hearted is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 04:04 AM
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I think it's enough that people who are saying it almost never happens are dead wrong or to ignore it. I think you're view is probably more accurate than the mainstream but I'm not an expert. With the new issue of grey rape and yes means yes it's probably going to be more of an issue as it's even less likely there will be tangible evidence and it's open to interpretation. If crime worked where accusations meant guilt we wouldn't even need an adversarial trial system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:39 AM
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I have to agree with that. No one wants to be or be around a schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:29 AM
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True. I think the problem is more that once accused of it even if acquitted or not convicted you're branded in a way worse than even being accused of murder. Also juries are less likely to believe the defense of someone accused of rape. That's less rape accusation happen particularly more often and more just the accusation is weighted more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:22 AM
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Isn't the fact they'd fuck their favorite writer proof of the difference. I mean we just aren't after and don't want the type more likely to be blue pills. Since we want women who have traits that make them more likely to be attracted to a trp dynamic I think there is some self selection there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:19 AM
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This is my problem with both. Someone respond are as TRP describes. Others genuinely want equal partnerships, or even sex included friendships with non alpha guys. Personally I prefer to be in a more TRP like dynamic. No ideology applies to all people. There is an average person, an average man or woman. I think TRP describes that and I agree with most gender differences being biological. If you are looking for an non equal not emotional relationship (which some people on both halfs want trp is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:08 AM
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Just read the link. Personally it seems a little convuluted to work. If someone stays after that isn't that their fault? People have control over their own actions. In this instance linked the woman is choosing to stay. I just can't feel bad for someone who does something to themselves and that angry at someone for making an opportunity out of that. Otherwise who'd make money at car dealerships. Is it manipulative. Well it would be silly to argue it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 12:56 AM
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I almost got in the PI field and used to know a lot of lawyers. It happens just like false accusations of all sorts of crimes happen. People pin people for murder, arson, theft etc... I don't think it's a particular epidemic special to rape more just the criminal justice system is highly imperfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 12:45 AM
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It is their will. They can say fuck it, it's not worth it I'll leave. In fact I expect most people would. Anyone can and should dread game anyone. Maybe it's just cause leaving never bothered me, but I don't see how it's even game. You don't want me to go do X, if not doing X is worth more than more company just don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 12:41 AM
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I know/knew guys who live that life. If you choose the right field (say go into sports law become an agent) it's achievable. Especially if you scale down the income to lower one percent and achieved by 33 instead of 23. Most average people don't know how, or don't try to look how to do something not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 08:26 AM
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Yeah if he had said more of a young version of Robert Pelton or Richard Halliburton then it would be an easier yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 08:22 AM
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The first isn't really my dream. But yeah I'd rather live short than be another person who just dies and numbly goes to shit job marries a homely girl who gets fat and shits out two mediocre kids who will be forgotten and do nothing with their existence. Wash rinse repeat. When I die matters much less than what I experience. When you kick it you have no recollection anyway and as someone who had a moment he thought he was about to met the end I regretted not making something notable of myself no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 08:17 AM
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I'm neither but occasionally post to TRP am relatively new. I also read TBP as well but agree with that much less. TBP takes itself less seriously and is I think funnier. I don't agree with all of the TRP. I don't like the political angle but am closer to it than feminism and both TRP and TBP suffer from Maslow's hammer. It's like philosophy. I can take away things from both Ernst Junger and Bertrand Russel (fuck that sounded fedora like). If you aren't a dogmatist you can appreciate uncomfortab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 05:54 AM
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What's wrong with a slutty woman provided you aren't looking for an ltr? I mean maybe it's me but I don't hate the cock carousel I just want to be one of the rides.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:02 AM
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Than do that. I never got why anyone gives a fuck if some wants to be a fun ride on the carousel. You want a relationship. Cool. You don't want to have emotionally detached sex. Don't. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:00 AM
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And by question they mean agree with a predetermined correct answer
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:36 PM
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It's the whole how dare he break up for lack of sex. I mean that's the whole thing that separates romantic relations from platonic.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:24 PM
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What's good for the individual isn't always good for the group. Impulsive risk taking can lead to success. Your goal is to maximize your reproductive success. If it causes some damage but not enough so that your strategy is no longer viable it's still a solid strategy. Also ebola doesn't kill it's host (fruit bats) it's when it infects a species that isn't the host it's primarily adapted for (us) that it starts killing of it's own habitat. We are not the target of ebola, we're it's collateral da…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:08 PM
1

Also if you are doing that to get laid more you ain't gonna make it through. It's not being a rock star.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:03 PM
4

I'm sick of this cult of weakness.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:53 AM
2

You don't need millions to look the part, or be more interesting. Gym, travel, read and be savy.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:23 AM
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Also age and maturity aren't the same thing. There are women in their twenties more mature than those in middle age.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 12:13 AM
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Currently taking my EMT training course myself (going back to school and need to do something to help me earn some money). My dad is in middle age or technically past it (later 50s now) and part of what I'm working towards is to avoid the office life. Growing up he thought he might be depressed, he went to doc after doc, he realized he wasn't depressed he was just plain old miserable. I'm in my mid to late 20s and have witnessed the beginnings of the quiet safe desperation friends got themselves…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:00 AM
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If that's where your priorities and passion is now imho your doing the right thing focusing on that. Often I've noticed when your really focused on a thing especially one with any dead line or time table connected to it, it makes perfect sense to put other things on the back burner till then.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:39 AM
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My sex drive didn't really take off until my mid twenties. Getting laid is something I want to improve at, but it's importance is behind things like traveling, career, reading, getting into shape, getting better at swimming etc... It's a big reason I want to get good at ONS. I want to let off that energy without adding complicating factors to my life. People are different. We have different priorities. It might just be that.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:25 AM
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It's all BS PR. I usually vote Republican. Only because for foreign policy the isolationism and the zero regulation of libertarians seems impractical imho. I'm also more traditional than most here.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:21 AM
1

Nothing is all people. Generalizations are the majority or average member of X group.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:23 PM
1

Also slightly below average but ripped beats out average in average shape, or tall and out of shape.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:38 AM
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I got hit by a car. Assesed my life, thought I was about to die, went from slacker to maximizing my time. Realize you are going to die and it could be any day. Do you want to feel proud of quake with regret. You get one life and no final audience for those last thoughts beyond your own brutal judgement. You don't want to waste it not trying to do something, become something that raises you above the crowd. Work and instead of when you give yourself an excuse why you can't figure out how you will…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:40 AM
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For years I had many female friendships. I came to a point where it was just unfulfilling. Four reasons. 1 You can't be as honest with female friends as with males. There has to be a filter so it comes close to feeling like work. You can't talk rough with a female friend like a male one either. 2 Once any party becomes attracted and the other isn't it's over. It posins the whole friend group. It works both ways. 3 Women put down friends behind their back. This is what as a man is kind of like ho…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:25 AM
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Especially young lawyers. They are still in love with the sophistry of legal arguments. Also lawyers aren't economists. They are trained to know and argue law but except for the top schools there isn't even much of a deep history and philosophy of law part of it. You often see ones who confuse knowing the laws of a subject for knowing how said subject actually works.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:48 PM
2

Exactly it used to be actually funny. No it's two steps away from being Gawker but with hackey dick jokes.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:03 PM
1

I was locked out of my apartment for a long weekend in college. Slept four hours in the library hall way, bus stops. That's as close as I'd want to ever get. Come to think of it I actually knew a guy who was homeless for months. On disabilty after that. He used to date fat chicks with daddy issues to have access to a car, extra money, avoid working. If you live with someone for over thirty days you can't be kicked out immediately. Guy had a system. If you're getting laid often. It has to help ke…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:22 AM
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He doesn't look healthy if you look real close it's more he has good bone structure/alpha appearing facial features so it's a faster sell. Maybe I could but it would be a harder challenge if I was put in his exact spot, also I'm not all white so that adds another challenge right there. I just have a rough looking face, I think his key is the more like the homeless cliche you look, the harder the sell. Either way I don't intend to find out. If push comes to shove I'm good at adapting finding a wa…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:51 PM
1

The current strategy is essentially there are two militaries. Support/Admin And combat arms. This was McChrystal's idea (or his idea to accelerate this general trend) essentially the modern military is not dominated by combat arms and direct combat roles. In fact modern defense roles include lots of infrastructure building. Plenty of military members aren't in "disposable" jobs.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:38 AM
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Influence by Robert Cardini is good, of course Dale Carnegie, sales books are probably the most useful.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:42 AM
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He also looks decent and dresses good. If he looked homeless I doubt it would work. A guy with my face or below a 7 ain't gonna get away with it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:05 AM
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Most people are losers. At least he is winning part of it. Compared to someone working some beuorocratic job that exists to exist and doesn't even get laid he's a winner.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:03 AM
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Especially if they are good at analytic philosophy and more logic based parts of it. It's the literary theory/continental faux philosophy that lurks in English departments at most Universities that is BS feels.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:32 AM
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ACT is better. GRE and GMAT too.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:29 AM
0

Were they traditionally good looking?
/r/seduction22/08/14 07:41 AM
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I'm a noob but I identify here. Same height am actually part black but look Asian (so much so I've had Asian people assume it) I think it's probably the hardest race from a game point of view. White is neutral Black, you have the whole mandigo fetish it's the equivalent of being an Asian female. Hispanic, a little more difficult than white but there is the whole latin romantic thing and white girls at tango and mojhito bars are receptive to you. Asian you have to work against the submissive, soc…
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:05 AM
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Yes. This friend of mine is black. Had an Indian coworker from Australia who just slayed too. Some guys have that natural talent. It's probably more than race, so don't let that get you down.
/r/seduction09/08/14 03:15 AM
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Thanks. Will check out the sub. Also sorry about the stalking thing, I had a stalker, and it really feels like shit. Had to change my number, e-mail, and had to worry about every number I didn't recognize. An absolute hassle.
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:49 AM
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Here is where you don't understand our goals. We aren't looking for someone special, we don't even want someone to like us for our real selvs, not all of us, some of us (by we and some I mean me and people who also agree with me here) want sex. Emotionally detached sex, so we are looking for what is on average the most effective strategy. It won't work all the time, but it will work more often. What is the most effective performance. 99 percent of interactions sans really close friends are this,…
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:43 AM
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That's great for you. Some of use just really want to get laid, not looking for anything deep. Basically people are different and for you, that's the conclusion you came to about what you want, and what you like. I'm not good looking. Don't have your numbers, am a bit older, have almost died once, turned down a fair number of women since they wanted something more than the physical. I know myself well. I want sex, not a connection, so yeah it's a sale. If you're good looking your body is doing t…
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:34 AM
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Did a search, was asking about a weak jaw specifically and it's effects in and of itself. Maybe I should have worded it more clearly?
/r/seduction27/06/14 05:49 AM
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That just makes it even more depressing
/r/PussyPass26/06/14 03:13 PM
1

I haven't seen this movie but while not exactly the same, Saving Silverman seems a pretty close version of a gender swapped version of this plot. Two guys kidnap, lock up their friends controlling girlfriend in a basement. Hijinks ensue
/r/PussyPass26/06/14 03:00 PM
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I was doing muay thai, have to take a break because my schedule conflicts with some night classes I'm taking this summer. Going back to it afterwards. Doing crossfit and swimming as well. Martial arts really is a meditative experience. Kind of like baseball very reflective of life in general. Plus fun as fuck. One question about looking good. I can't grow a beard and my jawline is horribly weak. I feel like girls expect a certain type of personality based on that (sensitive, quiet, good with kid…
/r/seduction26/06/14 02:10 PM
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Thanks It sounds a lot like doing stand up. The first 6 months to 2 years almost everyone sucks. You gotta work, put in the practice and just sort of eat a lot of audience rejection.
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:59 PM
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I am looking more for some tricks, mechanics and technical details. Without getting into details the way I was raised. I didn't have a chance to pick that up. For me body language is a second language I have really poor fluency in. You seem experienced, is it just a refinement thing. Opening too is it is an issue. Do I just keep practicing is there a particularly good book for that to guide me?
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:14 AM
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I have really poor body language. I don't know how to open with any consistency. I don't know how to close and how to word sexual interest. I think those are my biggest issues. I'm not very good looking so perhaps that is another variable too.
/r/seduction14/05/14 04:42 PM
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I'm kind of curious how you think it's holding me back? The thing is I don't want more. For example I would rather have no sex, than sex that came with a relationship, required any sort of bond beyond let's have sex tonight and go our separate ways. I am very much, one of the few things I will give myself credit for, not easily influenced by ora product of my social conditioning. It's doing something for a particular reason, and having np succes is incredibly aggitating. I'm not going to a bar f…
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:50 AM
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I agree. It's caused me to sort of drop out of the PUA community. I'm not looking for inner game. I like who I am. I suck at getting laid. I want to have more sex with better looking women. That's it, no love, no personality matching, nothing deeper than two people consenting to fuck. Without results, it's a why am I here in this situation. That's where I am now. I just want to go to a bar, be able to get laid, and do whatever I was going to do, classes, gym, see a movie. A simple one night stan…
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:23 AM
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But the results and not the journey is what many of us want out of it. I feel in a similar place to this guy. The change of direction is really frustrating for many guys.
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:03 AM
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Sorry. It's hot out where I am and I'm a bit dehydrated. So I'm not running on all my cylinders.
/r/seduction12/05/14 07:11 PM
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I think it's a different focus. Procces vs result focus. I think PUAs for into two camps. My theory is: Genuineness is for the PUAs who are naturally more connection oriented guys but awkward. Results is for guys who are looking for sex as a sensory only experience. Most are naturals, so you see less in the PUA community because they don't need to come here. Some for what ever reason need to learn it, but have the predilection to just want the physcal. Now I think I'm a pretty genuine guy. You k…
/r/seduction12/05/14 07:07 PM
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I have to agree with OP. There are other areas of my life seperate an apart I am improving for reasons unrelated to getting laid. For sex. I just want sex. No connection, no deep level of compatiblility. That can be done without being creepy and so on. I don't see why some people can be shooting for different goals and both can't have a place here. Also the geniune person I am is an arrogant, lives for him self, anti-commitment arguable asshole (I don't think I am, but others have). I am not loo…
/r/seduction12/05/14 06:53 PM
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Yeah reading this brought me back to when I was his age. The comedically absurd amount of times this attitude cockblocked myself on sure things, and only realizing what I did afterwards was almost unbelievable. Then kicking myself over it; wash, rinse, repeat. Not a fun place to be.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:35 PM
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My guess is at first he thought they meant it as inarticulate, and then realized that she just meant he had a deep voice. I've had the mindset where you are so self conscious you assume people are laughing at you, looking down on you. So to not be made an idiot you look for how they're insulting you. When you have that mindset that's how immediately you are going to take it.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:25 PM
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When someone says that. It's usually what they mean. Maybe not even directly. It means someone isn't speaking standard English. Think white suburban kid with sidewards cap, purposely using slang, misusing tenses. Like how "sounding white" means not cursing, overly formal speech, not how most actual white people speak. I am not saying black people are inarticulate. But people who are described as "sounding black" usually are. She meant in a Barry White/Isaac Hayes deep voice comparison. In contex…
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:46 PM
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I don't think it sounds racist. It sounds like he thought they were racist and insulting him.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:17 PM
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Yeah he needs to get over that chip on his shoulder. I was the same way then, searching for an insult.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:15 PM
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