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DiscussionIlagaEduardo/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:49 AM
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And how many other young women are there, though? Women don't go out to those things because they generally don't have to. I moved to a small college town so I guess it's all kinda moot anyway though lol, none of that stuff is here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:22 PM
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...who mentioned anything about "degenerate shit"? You're making so many assumptions. I'm just saying that you're not gonna meet women under 45 doing anything outside of college, let alone doing "creative writing workshops" or whatever lol. Why not tell me to take a knitting class while you're at it if you really want me to meet grannies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:03 PM
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No offense but world do you live in that you think people under 45 go to "salsa clubs" or "writing workshops"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:42 AM
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Where are you finding them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:49 PM
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Ah, so they can't be found outside of college, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:24 PM
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“Why do women lust after Peter Dinklage, Tom Cruise, Mac Miller, Post Malone, Pete Davidson, Adam Driver, and (insert 100 or so heroin addicted musicians)” Peter Dinklage; on Being a Sex Symbol: 'I Don't Believe It for a Minute'. "They'll say, 'Oh, he's sexy,' but women still go for guys who are 6'2," the Game of Thrones stars says. Tom Cruise; literally one of the richest and most famous people in the world Mac Miller; admittedly only 5'5", but was also a hypermasculine famous rapper. Post Malo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:34 AM
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Ugh. All the people who say shit like "oh what do you think she's gonna call the cops on you for hitting on her? Lmao" are completely missing the point. It isn't that the police will get involved; it's that they'll slander you as a creep to everyone, maybe even online, and completely kill your social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:57 PM
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Uh, literally was one of my exes. She had us wait until the third date for sex, which was totally fine, I liked her company. Then after sex she literally told me about the time she fucked a Chad on a one night stand while on vacation. While we literally still lying in bed together. And didn't see anything wrong with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:24 AM
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I would probably construe a "date" like this as a platonic hangout Right. That's not a good thing. I would still go if I liked the person So if a guy offered to talk to you on a walk and 5 other guys in your inbox were offering you dinner and drinks, you'd take the former? Come on...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:07 AM
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Also that makes me hurt quite a bit you’ve never experienced being in love. I’m so sorry ...Have you not interacted with many people? That's the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:08 PM
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You can MAAAYYBEEE get away with that for high school, but you're kidding yourself with college. Imagine some 21 year old woman going "Yeah, I would love to walk around in the park and eat a $2 slice of pizza! That's way better than all the other guys who are offering to take me out for dinner and drinks!". Come on, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:44 PM
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Lol, what? Bro, what world are you living in that you think women are gonna want to go out with the guy who says "Let's go on a nice walk in the park!" as a date idea? It's not the 1950s, that worked on Betty Sue but it doesn't work today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:07 PM
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most men are in relationships That is 100% not true. 51% of men between 18-29 reported being single for the past year, and that done pre-COVID to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:40 AM
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Actually most neurodiverse people just end up alone. A study in Canada found that only 32% of people with autism had been in a relationship. Not currently in one; in a relationship ever. https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/single-with-autism-its-complicated/article14797656/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:28 AM
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And I didn't say you were poor. You're the one who brought up their SES originally, remember? And uh no that's not really how that works. I think we can safely assume it was done on a general sampling of the American female population and not some really weird niche like you seem to be arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:46 PM
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Yes, I'm sure the study conducted was made up of a majority of poor Eastern European immigrants with different cultural expectations and is in no way representative of the average young urban woman 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:37 PM
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https://www.newsweek.com/foodie-calls-women-dates-free-meals-personality-trait-1445156 Here's another article about the study with more hard data this time. It has little to do with income and mostly to do with personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:09 PM
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I would say that to do it even once is a serious reflection on their character. Not to mention the article literally says that women who have done it are also far more likely to think it's acceptable behaviour (of course). Your one-and-done dinner dater scenario is quite clearly the minority...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:52 PM
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Yeah. Aka they were the generation before you. Aka there was cultural crossover between the sexual practices and cultural opinions between Boomers and Gen X. That's kinda what I was getting at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:49 PM
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Being Gen X still puts you in your mid/late 40s. There's probably some crossover. But as a millennial, I know in my experience it's been pretty universal. I've outright gotten called misogynistic - by friends, even! - for wanting blowjobs from my (now ex-)gf that lasted longer than 45 seconds and didn't use lots of teeth, when I was spending 20+ minutes eating her out to multiple orgasms every time. This whole idea that it's somehow a regular thing that guys expect oral but don't return the favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:38 PM
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Right here https://nypost.com/2019/06/21/a-third-of-women-only-date-men-because-of-the-free-food-study/ A new study published Friday in the Society for Personality and Social Psychology journal found that a quarter to a third of heterosexual women have gone on a date with a guy they weren’t interested in — just for a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:31 PM
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1/3rd of women have admitted to dating a guy just to get a free meal. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:31 PM
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That literally never happens outside of literal baby boomers. A man who never gives oral is a selfish scumbag and you should dump him honey, but if a woman doesn't give oral, well that's her decision and you're not entitled to it. You're describing a scenario that by and large doesn't exist. EDIT: For the record I agree that a man who never gives oral to his partner is selfish, but the same is true for women as well. Problem is that the latter is far more accepted and defended by both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:05 PM
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...Go on? Or is that it, just a pithy remark and nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:33 PM
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You're not even legally allowed to use Tinder etc until you're 18, so half the women using it within the 4 year span it became available to them is pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:00 PM
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He should meet women outside of dating apps. And you should also win the lottery instead wageslaving, but that doesn't make it an actual viable tactic in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:35 AM
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The majority of relationships actually ARE started online via Tinder etc so you're completely wrong in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:17 AM
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Not out of the two choice, no. And I'm sure knowing that a 45 year old single mom will appreciate how "charming" they are is very comforting to all these charming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:27 AM
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There are not that much charming guys out there, even more good looking and charming. And? Women will take "good looking" over "charming" every. single. time. If they can get both it's a bonus, but they've made it quite clear what their preference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:33 AM
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Must be nice living in the 1950s and/or being hyper attractive and masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:47 AM
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It's not the same kind of loneliness though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:22 PM
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So do most incels. Do you really think hobbies or friends replace that crushing loneliness? Who are you kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:14 PM
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Do you actually think they're happy though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:11 PM
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I mean, what do you expect? They've been told their whole lives to never approach women because that's only what creepy rapists do. Likely they also tried to awkwardly flirt with a woman in the past and got disproportionately blown out by them so they lose all confidence in trying again. Which is another win for women, in most of their eyes really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:48 PM
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Dude, I had one of my exes lose attractiveness to me because I cried in front of her about my dad dying on the day he died. I'm not "making assumptions", that's how reality works. You can never show any sadness or weakness in front of a woman if you want to ever have any hope of her ever being interested in you. Maybe after you've dated her for a few years you can cry once, but better not to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:29 PM
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I can't think of a single woman I know who wouldn't judge me negatively for crying. At the very least, doing so would take me off the board for dating them ever. Most men will tell you the same, which is why this thread even exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:33 PM
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So many men don't know how to talk to women outside the realm of wanting to date them, sleep with them, be liked by them. They only engage with women on these terms. Because that's essentially how men have to act to have any kind of chance with them. Engaging them the same way they would another guy or a friend or whatever just means they'll never get anything going and it'll never go anywhere. Men and women waste a fuck ton of time on people they aren't compatible with. If your goal is to be wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:49 AM
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Sorry I took so long to respond, I was dealing with midterms. The problem is essentially what you're suggesting is based upon a fantasy past that doesn't exist anymore. And incidentally, the idea you think these women all have empty inboxes is frankly laughable. Do you really think a woman who posts pictures of herself at the beach surfing doesn't get oodles of attention? Even the woman who uploads her own art is going to get DMs and comments and attention by the truckloads. But again, men, even…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:38 PM
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So in that case, what would you consider to be best actions for that guy to take in that scenario? Would you advice him to lie about the amount/length of relationships he's been in in order to not constantly be excluded? You're starting to get it now, I think. See, most guys wouldn't really give a shit if a woman had only ever been in three relationships her whole life; if anything, it might be a positive to them. But the reverse is absolutely not true. Apart from some hyper insecure women, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:25 PM
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They’re flooded with depressed and low self esteem poverty creating poverty. Yeah, and they're not the ones fucking, dude. It's the guys who thugmax or posture masculine and aggressively and show off shit they bought on credit they can't afford who are fucking. Not some average looking depressed latchkey kid. All low SES environments but ESPECIALLY American projects are like a cartoonishly exaggerated mirror of hypermasculinity and 80/20 rule bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:17 PM
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Two or three short term relationships by 30 is pretty abysmal tbh, unless you live in a very small town. Maybe we're working off of different ideas of what short term means? I'm thinking around between 3 months to under a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:11 PM
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Again What is your evidence of this? Depression, poverty and low self esteem aren’t stopping impoverished women from fucking you if you’re fairly good looking. Like... Where/how do you think poor depressed men are going to meet women? And what on earth makes you think impoverished women are going to want to fuck them anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:53 PM
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Excellent response! Now here's the thing; in order to make this work, you had to not only go all the way back to the time you were a teenager, but also pull up a guy who is an absolute extreme outlier. Most men don't reach 10 sexual partners IN THEIR LIFETIME, let alone 15 partners while they're still in their teens. The simple fact is that on average, women have higher numbers of sexual partner than men do, and that gap has only widened over time. So the "similar experience" argument doesn't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:42 PM
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I mean, I'll just ask the key question again straight up; why would you want to date a man that almost no other woman is interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:27 PM
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If lots of people like a product and want to try it, that doesn't make it broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:24 PM
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What do you mean? Who wants to buy an unpopular product that nobody else wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:22 PM
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I mean, sure, but not even talking about that level of an extreme. Just the basic idea of a guy who is (let's use your example age) around 30 and he's only ever had two or three girlfriends before in his entire life. Wouldn't that history a red flag to you? If he isn't at all desired by other women, why should you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:14 PM
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What evidence do you have to base that upon? Because my entire argument was that even an above average man will never be approached as much as a below average woman. In the past, average looking men with anxiety or shyness or depression would still end up in relationships because of parents being matchmakers or meeting people through community events. Communities themselves were also much smaller. Now, even an above average man who suffers from things like shyness or depression, or hell, just is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:02 PM
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That's literally not true at all. I lived in a major city and I'm fairly good looking and still didn't lose my virginity until I was like 26. Depression, poverty, and low self-esteem are a bitch. And it feels like you're projecting based upon how men will approach women; even an above average 7/10 man is pretty much never going to be approached by women, while a 3/10 woman could just make a profile and get men hitting on her without leaving the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:49 PM
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Isn't the logic generally "if other women didn't want this guy, why would I?" though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:37 PM
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So basically he should be in a never-ending hamster wheel of "just fix this one other thing, no fix that other thing, just one more thing, and THEN you'll be able to date, I promise"? Great solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:31 PM
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That's completely untrue. They can just as easily have problems with anxiety, depression, be too poor to be able to date, live in a city without many dating opportunities, or even simply just have bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:34 PM
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A lot of malls in the states actually made it against their rules for teenagers to loiter in their mall, which is why you rarely see teens in malls anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:35 PM
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You didn't even answer how or where men are supposed to find this other totally unique subset of women, just the places that they can meet the majority that you decry. So I don't really know what your point was here at all. Not to mention pretty much all the places you just listed - clubs, parties, OLD, etc, - are the only places it's socially acceptable to meet women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:12 AM
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You yourself just said they're the majority of the women though, and the easiest to find on top of that. Where or how do you expect men to find the other 4 out of 10 women when they are a minority and don't really exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah lmao, like if that electrician has his own company (most career tradesmen do), he definitely makes more than her even lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:02 AM
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Especially in North America where the standards are so low for men LMAO WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:21 PM
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Obviously not all men, but the majority of them. Go read an FTM subreddit or speak to them in person; you'll get the same story from pretty much all the straight transmen - that they went from being noticed and approached and appreciated when they were women to being completely invisible to the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:40 PM
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Realllllyyy making a lot of assumptions about me and my life right now ain't ya?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:14 PM
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Okay, well it doesn't mean that women are attempting to walk through men like they're holograms but you knew that already, don't be pedantic.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:12 PM
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Except the standards of what is considered "loneliness" is entirely different for women vs men. They had to make the Forever Alone Women subreddit private because the userbase's inboxes kept being stuffed with offers from male Redditors wanting to date them. Loneliness for a woman is not being able to land the guy she wants. Loneliness for a man is not ever having his mere existence acknowledged.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 02:29 PM
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Non-playable character Sexual marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:32 PM
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Because men have lived that situation their whole life, but it's new and exciting to women. You don't go to tourist traps in your own hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:57 PM
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Um, no, it's actually a very well researched phenomenon and something we've known for decades. Here's one of many many studies. https://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371/journal.pmed.1000316 Quite simply, being alone carries the same increased risk of early death as being a smoker and is actually a higher risk increase than obesity is. Humans are some of the most social animals in existence, if not the most - of course it's going to have a major impact on our health when we're de…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:17 PM
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Nobody is really truly happy being alone, that's a cope. You literally die younger and sicklier if you're alone. They can learn to tolerate it, but nobody is actually happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:49 PM
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Yes, short men can be as desirable as a tall man. Most women do prefer tall men but that doesn't mean height automatically makes you undesirable compared to someone taller. But... it literally does? Like short men are immediately excluded from the majority of the dating pool just based off of their height alone. In fact, a man's height affects literally everything in the world, from his lifetime earnings to his lovelife to even his risks of suicide. Maybe there's women out there who are fine wit…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 06:48 PM
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Just because it sounds unbelievable doesn't mean it's not true sadly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:34 PM
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I think it's just a different kind of miserable, that's all. Also, once you hit 30+, no, there really aren't better people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:47 PM
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What does your Dr Phil platitude here have to do with anything I posted?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 05:40 PM
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Lol. What in the fresh fuck is that crap? This is peak stupidity. The overwhelming majority of women wouldn't dump their boyfriend for such a mentally deficient reason. Look up "the ick". Women who lose attraction over guys for the smallest things like running to catch the bus or being born in a "feminine month like April" is super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:39 PM
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It's either that or be all alone. It's not surprising so many people pick the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:37 PM
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Not do what? Actually refute any points or engage in honest discussion?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 05:34 PM
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Because the frustration is coming from the people outright lying and gaslighting. They aren't saying "yes, tall men have the advantage but that doesn't mean you should give up, you can offer other things", they're saying "it's all in your head you're being crazy I love short men it just so happens my boyfriend is 6'2" but I'd still love him even if he was short, stop worrying about your height literally no woman has ever cared about heights etc" and it's insulting and treats us like we're stupid…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 05:33 PM
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Does she say the reason why she prefers short men? Also, one person preferring shorter men doesn't change the fact that as a whole, women really generally don't like short guys. Like remember that study where they asked different women about heights and it turned out only 32% of women said they'd date a guy who is 5'7", compared to 98% who said they'd date someone 6'0" ? Edit: links. It's not the exact study I was thinking of because I'm on mobile and can't access my bookmarks but same basic inf…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 04:57 PM
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Ah yes, the mysterious woman everyone knows with a thing for short balding Indian janitors.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 04:44 PM
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What if you don't GET any opportunities though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:33 AM
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Because nearly every woman can be hypergamus but almost no men can. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:02 PM
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Get out of the bubble, go to a museum event, a film festival, a lecture at the library, a day club, etc... Ignoring the fact that there's still COVID... people don't talk during those things, simple as. At least not to strangers. In a big city, a stranger making any kind of conversation puts you on edge and makes you think "what does this person what from me?".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:09 AM
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This strikes me as either advice-from-Chad (a guy who has never in his life had to struggle to get attention from women) In another comment in this thread he mentions being 6'1" with an "above average physique", soooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:10 PM
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I guess that's true but it's really depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:14 PM
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Gonna tell us how, or are you still in jail from doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:11 PM
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Interesting that you believe the average man being loved and a disabled person being able to walk to be on the same level of ludicrousness. I think the kids call this telling on yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:21 AM
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So instead we just get to spend our lives lonely and miserable. Great trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:40 AM
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Then what were you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:31 AM
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Or you're a woman living in a major city with access to Tinder and bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:09 AM
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Whenever people say things like that, it usually means their standards are actually sky-high and close to the clichéd six-six-six, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:06 AM
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I think it's a bit extreme to jump right to assuming any man who talks to you outside of a bar or party setting is a "dangerous sex pest" who will happily sexually assault you... don't you? Where are men supposed to approach you - or other women- ever then? How are men supposed to approach, for that matter as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:13 PM
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That's uh not really what I was getting at at all lol. But also as a woman, you're given the ability to have men approach you so you can easily filter like that. The only reason you'd be single is because you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:52 PM
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So essentially... just cruelly crush the spirits of young men by telling them they don't deserve love or being loved, but continue to feed women the Prince Charming yaaasss kween narrative? Not sure how you think this will lead to anything except more dudes going Elliot Rodger, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:36 PM
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Oh I'm not, I'm not saying you haven't had those experiences with those types of women. I'm just telling you that making generalisations of all women because you have had negative interactions with some women is wrong. I've been really hurt by a lot of men, it would equally as wrong for me to generalise all men as sexual predators and rapists because of the actions of a minority of men. And the statistic for women being the victim of sexual assault or rape if something like 4/5 women, yet the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:28 PM
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My standards for casual sex are simple: be physically attractive to me This means literally nothing though. It's fundamentally impossible to judge what your standards are with a statement like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:08 PM
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You're in a better position to talk about what you like, not what women in general like. Men are the ones who are dating (or not dating) women, we know the way we've been treated by women, the type of men we see having the most success with women, etc. I understand how it can be frustrating to have men just tell you "no you're wrong shut up", but you're basically doing the exact same thing to men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:04 PM
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Come on... are you really saying you don't think the majority of women are into tall masculine rich guys? Not every woman, sure, but most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:53 PM
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because not every woman finds that attractive. Not every woman, but the vast vast majority do. Go ask random women what they like in guy and "tall, masculine, muscular, rich" is bound to come up in some form in at least 90% of the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:46 PM
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at a park at the beach at the mall at a store at work Are... are you being serious right now? Club bar and school, sure. But the mall, store, or a public park? You're living in a fantasy world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:32 PM
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You've got it backwards. Don't get married if you can't afford to get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:45 PM
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Yeah lol, it's so textbook that I actually think the story is leaning towards fake. Especially the part where he reveals that the OP is 7" so if Billy Box Buster is still way bigger than him then the dude must be dragging his thing on the ground lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:44 PM
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I’m just saying people all the time pick someone who doesn’t sexually satisfy them Yeah and then they get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:42 PM
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The ex broke up with HER. She didn't chose this guy over the ex, she wasn't given the choice to do so. She literally cried to the new guy about how much she missed her ex on their 4th date together. Am I the only one who actually read the whole thing? And I would hardly call slagging off your fiancé's penis and talking about how much of a more well endowed and better lover her ex was to be "venting about your partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:26 PM
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...Did you actually read the whole post? The ex broke up with HER, and on the OP and her's fourth date, she literally cried about how much she missed her ex. It's fucking textbook. But even ignoring that backstory, talking about sex isn't the same as slagging off your soon-to-be husband to your friends about how small his dick is compared to her ex. It's not even like she said "he might not be the biggest, but he's still an amazing lover" or something, she just straight up insulted him on both f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:23 PM
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It has nothing to do with the actual dick size at all and everything to do with the fact that she's still mentally dating the ex. Get a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:17 PM
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But she's not emotionally attached. Emotionally attached people don't tell others that their current husband is an inferior lover, for one. Actually, I take it back, she is emotionally attached. The problem is that she's still emotionally attached to the ex and is completely and resentfully settling for the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:17 PM
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There is no man that is 100% universally attractive. No, but there are men that are 99% universally attractive. You really think there's a sizable number of women out there who are gonna turn down a Chris Hemsworth?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:05 AM
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Just be yourself LMAO, really? You're just gonna drop that with zero irony? compliment on her, such as her outfit, hairstyle, nails, etc. Great way to make yourself seem gay af to her, good plan!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 09:46 AM
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Literally the entire world thinks that taller = better, in all aspects of life. Don't try to act like it's some weird personal hangup I have when you keep trying so damn hard to pretend that him being so tall wasn't at all a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:25 AM
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Because he's literally in the top 1% height of men in the world. It's self explanatory. It's totally believable that the main reason you like him is for his personality or whatever, but to just lie and say it wasn't any kind of factor at all is grating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:56 PM
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His height "wasn't a factor" in his attractiveness, but "it just so happens" he's in the top 1% height of men in the world. Do you get it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:33 PM
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That's not relevant at all to the discussion. You are fundamentally failing to understand the entire point of the "It just so happens" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:31 PM
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Your husband is in the top 1% of male height in the world. Stop acting like that wasn't a huge factor, it's insulting to everyone. As I said to the other user, it always "just so happens" you end up with an ultra tall person. It never "just so happens" that they dated tall guys but married a shortie. And 5'9" is completely normal male height so I'd be shocked if you did divorce over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:49 PM
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Right. And you didn't marry those 5'7 men at all, did you? "It just so happens" that both your husband and hers ended up being in the tallest 2% or less of men in the world, surely it was coincidence. The whole reason "it just so happens" is such a meme is because it never works out the other way. How many times do you think anyone ever sees women say they used to date tall guys but it just so happens they married someone 5'7"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:47 PM
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I’m about 5’2, I’ve usually dated men who were 5’5-5’9 since I’m so short. Wait for it... My husband is 6’4 but his height wasn’t necessarily desirable trait or factor in why I started seeing him. I was actually a little intimidated by the height difference at first. TEE HEE IT JUST SO HAPPENS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:55 PM
1

Who said she's not attracted to him? Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:15 AM
2

You're not a woman though (I assume) so it's totally different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:43 PM
1

Neither does yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:49 AM
1

The fact that someone very attractive chose you out of all the options that night? The raw aggressive passion of the sex? The list goes on. I mean if the orgasm - that anyone can give you, btw - is that important, then why not just stay at home and give yourself that orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:17 AM
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Like I said earlier; any man can lick a woman out until she orgasms. It's not a big deal, I am that Bobby Beta so I've done it so many times. But getting a tall jacked Chad to destroy you and make you into his is a one-off, something worth remembering. My most recent (now ex-)girlfriend told me how she fucked a musician on vacation via ONS while she was literally in bed with him right after the first time we had sex. Which sex act do you think she remembered and told future partners about; the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:57 AM
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Then what does that say about literally every single woman I've ever interacted with? The first gf that I was perfect to who still cheated on me with a tall mega Chad? The guy from our old friend group who was tall and attractive and turned out to be a rapist? The woman who was borderline raped by him and forgave him so she could hook up with him more? Etc etc Nobody is going out there looking for mentally unstable women, least of all me. I'm just telling you that's how most women are, at the ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:50 AM
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Well... why do you think /r/deadbedrooms is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:36 AM
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...but anyone can give you an orgasm? Like... that's not a stand-out thing. Why would something so common be such a defining factor? A 10/10 Chad jackhammering you is a one-off, but some mediocre looking guy licking you out until you come is whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:35 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't quite understand what you mean. How often meaning...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:32 AM
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But like... Was that a one-off though? Because I've done that for every single partner. I don't really think that sticks out very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:06 AM
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Then you should take yourself to Vegas sometime, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:57 AM
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You're right. That was stupid and overly aggressive of myself. I'll take that stupid huffy "so THERE!" thing back. But I would like an actual answer to my question, which I guess would be more succinctly summed up as "what do you think a woman prefer and/or remember - aggressive sex with an attractive man where she doesn't orgasm, or a completely average man licking her out to orgasm?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:54 PM
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No but they also weren't hookups, they were relationships. Different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:47 PM
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I'm saying you answered your own question. She would get into the relationship for attention, money, and stability
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:35 PM
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3 if you count transmen, otherwise just one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:33 PM
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I'm asking honestly. Here, let me rephrase a bit - which one do you think she'll remember more, the night of wild angry sex with a buff attractive guy where she didn't orgasm, or the night when some average guy licked her out to an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:28 PM
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Finance and tech are basically the same fucking thing in terms of overtime etc. Are you kidding me? And nobody is "justifying male failures", you're speaking from a privileged ivory tower trying to crap on everyone else for not being born with the same stability and money you have - and I can tell you definitely know it and you're getting a kick out of it. It's not a subtle thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:15 PM
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Yeah, I'm oh-so-sure that the big dick Chad picking up a new girl at the bar every week or swiping on her at 2 am is really just so concerned with her sexual pleasure 🙄 come on, who do you think you're kidding right now? Chad doesn't have to care about how she feels about sex because it literally doesn't matter. Also lots of those big dick Chads are normal nice people who would genuinely feel pretty awful about leaving a sexual partner feeling used and unsatisfied. Like that's not an outcome mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:11 PM
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Try to read all of my post before you respond, okay? The majority of jobs do not LET you work overtime. I have in fact been reprimanded and even fired for putting in extra time at work. You are living in an UMC tech world bubble and extrapolating that to the whole working world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:01 PM
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Oh, you mean that study that Jordan Peterson loves to quote that has no real bearing on most jobs or reality at all? That article is literally only about making extra money via overtime, and that's it. Most jobs don't even OFFER overtime. I have in fact been fired from a previous job for working overtime hours. You are clearly living in some UMC techbro bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:44 PM
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By that logic, owning a mansion and becoming a millionaire are also "under a person's control" and thus men have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:39 PM
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The idea that you think that someone can earn a post graduate degree or raise their earnings if they just try a little harder is patently ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:35 PM
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Why would a women get into a relationship with a guy she doesn't wanna have sex with? First time around here, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:34 PM
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Until a year or so a large percentage of the posters here swore that women loved being jackhammered, for a while it was a recurring topic with pill guys touting the benefits of humping away with no regard to her anything. Yeah, because women love it when Chad does that. I've said this before and I'll say it again; what do you think women are more likely to reminisce and remember about - some average Bobby Beta who dutifully licked her out to orgasms, or a super sexy Gigachad who jackhammer her u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:32 PM
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I know none of the nerds who post here actually know anything about casual sex but I've had lots of it with very attractive men and this is literally not true. Lmao okay whatever you say There is literally no reason for big dick Chad to care about you or your orgasms, so why would he? He's not gonna see you again, and you're not gonna tell anyone else what a bad fuck he was because it reflects badly on you for fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:29 PM
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And happy healthy people also don't make it very far in life either. Do you think it's a sheer coincidence that sociopaths are so overly represented in the higher ranking positions in business and depressed manic etc people so commonly make up the successful positions in creative fields? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:05 PM
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The "hook" would obviously be that despite his height, he's model attractive facially/rich/high status etc to make up for his other physical drawbacks. Why are you playing dumb like this? Most people have casual sex through friend groups Lmaoooooo You really are a woman. It's not "most people", it's "most women". I'm in college right now, I totally know women who fuck almost every guy they know, but I don't know a single guy who fucks even more than a single woman he knows. Come the fuck on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:00 PM
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Yes. Because someone who just "enjoys the group" will never have that green light or have things escalate. The advice women are always giving on how to date women is always inevitably actually advice on how to become PLATONIC FRIENDS with them, not to date them. Unless you are exceptionally attractive, women are not going to start flirting with a short/ugly/effeminate etc guy just because he's friends with them at a party. There is absolutely some hook you're not revealing about this "hobbit guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:51 PM
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Maybe they did before online dating, but that was a whole different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:47 PM
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You understand that it can easily cost well over $20k to fix crooked teeth, right? Having bad teeth isn't the same thing as dental neglect. But congrats on making yet another judgement on a person based entirely on their physical appearance. "Won't smile because you have crooked teeth? Clearly you're a drug addict who doesn't take care of himself!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:08 PM
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This sub refuses to get it into their skulls that attraction for women is often not immediate and can build over time. Because most men aren't having the opportunity to be around women for long periods of time like that. That's college aged shit. Once you're in your mid 20s or older you're lucky if you can scrape together the time for two of your best buddies to get a beer or two on a biweekly basis, let alone spend endless amounts of time meeting new women and interacting with them on a regular…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:36 AM
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Timothee Chalemet, "alpha-male bad boy"--interesting take. I'd hardly describe Henry Golding or Rami Malek that way either. Ditto Chris Evans AND Chris Hemsworth, who are ripped, but their whole thing is being wholesome human labradoodles. Rami Malek's career-defining role is four seasons of him playing a drug-addicted unstable career criminal - the actor's constant sleeping around actually even impacted the final season since his ex-girlfriend refused to act with him on screen anymore. Evans an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:13 PM
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Harry Styles https://i.imgur.com/xC3mBEA.jpeg He's 6 feet tall, covered in tattoos, and has sixpack abs and a diamond-cutting jawline. What world do you live in that Harry Styles isn't hypermasculine? He literally fits the cliche "666" desire to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:51 PM
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There is variation on male sex symbols. And not that it has to be equivalent, but I think there's more variation in male sex symbols than there is in female sex symbols. After all, that's an umbrella that includes everyone from the grizzled Idris Elba to the puppy-like Chris Pratt to the twiggy Harry Styles. What? Idris Elba is 6'2'' and jacked to fuck - the man is a former MMA fighter, ffs https://i.imgur.com/cfXQ2Ny.jpg "Puppy-like" Chris Pratt is 6'2'' and jacked to fuck https://i.imgur.com/E…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:43 PM
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Remember when that one vampire game came out and all these guys were like "oh yes I want that big vamp mommy to sit on my face?" It's like, none of them literally want to be sexually violated by an undead momster. uh yes i fucking do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:30 PM
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If I had to guess, a rich family lol yep. He was born to a Yale-educated real estate mogul mother and his father is a prestigious journalist who currently works for UNICEF. His sister, uncle, aunt, and mother all work in Hollywood in some form or another as well. When you have the capital and status to attend Columbia University at 17, and then DROP OUT because the material bored you and go to a different school, you better believe even a guy who looks like Danny DeVito would crush pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:23 PM
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Obesity is an impediment but a partner making 45k is not? That’s shit anywhere in the US. What the hell are you talking about? That's 15k more than the median income in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:48 AM
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Here's an idea if men stop pursing relationships its like women be forced to gasp initiate things. I know what a concept. But that will require men to stop pursing women. More so it will make sex rare for women and they actually will value dick more because men aren't throwing their dicks at women left and right. Okay that's great but nobody else will do it so all you're doing is crippling yourself. It's like calling it a strike when you're the only one who skipped work that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:45 AM
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How would that make a difference? Buying a trophy from a pawn shop doesn't make you feel the accomplishment of winning a tournament.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:00 PM
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youngin (you clearly are young) I'm 30 turning 31. That's like two or three years from middle aged. And men will say such things, sure, but it's as completely idealized "in a perfect world" things. How do you expect men to EVER end up with a relationship if you tell them to stop pursing relationships? What fantasy world do you live in that men end up in relationships where they didn't initiate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:55 AM
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Why the hell is manhood suddenly defined by female validation as if your masculinity depends upon women's approval? Because every other form of success and validation was pulled out from under men's feet. Do you really think the average man can expect to own a house, or have a career that's fulfilling? Getting some pussy is the only way most men will ever get to feel any accomplishment in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:47 AM
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That is part of the problem and men need to stop being the pursuers full stop. In fact stop actively purse relationships all together and instead let it happens if it happens. No, that would be more like if you just decided to skip out on work and called it a strike. Men don't "let relationship happen". The fact you think that "relationships just happen" really is an easy way to tell you're a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:44 AM
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It's a tricky thing to rate myself. I have a babyface and a small frame, but my face isn't ugly in itself, it's actually aesthetically good looking; but because I look unmasculine, look very young for my age, and I'm quite short - 5'7'' - I'm completely unattractive to women. I often think I would actually prefer to be ugly but masculine looking, I feel quite confident that I would do much better with women. Instead I look like an effeminate twink. I know another person online who has this same …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:23 AM
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Getting into "oh of course you'd say that" arguments is pointless. But if he looked and acted like that, he would get more average interest from women in general, even if it's not from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:49 PM
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According to female friends and family that I have talked to, none of them are attracted to muscle. They might respect it the same way they would respect an athlete, but they wouldn't feel closer to the muscular man because he has muscle. No shit you got that answer, because you basically asked women "are you shallow?". What answer were you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:47 PM
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Because men know how hard it is to get muscular. Women constantly say things like "I want to just get toned, not muscly", because they think that doing one extra set of curls with their 5lb weights will turn them into Schwarzenegger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:43 PM
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What is the difference between a " law abiding safe and productive man" and Elliot Rodger before he went on his killing spree? He was those things before he wasn't. That's how women end up with abusers. In what way was Elliot Rodger a "law abiding safe and productive man"? He had redflags a mile long, he had been posting extremely vitriolic rants online in both text and video for years before his crimes, and with openly using his image and real full name as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:28 AM
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Why? I've been talking with a lukewarm guy and someone comes along who is engaging. I'll stop talking to the lukewarm guy for the engaging guy. Because the longer a lukewarm 6/10 talks to her without getting a date, the higher the chances she'll bump into her dreamboat 8/10 instead. It's pretty obvious. So it's not even a specific woman, just a numbers game. Which is why you are coming across as lukewarm and why any woman, even a pick me, would pick someone else who was more engaging. But please…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:32 AM
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You think women just accept the first offer from the first man that talks to them? No, of course not. But the sooner you get in, the better. If you have a connection, she'd give you her number before deleting it. There's no clock. If she likes you it's not like she HAS to delete just cause it's been 2 weeks. She deletes the account because she finds someone, it's not an arbitrary limit. You want to BE that someone. The more I talk to someone, the more invested I am and the more attracted to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:03 AM
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Those 80 other guys are all offering walk dates in the first 5 minutes too. right, which is why they need to be the first one to offer a walking date. the average woman spends about two weeks on a dating site before moving on and deleting her account - that means a man has a very narrow timeframe to work with. the sooner they set up a date, the better. the longer you spend texting with a woman before meeting, the less likely you are to ever meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:47 AM
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Men are ready to meet about 100x faster than I am. that would be because men also know that women have about 80 other guys in their inbox at the same time as them and we need to stand out as fast as possible by becoming a person you'll meet in public, not just a name on a screen. otherwise we'll just get lost in the flood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:39 PM
1

As I've mentioned before on PPD, I cried twice in front of one of my girlfriends and she eventually lost so much attraction to me that she was borderline ghosting me. Those two times were over the death of my father, one of those times being the day he passed. For all the people saying "well you can cry in front of women but only about certain serious things", even that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:51 PM
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Professional treatments, hair styling, body hair removal All these things you just listed don't require any actual effort on the woman's part, she's just paying someone else to do all the work and make her look pretty. I promise you that WAY more guys would be ripped if they could literally just pay someone to give them muscles while they sat and flipped through their phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:47 PM
1

It's fairly rare for alimony to be awarded these days unless you're a celebrity, so that's not really a factor.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 05:10 PM
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So why jump to the conclusion that one partner needs or doesn't need the other for money, and intends to use them for money/benefits? Do you have any evidence of what goes on in the minds of every married person? Do you? Or are we just gonna play anecdotal ping-pong? Also, according to redpill, men have higher IQ's. Therefore they should know better. I'm not redpill so that's not really relevant.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:53 PM
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Because it's extremely rare that a woman earns more than her husband so there's little benefit for his financial gain the same way. At age 40, the average married woman is making $50k and the average married man is making $80k. The average married man wouldn't need to stick around for a "payday" the same way. https://www.cnbc.com/2018/09/21/married-men-are-earning-much-more-money-than-everyone-else-in-america.html
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:34 PM
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Couldn't have anything to do with the fact she'll get all his earnings when he dies...
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 03:05 PM
1

Right. Now think about how it feels to know you're always going to be the odd one out who doesn't have those nostalgic memories to look back upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:37 AM
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Yeah, it's just soooooo shallow and lame, nobody wants it. That's why 80 year olds still wistfully think about their high school sweetheart with a goofy grin on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:03 AM
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Do you regret not living the life script? Every second of every day tbh. I'm soon attending college for the first time at the decrepit old age of 30 and I'm completely dreading it. I basically missed out on every single fun life milestone there could have been, and there's basically no way to make up for those black holes. Enjoy putting in 350% of the effort for 10% of the results!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:57 AM
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Well, I did live the majority of my life up to this point being certain I'd be dead by suicide before age 30, lol. I'm past that now but 30 is not "young" by any stretch of the term. Are you planning to live to 110 or something? Your life expectancy is about 70-75 years old. Your life is quite literally a third to a half over at 30 - and how many people do you think found the whirlwind romance with the love of their life at 48? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:40 AM
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What? At 30, a third of your entire life - and your best years - are all in the past. It's old as fuck, especially in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:19 PM
1

If anything in a weird way being otherwise average/mildly above average but thin is actually worse than being average and overweight. Now you're at the bottom of the uppercard and the competition is way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:41 PM
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Almost everyone knows a masc woman + kinda feminine dude couple that's perfectly happy. Maybe if you live in the Bay area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:15 PM
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I'm a man, so only ever dating down tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:30 AM
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Why would they? No reason to go home with the "funny short guy" when she can take the "funny tall guy" instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:16 AM
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I mean, I had a parent die that I cried about in front of my (now ex) girlfriend exactly twice - one of those two times on the day it happened - and she still rapidly lost attraction to me to the point she was borderline ghosting me by the end. So uh, no, I'm afraid even the death of loved ones isn't an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:55 AM
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Because all of (western) society is essentially based around validating women's sexual pleasure. A woman who has sex toys is met with cheers and "you go girl", a man who has sex toys is a loser to other men and a creep to women. If a woman posts on social media about how she can't get good sex from her boyfriend, it'd be filled with a million affirmations of "dump him, you deserve so much better!", but if a man posted about getting bad sex from his girlfriend, he'd be shit-talked and mocked by b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:05 PM
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Men are constantly told that meeting/approaching women anywhere outside of a bar is harassment, so there's very few options left, especially if you're over 25 or you don't want to date the kind of person who hangs around bars every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:44 AM
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Quite simply, a woman is always welcome in every social situation, no matter what. Nobody has ever said "no" when a girl wanted to come to their party. Women can walk up to total strangers and strike up a conversation on the spot, etc. It's very different for men, we basically all live in a bubble of isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:04 PM
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Because it gives men a feeling of accomplishment and success without resulting in additional tangible resources for her to harvest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:15 AM
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The "tortured artist" archetype would be a good example of someone who is both severely depressive/otherwise unstable, yet still considered charming and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 07:21 AM
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