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DebateIhopeitllbealright/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:26 PM
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DiscussionIhopeitllbealright/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:29 PM
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Companionship. Support. Affection. Acceptance. Tolerance. Safe home and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:34 AM
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My main issue is that I just feel undeserving or that I am morally inept for wanting to marry up. I don’t want to be put in the same basket as people who are purely materialistic and inconsiderate. Also I am sure the type of man I am looking for would be flattered if I choose him because I believe he is better or higher than the rest… and most of all compatible for me…creating harmony for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:20 AM
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Well it is not purely transactional. If he offers the thriving assets I will offer the atmosphere… as partners and companions.. Where I live even desirable men eventually settle for the sake of wanting a homemaker, commitment, and children. When divorce happen, wealth and assets are not split between them. So each one of us has their own bank statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:42 AM
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I am not saying I am just laying back and not offering anything though.. If they choose me then why is it considered exploitative…I may not offer assets but I offer an atmosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:39 AM
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Is marrying up exploitative/greedy I am a young lady with invisible disability. I am good looking and resourceful. I expect my partner to bring value. Also, I need a man who is higher than me and has more resources because I am physically unable to hustle and grind. I just want my married life to be easy… not an extra burden on my already overwhelmed body… But I find in my surrounding community the conversation directed at me that marrying up is greediness, gold digging, etc etc… It just pisses …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:47 PM
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How do I stop keeping guys around as options? I am a 22 year old female. I have problems with love and attachment due to a trauma history as well as severe mental health issues. I seek therapy. However, I find myself “using” guys in a selfish and unhealthy way. For example, I can see someone is incompatible for me and that we cannot be in a long term relationship (even though that is their clear intention). However, I keep them around in case I do not find anyone better. I keep them around for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:18 PM
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As an autistic woman who struggles with understanding non verbal cues, males have always been easier to deal with. Females always bullied me (in childhood through adulthood) mostly because I do not communicate like them. Meanwhile, I find dealing with men a bit easier. Not that there are no bad men, but the communication is really straightforward it blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:51 PM
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Makes sense. But without these blocks… feelings grow like trees
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:27 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:29 PM
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Yesss
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:20 PM
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So basically there has to be a higher threshold of sexual attraction that the friend doesn’t meet and another does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:34 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:30 AM
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Thanks for the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:28 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:48 PM
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😂😂😂😂THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:47 PM
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If the man isnt partnered up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:37 PM
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So are they really “friends” as in platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:37 PM
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Aha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:37 PM
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But there is a probability sexual attraction might happen any point after emotional intimacy of a friendship has been established
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:37 PM
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Have seen most dissolve or evolve. Numbered people maintain healthy platonic friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:36 PM
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And it is normal to become attached to someone you are consistently intimate with such as friend which can lead to sexual feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:35 PM
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I need to clarify. Straight men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:34 PM
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While everyone is free.. i was not suggesting abstaining.. as much as awareness. Cause mature platonic is the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:29 PM
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But these desires remain unconscious. And they get expressed in the unhealthy dynamics I mentioned. Such as friendzoning, FWB murkiness, or predatory friend types waiting for the break up or the vulnerable point to jump in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:40 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:38 PM
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Yeah it not always Disney princess life in real life. But it be beautiful and real.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 08:42 AM
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One as in sharing a lot of quality time and love? Normal expectations. As in losing autonomy? Unhealthy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 08:36 AM
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It is normal to bond. Yet people seem to pathologize it nowadays. Make sure you give time to yourself, your life, your hobbies, your friends… And you are good to go. I really benefited from reading The Anxious Heart Guide.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 08:20 AM
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Was about to say this!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:28 PM
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Should try doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:12 PM
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Why are you attacking me when the intention of the post is self improvement so I am no longer the “NB” you are describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:09 PM
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Nice flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:02 PM
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Is there any sarcasm in this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:47 PM
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Not trolling. Really seeking advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:46 PM
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Is there a link?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/24 03:37 PM
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