TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Ikuyas Archive

View 0 posts and 115 comments by Ikuyas on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

Another marketing
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:38 AM
1

Everything is bs except for one. Go out and ask 1000 girls out every fucking day. Then you will be fine with your crush.
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:12 AM
3

I never think giving your number like writing it down on a piece of paper is a good technique at all. I dont know why people do it and people recommend it. If that works then just asking her number will work too. So suppose you hear that it worked with somebody. But if he asked her number directly it would have very likely worked.
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:21 PM
1

It's a number game, unfortunately.
/r/seduction05/12/18 03:18 AM
1

happens all the time...
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:43 AM
3

No. It's very painful. I feel like I am wasting fucking time. It's not hard to find cute girls if you are approaching 100 girls every day. That's the most important thing.
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:43 AM
-7

I don't think I need the mindfulness or any shit. I come to r/seduction to seek the excitement.
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:41 AM
1

Wingman and wing girl (pidbit) helps a lot and going solo is strongly not encouraged. You want to make effort of getting wings and then approaching women become far easier. Out of 100, you make an effort of getting wingers like 70 and 30 efforts can be made on the ground. Counterintuitively or whatever simply having friends and looking like you having fun with them lead to the success. Another tip in case you didn't get to bring wingers you try to make friends or try to look like you are talking…
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:08 PM
5

Totally understandable.
/r/seduction01/12/18 11:16 PM
-1

It is not an advice. It's a basic. You can reflect the experience after collecting 1000 data points. Almost engineering and science projects analyze the result after collecting hundreds or thausand of observations. Analyzing each data as it comes in is simply scientifically a correct way. Also every PUA instructor will prevent the students from doing something like this. It's not really my opinion.
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:45 PM
-5

because I was asked "you are not a gay right?". At that moment I realized that that could be the case. It's not a result of analyzing.
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:38 PM
-4

Every woman. I say hi or hows it going to every single woman unless it would be awkward. I tried not to do that to the good looking guy as they might think I'm gay. The overanalyzing like this is a very typical mistake people make. Very typical. You may write up something like this after approaching 1000 women. That's what the best guys you are talking about do. Not freaking every day. I am not sure if it is a progressive. The habit of overanalyzing the way OP is doing could be harmful. Also wha…
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:12 PM
-16

You think too much. I do approach every fucking single woman I run into fucking every single day. I even tried to ask a woman out on the phone when I inquired about my credit card inquiry. She laughed so hard saying that she is almost half older than me. My default is to approach every single woman and make a decision not to do depending on the circumstances. If I would write the journal like this, I would need to write 10 pages every day. The fact that you have a time spared to write this up ev…
/r/seduction30/11/18 05:55 PM
-13

no
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:11 PM
9

tease (neg in PUA term) is the one you are looking for. It is actually not easy and require quite a bit of practice. You don't have to show sexual tension so much but teasing is very important to create a rapport.
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:30 AM
-2

no tindet please. if you cannot get chicks on tinder, then you have another kind of problem.
/r/seduction18/11/18 01:54 PM
1

The first date should be very quick, not involved too much unless you know the person before.
/r/seduction31/10/18 04:54 PM
-2

Shave your head.
/r/seduction31/10/18 06:50 AM
1

Does he have a job? What do YOU think makes him somehow attractive or getting laid? Any clues?
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:58 PM
1

I totally agree. I will say 99%. The confidence is the only and the most important factor.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:53 PM
3

16...
/r/seduction21/10/18 03:26 PM
1

This is a good suggestion. Think about it. Make a move without interacting her for two weeks or make a move tomorrow. Which one increases the chance? Leaving two weeks won't hurt at least. Do you think she will not like you if you leave two weeks out?
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:03 PM
1

This is a good suggestion. Think about it. Make a move without interacting her for two weeks or make a move tomorrow. Which one increases the chance? Leaving two weeks won't hurt at least. Do you think she will not like you if you leave two weeks out?
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:39 AM
2

That makes sense. You start being aware of the signs as your game improves, but you don't find a sign from women in a certain situation searching for one of the signs in your game. I think this is what is happening to you. But it pretty much makes sense. You don't get a sign like you get at a night club. So, you will need to adopt the completely different day-game technique.
/r/seduction15/10/18 08:49 AM
1

There is definitely a hope and the probability of success depends on how you play. Are you able to not see her or talk to her two weeks straight? If you can do this, when you see her you can make some move like suggesting to go to a new eat-out place or grab a Taco on Tuesday or something you can do together alone.
/r/seduction15/10/18 08:43 AM
1

It sounds like after you ask a phone number, you just need to leave the scene and text her later to have a drink alone. It seems like your engagement time is too long? After you talk to a woman in a large social circle, you are good at looking good. You say let's grab a drink next time, I will get your number, she will give it to you, then, leave her saying I saw my buddy I haven't talked to for a while or want to talk to someone new over there or something. Then, it's not gonna be a friend-zone…
/r/seduction15/10/18 08:38 AM
5

Yeah, "We should go on a date" is a mistake (as you know). But the thing is that you have thought too much about her and have built too much anticipation with no, nothing confirmation/preparation. Your ice cream thing could happen to anyone not specifically to you. Okay, I guess I don't have to condemn you on what you did. You think about this too much because you have not talked to/approach to women enough. You constantly need to talk to/speak to new women every day to improve some interaction …
/r/seduction15/10/18 08:25 AM
1

that's just because more people use Tinder. It is not a consequencw of law of attraction.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:21 AM
1

how can I learn it?
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:18 AM
3

It's very hard.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:16 AM
2

waste of your time to even ponder upon that idea.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:15 AM
1

dress cool and a good haircut simply does that though.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:14 AM
2

dont fucking worry about that when you are still 17. just try to have a good time, be nice, generous, and be nice to e everyone. get a short part time job and get to know many local people whom you will need to associate later in your life. love your parents and take care of your dog.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:11 AM
3

yes it does. ideally, it will not be a coffee date because you know each other. it makes no sense if you know the effect of the first short date as suggested elsewhere. you could have skipped all together to the campus activity or local concert. at this moment you use this opportunuty to suggest something to do this weekend or something such as "hey I saw this on a school paper do you wanna go and check out together?"
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:05 AM
-1

I would like to help you and would like to see how my consulting works. The advice like above is not a very good advice because it basically is telling you to obtain a monk like spirit to live your life. If you can do that by just getting told, you would have already been a superstar. Can you tell me what is your game like and can you tell me what you do every day to improve your skilll. I emphasized skill because I would like to know what you are considering as a skill.
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:12 PM
1

I see. Do you take off quickly after getting a number? You are supposed to leave the scene quickly after saying a few. I just wonder if you stay too long.
/r/seduction06/10/18 03:37 AM
1

Never never never ask why she does text you back. NEVER. It is hard but you have to pretend nothing had happened, pretend that you text so many girls simultaneously so you dont notice that she didn't text you back. Ideally you are supposed to be talking to multiple girls but at least you need to pretend.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:22 AM
2

You say hi.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:19 AM
1

If you get the eye, you say hi.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:17 AM
1

No. Just talk to other students. Online is a waste except for some cool Instagram pictures. Go to college sport games or just talk about entertainments.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:16 AM
2

Say hi to every single woman
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:14 AM
1

10-90 is okay. You should approach more so you dont need to care about the rate.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:14 AM
-1

Lose fucking weight. That's a basic.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:12 AM
3

Say hi to every single woman.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:10 AM
1

Confidence is actually everything. Almost 99% of things that are important is confidence. Every tricks or techniques are essentially how to equip yourself with the confidence or appear to be confident.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:08 AM
1

It kinds works and it leads to the next with a positive attitude.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:07 AM
0

Say hi
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:06 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:06 AM
1

Essentially, you will be even fine after doing the same shits 1000 more times as another redditor said. But things will get much better if you get a clean haircut, wear a cloth that fits, and get a decent cool shoes. If you can get streetwear type, then yo get more positive response. If you start getting a little more positive responses, then reaching 1000 times becomes easier.
/r/seduction30/09/18 08:29 PM
1

That's cool that you went to the next very quick without indulging into the despair.
/r/seduction30/09/18 08:25 PM
1

Do you have a website or facebook page for your confidence/dating coach service?
/r/seduction28/09/18 08:47 PM
3

I am sorry to hear that. The easiest next step will be to get dressed nice with clean, fit clothing and shoes every day. Get a decent hair cut. shave every (other) day. You can go to Gap website, and get the look you like from the models. ​ Are you fit enough? If you are too heavy, you will need to do some exercise, but you probably don't have to lose weight. You have to have a good posture. You can just go out for a walk, and when you do, make sure to walk straight, focusing on your posture. Th…
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:39 AM
1

Everyone gets the feeling. I know it's hard, I'm sorry. But you will have to hold yourself blow up. Suround yourself with good friends and family so that you don't feel so frustrated when it happens to you again.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:31 AM
1

more but she could move on right away.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:28 AM
1

Do you have a mentor or someone who helps you? Not having one or having a wrong one may be costing you.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:24 AM
-1

Men take her out on a date!!! Wtf are you thinking?
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:17 AM
2

The only thing I can think of you can do is to completely pretend nothing had happened, and behave as natural as possible in front of her. You need some emergent monk mindset but it is doable. You will feel tense when you see her but make sure to take a deep and loooong breath a few times, which will make you feel a bit better. When you find awkwardness feeling in yourself, just feel the awkwardness and understand how it is making you feel bad. This mind tactics is instead of trying to not care,…
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:13 AM
1

Sure. You basically talk to every person not necessarily women. Oddly it is more natural to do it to girls because if you do that to a guy he thinks you are gay, which gives you a worse feeling. So actually for me it is so much easier to girls.
/r/seduction26/09/18 07:40 PM
1

Lift up
/r/seduction26/09/18 11:11 AM
7

That's a very nice mindset. Instead of trying to pick up a woman whom you just saw or met, you try to make her feel a bit happier through the interaction with you. It is such a great mindset. A lot of PUA techniques actually do exactly this after all. The neg works because it gives a nice treasing childhood fun feeling to a woman. But I dont know if you must be a naturally funny person or pleasing person or you can be trained. I am naturally good at it and I do all the time everywhere if I see t…
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:47 AM
2

"Hows it going" with a lower tone will sound natural enough. It will sound like you are walking through a narrow space and you are letting them know that you are trying to go through by making a little noise. But you cannot care about saying just for hi. You will need to engage in the conversation after this training. Another good example is that when you get a self service coffee, you know like Einstein brothers you could bump into another person who tries to pour coffee in their paper coffee c…
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:31 AM
1

Dont play text game, period. That's not how the text game is meant to be used.
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:15 PM
1

Do you wear pants in public?
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:13 PM
2

Forget about having a good conversation with girls for now. That's much harder. Just say hi to every single woman you run into. You can actually say hi to every single person you run into. It is not that hard. It is very easy.
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:12 PM
1

Say hi to every single person you pass by. I do every fucking day. You dont have to look at their eyes, you say it like saying excuse me. After you do this for a week, you say I like your shirt or whatever outfit or accessories they are wearing. It is verrrrrry easy. After you do this, then you probably feel much better. There will be a few other hurdles after this but you can do that and overcome the first step. This is an easy part.
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:08 PM
1

It is a wrong mentality to wonder if some form of women asking guys out is fine or not. The OP has to try to learn how to let guys ask her out.
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:56 PM
1

This is a great story. If you want your girlfriend to look upper to you, you hire a couple of women to hit on you.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:47 PM
1

I managed to read the first time she showed up at your house with 47 red flags, and I dont know why you went to the 2nd day. I would like to read the rest of the story during the night before the this years Thanksgiving holiday while watching some homey 90's drama with my little cousins in a reclining chair.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:43 PM
3

That's bad.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:37 PM
1

"I like your style" is a basic. It works very well. If you can elaborate it, it is better meaning that you are training yourself to situations.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:37 PM
1

That was a good answer. You did a good job.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:35 PM
3

Yes of course.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:31 PM
2

You really need to learn how to let them ask you out. That's a wrooooooooong mentality. Some will say "there is nothing wrong with women asking guys out," but that's a very very bad advice. Listen to the advice that tries to tell you how to let guys ask you out.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:30 PM
2

Man, it's not harder at all to get a number from a coworker.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:26 PM
1

Because she caught you. PUA is a mainstream now and some of the techniques are known. I would say "No, why? I spent a summer working for a street vendar in high school. Hope I didn't look like trying to sell you something, haha."
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:22 PM
1

You may consider talking to girls in your every day place like a coffee shop, grocery store, a girl waiting for a traffic signal to turn. Meeting women at club is a story less, not romantic. Also with mind set, you can talk to many women during the day which reduces the needy feeling. It is surely difficult to close the number and create a rapport but that's what you learn from here or PUA community.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:14 PM
13

They are also talking to multiple men on Tinder. If they have a decent full-time schedule, they can only go out 3 times a week at night meaning that about 3 people if different men a week. Considering talking to one man takes a little effort and time for them over Tinder or a text message, it makes perfect sense to imagine why they behave this way.
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:23 PM
3

Wtf is the confidence coach first of all.
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:58 PM
1

I am sorry to hear that. Maybe it hurts you because you are proving that the love doesn't exit when you are seeking love at the same time?
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:39 PM
1

Wrong thesis. You dont stick to one topic. You jump around several topics within one conversation. You have to have a stack of things to talk about for a couple of minutes each not longer. Never stick to the same topic longer than 2 minutes. This is also a basic. Women are not patient enough to listen to you. Also 99% of time you want to let her talk. Completely wrong question to have.
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:32 PM
2

You can approach to women every day. Wrong mindset. You talk to every single woman you run into all day or entire afternoon after doing whatever need to do in the morning. You do this for a week or so then you dont even have to put yourself into a wired feeling mindset when you go out at night. This is a basic.
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:28 PM
1

This is a basic. This advice applied exactly to your case.
/r/seduction16/09/18 05:28 AM
1

You have to be talking to other girls simultaneously like 100 of them. You think too much because you feel desparate. Having an abundant of potentials mitigates the nervousness and would lead to the success more likely. With the current mindset, you will likely fail.
/r/seduction16/09/18 02:46 AM
1

That's not a right approach to your problem. You need to be talking to as many girls as possible like 100 constantly. It solves the problem. It's one of the basics in PUA.
/r/seduction16/09/18 02:41 AM
2

Hey, bear.
/r/seduction13/09/18 03:30 AM
3

"Let other talk most of the talking" is very important. I don't know why you would refute this. This is very easy as an idea and the action but your ego interrupts it in practice. If you try this, you will be surprised how much you cannot restrain yourself showing yourself off by saying something to impress your date or your friend. You really need to monk yourself to do this. If you can do this naturally as some people are very capable of it, then you can get benefit in the game.
/r/seduction03/09/18 09:26 PM
5

"you can formulate your goal in a way that they want to help achieve it instrinsicly" What does this mean?
/r/seduction03/09/18 09:18 PM
1

Who is Dale Carnegie?
/r/seduction03/09/18 09:17 PM
1

You are supposed to be talking to a few hundred of women at the same time. That is a basic.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:58 PM
2

Possibly.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:57 PM
1

You get away from here.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:56 PM
1

If you read Game by Neil Strauss, it tells you what wingman is supposed to do. The basic philosophy of wingman's role.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:53 PM
1

You need a friend or wingman. You don't have to make it more difficult. Focusing on getting a friend to go with or wingman first. Then approaching becomes a lot easiler.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:49 PM
0

You need a wingman. It is hard to go solo even for a professional PUA.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:47 PM
1

The secret is that you need to be approaching 200 women simultaneously.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:46 PM
1

Classic game by Neil Strauss about PUA and his second book. I think they are canonical in the community.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:41 PM
1

Everywhere. It is not impossible. You have to know how to open, create the rapport and eject after getting a number. You try to do this 20 times a day. It is a basic PUA routine. It is like doing pushup and situps 50 times a day.
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:39 PM
1

Never ask the question is one of the basics.
/r/seduction02/09/18 05:41 AM
1

One of the foundational methods in PUA is to talk and meet to as many women as possible like 1000 women in a week or 100 women in a day. This is pretty basic.
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:01 PM
1

Another good one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3r6kKn5_hUc
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:56 PM
1

Yes, you made a mistake.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:56 PM
1

Wrong sub to ask this type of question. You are supposed to ask 100 other girls out before or while asking this girl out.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:55 PM
1

Talking to a girl while she is walking is hard anyway. But she will stop at somewhere at some point. Then, you can open her. Or, if you keep glazing at her, then she will notice something may be strange on her, takes her headphones off. Then, you can say something like "I like your style of wearing a dress with converse sneakers."
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:54 PM
1

Good material to practice your skill with.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:50 PM
1

Almost universally, don't ask if you can do.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:49 PM
1

no, guys friend first and a lot. you don't need female friends in some sense. they will come off automatically by having a lot of guys friend.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:47 PM
-1

Is this from a girl? Wrong sub to ask?
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:54 PM
1

If he is worthy for you to make a friend with and do it, it tells your girl friend that you are a super alpha. Likely he may not. Maybe your girl friend can reply to him that you are wondering if you are a cool guy to hang with and ask what he does for a job and so on. If he actually does or have something then you can kinda take advantage of him not the way you exploit but do something both get benefit from. You may help him find a date and so on if it he seems worthy to spend some time for. I …
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:18 PM
7

In practice, it's probably 15%. If you approach 20 women, you would probably get a number or instagram like 80%. You could probably go out like 3-4 of them. But not even one of them could be anything, and you will probably not be interested in those 3-4 of them. You just experiment the interaction. One of one hundred women would be someone you can hook up to and you could actually want to invest your energy and resource to work with.
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:55 AM
3

Obviously clothing. I am 100% sure you dress like a gay guy.
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:53 AM
2

That was a worst advice. Dont listen. Everyone in this seduction sub knows that is so bad.
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:52 AM
1

Like many comments said, you get out of that me mentality by talking to other 200 girls. You will look very smooth with her after talking to other 250 girls. You have not done this preparation at all because you didn't mention it. This is absolutely one of the top 3 lists that you have to do as a preparation. You dont even to plan on anything if you have done it because your body remembers how girls will respond in response to your behavior and comments.
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:48 AM
1

Your mom tells you you can eat one cookie a day, and you agree because otherwise you won't be able to eat even one cookie. You still want to eat more cookies. This isn't anything special.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:33 AM
1

Tinder should be used just to practice your game. It's not a main platform. You should test things out and experiment new methods. Because girls are likely low quality, you can try to cross the line barely if the technique you want to try seems barely acceptable.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:21 AM
1

The motto is that you have to take a risk losing her in order to get what you want. But you don't have to throw yourself at the complete failure situation. You pursuit, she rejects, and you can pursuit a month later. You just need a patience to wait for 4 weeks.
/r/seduction12/07/18 03:31 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter