Ignisyourface Archive

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1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? I fail to see how being transparent about myself and allowing men to decide for themselves if they want to pursue or not is manipulative. It would be manipulative for sure if I was lying and misleading them to get what I want. I sincerely hope you find your partner in crime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:27 AM
2	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? No, I am very transparent about the fact that I am dedicated to serving myself and my interests. I won’t hide that I am selfish and that I prioritize my own happiness, desires, and wellbeing above all else. Men are more than welcome to be turned off and avoid me. But interestingly, I find that a lot of men irl are oddly enamored by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:03 AM
1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? Access to increased resources, finances, and good treatment through my partner seems pretty great to me. Especially after I’ve already had my fun and want to slow down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 01:24 AM
1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? I want to settle down with the man who is going to treat me the best and provide the most. He will be attractive to me, just in a different way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 01:17 AM
9	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. No, you’re taking the logic and applying in a very odd way. Women don’t actively “make a man chase” but she is simply just not easy to get. She doesn’t say yes to just anyone. She doesn’t give away her body, time, energy away easily because she values herself. This is the type of woman men value and respect the most. Anything that hints at her being easy or desperate for validation, a relationship, etc will lower a man’s respect for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 11:25 PM
10	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. I’ll try to find her account again but IIRC she films using recording glasses not a phone or camera. I also speculate biology plays a big part in it for men. Men are ambitious and enjoy accomplishing things, especially things that are hard. The ego boost men get for rising to the occasion and proving themselves is like the ultimate symbol of ‘being a real man’. Whenever a man sees a woman he truly wants, it doesn’t make him want to relax, it inspires him to lock in. It makes him want to work out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 11:00 PM
7	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. It is true. That’s literally why the Madonna-Whore complex exists. Men themselves even say out loud that easy women are for hookups, but cannot be taken seriously for relationships. Approaching a man isn’t the same thing as hooking up with him right away, but it still leans in that “she’s easy” direction. No one respects desperation. It is the ugliest thing ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 10:41 PM
19	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. I think subconsciously a lot of men don’t respect it or value it. Men obviously know women are spoiled with options and the luxury of men approaching women. There’s no reason or incentive for women to approach and be the initiator. And if a woman does, mens subconscious begs the question: why? Why is she approaching? Does she not have options? Theres a girl on tiktok who is average looking and she films herself asking men out irl and she is often rejected, with the men kind of feeling icked out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 10:11 PM
1	Nice guys and loser men are just scapegoats for women Really? I prefer lavash bread	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 09:08 PM
20	Nice guys and loser men are just scapegoats for women Interesting, I personally don’t have disgust or loathing for nice guys/losers. I actually don’t think about them at all and my brain rarely registers them unless one is trying to interact with me. Even then, I don’t hate him and wish him harm. I just don’t want to fuck or date him. I do agree though that some women will be treated poorly by certain groups of men and then project that to all men. IE a dumb woman is constantly played like a fool by chads and therefore she concludes all men are ass…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 09:01 PM
1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? I don’t care for hookups. My goal isn’t to fuck a bunch of men, I want to have sex only after the man has earned my trust, feelings, and commitment is established. However, I also have zero qualms about making exceptions to this rule for the few and rare men that make me want to break it just for them. And I have and will if I so desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 08:20 PM
1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? I agree, men should definitely work on their attractiveness. I for one would love to see more attractive men out and about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 08:15 PM
2	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? No, women still have to be attracted to the man. They certainly aren’t getting with ugly ass dudes just to acquire security (except true golddiggers, which majority of women are not). Attractiveness is a scale, the husband is attractive for marriage but not attractive enough for the casual sex she doled out when she was younger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:58 PM
1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? A variation of this, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:53 PM
3	Why are men considered bad and immature for not overlooking a woman's past? If he finds out is the caveat here. Because bodycount isn’t something that can be automatically known, and plenty of women have no qualms about fudging the numbers and obfuscating their promiscuous past. But I agree, if he does find out, chances are his feelings will take a nosedive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:34 PM
2	Why are men considered bad and immature for not overlooking a woman's past? Honestly, not really. Women with high n counts typically still end up in relationships and don’t actually end up “forever alone”. At most, men online and few irl might diss them for being promiscuous but otherwise they remain largely unaffected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:04 PM
9	Why are men considered bad and immature for not overlooking a woman's past? All men and women are entitled to whatever preferences they want. Some men and women will cry and be upset at those preferences. Who cares? Let those women stay mad about n count. I’m not going to waste time on the women crying and yelling about n count anymore than I would on the men crying and yelling about women’s 6ft+ height preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 11:41 AM
3	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? Exactly and risks losing the privileges she secured through him	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 10:43 AM
6	Why are men considered bad and immature for not overlooking a woman's past? yup it is acceptable	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 08:21 AM
–	Where does this idea that looks don't matter really come from? People here also seemingly forget about how basic social etiquette and expectations feed into this. When people say “looks don’t matter” they typically aren’t saying it with the intention of lying and misleading, they say it because that is the socially polite thing to say. People dance around the truth to avoid the awkwardness of hurting someone’s feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:56 AM
2	Way too many people want hook ups and won’t admit it. I think it’s because they want to lie to others and themselves. No, starting a relationship from a hookup is a no go for me. Super hot is subjective. I find a variety of men hot, so hard to define but generally: decent facial structure, tall, fit, no balding, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:49 AM
3	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? Because it’s already explained in the op. Women have more options when it comes to exercising their SMV. Women can have sex with men more attractive than themselves in their 20s. As women age and lose SMV, they can then find suitable men to settle down with, men who can provide. The men they settle down with are rarely the men they hooked up with. AKA women can have their cake and eat it too, have fun when young and still find a male partner when she’s older & ready to settle down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:43 AM
3	Displaying Value and Minimizing Flakes: Dinner vs Drinks It depends more on how I met this man. If he and I met in real life, exchanged numbers, talked for awhile, and he only asks me out for coffee, I’d feel some type of way about it. If he and I met on OLD and have yet to meet IRL, then coffee or drinks is fine. We haven’t even met yet and I don’t want to get stuck on a full blown dinner date with the dude if I’m not feeling him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 05:13 AM
22	Why are men considered bad and immature for not overlooking a woman's past? Those women feel bad they are being labeled as less desirable for engaging in promiscuous behaviors. So they push back against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 05:11 AM
1	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. No, I don’t think it is logically sound.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 03:58 AM
1	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. I thought it was pretty mature when you said “touch grass little one”. I’m not being condescending or attacking you, I just think your argument is poor and there’s no point in further engaging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 03:50 AM
1	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? Did you read the full post? At the end OP asks: What about you? Would you act differently? Why or why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 03:07 AM
1	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. You’ve made it clear how poor your point is, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 03:05 AM
3	When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needy Sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 03:04 AM
5	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? Wow that sounds terrible. He should leave, and if he doesn’t then unfortunately I have no sympathy for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 12:38 AM
2	When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needy I don’t think you are grasping this conversation at all friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 12:36 AM
2	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. No, actually OP does not at all specify “in real life”. In fact those words are completely absent from this post. This post is getting at a blend of online spaces and in real life. Slut shaming exists online and online is part of the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 12:28 AM
1	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. I disagree. How people behave on the internet and in real life is not always the exact same, but to completely dismiss any correlation and think what happens online has no bearings or effect on real life is very shortsighted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 12:05 AM
6	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. I’m gen Z. Men make these comments online, that means they hold these beliefs in real life too. They are more likely to express these opinions online because of anonymity + they can find communities of likeminded men who agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:53 PM
7	If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not? I’m only vaguely caught up on the situation, but the only thing she did wrong was share her truth out loud to everyone. Gotta know when to shut up before you lose out on what you got. As women, we have the opportunity to have our cake and eat it too when it comes to sex and dating. And hell yeah I want to have my cake and eat it too. That’s why I do everything within my power to ensure I am always benefiting or getting something worthwhile out of a situation. And why wouldn’t I? This is literall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:50 PM
2	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. It’s not JUST this sub, it’s all over the internet. And the men who make these comments on the internet also exist in everyday real life too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:36 PM
2	When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needy I’m amazed you think it’s a revelation women like attractive men and treat them better than unattractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:34 PM
2	"Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past. Can you elaborate on how it’s taboo and how that actually manifests? Because to me it seems the opposite, n count is an incredibly discussed subject. A lot of women don’t like it, but body count is talked about now more than it’s ever been imo. Just because a few women say “you can’t ask that! who cares!” doesn’t mean its taboo, it just means some women get salty at that subject. Many gen z men are lost & aimless, falling down TRP/BP/Lookism rabbit holes. When it comes to dating/sex, gen z guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:33 PM
3	Way too many people want hook ups and won’t admit it. I think it’s because they want to lie to others and themselves. I don’t want to hookup. Unless, he’s super hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 09:34 PM
2	Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life? No way, I want to taste the rainbow	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 09:31 PM
4	When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needy It never ceases to amaze me some men are completely rocked when they find out that women like attractive men and give them special treatment. In hs did the hot cheerleaders date the ugly nerds?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 09:16 PM
-1	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism Plenty of men already do this and it works for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 06:22 PM
14	When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needy You’re trying to get at the notion that attractive ‘bad guys’ get away with stuff that ugly guys can’t. And that is correct. Because why wouldn’t it be? Humans naturally treat attractive people better, this is observable in both men and women. A guy who makes my pussy throb is able to get away with way more than a guy who can’t. In terms of lovebombing, ‘bad boys’ are usually purposefully doing in hopes of speeding up the process to get what they want (sex). Ugly guys fall in love quickly becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 06:21 PM
-4	The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments. I love age gaps. Older men are usually way more giving to make up for their age	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 06:09 PM
-1	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism Go for it. Why would I care what strategy you use? I certainly won’t change the strategies I use just because it makes some men cry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 06:06 PM
–	In your experience, what body type has gotten you the most attention from conventionally attractive girls? Arms > back > chest > legs > abs	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 01:15 PM
-1	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism I never approach men in the way that men approach women. If I’m interested in a man, I ‘drop the handkerchief’ and give him the opportunity to approach me if he so desires. Humans, but ESPECIALLY men, do not value things that come easy. They only ‘like’ easy women because, well they’re easy but men do not value, respect, or love women who make it too easy. So as a woman, it’s never in my best interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:52 PM
9	Women complain in hopes that men will take the bait I love men. Especially the tall attractive ones or the successful ones. I think the women who consistently scream from the rooftops they don’t need men are just bitter and desperate. Same for the men who screech about not needing women. But yelling like the town crier about not needing the opposite sex is very different from the men and women who simply take a quiet step back and explain why they don’t need a partner to function or be fulfilled. I don’t need a man to live a happy life. That does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:21 PM
0	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women Please read a history book. Your disconnection from reality isn’t normal	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:06 PM
0	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women So when men didn’t allow women to vote, own homes, open bank accounts….that was equality? I truly admire your dedication to being wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 10:38 AM
2	I think many (conservative) men are hypocrites because they say stuff like "not all men are bad" but act differently when it comes to their own daughters and sisters. congrats	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:38 AM
14	I think many (conservative) men are hypocrites because they say stuff like "not all men are bad" but act differently when it comes to their own daughters and sisters. You’re getting caught on the comparison when the point is men/women will say xyz about men/women in general but will offer different and even contradictory advice to the men/women in their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:28 AM
33	I think many (conservative) men are hypocrites because they say stuff like "not all men are bad" but act differently when it comes to their own daughters and sisters. I don’t think it’s conservatives but rather men in general, and even then its not exclusive to just men. Men obviously know how other men are. That’s why they flip it when it comes to women they personally know and care about. Men online will say “not all men” “youre being paranoid” etc because theyre addressing women as a group. But men who are fathers will tell their daughters “be careful of all men” “trust your gut” “be cautious around men at all times”. Women do this too. Women will preach t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:03 AM
3	CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable. Well, where’s the witty banter part? At least make the bitter insults entertaining	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:46 AM
-1	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women Come back to reality brother	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:43 AM
1	CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable. Well where’s the witty banter? At least make the insults or rhyme or something at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:42 AM
7	CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable. What does that have to do with men online saying modern women are lazy entitled whores?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:25 AM
0	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women Women were oppressed by men. Enough with the blatant lies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:16 AM
1	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women But we can play this tit for tat game forever. Before, women weren’t even allowed to complain because men as a class oppressed and dominated women as a class. Men compare women to shoes, locks, cars, at least your comparison is a live mammal. See how pointless this game is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 08:08 PM
–	AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It. Can you share what you promoted exactly? I’m curious and want try it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 09:38 PM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 swipe right bitches has me giggling	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:52 PM
45	The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are. Kinda on topic but as a woman its so hot when you’re play wrestling with a guy and he’s easily subduing you while barely using 5% of his strength.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 04:24 AM
2	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. Men and women love conditionally, that’s literally how relationships work. It IS an exchange. You give and you get. This exchange will look different for every couple. Men are not more or less romantic than women. Both sexes are actually selfish af and not romantic. In terms of fantasies, yeah? No woman is daydreaming about doing house chores for her boring joe husband. Just like no man is fantasizing about going to work to provide for his aging chubby mid wife. Women are fantasizing about hot t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 04:11 AM