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Once overtime is removed, the pay gap almost completely vanishes. I wonder if I'm among the minority of men that put in 10-20 hours of overtime a week; but even as a minority, this "fringe" can obviously impact the entire population and results bigly.
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 04:35 PM
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Can't fight nature forever. Second Law of Thermodynamics suggests that artificially propping up conditions takes up so much more energy and eventually entropies down to a simpler, more natural level. This is especially true in a time and place where stresses are increasing and income are decreasing for everyone: e.g. the modern West.
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 04:33 PM
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I think its fair to say that no one really exists in isolation, and certainly no one seems to succeed very well from isolation.
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 04:27 PM
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No women left work in my office, and feminist men made more noise about it than the women.
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 11:23 PM
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Stringray's blog brought me here :)
/r/RedPillWives21/02/17 09:33 PM
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I feel that a lot of them feel if you've already put the effort to get a career, then it has to be the most important thing in your life. Its self-reinforcing.
/r/RedPillWives20/02/17 11:20 PM
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Never underestimate the power of cognitive dissonance.
/r/RedPillWives20/02/17 09:03 PM
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That was frustrating to read. The poster sounded like someone who had only been in shallow relationships. The amount of mistrust they invest in intimate relationships is terrifying.
/r/RedPillWives20/02/17 03:20 AM
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One of the most effective and realistic ways is to model the behavior - live in a sustainable way, show that you're happy, and then advertise it. As a 'via-positiva' method, this is probably the most effective and least costly. I think what you're doing is by far the best way, and probably one of the most satisfying ways, because growing something and being part of nature, at least to me, has been amazing fulfilling. The other is what we Neoreactionaries call "virtue signaling" where you run tog…
/r/RedPillWives05/02/17 08:31 PM
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Religion is known for its contradictions, this is the same for the "progressive" faith. That study got its results from some beautiful distortion of evidence and isn't really worth taking seriously.
/r/RedPillWives05/02/17 08:23 PM
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Its of my firm belief that religion has never really gone away, it just morphed into another form of ideology over the years, the most recent incarnation being the Cult of Equality is Identical.
/r/RedPillWives05/02/17 08:02 PM
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I love how the anti-fa are so pro women, that they proceeded to beat up and mace a woman trying to listen to Milo. And they documented it on video, proudly.
/r/RedPillWives03/02/17 09:04 PM
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I've always been amused by the idea of equality as a meme and have often wondered how much of it is due to the limitations of the language. Absolute equality, as the feminist argues, is equality of outcomes but that's not possible unless people were exactly identical. Women and men aren't exactly identical. And it'll be pretty disturbing if we were all identical anyway, since that's the highlight of turning us into interchangeable industrial gears. Just apply veneer of face, internals are all th…
/r/RedPillWives03/02/17 09:02 PM
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I think he overgeneralizes, but I disagree on the notion that anonymous people forming loose organizations can't make for significant change. Sure, there's a lot of power in coherence and I do actually believe the Red is forming a small but influential bloc of coherent action. But don't underestimate the weaknesses of having a "solid organization" - the Cathedral of the Blue has had decades of learning on how to destroy it. They will destroy your job, your reputation and if they can't do that, t…
/r/RedPillWives03/02/17 05:39 PM
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I credit the writer for being willing to take on an interesting, and controversial perspective. I disagree with her somewhat that friends aren't necessary "for safety" after a certain age; sure, there's physical safety but that isn't usually the threat these days. I think friends help, or should help, as a form of psychological safety and barrier, that in theory, they should share your values and implicit understanding such that they can be mutually supportive. Of course, these days with our ato…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/17 12:32 AM
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That magazine was so thoroughly pozz'ed by feminism by the links attached.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/17 12:25 AM
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I think its an interesting ideology. Equality is an interesting ideology and should be given its due respect. It has some useful governing features. But that's the thing with ideologies. They're ideas, they're concepts, and don't necessarily have to connect with reality. Feminism is much like that, its an ideology that has become extremely forced into reality, even when it fails empirically. I mean, its not like everything about Orthodox Christianity has proved completely and absolutely ideal af…
/r/RedPillWives01/02/17 07:09 AM
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Eh, its still possible but I acknowledge the economy has changed. I've managed it relatively well myself as the sole breadwinner and though my income is higher than normal, I should note that my wife being at home saves us a lot of money as well. I think its easy to underestimate the importance of what is called the domestic economy.
/r/RedPillWives01/02/17 07:01 AM
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From my perspective, there's an insufficient number of women who are willing to trust men and be feminine. Perhaps there's some error in sorting and meeting. I know for certain that I grew up with parents that encouraged me to focus on my career because then I could focus on dating; they were very traditional and expected the world would also be such. I ended up being alone for far longer than I would have liked, and do believe that at least part of my bitterness is that I tried to participate i…
/r/RedPillWives01/02/17 06:59 AM
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No, there are actual examples of autocratic governments running surpluses - but not one of democracies. There can be other arguments against autocracies but basically evidence shows that its the only form of government that given gives the possibility of consistent surpluses. Even "democratic" governments tend to be illusionary, with the actual power given to large unelected bureaucracy. I do agree to some extent that monarchies fall victim to human nature - first, because centralization of powe…
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 06:21 PM
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Awesome! I've been reading them for awhile and truly adhere to their ideas. Spandrell from https://bloodyshovel.wordpress.com/ is my favorite as he has a significant and very interesting perspective. For shock, horror and hilarity, its hard to beat Jim's Blog, though.
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 04:05 AM
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My wife is many years younger than me and there hasn't been any particular issues with generation gaps. The main differences have been some issues with pop culture references and knowledge: stuff such as Pokemon, video games, and the like. But on the order of things that we agree on and overall cooperate on, it seems to be pretty minor. I'll say it has worked out pretty well for us. She was 19 and I was 25 when we were married, for what it is worth.
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 04:01 AM
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As a descendant of the Culture Revolution, I can understand the difficulties but sometimes, bloodshed leads to better conclusion in the end.
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 03:57 AM
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Neoreactionaries tend to have a dim view of democracy, and Unqualified Reservations goes into it in depth but basically every real democracy eventually will slowly self-destruct as a majority will keep voting for social benefits, accumulating ever larger debts and having poor long-term planning. This has indeed been true of every democracy.
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 03:55 AM
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Good to see Neoreactionary material here.
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 03:51 AM
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I actually blame chemicals in the water that cause hormonal effects and affect the natural development of masculinity during pregnancy. Its not as crazy as it sounds, it has cause severe damage to animals already. "One of the common culprits is estrogen, much of which is inadvertently released into sewers through the urine of women taking birth control. Studies have shown that estrogen can wreak reproductive havoc on some fish, which spawn infertile offspring sporting a mixture of male and femal…
/r/RedPillWives21/01/17 03:36 AM
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Awesome work.
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 04:59 AM
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Well, as something that causes potentially permanent brain damage, its way too casually encouraged. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/womens-brains-on-steroids/
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 02:22 AM
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Nah, they seem eager to demonize other cultures so as long as it isn't an "disadvantaged" one. Look at how much Japanese anime is bashed for promoted the archetype of feminine women.
/r/RedPillWives27/12/16 07:14 AM
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Ramen?
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 03:57 AM
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I disagree. The recent election has shown an amazing degree of SJWness centered around media organs. I'm not claiming its a conspiracy - but its a bluepill reality bubble that they then project on everyone else. It might be intentional, or it might be due to the delusions from residing in said reality bubble, but they definitely inflict it upon us.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:23 PM
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Well, that's kind of all Hollywood for you now. One reason why I consistently only watch Chinese/Korean movies these days.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:22 PM
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This might be a wild shot, but you might want to try out gab.ai. Its a version of twitter with a significant right-wing population. I'm on it myself. Quite fond of it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:16 PM
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Its always useful to look at what the Amish do - and their housewives also helped generally with a domestic economy. So I don't see any issue with it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:06 PM
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I've bookmarked your blog.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:02 PM
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I believe that having standards is a good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 02:43 AM
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My wife is fully stay at home and while she goes into cleaning sprees, she randomly chooses days to simply disappear into the wonderland that is Netflix. I doubt anyone is always thrilled with housecleaning.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 12:44 AM
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I'll poke in and state that I think everyone needs a sense of purpose. The feminine sense of purpose is different from the masculine one, but I'm pretty sure that everyone wants their life to have a sense of transcendent meaning.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 11:29 PM
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I don't think this is a good idea. I'll briefly mention my own experience with this - I was in a stable marriage and became friends with another girl, who was in a significantly more stable mental state than the ones she suggested. This other girl, L, suggested polygamy and said it was because she wanted a "sister wife" and thought that since I was Chinese, I might be more accepting of it. I talked to my wife about it, and she was willing to try it and also liked the idea of a "sister wife." In …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 09:16 PM
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"Men expect a woman to have an equal degree and to contribute financially." I'm immediately suspect of this conclusion of the study from the presupposition; I would hazard casually that this isn't true of at least 33% of men, which makes the generalizing statement to be very dubious. I've been pretty dubious of social science lately because like all science, its prone to influence by the researchers who seek a certain outcome, but due to issues in replication, its been far worse. The "unbearable…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 08:49 PM
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Mention that its actually a great opportunity to relax and have time off to catch up on all those books, movies and video games that he wanted to. Its rare enough when you become an adult that you get an socially legitimate excuse to goof off!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:30 PM
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This isn't the place to argue or debate it, I agree - but while it should be able equality of opportunity, it really has left it and the notion of a "silent majority" is doubtful to me, having studied mass movements. For better or worse, the mass tends to lean toward the more extreme fringes one way or another. For me in particular, the most disturbing and "extreme" opinion that feminism has for me is its tendency to shut down all contrary opinions: for example, say if I wanted to voice somethin…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 02:34 AM
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Submissively_yours makes a really good point in her post - Furbabies make me nervous if I leave them home, but fortunately my wife can keep an eye on them. Otherwise, I couldn't live with myself if one of them got abruptly sick/hurt and I was at work, not knowing what was going on with them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 02:39 AM
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For what it is worth, my wife has pretty severe chronic fatigue syndrome and it isn't an issue. I can totally sympathize with life being better when you're not alone - I was very much like that, and I am still very much like that. I largely blame modernization for the idea of "atomizing" people as if we're supposed to somehow survive alone. We aren't, not physically and not emotionally, and so this world feels very toxic. That said, I think you have much more hope than you think. There are many …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 09:38 PM
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Playing off the disclaimer. My apologies.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 01:47 AM
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I would mention to him, perhaps, that you're on his side and part of his team. It feels like he's still quite insecure in some ways and he's trying to argue with you to reassure some aspect of his intellect to himself, but it would help to refocus on the fact that you're both together in this and he needs to get his intellectual battlefield wins elsewhere and certainly not at home. Home should be a place of peace and calm. Its where you recover from the madness of the world, not where you bring …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 11:12 PM
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Well, we all know Huffington Post to be the bastion of sanity. How dare a man have a sense of self-esteem, feminism is here to help workon that!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 01:16 AM
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He might like you for who you are, to be honest. I've married a girl with far less "going for her" because I loved the idea of being someone's hero. Five years later, it doesn't seem to have caused any problems.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 11:28 PM
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I never had a TV at home and my wife was very confused at first when she moved in. I thought a computer would serve the same purpose and it was otherwise pointless. She seems to have really embraced this concept. Social media is a sin of mine, though. Reddit is okay though?
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 03:14 PM
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I often think they just want to externalize their unhappiness on others.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 02:11 PM
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Feminism: women have agency to agree with them, or else they are mentally ill. Totally Progressive! Men have the agency to add agree with them, or they are evil. Such a great philosophy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 02:04 PM
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Out of curiosity, what parts of the job most frustrate you? Long hours? Anxiety/stress? Etc.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 01:56 PM
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Is the housing market becoming more or less expensive where you live over time?
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 03:24 PM
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"Today this stereotype is distorted, it means a kind of girl idealistic, soft, old-fashioned, wearing vintage clothes, sentimental, poetic and subtle, living in her dreams… she has some difficulties to live in the contemporary world." I love that, oddly(?) enough. Being someone who has difficulty living in the modern world despite material success, the notion of the inner conflict of a spiritually natural self against the exterior pressures of a material and artificial world is everything that a…
/r/RedPillWives21/08/16 07:22 PM
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I don't think so, really. As they say, its important to consider who considers you younger as well - for example, a gentleman in his 60s may very well consider you to be younger and will be able to create a connection that he wouldn't be able to find in someone else. On a personal ancedote: I was deeply in love with a woman when I was in my teenage years and she was almost twenty years older - she simply behaved in a very feminine way, and by being so unabashed about it, she stood out to me. The…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:17 PM
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While Evola is a great writer and has many interesting ideas - and I read him quite a bit, I think its worthwhile to note that many of his ideas were essentially religious/spiritual in nature and not entirely practical. They are interesting as concept more than application, and probably not entirely relevant to this sub. I read him because he's interesting and I believe has a worthwhile viewpoint, but its utility is dubious. And by most notions, he takes things to an extreme that's entertaining …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:04 PM
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My only concern is whether there are long-term risks from it, otherwise I think its not an issue at all. My wife additionally warns that a few people can become "addicted to the knife" so there is that risk too. Otherwise, I think the same as most of the others here, I think: if it isn't harming anyone and it helps you look better, why not?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 02:04 PM
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I've explained in my other reply.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 11:51 PM
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Hahah. Its that in cultures where social pressure/context is already so important, its much harder for an feminist identity group to suddenly gain the reins of power as it did in the West. In essence, SJWs argue for a kind of harmony - but Confucian culture is already about harmony. So by already being focused on that to some extent, its very difficult for SJWs to find further root, and they face much more effective barriers through the indirect conflict method - prevents them from playing victi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 11:44 PM
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I think its the financial stability part that might be a large portion of it; I'm not sure. For what it is worth, I married my wife when she was 19 after living together for one year, and we managed it pretty well. I'm quite a bit older, but while we were stable, we were nothing like being prosperous until the last two years(after being married for 5 years). For me, anyway, it helped to understand that people can grow together too and compromise to make the relationship blossom. This also requir…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 02:58 PM
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I'm Chinese and one of the jokes I've heard is that we're post-SJWism. We've already reached maximum realistic consensual based behavior. I find it promising that accomplished women there rarely seem to be trying to push a feminist agenda, simply want to live their lives as normal without inference. This is even more rare in China, and makes me suspect that democracies give identity groups enormous power that more meritocratic(or networking Confucian?) governments do not.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 02:46 PM
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I would be very, very scared. I've had to deal with SJWs before and they can be horrifying to the notion of any dissent. For simply disagreeing with one, and not even directly(I was part of a traditional group), the following things happened to me: Doxxed They attempted to get me fired I was now apparently a "rapist" Harassment online Possibly put on a blacklist Its honestly very frightening being traditional at all these days. Now, I'm male, so it might be worse, but I've been exceedingly paran…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 09:56 PM
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Hilarious, the new political correctness is that women can't be liberated to be RPW. Its funny and sad.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 09:49 PM
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I feel like its one of those things where you have to set clear boundaries to him. Unfortunately, drugs basically can take over a person - my wife has accused, jokingly, of video games stealing the relationship from her. Drugs can do the same, in a much more extensive and irreversible way.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 01:43 PM
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You do come off as a bit intimidating - as a man, I would have to work with some difficulty to find out how to justify how I could be "the hero" to you, if I found you attractive, etc. I suspect like a lot of traditional men, I feel very competitive and it would be a pain if mentally I felt threatened at home. That said, it seems like I could feel fine if you didn't out earn me as well. Its just that vulnerability is very attractive. Conversely, it feels like safety from this side.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 01:20 PM
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I am a little confused - you like in a conservative country but introductions are considered in poor taste? Interesting, though unfortunate. Is church an option? From what you said, I think I can guess the country. A awkward middle between tradition and modernity it is. Fwiw, I was a square who didn't drink or anything. People should never trust me ;)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 08:28 PM
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Imo it sounds like you both need to take it a bit slower, perhaps. I make over 100k and have over a million in assets for a variety of reasons, but I have found overwhelming myself results is a net loss in health and mental care(often this is direct loss of liquid assets, heath care in the US is killer for cost). For me, I only think I can manage my 80-100 hour weeks because my wife barely works and thus can be emotionally available when I need her to be. I couldn't imagine trying to have her de…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 03:33 PM
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I am not sure if this will work with fairly feminist tendencies, but I have been in a situation vaguely similar. It sounds like there are other factors, though, in yours. In my case, I was glad that that my wife was generally supportive. She was naturally anti-feminist, though, and simply did the housework as expected, with a few exceptions which she said were the boy's duty, but she organized it so I could do them all at once. She wanted attention so she suggested things to do on the weekend to…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 01:22 PM
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It sounds like you're being very hard on yourself. Perhaps a start would be to yes, forgive yourself, appreciate that you're human with your flaws, and gently move on from there. The first person to be pleasant to is to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 11:03 PM
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BP has done very well in making the world largely worse for me, though I'm sure many of them intend well. Somewhere, they got lost in the anger and bitterness and decided that smashing things was worth it, for its own sake, because smashing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 11:01 PM
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I would say no and tell him that is his job :p and pepper spray.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 07:45 PM
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Seeing people escape the Matrix always makes me happy :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 07:24 PM
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Not sure if it helps, but I am Chinese as well as culturally, leaving someone is not as acceptable as in the West. We try to be responsible and all, and it would be pretty face losing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 04:33 PM
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Technically I'm one of those men who are in your field who make more money, been doing this since I was 17 or so, though. To me, since I'm very traditional, I would have found you to be actually rather intimidating and would intuitively feel the need to compete against you. I don't think that its a myth that love exists; its something that people build up to, however. I think ultimately you just have to make someone feel that they are valued and important, speaking to all of the secret insecurit…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 11:50 PM
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I think its amazing that you have that. Its rare enough now to see a couple actually want to make things work and plan for a future that isn't glorious yolo.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 08:13 PM
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I married my wife when she was 19 and I was 25. Many years have passed and things seen more than fine. We basically skipped anything more than a trivial ceremony though, as we were busy trying to survive. We made it well.enough in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 08:06 PM
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Just offhand: I work in a technical field. With your credentials, couldn't you get a job working from home? The pay could be significant, and you would be able to be around to get all domestic tasks done as well.
/r/RedPillWives12/08/16 09:32 PM
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I've actually heard that a lot of men, especially tech types, use dating sites because they're less comfortable with normal social interaction. I met my wife online - though not through a dating site: through gaming :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 02:04 AM
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No worries about the essay. I ramble quite a bit myself as well. That is exactly it - you likely don't need two people doing the exact same thing, especially as it'll inevitably for men generate a sense of competition. I truly do believe that being a homemaker(and craftmaker and other home economic tasks) is as difficult as a challenge as having a work life outside - and if you do enjoy being a source of comfort and logistics, its a good guarantee that its something that you'll be able to do wel…
/r/RedPillWives11/08/16 02:00 AM
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Polka dot dresses sound awesome. I haven't seen one in awhile.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 05:39 PM
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No problem. Well, the saying goes that "Women labor with beauty, men labor with strength." Its an idealized traditional outlook. In practice, most poor women even in the past worked at home or a little bit around. Even before mass production, for example, yarn was still being spun, clothes were still being made, and the like as its even referred to in the Bible. Nonetheless, the ideal obviously was not to labor and this was certainly accomplished with the aristocratic women - in extreme examples…
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 05:33 PM
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This depends if his child is named Jon Snow...
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 01:13 PM
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I let my wife decide on money mostly - she is attached to it in ways that I am not and in East Asian tradition, its somewhat traditional. I call her a money cat :) I don't think it makes me cease to lead, just specializing her home economic status. I don't feel too threatened by it and she seems to feel more secure that I won't randomly give away a thousand. Again. At the end of the day, if insisted on it, she would let me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 01:10 PM
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I wouldn't like my girl to have more of an education than myself, but otherwise its a net neutral. I might unfairly prioritize education as status, however. Fwiw, a large part of who I am with was her demand that she would never have to work. I found that both a challenge and deeply attractive.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 05:59 AM
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I think its fine. We all make mistakes - the important part is realizing it and becoming better than who we were.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:56 AM
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I believe that you might have misunderstood the notion of RPW. No path would work if it primarily created unhappiness in half of its group; indeed, it would be hard enough to imagine how it could ever become "societally acceptable" regardless of any assumption of power - as the saying goes, government only exists at the consent of the governed. Tradition works largely because for many, it makes everyone pretty happy. Others can explain it better than me, but its much more focused on the idea on …
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/16 04:01 AM
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Your concern is very valid. After 30, the odds of birth defects increase dramatically too.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 08:37 PM
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Thank you very much!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 05:13 PM
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Brilliantly said. The very fact that he is showing that they are not one uniform block is, if anything, an amazing example of diversity. I do feel that even as they try to suppress, though, they're also increasing the backlash to a healthy level.
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 12:48 AM
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https://verusconditio.wordpress.com/ "On the Rock"
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 05:53 AM
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Hi. I actually stumbled here from a blog. I am happily married in a traditional relationship but have been worried that my children will be in a toxic atmosphere. I've been worried that I'm the only one who still feels that this world isn't quite right. I'm glad to find a place like this. I intend to lurk a lot. PS: A little bit more about me... Parents were not traditional, I grew up reading about the past and decided that I would avoid their mistakes. Focused on finding a girl who was traditio…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 05:04 AM
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I feel like that study is nonsense. I've been in a very happy relationship specifically not looking for someone smarter than me, so I could feel more stable and in control.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 04:24 AM
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I would be very adamant on it. However, why not add it to your middle name? That should be okay.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 04:18 AM
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I think you could easily convey that simply by telling him that whatever decision that he comes up with, you're happy about because he made the decision. Its very flattering to hear sometimes for me - always makes me go back and say, "Oh,no, that's not the important part" but it very much reassures me that even if I make the "wrong" choice, its probably fine.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 04:17 AM
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