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| 1 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?War will fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 11:26 PM |
| – | Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effectiveSo it goes back to "be attractive". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 05:05 PM |
| 2 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Psycho killer and a woman creates more psycho killers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:48 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyGuys [...] should just be themselves This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?This is really shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 08:24 AM |
| 77 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?It’s the first time they feel truly desired This is the important part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Men attach their worth to sex-having becasue sex-having as a man is attached to your worth.Where a man is desired for sex only he feel honored, a woman feel degraded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men?"The Big Bang Theory" is an example of that. My sister loved all the characters there. I saw them constantly belittled and fighting each other. It's an awful TV show. Not even the slightest funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 02:54 PM |
| 81 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)No questions, just an addition. Target her feelings. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 02:20 PM |
| 4 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"Did you ever get the "starfish" with a girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | "Don't judge a book by his cover"?I judge a book by it's cover and then they have the chance to prove me wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Are We Trading Monogamy for Misery? How Feminism’s Sexual Freedom Is Failing UsThis is the reason for MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.You can expect what you deliver. But it’s often better to throw the expectations out of the window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Most heterosexual women are homoromantic.he is the one that [...] partakes in elaborate courtship rituals to impress her [...] making grand gestures of romance. Girls do that for Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work.I think today it is said so that the men weed themself out. In the early days the times were simpler, including the people and their minds. And we had shame, which kept women in line. Now we have no shame, and the society goes havoc. (To be precise, we have shame in the wrong places.) | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:17 AM |
| -1 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menFirst wave feminism was okay, but it should have stopped there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?Children, yes. Being a father, some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 08:13 AM |
| 1 | There Is Always A Bigger FishYou can grow in different directions. Even in your job, you can learn new sub tasks. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/24 07:15 AM |
| 1 | There Is Always A Bigger FishYou can grow in different directions. Even in your job, you can learn new sub tasks. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Is acting as if all men are predators sexist or not?Potential? Yes. Actual? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?Women are emotional not logical creatures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:22 PM |
| 0 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesYou don't know the background and judge me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:09 AM |
| 0 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesWe were friends before and we were friends after. And he still cares for the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesI have a friend. And this friend came together with my sister. There were always tension between the two. My sister got pregnant from him, and she forced him to either marry or hit the road. He hit the road. My sister expected me to be on her side and hate on him and drop him as friend. I didn’t. I think it’s wrong. Deep down I think she still wants me to hate him too and drop him. Won’t happen. My friendship to him is now over 15 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Why men must never open up to women.What men have to learn is, to be in competition and still be friends. That’s something men have lost over the years. Hence martial arts is a good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Why men must never open up to women.That could have been prevented, if there are support groups in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why men must never open up to women.You talk about the guys which women shame for not having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why men must never open up to women.Not attacked, but infiltrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:04 AM |
| 66 | Why men must never open up to women.Men need other men as support group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Are men not also hypergamous?There are far less sugar mommys then sugar daddys. And a couple were she earns more then him is also not wished from both sides. He want to protect her. For that she needs to be "weaker" by definition. All imprinted into both sexes. The rest is wishful thinking and delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | What US women want is a fantasyMost men are for women like furniture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:58 AM |
| 6 | DO woman SECRETELY agree with with red pill?They fear the red pill, hence they fight against it. It ruins their game. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | The miserable life of the average man.Hence I saw that fate for me, I checked out. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/24 09:27 AM |
| -2 | How is poland like for picking up women?Never ever bring them to Germany! | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 06:18 PM |
| -3 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?Its a crime and the people who do it don’t see it. It reminds me on two things: the Nazis and how they burned books the book Fahrenheit 451 It’s the same thinking at play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:48 AM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menBoth genders would profit from coping skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:44 PM |
| 10 | How true is "The 'red pill' chooses you."Usually it’s pain which triggers change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:42 AM |
| 0 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.That flips, if he is a „Chad“. Then he is drowning with attention/gifts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 06:00 PM |
| 9 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?If he doesn’t make her tingly in her pants, he is just a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?My dad was a dad before me. And my dad was an „upgrade“ from her previous partner. So it is very likely that would have happened again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?There is a difference between fat and chubby. Chubby is fine. Also there is a difference between skinny and anorexic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons?If she claims paternity, he should have the option to get her tested for free. And if the test is negative, to opt-out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsThank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:24 AM |
| 1 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsWhat is „SAHP“/„SAHM“? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Shows signs of investment, then double-ghosts me? After 4 great datesYou killed it with the cooking. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/23 12:54 PM |
| -1 | I am convinced that many women treat men like kings to entice them into marriage and then expect them to be different after marriage and kidsThat’s called „betaization“. You have to fight against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?IoI = Indicator of Interest IoD = Indicator of Disinterest I learn them myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Fuck. No wonder you were puzzled. I suggest that you learn more about „tells“ and „IoI“/„IoD“. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:05 AM |
| 0 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?But what is an „Angel Shot with a Twist“? Is it a spiked drink? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:52 AM |
| 0 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Jump thru hoops! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:47 AM |
| 0 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?You mingle cause and reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:26 AM |
| 3 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Women fuck the Chads and talk trash with their AI boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?What did you mean with „falsely ordering an Angel Shot with a Twist“? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?The media and the government pushes and rewards bad behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:15 AM |
| 1 | My Size CONSTANTLY Bothers Me As a ManIf you have a fertility problem, maybe you have a problem with low testosterone? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 08:30 AM |
| 4 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?She SAYS she has that high standards, but look who she is choosing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:26 AM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Your dad was probably an average man, right? Why did your mom married him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:18 AM |
| 1 | IntimidationFind your niche and excel at it! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/23 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.For men it’s the first love, for women it’s the first sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:00 AM |
| 3 | If all men want is sex, and women aren't special, why does it matter what a woman's body count is?You can have a lot of sex AND a low body count, by sleeping with a person regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:09 PM |
| -1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingOlder women often drag you down to their level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Today society is PERFECT for menYou seriously think there are hordes of young men wanting to settle down and start families? They are more then you think! Ask them and listen! It is also not women’s jobs to become wives and mothers. When times get tough, you want a man on your side, who protects you. He does protect you, when he is invested in you. When is he invested in you? When he has the prospect of having a child with you. Even more so, when you are the mother of his child. Some women desire to have careers and travel and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 02:33 AM |
| 8 | Today society is PERFECT for menNone of the things you mentioned matter to me: Casual sex, means a lot of different diseases of different partners she brings to the table I pay for the date, if I can afford it Porn, onlyfans, strip clubs, prostitutes, cam girls, are all fake „relationships“ Kinky sex, I have enough of the disgusting stuff some girls do For guys that wanna build a family, the times are bad. Really bad. Which makes me really angry! The women are not willing to build a family, and do their job as a wife and mothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Red Pillers: What does TRP mean to you?In short: Truth. The way I was told how women work and how to deal with them, didn’t worked out. I noticed that what I was told was somehow off, but I couldn’t point a finger at it, what was off. It looked like some know the script, the „players“, the majority not, the „losers“. And I couldn’t figure it out myself. Despite I tried it, for almost two decades. Then I read Rollo Tomassi's „The Rational Male“ and all made sense. I‘m more Black Pill/Purple Pill. I‘m bitter/angry at all the people who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:59 AM |
| -2 | Who do you consider icons of Misandry and why?Feminism. The hate towards men backlashes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:31 AM |
| -1 | Why do so many women expect us to understand women during their mood swings when they have their periods? Aren’t they admitting upfront that they are more emotional due to their biology?You don’t. You‘re the rock in the shore, ignoring the sirens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:56 AM |
| 9 | Women Assume The Worst Whenever A Man Leaves A Friendship After RejectionThe mental point of origin she talks from is herself. For her, sex is easy to have. And what she accuses you of are projections. This is how she would handle the relationship in this situation. So read your text again, and have this in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Most women are more willing to date other women over menWho give presents? The person in lower status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:13 AM |
| – | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?„They have such good genes!“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women.I hate the rebranding of terms too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusiveWhat women do there is called „betaization“. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?The rich are winning the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 07:42 AM |
| 7 | Lessons from a former incel.I take a look at the book you mentioned. And I‘m always curious about peoples stories, as long as I can learn something from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/23 10:15 AM |
| 13 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIt’s a strategy to lure a beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceThe women quota is obviously working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 08:57 AM |
| – | CMV: Red pill is dangerous for autistic menOkay. Then I disagree here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill is dangerous for autistic menOkay. What is the alternative to „improve yourself“? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:37 PM |
| 2 | TrustI see no reason in trusting a woman whatsoever. Except she is a therapist. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 07:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumIts up to the women to kill the feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumGirls choose very often guys within the narcistic spectrum. I wouldn’t call them „NT“. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumI tend to click more with people who are not „NT“. They are less „boring“ for me. But it is not a conscious act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Does marriage benefit women?Marriage is a scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthIt’s a shit test. And if you open up, you failed them. If you have the need to vent, vent to a male friend, or a therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs„Do you want to be my beta boy?“ | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 08:18 AM |
| 2 | In the end, all men want is to feel needed. How do we help men cultivate a new purpose?You ask the right questions. And you give the right answers. There are still places were volunteers are needed: fire departments, kindergarten, retirement homes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:03 PM |
| 6 | The good that you’ve done will be forgotten.I try to shift the focus from other people to me. It's hard when you're used to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys even like women? Why?I have my problem with liking women. I got so much shit in my youth, it left a lot of scares. And today I see a lot of either superficiality or bullshit, that I‘m basically off the market. Despite I Iong for a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. It’s hope, but reality is harsh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?I see it as you. And I sit all day. So it’s good for me to stay once in a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:07 PM |
| 8 | Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn"„Open communication“ is a shit test, and should be treated as that. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/23 01:28 PM |
| 13 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first place„Stable is boring“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Red pill stuff if valid for both gendersA woman is not a man and vice versa. Red pill teaches you the differences between the sexes. It teaches you it from a male perspective. But it tries (and for me succeeds) to teach it in the most objective way it can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:56 AM |
| 4 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseI forgot about the „Passport Bro“-Movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:27 AM |
| 5 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseThere are at least two counter movements to that: „Red Pill“, „MGTOW“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:53 AM |
| 2 | How do would you like appreciation shown to you from a woman?I‘m basic in this regard: Hugs and kisses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 07:47 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with toxic in lawsYou‘re the head of YOUR family. And that’s were you draw the line. You can start to limit the visits to 4 visits/month, and slowly fade it out to 2 visits/month and later to 1 visit/month. And about the little brother, it’s your fiancés moms responsibility. If you wanna help him, get help for her. If she isn’t accepting external help, cut your losses. As hard as it is, you have to protect yourself and your fiancé first. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenYou reminded me on something my therapist said once to me: „Is there one person who is successful despite that? If so, it proves you can be successful despite that.“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyTall. With no question. And I am already not neurotypical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?The way she talks. If it is „ghetto“, I‘m done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:10 AM |
| 5 | STEP 0: Hope - The Hidden First Step To SuccessPosts like yours is the reason why I joined TheRedPill. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/23 11:50 AM |
| 9 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”I never saw that as gaming from their side. But you’re right! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?Being a bit bold and direct is good, as long as you are not rude. | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I Hit It First: Why A Girl’s Sexual Past MattersI‘m not sure about the US laws, but it seems very different there. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 08:41 AM |
| 13 | I Hit It First: Why A Girl’s Sexual Past MattersI would make it a law „if a woman want child support, she has to prove the father with a positive paternity test“. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 08:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their optionsI don’t wanna be entertained. I can entertain myself. And if I am in the mood, entertain others. People that either need constantly entertained or which constantly entertain me, making me tired very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewHypocrisy at its best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?Women can get pregnant. Men don’t. It doesn’t matter if she is into guys or girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Why not look for a woman with a career?In what way do I profit from her career? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Women run passive gameThe broadcasting signals are different. In humans they are height, width and dominance. And look at how much good looking guys get together with an average looking, sometimes slightly chubby girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Is she a girl a guy can parade around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 08:34 AM |
| 0 | Can you really see yourself with a (much) younger woman?The female generation need to shift back to a more traditional system, else it is unreasonable for me to do anything serious with a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.The hoops are for beta guys for later usage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Women are rude to men without consequencesYou need to teach them early to respect boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGAnd that’s why I „checked out“. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themSingle doesn‘t mean sexless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?What you describe is called „looks maxing“. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?80% of the women dating 20% of the top guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?In most cases I worked out the optimal way. In the cases where I don’t know the optimal way, I want feedback, to find the optimal way. A compromise is rarely a good way. Because a compromise means „both lose equally“. A better way is the way where everyones core needs are met, and where no „sacrifice“ is needed (or where sacrifices are made, on needs of lower „quality“). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:20 AM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?If you come up with a good reason to change my mind, I will. If not, it goes my way. But what I am more interested in is the outcome. But if I have to debate every tiny thing with you, because you like to argue my to death, I quit, if not now, then later. And you can have your own way, your own will, with me saying „good bye“. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenMost woman are not able to tell if a guy is of quality or not. They are often really short sighted and go for the guys, which makes them feel whatever they fancy for in the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:03 AM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?If there is a disagreement on this level, why did we came together in the first place? And why didn’t we discussed that, before we came together? I was talking about daily business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:47 AM |
| -2 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?It’s not about bossing someone around. It’s about me having the last say. I‘m still open for suggestions from my partner though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare???They look because they are interested. They don’t approach you, because they are shy. If you are interested, make the first step and see where it leads to. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel they never get Indicators of Interest (IOIs) from women?This was a cluster of IoI‘s, and usually means „Go!“. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?In what way does she benefits from it today or tomorrow? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 10:23 AM |
| 4 | Where can I find smart (or nerdy) women?Museums? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesThey won’t tell you the truth. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | 5 Easy Rules That You Can Do NOW To Increase The Chance Of Finding A GirlfriendYou can throw the rules out of the window, when giga chad appears. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What kind of girl do you think is the girl elaborated below?Nope. Broken to the core. Probably needs therapy. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?These rules are for the unattractive guys. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How did I fumble all girls last nightVery confusing story. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?The right guy can’t do anything wrong. The wrong guy can’t anything do right. You were the wrong guy for her. And be happy about it. Someone like her, is a bag of problems. And the faster you know that, the better. And focus on improving yourself, mentally, physically, emotionally, so to build assets. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Most good posts are from years agoOnline dating is wrecked. More then offline dating. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Most good posts are from years agoWhat are „infields“? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:46 AM |
| 3 | Most good posts are from years agoSome things are timeless. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | What's w/ women and toxic guys?If she choose to mate with him, his behavior is almost irrelevant. And the more he projects abundance, the higher her sex drive goes. Why is that so? Because the needier a guy is, the more he resembles a child. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | I (25F) don’t know how to find guys/ get datesSport? | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do guys feel about their arm being held?Depends on how you hold them. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:36 AM |
| 20 | So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?Avoid dating apps. They work NOT in your favor! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Why do women love thugs so much?She don’t need to behave with bad guys, so she doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Tinder makes me depressed!Not when you‘re sitting at home. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Tinder makes me depressed!👆🏻This. Invest the time in your skills. Show up on places where you can show the skills, and where females are around. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I unlearn game?Do the opposite what you usually do? | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | What is needy behaviour?You care way too much what she thinks. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 10:13 PM |
| 7 | What is the purpose of a first date?Screening. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:56 AM |
| 21 | A guy is continually hitting on my girlfriend even when she tells him to stop and i am scared that she gets assaulted by him in her schoolYou can tell him, you show his picture the cops, and fill a paper for harassment, if he doesn’t stop. And your girlfriend could and should block his number. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | A guy is continually hitting on my girlfriend even when she tells him to stop and i am scared that she gets assaulted by him in her schoolWhich make fragile egos into serial killers. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?Abundance mindset and if she goes for the bad guy, she doesn’t need to be good herself. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | My favourite date ever if you both like to be active: BoulderingWhere do you pay 10€? | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:07 PM |
| 8 | My favourite date ever if you both like to be active: BoulderingIt’s expensive. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:43 PM |
| -3 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !I see two reasons for it: 1. daddy issues, 2. feminism. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 11:07 AM |
| 94 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !You get punished for „harassment“, if you’re ugly. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 10:32 AM |
| 5 | Your Looks Will Catch Her, Your Game Will Keep Her.And I have to play games, until I die, right? | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 10:13 AM |
| 6 | Tips on quitting porn ?Do something with your hands. Programming, wood work, drawing. Keep them occupied. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk to women when you're not into Harry Potter, The Office, astrology, Marvel movies, anime, or video games, etc?Check out „Hataraku Saibo“! | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Guys how can I make new habits unconscious such as having good posture I have slouched posture when standing , I want to always have my shoulders back and upright without having to consciously think about itTwo to four weeks. But it’s more important you do it on the same spot, the same time. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Guys how can I make new habits unconscious such as having good posture I have slouched posture when standing , I want to always have my shoulders back and upright without having to consciously think about itFor the first weeks, you have to remind you consciously. But you could set up yourself an optical reminder. For example a little figure which makes a hero pose. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 53 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitThe most interesting thing about attraction I read was, „Do you match your own definition of being an attractive guy?“. That should show. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?They tell you what they believe what they use to select a mate. But most of them tell you about their ideal self, not their real self. When you look at what they say they want, and what they actually choose, believe what you see, and capitalize on that? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Seducing women with a disability/deformation and a perspective on why looks truly don't matter.For anyone who is curious like me, this is the post he was talking about: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e7tol8/why_looks_dont_matter/ | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Girl says she's interested, but takes several hours to respond to my messages.If words don’t match actions, prefer their actions to judge. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:40 PM |
| -1 | Did people have an “abundance mentality” 20 years ago?My dad comes from an era, where they internet was not a thing. All I can tell is, he cared for them, sometimes more, sometimes less, even if they got separated. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Going out with a teacherWait the year. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if you’re having sex with a girl and her pupils start dilating?Keep going. She’s deeply relaxing. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 11:33 AM |
| -2 | Signs that I am attractive?One clear sign is, if she bites her lips. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes. It’s annoying. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | MEN -have you ever complimented a woman on something just because you thought it's what she wanted to hear?Very common. Men constantly tell women all the lies they wanna hear. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:37 AM |
| 4 | Girls with daddy issuesDo that for the next years. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Giving girls shitDespite you‘re not being authentic. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why can I get hookups but not a single relationship my entire life?Dating apps are for hookups. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Why is being social media inactive a huge turn on for womenAbundance. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I learned that it is okay to not to please anyone, except me. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Read „No More Mr. Nice Guy!“ by Dr. Robert Glover. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women fall for me romantically, but not sexually, despite them finding me physically attractive?You need to learn to polarize and escalate. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I want to know where it is going. It‘s your part to have a plan. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What plays a big role seducing men?I like them a bit bold, light hearted and naughty. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Some books to that can kinda guide me to act more manly and more mature.Read „No More Mr. Nice Guy“. And check out the Youtube channels of „Entrepreneurs in Cars“, „MindfulAttraction.Org“ and „Alexander Grace“. | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Do the rules of seduction apply to women too?When I see a person dressed like you, she communicates „don‘t talk to me, I don’t wanna be bothered“. She wears some kind of armor to protect her. For me, you have two routes: 1. change your surrounding: go to heavy metal festivals, or gothic meetings to meet like minded people, 2. change your style: to attract the person you want in your life. I suggest to try it with route #2. Because that let you grow as a person. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Do the rules of seduction apply to women too?Tough bitch -> masculine trait -> attracts feminine guys. I like to get the feminine side out of tough girls, but that’s me. Most tough guys wanna someone to protect, not to compete as partner. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Do the rules of seduction apply to women too?I read about „cardio“ all the time. What exactly is „cardio“? | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | InsecurityImprove yourself. I make HIT every two days, and despite it is exhausting, I feel my body and more masculine because of it. And about the hurt feeling, deep breathing excercises like the Navy Seals do do help. | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 24 | Why Moving On Is The Best Thing for You and Society.Who has time for that? | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Based on science we men are more attracted to women who shows signs of youth and fertility such as big boobs and hip to waist ratio we automatically feel attraction when we see those it’s hard wired into our brain . WHAT ABOUT FEMALES ? What are they hard wired to be attracted toHeight, wide shoulders, deep voice. | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If this is true, what is the use?Marketing: Perceived value vs. value. | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Well intentioned guys are labelled as creeps far too casually these days...Making fun of her hobby was the bad part. And she connected that with the research you made. Which made the whole thing go south. So I suggest, to stop research, or keep damn quiet about what you know. Let her tell you, what she wanna tell about herself. And then listen closely. Ask follow up questions, if you are interested in what she has to say. Or change the topic to something more interesting for you. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Btw I’m 15:)Good kisses comes with good feelings. | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like all the desirable girls have a boyfriendPerception aka „filters“. Your focus is set on them. As an excercise for you: The next time you walk in a park, count the girls that sit alone. That should shift your perspective a bit. As a general rule of thumb: Always have an eye on your assumptions/expectations. | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Why did I get more girls as a simp?It‘s the looks. Girls are as horny when it comes to it as man. | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Most women aren’t actually “radical feminists”Modern day feminism is bullshit. It doesn’t even cater women. Or how do you explain „fifty shades of grey“? | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 02:05 AM |
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