IkeaMonkeyCoat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t? if a man offered your sister or gf a free drink and a ride home your first response is……. envy? bro it’s not a privilege that men are trying to get them drunk enough to fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 07:32 PM
7	The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberation the amount of detail you’re painting in your fantasy here is really creepy. women are not a commodity to be doled out like food stamps	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 08:52 AM
1	Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriage A relevant analogy can be drawn with different ice cream flavors. If you have only been exposed to one flavor, that flavor will satisfy you whenever you have a craving for ice cream. If you've been exposed to multiple flavors (vanilla, chocolate, strawberry, etc.), you will develop a diversity of cravings - one flavor is unlikely to perpetually satisfy your desire. It's not to say that one flavor tastes better - it’s about the cravings for variety that will arise from being exposed to other flav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 06:07 PM
1	Majority of men don't show up for child support hearings. you can't move your child across state lines without permission if you share custody or there's any kind of custody dispute actively happening:. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/news/a6165/sara-mckenna-bode-miller-custody/	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 08:00 PM
10	Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships. exactly - on top of that, calling someone an incel is usually inspired by their poor behavior and lack of socialization, not their actual history of sexual experiences	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 02:32 AM
1	CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”. i'd only ever had 1 hookup before my late twenties, i always was in a relationship, but i had more than 5 relationships by then.. 10 partners at 16 isn't the same as 10 parters when you're 24	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 04:27 AM
2	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? not that you asked for any advice, but as a girl, when i'm traveling i don't bring anything and get desperate, and if you wanted... you can turn 'making it harder to orgasm' into a more satisfying intense challenge... the hitachi orgasms are really great in their own way, but (imo) they are just sorta.. a fast-pass to an orgasm that's intense but not actually that stimulating or exciting. i would recommend building up to a sensual orgasm with a removable shower head / bath tub faucet while you a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 09:39 PM
4	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? yeah, generally. like the "death grip" thing tossed at men who masturbate 'too much', it's just short-term physical conditioning (same goes for women who use large dildos, the vagina is a muscle that expands and contracts, and in most cases, only permanently altered by childbirth (if at all)) -- the psychological conditioning of "I need x y z to get off" is the longterm challenge for both women and men, respectively -- which is why "pornsick" is the most apt example of causing real damage to sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 08:48 PM
2	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? if you stop using the wand for like a week it goes back to normal, i doubt most women have any real nerve damage from using it, it doesn't take the highest setting to get off, clits are very sensitive as it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 07:59 PM
8	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" I don't really understand how either of you ended up talking about different things in the same back and forth but to reply to you specifically: The girlboss shtick is a reaction to seeing what happens when you don't have a plan b. The red pill group may understand this as a "cope", which it is, but it's a reasonable reactionary self-preservation method after you've seen how bad things can get when you put your eggs in one basket and it turns into a nightmare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 11:47 PM
12	I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again. (ime) only if they are avoidant-attached.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 02:18 AM
28	More salty male tears over lopsided result of “open relationship”. i love this song! lmaooo same sis	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 10:03 PM
16	More salty male tears over lopsided result of “open relationship”. my take on this is not so much about his complaints because they are valid, it’s that opening a relationship up after it’s been solidified generally does not work out. if they have been together only 2 years and half been discussing this for a year, there is something not working under the surface that they don’t want to acknowledge. you’re either a poly person or you’re not, and it’s not the hall pass men think it is. most women do not want to date someone who has a girlfriend, even if it’s ope…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 10:01 PM
105	GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROB put this on his gravestone 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 05:23 PM
67	reminded me of this subreddit thank you for defending her, this is similar to what happened to me.. my ex has the audacity to tell people i was CHEATING on him because he decided that the open relationship was a bad idea and he couldn’t handle it. but you know what else he isn’t telling people? what he did to me in his anger 🗑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/19 04:27 PM
20	He has literally no reason not to text you back. yeah that’s exactly why i’m not letting them distract me from work..? a guy I’m getting to know should respect that i’m busy and focused, i’m a senior level lead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 04:08 PM
20	Of course none of the famous couples are a disabled woman and an able man is this not self explanatory? she likes both genders but chooses to be with women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 03:40 PM
24	He has literally no reason not to text you back. disagree. i don’t text while i’m at work unless it’s something that’s actually time sensitive, except for lunch time or near the end of the day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 03:36 PM
2	How do I stop thinking about my ex? proud of you for working so hard to reflect and grow and focus on you. you should read up on attachment styles (he sounds avoidant dismissive, you may be anxious preoccupied), it might help explain why you are in this rut still.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 04:32 AM
6	What snapped you out of Pickmeisha mode? Would you have believed a resource like FDS if it had existed, or do you think hitting rock bottom is the only way for many? this comment is goooold	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 05:36 AM
20	Husband gets wife a vacuum for Christmas in 2019 and doesn’t understand why she’s mad. he could have spent that $400 on a home cleaning service and a full body massage so that she could feel pampered, come home to a clean house and be able to relax and have more time to herself at least for a few days, but no, here is a totally impersonal robot gadget.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/19 08:06 PM
27	The most beautiful women I looked up too in my teens ALL ended up being left by their husbands. LADIES: Looks hardly matter how you think they do. I know one of the girls that Adriana’s husband was cheating on her with before they were even married. smh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 03:58 PM
3	I'm a pickmeisha but I'm done. i know reddit loved to diagnose everyone as a narcissist these days but regardless of what your ex is, his behavior and patterns are so in-line with narcissistic abuse/manipulation, it would be helpful for your own sake to read this, particularly the parts about triangulation, gaslighting and hoovering: https://www.psychopathfree.com/articles/30-red-flags-of-manipulative-people.212/ I went through something very similar and it helped me immensely to learn that these behaviors and tactics are thi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 09:48 PM
17	Guy completely cut me off because of jealousy boundaries are a good thing. boundaries include not talking about other men while you’re with someone else hanging out/on a date. that’s disrespectful, and you’d block him too if he did that to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 05:52 PM
65	OP isn't exclusive with girl, expects her to post him to her IG. She goes out with another man, "behind OP's back", fucks him, posts him to IG, travels with him, and OP is pissed. DAILY REMINDER THAT YOU DON'T OWE THEM EXCLUSIVITY, AND DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO FUCKING SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!! it’s gross how he keeps calling the other guy a servant and the hired help	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 05:43 PM
22	Don't Waste Your Pretty Years i instinctively started pushing the up volume button on my phone because this message needs to be LOUDER	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 12:24 AM
4	Woman discloses sexual past, reveals strategies to BF, is dumped immediately for her "honesty". DAILY REMINDER TO KEEP YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY SECRET, AND TAKE ZERO FUCKING BULLSHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!!!! my opinion: when trust is broken so severely, so is the relationship. i would barely even consider what she did ‘cheating’, the relationship was over except on paper.. if they had stayed together for a bit it would be different in my eyes. cheating as a compulsion, pattern or an on-going deception is the type of thing that indicates their character & actions will never change and can’t be trusted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/19 11:58 PM
38	Went on a date with a dude I met last weekend. He complained about spending money on a date that went nowhere and implies I should have cut it short. Lol I’m so done dating. how many times have i spent $60+ to get my hair or nails done? how many hours have i spent getting ready and using expensive makeup and products? how much could i have been making per hour doing freelance work instead of wasting a night out with someone? good lord, what an entitled asshole	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 12:52 AM
11	Lurkers, here is the secret amoral and toxic strategy he didn’t even fuck women which makes this even worse lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 12:46 AM
30	“Women don’t want to fuck me. Therefore, they shouldn’t have rights. There’s no other option. I hate that it has to be this way though :/.” because having 1 gender with unrestricted freedom thus far has worked so well, we had peace on earth and no wars or injustice across societies at all, hmm	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 08:12 PM
-2	Settle a myth for me, fellow actual women i didn’t think it was real until i met someone who knew what they were doing. it was a pretty big surprise to me. it’s not like it’s better than an actual orgasm but it made my entire body feel very relaxed, especially my limbs. it also was not as dramatic as you see in porn, and it is not pee.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/19 02:50 AM
257	The Dumb Fox Credo side note: actual lol because my ex husband did steal my appliances and i occasionally get irritated thinking about it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 03:48 PM