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| 1 | I'm 22 never had sex yet met a girl, she asks if I'm a virgin what to doAlways tell the truth. Don't be ashamed. Absolutely no reason to lie and will just make you look and feel weak and bad. The fact that she's even asking you means she always suspects it, so unless you're an accomplished actor she'll see right through you. So dont try to lie about it. Just be honest. And really, it's not a big deal at all at the end of the day. It really all comes down to confidence. If you say it confidently and dont make it awkward it will all be fine. | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 03:40 AM |
| 107 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?I don't know how to put this, except I would suggest maybe taking a look at what you find "pretty" about a girl. Over the years my taste has expanded drastically and I'm now sexually attracted to a far larger range of women than I was as a kid. Basically, I'm saying don't limit yourself, or in more blunt terms: drop your standards. It's sctually amazing how beautiful and attractive even conventionally "ugly" women can be. I know it's cliche as fuck and sounds patronizing, but there really is a l… | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls do thisWell I definitepy disagree with that, I just try to be frank and honest about my intentions and it works very well for me. Honest and open doesn't mean you have to be boring about it. I think many women really dig being honest and bold about your intentions. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 01:41 AM |
| 11 | Why do girls do thisEh I dislike these stupid games. Just treat her honestly how you feel, and ask her openly and honestly what she means by yhe comments about other guys. If she says they don't mean anything then just take her at her word and get over it. Or just drop her and move on if it bothers you. No point playing petty games and trying to trick her or shit like that, who has time for that? | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 01:01 AM |
| 41 | Pro tip for finding out if she gave the Right/Wrong number.That's a really good tip. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 07:16 AM |
| 6 | I've got some insecurity issuesCounseling. Counseling. Counseling. Just get it. Please. It can help so much for issues like this. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 09:05 AM |
| 6 | 28 years old female virginI think if I were a lesbian, I would have had sex because when lesbians hit on me or try to flirt with me it flatters me. This tells me one of two things I think: A: Possibly it's because you feel no pressure with women complimenting you since you don't see it as sexual it can appear more genuine. Similarly if a friend or sibling came up to you randomly and was all smiling and complimenting you and asking to do things for you a lot more than normal many people would get suspicious that they're l… | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 08:53 PM |
| 44 | What are some good general questions/topics as an excuse to approach a girl in the same class?Talk to her exactly how you would talk to your good friend (but not your best friend you who talk shit to all the time). Sorry I may be dating myself, but if you call your friends dude call her dude after she says something that's interesting. As for a topic pick something you give a shit about and don't just try to talk about whatever you think she'll like. If you're faking a conversation it's really really obvious and unattractive. As a lead in topic just mention whatever is happening at the t… | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Holy shit I took action and it worked outJust do something very very light and low pressure. Like go to a coffee shop or a restaurant where you can get snacks. I would say the only planning you should do is maybe think of a few conversation starters in case talk dies down. Don't interrogate her, but definitely ask about stuff. The catch is you have to actually give a shit about what you're asking/saying. If you don't care and are just talking to talk it will be super obvious so make it topics you're interested in (even if you're only i… | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 08:51 AM |
| 9 | The problem with this sub: Age is rarely taken into consideration.I know this post will anger the politically correct crowd, but biology isn't PC. I don't think anyone can sit there with a straight face and say age really is just a number, because it's not. What the fuck? You were making decent points (making a lot of assumptions and generalizations, but it's understood you were just explaining your point of view) and you throw this out at the end? Why are you and people like you so fucking obsessed with "PC"? What does this even have to do with being "PC"? Do… | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 05:25 PM |
| 10 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)I have to say the "Stick around and make her comfortable" advice is probably not the best road. Yeah I guess it's possible that she really does just need more time, but 95% of the time it was just an actual flat out rejection and she was letting him down easy. So he can stick around if he just wants to hang out with her and be cool as friends (but he already stated he didn't want to do that). But otherwise he's just setting himself up to feel like he's been "friend zoned" and disappointed. When … | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 03:36 PM |
| -2 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)But OP wasn't really straightforward, he was asking for "permission" to ask her out. Also OP was perhaps a bit off in his response. The "Nah, I don't think so" comes off as a bit jerkish, IMO. Maybe a better response would be something like "Sure, but I'm still going to try to seduce you" with a big grin to take the edge off. She might still decline, but it at least gives her an excuse to accept the invitation if she subconsciously wants to. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies attract the most girls?Playing games (especially something as involving as MMOs) is not at all close to reading or watching a movie. There's definitely skill and knowledge that you need to succeed. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 05:52 AM |
| 19 | Made up an excuse not to talk to this girl, wow was I wrongI think a better way to phrase that advice is: "Never act upon assumptions about anything or anyone." | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 04:28 AM |
| 26 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?It's most likely your American accent I would assume. Foreign accents (especially from places that are romanticized in movies) almost always give you extra points with the opposite sex. Also it's possible any tiny little awkwardness or anything "wrong" will just be ignored because they'll assume it's just a difference of culture thing. So they'll be able to see your positives much more easily. | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 04:23 PM |
| 9 | What to do when a girl starts to criticize your appearance?A few minutes later she goes on to tell me that my lips look very feminine Wait a second, this is a compliment right? Most women I know would definitely consider this a compliment. I know I would take it as one if someone said this to me. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Was he running game on me?Try making the first step then, It might go against how you're used to doing things, but if you really enjoyed his company then let him know, and maybe suggest going out again. Like others have suggested, you might want to discern his intentions, and figure out your own while you're at it. He might want to not have a "serious" relationship, and you can't fault him for that as long as he never insinuated otherwise. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 06:51 PM |
| 3 | How to proceed with kissing a shy girlHe might be talking about grabbing boobs/ass handsy instead of just basic kino? | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on not getting too drunk?Whenever I go out drinking to just have a good time I follow the rule of stopping right after I start feeling it (usually 2-3 drinks). Then I try to drink about a drink an hour or none at all. It makes it so I feel good and am on the same drunk "level" as my friends (it's never really fun to be the only sober person in a group of drunk people, drunk people are dumbasses), but my thoughts are still mostly clear and I don't have any crazy hangovers or the like. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 09:04 PM |
| 3 | One Tip that gets me killer eye contact and smileI think the idea is that the image is so spontaneous and interesting that you just can't help but have a genuine smile on your face. This obviously wouldn't work if you kept your face stone cold while thinking these thoughts. The creepiness would be off the charts in that situation... | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 10:13 AM |
| 102 | Lesbian Guide to CunnilingusTLDR: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AS1UJ8J3Yq8 | /r/seduction | 30/08/14 04:11 AM |
| 5 | 10 observations from banging 100 girlsI'm a guy and I got the same exact reaction. | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I saw a natural at work last night.Well yeah the accent a bit, but more the personality, or stereotypes of personalities I suppose. No offense to any Aussie gents here, but APPARENTLY there's some sort of stereotype that American guys treat girls better than Aussie guys? I didn't particularly notice it myself but I heard that that was the case... and playing the role of a gentleman seemed to work nicely. Especially, strangely, with the girls that seemed more "tomboyish" or "rough" than average. | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 02:29 AM |
| 21 | I saw a natural at work last night.Yeah, this is the most true comment I've read in a long time. But honestly, it's true pretty much everywhere you go. People are attracted to the exotic and foreign. I used to be in the U.S. Navy, and when we went to Australia even the guys who were normally pretty socially handicapped were getting attention from girls. | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 01:49 PM |
| -5 | What to text after a long time of no talking?That's a terrible idea, I respect her opinion! | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 03:04 PM |
| -2 | What are your go to jokes?Nicely relevant username. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 03:28 PM |
| 44 | What are your go to jokes?-everyone | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Have zero female friends. Have few friends that have female friends. Not in college anymore. Where to meet new girls?This guy... this guy has it figured out. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 12:49 AM |
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