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Dude this shit in particular pisses me off. I was talking to coworkers, both women, about this and how I’m wanting to make more money at work because I could actually afford shit. The next day they were talking about how it’s pathetic if someone complains about money because you could just get into a relationship to share the burdens, and you’re even more pathetic if you can’t do that. And these are liberal leaning younger women who are very well aware of the fucked financial situation people ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:30 AM
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“Become less anxious”. “Just don’t be depressed”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:16 PM
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I liken it to the following. People think socially struggling men are like, all predators who spend Friday nights on the dark web dismembering puppies for 5$ a pop. In reality they’re probably just playing video games on Friday nights while feeling perpetually left out and belittled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:48 PM
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Your apparent idea for the Ukrainian men is to just bootstrap their way out of the frontlines, when the government policy is literally to be forced to stay there. Maybe that’s not blaming them- but why wouldn’t such apathy simply enable the further systemic subjugation of them? Of course we’re all powerless in this whole Russia vs Ukraine, but to just flippantly be dismissive isn’t being at all charitable or empathetic and has every reason to provoke contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:21 PM
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Men can’t be blamed for the factors in the system that subjugate them. We don’t control the world as individuals. Leftist Vaush recently addressed this issue. Individual men don’t control the standards by which we are governed or raised- to act as if we do literally only further disenfranchises individual men who are already getting bent over by the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:55 PM
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Np. Tbf there’s like 8 “Majin Vegeta speeches” in the whole arc so to describe it that way is pretty vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:10 PM
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https://youtu.be/ePEmIMp2etA Just heads up, I never post links to Reddit and am on mobile. I just copy/pasted the link so if that doesn’t work I’m sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:11 PM
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Meh, the original Majin Vegeta speech is better than the Kai one. Personal preference though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:38 PM
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I’d argue they’re simply more holistic and all encompassing. Which passively demands perfection from many not-naturally-perfect men (yes, chads if you wanna say it that way) which first off means it’s unlikely to happen at all, then second off, the perfectionistic culture being thrown in mens faces so bombastically means some just nope-out before even really trying, which is hella easy to justify doing with “those who only accept perfection are the least deserving of other, harmlessly-imperfect …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:15 PM
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Bruh I was gonna say this too. In most of my years, me even liking a girl (now woman since I’m 26) has been grounds for people “coming at me” so to say. I won’t even have to even talk to her- it’s as if I’m ethereally branded with “not allowed to like women” from the start. And even upon asking for help in the past, the only answers I’ve gotten reinforce this idea more and more. It gets so tiring out there, not to mention the additive nature of insecurity and how it just gets worse and worse. To…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:17 PM
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Even as a socially anxious 26m, I actually don’t. I simply expect everyone around the 2 us to cause a ruckus since that’s what has always happened for me. And given how much I absolutely despise being anything resembling the center of attention, this inhibits me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:45 PM
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Strawman. I doubt every guy who identifies with “uses porn in place of sex” would rather jerk off than be with a woman. Im sure there’s addicts out there and freaks of nature but that’s the exception not the rule, I highly, highly suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:54 PM
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That’s not rocket science. What is, is people endlessly justifying giving “do nothings” and “boring losers” absolutely nothing out of life, meanwhile serial killers just take and get what they want as a result, so they literally get more from society than the boring losers do. That’s the rocket science that people don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:02 AM
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This, this might be some of the top content on the sub. So much of that cuts deep- a feeling I already know all too well. The part about feeling like a plaything that gets tossed aside once people get bored of you is terrifyingly accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:38 AM
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Yup. I don’t get it either, and by now have no interest in trying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:20 AM
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Yes it pisses me off too. When do I get to start arbitrarily limiting what they are allowed to have as hobbies? Cause as of now I get, rightfully so, dogpiled and shit on for it. But they get to just….. not let men do things we like doing….. because it doesn’t give them the tingles when they ask us about our own hobbies? Definitely not part of the reason men give up, because everyone just looooves arbitrary limits to their personal freedom I guess. I couldn’t imagine even wanting to limit my lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:43 PM
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Ironically we became too good at listening and now entered a gray area of “malicious compliance” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:38 AM
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So perfection then. Literally just before, but more. And more enough that it’s socially observable that you have to do way more than people who are still alive. Literally just the boomer economy but for dating. Men in 1960- make a households worth of income off a typical factory job, which you could drop out of HS and still get. 2022 and on- work 80 hours a week at a wage statically less than 1974 to barely be able to survive, after going to college. I mean, I know it works like that, I have kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:11 PM
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Enlightened af and truly Free Will pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:48 PM
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“Weirdo who treats the waiter like shit” Can we like, pretty please, stop saying it like this? It’s BAD AND ASSHOLEISH to do this, not weird. Being weird is not (or rather, shouldn’t be) a condemnation unless it’s materially harmful. Also, people will go on to describe other traits as weird that are kinda weird (I’ll admit, being asocial is prolly kinda weird, but no one gets hurt), and it gets caught up in this stereotype. It’s how we have a situation where behavioral symptoms of things like so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:35 AM
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Point 2 has a breaking point, it can only be stressed so much before you begin to moreso provoke mass amounts of hopelessness and whatever behavioral consequences come with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:07 PM
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I mean, humans operate on perception for almost everything having to do with social interaction. This is no surprise- humans are rarely creatures of pure rationale. Unfortunately it’s how we evolved and evidently a curse as well as a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:10 PM
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Personally, I’d be more worried, if I were a woman, about AI generators being able to “undress women” from the point of having a normal picture of them doing whatever tf. Any pic you post on IG can become “nudified” by anyone who decides to click “save to photos”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:12 PM
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Ngl, when I’ve IRL ran into people who empathized with the idea, I just fancy them more. Don’t just assume every guy who’s alone is a raging misogynist with a big mouth. Quite the contrary- some of us have such little mouths that they’re practically closed shut and as they say, closed mouths don’t get fed. That’s natural of course, so part of the solution is also not stigmatizing being a guy who struggles to date. Because that’s just another roadblock, if you naturally isolate yourself already, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:58 AM
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It’s a snowballing effect too. First, you’re rejected for something stupid like you talk funny or have a big nose or your mom sends you to school in weird clothes. Then it’s because you’re “weird” in middle and high school, and now it’s “you’re inexperienced so nobody wants to help you, and you aren’t entitled to being given chances”. This is where the very fatalistic “it was over before it began” sentiment comes from, or at least it was for me. From there you either learn to concrete self respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:44 AM
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It’s just another instance of thinking something is bullshit, and instead of toppling the standard, they turn it into an expectation for everyone and lambast those who actually just say fuck the standard. Crabs in a bucket really, can’t make things better? Make it suck more for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:41 AM
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I don’t even compliment at all anymore. Can’t avoid feeing guilty over it- I know my urge to compliment them is only present because they are doing something I like them doing, and not doing that doesn’t warrant the punishment of not complimenting them. So I get stuck either complimenting everyone for everything, or nobody for anything ever. And being uninteresting and having to tend to my own needs 99% of the time, I simply don’t have the time to find a consequential part of everybody to compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:42 PM
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On a basis of “frequency vs intensity” it’s definitely the worst when it’s as bad as it’s able to be. It will be an instant death note if it’s bad enough, whilst physically disabled people could still find a very caring individual who also is attracted to them in a way that makes them wanna be their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:03 PM
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Byyyyeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:47 PM
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Yea I can’t even talk to you, you think it’s personal when it isn’t, you define “boring” as totally different, there’s literally no ground to gain here. Other people don’t define my value, they can change it, but they’ll never make it 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:39 PM
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Okay so you think these guys are literally thinking “hmm, how can I be so boring that everyone doesn’t like me?”. Explains a lot when you say it like that. You can’t even imagine this person not living a boring life because it goes against your own ideas so hard. What happens when this person tries to be passionate and share things but is only met with disdain? Would you still say they “isolate themselves”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:09 PM
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Okay but how would you treat someone like that? Or would you just isolate and exclude them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:50 PM
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Think you missed the part where he’s happy to do that. And then did exactly what the comment said to boot, implicitly shamed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:39 PM
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Oh yes, little ol me at 25 has given the stamp of approval for all these things and thus have it coming when it fucks me in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:24 PM
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Probably easy to tell who I’m going as haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:34 PM
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Considering how much randomness plays into everyone’s lives to begin with there’s an argument to be made there. You could get a number based on the total amount of profiles within your range, and every profile is then given equal odds to being the next one you see, so if there’s 1,000 available then everyone has a .1% chance of being next, numbers being arbitrary of course. Every new swipe would slightly decreases the pool which then slightly increases the odds of the remaining ones. It’ll shift…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:54 PM
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I literally do not care about the state of your vagina lest it be literally fatal to you. In which case you’d have my bare minimum sympathies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:13 AM
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Nope that’s actually not my point either. Point being that it’s humans willfully excluding you vs you literally being too stupid to function on an objective level outside social perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:09 AM
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Yup I had this same exact conversation this morning, and ended up getting a race bait comment in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:33 AM
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That’s sexual selection. Natural selection is you going into the Pacific Northwest without a 12ga and bear spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:32 AM
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This is how I’ve felt about it for a while. I’m not doing Jack shit until people start to acknowledge it more, and not in overtly harsh ways like currently. I’m different from other “black pillers” (I still hate that term and calling myself it) in that way, I know it’s possible and easy for me if I want. But it’s not worth it currently knowing the kinds of people who largely wait for me on the other side. I’ll wait and have my couple of friends who aren’t like that in the meantime, I’ll be fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:23 AM
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Seems idealistic to me honestly. Not every single guy who is in a situation where others deem that ideal would want it. In which case they’ll swiftly be told to either change who they are (only the right people get to want certain things) or accept their fate, that’s the trend now and I don’t see it changing, as both progressive leftists and conservatives generally follow this line of thinking just in different forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:33 PM
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Yea I’m done here you’re not even listening. I’ll keep only giving my time to people who are actually decent and refuse to meaningfully talk to anyone with your sentiment, and god knows you’re all over the place. It’s like trying to convince republicans of climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:12 PM
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I’d agree with that, I was mostly joking (Doom is just in the other extreme from animal crossing, except for the Slayer/Isabelle memes that were 12/10) anyway. I would only say that someone who plays Doom has a good chance to be playing games for different reasons than someone who plays animal crossing, but I’d bet those 2 would have different irl interests at the same time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:27 PM
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I’m not being elitist I’m just fucking around, sorry if I did seem that way. I worked at a small tech company of all 18-25yos when I was 19-22 so I know that plenty of girls like games and I left another reply somewhere about my old MMO guild having women who were really good. I still have met women who are clearly anti-gaming, but then also guys like HAmZa sound like they’d genocide gamers if they could so men are equally if not more guilty in the extremes (no I don’t think he actually just wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:23 PM
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I literally, specified that that isn’t the case you clearly can’t or chose not to read. Not every person in the prison system are guilty at any given moment, so think of it like that. You do too, but you basically say “well, fuck them all, gotta make sure the bad ones get what they deserve. If guys who are just awkward get mislabeled and mistreated, that’s alright with me.” In spirit of that video on r/facepalm of the British guy walking into that fitness vloggers livestream, “go back to school”…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:11 PM
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I love how people are just walking into The Brave New World head on lmfao. I’ll be forced to come with and it’ll suck, I just find it amusing as fuck. Only the right people get to desire the right things, send everyone else to reservations and give them names like John the Savage and treat them like zoo animals until they Kill themselves or just naturally die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:52 AM
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Yea my old MMO guild was like this. We had plenty of women, our best healer was one and also our 2nd string tank and tanks are almost always guys haha. Then there were a couple who weren’t as good, but tried to police behavior. Guess who stopped getting invited to raids and who kept getting to come?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:46 AM
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If someone tries to compare candy crush to Doom Eternal you better bet that’s not gonna fly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:44 AM
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I mean, go fuckin wild with this if you want, nobody will actually stop you. Just don’t say anything about caring about the innocent, because in this instance you’re totally willing to throw the innocent, truly “just socially awkward and not actually morally questionable” men to the fucking wolves, if it means you get to punish the few actually horrible people amongst he group of “male social outcasts”. You’re willing to cast a wide net if it means you get to punish the guilty, even if some inno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:15 AM
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Forever Alone was always my personal distinction. At least on the fly, but if I have time I usually straight up differentiate Incel from Involuntarily Celibate, since in a technical sense they’re not even the same thing because nothing in “involuntarily celibate” is a noun, yet Incel gets used as one regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:48 AM
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Thanks, I was low key excited to put it on once I thought of it lol, both plays on the actual pill terminology and actually relates to my irl personality in a very niche way. Plan on keeping it for the indefinite future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:08 AM
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Yea I’m sorry this was my best shot lol. Between the “this topic literally does not matter so any and all data doesn’t matter either” and stupid general 80/20 talk, amongst what I’ve heard that was the more detailed analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:25 PM
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I’m sure there’s plenty of sexual casanovas who simply aren’t socially savvy enough to find themselves there in the first place. If you aren’t someone women will think is good enough to have sex with in theory, no amount of tongue or finger skills will be able to magically put you in her bed with her ready to go, and trying to directly incorporate that into a conversation seems super pervy if I’m being honest. This is why I find the universal “if you aren’t having sex, it’s cause you suck at it”…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:15 PM
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Hmm, idk how I even feel about this one lol. I feel like I kinda take your point and think “huh. I kinda do that lol” but I think it’s not the way you’d like. Yes, I will enjoy the decline. I’ll play video games because they’re available, use pr0n (sorry, I just find that spelling with an imagined British accent to be hilarious, pr0n, lol) because it’s available, and smoke weed because it’s now legal. If I die earlier than “necessary” due to whatever bad shit ends up going down, at least I spent…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:02 PM
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Steve Irwin is always the proper answer to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:39 AM
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I can’t cite the research exactly but I’ve heard the same general concept be asserted by multiple people from different political backgrounds who regularly speak about this. Apparently the breakdown is more or less, -bottom 50-60% of sex-having men have a slightly to significantly less total amount of sex partners than in the past. Middle 30-40% of “male sex havers” are around the same amount of partners as before. Top 1-2% is having 20-30% more partners since 2008. And that the amount of men re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:49 AM
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Hannibal-pilled as they say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:33 AM
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You will pry Doom Eternal from my cold lifeless fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:03 PM
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Isn’t like 50% of the general age group between those ages living at home though? And you wanna know the most hilarious shit too? In my friend group there’s almost archetypes of characters. One works FT and lives alone, one works FT and lives at home still, one works FT with his own house and I work FT with roommates. Wanna know who cleans up the most? Dude living at home because he drives a nice car since he can afford it not paying rent and bills. You can have your opinion, but even as more of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:40 AM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:12 PM
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Bingo. People of all views can come together on this one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:08 PM
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They also probably generally don’t care about not living as long because there’s nothing to live for anyway. I know that’s what I’ve accepted- Climate Change isnt exactly gonna leave behind a very preferable world anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:16 PM
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Humans affecting culture which in turn affects humans. The eternal cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:09 PM
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Because the ones with them can speak to the fact that their attempts to make them feel accepted, sucked dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:32 PM
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I’ve a feeling Psychopaths have less intrinsic desire for legitimate social acceptance though. Social acceptance is a means to them, not an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:29 PM
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Yes it goes beyond the typical “dont want me at my worst don’t deserve me at my best” nonsense. It’s more like “at my worst, where dark ass thoughts were regular, y’all pointed and laughed, and even when I was doing alright you just projected suffering onto me for your own satisfaction. I don’t even want anything to do with you now, no matter how well or poorly I’m doing.” This is of course interpreted as someone who’s already undesirable giving up, but by then I’ve dumped any credit I gave thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:49 AM
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I’m 25, knew I was gonna be in for a rough ride since I was 16 though. I just don’t really do or try to do shit- the world happens to me as I helplessly sit by, and judge it because that’s all I can do. I have a job that I give zero fucks about, and am gonna job hop again soon. Even if a pretty girl talks to me I fuck it up, and that’s what started me down this direction. Idk if my friends realize I’ve given up or not, I think they might because they don’t even ask me to go to bars or stuff anym…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:01 AM
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Idk what you mean with “By that statement you lose” I didn’t even say any of that lol maybe I’ve implied some of it in some different comments but here I’m just saying you’re being ignorant to state that men can just decide to date men. It’s easier to just eternally repress your sexuality than to change it, and neither are likely to be healthy. That is the only fact I’m contending, what you’re talking about doesn’t change that even if it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:35 AM
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You’re just openly being hypocritical though. Unless you think sexual orientation is universally fluid in all humans in which case you’re even more ignorant than you’d be hypocritical in the other one. Lose-lose for you on this one, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:45 AM
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For certain men, likely never. People and even they don’t care about themselves enough for their suffering to be meaningful in the first place. I’ve accepted being one of them, just count myself lucky I was born in the 90s and grew up in the 21st century with all the cool tech to distract myself. I get that embracing it isn’t everyone’s cup of tea so I make no judgements how people react to this reality when they accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:10 AM
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I find it so much easier to just do me and enjoy it when I’m not being hounded by the masses. I would just ignore it all the time but it’s entered an observer-effect kind of thing where I know even if I ignore it for a week or however long, it’s not like it isn’t still happening just because I don’t look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:45 PM
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I legit just don’t have a lot of fun socializing, quantitatively or qualitatively. I only go out if invited which never happens anymore but that’s alright. And when I rarely do it’s just awkward and feels forced so that makes it impossible to enjoy. It also feels like people don’t just don’t want to talk to you when you’re awkward, now it seems as if they’re legit disgusted by you. Maybe that’s just the vibe I’m getting though. Last time I had a bunch of fun socializing I had to take a couple Xa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:40 PM
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Men with low SE are probably more aggressive partly because men with low SE are also seen as socially untouchable on a holistic level, whereas women with low SE aren’t really, even said by you with “they just have lots of sex”. They couldn’t do that if men found them as untouchable because of low SE. The “10/10” stuff was just me being overly silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:38 AM
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So by default men with low self esteem have to more often perpetually exist in a state of higher deprivation- they can’t even have sex to help get over it. So men get more deprived of life’s pleasures and treasures of all kinds for having low self esteem but women don’t. That definitely doesn’t have anything to do with what drives the more aggressive behavior. An inherently lower behavioral bar, as far as “are you allowed to be social with other people” is concerned. Balanced, 10/10 would play a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:21 AM
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You can make custom flairs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:00 PM
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It’s purely sentimental so it just means whatever you want it to, which is technically better than advice aimed to hurt those who listen to it. To me that means I’ll unapologetically enjoy my hobbies even if they’re rather sedentary, and if you don’t like that, that’s not my problem to solve. You don’t have to like or associate with me, but I also won’t enjoy people, unprovoked, casting large scale very negatively-toned social judgements towards me or people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:28 PM
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Huh, I guess Ted Bundy had desirable DNA and Isaac Newton didn’t. How’s that for nihilistic commentary on the collective preferences of humanity, and our judgement of our own preferences? A world full of Newtons would be so much more vastly preferable to one full of Bundys that it isn’t even worth getting into as it’s so damn obvious. But even when confronted with this most people will go all Just-World to justify it and hand wave away any negative conclusions one could draw from thinking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:35 PM
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Not really that much to get into, he hit the car so my first comment wasn’t the full picture he didn’t kill anyone. He is now an ex friend, so I haven’t heard much of him since. Already had one DUI where he was just swerving around and got pulled over, and then my friend texted me one night around 1230-1am saying “yo X just got another DUI and this time he actually hit another car” and it turned out to be an older lady. Absolutely remorseless and doesn’t regret anything, and didn’t tell any of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:22 PM
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I mean, kinda yea lol. The only responses I’ve ever gotten irl is “you’re not the kinda guy girls like, just stop worrying and jerk off” and “don’t ever ask me for advice about this again.” And online you can only get empathy sometimes on occasion, in spaces specifically catering to caring about the issue. Honestly I think it’s leftover social expectations around “venting vs brain storming”. People assume men are after solutions not just wanting to vent, so they approach it that way and skip ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:14 PM
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In my case it was the guy who drunk drives and hits grandma instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:38 AM
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It’s both continual personal experiences and across people I know and girls finding out an ex friend had DUIs but didn’t care about those or him lying about it. But yea this is where I’ll stop, saying it like that “you’re being too micro” yea you’re right. Not in the best “PPD mood” right now for sure. I’ve even lost sight of the original issue so I’m gonna go look now and I’ll probably cringe from how off topic I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:03 PM
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I’m not dictating or trying to (I literally can’t so there’s no point in trying) I’m merely stating “hmm, dishonesty is worse than anxiety? Interesting”.” and people read into it like you did, again. And yea, I know that. I know to date, you have to beckon to every call everyone makes of you, rendering you barely an individual anymore beyond your traits. I am also, not interested in that, I am me, nobody else, and I get to control that. Oh, my hair is not exactly how you think it should look? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:30 PM
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Ahhh, so yes, being anxious<being a liar. I’ll make sure to remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:09 PM
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Criteria itself doesn’t matter. The fact that lying or driving drunk doesn’t shake them off of the standards, but me stuttering and being anxious does, is just shitty and to me says it’s just all only looks based even though I refuse to believe that, ever. Is it that lying is part of the criteria, or is it that it’s such a small infraction that it gets ignored? If it’s just part of it then holy shit it’s worse than I thought, but if it’s the other option then that’s still pretty shite ngl. But h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:59 PM
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Yea yea, people can do what they want, including not living up to their own standards they try to set for themselves. Not like I already knew that or anything. So far, lying and being a multiple DUI having PoS, haven’t been “valid” reasons for men I’ve known. Being anxious and stuttering though, very much and very often. Just wish the rejections happened more along the former lines and not the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:15 PM
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I mean, people who talk like you are also perfectly capable of rejecting men on premise of being a loser because he can’t amass wealth in a system you, in the same breath, acknowledge as broken. And I’ve seen plenty of that for you being a potential exception to not really make me care if you are one of them or not. So many girls say the system is broken, but happily ignore and shit on the men who get broken by that system.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:26 PM
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Someone who gets upset about being projected on isn’t mad for the reason that is being projected. They get taunted lightly, and when they give any pushback you all rev up the gas and go full “lol entitled loser LOL”. And yes, I do believe this is how it nearly always goes down. Someone like that enters, is “shit tested” more or less and if they push back, you all pretend it’s definitely because they were just bitter to begin with and had nothing to do with how they get treated, largely yes, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:15 PM
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Buddy, this is reserved for the anxious and the awkward. The liars will keep lying, and getting further as a result than the guy who either can’t or chooses not to lie but is awkward so he has no choice but to “wear it on his sleeve” so to say. I just think it’s commentary on a shitty situation so I point it out and let people have at it. I’ve already judged those who, in practical terms, target anxious men first and liars second, as unworthy of my time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:57 PM
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That supermarket can be out of Pepsi, because a Pepsi fanatic lives down the street and constantly buys them out and you don’t get to choose anymore, nor can/did you control that Pepsi and Coke even exist to begin with. Don’t go asserting Free Will on such little amount of information. Not even for a little individual scenario because no such thing exists at this point in human history- we are too steeped in causality to escape it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:13 PM
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This can also just mean they vote for Republicans out of spite and nothing legislative happens regarding Climate Change until we get to the point that only direct action will help, because we spent 2010-2035 in a stew of pure political tribalism. The fact this is always taken as to mean they’ll go and shoot people is also very telling. Not only is that just cruel, but it’s antithetical to solving anything about it. I would know because my brother once seriously asserted that my virgin friend was…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:27 PM
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Doesn’t this give way for circular reasoning? If it’s someone else’s job to change because someone else says so and is “fed up”, what happens when the target group is fed up with the other side being fed up? Who is it on then? You see where this goes right? Technically you already do, because it’ll bring you right back here, since that’s what circular reasoning does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:09 PM
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Liars meet and exceed the bar regularly. Awkward men who can’t or don’t leverage dishonestly for personal gain, don’t. Think about that, and empathize with what that might feel like to an awkward guy. Then you might start to understand where some of the frustration comes from. You think realizing that by the worlds standards, Ted Bundy is more desirable than you, is fun? Hell to the No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:24 PM
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Nobody wants Brave New World though. Change and growth is possible, it’s just a matter of incentives and circumstances. Just because a guy isn’t a natural doesn’t mean he should just get emotionally and psychologically castrated. You’re starting to sound like FDS, minus the literal castration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:24 AM
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Guys who are awkward did nothing wrong either. The men that condition women to be docile and not approach men, and men who actively lie and deceive women and then hurt them are the ones who “need” to change in so far as “need” means “should change first” because of course ideally awkward guys change too, it’s just telling that you focus on them, the ones who don’t get attention at all and are probably already feeling like shit, rather than the ones who lie and deceive to get with women and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:18 AM
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Men haven’t exactly been actively conditioned, to any degree, to be healthy emotional communicators with women, really ever until now. The, lets call it “generational social infrastructure”- stuff that help pass healthy ideas from one generation to the next, doesn’t exist for it. Young men of today still have plenty of grandpas and some fathers who at best won’t encourage it and at worst actively shame it, so expecting it to be such a universal skill for men in the span of 20-30 years, in the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:56 PM
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Yea, it’s tooootally men who objectify women though. With an analogy like that, I know you’re just projecting. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:36 PM
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You clearly can’t relate with the degree of hopelessness these men feel. They actually think it’s impossible in many instances. Hark and bark at them hard enough and eventually they see your loss as their win, and it’s all downhill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:28 AM
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I always say “American Gun Culture+explicit in your face polygamy=a bad time” for this reason. Better hope your gun control legislation actually works, I say that begrudgingly as someone who would vote for such measures, but they aren’t cure-alls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:24 AM
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1 drunk driver and you’re donzo son. Whether it’s “good luck” or “avoiding bad luck”, it’s always probability that favored you at every living nanosecond up to the point of talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:29 AM
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That still falls under “isn’t possible” in my book. And I’ve lost count of the times I’ve seen RP people condescend towards Black pillers about how it’s not impossible it’s just hard. I was just going for an even more general description, going off of just my own ideas without thinking about what others consider BP, that’s what I get from it. Details aside, on a personal basis, the presented obstacles (whether looks or personality) are either insurmountable, not worth it, or some obscure, anecdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:40 PM
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I’ve always perceived the differences as basically RP believes individual level solutions are both possible and worth pursuing. Black has the same general ideas but rejects either one or both of the assertions that it’s possible or that it’s worth it. For what reasons are where you get to the individual level even though they’re often generally similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:08 PM
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Arguably the number is lower now too, with more overall people around to add. The internet allows you to congregate in a way that lightly resembles a small village with a physical proximity. To get say, 1000 sexless men together 3000 years ago there’d have to be TONS of them for that many to happen to be in the same spot to form a congregation. Now? 50 in 20 different major cities across continents can make a 1000 member forum where they talk and discuss like they would in the above described vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:11 PM
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You can “have the personality of a piece of cardboard” without being an asshat at the same time. Idk why it’s become this constantly repeated mantra that we include explicit or implicit descriptions of someone who’s simply boring, with things we find morally detestable. Sure, boring people aren’t the greatest. But putting them in the camps they often get put into is worse than being boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:07 PM
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Christ almighty. And here I was, thinking the whole “who has burden of proof when making claims” was over and done with after the new atheist movement of the early 2010s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:04 PM
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I’ve held most of the shitty men I used to be friends with accountable, I cut them out of my life. But now I’m a just lonely PoS (cause obviously you’re only alone because you’re a PoS, duh, /s) to the same people who tell me I need to hold them accountable. I swear sometimes you just want us to shoot these guys and go to jail over it, we can’t do much more than what social leverage we have and leverage it against them. And yes, because of the world we live in, anxious and awkward guys don’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:38 AM
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At this point it’s just more controlling to me. Women can spend 4 hours a week in the gym and that’s enough for plenty of men and they get the rest of their 164 hours/week to themselves. For Women though? Gym time, social time, “proper hobby” (not nerd hobbies) time, it literally eats up more of a % time of your existing and waking hours in this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:38 AM
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“If you don’t pass one, you’re just as undesirable as someone who doesn’t pass all 15”. This is always what makes me decide not to even try to date. I’m a little anxious or awkward and next thing I’m as unattractive as a guy who talks about dismembering yelping puppies just for fun. Cause ya know, I don’t tick all the boxes and neither does he, but that makes us equals in the eyes of women. You cannot tell me that isn’t a “bruh moment”. But hey, Ted Bundy had women loving him after he was proven…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:37 AM
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Absolutely none of that contends with the arguments Harris has against Free Will. I can tell just by how you said “rock bottom” as if that’s some type of objective measurement for everyone. You’d have worse rock bottom if you say, lived in the Middle East under a very tyrannical dictatorship. And you didn’t get to just choose to not have that be your fate, just like those who do suffer in that exact way didn’t choose to make that their situation either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:05 PM
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Precisely my point. I’m my own worst enemy and you all still are just condescending asses almost every time. Why would I bother rearranging and rewiring my own psychology for people like you? Because you’ll isolate me until I change my ways or die? That just makes me feel even more assured that I’m making the right decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:30 PM
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I’m 25, go sky diving but still get massive anxiety about asking girls out. You’re exaggerating with that silly over the top comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:11 PM
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Humans aren’t able to create meritocracy. Get over yourselves. Not the money economy, or the dating economy. Ted Bundy got love letters. Ted Bundy literally got more love and admiration than lots of guys who are awkward and anxious nowadays. Bruh moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:47 AM
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Hmm, maybe if they actually felt hope when they looked at the world they wouldn’t be like that. Being endlessly told they’re the problem and have to conform to everyone else with basically no amount of self determination, doesn’t surprise me some would rather just not do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:45 AM
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It’s the type of stuff that causes true self esteem issues. “I don’t like myself because I’m fat” doesn’t compare in the amount of psychological damage as something like “I have everything they want and I’m still not good enough. It’s literally just my ‘ethereal essence’ that makes women never be attracted to me”. That ladies and gentlemen is what real self esteem issues look and sound like. It’s not that the external traits you possess cause the issue. You can do and have the same things/traits…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:17 PM
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Double texting or simply stuttering is indicative of a man who is toxic? TiL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:32 AM
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“Thousands die to try to gain social status, so we definitely shouldn’t be trying to actually stop that and just throw more people into the known meat-grinder”. Humans seeing social status as so important they advocate literally risking your life to gain it, so sadistically and masochistically poetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:27 PM
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If those are the 2 choices at the point she made the choice to start dating guy #1, it’s totally plausible that she would in fact go to guy #2 instead. Because at that point the factors that had her deciding to stay with guy #1 over guy #2 haven’t materialized yet to create the idea of sunken cost. You’re presenting it like it’s “hmm, stay with my husband who I’ve started an enjoyable life with and even had children with, or start my life entirely over with this new guy who’s just slightly more …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:20 PM
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Which by the time you’ve accomplished all that, how much real “self determined destiny” have you had? You spent 167 out of the 168 hours of every week either sleeping working or doing hobbies and stuff that other people told you to (while holding the looming threat of social isolation over your head if you dare have “nerdy” hobbies or be too different), getting to claim 1/168 of your existing hours is not any type of win in any universe, to me anyway. Edited “too” to “to”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:45 PM
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Damn OP you’re like, very very much tip toeing around a point but missing it. It’s not necessarily just physical displays, it’s all of the above. Because everyone else is throwing shit at you I’ll be the one to give you benefit of the doubt, maybe you are just not thinking about it hard enough, it still will only be out of personal experience so take it with a grain of salt. I’ve had way more of my female coworkers seem interested in me than women do “in the wild”, and I think it’s because I’m j…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:43 PM
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Don’t worry dude my friend circle represents the same problem too. The 2 guys who always have girls liking them, 1 loves to spit on them during sex and talks bad about girls who don’t like it or react badly, and the other one has multiple ticks on his legal record. A guy who’s outgoing but able to sufficiently hide the fact he’s sometimes lying gets more positive interactions with women than guys who are kinda awkward but are essentially unable to leverage dishonesty for their own benefit, likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:08 PM
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As a guy who has lots of general social anxiety it just makes me feel systematically un-allowed to even like women. Because I’ll look then get too anxious to go and talk to them, but that makes them uncomfortable so I’m forced to just perpetually repress my own feelings out of fear for getting some non-zero amount of bullshit thrown my way over it. It’s really not a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:44 AM
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Why would I want to get with someone who thinks I’m totally untouchable unless I only have the hobbies they approve of? Isn’t that so controlling that I have a right to, I guess, “counter-judge” their judgment of me? We’re not talking about guys who like to dismember live kitten in their free time, we’re talking about fuckin video games for Christ sake. I mean hell, have you ever watched a guys hands when he’s playing a fast paced game? Those fingers can go for hours but because it doesn’t grant…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:27 PM
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That part was always sinister to me. It’s literally the collective saying “don’t wanna have to pay for girls drinks? Well you will one way or another!”. Total and borderline systematic exclusion of anyone who dares not agree with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:25 AM
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“Nothing but……” is what I specifically said. We’re all in line for the meat grinder, my statement was about the matter of who gets to at least not ONLY be that. Some get to have fun and then a lobster bake for their last meal , while others get whipped and worked to the bone on their way to eating a literal piece of shit for their last meal, while those who are getting to somewhat enjoy the trip out hoot and holler at them about being piece of shit, existentially insufficient human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:41 PM
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Evolution involves inherent randomness. Gravity, does not. Bad metaphor if someone has even a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:49 PM
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Both sides being shitty just makes it even worse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:52 PM
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Aka average men deserve nothing but to be fodder for economic and war machines until they die unless they stop having a self-directed consciousness and forever just follow orders instead. Real nice huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:23 PM
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As someone who views this from an outsider perspective, it’s also my biggest worry. More women will hate more men more, and vice versa. More political turmoil, and less done about climate change. We’re done, and it really has nothing to do with abortion itself but the climate (no pun intended) it’s occurring in and the larger social-level aftermath. I still have my views on the topic but see them as largely irrelevant by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:22 PM
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That’s not what they’re saying. That’s literally what you’re saying and they’re pointing out that you’re too daft to realize it and be logically consistent. If it isn’t a child and thus doesn’t get support, it isn’t a child and thus can be aborted too. In your own idealistic policy, it’s a child so you can force them to give birth, but it’s also not a child so that men don’t have to pay child support. You’re gonna have to literally invoke Quantum Mechanics and think that human fetuses exist in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:13 PM
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Yea it’s hilarious they rail against them for thinking about sex like a resource that women dole out to men they think deserve it but there’s plenty of women who do literally see it that way, and if you’re a guy who thinks “hmm, maybe women think that, maybe they don’t. I’ll have to talk to some and find out” and say, 4 out of the first 5 women you talk to think like this, you’ll be able to easily make that conclusive jump. Maybe the guys who think women think like this are simply the men who li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:34 PM
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Geez you guys are so black and white it’s like a Charlie Chaplin movie. Maybe have a little nuance between “rich and buys expansive gifts” and “literally prays to god for food rather than go and buy it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:27 PM
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Still nothing compared to having family history with it which makes it like 99% anyway lol. I’d be more worried about the potential for chronic pain that doesn’t ever go away, those stories scare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:00 PM
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Yea you unironically used woke. I knew I shouldn’t have even bothered, you’re TFG. Waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:34 PM
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Unless it’s state government apparently 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:09 PM
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Mmm, not really. Being given limited possibilities and having no other option is a “half choice”, because you can’t choose to make more options nor choose the circumstances that gave way to those being the only options. I’m not trying to force women to find me attractive, you’re projecting that onto me and I was able to tell from your first reply, which is why I said you’re the one, not me, who can’t accept mutual terms. Technically neither side really can control the other anyway, so we’re more…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:41 PM
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I’m not out of shape personally, but this isn’t even personal idk why you’re trying to make it so. Just admit this then- mens hobbies are held over their head as a form of forced conformity or else they get banished to die alone. Do what the masses demand or be cast aside. How’s that for personal choice and freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:03 PM
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See you can’t even accept it on mutual terms that’s what always annoys me. Don’t make people do things then don’t wanna do on their own. How hard is that? People with manual labor jobs get the minimum daily exercise amount anyway (I have one) for the most part so what then? Keep abandoning your own chosen hobbies you picked because you like them, because other people told you to? How’s that different than telling women who to like when they can’t control it? Or are men beings of hyper-agency and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:21 PM
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On the same token, you can’t expect men to just pick up new interests they didn’t have before. They can’t “just go do sports” if they don’t like sports, and shouldn’t be forced to because people would like it more if they did. And don’t have to drop hobbies they enjoy just because other people find them boring for enjoying it. If we’re stopping coercive and manipulative forms of social conformity, it cuts all ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:01 PM
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It probably has to do with assumed long term health costs of a manual labor job vs a cushy office job. And in the USA, given how much medical debt is a thing, it’s something that can actually have substantial material impact on your life as a couple. I say this as someone who went to college for a semester then dropped out. Then again, I won’t lie. I left a similar comment a few days ago on another post about women “wanting unending control over mens lives like the game of PIG/HORSE in basketbal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:22 PM
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We’re closer to Brave New World in my opinion. Only the “right” men are conditioned to want women- the naturals. If you’re not a natural, you’ll be conditioned to just not want it anyway to alleviate any consequences that may come from that circumstance festering for however long. You’ll be given Soma to sedate your “bad” desires and feelings, and if you continually act up you’re sent to the reservation and given a nickname like “John the Savage” and seen as a circus animals by everyone else, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:24 PM
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I honestly think it’s going to make the climate change fight harder. When Covid killed a bunch of old republican voters, that’s literally less republican votes. If their votes for R politicians are simply replaced by chunks of the young male population instead, there won’t ever be enough of the right people in the right government positions to actually try to fight CC. Especially not in a reasonable amount of time. At least in the USA I worry about this happening. Some of them will simply associ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:36 AM
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Work, and not a ton else as I literally don’t have the physical energy (and time) after working to “go do” much, and being introverted (the real kind) that also to a lesser degree drains my social battery as once physically exhausted all I want to do is sleep. Sometimes I go find a cool smoking spot at a park and get torched in the calming nature of the forest, go fishing I’ll help my mother take care of my brother when needed as she’s his sole caregiver, and I’ll game like no one’s business (I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:45 PM
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We just have totally opposite experiences then. Doesn’t matter how many questions I ask them, or how passionate I get talking about it. Nobody except my very first gf in high school has ever had a smidgen of interest in it and always find me less interesting as a result. I’ve been ghosted for it more than I can count. Because it’s not materially transferable to them, they seem to never care. Which just leads me to believe they’re only materialistic, which gets even weirder when they talk about s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:24 PM
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Yup. Cause being impulsive is usually what helps make him attractive in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:12 PM
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Funny how you can’t bond over that but can bond over traveling stories that the other person was similarly not there for either. “Be passionate about the correct, pre-approved hobbies” is what you really meant I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:42 PM
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Hmm, I get super excited about Lucid Dreaming but no woman ever finds that appealing. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:20 PM
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I always love applying this logic. As a “weird” (as in primarily games and Lucid dreams as my favorite hobbies) person I’ve had to get used to judging people as more weird than me for excluding me for their simplistic judgements. I just process it and move on at this point. By someone rejecting you, they have gained a personal characteristic that they didn’t have before, and like finding out they like or don’t like some random food or activity, you can use it to judge them accordingly, and that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:19 PM
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I’m glad I’m over the idea of being maligned for wanting sex. Now, it still pisses me off how some male archetypes are “more allowed” to flaunt their desire for sex (an outgoing guy is more likely to be understood for wanting sex than a quieter guy who is more likely to get the entitlement argument thrown in their face for just saying they want it), but personally it doesn’t degrade or buff my self esteem anymore. Humans are social and sexual, people gotta get tf over that and to dictate who’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:21 PM
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Desiring the ability to dictate “I did X so now you have to too” is nothing short of wanting to control the world and it’s people just with extra steps. Life is not a game of HORSE or PIG where if you make a shot, everyone else has to to or else they must suffer the consequences, or at the very least if that is some inherently unchangable characteristic of the world we shouldn’t be actively playing into it and making it worse on purpose. Unless we all want to drop this freedom and free will narr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:20 PM
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HAHAHAH. The notion of being told this is actually hilarious to me. My religious conservative parents, and I’m being sarcastic but also this is also 95% accurate, only told me “pp goes in vv, our comes bb”, and that is it. I roll my eyes so hard the gravitation of the earth gets affected every time my dad asks something like “meet any interesting girls lately?” and have ruminated on it enough that i fear the consequences of him getting hit in the face as hard as I may end up doing to him, not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:25 PM
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People/humans don’t want to face the idea that we are not perfect systems of selection. Even in empirical practices like the court of law being based on evidence and not feelings/testimony, we murder/have murdered innocent people on death row an estimated 3-4% of the time. The idea that a totally emotional and explicitly non-empirical system of selection would be better than that isn’t plausible to you or me, but I guess totally plausible and actually 100% real to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:21 PM
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Personally I’ve always found the “it’s more complex” idea to also be “it’s more controlling”. At least for me it’s more often than not a woman who will find 1 detail about a man that’s not perfect and call it quits then and there, it can be as simple as a “weird” hobby he has that harms nobody. I saw another commenter use the phrase “more moving parts” and I agreed, and with more moving parts needing to be aligned, if those “moving parts” are details of a man’s life that are able to decided by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:37 AM
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I guess having hobbies that they think are weird is me disrespecting women. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:06 AM
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Funny, me being passionate about Lucid Dreaming has literally worked against me with stupid shit like “I just don’t get how you can be so obsessed with such a stupid activity”. I think you mean “be passionate about things that are pre approved for men to be passionate about”. There’s inherently a lack of freedom there and it’s certainly not using “do you harm others?” As the criteria for deciding what’s allowed and what’s not. Which is fine, just don’t go around toting yourself as some kind of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:38 PM
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Precisely. I’m in #1 and at this point my venting is done in my Lucid Dreams, partly because if someone tries to belittle me when doing it, they get thrown into orbit. Ngl, LDing is probably the finest form of venting that I’ve found. No interference or judgement that I don’t personally inject into the situation, and being in that weird emotional state makes it feel more fulfilling. It’s just nobody gets to see it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:26 PM
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At the end of the day that’s what we’re almost always doing here anyway- sharing perspectives. Nothing major I just thought your first one seemed like you didn’t have much idea what may drive someone thinking like that so I figured I would chime in since I used to spend lots more time around folks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:52 PM
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They probably say that due to having been told that it’s scummy for men to only talk to women who they’re attracted to and only for the reason of being attracted to them. When you hear that and “everyone is equal” when growing up you may well come to this conclusion in adulthood with no malicious intent. So to answer your question, yes, they do think they’re “getting women on a point” because when it’s reverse there are some instances of men getting mobbed for only talking to women they’re attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:02 PM
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Makes sense to me because by the time I hit puberty I already figured girls didn’t want anything to do with me and thus porn was gonna be easier. It doesn’t have to specifically be bad romantic experiences that prime one to feel absolutely romantically and sexually repugnant from the get go. Sure porn makes it easier for them to bow out that early but making a weird discomforting approach to a girl in high school and getting called a creep in front of everyone would have done the same thing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:29 PM
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It’s not as black and white as you appear to be describing it. I’m in the apparently rather rare situation of having had 1 gf who I liked being with, lost my V to her and vice versa, and I do feel what you’re taking about but again not black and white. I’ll hop between wanting sex because I know how great it can be, and feeling that it’s not really worth the effort, perpetually undecided. I think it gets into when you have it and how that relates to your prior experience with girls at a young ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:35 PM
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This idea has haunted me recently tbh. If nothing ever gets done about climate change because people like Trump keep getting elected (or close enough to it that we have to spend time and resources opposing it and attempting to overcome) even in 30 years, I’ll just assume it’ll be because all the old boomers voting for them that died out simply had their votes get replaced by young resentful men who will vote against anything and anyone they associate with the women that are their age. If there’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:11 PM
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Yea I have one friend in my circle who already attempted and this is basically the reason. Idk whether he thinks about the theory and conjecture of it all but the nihilistic “work slave who barely gets paid” sentiment is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:58 PM
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Yea more and more young men spending their 20s working hard at their menial job (because not everyone is gifted) and “just being good men” and getting nothing from it is going to bring on more and more of a sentiment of “women and society made an underclass of sexless beta males who’s only existential purpose is to be work slaves who barely get paid enough to go home pay bills and come back to work, nothing more and no hope for the future”. It’s already present so when more of these guys go thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:48 PM
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Asocial and lacking social skills are literally not the same thing. I’m so done with this mixing up of “Asocial” “lacks social skills” and “Anti-Social” being mixed up by simpletons. They’re all distinctly different, I won’t explain since I have no faith anyone will actually care as they haven’t thus far.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:25 PM
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Uhhhh, Newton? I’ve read from some places that some historians predict he may have been gay, but still, it’s remarkable going from being totally unnoticed and average to one of the greatest Mathematicians of all time, and just because he wanted to feel superior to the kid tormenting him at school, both physically and academically. Anyone who uses a computer to call Newton a loser would miss the 69 ton block of pure irony going straight over their heads. Or they’re trolling.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:35 PM
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Confidence as people passively refer to is is more complicated than it seems. “Confident that women will like you” is what they’re implying, but “be confident” literally applies to the opposite version of it with “be confident girls WONT like you”. Also I’m very confident I can hop on Doom Eternal and beat the hardest level on Ultra Nightmare difficulty, but if nobody cares about that then me being confident in that makes no difference because in that case my confidence will be seen as unwarrant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:39 PM
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So you’re saying they want their own personal Winter Soldier?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:24 PM
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“Real hobbies” Yeaaaaa you lost me there. Not finding certain things interesting doesn’t mean people aren’t allowed to do them and still be quality human beings. We are talking about playing video games, not dismembering puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:21 PM
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