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| 5 | Stop Talking So Goddamn Much (You Don’t Have To)That's interesting. What about guys like me who are usually just talking a lot? To be honest, I have tried to slow it down and not talk much but it seems like I have wired myself from being that anxious non-talkative kid to actually being very talkative and maybe charismatic, but too much, all my cards are out on the table by the end of the night and seems like the girls know everything she needs to and decides to pull off. Could that be it? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/21 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Is there such thing as TOO MUCH focus on self-improvement?I try to dress nice, always have a good haircut. I think the problem may be niceness? I am afraid to do risky chats sometimes, or say the wrong thing perhaps. Sometimes feels like a mental block. My friend's approach is to not talk at all, and it works for him most of the time, I'm the opposite, I talk quite a bit with the girls, if there is something to talk about. Maybe that's the problem. Also lot's of times I feel like we "click" and get a good conversation going but it rarely leads to anyth… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Is there such thing as TOO MUCH focus on self-improvement?Reading is useless if you do not implement it. I have done too much reading and not enough using what is written. Lol on the midget part | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Is there such thing as TOO MUCH focus on self-improvement?Before quarantine, yes. Now, no, since we can't go out without a good reason. I live in eastern europe. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Is there such thing as TOO MUCH focus on self-improvement?My country is in strict quarantine, it is illegal to get out of house for the past month unless it's shopping or other necessities. Everything's closed. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | On paper i should be in a great position, in reality im not. Why?Good question. When i think about this question, when i ask myself about it, i am absolutely not sure. Do i wanna be rich? Yeah i do. Do i want to live a great life with all the time in the world spent travelling, partying and so on? Yeah that's what i want to do. What are the first steps i can take? I have no idea. I have other things like exams and assignments and shitty work that occupies my time. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 10:57 AM |
| 2 | On paper i should be in a great position, in reality im not. Why?I guess my goals would be to become successful, make enough money to travel where i want and also be healthy and strong. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 10:55 AM |
| 1 | On paper i should be in a great position, in reality im not. Why?Just take a month or two of your life and go out most days of the week, go approach, go bang. Those whole 9 months were pretty much dedicated strictly to that. It was the best year of my life where i felt alive and living the dream. Once it ended i fell into a deep hole of not knowing. Now i have to finish my degree and work at the same time, and i also want to work out. That barely leaves any time where i can go out and party, i work every weekend. I know it's an excuse, i know i can go out mon… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Be careful with your interactions with women that you are not interested inThis rule is simple and understandable for me at a workplace, however i've seen multiple LTRs form in a workplace environment. What im not sure about is Uni/College. Im on my last year and im thinking that this might be the last oppurtunity to get some social circle pussy. I hang out with a bunch of 7-8s a lot but i always tried to distance myself or the same reason "don't shit where you eat" but now im thinking maybe it's worth to give it a try? Afterall, when you don't have much free time for … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your GirlHow would you react if the AMOG starts hitting on the chick you havent fucked yet, but actively trying to? Would the same thing work? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 08:31 AM |
| 20 | Do you know more tricks to feel extremely good like these?Don't get addicted to this happiness high, it will go down, sooner or later. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | It's often said that you must "break" yourself to see the clear view of TRP, how do you actually do that if everything in your life is more or less stable?Im not saying that my life is perfect with no problems, i have very bad days mentally when i feel that anything i do is useless. Im basically switching from redpill to bluepill constantly like i have a bipolar disorder, which is not something i enjoy, because i cant control it well. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | It's often said that you must "break" yourself to see the clear view of TRP, how do you actually do that if everything in your life is more or less stable?Sometimes i do feel like that, but im still aroused by women, when i make out with them etc. however reading readpill over and over again about how marrying and relationships are bad, any woman that is not attractive to me sexually i ignore. I made a good woman friend, but the more we hang out now, the less attractive i am to her. It's very hard to explain this situation, im working out daily so i doubt that my testosterone goes low? I do nofap on and off as well when i feel like it | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Did i kill my sense of enjoyment and attraction after going out too much and getting too deep into the readings?I quit porn more than 9 months ago, i limit fapping to once a week, i used to do 3+ months of nofap | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Did i kill my sense of enjoyment and attraction after going out too much and getting too deep into the readings?I think that i actually took it too litterally, i simply dont need bitches anymore, im not interested, that's the problem. Even if i see a hot chick dancing there in the club i just say "meh" and keep dancing, i don't know, maybe that's approach anxiety or learning to deal with these kind of things, im not sure. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The more im into TRP, the more lost i am.I've been already actively doing that for more or less a year, however sometimes i would take breaks from reading any redpill material, perhaps that's the problem | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The more im into TRP, the more lost i am.Im originally from Lithuania so it's not like the culture is too different. Gaming croatian women has been by far the hardest part, because some of them are very open, and some of them are too closed, especially to a foreigner. And im living in Rijeka right now, and after 5 months i already started noticing people that i met before, it's a small town. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The more im into TRP, the more lost i am.Actually, when it comes to a point where i could establish a relationship i always run from it. I feel that perhaps it's not the actual relationship im looking for but for the good things it provides, and i don't think it's possible. I know that i need to definitely plate first before any LTR, but at the same time i need more experience. How can i reframe myself? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enough1) Yes, not dick skin ripped tho 2) im 5.8 and i know its a problem 3) i went to a flat party before the club, i did not drink i the club. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughThank you so much for this advice. I will keep on working and moving forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughLifting is neither beta nor alpha, Your conscious mind is to far ahead of your subconscious mind , this is why failure is needed. Now that you say it, i've been lifting for 6 years and when i was pre-RP i was still very unconfident with my body and hate self-image and mental issues on the way that i look and the way i wanted to look. However it kept me pushing harder. Faking Confidence is acting happy, Faking Confidence is making a move Now that i tried it a lot of time, it seems that people, mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughThanks for the response. It's a lot easier to look at my mistakes when you mention it. Like i feel my mentality during that night was that i don't really want to approach anyone, and just have fun with my social circle. However now i understand i should always be in game phase. Like i said, i really need to improve my game, i want to become a natural at it, but it takes time and experience, which i really need at this point. The positive mental space is very hard to keep up tho, i had a lot of s… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 03:06 PM |
| 5 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughI feel like compared to some dudes my life is perfect. However happiness and especially being happy about yourself is very hard to reach, therefore every man must hit a point in his life where he breaks out of his shell and starts going the right way. I've been angry my whole life, at a lot of things, things i could and could not control. Now im trying to take control of my emotions, i lift heavily, 6 times a week, i started meditating too, im doing IF and forcing myself to go out and talk to pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 06:23 PM |
| 3 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughEspecially in the place that i am at. It's just that my brain has plenty of Beta wires left where it constantly searches for a specific girl to focus on. I try to bring my options up, and not think about what doesn't matter however i still need to improve a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughI heard her mention it to someone, not directly to me tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 06:12 PM |
| 3 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughI guess, but normal isn't enough is it? All of us here strive to become better, above average perhaps, a guy who comes into any place and makes it his own. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | First date in 2 years, and why reading redpill and books isn't enoughExactly, appearing and actually being whether it's alpha, a strongly framed, confident man is something that i really need to work on. I feel that my emotions are like a rollercoaster, some days i feel like i completely give no fucks, and some days i have to control myself from being a BB. It's a long road ahead, but i just wish i managed to enjoy my youth as much as possible, however after the revelations made by TRP i've been in sort of a hard place the past year. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 06:11 PM |
| 2 | January 26 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPros Managing to hit the gym 6 days a week, hitting all muscle groups 2 times. Diet is semi - ok, intermittent fasting is really nice. Cons Im in a bad place mentally and physically again, i feel winded up and tired of everything from my daily routing to just going out partying. It's been like 5th weekend i went out in a row to clubs, i never managed to pick anyone up, i feel like i simply can't do this or something like that. Feeling helpless, stopped reading much TRP because of that and im jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread November 22I also feel very torn apart, many of the teaching which i read sort of cancel out each other and i am not sure of what should i actually do. Work hard on myself to be successful is what i try to do, and it's easy to say that once you have a good frame and an abundance mentality the girls will start coming. But i never had an abundance of pussy before and it's hard to fool yourself into thinking that you actually do. I feel that it's one of the reasons why it took me so long to finally get laid, … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread November 22About a month ago, i finally lost my virginity. I've been reading red pill related books/articles etc for over a year before that. Now it finally felt like i was heading the right way, i was really happy with my life, had a lot of fun and was generally optimistic about everything. Now i am 20 years old and i know that a lot of things in the Game come with experience, but i held my self as invulnerable to bullshit like oneitis, and just general blue pill mistakes. After that i got with a HB8 that… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Losing my virginity at 20 and importance of swallowing the pill at a young ageWhat you can do is either go full on monk mode for a few months, or get out of it and start doing pickups, in bars, campus etc. I just realised how fucking easy it is to talk to Erasmus girls, which i never valued before in my London university. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Losing my virginity at 20 and importance of swallowing the pill at a young ageTrust me, it will get better, just keep working. I was in a point where i thought i will never get laid, sex was constantly in my head and i felt i was missing out, but i wasn't, it's nothing special, trust me. It might be special if you do it with a girl you're really into and so on. I mean it did help, now i feel relaxed, i feel that im not missing out and i can finally focus on something else. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Losing my virginity at 20 and importance of swallowing the pill at a young agehaha actually i was drunk enough to not be able get it in from behind, so we got on the ground. I finished in the condom tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..Well the reason why i even started TRP was basically when i discovered the rational male, and then stumbled upon redpill, i said to myself that i swallowed the pill after reading constantly everyday, but there was hardly any progress for me, since the holy trifecta of: lift/looks/style did not apply to me. I started working out since the age of 14 and my physique has passed the DYEL levels long time ago, but when it comes to that i see no limits and every season bulk/cut i strive for perfection.… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..Does this also apply for you if you're a virgin? I mean im 20 and for now the more time passes the more significant the need of pussy become, to the point where sometimes you lose all of your self confidence with a failed attempt. I keep reading a lot, and investing more time into my game, i keep saying to myself that pussy is not the most important thing about TRP, but my brain and hormones (coupled with nofap) are telling me otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 12:25 PM |
| 1 | I was once a 27 year old virgin. Here is what I learned.Yeah i have been browsing the sub for a while it helped me a bit but still uncertain about some things. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I was once a 27 year old virgin. Here is what I learned.With my 0 knowledge of german i understand that Reeperbahn is the best brothel in Hamburg? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I was once a 27 year old virgin. Here is what I learned.the only thing that im a bit sceptical is the awkardness. Like first of all i need to find one close to my hostel cus im going with a group of peope, so me disapearing for an hour or two alone would look funny. And also like i come in to the brothel choose a girl i want to have service with and just get on with? I really want to do it since i heard the quality in Berlin is probably the best in Europe | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 05:08 PM |
| 12 | I was once a 27 year old virgin. Here is what I learned.Great write up, gives some hope. Im 19 but and this weekend im going to Berlin. Im planning on going to a brothel and losing my virginity, since i just want to finally get over with it. I feel that it's limiting me since i don't know how sex feels like. I feel that if i do it i can be a little bit more free. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | From fat to hulk: 4 big lessons learnedMan. I've been going to the gym for ages now, i think you should note everyone that chicks don't magically start to fuck you just because you go to the gym or look like it. I look good, but i get no game at all. It's how you present yourself as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 02:27 PM |
| 2 | I need some help/ clarification after a party where i met a girl.Yeah that's what im thinking, probably just another "want to have fun" night or so. | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Need some tips of how should i act with my new classmates (Females)Judgmental... That's the thing i need to avoid the most tbh. But im talking more about the social interactions inside school, because i don't think that i could go to parties or something without actually talking a bit with them. | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 08:56 PM |
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