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Attractive women who aren't messed up in some way get a wider choice of friends, they don't have to settle for friendships with the guys who want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:29 PM
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You almost certainly are less likely to choose your male friends for their looks, and to have a higher standard for your male friends behaviour towards you because you aren't on some level trying to fuck your male friends. Plenty of pleasant decent women out there but that's not on your criteria list for a female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:22 PM
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That's like...omg it's been so long... quadratic equations right? There's a formula. I learned it over forty years ago. I was fourteen or fifteen. Fucked if I could do it now without a refresher course though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:15 AM
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I think it's more that if you've crossed the line from generic conservative to batshit crazy and can't find a like minded partner you're probably going to have to pretend you're something not crazy. And crazy people rarely realise they are crazy...so they are never going to be able to untangle what's the crazyness to remove from how they present themselves to end up coming across as a generic conservative. If they could work that out, that there's a line there to be crossed and they crossed it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:05 PM
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Well you know...just like childcare jobs attract the pedos at a somewhat higher rate than everyone else, and mortician jobs attract necrophiles at a somewhat higher rate than everyone else, prison jobs attract a different sort of sexually fixated person at a higher rate than everyone else. Most women would rather take a job at a fast food restaurant or cleaning toilets in a hospital than a job in a mens prison. Most women are actively avoiding those jobs in men's prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:36 PM
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As soon as you start revealing facts about yourself we start using those facts in an ongoing risk assessment of what your potentially dangerous or relationship destroying traits might be. It's not confined to any one particular fact about you... and other guys with other facts are getting those other facts used by women for risk assessments too. We start assigning probabilities based not just on that one fact but on that one fact plus the other facts about you and what we know of how the world w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:18 PM
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Society gives us many conflicting messages. Including that it's great to be attractive. It is a grevious mistake to only choose those messages that do not lead to extra work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:33 PM
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It's also incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:39 AM
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She then went to kill her goat for the crime of being a goat but she only had one bullet left and botched the kill so she had to go back to her car to reload while the goat was flopping round in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:18 AM
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Nobody wants to be sitting in their living room with a bunch of their friends and their male partner and then their male partner who has never in his entire life proven to anyone he can think his way out of a paper bag starts arguing with them about something like bus timetables and eventually implies they are stupid. Which rather does tend to be what happens when men who think they are smart but have zero proof for that end up with women who think they are smart and actually do have proof of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:59 AM
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Look I haven't got a clue about why that particular type of guy...I come from a totally different continent and quite significantly different but still western and English speaking culture and that sort of guy here...not so much. But have you considered maybe one day dressing more like that guy and going out and acting a little like that guy...then afterwards taking stock of how well you did at stepping into that guys shoes, in what ways you failed and what different things being that guy for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:01 AM
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Looking not the least bit like an eyeball on a plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:37 PM
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If someone don't want to be a provider at all.ever then they need to seek out someone willing and able to do all of that for them. Such people of either gender are remarkably uncommon nowadays. We generally live as modern day peasants...all adults capable of work must work to provide. If one person stops there will be no comfort and no security for anyone. And then you've got to have the thing they are willing to become your provider for. In other words get in the gym and do some squats boy, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:12 PM
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https://theoodie.com/products/splice-black-grey-oodie Oodies make you look like an armchair with a badly fitted fleece slipcover.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:52 PM
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I don't give a shit about clothes complementing my body shape but yeah is lovely when my clothes are a comfortable fit and a nice texture and a colour I like and have nice details. I'm wearing an Oodie while posting right now and when I'm just reading my typing hand drops down to my arm and I pet the soft sleeve of the Oodie like it's a kitten. Soooo good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:43 PM
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Back when I was a kid almost fifty years ago there was an auction house we got most of our furniture at. Old fashioned auctioneer. Five hundred five hundred five hundred we have five hundred dollars from the woman down the front we have five hundred. five fifty now anyone five fifty...that sort of thing. Anyhow when the final bid was in and no-one had another bid the auctioneer would slam down his hammer with a clack and yell SOLD to the woman down the front in the blue jacket STEP UP AND PAY. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:49 PM
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Solve the stalking problem and women would probably express more compassion towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:18 AM
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Pulling through after an injury like that probably isn't the best outcome. There's worse things than death.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:52 PM
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Most men are fat too. And a lot of fat guys are in total denial about it...they look at their extra pounds and decide it is more muscle than it actually is. Of course a man is going to get poor results when he thinks what he's bringing to market himself is significantly better than what it actually is I suggest men who feel like you do should go get body composition scans, to make absolutely sure they aren't lying to themselves about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:54 PM
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It isn't creepy for a 40 year old to date a 29 year old but it's definitely a choice that has a potential downside as well as an upside. Happened with a couple I know who had about the same age gap. She was part of his social scene so had sized him up real well. She got pregnant real quick, like obviously wasn't using any contraception on that one night stand and he was surprised but manned up, spent the part of his life when he should have been doing the last minute retirement fund top up inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:56 AM
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Just be thankful you're not the target demographic for most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:26 PM
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It's a commercial decision and should be up to the business owners. They're going to do something to attract more people whatever. Personally I think without free entry for women what is likely to happen if a manager decides more women need to be attracted is there will be music, entertainment and maybe a drink of the day that are geared more closely to women's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:22 PM
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Men will write a comment like this then skulk off to post a picture of an open can of cold baked beans with a rusty spoon in it on r/kitchencels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:50 PM
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People should date whoever they want who is willing to date them. However, the useless fail sons of the middle class are never as attractive to the most beautiful daughters of the working class as those fail sons think they should be. The reality is that the incredibly beautiful 21 year old working class woman waitressing at a local diner will almost always choose a young handsome personable carpenter or similar around her own age and not the weird chubby barely-competent 37 year old son of a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:39 PM
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People who aren't fun are the bottom of the barrel. They are miserable buzzkills even when in their own company. If you're having trouble being fun and deeply resenting doing something that feels so unnatural to you then it's not going to help you much if a few members of the opposite sex who also aren't fun decide to be fun. They are, if much improved, going to sail off into the sunset with someone who is fun and you're still stuck to the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:42 PM
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Having a preference for a trait or behaviour in others that you don't have yourself is not enough by itself to make a person a hypocrite. Hypocrisy is claiming a certain belief or moral or behavioural standard then acting in a way that contradicts that claim. If they said "yes I always approach because that's the morally right thing for anyone to do" and then didn't approach that would be hypocrisy. If they say "nah I just don't think approaching is for me, guess the only way to get into my knic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:59 PM
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You would after you had seen five thousand pictures of women using being photographed with a sponge cake as their credentials. A fish is a fish. Holding a fish is no proof of anything other than that you were holding a fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:27 PM
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Yes we all get the picture you're a manly man who likes manly man things. And demonstrate it by showing us a fish. If I showed you a picture of me with a sponge cake does that make me a domestic goddess? A perfect trad wife? No it fucking doesn't. It makes me a woman standing with a sponge cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:32 AM
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In the long run we all die. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:48 AM
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https://youtu.be/5e2S_h1gi60?si=iL7hg_DlPRSP2L81 It's not actually from the seventies it was from an Australian TV show in the 90s that parodied the seventies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:47 AM
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Nothing yet. It's been about 16 hours since I last ate...I appear to have fallen into this eating pattern accidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:32 AM
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Well...he looks kind of poor body composition...but probably thinks he's muscular looking. Sorry dude nice try but your pudgy shoulder is unmistakable in a t-shirt go make your shoulder line less sloped and dejected looking if you want a chance of looking good in a tshirt. And he looks sweaty. He's rocking a beard so we have no evidence on the jawline. That dog is sniffing his beard... is his beard smelly or something? Yes that's a dead fish and yes he's shoving it at us proudly to make it look …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:14 AM
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If men are the prize then at least half the time the game is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:28 AM
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It's ok to feel bad for aspects of a screw up's life that led them to do the bad thing. I feel sad about some aspects of, for example, Erin Paterson's life. It still doesn't alter the fact that having bad shit in your life is no excuse for deliberately choosing illegal violence. It's ridiculously common to have bad shit in your life...I think more humans than not are in situations where occasionally or even regularly thoughts of just fucking murdering someone feel soooo right. We're all possesse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:41 AM
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Exactly this. Friendship is a flexible thing. People move closer in and further out from each other without much fuss. Your friend decides to go teach English in Korea? They are still your friend you just see them less in person and are less part of their day to day. Your friend starts spending time with a bunch of equestrian friends because horse riding has become a passion? No problem. Your friend has had a failed relationship and wants to spend a bit more time with you and a few other friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:51 PM
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Well it seems to me that the men who whine about their inability to attract the good regard of a woman are generally men who it would require a great deal of kindness on a woman's part to end up loving. And kind people in general are usually grossed out by a large number of different types of casual unkindness that the unkind participate in thoughtlessly and regularly... that's the norm. Certainly you can find a few kind people who have various psychological complexes and can be convinced to liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:17 AM
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What's for breakfast over on PPD? Tiktok brain rot. Nobody with lick of sense cares. You don't stop them marrying. Whoever he marries she will be thoroughly westernised in under five years. If she wanted to stay what she was she would have stayed where she was. All roads lead to the same destination for western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:10 PM
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Everybody is searching for some sort of sense of dignity. You get to feel smug in the company of other folks who share your priorities and think you've done well achieving goals associated with those priorities. So why shouldn't someone who manages to find a very suitable partner to help them buy a three bedroom family home and fill it with kids also feel similar emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:18 AM
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The problem is when the chill minimalist man has a dick that craves above all for the sort of plastic fantastic woman who spends $1000 a month on looking hot...and he lacks the awareness of himself and the world around him to work out this is his problem to understand and rectify by either changing his preference to women who share his priorities or changing himself to share the priorities of the women he wants. This is a good moment to reiterate my message on engagement rings. It's a very funct…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:24 AM
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Oh well. A man can't be worrying you'll cheat on him if you won't have a relationship with him to start with...unless of course he's very very neurotic and paranoid and in essence proactively the author of all his own woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:28 AM
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Friends of mine. Ate a lot of cabbage based foods because they had recently moved in to their first home and had to save money to childproof it, and his mother was always giving her whole drumhead cabbages from her vegetable garden. The stay at home wife was like 8 months pregnant and sore as hell. Anyway for a while her making so much cabbage based stuff like his mother did was an issue between them that they openly squabbled about but really? If you hand an entire sphere of existence over to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:16 AM
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The flipside is that if you're playing the game that way, it's your job and everyone else's job in the family to eat what she gives you. No complaining "not bubble and squeak again" no deciding that you'd rather go blow the household budget on some pizzas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:04 AM
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20k would be reasonable if you're both wealthy celebrities... people for whom image and publicity are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:51 AM
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This. The purpose of the tradition of an engagement ring is to change people's minds about marrying if they can't come to an agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:58 AM
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So after I left my husband back in the early nineties one of my friends got kind of salty that after a while I took up with a different one of my friends and not him. I'd given him no real reason to expect a relationship but he obviously thought he was first in line. So I explained that really it could never have been him, I thought he was just too intense. And so he went around for about a month asking friends "Am I too intense? Am I more intense than ( name of the guy I actually got with)" He …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:37 PM
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Well...someone is going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:52 AM
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Try being better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:40 PM
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Sure. Whatever. Believe whatever you want to believe about women. Everything you get wrong in your beliefs about women takes you another few steps away from being able to interact with women in normal productive ways. Have you considered that maybe men are strongly encouraged to adopt a bunch of often largely unsubstantiated beliefs about how independent they are and a lot of guys swallow those beliefs without thinking...and that's the sort of behaviour that gets you signing up to something like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:09 PM
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I don't care because I don't care about any man other than one who I have chosen to be with. Even if I chose to be with an autistic dwarf I still wouldn't care about all the other autists and dwarfs. And if at some point in future I lost an actually desirable autistic dwarf I actually wanted to this not caring ...so long moving right on. If they wish to conclude that the women who don't want them aren't worth the effort...I still won't care. Maybe they should comfort each other. Or maybe not. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:22 PM
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Every disabled woman I know has played the romantic hand she has been dealt and not whined about it. It's high functioning autistic men who don't know how to get the fuck over it. And I tend to agree with black women that the men who don't want them aren't worth having anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:20 AM
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Pretty much. It's one of the reasons I don't give two shits about the complaints of short men. Or autistic men. You play the hand you were dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:11 AM
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I don't know the intricacies of the US child support system. In Australia the only way you're going to end up in prison for not paying child support is if in your efforts to not pay you fall foul of a law that isn't primarily about child support. For example if you start keeping two sets of books on your business to minimise official income and then the tax office finds out through data matches and stuff and then the tax office and/or the agency that deals with keeping financial entities honest …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:24 AM
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Why for you rot your brain on the tok tiks? Anyhow. Same thing as any other part of the year. Judging accurately how much looking you can get away with before it gradually starts putting you in a situation of potential disadvantage is a social skill. If you're bad at social skills you may want to sail less close to the wind than someone who knows what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:09 AM
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Oh noes, women judge subjectively whose dangling smelly penis that shoots DNA they want to let into their vagina, oh noes. Tough shit. It's still a game involving skill. Obviously if you look like your DNA is barely human like an outsized thumb set atop a randomly assembled pile of sweaty hairy pork scraps the game of skill is going to be much harder to do well at. You're still going to far better at times if you're a mutant thumb/pig hybrid with social skills than if you're a mutant thumb/pig h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:01 AM
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Women prefer men who know how to navigate social situations delicately and perceptively. Not surprising... just about everyone prefers humans who can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:51 PM
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Dude I'm old not senile I still remember the eighties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:17 PM
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Well I've never been into casual sex myself but I've seen plenty of coworkers at the jobs of my youth be into it. They were poor and it's cheap entertainment. Simple as that. The pill is like seven bucks or something for I think three months supply. Condoms you ask the guy to provide. Get bought a few drinks while you're out. Get good at sex and sizing up men's potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:56 PM
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I think I have some minor schizotypal tendencies that I acquired in my efforts to go deep into rumination and self reflection to avoid being the sort of person my father wanted me to be. I have to work quite hard to stay social and grounded and not just fuck off and live as a hermit somewhere. Oh and I have a bit of the tism but I'm female so I learned to mask. Still I'm doing better at the measures that matter to me than my two siblings. My sister basically worked so hard to try to become wealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:36 PM
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Do you at least do a budget and record where your money goes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:19 PM
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Some dude in India most of the time. All that money his parents paid to teach him good English is really working out. I wonder what they think of the nature of his job...has he even told them? I suppose it's a little more ethical than scamming elderly people out of their passwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:09 PM
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With the initiating thing it's more that mostly a woman who is interested will give a few subtle indicators of interest and if he doesn't work out what's going on and at least meet her interest with an equivalent subtle indicator of interest of his own, then he's a dud. Because what it takes to be good at the delicate dance of indicators of interest overlaps very closely with a large portion of what it takes to be good at sex and relationships. I mean just imagine committing to fifty years of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:57 PM
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I have no intention of doing something time consuming for me and unethical to other human beings just because some random angry guy on the internet lacks the ability to articulate his point adequately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:32 PM
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I have done so twice in my life. The approaches led to a total of 31 years of relationship. I think I've pulled my weight on this. I have no desire to approach again. Men generally aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:53 PM
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But I'm not going to do shitty shifty stuff like that to anyone just because some guy thinks shifty shitty stuff is just fine to do so long as he erroneously believes it's going to be in service of making women prioritise his needs and viewpoint over their own. He can take his shifty shitty behaviour and jam it up his shifty shitty arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:47 PM
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Well it's a bit gross isn't it. Just like when a man does it There was one like her in my friends group when I first started hanging out with mixed age groups. She rented the house everyone met at. Every so often she would seduce a teenager. She lives in a country town now due to increasing rental costs and repeatedly begs people to come visit her. As far as I can tell hardly anyone does. Especially not the now grown boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:42 PM
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And you don't like when they do it to you... So why the fuck would you suggest I do it to anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:41 AM
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No dude. My first thought was that pretending to be someone else on the internet in order to interact with people who might earnestly waste their time interacting with your lie is a douche move. And unlike you I see women as people and therefore equally worthy of not being jerked round like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:35 AM
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Why would I ever jerk other women round like that? It's fucking amazing that you can suggest this sort of bullshit behaviour and then complain about women who don't want to do it being bad people. Would you enjoy it if you're talking to a "woman" on an app then suddenly get the feeling you're talking to a guy whose doing it as an experiment? I don't think you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:07 AM
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So what.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:14 AM
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Well y'know...not everyone sees the world the same. Lots of guys prefer the chunky thighed Latina over the assless Swedish catalogue model. Attractiveness comes in many flavours...sexy, pretty, beautiful, ethereal, classic, statuesque, earthy, gothic... Different people rank these flavours differently. If you're very restrictive in what you like that makes your life difficult and like veganism it is entirely self inflicted. And none of it alters the basic principle...that if you're getting no in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:04 AM
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They don't have to take advice if they don't want to. They just lose the right to not be told to fuck off when they ask for more advice from someone who gave them that advice and they didn't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:33 AM
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But it just doesn't match with my experience of the things women actually say. Maybe Australians are just different to Americans. Here we see dating people you aren't attracted to at all as a fairly serious form of self sabotage and well...we don't actually want to think our friends are that stupid. So we'd just assume he'd found something about the less conventionally attractive girls he dates to be attracted to anyway such as big tiddies on the fat chicks. And we wouldn't ask what because well…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:56 PM
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Ah yes the perpetual debate by sexually unsuccessful men about which is the one stat to max. It's the thing they do to make time pass faster while not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:37 PM
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Do women get upset about that? I can't imagine it. Most women I know would just agree, yeah she is too hot for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:07 PM
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Because there's never going to be anything funnier than an overfilled face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:40 AM
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So someone I worked with at a fast food place 35 years ago is now a passport bro. Can't say I'm surprised. Every guy there bullied him relentlessly. The message of get the fuck away was pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:08 AM
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The tiktok Karens make content resentful lonely men will engage with. They don't particularly care what that content is so long as it doesn't get them arrested or stop them working an office job later on. They are basically getting what they want when you obsess about them. This never fails to amuse me. You're paying for them with precious hours of your life you will never get back and not getting even the slightest sniff at their vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:48 PM
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Have you asked him for advice and assistance how not to be a sexual loser? I mean that's what you'd have done back in the middle ages. Prithee father for I am fully grown, the maidens of the court be most comely and I be fair busting out my codpiece, can we seek to remedy my afflicted situation with mistress or matrimony? And we've done absolutely nothing to remove that option from you. You're not forbidden from sharing your concerns with him and suggesting he turns some minor portion of his squ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:27 AM
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Nope. Don't want some other chick's baby daddy. Don't want to put all that effort into kids I haven't made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:59 AM
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How is this even a question? Now, would I date a guy who got pegged by my ex, that's a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:09 AM
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Fine. Fail out of a childish desire not not be "lame". Nobody cares why you decided to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:58 PM
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I think they thought they were caring and good people. Back when they were in early adolescence, before the overall workload involved in actually realising that self assessment became obvious to them. Being a good enough person and pulling your weight in society as a fully grown adult is actually really fucking hard. And they seem just not good at doing hard things, or only good at doing a very limited range of hard things. Because their neuroticism eats up all their capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:12 AM
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Most of the men who get no sex and become sulky little boys about it are so shit at caring for anything other than their painful neuroticism that I don't realistically expect them to be particularly helpful to anyone about anything even if they decided to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:00 AM
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If you've been voting to basically destroy the power and influence the United States of America has accumulated so carefully over many generations because you can't get free sex with the skinny young submissive woman you desire, that is in no way going your own way. That is fucking with the rest of the world because your own way and own hand aren't good enough for you. Total opposite of going your own way. Now personally I don't think voting for Trump was mainly about sexual marketplace issues. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:54 PM
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If you believe that I certainly hope you don't also believe it is necessary to make a sexual approach to a new acquaintance very swiftly because waiting means she loses attraction and you will be put into the friend zone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:29 PM
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One would think that the dudes who complain about Chad getting all the girls would be very much for any such Chad busting measure. I mean this is the way for unattractive men to get some, right? Women warning women until we're all so suspicious of initial attraction that we date sexlessly until initial attraction has abated and we can judge on the basis of all those stellar qualities the Nice Guys say they bring to the table. But lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:22 PM
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Of course hobbies can be done as part of your normal routine. That chick knitting an incredibly complicated Scandinavian knit sweater on her daily train commute is still knitting an incredibly complicated pattern that is part of a steady accumulation of skills and techniques she is acquiring. Of course changing your location can be a hobby. If someone is for example systematically exploring every neighbourhood in the medium sized city they live in spending ten hours a week just going places and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:22 PM
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"special" is doing a lot of lifting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:45 PM
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For maximum profits Sydney Sweeney plays delicate push/pull games with both a male and female audience. She's at low point in the dude push/pull cycle that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:23 PM
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I have pondered for a while it is maybe about fluid intelligence vs crystallized intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:59 AM
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"you quickly see patterns in online dating" Yes. The women who have very low tolerance for some specific aspects of the bullshit side of masculinity have left the apps. That's the pattern. Have men ever considered leaving the apps too, if they're not one of the guys the women still seriously using the apps want? Or are they just going to keep whining online?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:42 PM
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It's been ages...like decades...since I've had trouble resisting buying a piece of jewellery but now I'm struggling. It isn't unaffordable and it is well within my budget but it is just something I would only have occasion to wear a few times of year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:43 PM
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This sort of shit is why I tell my daughters to steer clear of men raised in countries that don't provide sex education in schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:36 AM
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Lol dude, I decided men weren't worth the effort about a decade ago. I have no need of that app because I already got the tea on men in general...if a woman can manage to live without them she should.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:53 PM
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It wouldn't change a thing if nobody called them incels. They'd still not be getting any sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:21 PM
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You don't even need to go rural or to a different culture. I have never been to Miami but I know it is a city that also does usual city stuff not just party. I guarantee you if you go to Miami early on a Friday night when the 9 to 5 workers are heading home and then you hang out at some sort of public transport hub you're going to see plenty of young women without engagement or wedding rings heading home rather than to the clubs. If you go to places that serve meals and coffee and don't have lou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:36 PM
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A decisively rejected guy is going to complain she didn't give him a chance no matter at what point or for what reason she decisively rejects him. It's part of the way he keeps up the belief he really was good enough. It's not about her or anything else she did or didn't do at all really. Not about anything she thought or believed. He doesn't need to know why she rejected him to make this complaint he only needs to know how was rejected. Like seriously guys...she can be sitting there at the cafe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:55 PM
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I personally do not think that women's caution about strangers or indeed anyone's caution about strangers is autistic and neurotic. We live in an era in which meth heads and roaming crazies are everywhere and it is very reasonable to want nothing much to do with people who attempt to swiftly insert themselves into our lives in public despite having no known previous connection or significant current situational connection. But even if it was... autistic people and neurotic people of both genders…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:49 AM
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The times I have it's always been of marginal utility and came with serious dangers, inconveniences or strings attached that made it pretty much worthless to me. I think the most benefit I received was as a teen a bunch of much older male creative types were willing to just tolerate my presence in cafes and at conventions in a way they would never have tolerated my presence if I was a teenage boy without any credentials. But that could have ended up really bad for me if I had worse luck or fewer…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:11 AM
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You are aware that "find a viral tweet or a successful post to use because it's almost no work and a winning formula" is a known and rather annoying common behaviour by journalists? Look...more than enough men still approach at bars and clubs to keep the women who are willing to pick up men that way serviced. The problem is never a numerical shortage of men. Dick is still cheap and plentiful. They're still giving it away. There's a bunch of other guys invested in viewing material that says the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:08 AM
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"this viral tweet" You are aware that there's a program twitter users can sign up to and get paid to make tweets that go viral?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:47 PM
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Well I quit Instagram about three years ago. It seemed redundant? I think what your Instagram follows do is more about your taste in who you follow than about women in general. I can't recall ever seeing a photo of themselves from anyone I followed unless they had a career event with a very public front to it such as "here I am at this bookshop signing this book I've written" or "launching my new collection of earrings at the local craft collective shop" Just saying. You've chosen those people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:09 PM
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It not only feels like you don't have much particular liking for anyone as individuals it also feels like you're kind of in a hurry to make all the approaches so you can stop bothering with the whole social circle involved. So you don't really like her because if you did you'd grieve at least a short time after rejection. And you don't like me even more because you approached me after her. And you probably don't like any of us...not just the girls in the group but any of us even the guys because…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:47 AM
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That's really weird to me because when I look at arts it's like many of the arts circle back into the sciences via the craft processes involved in them. You generally don't get to be a world class painter or jewelers or sculptor or musician etc unless you've got a strong understanding of how at least one type of human sense works and also a bunch of physical stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:37 AM
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That didn't actually answer my question and without it my question being answered I don't know enough about your question to answer it What do you mean by "supposed to"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:11 PM
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Define "supposed to"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:10 PM
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Dude, most of the guys here think they are good men but clearly aren't good men. So that's a kind of bullshit question to ask here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:07 AM
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The reasons those guys leave having kids until their forties tend to involve all the reasons I mentioned. Stupidity, uselessness, unable to think their way out of stuck situations, a bit of the tism, unwarranted self importance due to perception of themselves as owed power, and raised by boy moms. And obesity...dude there's heaps of passport bros with serious body composition issues. The girls at the nightclubs in Asia don't want them. Just like western women with good bodies don't want them. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:30 AM
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Passport bros don't really affect women or men or public discourse in the countries they originate from... except as a general public health issue they affect everyone a little because they bring back diseases from cheap hookers. They're not opinion setters. They're on the margins. That's their basic nature. Marginal. The way I see it is a lot of these dudes in their original condition are dumb as and useful as a bowl of cold porridge. They're simply not willing to think certain things it is nec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:51 AM
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They've adopted loser as an identity and reject in the angriest and most vicious ways any actions or options that may lead to losing that identity. Oh they want sex that's for sure but they won't take paths towards it that might lead to them losing that identity as losers. Improve their presentation? But why should I change the real meeeeee. Learn to talk to people? But why should I change the real meeeeee. Get a better job? But why should I change the real meeeeee. Get more social circle l? But…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:44 AM
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People like to regularly go home from work for many hours at a time and disconnect from it emotionally and intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:01 PM
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Hobosexuals of neither gender go telling their targets that it's a resource based decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:19 PM
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Because in this case it's obvious they didn't choose to do the thing they really felt needed to get done, they chose to do the thing that most pleasingly distracted them from the discomfort of expending efforts. And notably with this OP... because he's fucking confessed to being lazy. He's got the life he has because he's lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:41 PM
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Most of the work is the same work as is necessary to be a success at most other things involving people. It's absolutely insane how much of the skill base and effort in finding and wooing partners is just perfectly normal being a competent human generalist. Basically stuff that everyone did routinely just to exist before IT became so dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:21 PM
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Took a look at your comments. I don't want to be you. That's the metric that matters to in these internet dick measuring contests about success.Whether someone on some level has managed to make me significantly desire to be them. There's lots of things another person could decide to do with themselves that could make them very happy and feel they are successful but don't move me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:17 PM
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No matter how disadvantaged you feel now you'd be even more disadvantaged if the likes of OP actually bothered to try properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:07 PM
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Then enjoy those advantages. Which tend to include a lot of gaming and very little sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:24 PM
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Men and women want somewhat different things. And to get those different things must make different sorts of effort. It's not ever going to be a direct comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:21 PM
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I don't have to. I don't have a problem with people choosing a lifestyle or life path out of laziness so long as they aren't trying to argue they are suffering unfairly due to their laziness. Be a gamer be a gooner be a stoner. Don't date don't exercise don't homecook good meals and put on a hundred poundsWork a part time job and live in a series of share houses where they eventually always ask you to pay more rent because you won't lift a finger to clean unless directly supervised. It's cool, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:16 PM
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I'm all for anyone who wants to go their own way for any reason doing exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:42 PM
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Life is work. It's reasonable that those who are willing to work hard get better results and more out of life than those of the same general attributes who are not willing to work hard. Lazy women are also disadvantaged. Effort does a very great amount to improve outcomes no matter who you are. Lazy women just complain about it less and certainly never mention their laziness in the same breath as complaining about poor results. Why would any lazy woman want a lazy man? Even if she's willing to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:08 PM
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He's lazy. Any woman who forms a family with a lazy man is condemned to being the source of all forward motion for the entire family. That's a miserable life for her and her kids. It's not unfair or unreasonable when matches that lead to miserable lives just don't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:51 PM
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Excluding the lazy from reproduction is a feature not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:41 PM
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Red pill https://youtu.be/OzQKECQgjW8?si=ORRxZSD_ImkBSCdv Blue pill https://youtu.be/d0G8PEYYHTY?si=i5vEOwiKJVeNSdP4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:03 AM
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Well for me it's mostly due to large coastal jetties. Around here that's where most of the fishing happens. Taking a walk down a coastal jetty to get out over the water is also one of the things one does on a short trip to the beach...and a short trip to the beach in a coastal city is fairly normal cheap entertainment and I do it usually with friends or family several times a year. Its something you do when. You sometimes want to get out the house and be mildly active but don't want to pay big b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:48 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_Intelligence This was when it became a big deal in pop psych. I remember because I was a fully grown adult at the time. Have you read it? You probably should read it if you're going to pontificate about the history of the concept
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:11 PM
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It's a messy life doing only fans, hanging out at nightclubs, getting the latest cosmetic procedures to look like the very picture of what's currently regarded as attractive, being a stripper or whatever etc. Like being a rock star is a messy life. I'm a woman. I've got nothing against other people choosing that life I strongly support their right to it but it's not one I'd ever choose for myself. When you describe the more understated less outgoing and sensation seeking women you're literally d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:58 AM
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So it's a form of help you're willing to pay another man for but expect women you have only talked to for a short time to provide you for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:09 AM
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Heck... not even just my safety. My comfort. I'm not going to (for example) tell an argumentative guy that he's attempted to pick three fights with me already and I'm done. What's he going to do? Attempt to pick another fight. Fuck that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:07 AM
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I don't know and I don't care. Something happened and then she was gone. You barely knew each other. It's not like when there's an actual relationship and someone cuts off contact. This is the flip side of how the dating apps are beloved by men because a socially awkward man can screw up or change his mind and only the woman witnesses it and unlike at a bar in front of friends he can walk away without explanation and it's all over like it never happened. Women can make use of that aspect of dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:58 AM
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Make sure not to pick a polygamous cult. Those have a bit of a habit of marrying half the women to the leader and working the half the young men who therefore can't marry literally to death doing manual labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:37 AM
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Yes. I never cease to be amazed by the guys who think the women who are top totty in the working class should cheerfully take on the dregs of the middle class and be grateful. It's just not a fun life compared to being with their match in the top of the working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:32 AM
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I'm over half a century old. I don't think I've ever had any sort of experience that started with someone approaching me and asking me "can I ask you something" that ended up being an actually wanted life experience for me. Not even when the topic being enquired about was totally unrelated to dating, sex etc. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:34 PM
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They were, if the remnant populations of people still living that way within recorded history are anything to judge by also quite socialistic in terms of resource distribution. Every bit of a big kill would have been spoken for before the hunters even got it back to camp. One haunch to one category of relative, another haunch to a different category of relative, the tongue to one person and the brain to another etc. Makes modern income taxes look like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:06 AM
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We're not hunter gatherers any more and those who still react automatically only in ways hunter gatherers do are probably going to be severely disadvantaged and their blood lines replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:22 AM
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Buying. They are both part of a socially and individually damaging thing but the person who walks away having paid is reducing their general capacity to take care of themselves and the person who walks away having been paid is increasing their general capacity to take care of themselves. It's like how there's a little chicken and chip shop a short walk away from me and I think the role of the shopkeeper is infinitely more forgivable than the role of fatass idiots spending AU$15 for maximum fried…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:27 AM
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Women deciding to approach more isn't going to solve the problems of lazy men who don't want to ever do anything. It going to be men who aren't lazy who get all the approaches. Those men will just shrug and then do all the things necessary to still be great at approach AND be more approachable than other men. The effect would be even greater divergence between the success rate of the men who try a whole lot and the success rate of the men who want to barely try at all. If you're a loser now dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:50 PM
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So at this point she's off doing whatever she feels like without having conceded jack to you and you're here pouring time into trying to get support and validation from strangers. Yeah someone's losing the argument and it isn't her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:12 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_temperaments We've been trying to categorise people longer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:52 AM
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Women suggest you try various therapies not because those therapies are always successful for women... but because those therapies are the best options we've all currently got. Including women. Who contrary to what you seem to believe also sometimes have treatment resistant depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:26 AM
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Nah dude, don't touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:43 AM
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I don't think it would. I think you'd just keep trying to prove whoever offered you suggestions wrong in some way. You're just wasting time trying to distract yourself from the very difficult nature of beginning to work on the clearly definable problems you do know exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:57 AM
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I'm not here on this earth to find things for you to get upset and complain about that you aren't upset and complaining about already. Like seriously that would not be doing you any favours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:39 AM
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Its pretty fucking simple. My DNA obviously has an evolutionary adaptation that dishes out the sweet sweet neurotransmitters every time I notice myself having improved my appearance. It doesn't withhold the neurotransmitters if the improvement is clearly not for sexual gratification of men with a particular mindset... and presumably thats because a lot of appearance is about health and a lot of appearance is about class signalling and a lot of appearance is about various social matrixes we inhab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:38 PM
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I have raised kids. Don't be afraid to think was my specific lesson for them. Everyone is going to want to control your thoughts but you must not be afraid to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:07 AM
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I'm in my fifties. There always been a whole lot of conversation about relationships. My mother (born early 1930s) had a different set of words to my sister (born early 1960s) and my grandmother (born 1910s) had an entirely different set of words again. But we all understood each other and were broadly in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:00 PM
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People talked about those things they just used different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:36 PM
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Socially imperceptive and socially reticent people are always going to have a difficult time dating. It is not a bug, it is a feature. It is the system working as intended. Parenthood has a very large social aspect to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:17 PM
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Telling a man to speak up and use his words with some chick he's been dating for three months isn't "being on the girls side" it is expecting him to behave like an actual adult if he's doing adult things like have sex. If he's scared of using words then any child he makes is just going to walk all over him....he shouldn't be doing the thing that makes babies if he won't address things like this directly and instead runs off to ask the internet feel sorry for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:08 PM
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Oh the massive wave of male firings that would result if women started doing this. A lot of men only go to work every workday because their mother used to nag them into it and then their wife took over from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:52 PM
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I also have it on good authority that sometimes they also fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:15 PM
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I'm a woman but I don't flair Nobody can tell you how much good it will do for your dating life because there's so many other factors involved...your social skills, local aspects of the dating market, whether you've got any major flaws or positive attributes, what level of improvement you would need to be satisfied etc. The only way to know...is do it. I hate to have to remind you of this...but this subreddit is full of men who are incandescently rageful because they want women to "put down the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:37 PM
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So you'd rather have an entire conspiracy theory where someone else is paying me to express a viewpoint than the simple truth that my viewpoint is that falling in love based upon sight alone is life ruining delusional. I think running for a conspiracy theory at first sign someone disagrees with you is kind of defective brain stuff too dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:39 PM
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If he cold approaches me because he has decided he loves me, there is something badly wrong with his brain. He's defective in a way that human beings just should not be defective. He will bring misery to anyone who has a relationship with him. I would rather he die than that we have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:04 PM
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It's the amount of time porn and gaming and doom scrolling etc take away from social development that seals your fate. What you become is shaped by what you spend time doing. If you're working a full time job and spending 25 hours a week on top of that on porn and gaming you will be falling behind socially compared to a man who comes home after work and thinks things like "oh hey, I'm bored...maybe I can see if there's something happening somewhere...oh look there's a band playing at a local sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:17 PM
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I think people who want that sort of treatment need to learn how to find and like the people who think they are sufficient motivation to provide that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:21 PM
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I seriously doubt that even a sizable minority of the women in the Australian versions of that sort of Facebook page are pro-Trump. Some things just cut straight across political lines. Not wanting to be cheated on is one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:24 PM
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I don't think RP offers much sexual success to an eyeball on a plate either. If a person has nothing to offer they've got nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:45 PM
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Nope. Nobody is arguing that someone who is basically an eyeball on a plate is going to have an easy time of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:24 AM
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Well for your specific disability the obvious response is that leading a life that speaks for itself louder than your vocal chords would probably resolve a lot of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:22 AM
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Sometimes discomfort isn't the signal to run away from a thought at all costs it is the signal to observe that thought in oneself then think about the nature of that thought until thinking that thought no longer makes you unreasonably panicky...at which point other approaches usually become obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:44 AM
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People are expected to be the primary motive force behind obtaining for themselves the lifestyle they wish to live. When women choose to approach it is very reasonably first and foremost according to their wants and desires not about satisfying men's wants and desires. If you find a woman who makes no approaches and then complains to you she isn't getting what she wants then that's a conversation that's reasonable to have with her...whether she personally should try some form of approaching in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:10 AM
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I don't believe that. I just think that having kids is statistically the main reason for most women who are basically capable of taking care of themselves to bother providing enough sex into the SMP or RMP to even come close to satisfying one man. Most men who get sex regularly are not Chad, they are getting that sex because they are with a woman who sees him as possibly.a father to and at least fifty percent provider to her future children and thus the relationship she builds with him is the so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:21 PM
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Yes we're also going through a phase where the consequences of reproduction having been compulsory for women have come home to roost now that women will only reproduce if they feel a genetic urge to it. It's fine. If a man wants to stay home and play games and get his goon on and all the rest because he thinks medium level effort is too much, it's fine. Well at least it is so.long as he's employed. GOP is gonna scapegoat him like a welfare queen if he isn't. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/10/us…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:07 PM
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If a man doesn't want to do the work and would rather play games, goon and let the algorithm rot his brain before running to the gym for a few hours a week of exercise to self medicate away the consequent inactivity induced depression well there's a pretty strong argument that he's not cut out for fatherhood. And if he's not cut out for fatherhood maybe the lack of dating is for the best. There are ample opportunities just not ample easy opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:50 AM
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I've never been to a hen's night with a hooker. Usually it's a stripper...and the stripper is hilarious. It's for shits and giggles not titillation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:34 AM
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How about this little bop from the eighties? https://youtu.be/W9MZkDqV3c8?si=GXbi-b-ESQppwbFN
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:49 PM
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Wow if you're that deeply wounded by Sabrina Carpenter, Alanis Morissette's Not the Doctor would probably finish you off for good. https://youtu.be/jdG7DYopRkM?si=JmNLlq0Jii34llFH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:44 AM
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Well dude that's just the nature of dating apps. Women really don't like the apps and any woman with options isn't going to be there. If the single mothers stopped using the apps the apps would be totally dead. The apps aren't going to suddenly give you what you want if they disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:48 AM
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Dating has never referred specifically to that. That's been referred to as "going steady"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:49 AM
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Well one of the unspoken dating rules is that you don't have to clarify the situation with regards to exclusivity but if you don't then certain consequences become more likely. You didn't clarify early, and one day instead of some cheerful sex you ended up with an argument and a huge source of sex and validation being withdrawn. She didn't clarify early, she ended up feeling hurt and having wasted her time. I do not see that situation you describe as one that lacked rules. She got upset. One can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:27 PM
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Because tiktok pays people to pander to the algorithm and you keep lingering over that content. You're literally summoning content creators to churn out easily produced short form content for you. I don't get those shorts because I avoid tiktok and on YouTube I don't engage with content like that. I mean thanks for letting us all know that sort of trash easily produced content is a winner? If I'm feeling short a few dollars this pay cycle I could go make a few tiktoks calling depressed men a bun…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:06 PM
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It's less about getting that high initial sentence... that's usually carried by general sentencing guidelines...and more about making sure that no early release happens and if it does happen the entire country gets to know. After twenty years they're often the only ones outside the immediate family who have the details of the case burned into their brains and are quick to respond by raising an outcry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:08 AM
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I'd accept public interest in the case as just a necessary part of me being able to effectively raise public opinion against any future release of the perpetrators into the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:58 AM
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True Crime is a more diverse genre than it looks from outside. People who find a sense of belonging among those who are seeking to identify the John and Jane Does who died nameless tend to be a different crowd to those who get on the gossip bandwagon of the latest salacious trial tend to be a different crowd to those who like the latest big well reported trial (salacious or not) because they love to see the working parts of law in action tend to be a different crowd to those who obsessively read…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:52 AM
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Nobody other than Project 2025 and their like is actually trying to stop you...and those people are generally wealthy white male Christian centred. Not even close to being definitively a woman problem. Some women see it as kind of trashy, stupid and low class but that doesn't really alter the SMP or RMP much because it's just one more of the many things people have to sort through the potential partners for a similar opinion on in order to have a comfortable relationship. You just see the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:38 PM
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Those guys only get accessed if a woman who exists in their social circle gives them repeated indicators of interest then eventually makes the approach herself once she's fairly sure the approach will be appreciated. They're part of the reserve that women potentially access when they are fed up with dating apps and delete their accounts. They're quite low down in priority. Mostly women don't think about them. Those guys aren't particularly sexually motivated and a lot of them that's because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:20 PM
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I just don't think the sort of guy who pays for sex... especially the sort of guy for whom it wasn't a desperate one off and who habitually pays for sex...values having the sort of relationship I prefer to have. And if he suddenly decides he does want something other than paying for sex, maybe his perfect match is a sex worker who has decided it is time to retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:48 AM
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Well I don't use dating apps...but have you ever considered that extracting more matches to keep the bros on their paid features treadmill without actually giving women a man they end up liking enough to be with permanently is the bread and butter of dating apps? And they've got as many sneaky tactics and strategies in place to push women to do that even though women hate that as they have sneaky tactics in place to keep men paying even though men hate that they feel the need to pay. Men feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:56 AM
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So you're like...trans-attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:45 PM
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That would deal with the can't buy a house on one income problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:24 PM
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Yeah I'm enjoying it too. Haven't felt this cheerful since James Packer and David Gyngell got photographed brawling in a Bondi street.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:18 PM
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They think the entire purpose of the universe is to help them get their dick touched. And that any woman who isn't helping them get their dick touched is bad, mad or stupid for going against the purpose of the universe. It's that simple. If I'm a woman not touching their dick then according to them I'm supposed to be taking out the competition and keeping some guy who is better than them at getting his dick touched locked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:19 PM
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I'm not on the market but I have been in the past so I will answer for past me. Well has he ever had a real job? One that paid his bills and he had to be serious about? I might give a second look if he had ever had a real job. But if he hasn't I am not interested even if the reason he hasn't is generational wealth. It's just too much of the normal human experience missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:47 AM
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I find it more amusing not to. It doesn't alter the validity or otherwise of any arguments I make and it's so much fun dealing with the two different flavours of "but you're a feminist" argument when one doesn't claim to be a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:26 PM
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Well y'know...humans have a range of how much they have to care about someone else's feelings before being willing to fuck them. She obviously doesn't particularly need to care about a man's feelings before fucking him. He brought home a woman who didn't care about his feelings. And she proceeded to...not care about his feelings. Didn't physically assault him, didn't steal his things, didn't falsely accuse him of rape, didn't leave the bath running and flood his apartment while he slept, didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:33 PM
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Doesn't look to me like he screened her for anything other than her willingness to go back to his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:39 AM
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Doesn't really need to be that though. The computer does the matching be etc and will be timely. This is a task for which consistency, conscientiousness, accountability and honesty are the important things. You're creating a benchmark in people's consciousness. Is the new commercial app better than the government app or not? Has Tinder become worse than the government app or better? The point is to make an app that people know for sure how it's actually playing that game and that it is playing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:53 PM
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I keep saying we need a government owned dating app that just does exactly what it says it does and releases accurate statistics to an agreed schedule and isn't measuring success by profits. Just to keep the bastards over at the commercial apps a little more honest by being a benchmark...this is what you get when a dating app is managed this particular way, you know it for sure...now draw your conclusions comparing other things to something you know is what it says it is. Apps are, I think, of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:02 PM
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Well confidence is like salt. Need a little of it in many things, but too much and nothing's gonna save what you're attempting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:54 AM
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Recent changes haven't necessarily been reflected in any numbers they have generated for themselves yet. And the numbers we get given don't even necessary reflect accurately what is going on. Dating apps are deliberately and strategically inscrutable. You never will be able to totally know what they are up to and why. They release only the numbers they wish to release. You know what you can know? Whether you personally are happy with the service
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:34 AM
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I don't think we can judge adequately what Tinder is up to and what the results for users will be because it's not like they are ever going to give us their entire game plan. Maybe they are going to introduce a bunch of paid features women would like and then use an offer of a few days of those features for free in order to tempt women back in whose interest in using the app seems to be waning. I don't necessarily think this will be ax devastating for average height men as some here seem to feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:42 AM
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I don't flair and if I did it wouldn't be as blue or red. I don't tend to have much reason to argue in my real life because I've got good at cutting out of it all the dumb pricks who give me reason to. However I do like to keep my knives sharpened so whenever anyone like that crops up my words can cut cleanly and deeply and that's what here is for. To keep the knives sharpened.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:14 AM
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For the love of god or humankind, some paragraph breaks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:03 PM
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Because I don't want some dumb prick who started off full of positive thoughts and high potential but now has a bad case of midlife crisis and has been watching MRA brain rot on tiktok telling me I can't spend $6 on a jar of nail polish occasionally. Fuck that noise, imma work for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:43 AM
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For a few people just not pairing at all is the most logical choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:06 PM
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You know...if someone pretends to be one sort of person before the wedding then withdraws all that and it is obvious they have always been a totally different sort of person they were just pretending, emotionally it feels almost like they murdered the person you actually said yes to. I don't think a good woman stays married to a man who is to her emotionally the man who killed her much beloved husband. A good woman leaves to free both of them from this terrible situation that was not of her maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:19 PM
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I have occasionally pondered how a truth social account that is utterly apolitical but involves doing something just a smidge outside traditional American gender norms would go down. For example a woman doing woodcarving or a man doing sashiko embroidery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:54 PM
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I think most women who aren't happily lumpen proletariat and also want a good sized family should steer clear of becoming too attached to men who are more than two easy secure reliable years away from being able to purchase a house acceptably close to his place of employment that is suitable to raise the size of family they would prefer together. Whether that's six figures or not depends on real estate prices mainly. That's just the reality of life. The sums not adding up is misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:25 PM
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At my age I value peace of mind over excitement, comfort over catering to someone else, privacy over intimacy and control over my own life over trying to build a relationship. It doesn't matter how good a man is, I've got no place better than platonic friendship for him in my life and he has to be pretty damn good to get even that .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:59 PM
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It's giving "will you be my mommy" but not in a sexy fun fetish way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:48 AM
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Plenty of quite chunky almost obese guys over six foot tall. If she goes for one with an average face then that's about equal in terms of market power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:21 PM
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(product name) makes you more attractive to your preferred gender. You should buy as much (product name) and (product name) accessories as possible there is no such thing as too much (product name). Always make sure to have the latest (product name) because even slightly out of date (product name) is less effective. Chris forgot to buy ,(product name) now Chris's previously loving spouse thinks Chris smells like an open sewer. Jamie bought lots of (product name) and received seven whole Valentin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:22 AM
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I think if it is as you describe (haven't seen it locally but we're heading into winter here so whatever) it's a micro trend so all the dynamics around micro tends apply... basically they are signalling to each other that they know what trend is hot right now. Y'know...like when suddenly everyone is popping their collar. Probably part of its popularity is that it doesn't involve buying anything new. It's also quite possibly related to the increasing popularity of Allison Bornstein's three word m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:08 PM
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Mostly they haven't been to war either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:20 AM
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I can't imagine myself being in that situation and not already knowing. If you know a guy well he's basically got zero chance of having kept secret what he's really attracted to unless the thing he's attracted to is so taboo that no-one ever sees it coming because they aren't looking for it, and he has devoted his entire life to the hiding of it. I would think he's really more stupid than I had thought he was. Actually telling me and disrupting the delicate balance of plausible deniability. Moro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:05 AM
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Not after the extended period of taunting he did to her...but maybe if the whole course of their actions over the course of the bender had been completely swapped with her taunting him and yelling "do it" AND he had a good lawyer. This whole thing stinks to me of grandma mortgaged her home to pay for a better class of criminal lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:00 AM
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You think? From my point of view as an actual Australian the whole lot of them...her, her victim and the friends who didn't put a stop to it as the party got meaner and meaner are shitty bogans and probably everyone in town who wasn't just as shitty as them hated all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:38 AM
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Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:27 AM
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Nah dude. She's far from being the sort of chick who gets sympathy in court, and lighter than usual sentence for someone like that usually means good lawyer. Here's an actual account of the story in your post btw. For those who want one. Since you didn't think we needed one. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-05-08/corbie-walpole-sentenced-burning-jake-loader-howlong-sentence/105265038
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:23 AM
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She got a fairly light sentence on the scale of Australian sentencing but Australian sentencing is fairly lenient overall. To get an idea of the scaling of sentences, this is what gets a man a 20 year nonparole period in a state that has similar enough scaling of sentences. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-12-20/north-plympton-housemate-nikola-milosevic-murder-sentence/100713664
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:41 AM
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Ideas don't die easily they just find ways to hide in plain sight .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:05 PM
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Life never ends anything other than horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:43 AM
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Dude. Boring normal men get wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:33 AM
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Well.. masking stuff isn't a strict either/or thing? Like any performance there's some aspects a person will find easier to do than other things. Absolutely if you're acting weird as hell and you've never even tried acting more normal you can achieve some success at masking if you really want to even if you've got trauma. Some of appearing normal can be made routine. Some of it just requires little tricks. It's okay to just not want to do it and refuse to do it. But ummm...some of it is really l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:19 AM
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That's not supported by actual statistics. Young women's actual mate choices in western democracies skew a little to the older side as in the overwhelming majority of relationships are something like up to two years younger and up to four years older. Is it possible maybe that you are also a bit misled about the actual age of some of the women you say you see in these "real life age gap relationships" you speak of? Maybe you're looking at forty year old men with thirty four year old women who wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:12 AM
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The worlds of face to face social involvement that we evolved to mate seek in AND the worlds of online social involvement that aren't dating apps would have to literally stop existing before I would give even half a shit about the complaints of men who complain they will never find appropriate company because all dating apps suck. And even then, if they aren't screaming first and foremost for the government to create a government owned dating app that has workings that are more open to public sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:51 PM
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That's generally not how dudes feel once it happens. He's usually set to go from having two chicks to having one or more likely none at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:04 AM
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So...now dealing with choosing to marry and not have a large party dictates that you not allow coworkers to know anything much about you. Presumably this could all become very awkward if a friend or relative got a job at your workplace. Or a co-worker bought the house next to yours. This is not adding to the list of benefits of marriage with a small celebration at all, is it. Quite the opposite. It's the stuff of a 1960s sitcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:09 PM
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You can't rely on the anti-abortion types to stay anti-abortion for a pregnancy that actually affects them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:41 PM
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"I'm probably better off working elsewhere" It's kind of a Reddit cliche telling people to quit a job. "At work I work not gossip" Gossip is just par for the course in some workplace settings. People oriented work is drenched in people talk "Most people don't even know my age or my marital status here..." Guarantee you that someone with the same level of work performance as you but who is well known and well liked ends up getting preferred in useful ways all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:31 PM
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Well for example if every other employee at your level in your workplace has invited their boss to their wedding and you haven't, and your boss cares about that, well you're gonna take some sort of hit from that. In some industries such as anything associated with organising people and swaying their opinions...PR, personnel, marketing, real estate sales etc it's particularly dire. And there will always be people who drag it out and get their kicks in or badmouth you to other people whenever anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:11 PM
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Maybe upsetting everyone with acts of social nonconformity is just expected of your family at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:36 PM
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A lot of "optional" things have significant social consequences if you don't do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:20 PM
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The question asked about downsides. This is a downside. Unless you're both total loners no friends no family, if you marry you have a choice to make that will cost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:15 PM
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It's a choice with serious costs attached whichever way you decide. And if you don't marry you don't have to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:10 PM
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Yes well that's the take I took when I got married too. Turns out the resentments about not receiving a big party have so far lasted over three DECADES longer than the actual marriage did. In fact there's people who blamed the lack of party for the divorce...not his cheating. And it's still going on in my kids generation, worse than ever. There's still enough people who expect a big wedding and are relentless in punishing those who do not provide. It most definitely is something that has to be r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:57 PM
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What should be and what actually is are two different things. There are social consequences to a couple not giving all the people closest to them something those people expected to receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:35 PM
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Everyone expects a huge party and if you don't give it to them you will never hear the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:28 PM
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People are often willing to take a hit themselves if it means landing an even stronger hit on an ex they've had an acrimonious breakup with. And it doesn't matter how much you WANT to hear what a shit someone's ex was...once you've heard it you've heard it and the person blabbing doesn't even need to tell you directly, social scenes gobble that stuff up and pass it on to others like a bowl of candy at a movie night. Like literally tell just one person in a maudlin drunken haze on Friday night an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:08 PM
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I'm not sure it's misogynist other than that he sees it as more her job to change than his. More obviously it's pathetic and ridiculous. He knew what she was like, that she wore sexy clothes and danced on the dance floor and liked to have a few drinks. Usually that was EXACTLY what she was doing when he met her. Don't want to end up in some power struggle trying to eradicate the personality and behaviours of a chick who wants to just go on being herself...and you looking like a damnfool because …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:40 PM
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Depends how the wages and social respect for the skilled trades jobs that to some extent rely on strength hold up. In my country a nurse with a basic university degree in nursing is approximately equivalent (socially and financially) to a carpenter who did an apprenticeship with some technical college content but no actual degree. And the nursing sector is currently booming because of an older sicker population. And a lot of nurses do it for a job not a career and marry tradespeople. Also to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:26 PM
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Someone needs to make a massive flow chart of possible life choices where every path ends in "bad woman, incels angry"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:15 AM
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A lot of families don't set anyone up at all precisely because things can go wrong and who wants to fall out with a friend. The way you talk here just worsens a perfectly normal concern. welcome to adulthood kiddo...you can be expected to meet your own needs now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:24 AM
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There's no going back in time. A forty year old is never going to be sixteen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:22 AM
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I think you underestimate how much systematically stopping people physically victimising other people assists the average man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:47 AM
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Man or woman, to do well romantically someone has to be all of 1.well liked within the part of society they seek partners in 2.useful in some way to those partners they prefer 3.good at establishing appropriate boundaries that serve them well but don't result in failing on points one or two There never was a time when this was not true for both genders. And yeah it's hard. You're an adolescent. You don't clearly see yourself, your predicaments and other adolescents as the adults see. Pretty much…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:50 AM
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Lol. No. That's not why nice girls don't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:13 AM
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I think the first step for most people comes down to something more basic than that. Get more sleep and be awake all the daylight hours if at all possible. Like seriously stop gooning gaming shopping doom scrolling whatever into the wee small hours. A lot of stuff is going to look a whole lot easier if you do that. Including exercise, losing weight, doing better at work, reigning in your spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:20 AM
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It's because Billy does things like drop out of education, game'n'goon all day until he smells gross then on his way back from the unemployment office attempt to sit near to me on public transport giving me "will you help me mama' eyes then gracelessly proposition my tired mid-fifties self who thinks he is visually indistinguishable from an actual goddamn child. And Dorothy? She processes forms and takes queries at some government information desk and gets her job done and never asks me for jack…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:30 AM
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Well I've actually been a teenage girl, and an early twenties woman. And watched my older female relatives date. Thirty years old dudes were haggard. Teens and young adults are exquisitely sensitive to whether you are one of them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:50 AM
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I'm in my fifties.Regularly here I see male posters who are woefully misinformed about womens genitalia but oh so insistent they know best. I just don't want to interact personally in real life with that shit. Like...ever. No virgins for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:34 PM
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30+ year olds are to the average teenager or early twenties woman visibly aged, gross and wrinkly and unwanted by the vast majority of the demographic of women they chase after hardest. Just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:21 PM
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Publishing is a job that pays in contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:04 AM
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Well women are having sexual thoughts about those men too...just the thoughts are ewww ick no gross do not want. If she works out you had your sexual thoughts, you crossed a boundary of politeness and she's fine to cross equivalent boundaries of politeness to make her sexual thoughts known too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:59 AM
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If you've got a guy providing sperm you've probably also got a guy who is gonna help you strip that copper. Just saying. Benefits just don't provide enough to be worthwhile on a month to month basis. Not even in societies with very ample benefits because those societies usually provide ample study benefits and adequate unemployment benefits. Having a bunch of kids on benefits is an asset creation strategy for poor people, not an income creation scheme. It's one of the few effective asset creatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:14 AM
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It's quite common among lonely people for the person themselves to be a large part of the problem. Often they have decided time after time that things that could be done to have a chance of solving their problem are too much to do at all unless they are guaranteed perfect success in solving their problem. Since success can never be guaranteed that means they stay lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:09 PM
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If she's talking about having to pay for herself as a deal-breaker she's a woman who is routinely dealing with guys who ask her on dates well before she feels completely comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:52 PM
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You really don't see the similarities? At any point in a relationship that is still developing people are eagerly willing to do different things for that relationship. Then there's things that...well not so much. The whole point of asking someone on a first date is to attempt to hurry someone up to do something they aren't as willing to do as you are yet. Yeh she's doing you a favour if she agrees to a date when she's actually a month of talking online and then two weeks of talking on the phone …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:32 PM
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They kind of are doing you a favour though, if they agree to go on a date before they feel anywhere near as happy about going on that date as you feel about going on that date. That's how things are. If someone does stuff for you early in a relationship before they feel the nature of the relationship warrants it...they are doing you a favour. For example. If you've been on two dates and have never kissed let alone shagged her and she phones you up and says help my car wont start and I need you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:14 PM
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Basically no woman with any sense is going to be that into you based upon just a few weeks very casual messaging. Women are only that into men they know enough about to be that much into. It's really simple. If you don't want to apply pressure to hurry a face to face meeting up by issuing a date invite and potentially paying the full expenses of a date then you're either going to have to find a way to organise a meeting that is clearly not a date...or you're going to have to do a whole lot of ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 AM
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Women are under pressure to be competent. To learn to earn to acquire. Just not by the particular parts of the world that prefer them incompetent because that makes them easier victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:22 AM
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Can you get yourself home from a party that ended unpredictably in the wee small hours, without standing for an extended time at a bus stop exposed to peoples random predatory urges? Oh...no you can't. You gotta wait. You just don't have to suffer peoples predatory urges if you do that because there's almost no women who want to do things like take you home, roofy you, assault you while you are unconscious then put the photos up online. If you choose to get an uber instead do you need to deal wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:56 AM
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Your female equivalent, a young woman with anxiety, depression and OCD who can't get herself places the public transport doesn't go and relies on random men for all that, is basically a prey animal. If you think you'd enjoy women being more predatory and the world chewing your tender meat up while you scream in pain and spitting out the gristly harder to digest bits into the gutter on a regular basis more than you enjoy just failing to get dates...you really need to rethink a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:45 AM
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It's not really to get benefits. Benefits just don't cover it fully and kids are a lot of work. If it's just for money you're better off stealing copper from empty buildings or running a shoplifting ring or something like that. It's that a huge family is about the only asset that is likely to maintain any form of performance for you all the way down. School won't do jack to stop your autistic kid getting bullied... you're too poor for a lawyer? Well send some of the older siblings to throw the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:23 PM
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I think it's more that there's no shame left if you're poor enough. Every damn vested interest in the world thinks it should have a right to via shame control when and how people breed. The natural response to that is to become extremely reluctant to breed at all. Unless you're very very wealthy and your money is completely capable of creating a bubble for you and your kids. Or you're poor enough that everyone hates you anyway and well what's one more bit of shaming to endure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:15 PM
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But any anti-porn laws from this administration gonna be forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:19 PM
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If I had a thousand lives to piss away on helping useless men I might spend half of those lives trying to make something of a man who is kind of lazy or lacks a positive attitude to life or is kind of stupid or doesn't like bathing or compulsively steals from his employer or can't stay faithful or spends every available moment masturbating or gaming. I don't have a thousand lives to live. I have but one life. And if helping him is going to make that one life of mine worse, he's going to have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:47 PM
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I never have...but I have been the one without a finalized divorce who was being dated. I personally think there's different rules for people from your social circle and people outside your social circle. In your social circle you're going to lose friends but if you can weather that go right ahead. Outside your social circle the main issue is having enough evidence to know for sure the breakdown of marriage is not going to be walked back. Far far more important is never date someone who is still…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:44 PM
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Because they weren't going to leave if treated nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:33 AM
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Well yeah... because pushing harder and fighting harder to make it last would have broken it sooner and I could have been out a couple of years quicker. That would have been lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:02 PM
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I've never cheated but I assume some of the emotional rewards of it are similar to but more intense than finding a better lover shortly after leaving a bad relationship...which is something I have done. You're living a life that you don't really want and then you go from that to experiencing a triumphant feeling of screw you I got mine, I get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:39 AM
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There's like...only about 27 million people in Australia but some Chinese dudes smuggled in 155kg of a date rape drug? https://youtu.be/X8j4qez5hQM?si=6kMe8KBt2ERv7Xyu
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:24 AM
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That's because you don't want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:59 AM
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I think if he supports measures that would result in the sort of loser who would beat a wife getting to have and prevent the leaving of a wife, he might as well be a wife beater himself. He's basically unfit to have a daughter with. Women are just reporting their rapes more. But fewer rapes are by their husbands because now society is run such that they just don't gotta hang round if that's happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:56 AM
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I don't think violence against women has increased. I think it now happens in public against women who are strangers. Because we're not pressuring women into marrying those dudes or staying married to those dudes so those dudes lack easy access to their traditional victims of choice...a family...a woman who tried to make it work and some children they had with that woman. People don't magically become drastically different people because they get married. Violent resentful jerks who think the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:37 AM
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Nobody has any problem with anyone getting in shape, making more money and presenting themselves better. All these things are broadly regarded as good. It's when you spout a whole bunch of red pill rhetoric with it that you will lose everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:04 AM
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Nah most of the whiny sexless dudes gonna get drafted and then get killed by drones. The ones that manage to get their shit together will come back and have nothing but contempt for how they used to be. It sucks but well there we have it, the future America voted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:12 PM
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I had my chance with the favoured scion of one of the top 20 families in my city and I outright refused it and I would again. And he wasn't even one of the worst rich men. He was still trash. And he went on to make a whole lot of people very unhappy. The very rich and the very poor tend to be trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:28 PM
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Rich men are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:03 AM
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You spend too much time gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:54 AM
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It's more that we're looking for men we aren't going to eventually want to push down the stairs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:37 AM
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Yeah well...even big dicks are cheap and plentiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:21 PM
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Most posts based on AI generated pictures just automatically make want to punch the poster in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:58 PM
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Well...yeah? The women who actually prefer to date violent felons rather than just get caught up in the lies and have to extract themselves having learned a life lesson usually have multiple dodgy guys on the go at once. It's not rocket science and it isn't hard to understand. She's visiting her boyfriend or husband in prison but she's also fucking her dealer for free drugs and regularly falling drunkenly into bed with her boyfriend's best friend and picking up the occasional random grifter in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:06 PM
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Maybe they've got unrealistic ideas because women in their fifties rarely complain to strangers and their male children about what actually makes them sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:40 AM
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Nobody says you can only approach this that or the other adult woman. We know it's legal. Just that we have a very low opinion of you when you do make certain approaches. And it's really no different to how you have a low opinion of women who go all googly eyes for the boys who used to bully you in high school. What the fuck was wrong with some guy's upbringings that they ended up thinking they've got a right to never have anyone find their behaviour less than ideal? Like seriously. The rest of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:40 PM
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