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Iknowmyabds/r/seduction10/05/14 08:33 PM
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Go to College Summer Sessions/Classes to day game. GO downtown somewhere to night game.
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:51 PM
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Bro if this was easy, every guy would do it. If overcoming our insecurities and not giving a fuck about what others thought of us (Especially girls!), the world would be a much better place. Why do you think divorce rates are so high? Why does the world rely on social circles and alcohol to meet new people? Why would I rather stay at home and jerk off then go out and meet new people? Because this shits hard! My friends tell me dumb shit all the time, like let a girl come into your life naturally…
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:17 AM
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Heard downtown for night game is lacking and that SF is better. I'll make do. For daygame San Jose's fine. I've been to College Campuses around the South Bay, and there are plenty of girls to game. HIt me up if you're down.
/r/seduction12/05/14 06:24 AM
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If telling yourself that'll get rejected doesn't help like it does for me, then game Plain Janes or girls you would just barely consider attractive. Its a good way to warm up and get out of your head. Plus you'll be less intimidated by them.
/r/seduction01/05/14 08:27 AM
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I have to disagree with you on this. I find when I skip out on approaching a cute girl, I not only get mad at myself, but get more nervous. I get more in my head. I make more excuses not to approach. I rationalize more. I skip out on more approaches. My two cents.
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:58 AM
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I struggled with this. How I fixed this was by telling myself, "All right you know what Iknowmyabds fuck you. We're going to approach and get rejected. It will suck major balls but at least I'll know I approached." Its really weird. Last Thursday I did 20+ approaches, felt like a god, got an instant date, and hella ass numbers. Friday Morning, I felt like shit and my social anxiety came back like a mother fucker. I did only 6 approaches in 2 hours and got rejected hard. I felt like shit for gett…
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:25 AM
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Yo I'm happy for you and shit and I hate to rain on your parade, but Alcohol and men have a long history of getting laid together, so I'm not surprised you got some while drunk. Not only that but its hard to remember what you did right and wrong when you're extremely drunk. When I'm drunk I think I have hella game when I get girls, but then afterwards my friends literally tell me, "Yeah both you and her didn't understand a single word the other person said but you guys were fucked up enough to n…
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:06 AM
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Yeah I think we would have made great wingmen. Checked out your profile and I like your posts on this subreddit, you're definitely not a keyboard jockey. I'll be keeping an eye on you haha
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:51 PM
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I think we're twins. Do you by chance live in the bay area?
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:46 PM
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Good things to base your worth on is up to you. Every persons different. For me its whether or not I push my comfort zone. Inner Game is what people call the idea of boosting your confidence through your own standards and not what society tells you to. I highly recommend watching all 20 hours of RSD's Blueprint Decoded. The program is RSD Tyler ranting about developing Inner Game.
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:04 AM
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Solid 8, I love Asian girls and I almost exclusively hit on them. Yeah every girls different. Some girls will love you for approaching them, others will be awkward about it and try to put you down. You take the good with the bad. "Every morning when I wake up, I just want to go to class, head back to my dorm, play video games, reddit, jerk off, and call it a day." That was my entire life in High School.Then once I got into College I decided I would rather be a creepy Asian dude trying to improve…
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:57 AM
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"Regardless of how much success you have, the failures are not just your failures, they are failures which effect real people's lives..." Best case scenario I make someones day. Worst case scenario I annoy someone for a couple of minutes at the most. Awkward conversations don't really affect peoples live that much, I mean when was the last time you got extremely harmed by someone starting a random ass conversation with you? In the grand scheme of things, I'm more often than not giving value to p…
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:45 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction29/04/14 01:17 AM
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Confidence is how much you trust and love yourself. Kanye West thinks hes the shit and has hella confidence a a result. We as males judge our self worth on a lot of things, getting girls is definitely one of the larger factors. So your brain went "FUCK YEAH I GOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS HOT ASS GIRL. I MUST BE THE SHIT. I AM THE SHIT!". Boom confidence boost. Its a doubled edged sword though bro. Cuz as soon as your girl dumps you, your brain goes, "Oh shit this girl don't like me anymore. T…
/r/seduction29/04/14 12:56 AM
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Many of the posts in this subreddit are by people who are keyboard jockeys, or people that get lucky. Quality posts are a rarity, and your posts here are half the reason I still go on this subreddit despite its declining quality. Totally agree with the post. Using canned routines and openers when starting out will only hamper your unavoidable transition to natural game later on.
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:13 AM
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http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/creeping-girls-out-yay/ You're going to creep out girls no matter what. ANd girl always have abritrary and stupid reasons for thinking you're creepy. I've had girls call me creepy ranging from things to just saying Hi and for "making too much eye contact". That being said, if possible it is always better to hit on girls you know you will never see again. Like at bars, colleges you don't go to, etc. Thats cuz when you're starting out and are therefore more li…
/r/seduction18/04/14 03:39 PM
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He emailed the books. I read it, and while it was decent, most of the material is just stuff he already gave out for free on this forum. I regret purchasing it for 15 bucks lol.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:57 PM
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Totally agree with you on every point. And yeah I feel like doing cold approaches and pickup is a hobby that I plan on doing for a VERY long time.
/r/seduction02/04/14 07:02 AM
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You say you've been at this for 5 years, if what you're saying is true then you must have had one hell of a journey. My questions would only scratch the surface. Delete this post and make another one talking about everything you've been through. Because as long as this post is up, all you're really doing is trying to milk this subreddit for subscriptions.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:01 AM
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This smells like a thinly disguised way of trying to advertise your Channel, and this video has nothing relevant or useful for the community. How this has so many upvotes boggles me. If you actually want to thank /r/seduction, then please actually give us information on your journey rather than link your channel.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:55 AM
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I wouldn't worry about any of this seduction and pickup shit until you're at least in College.
/r/seduction09/03/14 10:06 PM
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RSD is mainly for those that are going out. Good on you for being honest, but 6 months is too long to be just reading. I fell into this trap too. I thought the more I read, that somehow once I read enough I would just get it and suddenly never get rejected. Then I actually went out, and suddenly everything I learned just disappeared. All that theory and memorization was for nothing. You can read a book on how to ride a bicycle and be like "ok so once I push down with one foot I relax my other le…
/r/seduction09/03/14 08:44 PM
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What do you mean by studying pick up? Like just reading, or actually going out?
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:52 PM
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I really needed this. Thank you.
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:57 AM
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How long you been doing cold approach?
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:04 AM
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The guy in the video is Tyler Durden who definitely isn't gay and if you watch his other stuff like the Blue Print Decoded, you'll find out that he has worked his ass off to get to the level to where he is now. Was he a bit over the top? Definitely. But he's a high energy guy. I thought the way he handled it was great, because most other people would have reacted a lot more aggressively if someone attacked their character rather than actually be constructive about it. (Such as here when the dude…
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:47 PM
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Read your book and I have similar thought processes with yours. After doing this for nearly 5 months, its hard to not get frustrated and a little bit narcissistic from all the rejections and flakes. Yet I've had enough success to know its all worth it. The only times I have been able to get a girl attracted to me was when I entered the approach in a good mood. Or by staying positive and upbeat. And by being genuinely happy for the present moment for what it is. Doing cold approaches has made me …
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:12 PM
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Take the word creepy out of your vocabulary. Remember, you are the awesome person who is spontaneously starting conversations and giving value. If you think you're creepy or mention the word creepy, you're subconsciously enforcing the belief that you are not worthy of approaching women and are adopting a value taking mindset. When I approach a girl who is in front of me, I will speedwalk/run several feet ahead of her, turn around, and then open. Avoid approaching from behind and talking to their…
/r/seduction06/01/14 08:29 AM
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Congrats on your first cold approaches I am not funny! "Hey, I'm not trying to be a creep or anything, chuckle, but I thought you were cute so I came to say hi." It took me a solid month before I even worked up the balls to say a girl was cute on my opener, so good shit bro! However, in your opener never say anything or allude to what are you doing as "creepy" or "weird" Because believe it or not most girls are down to give you a chance if you confidently approach them. However as soon as you me…
/r/seduction06/01/14 07:58 AM
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Yeah I got one. Stop being a debbie downer on yourself. It kills the vibe and is a value taking mindset.
/r/seduction16/11/13 11:03 PM
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Over the summer I spent 4 days in a row at a nearby community college, 2 hours each day, working up the courage to cold approach girls. On each of those days I couldn't do it, my approach anxiety was too over powering. I literally spent a total of 8 hours just walking the campus being too afraid to do anything. Then college started. ON my second day there I was sick of doing nothing and being anti social. I approached my first set. I was absolutely terrified. I stuttered, up talked like crazy, e…
/r/seduction01/10/13 07:50 AM
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So I don't know you at all, and you are barely giving any specific details, but maybe the problem isn't your friends here. Maybe instead of being alpha you're just being a douche. There is a difference. Analyze your behavior more and see if thats the case. Or maybe your friends are a burden to you. But think carefully before cutting off friendships. I wouldn't do so unless I was 100% sure that my friends were deliberately bringing me down because they're afraid of how I've changed.
/r/seduction22/08/13 02:33 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I'm still struggling with approaching my first set due to AA, and from what I've heard from other people, their way of overcoming it was getting brutally rejected too. Noticing a pattern now :D
/r/seduction04/07/13 06:18 PM
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How'd you get over your approach anxiety from a year ago?
/r/seduction04/07/13 07:30 AM
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Learn to not give a fuck about being fat and become secure in yourself. Or lose weight. Up to you.
/r/seduction31/03/13 01:10 AM
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Fortune favors the bold indeed
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:50 PM
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Girls aren't stupid. If you're hitting on a girl you find unattractive and just using for practice, the girl will pick up on it and be turned off.
/r/seduction25/09/12 11:06 PM
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Take a look at Simple Pickup and Project Go.
/r/seduction24/07/12 08:01 PM
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What a boss.
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:28 PM
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