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Ignorancewasbliss83/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 05:45 PM
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This post hits home quite a bit. The gym I go to there is always the same group of guys, one who actually lifts, the rest look like shit and just like to go there for their social hour hogging equipment and throwing weights around after sets. Theres also another older guy who I swear just comes to the gym to talk to people, usually younger guys/gals as if he's some kind of youth counselor or a creep, I can't tell. He'll do maybe one half asses exercise the whole time I am there. I notice this st…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 06:03 PM
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Totally on point. This is exactly how I think when it comes to chores. You do shit because it needs to get done, doesn't matter what it is.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 04:14 PM
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In college I fucked around long enough the school finally kicked me out for a year. I was going to come home. My mother said your not coming home, find a job and stay there so I did. I worked nights at a gas station for 6 months. That was the lowest of lows. All those people I knew including my roommates would come in and I would make up some bs story about why I was working there and not in school. It was the kick in the ass I needed, the people I had to interact with were the lowest of low. I …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 04:31 PM
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She is just barely starting into preschool so there's not much of this yet. She goes to a Montessori school and there are a few male teachers, albeit not straight but that doesn't bother me. If I see stuff in the future I don't agree with I'll discuss with them and tell my daughter otherwise. I just tell her to do the right thing and be a good person and think for herself. Funny story, I tell my daughter that certain foods are junk food and are bad for her. So she told some kids during lunch her…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:47 PM
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Lol the catholic priest who officiated our wedding told this joke to everyone, that was 6 years ago. We just went to another and he told the same joke lol. Really laid back guy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:38 PM
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I too have a 4 year old daughter and couldn't agree more. Everything about behavior preached here is visible in my little girl. It's funny you bring up the eye contact thing to because she will try to stare me down and Will hold my gaze for like 10 seconds until she gives up. I just hope she turns out to be a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 08:43 PM
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i see where the confusion is here. I was more implying I didn't make a move and she had to tell me to make one. We had only begun hanging out for a few weeks before this happened. I wasn't an orbiter, she definitely had a few though that had been around long before we started hanging out. That was 10 years ago, she's honestly been a model wife since then even though I went pretty bp for a few years.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:23 PM
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This is precisely how my wife and I got together. I was terrified of making a move on her. Finally after hanging out one night after she went home she sent me a MySpace message and was like you know I'd be ok with you kissing me. It was on after that. Apparently she really really liked me and had so since she first met me several years before when I kinda hung out in the same group of friends she did. It does happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:24 PM
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Pretty fascinating stuff really. My wife always used to comment how she liked my scent when we were dating, it wasn't cologne just how I naturally smelled I guess. Then after marriage and a few years went by and I was in my bp phase she told me I had lost my scent. She couldn't explain what it was but that I didn't smell like it Anymore. Several months ago she randomly, rather excitedly, said hey you got your scent back. My only explanation is that I had been eating right, lost weight, and had b…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:19 PM
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I agree, all the work I put into making myself better and I still fall into the bb category.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 12:21 AM
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My two cents because it's what has worked for me: leave your company on a positive note, do a great turnover with whoever is taking your role in the interim and take the new job. Your boss will make an offer to keep you but it won't be nearly enough. Stay at the next job for a year and if you really don't like it you can probably return to your old job and not only get your current pay but also another bump. Most managers have their hands tied when it comes to raises but can pull all kinds of st…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 08:07 PM
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Lol maybe she was relieved who knows. If she was screwing around she was damn good at it because no proof exists that I can find. As far as why she may have taken it so well, Im pretty sure its honestly because of how people constantly comment on how my daughter doesnt look like me. She's been around when people have said it as well. Make no mistake, she was pretty hurt but I envisioned things being a lot worse than they were.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 05:36 AM
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I used a similar test on my daughter because she looks nothing like me and I heard that constantly from everyone. The time she was conceived was also a bit weird as well so I had my reasons. When I found out she was mine it was a huge relief. I went through great lengths to ensure my wife never found out. I moved the notification email to a separate folder in my gmail when I should have just deleted it. For some reason a few months later my wife needed in my email, guessed my password, and found…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:57 PM
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Naw she won't be any sort of stay at home mom, she would go nuts and I wouldn't let her. She just started working as a nurse and wants to go as far as a nurse practitioner which I have no doubt she will do. As far as boredom I don't know about that either her job keeps her very busy. She also likes making big money too much. It's seriously amazing how much nurses make starting out.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 10:24 PM
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Appreciate the insight I think I've got all I need out of this thread. I have some hard thinking to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 08:52 PM
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Trust me that's the lowest of the concerns. What worries me the most is the potential for chronic ball pain and cancer.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 08:42 PM
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The friend is seriously over weight has a schlub for a husband and constantly disrespects him. She quite possibly said something along those lines. She's not at all bitchy when she's around me she's actually quite pleasant I just think she's so used to her spineless husband that she probably just made a comment out of habit if she said anything at all. Google mirena sex drive issues they are rampant. Mirena has hormones in it that are released over time. I was in the midst of trying to eliminate…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 08:40 PM
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I talked her up in the heat of the moment to get her off because I've done it numerous times in the past. I guess I didn't realize the gravity of the situation at the time and had I known I would have done things differently. do yeah my bad on that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 08:37 PM
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Because it happens all the time. I have a half sister who I've really never been around much that my dad (never married to my mom and mostly not in my life) had who has downs. My youngest brother also had a rare condition where he couldn't digest protein, like at all. It was one of the rarest conditions they had heard of and the medicine to allow him to digest protein cost my mom a fortune. Plus he had to eat special meals etc.. Luckily he grew out of it in his teenage years. I know myself and I…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 08:06 PM
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Solid advice I really appreciate it. My wife really is a good woman as far as I can tell. She's far from perfect but when I compare her to other women I know and see I consider myself lucky. Having another kid wouldn't be the worst thing but what I do worry about is the risk of having anything wrong with that kid. Our daughter is gorgeous, smart, and healthy as can be. We make insane money for our ages and we could truly have the good life. What if we have another kid and its handicapped or has …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 07:12 PM
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No shit but honestly didn't know she was serious about it at the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 07:06 PM
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I'm a firm believer in awalt and have access to everything There has never been anything shady in anything I've seen. Even checked the online cell record and she did indeed go with her friend, I even heard their conversation before she left. They were only there for about 1.5 hours, it closed at 10 and she was home at 1045 which is about right. I think she realizes she is getting older and really wants another one. As others have said below I am worried this may become a deal breaker. I've told …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 06:54 PM
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That's what I was wondering what is he doing to improve himself. For the longest time I thought my wife has the problem, I had no idea the problem was me. She always said it was her and she couldn't understand why she didn't want sex. Hell her excuses were a lot of my wife's excuses for a long time. She always insists that she showers before we do anything and her reasoning is that she wants to be fresh down there. It drove me nuts and still does but I can understand I want everything to always …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:42 PM
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I work with an alpha older woman. She will not hesitate to call someone out right then and there on their shit, men, women, managers, you name it and they all cower to her. I make a point not to kiss her ass like everyone else does and you know what we have a very cordial relationship. Alpha women are used to getting their way because people don't like confrontation. Just remember they are still women and awalt no matter the front they put up.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:36 AM
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Man this topic hit home. I've been trying some sex god method on my wife, basically talking more during sex in a dominant way and incorporating the teasing. No shit it has produced some of the hardest orgasms I have seen my wife have in recent memory. So hard in fact that her uterus started having contractions afterwards the first time I employed it. Anyways after our last session where she went down on me before and I was basically grabbing her hair during etc followed by a pretty vocal fucking…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:55 AM
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My wife is pretty much the same way. Always hamstering a reason why now wasn't good but would then initiate later. I don't know what finally did it but I think it was a combo of me getting her off birth control and not taking no for an answer that seems to have changed that. I've also stopped fapping which ups my drive. Lately when I want sex I just have to say lets go. Now this isn't every day but it's several times a week. If she has had a long day or says she's exhausted before bed I won't tr…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 02:14 PM
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Funny thing is my wife just finished nursing school and she used to post shit all the time. Every time she did I'd ask if she had gotten her fill of Facebook validation for the day, needless to say after a few times of that she doesn't do that anymore and now we laugh at all the dipshits who constantly update the world with every moment of their lives.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 01:45 PM
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Holy shit I know a girl who is a high school teacher and it's the same deal parents paid for everything during school and for years afterward, helped her get her first house then spent thousands fixing it up. I think just recently after she got her masters and has been teaching for 7 years she's finally been weened off and is supporting herself. The sad thing is my buddy who is my best friend is in a relationship with her is hopelessly beta. I can see the train wreck coming.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 01:41 PM
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Been married 5 yrs together 8, she's 29 I'm 31. In my worst blue pill days it was about once every 2 weeks at most once a month. Now it's once a week minimum working to twice or more. I am in the best shape I've ever been and am becoming the best man I can. She knows that and knows I won't stick around if my needs aren't met. Twice to 3 times a week is plenty for me. She's a damn good woman and that's why I married her. However she is not pedestalized and I take none of her shit, but she still t…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 04:15 PM
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It gets better, he updated and found a secret Facebook page the chick who sent the pic set up. It implicates everyone including the bride, they all cheated! Yet he still wants to salvage the relationship!!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:23 PM
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God this hits home. My now wife did something similar. At the beginning She had just got out of an LTR and her and I knew each other from a few years earlier. She said she'd always had a thing for me, and I was pretty attracted to her. We started seeing each other pretty regularly about the beginning of February. Her and I were exclusive according to me, I told her I wouldn't tolerate any bs with other guys as I had been recently burned. She had 3 guys who had a thing for her, one in particular …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:19 PM
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Just go for it. If he treated her like garbage then he probably won't care anyways. Doesn't sound like you guys were lifelong friends or anything anyways.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 11:54 PM
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Don't know how well you're acquainted but maybe if pretty good friends tell her if she does it again she's gonna get her ass spanked. When she does it again it's on. Grab her and spank her ass. Most good girl friends I've had would likely play right a long. Especially ones who felt comfortable enough that they thought they could get away with slapping my face. Which is a pretty big deal.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 09:43 PM
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That was fantastic lots of good info there.
/r/seduction07/02/14 12:51 AM
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This post is so spot on. Back in my crazy beta days I had severe oneitis for this girl, had been obsessed with her for years. I was two years older than her and when she finally got to the same college as me naturally she started to become attracted to me because I was an upperclassmen and we threw some badass parties at our house. One night after a party she tells her friends to go ahead and leave I'm spending the night here, right in front of me. I was shocked, didn't expect this. I honestly t…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:13 PM
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That's unfortunate about your marriage but who knows maybe starting over with someone new will be way easier than trying to fix a broken one. I just hit the 5 year mark on mine and I think it's been pretty good. My wife has definitely gotten a lot more bossy/assertive in the past few years I think some because I have let her but mostly because she spends the most time with our 2 year old and her new profession as a nurse requires her to be the dominate one with her patients. Since I realized I h…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 06:50 PM
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This is so true. When I read this shit now I wish I could find these guys that these women screwed over. Walk up to them and say I know what you went through, I've been there myself, tell them the path to enlightenment is here and hand them a card with the red pill URL and walk off.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:12 PM
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I totally hear you in this. I'm 31 now and was taught by my mostly single mother all of this for years. I got slaughtered by women until it clicked when I was about 21 and this girl absolutely destroyed me. It changed me permanently. I said never again. Men raised by women without an alpha male role model are at a severe disadvantage. Especially when the women are like my mother who is extremely controlling and manipulative. Her husband now is the most beta man I have ever met. Since I got marri…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 03:26 PM
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