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Because the “fight” for equality isn’t over. There is still work to do, so those that want to do the work identify themselves as such.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/21 01:20 PM
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What? I’ve never heard that phrase used for semen and I’ve been in a hs boys locker room
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/20 10:46 AM
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Women over 35? A funny profile works, but less "college humor" funny and more SNL type. Really, at that age, you just need to be better than the competition. Fit, has money, can dress, not a freak.... It's the age old reddit advice: Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction03/09/18 05:56 PM
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Cause y’all are split. Let’s face it, women have centered around their gender while men are divided by racial tensions, sports, politics, or whatever bs is going on. Women have a shared goal, even across the political spectrum, more power to their social standing. They support women who share that goal, doesn’t matter if its Sarah Palin or Elizabeth Warren.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 03:58 PM
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A shit test is to discover your reaction to the question, the answer itself is meaningless. Besides, is that where you want to go? Having a full discussion about why she finds your friends hot? I’ve found that to ask a questions during shit test doesn’t end well.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:42 AM
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They are called a shit test when there is a right or wrong answer/reaction. For example, I had a girl that was famous for shit tests, but she was a very solid 9, so I knew that was all part of her selection process. We were on date number 7, we had already had sex, and I guess she thought it was time to make sure I could handle her. During the date, we ran into some friends of mine back from my player days. No homo, but some of my friends are really handsome dudes that take care of themselves. I…
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:09 AM
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“Hello” 90% of approach, is just approaching.
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:22 PM
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“Not a player, I just crush a lot” is my go to line for that stir test. If they don’t get it, it’s because they are too young to understand the reference, so too young for me. Mostly other girls laugh and love it. They wouldn’t call you a player if they didn’t think you were attractive to her, or other women after all...
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:21 PM
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Is your college existing only in a bubble? There are plenty of women outside of campus to date, why just limit yourself to the college choices?
/r/seduction12/01/18 01:33 AM
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The Gym. Hotels, wine bars, etc are rarely going to have a woman who happens to be looking for a fling from a stranger, they always go for a close male companion that they connect with. That or get one super drunk, but I don't recommend that in this day and age.
/r/seduction11/01/18 02:58 AM
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Do you find yourself frequently imagining a relationship with girls you just met? Yes. But I still follow the rules, staying funny and charming, confident, doing my own things, even dating other women until she brings up "the talk" of what we are. That's the rub, you gotta fight yourself in some ways to get the best chance. Best part: If you know that there are more fish in the sea, and you know how to cast the widest net, chances are you will cut down on that sad breakup feeling by dating more …
/r/seduction10/01/18 07:20 PM
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I don’t know if this helps you, but the reason I follow the seduction philosophy isn’t just sleeping with a large number of women, but to find a suitable companion from a larger pool of choices. I just don’t want to settle for anything less than amazing, and I want someone who wants the same.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:41 PM
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Huh, there's so much I have yet to learn about women's behavior. Haha, they are the smarter gender emotionally after all. As to whether or not this woman is looking for attention...the about attention is you can never have enough. Even celebrities wants more attention despite having it more than anyone else. That is why the texting delay works. Beautiful women love the challenge of a man who defies their beauty unlike most men fawning over it or the like a person who treats them like they ain’t …
/r/seduction08/01/18 10:24 AM
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Dude that’s AWESOME!! Yes never make a priority of someone who consider you a option! You are about to discover the secret of loving many women is first loving yourself. I’ve never met you, but I’m cheering for ya! Best of luck in the world my man!
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:43 AM
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I’m glad, I was helped the same way here years back. Good luck, with this one and the one after her, and all the other women that will follow in your life!
/r/seduction06/01/18 02:53 PM
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It's funny, because a girl I was dating but started to flake just texted me after I was on a date with someone else. It happens. you are a cool mf, and she sees that and wants your attention. Not love, people in love don't wait 3 days to text back. I like your idea of texting her back in a few days. I learned that if you sexually relieve yourself when you text her in a few days (if ever) then you are less attached to the outcome. Silence to a woman is the worst. I'd say try for a week. And don't…
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:42 AM
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TIL: I am a alpha douche. Because everything he is talking about doing is a true “alpha” or really controlling the situation. I don’t even worry about these dudes. For one, women can smell insecurity and I don’t want to even give them a whiff of it, which is why I’m not sizing up other dudes. Two unless you are with your woman 24/7, then she is going to have someone throw game at her. Your game better be better (see point one) or yeah you will lose her, but you were going to anyway. Three, if ha…
/r/seduction05/01/18 06:01 PM
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I too suffered from that lol. Just jump in the pool man, don’t think about it, the water is fine.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:08 PM
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No more Mr. nice guy is the most consistent and informative imo. The best part about it is that it doesn’t focus just on picking up women, but changing yourself to the point where you were are attractive without even having to try. Mark Mason is the second choice for the same reason. One of my favorite from him is a blog post and title fuck yes or it’s no. https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes Don’t spend too much time reading would be my suggestion. Taking a lesson, then apply it in the real world as…
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:02 PM
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The best one I have is something that we have already discussed in the past. For example, I sent this one girl I slept with once this funny meme about snoring, just a picture with no context of “hello”. Her text back was A bunch of smiley’s followed by calling me an asshole then asking what I was doing on Saturday night. I told her “not you” with a smiley and she moved it up to that very same night. But that’s not the point, remember this is not the only girl in the world. So try something funny…
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:31 PM
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No worries, I’m just paying it forward some great advice someone gave me. For further references, look up the abundance mindset versus the scarcity mindset. It may take down that feeling of neediness that we are all vurnerable to still.
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:26 PM
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I’ve been there too, ironically that’s when learned how to be better. I call it the “George Castanza” method to women. Whatever I was thinking about doing, I do the complete opposite. Remember beautiful women get put on a pedestal a lot, so it helps to stand out from the crowd. Pal around, joke, mock them in a funny way, basically show them that you are different from any man that they’ve met before. Instead of putting them on a pedestal, you are Becoming a prize that she wants, instead of you c…
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:07 PM
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In my opinion, a low effort text is a waste, especially if it doesn’t prompt them to engage. Funny seems to work much better, plus if you were just going to text them once, why not go all out? A funny cocky text will get much better response than the normal “hi”. And if you think funny means dick pic, then there is so much to learn lol
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:53 PM
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Why not make it funny instead?
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:32 PM
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Date. Other. Women. You will drive yourself insane thinking about what she is thinking. Occupy yourself with other options, as she may be doing the same. You can keep in very light contact with her if she answers your text, and if she comes around, she comes around. In the meantime you look much more attractive if you are pursuing other options. Women seem to enjoy men who are pursued by other women. There is this girl that I am seeing who I have a really good vibe with, but he started to be fla…
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:30 PM
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Then you must expect women to do the work for you. Remember women rarely pursue men, we have to pursue them, without chasing them if that makes sense. I have a woman who I’ve met with similar conditions the way you’ve met yours. I text her once a week, and one text I set up another date. I let her know in so many words that I didn’t care if she came or not. She did, then I did. But none of that would’ve happened if I didn’t text her first.
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:09 PM
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I just read the edits to, before he didn’t mention that it was her best friend of 10 years compared to them being together for 5 months. He also didn’t mention that she’s on a tourist visa, so she is definitely temporary. I don’t know what the problem here is, if she’s only gonna be around for short time have fun and don’t worry about who she has fun with. Wasn’t meant to be long-term anyway, and a jealousy mindset fuck with your brain so many dangers ways. Basically if you have to have asked a …
/r/seduction04/01/18 02:34 PM
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Both. #multitasking
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:38 AM
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I've lied for my best friend before. I don't know how long she has been her BF, but if its longer than shes been with you, then yeah she is going to try to cover for her friends. I mean, you haven't been with her for even half a year yet, and if you ever get caught in a lie, she is going to mimic your reaction to this, without forgetting it for a very long time. But she told you the truth, as long as it still stands as the truth, I would not let her know it bothered you. Personally, my philosoph…
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:31 AM
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Bless your heart. And they are the antithesis of a feminists BTW. These girls want a cowboy prince to whisk them away and marry them. Like right away. You are talking about Bible Belt women after all. They seek status thru their wedding and the kids. If you aren't in the market to give them either, then adios and on to the next one. Tennessee is the same way, I do much much better with northern transplants. And sometimes the TN women want a little "hot chocolate" to put them asleep, but its just…
/r/seduction01/01/18 01:59 AM
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Have fun, be fun.
/r/seduction01/01/18 01:06 AM
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I like where you posted that you were going for it and ask her out. Maybe that is all she needs, to know what your intentions are. Keep you out of the friend zone maybe
/r/seduction31/12/17 12:00 AM
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Two things yeah, I totally feel you about complaining about people pointing out an advantage. It is not meant as a personal insult, it is just how society is...for now. There will be more about that in the 2018 Black People Newsletter. However, what good does it do to bring up race when it comes to dating? It is such a hot button issue that tends to bring out the worst in people. And bringing out the worst in people is not a good scene for dating, so I see their point as well. Since we aren't go…
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:46 PM
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Don't worry, I already knew she had options, most women do. Really your OP stated two options; Her being busy, and your being aloof. You can fix your problem, has she made any effort to fix hers? See where I am going? Not trying to be mean, I am just stating that it shouldn't have to be this hard in trying to figure out when she wants to meet, because a horny or interested woman will chase. I am just saying that maybe you should not set your sites on "just her" and start expanding your options, …
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:35 PM
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So I guess your catch was just lying when she said she wasn't looking for another guy to date? Or was that was her pick-up line to you? A catch wants to be caught. If she wanted you, she would make the time for you. Again, if it's not a date, why do you assume she is calling you in for one? She may just want to hang out as a friend. Because a friend would hear the line "I'm not ready to date anyone". A prospective lover would hear "So I guess I will be lonely on Friday night wink" See the differ…
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:35 PM
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How do you know she is a "good girl"? You mentioned that she does other social things in her spare time, but not with you? Date like but not a date? Boy I'd bail on you too. It sounds like oneitis, take her off the pedestal man.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:11 PM
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Studies like these may be worded for marriage, not dating. I assure you, as another well-spoken brother in the bible belt of the south, you have good game, you will slay. Sure, some women wont marry a black guy, but a ton of them want to fuck one has been my experience. Stick with the basics, funny charming passionate, and stop reading those fucking studies. They are fucking up your abundance mentality. Before a RP WS comes in with how fat they are, I can assure you that I've never slept with a …
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:48 PM
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I never thought I'd be 'that guy' but I rightly feel extremely pathetic. Good, you know that this sucks. But the good news is that I am sure you are talking to people who made the same mistakes as you and felt utterly pathetic. I was a V for a very long time. Like think of the most pathetic age for dating male to be a V, then add 1. I am not going to brag, but my life with women now is utterly amazing. It took a long time, it took a lot of reading (Mark Manson is my favorite, followed by Dr. Lov…
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:43 PM
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Isn't it a good thing as they want to qualify themselves to me? Yes. I've been you. Especially when I first started. The advice should be you shouldn't give a fuck about the worrying about the outcome. In the meantime, dress fresh, charm and joke, smile, and be interesting. They are talking about, that means they at least care. Now you need to give them a past of least resistance before you ask them out. Wait, are you asking them out? This stopped for me when I would ask them out for a date. Obv…
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:34 PM
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No I agree with him too. Mostly because you say are “studying” her, which implies way too much time invested in a woman with a boyfriend and calls you “dad”, not “daddy” (or my favorite “Papi”). You aren’t turning over any new rocks here man, you are here to get your rocks off, ok?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 02:53 PM
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I think your last sentence contradicted itself, but fine, Im good to agree to disagree.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 01:01 AM
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You can judge groups of people, but that still can make you an asshole. What if the information you have about that group is wrong? What if a member of that group has better information because that is the environment they grew up in? But yet, you still insist that your information is correct. That would make you a asshole, or bigot. Not because you are being mean, but you are staying willing ignorant based on the perception that you have and refuse to change. We simply don't know everything. Th…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 12:49 AM
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You are comparing the wrong thing. You can say generalizations about a physical appearance, as that is what defines the classification for that group in the first place. But you are an asshole when I can judge you, not based on you, but on what I think you are like, based on whatever. You might not remember, but back in the day, Louis Farrakhan did a whole bunch of "generalizations" about white people based on history. Based on your reasoning, he would be correct. But that is not fair to the ind…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 12:16 AM
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If you say "all people do X". Then yeah, you are being an asshole.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/17 11:39 PM
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Hitler was the ultimate SJW
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/16 01:52 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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