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I mean men have to be more entertaining to women to make up for the lack of mutual sexual attraction. Women select men with attractive personalities. Men select women with attractive physical qualities. The incentives are what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:02 PM
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what trap? I am trying to explained that most women arent interested in entertaining men so "personality' is less of a factor for what men look for. Because most womens personalities are the same. If I went on a date and thewoman was trying her best to get me to laugh, to entertain me, to get me to like her, I would be shocked. Thats not how it has been in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:00 PM
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So ugly people should not date, is that your conclusion? Only people supremely confident with no self esteem issues should date? More likely to take an opportunity is meaningless if there is no opportunity presented to test his loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:56 PM
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The difference is ugly men have trouble soliciting women for casual sex and "cheating". No the case for ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:43 PM
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Its not like most women are especially entertaining. Why would a 5/10 woman be more entertaining than a 10/10 woman? Why would she have a better conversation with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:42 PM
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They would still be a better match with a slim girl with no tits or ass than a hambeast
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:39 PM
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I'm a doctor. Wahtever were done. Stop denying reality and grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:35 PM
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However there seems to be much more men who are outliers than there are woman outliers. And they end up sexless losers.... so how is that a positive in anyway to be an "outlier"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:31 PM
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Oh your husband is afraid of drugs, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:27 PM
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Sometimes. But I see women doing the same thing. Women somehow think an obese woman is a match for a normal weight man. For example. I basically never see obese men with normal weight women unless they are old and retired. I see lots of young couples teens, 20s where the man is a healthy weight, trim, and the woman is fucking obese...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:20 PM
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All husbands say their wives are funny... talk about naive bs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:17 PM
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Its still intimidating going to fuck a stranger, I was super nervous the first time, and still get a little nervous, most men don't have the balls for it. They are afraid of it. Like being afraid to try drugs, similar concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:14 PM
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They do. They are much less funny than men. There are 10 male comedians for every female one. In a group setting its always the men trying to make everyone laugh, not the women. Same thing on first dates. For example your husband is almost certainly more funny than you are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:13 PM
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Being social/ social conformity middle school Sorry how is that any different than boys? So you are now claiming that socializing is a "self improvement" that only one gender does...? Then add makeup Make up takes like a couple tries to learn Like on average the majority of girls have started their first diet by middle school Diet? Just play sports
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:10 PM
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They are not coupling up like normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:54 PM
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Tall men with big dicks impress western woman so they will have to share those men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:45 PM
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Now they are free to have sex with big dick tall men and have all the fun they want, what is the problem? What do women have to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:44 PM
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It will just work itself out. Women will stay alone, join harems, or wait for feisty 3rd world migrant men with nothing to lose to come in with the right amount of effort to lock them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:42 PM
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Why should you care about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:41 PM
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Its really men joking around with women. It certainly is not mutual. For example no woman has ever spent time trying to make me laugh or entertain me, unless we are already dating. Meanwhile men try to entertain women every day with their humor to attract them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:37 PM
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Hes almost certainly funnier than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:36 PM
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No, its that women reject men if they are not funny enough. Meanwhile, women like you, do not have to be funny to your husband to attract him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:36 PM
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I think you are just insulting to boost your own ego. I don't think you care about lonely men on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:34 PM
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Most men who see prostitutes can get someone to fuck them for free as well. It actually takes quite a bit of balls to go seek out a prostitute, the same bold qualities women love in men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:33 PM
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being interesting or funny to be performative? Because unless you are born and raised with those traits it is performative. Why do you think women struggle so much with comedy than men? Do you think women just don't want to be as funny as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:29 PM
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Not being able to date your looksmatch is just as bad as having little to no options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:54 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:48 AM
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I think its easy to be friends with attractive women. And tons of men do it all the time, they act like simps. they never sleep with those women. I wish I had more attractive female friends, it would help with meeting other hot women who actually want me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:47 AM
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She only likes special men you see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:42 AM
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So you can hide things from men, and you justify it as "just feelins"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:40 AM
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And I grew up in Seattle's gay neighborhood, Capitol Hill. So one of the few places where being gay was ok? you realize taking your experience as the experience of America is incredibly narcissistic. Look I know lots of gay people and it definitely wasn't better in the fucking 70s to be gay than now. Grindr didn't even fucking exist in the 70s, you can literally have a new guy every single night without leaving your house in 2026. You are completely ignorant of the life style of gays in 2026 if …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:55 AM
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I load up OLD and go out with a few women over a couple of weeks and then am reminded by how terrible women are and shut down for a few months. Rinse repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:52 AM
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Mexican and central Americans are not the same height as a group as white europeans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:50 AM
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I know it was not a fun time to be openly gay or in an interracial relationship. What do you know about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:47 AM
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The second they decide they had fun and want to do it again, they are going to meet each other’s friends Not if the man doesn't want to meet her friends. Then they stay "FWB". I've slept with more than one woman and never met her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:36 AM
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You are claiming sex was more "free" 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:32 AM
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Ok then go look up what women are posting themselves doing on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:31 AM
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Oh did gays have it more freely? What about interracial relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:30 AM
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No, never been to PH. I just know filipinos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:21 AM
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Its much more free now. Obviously you wouldn't understand, being old and all. If it was so free then why were there no interracial relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:19 AM
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Because men are the corruptors. They impose themselves upon women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:14 AM
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Cause youre a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:13 AM
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I never said millenials missed hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:10 AM
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Oh ok. So tons of things have changed. Got it. So guess what grandma, even more things have changed in 2026. Just go look on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:07 AM
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Huh? Wtf are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:06 AM
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No, I just am well travelled and I know the deal. So don't come at me with "chaste conservative Philippines" lmao. That place is wild west for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:04 AM
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I looked up recently how women were meeting partners and it was mostly in real life not online. So if all the men are on dating apps, how are women all findings partners, if all the women are meeting men IRL than the actual habits of most women. No one knows what the actual habits of women are. They have sex in secret and then don't tell their future men about their past sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:01 AM
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Far more common than in past generations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:59 AM
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Ya the Philippines are not known for sexual conservativism regardless of how Catholic it is. You can literally offer street children money for sex in the Philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:59 AM
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Things now, as far as premarital sex, are not that different than they were then Oh ya, then why were there hardly any interracial relationships if things were the same back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:51 AM
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The amount of sex folks were having, and the freedom with which they sought out sexual partners (as opposed to relationship partners) peaked in the eighties. Huh? What a delusional world view. You think sexual freedom was higher in the 80s than now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:50 AM
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Friends were totally different. I don’t think I ever dated anyone who didn’t at least hang out with my friends and I hung out with their friends. Most often, we had mutual friends. Well now girls meet guys online and go over to their place to fuck, without them meeting anyone in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:49 AM
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First, I will state that you dodged the thrust of my point and are veering into ad hominen "insecurity" accusations. Cool, now she has some tricks up her sleeve, why is this a problem? And now shes made herself sexually incompatible with any man who isn't into those kinks or cannot fulfill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:36 PM
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Hook up culture was not the default dating scene in 80-90s. Almost all the stories I have of my parents generation meeting was through formal going out on dates, meeting through friends and family, maybe work. Never, oh we banged after a night at a bar and started dating. Vetting with their families just means the families knew what types of men the women were into and the types they tended to date. That is vetted. Are you the right class, the right culture, the right demographic, that is vettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:33 PM
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A woman who respects her family and think they have a good idea of the world and people...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:28 PM
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Hmm I wonder who they will pick? I guess your girls want to be like the WAP pussy type girls, how wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:28 PM
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Does this mean really attractive women who hookup with less attractive men are also ruining them for all of their future partners? That doesn't happen. would it be specifically sex Sex is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:26 PM
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How does sleeping with lots of different types of men create agency and identity and community?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:26 PM
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I'm white. White men are the vanguard with dealing with our prospective partners acting radically different than our mothers generation. Other groups will learn from us in terms of how we deal with it. Right now Indian and Muslim girls are still in the control of their families and are more sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:24 PM
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I care about who women have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:23 PM
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Do you think this young woman's brain is going to leak out of her head and she's going to fall on his dick? Yes. Why wouldn't she want to be with an amazing high status sexy looking man....? A lifetime of society, culture, values, and preferences have fuck all to do with anything so long as Chad dick shows up in her DMs Society and culture? What parts of society and culture would dissuade a young woman from wanting to avoid having an experience with a millionaire athlete? Now what? Is she suppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:22 PM
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No. The current culture favours casual sex and relationships less. Now I know you are just making up shit. Our current culture is WAY more sexual than the previous generation. You just said it with porn. Stop making up BS please. You are being bad faith. As for casual relationships, I woudln’t say there is a difference. So polycules and open relationships were common in our parents generation? no. They were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:20 PM
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No. But thats also why I have had sex with a few people that I would be ashamed to bring home to family, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:17 PM
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I do not take gen Z having more casual sex than previous generation as a fact either unless you provide evidence. Do you agree that Gen Z is more exposed to sex than the previous generation? Do you agree that there are less culture restrctions to sex than the prevous generation? Do you agree that Gen Z is engaging in more types of sex and relationships that were largely disapproved of in previous generations? So yeah women are having a bit more sex but not a significant amount So for the first t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:14 PM
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Well I am more interested in real culture clashes than personality differences. I guess women here will probably not admit to choosing a guy that their parents would not approve of for actually good reasons. That would be a very vulnerable admission, even on an anonymous forum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:11 PM
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Sure, some parents can be off the mark, or just straight up dumb and poorly informed about human behavior and virtuosity, or misplaced priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:05 PM
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Charismatic and sexually appealing men exist in this world, mere exposure isn't going to sully the maidens, they don't need chaperones. Its not exposure, its active contact. Exposure is like seeing someone on TV. Having a man message you and meeting the man is not "exposure" its actively choosing men for sex and relationships which will forever be apart of that womens history and part of her sexual development.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:04 PM
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Not yet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:03 PM
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I've never seen nor have men presented one iota of hard evidence that a woman who has a one night stand with a hot guy at 22 is unable to fall in love with and sleep with a less attractive man at 28. You would never except any evidence. And why would there be any "hard evidence" of such a socially intimate, intricate dynamic? I honestly question your intelligence, if you think there will EVER be any hard evidence of such a dynamic. Do you honestly think there are researchers out there accurately…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:00 PM
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That is not established, its an open debate with some surveys. I do not take that as fact. And my next question is, are Gen Z men having less sex than Gen Z women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:58 PM
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Increased: "care less about "lifelong partnership" has increased or decreased in the last 20 years?" Huh? It's already well documented that GenZ men and women engage in far less casual sex. That is not all established. Also its important know which group, gen Z men or women, have more casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:57 PM
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Oh, I am. I am leaving a record right here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:55 PM
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I think you represent the average young women in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:53 PM
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but you can also definitely pick up on how they feel about them. But by then its too late. You are already knee deep in the man and unlikely to change your mind. My parents were reluctant to accept the man I married Why do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:50 PM
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So you stayed within their approval zone. they were just average college dudes But women now have access to more than "average college dudes" when they are at college. For example they could be DM'd by a football player on a 2.1 million NIL contract through a mutual acquaintance. And this player could do this to a new girl every week. Or if they live in a metro area, they could match or be messaged by a 35 year old local business owner/multi-millionaire who offers take her on his yacht for fun o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:47 PM
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Drink, do drugs, spend your evenings in bars and your weekends at festivals. That does not necessarily lead to casual sex for men. That works for women, because women sit there and wait for men to approach them for offers of casual sex. And they control each step of the process. Drink, do drugs, spend your evenings in bars and your weekends at festivals. Doesn't lead to casual sex for most men. Just like in typical dating, some men are chosen for casual sex by women and others are not. It remain…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:39 PM
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The average count for LIFE is 7. 7. This is not the average count of women who are open to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:30 PM
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Attractive men with robust social lives do not find getting sex hard I disagree. For example if he is shy or is not a good flirt, it doesn't matter if hes attractive and has a robust social life. There are a million things that can sink a mans sexual fortunes and get in the way of him having sex with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:28 PM
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Its a hypothetical. Parents release their kids into the world with no sexual guidance and don't even have any knowledge of who their kids are fucking with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:24 PM
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It wouldn't make sense to have good ol' mom and dad meet the guy I hooked up with for 2 weeks that one summer. like...what? why is their input needed for that? So did you hook up with guys they wouldn't approve of?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:23 PM
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I didn't say family arranged courtship. I said KNOWLEDGE of who you are dating/having sex with. For example if a woman in the 50s went off to college, her parents would have an idea of the kinds of men she would probably date, simply by the demographics of the college. Now a woman kind of all sorts of types in college, in big cities, and especially ONLINE where the full constellation of men of all types is fully available to her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:13 PM
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Lol you think young people did not have unmarried sex in the 50s? Of course they did I don't think it was very common compared to now. I don't know why you would think people in the 50s behaved sexually the same way people in 2026 do. The culture was completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:07 PM
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I would think healthy families stay out of it But then they are shocked when their kids bring home partners they don't approve of. Sounds like a risky strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:05 PM
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tell stories of going out on the town with her friends in their youth to meet cute men. So... But they rarely had casual sex back then. Now women are primed to have casual sex, even the first day they meet a man in many cases. There is a difference between "meeting men" and "having sex with men". These lines should not be blurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:01 PM
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Because women are abusing the sexual desire in men to increase sexual access to certain men, and in the process are ruining themselves for the men they actually naturally match with. When someone causes their own destruction, we blame that person, not the person who received only positives from the interaction (the Stud). The Stud has NO INCENTIVE to stop being a stud. The woman does have an incentive to sleep with appropriate men that allow her to be happy in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:58 PM
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Oh, I am just surprised you don't watch any genres that would make him feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:45 PM
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Its not talked about by politicians or prominent culture figures. And there is a lack of criticism of women in the media. For example Netflix released a "Manosphere" documentary. When will they make a documentary exposing the fucked up beliefs of toxic women? When will the media start writing articles about what women are doing wrong and how women are CONTRIBUTING to the social dysfunction in our society? And ways they can change so that more people are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:44 PM
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would have his hands full with women of his own rate of looks. Incorrect. Studs still very much enjoy the average women sexually. They would only really avoid below average ones. Plus those studs would look to extract more sexually exciting situations with average women that women on this level would avoid for dignity and leverage reasons. massively overestimating the availability of such You don't think there are enough studs for women to form harems with? A man could have sex with a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:41 PM
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No, I asked if hes aware of what YOU watch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:37 PM
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Why would women have casual sex with an average man when she can have casual sex with a big dick tall stud?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:26 PM
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Why would women have casual sex with an average man when she can have casual sex with a big dick tall stud?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:26 PM
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Is he aware of the type of porn you watch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:25 PM
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Schools. Education. Promotion of sexual values and mores. And they need to talk about the male dating crisis in the media, not brush it under rug and keep talking about feminism and "me too" like those issues even matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:07 PM
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Because sex and how "good it is" depends entirely on the man. Its a performance that the woman evaluates
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:05 PM
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There is no particular reason that a detrans man would present as a feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:56 AM
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Why are you assuming he isn't already "sorted out" and been through therapy. Are you claiming that anyone who questioned their gender needs "intense therapy" for the rest of their lives? What happens when they are fine with being a normal man again, they still need intense therapy and "sorting"? Why would they need intense therapy and "sorting out" when they have already established that they prefer being a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:54 AM
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What are the real challenges you personally face in dating? Sexually impressing women. What patterns have you personally noticed in your own experiences? That women expect men to be everything and do everything Were there specific experiences that shaped that change? Being sexually rejected despite trying my hardest. Watching a woman lose attraction to you in real time during sex is soul crushing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:44 AM
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No, its about lacking attention from the gender that you desire. You can't twist this. Men have less of something. And thats makes them upset. Just like poor people are upset they have less than rich people. Its a natural reaction, and you can't talk men into being happy while being sexless or romantically devoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:41 AM
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So women have something men lack. Seems like every other equity argument from the left
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:21 AM
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You can make the same argument for why women aren't in certain jobs.... Did you really not think of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:07 AM
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Do you think women deserve romantic attention more than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:06 AM
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feminist men and left leaning men No they don't. If they are unnattractive no women will want them, doesn't matter their politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:05 AM
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So how are democrats helping young men get laid and have romantic success?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:03 AM
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Wait, why as a white man should I support DEI? None of you women in this thread have convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:58 AM
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You seriously never picked up on the contempt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:54 AM
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So you want to have communism where the government redistributes all wealth and no one owns anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:53 AM
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Are you in the gene pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:52 AM
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I do for men as they do for me. That is to say "Look out for number one". Are you implying that women do things for you that men dont'? championing porn Sex positive leftist women champion porn. Conservative religious institutions, the ones you hate, are anti-porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:51 AM
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There is no warfare but class warfare and I hope men wake up soon with the coming AI revolution. So how is banning together with you on the left and fighting the "AI revolution" going to help those men feel sexually validated and romantically successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 AM
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My point is that physical league is different from holistic league. If a woman is obviously less physically attractive than me, then we aren't in the same league. Or do you think that anyone who dates is automatically in the same league?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:46 AM
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Because I can't get hard on command like women expect from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:44 AM
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just seem like two sides of the same coin Its not. I would think that the size and strength discrepancy between men and women would be the primary factor that would make me feel vulnerable. Nah. Scrawny little dudes can still shove their dicks inside a woman and create a heterosexual dynamic of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:43 AM
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That is bullshit. You are assuming any group that "gets together easily" has game. Gay men can post their asshole to grindr and get sex, that doesn't mean they have "game" or required any sort of romantic effort or skill whatsoever. Did you ever think that women are also primed to laugh at other womens humor for the same reasons men do, even though women are objectively less funny than men? Catering to each other and being "supportive" doesn't necessitate that you genuinely find them entertainin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:40 AM
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Except men clearly don't follow that model. Its not some "comfy model" to grow up as the "pursuer". Huge percentages of men are not confident in "approaching" women nor do that have any flirt or game. Its actually women being lazy. its not natural for men to pursue, men are just forced to pursue, because of biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:38 AM
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Its not game when its the same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:35 AM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:34 AM
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if you suck in bed you definitely should not surprised. Why do you think its all in our control? I don't jackhammer, choke or bend like a pretzel, are those the only reasons sex has been "bad" for you, or are you lying and leaving out a bunch of stuff? rom the woman’s point of view, why should she keep dating a guy who has no interest in giving her sex she enjoys Because if she thinks I am hot and likes me, then we can grow to have the kind of sex she wants in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:33 AM
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Ah, you don't think about women at all and what they experience during sex, got it. Ok carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:31 AM
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You realize even attractive men struggle to attract women who are on their level? Like I do fairly well on dating apps, and still I struggle to attract women who look similar to me. I almost always have to date women who are objectively uglier than me, is this how you feel as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:29 AM
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Dude, I’d far rather be valued for what I do than a bunch of shit I have no control over. Why do you assume you have all this control over what you "do" to impress women? Do you think you will magically be charismatic and full of humor like you expect men to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:27 AM
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Do you think the percentage of females who just want to get fucked by a big dick stud and care less about "lifelong partnership" has increased or decreased in the last 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:23 AM
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If you are worried about STDs why would you have casual sex in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:21 AM
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Its not a big deal. They just have to get pumped and dumped by a few big dick studs they meet online for superficial reasons and then eventually she will give the guy at her real level a chance for a relationship. Whats wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:20 AM
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You don't understand women get horny too? So? Lots of men get horny and they masturbate The better question is why so many men are the low quality of human that seperates kindness from sex. When have women ever cared about "kindness" when picking men to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:17 AM
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No, its a statement of fact. You don't think women feel vulnerable and exposed when you are slamming your dick into them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:15 AM
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while still excluding the most popular and sexual genre of rap.. So is it your contention that only black men make sexual music in 2026? acknowledging that many men’s rock songs are sexual What rock songs, you just said that rock is dead while also not seeing value in discussing the single greatest challenge to your post which is the existence of rap music So you are saying only race of men is masculine? Makes masculine music?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:13 AM
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So what makes the top 100 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:10 AM
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then absolutely sucked in bed I've been that guy, what do you want me to feel ashamed for not being amazing in bed? hookups are just early dating which for one reason or another doesn’t go anywhere. Often times you know it wont go anywhere and don't care becuas eyou just want the trill of landing a certain type of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:09 AM
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the only reason a man got laid was because he selected me, he decided to approach. More like he built up the confidence in that particular instance to approach. A man approaching you isn't really selecting you, considering there are many men around him that also mentally have "selected" you but are just too nervous or incompetent to make it known to you. You can't really believe that a man feeling attraction towards a woman means he selected her? But I agree that women are so reactive in their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:29 PM
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Women could just not hook up and decide to date seriously. If you are an attractive woman there is an endless line of guys that will date you seriously, so what is the point of "hooking up"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:26 PM
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Being penetrated is more vulnerable than being the penetrator. Psychologically it will almost always be a more emotionally fraught experience to be the sexually submissive side of a casual equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:24 PM
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Women enjoy the lifestyle. Sex and the City.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:22 PM
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So women are all constantly fucking multiple men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:22 PM
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Young women are ABSOLUTELY being encouraged by the greater culture to have casual sex. Reddit talks like young Americans are living in Handmaidens tale religious purity culture when the VAST MAJORITY of young women over-sexed, feel peer pressure TO HAVE SEX, are bombarded constantly by sex and sexual innuendo and messages that sex makes them valuable and is the greatest experience they can have (with a special elite man who is "good" at sex ofc). But somehow all the PPD women here expect us to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:19 PM
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bitch behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:04 AM
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I don't get how ppl can be so pathetic. Its not lucky for either of them. Guy sounds like a LOSER. Imagine being dumped by your sister and still being a little bitchboi telling her you'll drop everything for her, have some pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:03 AM
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Born 1973, WTF. Dude got weird with all those tattoos and plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:51 AM
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No, I am asking you to include other groups of men. Include other groups please. Its not bad to ask you to list some music made by white men, now that your done listing black genres.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:20 AM
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Because its a challenge, if you don't want to answer my questions then just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:02 AM
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No, I am asking for popular music that is not from black culture. And you just keep repeating rap and r&b.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:56 PM
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No, I am asking about music that is not from black culture. Unless you are implying only black men make sexual music, and other men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:54 PM
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Is Drake mens music?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:53 PM
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Heres a comment. All the songs she listed are OLD AS FUCK and not relevant in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:52 PM
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So you agree that the only male songs that are sexual and popular in 2026 are hiphop, black culture? That seems to be what your saying with your rant about my observations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:50 PM
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Old ass songs. Not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:49 PM
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so I guess the rock bands of the last few years are just sterile goody-two-shoes Christian boy bands now? What has the world come to So I have no interest in "classic rock" nor does anyone under the age of 40, understand now? You answered my question. The world is a fucked up place when the only men making sexual music are ghetto rappers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:48 PM
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All those songs are old, decades old. How about something from the last 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:48 PM
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Its a bad, not popular song though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:47 PM
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but big hair bands had ton, like "poor some sugar on me" "she's only 17." There's "Cat scratch fever." Those are all old songs. Decades old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:46 PM
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None of those songs are sexy club songs. They lack sexual chemistry. Sex on fire is 15 years old. How about something for the last 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:45 PM
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I guess women in hip-hop like being reduced to their bodies more than other women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:45 PM
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An exception. Why is there only like one sexual male song every 5 years besides rap/hip/hop
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:43 PM
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No one listens to "rock and roll" music from 50 years ago. And also rock is for stuffy sticky britches men only! No girls allowed!!! Never said any of this. I said that modern rock is sexless. Which is why people in this thread are only listing CLASSIC rock songs which are decades old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:42 PM
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What about non-rappers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:39 PM
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be open to life Huh? I can't really relate. Once I have goals, I think its unrealistic to feel contentment if you fail to reach them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:39 PM
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I read that in the past men would get so turned on merely at the sight of a real woman ankles or legs. I am very jealous of those men. I will never know what its like to have a sexual thrill like that from something no mundane. My mind was infected by porn right as puberty started so very little is especially exciting to me sexually. So I disagree that males will sexual females less if they wear more clothes, males MUST sexualize females. But mens sexuality would be MUCH HEALTHIER if women would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:29 PM
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The patriarchy creates men that women are attracted to, so its obvious working out well for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:22 PM
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Swinging is at least better than all these cuck couples and their black bulls so good on you, whatever floats
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:14 PM
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That hasn't been my experience anecdotally. My experience is the opposite. Any "non-ugly" woman who was not dating a long term bf, was having casual sex, and not just a hook up "once" at college. What matters is WHO she is sleeping it, that is what turns guys off and they find disturbing Ya. Who. N-count doesn't really matter. What matters is what types of guys is she fucking and attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:13 PM
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What happens when you are old and wrinkled and stop being able to attract guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 PM
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Oh my. Ok, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 PM
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Age related differences are huge. You are an EXTREME outlier if you are still fertile at age 50 as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:07 PM
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Oh, is that your plan? You always be whispering in his ear "I'm evaluating you, if you dont live up, I'm gone"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:06 PM
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Youre fucking someones wife dude. The very thrill of it, has to do with humiliation and "taboo"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:05 PM
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The change is human dignity. At pride parades dudes dress up like leather dogs and walk around on leashes. So no, LGBT stuff is SOMETIMES about dignity, sometimes its about breaking down sexual barriers and sexual standards of society. I'm not even religious, this stuff is just obvious tome. Also I've seen first hand how young people can get sucked into the trans vortex and almost get destroyed by it. Something that was completely avoidable if not for cult-like internet culture
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:02 PM
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Because, why wouldn't you care? Why would you care about something inane about her like her favorite color, but not how she perceives of sex and promiscuity.... dude just give up. Its fine. You were too insecure to ask her and felt it made you "look bad" so you avoided it, its fine. Thats how most guys including attractive successful guys operate, its totally normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:00 PM
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You definitely cared a little bit, you cared more than for example what her favorite soda is, but I am sure you had no problem asking her that. Just be real, you were afraid of scaring off the girl that you had, so you had a bunch of barriers setup that you assumed "cool guys" should never cross. As though avoiding a simple question made you more socially competent and valuable, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:56 PM
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I think most swingers are cucks who just want to do it in an way where they don't feel as bad or humiliated by it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:53 PM
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No. Culture influences people. If you (LGBT) try to change the culture, then you should expect push back and be able to defend why your culture should be well represented in society. Pushing back on the excess of or criticizing LGBT culture is no different than what the left does by criticizing conservative values and Christianity and religion for the obvious example
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:53 PM
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Women often hide things from men, so often times you have to go deeper into knowing her to know the secrets. I live in America, idk where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:50 PM
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Men have more problems with fertility than most want to know Men have much fewer problems with fertility than women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:49 PM
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Sounds like a conspiracy theory. You sound like an 14th century Christian talking about the devil and his tentacles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:46 PM
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how is that any different than the prevailing narrative that existed and continues to exist with men that women are ball & chains? Its different because men and women are different. Men have high sex drive for women. Women can go years without sex and feel fine. Men may have said that but they still tried their hardest to still meet women and start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:43 PM
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'I'll regret it when I'm old and alone' and a bunch of things along those lines. You may very well. Do you agree that you and the millions of women taking your path are committing to a social experiment? You won't know the out until your youth is truly gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:41 PM
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So what happens when you break up, nothing to show for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:40 PM
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My position is that campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are best understood as part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles in response to recent cultural changes. I agree. Respectfully, what is it that you want to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:37 PM
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I'm not here to argue about on which criterias you should value people in your life THats literally all that matters though. How I value her is all that matters. And a lot of the things I would value in her, I cannot learn on the first date. So I have to enter a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:35 PM
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Lots of high neuroticism and high disgust men can have high n-count if they can create access to sex. Men desire sex more than women. A "high disgust high neroticism closed sociosexual man" will STRUGGLE to have a high N-count but its still very possible because he in fact desires sex just as much as a low disgust,low neurotic man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:33 PM
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Thats honestly sad that it took you that long to talk about it, and that you had to be drunk to even talk about it. Sounds like you have a very "gamesmanship" relationship where both of you were trying to hard to play the clever hot guy, clever hot girl roles, playing games with each other, obsessing over whether asking something or doing something will make you appear "insecure" which will then trigger the hot girl/hot guy to go find someone else. Sounds miserable. I'd rather not have taboo top…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:28 PM
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So you were a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:24 PM
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Its not an achievement to sleep with a virgin. Don't know where you get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:22 PM
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How are you going to get married and commit decades of your life to someone if you do not believe in "one and only"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:19 PM
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I just want a low-n women because it means she's less likely to have done crazy sexual shit, and been sexually corrupted by other men, especially men with different temperaments than me. If a low-n woman chooses me I can feel confident that I'm one of her best and I will literally have more powerful orgasms with her. Its not about "getting sex". Its about validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:18 PM
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The better sororities were pretty much that type on the whole. In general, Greek life was better looking and more promiscuous than average. Part of that probably has to do with lots of alcohol. It doesn't really matter when they are all having sex with the same type of guy ie. their equivalent greek dude. Basically any average looking girl who does not have a boyfriend in college will be "promiscuous." What matters is WHO she is sleeping it, that is what turns guys off and they find disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:14 PM
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Any woman who would reject me for talking/asking about past sexual experiences and history is not a woman I could ever trust in an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:12 PM
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over peanuts Its not peanuts. Its serious stuff. Who women have sex with impacts them for life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:06 PM
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I think they should be bitter. And probably fearful. Wouldn't you if you never found someone that treated you how you wanted to be treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:05 PM
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So what are women suppose to do if they are only attracted to the best men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:04 PM
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fantasize about how good they would treat their partners; flowers, gifts, opening doors, caring for them etc etc to then get into a relationship How many women are worth that devotion though? Especially when they have had all these other men, then how are you special?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:03 PM
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ANyone reading your comment will realize how off the mark you are. You can't just accuse anyone that annoys you of the topic that is being discussed. unless you are unintelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:58 PM
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Its less sexual than the female music. yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:35 PM
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Rockstar? How is there any sex in that song?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:34 PM
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I've been addressing all the artists listed. Including justin Beiber and Styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:34 PM
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Maybe men these days are too repressed from not getting laid enough. Wanting to sing so badly about sex but holding themselves back lol. I agree with this. And this thread is a perfect example of this fucked up dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:33 PM
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Ok, all you have to do is share some lyrics, I'm going through an entire bands discography when I am not even familiar with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:30 PM
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Ask For It, by magnolia park Very sexual and weird. Which is why its not mainstream. I gave it a chance though. Let's not pretend That you don't want my hands around your neck Come on lol, that is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:29 PM
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SHE CHOSE TO MAKE THE SONG WITH HIM. ITS PART OF THE SONG. We got to put these girls in a coma, fuck them into the bed hard, thats what katy wanted in her song, ok? You can't change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:24 PM
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How is get peaches in Georgia an explicit innuendo? Its so vague and its like they aren't even big peaches, completely misses the innuendo imo. No, I am not on spectrum, its just not a very sexual song.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:23 PM
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Half the dudes you listed are gay lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:21 PM
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Harry Style's Watermelon Sugar is about performing oral sex lol. He's British and white. Ok and can you list some of Harrys other sexual songs? Ed Sheeran has "Shape of You" Yes about sex, but very tame. And most of his popular music is not about sex. Bruno Mars has countless, countless songs about sex No, his songs are almost all romance based. Zayn has a song called "Pillowtalk" Oh, you mean he has ONE song, that is vaguely about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:20 PM
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Can you please stick to artists that are not 60 year old boomers? Or fucking dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:16 PM
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Ok, post some
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:16 PM
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I heard "peaches" and literally did not realize he was singing about asses. So its clearly not very explicit. I didn't realize it was suppose to be about asses. This is how tame and non-sexual Justin B music is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:15 PM
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Like list some lyrics, you posting names does nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:12 PM
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Ok but what does this have to do with why modern womens music more sexual than mens, when it used to be the reverse in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:11 PM
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MGK Hes an exception, but as you said hes just playing off hiphop, he comes from hiphop. I do like MGK though. Only his rock though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:09 PM
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If thats the case then why are people only naming hiphop. If its so common with male artists?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:07 PM
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"Turn the bedroom into a fair." "Imma a put her in a coma". Literally singing about violent kinky sex. Don't matter if its the feature, its still HER SONG and she CHOSE the feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:06 PM
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Rolling Stones, Van Halen, Aerosmith, nearly every hair metal band, Queen, Elvis and many others contain sexua EVLIS? Wtf are we talking about here, its 2026. Please stick to modern music from the last 10 years AT LEAST
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:58 PM
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as they are in poorer countries where the economic prospects of a family are more closely tied to total labor capacity and children can contribute sooner) Wrong. You are spreading misinformation. Children are not a labor value addition for Nigerian families.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:57 PM
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Wait if sex sells, then why is there no sex is modern rock? Or alternative rock? Or male pop music? Or any mainstream male music, besides rap/hiphop?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:56 PM
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rock music is sexual in nature No its not. Name me one song. I like rock music. None of is sexual. At best its romantic. I went to a rock music festival last summer in my city, and none of the bands sung about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:54 PM
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thematically Its thematically about sex. Hot to GO. The song that literally calls men out for "not fucking women right" - paraphrasing here. The other song where shes getting her pussy eaten out, she literally says her face between her legs in the car or something like that Billie Eilish Are you seriously? She has a song where she sings about sniffing panties and wanting to eat pussy out under panties. And getting on her knees for "Bad guys". And I quote Why is always black males that all you wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:52 PM
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Watermelon High is a sex song. Its not very sexual, you could play it to children. Its him singing about watermelon. Yes its about pussy but its silly, non-sexual coded lyrically. Compare that to Katy Perry Dark Horse. So again, try again. Btw find me a Justin Bieber song where he sings about fucking women and how their asses are???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:46 PM
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Ok, like what.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:44 PM
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Ok but we are talking about mainstream media culture. Porn is taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:43 PM
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Do those men have “anxiety” about that? I have anxiety about that. Video games do not improve a mans attractiveness one iota.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:43 PM
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This is 2026. I may have to amend my OP. I am not going to discuss music from 50 years ago, generations ago. Its not longer relevant to todays sexual and popular culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:42 PM
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Ok show me some of their sexual lyrics...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:39 PM
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Expand? I agree with that quote, but what are you implying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:38 PM
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Ok, give an example of mens focusing on sex? For example, I like the band Rise Against. I would love if they sung more about sex but they just don't. And that is the same with all modern rock music, its just not about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:37 PM
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At least you agree with me. THese other women are arguing with me, trying to get me to deny the reality that is in front of MY EYES. Disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:36 PM
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Ok show me some sexual Justin Bieber lyrics that are like Sabrina Carpenter or Katy Perry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:36 PM
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Harry Styles songs are sexual No they aren't. Drake songs are sexual. Drake is Hiphop. Yes we all know that black men have cornered the market on sexual music in 2026, that is a separate topic. Their songs are sexual. No. THey aren't. Besides black men/hiphop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:34 PM
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Because male lonliness epidemic and female sexual culture were different 30 years ago. If we are going to comment on culture, we should comment on RELEVANT culture, not 30, 50, 60 years ago. I've never heard of hardly any of these songs, so I am not going to comment on them. They clearly are not relevant to pop music culture in 2026. Also one of them is Backstreet Boys. NO ONE considers backstreet boys to be "sexual". Their music is marketed towards 12 year old guys, like are you for real with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:32 PM
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Yes because they both were forced to pick one woman." But both men end up having sex with similar amounts of women. Now the attractive man has sex with 50 women and the unnattractive man has sex with 0 women. Do you not understand what I am saying when I say this? Or do you think this is not happening, or what? it's not because the desirable men are taken of the market that the undesirable men automatically "inherit" the attention and desire of the leftover women. I completely disagree with this…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:22 PM
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country Country doesn't. Only rap does. Country is romantic. At best saying a woman looks hot in a nice pair of jeans lmao, hardly sexual like women literally imitating sex in their lyrics and stage presence or talking about sex acts in their songs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:17 PM
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Women read more because men plan the rest of their romantic lives for them. As a woman, there is less anxiety over competing for male desire. Basically if you got your looks down, you can sit back and relax and wait for men to present themselves to you. I used to read a lot as a man, but I just cannot, I always have to spend my time looking for ways to entertain women now, that I feel if I am sitting around reading a book, I am becoming a less interesting man to women. That is my theory. Reading…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:16 PM
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Shes also hated by many young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:02 PM
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Like what? 65 years ? Lets talk about the last 3 years. Why bring 65 years into it? Give me some examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:56 PM
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For example women are also way more interested in books and media about friendship and non-sexual interpersonal dynamics than men are. Lets be honest that while this is true relatively, between men and women, its also true relatively that women are FAR more interested in sexuality and romance dynamics than "friendship" dynamics. Like 90/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:55 PM
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Thats actually a pretty brilliant commentary and description. Of course none of the women here will be interested in commenting on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:53 PM
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You are going to have to keep waiting, because women just aren't as funny as men. They are not socialized that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:51 PM
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Yes Sopranos is a male coded show. But the main focus is the mob drama, relationships between the men. Not sex. Not romance. So that is the point. Media women consume is ABOUT sex. Like that is the main plot, its sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:42 PM
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K, im bored, bye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:38 PM
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sing about love and sex. Ok, show me where they sing about sex in any of their top songs? What references do they make to fucking women, women sucking their dicks, ect. ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:37 PM
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HBO has always been prestige drama. Its not inherently "men" coded. It has an even watch between genders
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:36 PM
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Rap (targetted to men) on the other hand................ What about non-rap? So your basically saying only black men represent male sexuality across all of American culture? Female pop songs don't sing about big asses and tits Sabrina carpenter sings about big dicks. Chappelle roan sings about getting her pussy licked and eaten out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:35 PM
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I'm not interested in that question. I am interested in the differences between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:31 PM
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Male pop songs don't sing about big asses and tits, or sexual positions. Male pop songs specifically avoid commenting on sex. They aren't the same. Male pop songs typically reference romance. Go compare a Justin bieber song to a Sabrina Carpenter song
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:28 PM
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Game of thrones is your only example?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:27 PM
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t's not because you're being picked as a man in such a situation, that you are wanted. Logically speaking, if the best of whatever you need is of the market, and the leftovers are a fairly homogenous group, you're going to try and pick the least shit option of what's left I tried to understand what you wrote and literally cannot. I do not understand your point or how you are arguing against mine. What about my point do you think is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:24 PM
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Taylor Swift is not sexual. Thats why lots of young women don't like her. She doesn't sing about big dicks and shaking ass. Shes the exception. what's wrong with sexuality? Why are female pop songs so much more sexual than male pop songs like Harry Styles or Justin Bieber?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:22 PM
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Considering young women worship the likes of Sabrina Carpenter and Chappelle Roan, when all they sing about gratuitous sex, id say you are both old and a prude. And lets not even bring the black female pop stars into it where its even more overt. But I will say that there are a few more pure female pop stars like Taylor Swift. Shes basically the last woman standing who can make music without representing herself as a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:15 PM
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Why do women, like men, enjoy sex or relationship related content? No. The question is why do women like it more. Are you equating porn with mainstream media?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:12 PM
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A pop song may sing abojt sex, but they are much more likely to sing about love or romance. Why are female pop songs more sexual than male pop songs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:11 PM
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Female Pop is MORE SEXUAL than ever. I just made a thread to discuss this topic and I hope the mods approve it and you will discuss it because I am SHOCKED that you think female pop is less sexual than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:11 PM
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All of HBO series are extremely sexual Hows that? Most of them are drama focused, theres hardly any sex. Showing a tit here and there doesn't make a show ABOUT sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:09 PM
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SHrug. Shrug. Theres more now. What an inane statement. Completely pointless thinkg you just said. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:03 PM
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Kids often become sources of labor value. Wrong. Economies and jobs in those nations are so fraught that additional children bring very little value back to the family. Most of them are ejected out of the family as soon as possible to reduce stress on family finances and they are sent out to fend for themselves. But keep repeating lies that Nigerians are getting a lot of economic "labor" value out of their 7 children. Its bullshit, but you will keep repeating it, because it feels warm and fuzzy …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:00 PM
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The question is why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:52 PM
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Yes but his question is why are women so obsessed with relationship media. Compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:34 PM
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Women direct their egos into different expressions and outlets than men. Ego is ultimately a survival mechanism. Unless you are claiming women have evolved to be mentally weaker, less interested in surviving than men, I don't see how you can claim one gender is SIGNIFICANTLY more egotistical than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:29 PM
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What about the man you gave yourself to and then he pumped and dumped you and sent you on your way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:27 PM
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Ya sounds a lot better than being a sexless incel in 2026, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:26 PM
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You think the boring, unattractive man had equal amounts of attention and options as the funny, handsome one? Yes because they both were forced to pick one woman. Now the funny handsome one can fuck 50 women, and get 10 of them to let him film videos of him fucking her that he can then post online to brag and show off to other sexless males who then jerk off to his content to vicariously live through him and his successful experiences, all while feeling humiliated in the process due to their sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:24 PM
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Female egos are massaged/catered to more than male egos. Males don't have bigger egos than women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:21 PM
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Again, massively helpful for birth rates. No. Those countries are still falling and below replacement level. Having children is about culture. Money is factor. Not the reason. The reason is the culture and the desire for children. If people stop having children due to lack of money, then why are the poorest places on earth having the most children?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:19 PM
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hoping for something sexual Are there any other reasons? I agree some men hope to sleep with their female friends. Is that the only "non-genuine" reason to be friends they have? Cause women have a plethora
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:16 PM
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Androphilia? Just go pull up some porn. You will see it. But only for certain men. The desire for male bodies is very real (but only certain ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:14 PM
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Height is determined by your parental lineage. Women are only relatively shorter than men. There aren't literally significantly more short women being produced.... get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:12 PM
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Genuine how? re-read my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:10 PM
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My problem is that women are users. Including for their friendships with men. Women know they have social value just by existing at the same table as a man (because of male desperation for status), and they use this differential to use men for things that are actually valuable, such as humor, entertainment, edgy activities, access to events ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:08 PM
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Nah, I am not going to read your study. You are going to have to use your words and big brain to explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:07 PM
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Short mens physical equal is shorter women. And we see this match quite often. But yes there are other value components
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:06 PM
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The average woman is more attractive than the average man. That does not follow at all. Are you saying fathers and mothers genetically create more attractive female babies than male babies, their female offspring have better genetics? Are you more attractive than your brother physically by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:03 PM
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Not for socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:02 PM
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Women are not more attractive than men. That doesn't make any sense. None of what your saying makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:24 AM
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Uh, getting with your equal is not settling...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:33 AM
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If women would date men on their level this wouldn't be as much of an issue. For many men they clearly ARE the prize. Average women don't want average men, so they go after men who are clearly the prize compared to them. High value men ARE pimps. They can have whoever they want, women know it, don't care, and still want them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:28 AM
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Idc about your experience. You are biased about this very topic, its like the only thing you post about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:26 AM
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No, attractive men sleep with the same range of women as an average man, they just have access to different tiers of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:53 AM
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Lots of guys are not out chasing the hottest women they could possibly get. You dont speak for the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:45 AM
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K everyone reading this will just see you dodging
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:10 AM
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No, I will wait for you to say what you worked on to become acceptable for men to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:06 AM
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I'm still waiting for you to describe something. I am not reading some vague link. Lets use your words now.... What did you have to work on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:00 AM
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Your commenting on a comment calling out men for being confused why a woman would care about the respect and love of her male family members
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:54 AM
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Oh, what were you told to work on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:52 AM
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Women here say those men never sleep with less attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:50 AM
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Women 100% use men to supplement EVERYTHING about their lives. Its not just money. Its excitement. Humor. Entertainment. Cool girls know that women are pretty lame and boring on average. Cool girls know that to have a fun exciting life they HAVE to know fun exciting men. Any cool place, theres always a few men with multiple women. Women naturally form social harems around social guys. They would rather hang out with 1 hot fun guy and share his attention with other women, than spend time with any…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:50 AM
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Just giving a counter example. Not all families are dysfunctional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:46 AM
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No one in my family cheated or was abusive. 20 or 30 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:44 AM
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What about retarded women, what are they getting up to these days? Being hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:43 AM
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So what was wrong with him then? You only shared the good bits
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:39 AM
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No, I said women need to think a man is superior to want to have him fuck her because being penetrated is extremely vulnerable and you don't let "Lessers" do that to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:37 AM
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For me a big part of having relationships is enjoying the company of the other person. Relationships are not dating. Dating is work. Men have to perform. Women preen and pick and choose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:36 AM
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fun with dating Dating isn't fun for men. Its work. So I watched the show Fleabag, have you seen it? It a womans perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:28 PM
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Not what I said at all. Good sex involves the woman wanting it more than the man. Thats why men have to be superior to get that response from women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:26 PM
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Simple: extroverts, peoppe with social skills, people without crippling anxiety, neurotypical, people who enjoy interacting with other people. Then why are there so many men lacking in those qualities if that is what is required for women to like you. And why do we not teach young boys this "simple" list of qualities. Is your goal to fuck as many women as possible or getting into an LTR? They are not mutually exclusive. They are one and the same. A man who can have sex with lots of women, can al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:32 PM
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Its not ironic. Everyone knows what beta behavior implies. Everyone knows what alpha behavior implies. Its just short hand for observed human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:30 PM
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No, I just assume there is a natural UNSAID power dynamic between a masculine penetrator and a feminine receptor. When you are rutting like an animal this power dynamic is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:23 PM
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Can't believe Anthony Bourdain killed himself over a cow like Asia Argento. What an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:43 PM
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Women's arousal depends on a mans performance in bed. Do you realize how much pressure men face in sex? A woman's attraction can flip like a switch, even if everything else about you is her type, the second you "have sex bad" or whatever else her sexual standards are from all theother guys shes fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:36 PM
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If she was hot and would also have kids with me, yea. But she would still have to find me attractive, if I got the sense I was being settled for, for resources and stability, that would kill any attraction or desire I have for the relationship. But yes she would have to have a good, noble reason for being single with a kid. Not "knocked up at 19, by the guy I worked with at Wendy's"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:31 PM
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Its the logical conclusion to "most men are bad at sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:30 PM
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Then I guess we will just stand by and watch things crumble. By the way Have you come across even a single media piece criticizing women and their dating choices in the past year?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:28 PM
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I don't know anyone who calls themselves "alpha". Rather its used to point out that there is alpha behavior and beta behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:27 PM
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Why do they all have to be from black/gay slang?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:25 PM
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Alpha is based on observed human behavior, has little do with wolves. When people talk about alpha and beta men, everyone instinctually knows what they are talking about. Its culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:24 PM
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Its really gross how ghetto culture percolates into mainstream culture. Totally agree. Can't even imagine the mother of my children stomping around calling herself a "baddie". But given young womens role models are like Meghan the Stallion and Sabrina carpenter, I guess we can't be surpised
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:22 PM
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So your implication is that the majority of women are in relationships and married to men who are bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:21 PM
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I don't really think school should be teaching about dating anything outside of teaching respect and consent via politeness I disagree. If schools can teach about "lgbt" and race and all the other crazy shit in our society then why can't they teach about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:19 PM
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You and most womens general vibe on this sub is troll lonely men and feel superior to them. Similar to other women online spending all their time talking about "incels". Its all about punching down. When someone superior to you comes along, like a high status man, then you shut your trap, clam up and act meek
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:17 PM
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So must guys suck in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:16 PM
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Ok, so you still spend your time trolling lonely men on the internet. How are you helping anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:14 PM
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CLearly most women don't think men are better than that because they only sleep with a minority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:14 PM
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What about parents? I am talking about actual early childhood education.... not dating experiences. How are unchosen men suppose to even learn about dating a woman, when they are never chosen by women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:11 PM
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Have irl women in your life and ask them questions about their perceptions? My two best IRL woman friends would agree with the men in this sub far more than the woman, just fyi I am asking what kind of "things" should men be consuming to improve their dating success and be more attractive to women. You didn't give any specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:07 PM
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Are there any specific looks or behaviors you see with men who are less superficial or self centered? Nope. Its just obvious when they are good guys. They have kind hearts is how I describe them and they show it through small actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:05 PM
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We should teach young men, which types of men have the most sex with women, and why women choose those men for sex. "how do i become attractive to a specific type of woman". This is false, because there are many men that women universally find attractive, and thats how they have big N-counts, while many men have 0. You are lying if you are claiming women and men all pair up 1:1, unique little birdies matching up with other unique little birdies, thats not what is happening. And this type of lies…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:01 PM
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Most men ask questions to women on dates. YOu are crazy if you think the average man doesn't ask a woman questions on a date and you are lying about that being a major factor in your attraction to men. Women have all the power in the beginning, do you not understand this? They already have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:59 PM
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Did you know woman math is the reason man landed on the moon? You mean one woman contributed to the moon landing team? Is that what you are trying to say? Maybe boys/men would pay more attention to female accomplishments if you people were not constantly lying about them. No I do not care about Einstein's wife. She was not Einstein. No I do not believe Einstein "stole" any theories from his wife. A husband and wife talk to each other, how would you even differentiate whether it was her idea or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:56 PM
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Little boys don't tend to grow up watching Elsa Little boys definitely watch Frozen, are you for real? What a terrible take/example. men aren't watching Bridgerton How would watching a bunch of handsome chads who represent FAKE romance help men attract women? they aren't reading Anne of Green Gables or Jane Austin Neither are women. Most young women do not read anything, let alone fucking Jane Austin. What world do you live in? they don't learn much about women in history There are not so many i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:52 PM
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Well you obviously do not care because you got yours, so now you spend your time online trolling lonely young men, after you got married? Do I have that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:49 PM
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Men don't start families, women do. Women choose men. Men don't choose women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:48 PM
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Who teaches women about womens issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:47 PM
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Bob Ross fucked the elderly wife of his business partner, essentially having a weirdo cuckhold relationship. Just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:02 AM
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hen you meet men, what do you look for to judge if he’s a good person or not? How he treats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:01 AM
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Yes women sacrifice a lot to be with chad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:59 AM
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I've been on dates where I ask a ton of questions of women and they do not want to see me again. I actually see a woman’s pickiness as a sign of a great partner! So I should feel special after finally being chosen after being rejected by all the other women? Like a puppy dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:56 AM
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I don't think they care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:55 AM
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Well you are the most confident woman on PPD, you are never wrong. So of course I would take advice from you. If you like coke from older dudes, given how smart you are (never wrong about anything), I imagine the average intelligence woman goes for that every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:50 AM
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Women don't care about society? Actually, I agree with you. They move that responsibility to men, like everything else in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:44 AM
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No, I already was on this line, but I was a late bloomer in understanding that having coke ready for young women is a big boost for my attractiveness. But your posts reinforced that instinct
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:41 AM
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When you were the younger woman, you applaud yourself for it, part of your wonderful life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:36 AM
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Progressive leftist women say that all that matters for sex to be acceptable is "consent"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:35 AM
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Soft harem means they do not know about the other women. So these are in fact monogamous women in these FWB harems. Don't ask, dont tell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:34 AM
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Oh, so women won't care but men will?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:33 AM
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Youg women don't listen to you. They think their hearts (pussies). Just like you did
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:31 AM
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Y'all constantly act like we should be applauding these immature pairings. Never gonna happen. But you applaud yourself for your pairing when you did it Btw I totally took your advice, showing off drugs to young women is a great way to make yourself look edgy and sexy to them. I got my snow connection a year ago and its really help impress some of these girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:27 AM
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I don't think its physically disgusting, but I agree its morally disgusting. But progressive women have decided that the only thing that matters in sex morally is "consent" so as long as the 18 year old "consents" to fucking the 40 year old, progressive leftists are fin with it and it fits neatly inside their moral frame work. This is the moral frame work of the majority of young women, considering the majority of young women identify as leftist progressive. So what can I do, am I suppose to sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:25 AM
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Women are theoretically attracted to younger men, but only in a purely vitality/physical sense. Every single other sexual instinct they have screams against pursuing younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:21 AM
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Ok, you could have just called me a f-g and kept it simple, but you do you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:19 AM
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So you are fine with a society where half of males are sexless, and the other half have all the sex, because people consented?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:17 AM
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a lot of males don’t get exposed to it because it’s far less mainstream and also more frowned upon for them to take an interest in it in the first place. Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:16 AM
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Oh is this where you keep inferring I am gay as a gotcha lol, what a shallow observation, boring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:15 AM
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ok great
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:12 AM
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The "rest of it" is also largely outside mens control
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:12 AM
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Baseline attraction is meaningless. It can be obliterated in bed when she does not orgasm and compares you against men she orgasmed with in the past and the way they made her feel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:07 AM
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I just fundamentally don't believe equality is sexy to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:05 AM
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Teaching young men about the dating market place and female nature would help a bit. Instead its a taboo topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:57 AM
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How do women even see an egalitarian man as sexy? If I was a woman I would not be so interested in being fucked by a man who I thought of as my equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:56 AM
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So it seems red pill content is causing women to walk away from the sexual marketplace. So they will be lonely shrews, who are cares. No one cares about your opinion once you decide to be celibate and leave the SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:55 AM
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So you don't think abused women see abusive men as being more masculine and powerful and therefore more sexy than non-abusive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:53 AM
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Women now have sex in harems with attractive men. Top Men have multiple FWBs. Women choose the same types of men to have FBWs and live out their sexuality as part of a soft harem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:52 AM
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would be good partners Yes women are good partners for men THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO. Unfortunately, as the women on this sub constantly reinforce, women are only attracted to a minority of men. Women rarely put effort into their male friendships, so I'm sure those male friends that "hurt your feelings" were putting more effort into you then you were into them. Probably why they bailed Men are disposable. Your claim that women are great partners isn't the virtuous statement that you believe, conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:49 AM
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So you disagree with I think they think abuse is a signifier of masculine power and that men who don't abuse are weaklings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:42 AM
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I think its understandable to be bitter that so many women in society were ruined for you because of the fucked up culture thats engrained into their heads as young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:38 AM
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I just don't buy that. I think they enjoy the drama and emotions that come with "abusive" men. I think they think abuse is a signifier of masculine power and that men who don't abuse are weaklings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:37 AM
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you'd pick ghetto trash over a polite man who has a 401k, yes I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:39 AM
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Western women are fat. And a lot of them are unattractive, riddled with tattoos, piercings, artificial hair. Drugs. Well American women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:36 AM
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Ya PPD bros are fucking stupid. I say this as someone who basically has PPD'ed in the past. Women are women everywhere. Foreign women aren't a different species They talk about them like they are, and its fucking annoying, mostly because they are wrong and ignorant ppl are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:35 AM
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My friend is a pretty woman who when she was younger always had men dying to talk to her. So of course her experience with the opposite gender was she could pretty much always automatically grab a guy’s interest just by being in a place. I see the same thing and I just don't understand how women can be so ignorant and blind, like don't they put themselves in other peoples shoes, EVER?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:30 AM
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I agree, as with everyhting, its all about the top guys. If youre friends with a top guy, like being a bottom bitch at a frat house, your in a better position to attract women than a man whose only friends with losers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:29 AM
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While she whines about "No good men" shes attracted to. How pathetic and hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:27 AM
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Women treat their male friends with extreme prejudice and pickiness just like they approach dating. You will often see a woman with boring female friends, you will never see a woman with male friends she considers boring. She only wants to be friends with men who have something attractive going on. Usually they have to have qualities that shes also romantically attracted to in men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:27 AM
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haha good point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:24 AM
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For me its not about wanting to be needed but to show her that I don't care about money, that we can do whatever we want and have a luxurious lifestlye. Its about showing your lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:23 AM
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I pay for all the dates. There are no downsides to the me paying, there are many downsides to "going dutch". I like showing off that I can pay for whatever and money means nothing to me for a girl I truly desire. I'll pay for fancy dinners (not at first), concerts whatever. But I require that she feels a certain way about me and that she validates me in return. I'm definitely not wasting money trying to impress a girl that is not initially impressed by me. Paying for stuff is more like a cherry …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:17 AM
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I'll keep asking this question of women, to watch them dodge and obfuscate like you just did. Thats why I ask it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:14 AM
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ghetto males are the ultimate expression of her "no doormats" mentality. DOn'tgive a fuckabout society. Don't give no fucks. DOn't follow the rules. Only think about yourself. If you love those men then you love them, so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:11 AM
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How do you know hes not conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:09 AM
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I have no interest in reading about abuse or listen to women whine about the abusive men they chose to have as romantic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:03 AM
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may i ask what you were expecting in terms of "porn for women"? tiny penises and candlelight? Right so I should assume that any women who enjoys porn prefers big dicked men over all the others. After all that is what they are watching every day. Can you even get turned on by a small dicked man after watching all those 8 inch cocks stretch out women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:01 PM
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Just makes sense to me. I notice women with kind fathers who impart their values onto them do not choose domineering assholes for sexual partners. Even though they may be attracted to those types of men. Where as women who are around certain types of dominant men seem to view all the rest of the male population who don't have that level of masculine dominance as dickless sexless, non-options for dating/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:49 PM
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This isn't true, theres plenty to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:41 PM
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Its normal to be depressed about having a small penis. I don't even have a small one and I get depressed seeing how much women love big dicks. So your feelings are valid. But a lot of women are not very sexual, so they value sex and penises less than other women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:40 PM
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No, they both require confidence and a willingness to risk rejection. CHeating requires confidently breaking social taboos and risking your relationship and reputation. Risk and confidence. Ok, keep chad chasing. Is there ANYTHING a guy who is less confident to approach women has going for him over the confident womanizer? In your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:35 PM
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The negativity towards financial provider relationships is just more fuel for the chad-fire. Feminists/women only want the top men, and that includes more than money. All you have to remember is that women want everything and think they deserve everything so any type of relationship that lacks something is viewed with disdain by them. Mostly only poor, financially insecure men get angry over a relationship where the man makes more money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:31 PM
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You look for men to have the same domineering masculinity that your father had. Men who are "nice" and would not have the gall, courage, or inhibition to hit their daughters appear too weak to you, too beta
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:28 PM
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Then why date men at all if you can never know what they are like. This makes it seem like you view men through a lens of fear. How do you even vet men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:26 PM
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"Maybe". Sounds like you are on the right track. Here I will ask another question, do you think men who lack the inhibitions that allows them to "approach" women confidently consistently, also more likely to lack the inhibitions that keep a man loyal to his woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:25 PM
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Nothing in your paragraph represents the average man lmao, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:22 PM
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Hes not talking about living life together or marriage. We are talking about dating. You don't have to imagine being married to someone you don't like for life because why would that happen you should have gotten to know them well long before that and chosen them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:19 PM
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So.... now you like men who are just as pushy and domineering as your father. Good play...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:19 PM
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You don't think a higher percentage of confident attractive men learn to use and discard women than average men who don't have that kind of pull and abundance with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:18 PM
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Because you know I am right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:12 PM
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Billionaires are not making women picky and wanting the top men over average men. In fact if we lived in a socialist utopia women would have even MORE time to chase top men and would have even less need for average men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:09 PM
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And they shouldn't as long as there are dumb women who want to be led on by them. They should give those women exactly what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:06 PM
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which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:05 PM
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So porn is not representative of real life sex because they are acting? Even if they are acting exactly like how real life sex goes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:05 PM
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Being polite is not a "manipulation tactic" its how someone is raised and representation of their values and RESPECTING other people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:03 PM
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Shes speaking like she wants all future men to act like ghetto males
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:02 PM
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Where in his post did he say he was not handsome? So all bisexual guys are "niches" that have to settle for ugly women? Is that your contention?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:01 PM
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so black. ppl love fetishization and exoticization, well a significant minority love it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:59 PM
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WHy don't you make more friends with single men then, theres lesions of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:58 PM
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If you're "being polite" in a performative way to get what you want out if someone that's doormat shit. No, just fucking stop. God you women are insufferable. No being "polite" is just that its fucking being polite. Stop twisting it to suit your narrative so you can SHIT on BETA males.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:57 AM
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No, I make $200k+ a year and don't care about tinkering with washing machines and if a woman required me to lay my own concrete walk way to find me sexy I would think shes shallow AF and delusional with misplaced priorities. Yes I despise all these little things, these little scoreboard bullshit things that women come up to separate men in their little internal hierarchies. Growing fuckig herbs is not a "lifeskill". Its esthetic BS, no different than getting a tattoo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:54 AM
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No, thats just your weird male-in-group-manosphere bias kicking in. Males have much more detestable sexual instincts than females. We also have impressive instincts than females. Men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:49 AM
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Honey, anyone who reads your posts knows youre fake as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:48 AM
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Who should they blame, if not arrogant women who they see as being delusional and destroying society?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:46 AM
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No men in my life or anyone I know complain nor talk about men issues. It’s an online phenomenon. The perpetually single guys you know in your life don't complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:41 AM
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Still didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:36 AM
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Ya I been here a long time as well, but I still like calling her bs out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:35 AM
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A guy that grows all his own herbs and knows when to use them ad hoc? Kinda cool, everyone loves a good dinner What does growing your own herbs have to do with making a good dinner. Your examples are filled with so much lifestyle slop, I would honestly be disgusted if a woman was into me because I planted a garden or tinkers with appliances. The confidence to be a good host, or lead a team meeting, or make someone comfortable with small talk are not innate settings that happy people get automati…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:32 AM
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You definitely came off like an idiot in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:29 AM
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Do you find most men to be confident or insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:25 AM
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Why did you dodge his question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:24 AM
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willing to let someone think he's gay without flying off the handle. Make sure to not ever actually do anyting gay then though because then 75% of women will lose attraction to you. Also for the rest of your feel good non-sense. A significant number of women consider a man being polite to being a "doormat" and they specifically seek out domineering asshole men, ie. alphas. So no, its not so simple as "not being a doormat". When following basic social ettique reads as "being a doormat" to average…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:22 AM
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I agree with this. Males naturally have more "crazier" desires and impulses than women. Just look at mens sexual fantasies vs women. And things like pedophilia and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:20 AM
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If the lady wants to move to America then those men certainly will be wanted for being American. which is all a guy can hope for I don't see how this follows at all. Its not like something prevents an AMerican man from appealing to a Nicaraguan woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:14 AM
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Most places you will not be successful if you weren't successful in America or where ever your from. Some exceptions are places where 1) over population 2) poverty 3) lower percentage of universal physically attractive qualities (which is why Philippines is like #1 for "ppb"). Going to a rich country like South Korea or Japan, you certainly won't be rolling in women if you lack the qualities to attract any women in your country. Life_and_lurk is overplaying "LBH". Like no South korean or Japanes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:10 AM
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How is this any different than thugish men cornering vulnerable young women in the United States and knocking them up? Most teen pregnancies in the US the man has nothing to do with the kid. There are thousands of single mothers towing around their mixed raced kids in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:00 AM
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Then don't pretend you are moving because the foreign population of girls are so much "purer" and more conservative compared to the hateful man hating western woman They often are. Western women are HUGE 304s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:57 AM
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And what "type" are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:55 AM
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My friend went to a minority scholarship dinner/meet up and all the native American recipients were blonde... lmao what a fucking joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:55 AM
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If a group has group problems, then it is better to not be naive right or accurate It could very well be right and accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:46 AM
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from seeing "fuck boys" dominate the social environment at my school. Maybe you should ask why so many of your girl peers couldn't resist said fuk boys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:44 AM
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So in real sex, people do not moan? People don't perform in real sex? Look, you've failed to convince me how porn is different than "real sex". When I have sex I do the same positons that you see in porn. Are you saying I am having fake sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:35 AM
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real couple amateurs Where the man is always packing as well. I still fail to see how any of this is different than standard porn. Do you think standard porn stars do not choose who to shoot with ? They shoot with people they want to shoot with. Bronson is above average in my experience of seeing penises
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:32 AM
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I just said that they aren't interested enough in you to put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:10 PM
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Well I think about porn during sex, regardless of how attracted I am to my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:09 PM
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I looked up bellesa and its no different than any other porn. Its HUGE dicked guys pummeling women with their huge dicks in lots of positions. How is it different? Cause the men are grunting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:05 PM
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Most porn is not like that at all. It shows her lustfully or at least intently giving him oral, praising his body with kind words. Most porn is just missionary and doggy style. Handstands?? Huh? Thats lik 1% of videos, thats like brazzers silly fake porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:02 PM
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Most porn is just missionary and doggy style. How is it unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:59 PM
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As long as you know is that porn is a performance and real sex is nothing like porn How is real sex not like porn? Are you saying men and women are using different positions in "real" sex? Or what are you saying. I don't see how porn and real sex are that different... both are sex happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:57 PM
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What if hes thinking about porn while he has sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:56 PM
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Thats their opener you mean? Well, I found that pretty girls who think they are better than me or are getting loads of attention tend to not respond as frequently or detailed to my messages. So maybe those guys are out of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:55 PM
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Most women are just shallow idiots. When you have an attractive OLD profile you realize that EVERY single ugly woman matches you. Why are women on these apps trying to match with guys clearly out of their league (ie. me)? There are a lot of decent women on the apps, but not a lot of 9s,10s on tindr/bumble. Meanwhile tall attractive asshole will be on the apps trolling for pussy and likely to match with one of these average women... then its off to the races with the manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:52 PM
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What are their messages if none of them are questions..?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:47 PM
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Moving on me in doggy, I assume shes just doing it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:43 PM
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So you are just repeating what I am saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:39 PM
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Gay men do not have a strong preference for men who can pass as women or who channel gamer gooner fetishes. Yes they do. Some do. Some like classically masculine men. The classic masculine man is THE most common sought after archetype in the gay community. But gays love pretty boy androgynous males as well and they have a very large following. Adult pride is not a good representation of the gay community at large. It represents a certain cross section of gays, namely party gays. Youre kind of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:24 AM
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No, that is not dumb. But wanting kids and sparing no thoughts to what it takes to raise kids, is definitely dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:02 AM
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Well I would just lose the weight and stop moralizing being fat. I've tried ozempic for two doses and the first few days of each week you literally can eat nothing and feel fine (not advised). Eating becomes boring and tiresome. So if you have access to it, stick with it and you will lose a lot of weight. But if your mindset is that you need to look like the girls who were never fat to begin with, then you will always feel like your missing your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:57 AM
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Whenever a woman is doing that with me I just assume she is bored and trying to get me off to get it over with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:55 AM
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They do IDEALLY. But life isnt about perfection. I'm just incredibly confident that I could raise kids right. Most parents are really dumb, most people are dumb. I just have that confidence that even by myself I'd raise better kids than the average parents. I just understand the human condition and what people need to thrive. Maybe id have blind spots, but I am willing to accept that as well, and be on be the look out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:53 AM
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Naivete is just another way of saying dumb. Lets be honest. Lack of self introspection and curiosity about the world = dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:50 AM
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Try ozempic/Glp-1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:48 AM
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You don't feel guilty that you are thinking of other people during sex with your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:44 AM
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Stop pretending like the 2nd or 3rd orgasm actually feels like much of anything compared to the first. If you have a good strong orgasm, you are going to be numb and dead down there for a while. "multiple orgasm" for men usually just means they held some back during the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:42 AM
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Womens bodies are not all sensitive to sex. A woman I was with was great at riding, she made it seem like she was enjoying all the penetration. But the truth is she only orgasmed when she was rubbed a specific way with specific pressure with fingers. She never orgasmed once from my dick. Regardless of how she rode it or whatever else I did. Hardly any women cum in doggy style, from what I have heard from women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:41 AM
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I have trouble getting hard and orgasming often. Its not like every man is a robot. Sure a lot are though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:40 AM
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He sounds pretty dumb. But I guess he must have had other qualities to make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:21 AM
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I want to be a father and have kids. I don't care if it doesn't work out between the mom, I'll still have my kids in the end. hypothetically. I figure I have until around 40 before it feels too late. I wouldn't even mind finding a hot woman to have kids with, we could just have the kid and then go our separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:20 AM
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Did she leave you, or you left her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:18 AM
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Were you meeting them at clubs or something? They are friends, sisters of friends, ect. You sound bitter and jealous that she got a number easily. The whole thing was gross. But it made me wonder how often it happens for that boat tour guy. Maybe he has a new fat white american bitch every week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:15 AM
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Sure... it just happens that all these young women "happen to meet someone". It just "happens". Wasn't planned at all. After all women are just little fairies floating through the air, they have no control over where their life takes them or nor do they EVER plan action ahead of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:24 AM
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If you can generate sexual chemistry at a carnival you can also generate it at a restaurant having "dinner". I don't do dinner for first dates. But OP is fundamentally correct in saying that the type of date you do has very little impact on whether she likes you. Just think about it from the womans perspective, you really think the date is the make or break? If your date says something about you fundamentally then it matters. If it speaks to your status. Otherwise, shes going to judge you on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:05 AM
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There are ways to rationalize it. Reality is even if youre ugly, there are many ways you can feel you win at life. Its about relative goals and what you feel you need from life to feel content and proud. If being treated like a hot dude is what you need then yes you will be quite miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:00 AM
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Guys who actually look feminine are sought after. Guys who look like shit and are also feminine and flamboyant are not sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:59 AM
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then mock their victims You are correct that I am mocking the "victims". You are incorrect that I am in any way an enabler. I've never witnessed abuse or been friends with any guys who are abusive so you enjoy your abusive men, but its not part of my life. Maybe you should stop and think why your social groups tolerate so much abuse, while mine do not. Clearly your mother saw something sexy in your abusive father to have a bunch of children with him. Nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:52 AM
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Ugly women also have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:45 AM
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Sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:44 AM
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Japan like the girlies are recommending. You realize you won't even be able to speak to him. japanese people speak japanese, not english
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:44 AM
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Most men into femboys are not out and proud gay men. You clearly don't know many gay men. What a silly statement. WHy are women so arrogant and so ignorant at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:38 AM
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Females don't consider themselves sex tourists. They just "happen" to meet a "fun cool" guy while abroad, and things "just happen" woo woo stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:36 AM
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How is liking femboys being in a "weird" place? Its a common desired esthetic for gay or bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:56 AM
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Ya thats the funny part though. Because being gay is lower status. Thats how you knock someone down, you question a mans sexuality to try to humiliate him, that is your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:52 AM
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I know don’t have anything against gay people and I don’t hear gay jokes from them so must be more projection. Except when they are implying a conservative man must be a secret F-g
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:38 AM
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Because women think they are better than their looksmatch and thats how they treat the men too, like they are better than them. When a man is with a woman where he knows hes a catch for her, everything is MUCH easier for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:31 AM
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Are you saying you would have given her a second date if she didn't fly out on some date? Yep, that anecdote was a redflag telling me her head was up her ass. It was funny though I then asked if she had sex with the guy and she perked up and let out a quick "no". Realizing she was sounding like a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:20 AM
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it doesn’t matter Oh it doesn't matter. Hmm interesting.... so you know SO MUCH about gay apps relating to RNC but know nothing about gay apps relating to DNC. Hmm I wonder why... Could it be because this whole anecdote is a bunch of bullshit that caters to lefties like you and your political biases? you realize that just because seomthing makes you laugh and you feel it embarasses your political enemies, doesn't actually make it true? What does hypocrisy have to do with it? I know multiple gay …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:16 AM
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So realize that makes no logical sense, right? Gay lefties use grindr just as much as gay righties. At least acknowledge that what your saying make no sense, and that hes performatively "memeing" to entertain you so that you can both snort about lies and bullshit to cater to your political biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:14 AM
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So basically ugly women. THis is like when women online say they would be just fine dating a non-straight men and then you find out they are all 200lbs or "queer" themselves Meanwhile women can do wahtever the fuck they want and some guy will always be there to "accept" them and coddle them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:11 AM
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Not everyone who is outside the norm is automatically "queer". Thats not what "queer" means in an lgbt context
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:10 AM
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So do women. But they bitch about their restrictive gender roles and all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:09 AM
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So what did he say about DNC?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:03 AM
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How is that proof of anything? Btw do you know what grindr does when the DNC comes to town?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:03 AM
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Women gaslight men by saying men should be themselves and that they HATE gender roles. Women always love to remind men that they hate th patriarchy and "restrictionist" gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:02 AM
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You found out that straight women are full of shit and are sexually obsessed with all the "patriarchy" that they claim to want to "bring down". They want to fuck it and hate it at the same time. I've learned so much fucked up shit from women by having gay friends who spread the gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:51 PM
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Blue pill fools will talk AT LENGTH about all the sex they have and how they met this guy or that guy, how much relationship experience they have, how AWFUL the sex was but if you ask them for any details or how the guy first touched her that made her swoon, she will clam up like a clam. Suddenly the become "puritan" and "modest"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:48 PM
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Women can have sex whenver they want, so when they travel somewhere and are feeling a buzz of energy and excitement at being somewhere "new" they often are also primed to have "spontaneous" sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:42 PM
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Meh, I've personally witnessed female sex tourism in the DR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:40 PM
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And being single doesn't mean sex doesn't happen. For women, yes. Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:40 PM
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Its not a minor point. Its the emotional high of any interaction with a member of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:21 PM
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Disagree. Any woman travelling solo is already adventurous and that will carry onto her sex life as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:11 PM
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Lol so your saying women who travel in groups fuck lots of local guys but not solo women travellers? That sum it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:05 PM
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I said/asked you know straight MEN who introduce other MEN to their SINGLE FEMALE FRIENDS. And you did not answer. I did not say straight MEN introducing women to other women. or women introducing women to other women or men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:01 PM
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I’ve had friendships develop into relationships after months/years of knowing each other. So the guy was just jacking off by himself for YEARS while he waited for that girl? Lmao do you realize how pathetic that sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:00 PM
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Every single woman I know that ever travelled anywhere for longer than a week, fucked a local guy. These were quiet girls. Good girls. Girls who didn't date much. Shy girls. And all the usual types you would expect. safety concerns are heightened. You think women in the US are afraid of men in Spain or France or something? Wtf are you on about, no ones talking about going to some 3rd world hell hole. Women from rich countries travel to other rich countries or vacation destination countries, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:57 PM
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Ok, 5 years goes by and hes still single. Meanwhile during those 5 years at his age, you fucked 10 different guys. Whats your next advice for him ThatBitchA ????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:54 PM
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The current economy is amazing. Its better than its ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:53 PM
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have them invite you to gathering Why would a woman ever invite a single man to anything? Do you really think this happens? Women never invite single men they just met to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:52 PM
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But when you are single at these events, are you not scouting for a boyfriend?? You just said you were open to "hitting it off with someone" so clearly you are also there "scouting" for a boyfriend. You realize that when women frame relations like this, it makes you all look duplicitous, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:51 PM
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Straight men won't introduce you to single female friends unless they veto you first. Are you saying you know straight men that introduce single men to their single female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:50 PM
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YOu are dancing and shaking your ass in a club and don't want attention from men? Did I read that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:49 PM
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You don't associate DANCE clubs, with sex and dating? How did you grow up missing this piece of cultural wisdom?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:48 PM
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So do you fuck local guys on your solo travels? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:42 PM
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The majority of solo traveler women fuck local guys, at least one. So they have some "story" and can validate their desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:41 PM
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I think most women who travel try to fuck a local guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:40 PM
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Why is she afraid of men but you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:39 AM
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I don’t think they should be treated like criminals. Oh. Should they be deported?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:38 AM
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minority groups, you mean illegal immigrants?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:53 AM
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Sex can be a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:15 AM
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What do you do that is so interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:14 AM
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Women do. Men don't always
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:03 AM
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Women who travel always have sex with local men so its bad. Especially solo female travelers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:51 AM
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Ya it easy to throw away money that you didn't earn, that was your husbands. They would have much different attitudes if that money was earned by them and not their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:49 AM
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women and black/brown people. Wtf are you talking about? How are billionaires trying to "crush" black and brown people. what an insane political take, no surprised though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:48 AM
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Why don't you make male friends that already have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:45 AM
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Statements like yours are hard to take seriously when I've watched wives be ostracized from their communities while their preadtory ex-husbands get embraced and even pitied. Those people "don't know any abusers" either. And yet they do. One abuser even went to jail, but the community who loved him still "didn't know any abusers", only lying women. Funny how that works. I don't live in some insular religious community, so maybe thats why. so that women have an easier time avoiding being hurt in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:40 AM
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Most of them talking about how they love being single are MARRIED, and have bounced around relationships their whole lives. So many women are huge hypocrites on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:34 AM
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If they are bad then why do so many women film themselves having sex with big dicks and post it on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:29 AM
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This sub is to talk about people in dating ages, not divorcees and their peculiarities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:28 AM
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I can't even try to be friends with women without them thinking I want to date them, its super annoying. Like why can't I hang out one on one with a new female aquaintance? They ALWAYS assume though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:12 AM
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How are they like big brothers, they are the same age as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:09 AM
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Youd rather tall and ugly than short and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:08 AM
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They mattered. You think they don't remember the biggest dick they ever had? Or the best lay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:07 AM
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They aren't in committed relationships. Girls these days do "FWBs". Its the new trend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:06 AM
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The next generation will be raised by culturally conservative immigrant families, as they are the only ones having children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:04 AM
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I just can't help comparing him to a "superior man" I came across and think how I would be so much happier with that "superior man". This is just nonsense you are making up. So the "one who got away" is non-sense? Its literally a romantic trope. There are books and movies and TV shows about it I think she is very aware of what she missed out on What did she miss out on? you just have to learn to navigate it Oh don't worry. Men are definitely paying attention to what women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:00 AM
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No, I don't think that. Thats not how women work, promiscuous women do not get married to a man just because she thinks hes amazing. Then tend to hold out until they are out of options and men in their past they may have wanted to choose are long gone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:58 PM
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So how big is the percentage of hypersexual women? Tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:30 PM
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Then why are historically large percentages of Gen Z women participating in sex work, porn, and polyamorous dating patterns? If they are les sexual than past generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:19 PM
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So, clearly, none of these women are pulling or looking to pull beyond their "looks match." You don't know who all they have been having casual sex with though, you only know their "boyfriends"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:17 PM
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But they also have to have big dicks, to be the best man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:11 PM
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Teach men what women find attractive about men, so that they can emulate it. We have to figure out how some men get 100s of women to sleep with them, and figure out what makes women tick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:08 PM
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So if you don't marry the best man you've ever been with, you will consider yourself a failure and would rather be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:06 PM
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the majority of women are not running around having tons of sex with random men How do you know this? How are men suppose to know how many men women are or are not fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:05 PM
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black and white thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:02 PM
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Not all relationships are "shitty" just because they aren't your dream fantasy come true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:41 PM
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I think all women do, if they can. That is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:39 PM
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Men have been traveling to another country to FUCK the local women. Not really. Do you realize how hard it is for a man to get casual sex from women while travelling? You realize that whenever you travelled, the local men all KNEW you were looking to fuck around and have some "experiences"? You were on a platter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:35 PM
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Women don't need a high sex drive to be promiscuous. So your argument is off base from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:27 PM
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If you are tall you can be pretty ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:26 PM
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So they wanted to get pumped and dumped by chad like their daughters are? Ride the carousel ? That would have made them happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:26 PM
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Stop with this thinking that every man who doesn't like their women being huge 304s is some indian or muslim. You realize that white men are forced to watch what their women get up to on a daily basis through porn, the media, and just walking the streets?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:24 PM
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Decentering men leads to women using men like horses in a stable. For sex and dopamine. Like race horses they only pick those best bred to take her for a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:22 PM
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But they easily could have ended up alone, just like all the guys and gals on this sub, who are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:18 PM
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Doss that somehow mean you can't make new friends? It means you know which friends are or were your favorites ;) If someone was "far superior", I would have married them instead. Not the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:17 PM
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Depends who you are going to explore with and what you are going to do? Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:16 PM
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Spoken like someone who has not had sex with very many people. Which is good, and you and your husband will be happier for it. Your husband will feel much more secure, content, with his ego intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:15 PM
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Today's youth, not so much. They still hookup, of course. But between the pandemic and a natural shift in generations.... it's less than the previous generation. Oh does that explain why more and more women make porn and do sex work? Because they are less promiscuous? Why more and more women are in "poly" relationships, why they write articles in Salon about dating 5 men at once? Why every womens magazine takes about sex clubs and experimentation constantly? Why its now a rite of passage for a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:13 PM
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More experience means that many men have left their impression on you. Often ones far superior to your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:11 PM
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you don't need to have sex with someone to find out that information Yes you do. Also there are men outside their cultural/social group that in the past they never would have mingled with but now can "try out" as they please
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:08 PM
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If everyone knows its dangerous then why are so many women constantly bringing it up online as though they are baptist preachers relaying the word of god
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:07 PM
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Nothing I am talking about has to do with being a virgin and foregoing sex. I talked about having sexual principles and mores.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:05 PM
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Only certain men can create harems of women, likely the same men the poster above me fucks around with. Any basic bitch can use men for sex however she pleases, because men fuck down frequently and consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:01 PM
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I've dated and fucked a lot of men. Apparently none of them made an impression you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:00 PM
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Less promiscuous? That is not true at all. Thats what you want to be true, its not whats happening. whose mum didn't know any men other than their dad Knowing a man is not the same thing as riding his dick, duh. How do I need to explain this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:57 PM
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Less and less women follow social norms every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:55 PM
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Ya modern men want to be in cuckhold relationships where she has stables of men on the side to "explore" her sexuality until she settles for marriage and something long term and real
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:53 PM
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A festival is a great place to talk to people. No one talks to anyone, they just stay in their little groups. Just like you do, UNTIL a charismatic man comes up to you and breaks through your barriers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:51 PM
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Lets say I am an angry incel (lol), congrats you have called me out. Now go on and enjoy your cuckholdry hedonism, but do me a favor and don't hide. Don't be a little secret queen about it, if you like it, then be proud of it and let your reputation speak for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:50 PM
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Oh you should film some porn too, you can upload it on to hotwife sites. Go be a star This is what modern men have to look forward to in their dating pools. Imagine if you had been born in 1960 and actually had to develop sexual morals and principles, the horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:46 PM
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So alternatively, they would have been alone? How is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:44 PM
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Do you look for men with bigger dicks than your current man? Like having a big dick bull on the side? What an interesting modern dynamic, how far we've progressed as a society, we truly are evolving
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:43 PM
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Whats to figure out? To be wanted you have to have a nice dick, and charisma, thats about it. What is there to figure out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:42 PM
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This ignores the fact that happiness is relative and based on available options. A woman can absolutely be content and happy with a man simply because hes the best she could find, and she doesn't have other superior men to compare him against. Now that women have High N-counts, and fuck a koleidascope of different types of men, they will actually end up LESS happy than their mothers who had more limited options and did not get pumped and dumped by chad to know what they were missing out on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:41 PM
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If I was a woman I would pick high charisma big dicked studs to spend time with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:39 PM
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I went with a woman friend so that I am more approachable and could make more friends, ya right. Women still keep to themselves like church mice. Just waiting for a man with enough charisma to batter down their defensive stand offish personalities, then they wonder where all the good men are. I am going to a DJ festival in a park today, I'm sure that will also lead to zero connections with others. People just stay in their little groups, and trade women like pokemon cards between their little cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:36 PM
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Ok so you have no advice for men, you just want to criticize them, gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:35 PM
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It absolutely can be a fear campaign. Context matters. The difference between Propaganda and "being informed" is a very thin line, did you not know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:34 PM
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Perhaps "non-abusive men" who are so confused by this phenomenon should spend more time asking women these questions in good faith instead of looking for a "Haha, women's intuition is shit and fails as soon as her pussy get tingles" gotcha moment then. It makes non-abusive men come off as bitter with a side of entitlement rather than concerned or genuinely confused. What you really want is for non-abusive men to comfort you, validate you, and ignore the patterns in your behavior that led to you …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:33 PM
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Most people attend paint night for the painting. So you enjoy doing things silently next to other people, its fun as long as you are in the same room as others?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:29 PM
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Do you believe most women experience no complications or issues with pregnancy. Everything in a woman’s body is exactly the same as before? Do you think its appropriate for old crones and fat internet dwelling loser women to propagate online how dangerous and horrible pregnancy is, how it will ruin you forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:28 PM
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So how are us men suppose to know if you women prefer to be asked or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:26 PM
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Cause people cannot differentiate debate, from their fragile little egos thinking they are personally being attacked, as though I even know you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:18 PM
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Well now you know. Black pillers are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:17 PM
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Plus, you have no idea if any of those 7 women were even single. Because none of them made any effort to interact or talk with me. I am looking for friends, not lovers. Women aren't even interested in making male friends. So life is about going to things, and "enjoying" them alone. Uh... ok. Socializing is the ENTIRE point of events like that. I can draw and sketch and water color on my own in my condo while I drink whisky and smoke cigars and vibe the fuck out. So your entire response is incorr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:13 PM
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So you only want the top men, you aren't unique in that. And if its for casual sex, you REALLY only want the top men, the men who are out of your natural league
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:11 PM
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Are women attracted to the top men, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:10 PM
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Most of it is brainwashing. For example spamming a story about a woman having a horrible complication during pregnancy and implying that its common and that most women will experience the complication. Its similar to anti-vaxers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:09 PM
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Its disrespectful to do something to someone without asking them first. Yes or no? Nice dodge, you know EXACTLY what I mean and are doing your typical female gaslighting thing. So boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:08 PM
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By you I meant women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:07 PM
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I'm not a black piller
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:06 PM
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Most of the men I know are not in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:42 PM
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So you think there is some attractiveness bar and if more men reach it, women will be less interested in top men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:32 PM
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Men lead, women follow. Like a dance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:31 PM
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for the dating dynamic social skills matter much more for men For making new friends they matter more as well. People will happily be friends with boring, quiet women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:27 PM
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But yeah you have to have some modicum of social skills and non-negative charisma. The men do you mean. Women don't need anything because people collect them into their friend groups like pokemon because women confer social status
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:21 PM
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That just means youre not fully erect
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:14 PM
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Went to an art workshop in a studio. For sketch and watercolor. It was me, my friend who is a woman, 7 other woman, and one of them brought her husband. None of the women talked to me or interacted with me. The idea that going to these types of things will increase opportunities to make friends or romantic interests with women is a fallacy. You can go to an event with 30 single women and leave with nothing. Women are not interested in men, they have no desire to talk to them. You have to force w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:11 PM
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I'm speaking in third person. I am addressing the audience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:07 PM
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I don't understand growing up thinking looks don't matter. I think this is something ugly men tell themselves and then are surprised when everyone else ignores their construct they set for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:58 PM
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So you will be turned on if I ask to kiss you on a date? That is sexy behavior to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:56 PM
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Ya if I am respectful then how do I break her boundary and touch and kiss her? Do I wait for her to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:55 PM
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The way men post online is not how they treat women when they go out on dates. To think so is to think that men are retarded on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:54 PM
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Right, before she may have settled for a small penis man, now she holds out for a large penis man. Otherwise, why not just be in peace. Average men are worthless compared to top men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:52 PM
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Its obviously both. There are literal campaigns to scare women about pregnancy. There are thousands of women posting online as we speak trying to terrify the next generation of young women/girls. Don't get pregnant. Don't trust men. Rape culture. All men are shit (so be desperate for the top men, and only hold out for them or else you are a loser-girl). The world is out to get you, led by men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:51 PM
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Don't need to be one, this shit is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:48 PM
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The top men objectify women just as much as the rest of men. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:46 PM
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I said DATE DOWN. Not "fuck anything with a pussy". DATE DOWN. That hot guy you had a crush on, guess what hes DATING DOWN to be with you. You aren't in his league JUST BECAUSE YOU CRUSHED ON HIM Men do not "date down" when it comes to actual relationship They do ALL THE TIME. And ESPECIALLY for casual sex. But for relationships too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:45 PM
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Cause you don't care about love, you just want to be physically and emotionally dominated, in the power of a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:43 PM
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Its not projection. Women also value men who have women around them. Its the ultimate marker of status. Especially if one can perceive its based on sexual and social appeal, and not some kind of sugar baby whore for money scheme. You dont think women mark status for men? How else would a man have status?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:09 AM
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Loving relationships are the ones that are hard to quit, not this stockholm syndome bs. Someone giving you pain and vitriol is not hard to quit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:05 AM
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you think women's presence and attention is some magical decider of value. It is. Why do you think in rap videos they talk about having lots of bitches? I feel WAY more valuable when I am in a group with attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:04 AM
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If you know a lot of abusers and ppl being abused, it means your social circle is full abusers. It doesn't mean everyone else's is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:53 AM
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Why can't all these women talk like you and be honeest that they are attracted to "sexy masculine" personality instead of all the moralizing gaslighting bs we get in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:52 AM
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The trauma bond from stockholm syndrome is harder to withdraw from than heroin What a bunch of bs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:49 AM
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Its because us non-abusive men just don't understand how a guy can "abuse" you and you still want him. It boggles our minds, as non-abusive men. I know you don't give a shit what non-abusive men think though and prefer all your little dramas and redemption arcs with the "exciting" abusive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:46 AM
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My dad was a beta, but a nice loveable try hard guy. Mom on 2nd marriage. Was a bit of an odd lady, came from a fucked up family, has some resentment towards my dad that I will never tolerate from a woman, if a woman developed that kind of energy towards me, she'd be gone. Don't care how in deep we are. Dad had 3 good looking kiddos. I have zero, so hes still winning currently, despite their emotionally fraught relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:42 AM
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Where I grew up only MAYBE a homeless man would catcall a 11/12 year old girl. Guessing you grew up in the ghetto. 'Men' are not responsible for ghetto culture
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:36 AM
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Having self control is expected of everyone. You literally are not turned on by porn, so how does it require any self control on your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:35 AM
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They treat men as lower status by not wanting to be around them. They also confer status onto men who in the past never had status because of pop culture
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:33 AM
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Women would call Issac Newton an incel, ridicule him, and hed probably take it to heart in 2026 and never been able to achieve what he did if he lived in similar circumstances as today
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:32 AM
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what social stigma could possibly refrain women from expressing their sexual desire Its not social stigma. Women are just only attracted to top men. Thats why top men get to do whatever they want to women. Women are very lustful for top men. That is what all of us are trying to tell you. Women don't seem very lustful because very few men are top men that can trigger that lust in them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:29 AM
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So you think groups that have more children are more "feminist" than groups that don't? Because the most regressive cultures on earth are having the most babies currently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:27 AM
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No, most of them are gfs and wives who are kinky and let their men film them doing shit. So it doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:24 AM
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Lots of porn is amateur. The most shocking is actually. And yes porn traumatized me and forever changed what I assume women are capable of. The fact that a woman I might love, might end up being a totally different sexual being if she met a certain "kinky" guy is totally disturbing to me. Women just let men use them and do whatever they want to them as long as the man is attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:44 AM
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Who, the men? Yes men are often forced to date women who look kind of fugly compared to them. Pretty women always want to date up. Hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:42 AM
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Ok, I am just saying it happens a lot. This was a basic ass bitch surgical nurse with a pug nose and she found some guy to FLY her out to some place on a date. Never considered to give her a 2nd date after hearing that bs, she was let go
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:02 PM
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idk what youre on about. The topic was groups mingling at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:00 PM
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Men date down all the time to get laid. So congrats at having meaningless sex with men out of your league that would never want to marry or have children with you, but just use you for play time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:52 PM
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The way men adapt is by dating women below their looksmatch. Then usually becoming resentful about it and dumping them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:50 PM
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I go out all the time. Neighborhood bars, cocktail bars, ritzy places. Groups stick to themselves the vast majority of the time. Unless one of the groups has players in it who enjoy and are skilled at hitting on women. Ok, but keep trying to talk down to people, idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:47 PM
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Sure, seems obvious to me. Also people get jealous and rationalize it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:44 PM
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Well your original comment made it seem like you were above status and status symbols
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:33 PM
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I never see groups mingling. Just groups sticking to each other. My groups never mingle. Maybe the odd comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:32 PM
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Sometimes theres a market for average guys who want a sugar baby but don't feel comfortable with women who are clearly out of their league. I also went on a date with a woman who was very plain and per her story, had had some guy fly her out to a first date. Fly to another state. Men are just fucking pathetic idiots when it comes to female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:29 PM
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what is the stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:26 PM
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Women are attracted to the "best guy" around them, not necessarily the best guy they can get. Niche/closed social groups just helps tamp down womens natural hypergamic behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:25 PM
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I wear my rolex and feel higher status about it, and men ask me about my watch all the time, some offer to buy it from me. Thats like asking, "why get a haircut" "Why wear a well put together outfit". Just wear gym shorts and sneakers everywhere, afterall anything else is "status chasing".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:23 PM
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Probably. Seeing men just absolutely use women and get worshiped by them in porn, how could a boy watch that and not feel entitled to women the same way those men are revelling in womens bodies? I wish I never saw how women will behave towards men sexually. How many women love being sexually abused by men, how many women objectify themselves for men, how many engage in mens depraved degrading fetishes and kinks. But pandoras box was opened, and forever changed how I saw women, knowing what their…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:18 PM
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The hottest men care about a woman's hobbies, interests, career, etc. You women don't care about any of that. All you care about is if the guy can flirt and entertain you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:13 PM
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So does that make you want to date inter-racially, the races that are seen as more aggressive and emotional, like blacks? You like a guy that could potentially beat a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:30 AM
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It only lacks emotional texture to you because you don't understand how difficult it is for a man to have sex with a woman who is out of his league. Because that is par for the course for women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:20 AM
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Hows that? What were you expecting like putting whipped cream on a girls tits or something silly like that? My actual greatest sexual fantasy is impossible, which is to have a huge dick and have sex with lots of women with my huge dick. Maybe be a bull and be chosen to fuck other mens wives. That would feel very powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:09 AM
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My dick is ok. Enjoy your pattaya 304s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:08 AM
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I meant those angry volatile men. They are emotionally out of control, aggressive. So they leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:05 AM
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Yes they are. The more high income positons that women take, the less will be left for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:00 AM
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OLD matches, I guess I match with women my own age aswell, but have had worse experiences with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:59 AM
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Why not just snuggle and be romantic after the sex. Thats how gays do it. Thrusting a penis into a woman isn't actually romantic you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:58 AM
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Oh, mine is having sex with a woman far outside my league. I guess women already get to experience that with ease, so that must not be very appealing for them. Because basically their entire sexuality involves fucking men outside their league (who then don't commit to them)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:55 AM
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taking something away from men that needs to be returned Yes they are. They are stealing jobs from men. And then the same women have the gall to only choose men who make more money than them for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:53 AM
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You should be counting policies that either prevent or alleviate human suffering So the only way to "help" men and women in your mind is government welfare? What policies do the democrats have that will help more men find wives? Its hilarious that your post is framing people as starving under the trump administration. Talk about Koolaid. Do you want the government to pass a law that no one can ever be fired again? Would that make you feel warm inside?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:51 AM
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Lack of finding partners, and marriage. Democrats should talk about that, (but they won't).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:49 AM
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Porn introduces most of the extreme stuff to people To men yes. and then they introduce it to you. And you go along with it like a good girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:47 AM
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Why don't women feel any responsibility towards society? Can we have that conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:22 AM
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Do you actually date women who are your looks match? As a handsome guy, I can attract girls who are uglier than me no problem, will have 100s of dating app likes but only a small percentage will be like me, pretty face, fit, clean. Ie. 7+. I get plenty of opportunity, but I still can't help feel bitter towards the women for all the effort I have to put into attracting them. Men find that the faster they lower their standards to below their looks match, they quickly leave the ranks of singlehood.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:19 AM
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That is unusual. Do you have a lot of 40 year old friends also dating 20 something women? Most men are married by your age. Were you a late bloomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:13 AM
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I mostly get interest from 24-30 year olds. I can impress them with my money and lifestyle and nice condo. So it works out pretty fine for me. WOmen definitely like older men or at least consider them any man 10 years older or less than her, on average. If hes got the goods
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:12 AM
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Ok well thats not what I am talking about when I describe enthusiastic oral. Open eyes are not a requirement or even desired. I find staring into eyes to be awkward during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:10 AM
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God forbid someone showed me a spot on my body or his that feels amazing and so then I know about it and can continue to do the thing and have more fun. Its more about fetishes like group sex, drugs, hotwifing, poly ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:08 AM
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Ok, you got me, getting a penis thrust inside you is not submissive. For sure. Is that why Stephen colbert made a joke about trump being putins cock holster?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:07 AM
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She had fetish kink sexual ideas imparted into her through the man, that she would never have found appealing on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:06 AM
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Well if you were into something worth judging, I'm sure you'd hear some judgement from your perspective partners
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:06 AM
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admirable, capable, and worthy What about being tall with a big dick? Is that worthy of submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:44 PM
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Me too. It is a tough combo. I am always fighting the madonna-whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:42 PM
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You said she insulted your bfs dick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:41 PM
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the muscular guy who built his body in the gym If you aren't funny then women won't like you so it doesn't matter if your muscular. the smart guy with a great degree WOmen aren't turned on by degrees but by charisma Woman each have individual tastes. No, attractive women only like extroverted, high status men who personal charisma. Young, pretty, thin. Nothing else matters to men. So you mean to tell me its hard to be a healthy body weight? Doesn't that mean you basically have to NOTHING as a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:37 PM
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Many men are way more creative in bed than me, I got introduced to things I love because of men suggesting things. This is exactly what I am talking about with women being corrupted by other mens sexuality and then being ruined for the men who come afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:34 PM
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So any man who talks about sex and sexual desire with underage girls.... is in your mind a man who has those fantasies? Wow, talk about defense mechanism. Do you think this is how all those women dating guys who are obsessed with teens get through the day? By claiming the men calling those men out are the REAL pedophiles, beacuse they dared to speak about it at all. Lmao, jesus. Do you also think SVU detectives are all pedophiles, because they discuss the sexual desires of the men they arrest?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:35 PM
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I don't think this dynamic of a woman catering to every kinky desire a man has is healthy, tbh. A lot of you women just get sucked into the vortex of male sexuality, and start pretending like its all normal and positive. For example if you are indulging in a mans shameful sexual fantasies, how exactly are you building him up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:34 PM
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pedophiles I am not talking about pedophiles. I am talking about men who sexualize young women and below-legal-age women. I don't see a difference between a 35 year old man sexualizing an 18 year old high school girl and a 16 year old high school girl. You apparently think its a huge difference, given that your citing age of consent statistics. BTW many girl lie about their age to make porn so many of the girls those men are watching are below 18. why should women bother dating men who will perp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:22 PM
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Statistically, many women who participate in this sub are with men who get turned on and wank to young women "teens" ect. That is what this thread is about. The secret sexual basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:19 PM
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How have any of my responses been about defending it. If anything I am CALLING OUT all you women that give your hearts and souls to men who sexualize young girls/young women. Many of you live in La La land.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 PM
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it’s not a significant portion of men But theres teen porn videos with millions of views, so how is it not a significant portion of men? Old men still walk by with the 50 year old wives and ogle the teen girls that walk by in their yoga pants that show their entire ass To answered your question, no my sexually was not attached or associated with youth, like it is with so many men. I don't feel a sexual thrill for a young innocent girl, like so many men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:14 PM
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Your just getting into outliers now. If your mouth is too small that hes going to feel like a big boy with a big one, so you already got it covered for making him feel like a desirable man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:12 PM
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COnfident women are still submissive in bed...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:11 PM
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I am the dominant one. nope. It has nothing to do with who is getting the D and who is using the D Yes it has everything to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:10 PM
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Whatever, my point is men being attracted to under-legal-age girls. If you want to split hairs, go ahead. Oh yaaaaaaa, should I pat you on the head because your hubby only likes 18 year old girls, instead of 14 year old girls??? Wow good for him... so much better (not, its all the same thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:08 PM
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So you choose not to share certain things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:07 PM
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So you keep some of your solo sexual adventures in your head to yourself, because they are solo and not enjoyable to be shared. I can understand this for some sexual states of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:06 PM
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I like men more sexually adventurous and who want to explore things with me. That does not preclude from hiding sexual fantasies that they have that they believe you would disapprove of or that they believe would cause you to be less attracted to them. A man can be extremely adventurous and hide other things while being adventurous with "normal" adventurous things that he knows are kind of taboo but not really. But some things he may still hide
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:03 PM
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Wait, so you don't think men are capable of being sexually attracted to a 15 year old girl, with tits and ass and she went through puberty like 3 years ago? Its clear that tons of men love young looking women, would your man ever tell you if he was one of those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:01 PM
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No, I am talking about high school girls, ect. Junior high girls ect. I have other examples. That is just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:00 PM
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So you'll share different things with different men depending on how they make you feel, you are a lock and they are the key
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:59 PM
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I can easily say the penis doesn't penetrate the vagina but is engulfed by the vagina. It doesn't matter what you say. Emotional states cannot be negotiated with, they just are. You could be raped and frame it that actually you somehow dominated the man with your vagina, but thats not how it actually feels to you. A domme could command her sub to penetrate her, and she could do so with a dominant attitude. The submissive could then do as they're told, and thus penetrate in a submissive act. No. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:56 PM
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obviously we aren't each other's exclusive type but it doesn't do anyone any good to hear about it. Oooooohhh, why is your other types so different than him that he would be insecure and offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:52 PM
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Nope, it has nothing to do with staring or keeping your eyes open. In fact closed eyes usually means more desire, not less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:51 PM
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even if what you're saying is true it is true. Women can be obsessed with a man and still not be sexually obsessed with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:50 PM
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I don’t know that. Then you don't know. And you don't really understand men. Would your partner tell you that he sexualized a 12 year old girl he saw? Not that its my thing, but its clearly a significant portion of men sexualize very young women/girls and don't tell their female partners about this. For one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:47 PM
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If you want a woman who loves giving blowjobs, tell women you are dating that receiving lustful blowjobs is your favorite thing. Then she will just attempt to mimic it, without actually enjoying it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:45 PM
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You are the one who said she throws you around the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:14 PM
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not everyone will love oral sex, a lot of them do it for their partner's sake, not out of desire, and it shows. EXACTLY. This is what I am saying. When I tell women most of them are like this, they all look at me like I am an idiot. "But I give my husband oral whenver he asks!". LMAO, that would make feel like a pathetic beggar, wtf is even the point of this type of duty sex. One thing i disagree with though, is if those friends of yours found a man they truly desired above else, who they percei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:11 PM
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Cowgirl feels very submissive, you are riding/writhing on a big strong man, being penetrated by his big strong penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:07 PM
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Its not a confusion. Just emotional reality. Everyone getting fucked feels submissive to the person fucking them, you are submitting to their sexual power
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:05 PM
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Western nations have expensive care and necessities and they are not easily put aside Incorrect. Western people feel the need to maintain expensive lifestyles WHILE ALSO having children. Children in and of themselves are not prohibitively expensive. You do not want your child to start from behind the neighbour's child who has the extra. I would much rather have a child, and have him have less than his dumass neighbor friend, than not have a child at all. This culture is NOT women's fault. This c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:53 PM
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Playing with your gag reflex is not fun. The whole point is that you are not triggering your gag relfex. Idk what physical pleasure He feels it in his pulsating dick Physical pleasure isn't the same as being hard though, not sure why you conflated them. How is not the same thing? Do you think men can only feel their dicks when something is touching them? Is this your way of saying that you would in fact be disappointed and throw a little hissy fit if a guy was giving you oral and was not hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:42 PM
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Finances has much to do with the lower birth rate. Finances don't have anything to do with it. Africa has the highest birthrate, despite having some of the the worst life styles and most poverty. Culture determines birthrate. Women want to stop having kids, but retain their female privileges, don't you think? Have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:36 PM
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Anytime I am fucking someone, they are naturally being submissive to me. BDSM is for ugly people who lack self confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:34 PM
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Yes they are. Anyone who likes getting fucked, is naturally submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:29 PM
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How would someone weaker and smaller than you "throw you around the bedroom"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:27 PM
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Yep, the women most attracted to me, have also been the most submissive towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:25 PM
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Try swallowing a dildo until it hits the back of your throat repeatedly and get back to me. Hmm I just asked my gay friend and he said its fine, you feel it reach the back and you back off. Its a little pressure in the back of the throat and tells you thats the limit and back off. You find that to be difficult? He said its not painful or uncomfortable unless youre doing it an extended period of time or forcing it beyond your natural limits. Oral is generally something you do for someone else's e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:24 PM
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So average vanilla heterosexual sex is "kink" now to you? What a silly perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:20 PM
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Women aren't even having children anymore, so why shouldn't anyone give a fuck about them? They just want to galavant around and have sex with sexy men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:19 PM
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Just curious, why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:14 PM
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Exactly, only some men get that enthusiasm and lust. Not average guys. If you haven't experienced it, wanting to devour someones body, then you haven't been with a good enough man yet, oh well. Thats how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:07 PM
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nope, wrong again. They simply look like they are enjoying sucking his dick, and are lustful towards his dick. Something that most women do not feel for their men and his dick. But doing a little action in the back of the throat is easy and if you can't even do that then you are truly lazy, and dont enjoy giving oral sex, so just be honest and say "I don't like sucking dick, it doesn't turn me on, I only do it because I think you want it, I have no desire for it"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:00 PM
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submissive people Dominant women still want to be submissive, do you really not know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:48 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:48 PM
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Sexually submissive is what ppl care about, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:32 PM
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Why don't women do that? ASk them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:22 PM
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Being sexy and having a big dick, having sexual charisma. Then women submit to him and his desires
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:20 PM
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I agree, I think only big dick studs truly deserve women submitting to them. Most women agree too. another thing if they were forced to submit under the threat of violence to a random moronic peasant. Exactly. Only big dick studs deserve it, not average losers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:19 PM
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Nope, most women can't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:18 PM
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Well I just did look at the front page and most of the videos were just standard sex. Just smiles, looking at the dick, performing oral with some desire in her eyes, a little desperation/hunger, treating the guy like a king, that shes happy to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:04 PM
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What was weird and fake about the expressions then, if it was so obvious to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:59 PM
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Again, you clearly do not engage with a lot of porn. Most porn men watch is amateur and the women are not doing any weird "facial" expressions or "over the top" performance, they just simply treat a mans cock with lust which is too much for women to do with most guys because they feel no lust for his cock, unless he is a top male. You clearly have some crazy over-produced porn performance in your head like a women vomitting on a cock or something of that nature. Or growling at it or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:55 PM
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So again, you have no skin in the game. Just mindless consequence-less virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:51 PM
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Oh, so what rare kinks do you divulge on date 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:48 PM
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Have you even watched porn blow jobs? How are they fake, its literally just slowly sucking on a guys dick with enthusiasm and lust. Most women do it like its a mechanical act they are doing for a guy, men want to feel like you are enjoying sucking their dick. Women in porn look like they are enjoying giving oral to the man. That is apparently a man being "destroyed" by porn. Wanting a woman to enthusiastically lust after your cock is being "destroyed" by porn. No, in fact its giving men insight …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:46 PM
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Personally I like all those venues besides clubs, but I can't imagine that they would want sex in those contexts early in relationship, if they are an average girl. I mean shower is not kinky at all though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:41 PM
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Right, so mens constant struggle is feeling like he is getting the best out of his woman. If shes giving pieces of herself, emotional states of her self, to other men that she doesn't give to you, how could one not feel at fault? That he failed to trigger in her that emotional state? How could a mans ego be maintained in the face of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:35 PM
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On like the 3rd date around I say what sexual stuff I like and don't like. You'd sing a different tune if you had some kink that 90% of men don't like. So basically this is just untested hypocrisy. Because talking about sex apparently has NO social ramifications or consequences to your success in dating, you feel that everyone should be "open and honest". Just opportunism from your part, framed dishonestly as virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:31 PM
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No, its not about sucking dick, its about how you do it and whether you treat one different than the other. Do you think dominate sexually confident men with big dicks get different "dick sucking performances" out of women, then other types of men? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:28 PM
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If they don't then they are deliberately hiding it and waiting to spring it on her after she is already commited. Oh so do you divulge all your deepest secrets on the first date as well? You realize you sound socially deficient with this mindset, yes? but she will not feel comfortable doing if he isn't upfront about it early. Oh so now, its that if he told her early she would feel comfortable, but if he tells her late, she won't be comfortable? Thats it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:22 PM
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What about giving him a porn blow job and eroticizing his dick? Are you going to treat his dick with the same eyes as you did the 8inch guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:21 PM
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Where does she want to have sex then... if bed is not good enough (also women care more about WHO they having sex with, less where)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:20 PM
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Exactly, women keep talking about anal. Meanwhile I am imagining that porn scene where the women is sucking the mans dick like its greatest thing shes ever seen, completely overcome with a cocktail of emotions for him and his sex. But for some reason, this is too much for the average woman. They rarely make a man feel desired like that. Guess she saves it for "special guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:18 PM
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I don't know why women think its easy for men to bring up any and all sexual acts they are interested in after a few dates, before you even had sex. That is a ridiculous assumption. It should be EXPECTED by women, that there are elements of sex he may desire but will not feel comfortable to divulge early on in a relationship. And its not at all "dishonest"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:15 PM
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Straight women DEFINE and POLICE homophobic culture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:59 AM
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Men won't choose you over a cis women, for relationships. Men will choose you for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:58 AM
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Why do you believe humans should be impervious to insecurity and fear of consequences? What kind of messed up perspective is that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:57 AM
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I agree with your final paragraph, that men who are attracted to women who are trans should stop caring what other people think. Why? So its easier for you women to weed them out of your dating pool? Just another shit test from women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:55 AM
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Conquering and/or being sexually worshiped by women is a very straight male fantasy and that is what most porn is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:47 AM
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So you liked him despite his dick. How romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:40 AM
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Sex doesn't have to smell that strong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:37 AM
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But women like big dick and definitely lust after him so what is the problem with wanting to have that lust
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:31 AM
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That is a difficult question. But I am most insecure about sex, so I would like her to value our sexual connection and ability to make each other feel sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:29 AM
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This isn't true for a lot of people. We are attracted to bodies, not just youth. THeres lots of ugly, unesthetic young women out there, even if they aren't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:19 AM
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Average women end up with average men. Average women fuck above average men all the time. He wasn't committing to you at 22 either. Not because you weren't young enough. Because you're average and he wasn't in your realistic dating pool to begin with. BUt you fucked him and now hes seared into your mind when you are forced to settle for your lesser husband material guy who will actually want to be around you for the long term The leverage is overwhelmingly on her side. The leverage to fuck men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:18 AM
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they want types they can’t handle Do you want types you can't handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:14 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I don't think my mom was very happy with my dad either. But for opposite reasons as your parents. My dad is not really hot, and hes kind of a beta push over, yet stubborn. But I think she dislikes him because shes not physically attracted to him, and is bitter about her marriage. SHe doesn't have an excuse though,she married him at 35. Its not like she was a naive teen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:55 AM
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Good point. Its hard to sus out. If you take women at the word then its all about 'types' but I think we can safely say taking a poll of women leaves many unstated hidden preferences out of the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:51 AM
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yada yada, ever wonder why people who talk about male abuse never go into the details. How exactly are all these men being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:40 AM
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Or like you make mario darker skin black people don't just have darker skin. Black and asian people are incredibly different facial features to white people. Different noses, different eyes, different forehead structures, diffrent teeth and smiles. Different hair. sorry hispanics Again "hispanic" is not as much a race as the other races. There are latinos who are very european, very indios, and varying mixes of the two
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:38 AM
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Why would it be weird? Most men who throw this kind of vitriol are also not chosen. Seems pretty logical that unchosen men would enjoy pointing out the failure of unchosen women. Personally for me, a relatively successful man, I more bitter at the hot bitches and the 'average' bitches, I don't have any ill will towards the less attractive women that struggle and have a very limited choice in men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:35 AM
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I do agree that men have more "tools" to build attraction, but those tools are much difficult to change. They are essentially inborn. For example, you are either funny or your not. Unfunny people dont become funny through "hard work"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:34 AM
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Sometimes. But women are limited by their looks. There is not much an ugly women can do to elevate herself in the eyes of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:31 AM
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So you told your man that him going hard and fast is boring. I would be crushed and probably not feel very secure doing that with you then. Imagine now every time he goes hard and fast he will have in the back of his head that you aren't even enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:25 AM
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This topic has really destroyed me. I will say, this has really ruined sex for me. All the women the last few years I've read lambasting men for "jack hammering". It has killed my self esteem. I literally feel the most powerful and sexually turned on what I am "jack hammering" and now I can't even enjoy that. All I think about is that the woman must hate it. Hearing womens opinions on sex has made me incredibly insecure about sex and ruined a lot of it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:23 AM
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You would care if you knew and it was something bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:20 AM
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I mean really, men are victims too. No they aren't. The idea of a man being "abused' and then going and shoving his dick into his "abuser" a few hours later does not compute in my brain. Women literally control the future of species, of course they should face criticism (what you call "blame")
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:17 AM
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Ya, why else would she stay with him. Especially if shes hot and has options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:15 AM
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lmao, women are picking worse men then ever before. You think women are no longer turned on by arrogance and selfish domineering masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:14 AM
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Lots of women are attracted to abusive behaviors that didn't grow up in homes like that. They are attracted to domineering alpha masculinity that naturally has to put a bitch in her place at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:06 AM
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Lets be honest and say that both of you have some issues that normal average men and women do not struggle with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:04 AM
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Bad people can often hide their true nature for a long time Most of the time they cannot, and this is just an excuse women make out of shame for their choices. For what turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:01 AM
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What a joke. He clearly demonstrated those domineering behaviors EARLY on in their relationship. She loved that "alpha domineering" side of him when it wasn't being turned on her. Guaranteed. No. One. Saw. It. Coming. He was a normal good dude. No he wasn't. He was a domineering violent person that was what attracted her to him in the first place. His community vetted him. How exactly does a community, vet someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:58 AM
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Very Very strange that you focused your whole point on "men who look like my dad" and then say you date different races. Mexican isn't a race btw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:55 AM
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Most men who watch porn with their partners also watch more taboo porn (alone) that they don't tell their partners about. Theres always another level to the secret sexual basement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:53 AM
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Do you know what your man watches?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:52 AM
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Do you also find it weird and funny when men talk about sports to each other or girl friends gab about the latest lay one of them had?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:50 AM
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You've buckled under your mans addiction. Some men will actively suppress their desire to watch porn (me) and seek fulfillment with a satisfying partner only. Yes there will always be relapses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:48 AM
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Those category search things are BS, not substantiated. The best way to analyze porn preferences would be to look at total view counts of various popular videos amongst different "categories" and compare those. Not stupid search functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:46 AM
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Why are you taking credit for what other women dealt with? Are you claiming to have the same experiences as a woman during the 80s? The 50s? Are you part of a mindborg that reaches back generations? It sounds like you think you are, what a silly perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:44 AM
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but just take a walk somewhere there’s a lot of people and notice couples, they come in all shapes and sizes and flavours Thats not true. When I observe couples I see noticeable trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:41 AM
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All the bi guys I've talked to say dating men is way easier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:40 AM
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I know I would be in a much better mental state if I didn't know how crazy women go over big dicks, and have seen countless examples of that rare status. When I was a teen I never even considered dick size to be a thing that mattered, it was some hazy thing in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:38 AM
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Playing sports is not any kind of guarantee that a young man is thriving or will have success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:35 AM
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Attracting women is definitely a skill. Therefore, problems with dating can definitely be a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:33 AM
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That doesn't really follow. THings are conventionally attractive because they aren't a "type" but rather have mass appeal. For example, height. Are you saying women liking men taller than them is them having a "type"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:32 AM
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You just said the thing we aren't allowed to talk about. Yes interracial dating is complicated and hard. It either requires two very intelligent people, or a really stupid woman, to work. I doubt you had any issues with attention from black men if you are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:30 AM
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Ok, that doesn't explained women who lust after exotic men that look nothing and behave nothing like the men they grew up with. And it often has nothing to do with trust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:25 AM
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But well, no sex without feelings so the rational path is not an option :') Do you think all women just listen to their feelings and not their brains when it comes to choosing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:22 AM
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Range of color? Are you seriously saying you don't care about race in a man, you just said you want them to look like your dad..? A different race man obviously looks nothing like your dad. Or did you mean hair color or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:21 AM
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Ya those are offputing qualities. How do you think he was able to bag your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:19 AM
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Its actually more immature to pretend that your entire life can be crafted internally, and ignore the world and people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:20 PM
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Not really, because most of the things I find ugly are universally considered ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:19 PM
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I think women attracted to nerdy guys are intimidated by non-nerdy guys and basically don't feel confident or good enough to feel comfortable with a man with more robust worldy interests. And I say that as someone who has some nerdy interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:18 PM
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Sounds like a weird fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:17 PM
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Thats fair, but I'm simply skeptical that those other men wouldn't be able to woo you because you seem more interested in status than the traditional character of a man. The fact that you had to qualify the singer as effeminate, tells me if he was not effeminate, you would be quite interested. Professional athletes, I can already tell you would love to have one butyou are probably worried about cheating and matching up to his status. Things like that are less about "your type" being the most att…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:15 PM
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No. I am not attracted to ugly people, and I don't mean that to be evil or mean, but simply, I have an idea of how I look and want someone who matches or exceeds my looks, in a value gradient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:11 PM
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immature people Lmao. Its not immature to feel validated or desire validation through someone else. My type argues with me more than validates me. Thats not what validation means. You are talking about agreeableness. I like being challenged by different perspectives. Again, has nothing to do with validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:09 PM
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But that doesn't mean I'm always in the mood for it. So what happens when you get married to Not-Birthday-Cake?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:02 PM
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I didn't say men watched every single category. The majority watch multiple categories however.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:02 PM
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Putting some women into the NO category is not the equivalent of the hyper-specific niche "type" that women often reference when they are bloviating about the men they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:01 PM
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I think you think more like me. But I just don't think that is specific enough to be a type. "Successful human" is just too vague to be a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:59 PM
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You have a type, women who validate you Thats not a type. Its a universal desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:57 PM
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I am highly introspective, thats why I don't have much of a type. I recognize different types of value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:55 PM
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I don't have much of a type because I am very practical about what I'd like in a partner. Facts vs feelings ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:46 PM
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I think theres more value and safety related assumptions going on here in the background than simple esthetic preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:42 PM
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caterface Handsome man for sure. But I don't know how one wouldn't be negatively distracted by those acne scars, definitely a quality you tolerate in someone you love, rather than actively want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:38 PM
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Men have them too. But its clear women are very, lets say, proud of having their type. Maybe its a choice thing? The more choices you have, the more you can fantasize and ruminate on the specifics of a partner? I don't think most average men have rigid types. Sure if a man as an unlimited selection of women he will narrow down his preferences (or more likely will craft a wheel of fortunate categorical framework of female preference see: porn categories). Or in other worlds, multiple types based …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:35 PM
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That is my suspicion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:31 PM
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Its a bad comparison. You are framing attraction, love, partnership as something as base and superficial as how food tastes. Humans are not food. And those we choose to be with, we choose for reasons that are deeper than "tastes good". You listed a bunch of aspects that make up a persons coupling choices, but some are very superficial and others are not. A single person can have an array of different qualities, of those you listed, so how does that form a "type"? No one will have 50 different pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:26 PM
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If you truly had no type, anyone and everyone would do it for you No, I said I discriminate and there are plenty of things I do not want in a partner. Hardly any of them have to do with superficial esthetic niches like she has to be in the same music scene as me or likes black instead of pastels. You didn't answer my question about how and when your type developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:23 PM
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They wouldn't reject her if she was more beautiful than what they were used to. We aren't allowed to talk about race here so don't bother with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:20 PM
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Its not the same as experiencing someone from the outset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:19 PM
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Most men view multiple porn categories. Although ultimately I hate porn and wish it was erased from existence, I know I have a slide show or "wheel of fortune" of porn preferences I will mentally scroll through and choose on a given day, when I am overwhelmed by the desire
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:18 PM
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That doesn't explain why women develop attraction to "types" of men who are completely different than the men they grew up around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:14 PM
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Physical: I have enjoyed skinny petite women, voluptuous curvy women (not obese), large/tall women. Athletic muscular women (less experience here). Older women (not a LTR option). Younger women. I can find bubbly women charming, as well as quiet reserved women. Whatever. The important thing is that they like me and I feel validated. Deeper compatibility issues I don't consider to have anything to do with type, I consider those individual characteristics and believe you must get to know an indivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:11 PM
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Your type sounds more like generic masculinity. Probably 90% of women would agree with wanting those characteristics in a man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:07 PM
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Doesn't sound like you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:04 PM
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When women talk about types they are usually referencing superficial esthetics and even superficial behaviors. They can be attracted to the same men and one could be a secret nazi and the other a crazy anarchist, but both could represent her esthetic niche type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:03 PM
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Its not normal for most men lmao, you have to be kidding. YOu sound ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:02 PM
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Not really, I can recognize and appreciate many ways women can be attractive and feel grateful that I get to experience different body types, different esthetics, different outlooks on life. Its definitely more prominent among women. And women talk WAY more about their "types" than men do. Like a man would never reject a beautiful woman who outlclasses his past partners because she has a slightly different esthetic than his past partners. But women apparently would. They would reject a total pac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:00 PM
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Never really been into rugged bearded or muscular guys. So you have yet to experience any of those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:57 PM
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I like lots of ice cream flavors though. I just dislike certain ones. This is a bad comparison. Sex is much different than innocuous preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:55 PM
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So are you impressed by guys who holler at you on the street. Those guys are exuding confidence right? Very masculine of them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:50 PM
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Most women like engaging in casual sex during their life. They consider it a right of passage for womanhood
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:49 PM
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Indian women still date for safety, not excitement. You'll know Indian women have shed their cultural safety programing when they start interracial dating en mass like white women are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:30 AM
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Its annoying that you are failing to understand that men have more responsibility in sex than women. And keep replying about some bullshit of my experience. When I am talking about people AT LARGE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:28 AM
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Why would a redpill guy struggle with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:26 AM
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So once you are married, then you are ok with that man using you as a hole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:12 AM
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Yet this whole thread is shaming men for apparently "using" women for sex. And "using" them as a hole. And here you are saying that you enjoy being a mans hole, in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:08 AM
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if it’s not coming from a place of love than it’s better not said, and it’s never an appropriate response to someone sharing a story of abuse Why not? You think women are weak pathetic creatures that can't tolerate criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:05 AM
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If I have a daughter I will definitely drive home that she has to choose well when it comes to men. Guess all the PPD women here will teach their daughters to simply chase whatever man feels most exciting to her... yall will be terrible mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:04 AM
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if you cannot learn how to improve your emotional intelligence and form a deep connection beyond surface level intimacy Why would a redpill guy struggle with that? The happiest relationships come from two people working together as a team throughout their journey What does team work have to do with attracting a woman, making a woman want to be yours, and have sex only with you? Team work only matters AFTER you are chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:00 AM
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I'm saying more and more women are addicted to excitement and find the average man to be boring. More women than ever before in history chase excitement and find the average man to be boring. One exciting man can have sex with a interact with 100 different women. Then all those women will compare the exciting feelings he generated to every man that comes after
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:55 AM
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Its the general experience. Sexual performance depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:54 AM
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Do you think of yourself as a warm hole when you are having sex with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:49 AM
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So you are rewarding funny men but letting them use you as a hole? Humor and charisma for pussy, is that the equation that goes on in womens heads?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:47 AM
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What if a man likes you but also likes using you as a hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:46 AM
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So you agree that he enjoys using you as a hole, but he just also likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:46 AM
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Shouldn't she realize he is out of her league? Or are women just stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:45 AM
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Women aren't "good" at sex, they don't do sex, they just follow the man and react to him. Women follow, men lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:38 AM
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I think some men are shocked that we can be physically attractive, have a crafted appearance, and still generate negative feelings in women because we aren't stupidly confident or display a slight awkwardness or difficulty filling an empty silence. Meanwhile men will give women unending opportunities and allowances if shes remotely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:35 AM
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But you love giving men that notch if he makes you feel like hes a superior man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:32 AM
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But really the game for you, as a woman, is all about looks. So frankly, the entire of idea of dating is simple for you. Are your looks a match for a man you are interested in. You aren't going to attract a man with your charisma, or money or your social competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:31 AM
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Oh, you never met women who do things like onlyfans or go to sex parties then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:15 AM
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India is a under-developed economic country with a culture where women make romantic decisions based on survival and economics. Women in India and white American women live in different universes. Even ones of the same class
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:05 AM
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Do u think good people can't also be fun people? Do you think being good makes it more likely that you are fun? Do u think men want to marry boring women over bubbly women ? Men want physically attractive women above all else. Its women who are obsessed with the personalities of their men, don't get it mixed up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:00 AM
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Women typically prefer larger groups of friends. Also singlewomen are invited into mixed gender groups of friends, but single men are not. Its easier for women to make friends. For cross gender friendships, women are EXTREMELY picky about the men they associate with. And they typically only like being friends with men who they could also see being attracted to, or the same level as guys they want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:57 AM
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Again this implies a woman is corrupted BEFORE No. The man corrupts her. She could have been attracted to him for a number of reasonable reasons. Dating anyone will change a person for better or worse. Having sex with anyone will change a person for better or worse. Do you deny this? ecoming bitter over past experiences is not something exclusive to women. Dating some guy who is bitter over some girl who rejected him in high-school is it’s own nightmare You are just changing the subject. I am ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:20 PM
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that it’s not an either/or situation It is an either/or situation for many women though. Do you deny this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:18 PM
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Bruh you are so annoying for real. Do you love spitting all these lame analogies and "life lessons" with little anecdotes attached IRL too? Remind me of some baptist preacher, except your saying things everyone already knows and think youre interesting for pointing it out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:11 PM
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Women don't care about a good partner when they are chasing excitement, emotions, and highs. They only care about a good partner when, as you say, "a storm comes" and life gets hard. Have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:06 PM
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I'm talking about your attitude and demeanor, to highlight it to the audience. IDC that you can't follow it, others can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:01 PM
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No, men sexually imprint on women and guide and shape their sexuality. Women react to the men around her. The act of sex is not inherently "bad" or "corrupting" its the kind of sex, and the kinds of men, and the kinds of emotional states the woman experiences which can be corrupting or persuade her against men that would be a better long term match had she met a different less corrupting string of men prior to him. I had a long conversation about dating with a girl who dated a Russian mafia guy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:54 PM
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never had a talk about where things were going Ugh another diatribe by you trying to assert your masculinity over anonymous men online, very tiring my dude. No, hes not a "little guy" because he has a different understanding of dating dynamics than you. And no, hes not a "bad communicator" for not having a ridiculous conversation about exclusivity when they, according to him, have been inseparable for months. If both people think the other is special then they won't be very interested in playing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:51 PM
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They do because you are implying that men are as selective as women when it comes to friend groups. Why would you even need to make a point of saying that everyone has tolerances of who they want to be around. Of course eventually someone can be "too cringe"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:47 PM
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You don't think women can be corrupted and shaped by her experience with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:41 PM
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by proportion though. Lots of normal guys go on reddit, its far less common for normal girls to go on reddit and actually post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:40 PM
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TFW second marriage age, but never had an official first marriage. Pickings may be slimmer but I have accepted the challenge. The guys with kids can date the girls with kids, I'm not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:42 PM
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How is 7 dates "way casual"? Is that how people in your social circle view dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:40 PM
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People are very defensive of their little groups. They are big investments. Like any other investments people don't like to admit they made a bad one. Those little groups would rather keep the cheater than open their precious little group to an outsider, a new person, for example. Unless that person forces himself in by virtue of high charisma and entertainment value
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:37 PM
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Less of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:34 PM
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I disagree. Men are more open to friendships with men who are less socially skilled than them, than women are. Women treat friendships just like dating. They have higher standards for who they allow into their social circles, than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:28 PM
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Are you for real? He is right. At least half of the most prolific female posters on this sub are autistic and they will tell you, just ask
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:25 PM
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Obviously I was hot, so had lots of options lol. So you are fine with dating men who have much higher social skills than you? Won't they find you annoying and cringe, as you've just stated? You are using your "hot body" as currency to purchase guys who are superior to you socially?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:24 PM
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Women do not experience sex the same way men do. Its not about 'safety'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:22 PM
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What about before you had children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:18 PM
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Nah, lots of women are miserable and just fronting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:17 PM
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Looks are what get your foot in the door for everyone, sure No. I did not talk about "people". I talked about women. Looks dominate womens value on the market. That is not the case for men. But for a lot of people it’s not enough to just meet a looks threshold No. That is what women feel. For women, who are seeking to attract men, meeting a looks threshold is 95% of the battle. At least that seems to be true for people who don’t have a scarcity mindset. People? You mean women? I don’t think the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:10 PM
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I don't believe sleeping around as a woman makes you "bad", rather it makes you corrupted. Not a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:05 PM
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No, its because most/a lot of men are shy, and not good at hitting up and flirting with strange women. All of us would have preferred women to have joined us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:35 AM
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Plenty of women feel compelled to act a certain way and be cool and impressive to men they want to date Yes everyones hedging their bets, but those women also know that their primary determinative factor is their appearance. Do you deny this? a reflection of the men What is your point? I just said that women only have to worry about their appearance and your retort is "reflection of men". So which is it, do you agree that i have to worry about more stuff than women, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:34 AM
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Its clearly adapted. And its only in one direction. When women get exposed to more impressive men they re-calibrate what they find "attractive". Better. Faster. Stronger. Women always want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:50 AM
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Men are half the dating market…they are choosing what they prioritize all the time. Huge numbers of men rarely "approach" women and so they aren't in the market at all how are you superior? If she wants me, then I'm superior to her. Because women just use their bodies as currency, they will never be as well rounded as the men they choose and "pick". I can't rely on my body for currency. I also have to be entertaining, funny, ambitious, extroverted, flirtatious, bold, so many things. She just has…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:45 AM
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I've been in groups with mostly single men and we didn't approach women or any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:20 AM
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Nah I agree with that tweet. And Yes I am usually that guy. Women give me the look all the time and I still don't approach. Im often in big stag groups, and its hard not to feel like a loser hanging out with a bunch of dudes in public with no pussy around (except in other groups that you aren't interacting with). I definitely feel defeated in those moments. At least I pull on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:20 AM
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Are you implying good girls don't sleep around in 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:17 AM
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Then post a picture of an "average' man around you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:00 AM
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You would chase more impressive women if that’s what you were into. No, I avoid women that are obviously out of my league How else do you think market value even works? The market doesn't determine how, when or the intensity with which men chase women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:00 AM
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Are you seeing men say that looks are everything? Any good looking guy will know that it is very difficult to attract your looksmatch by just existing and that you must bring a lot more to "impressing" the woman than being good looking and dressing well. Personally I do think its fucked up that, I as a good looking man, have to work so much harder than you, to attract my looksmatch. Btw this almost guarantees that whatever men you end up 'selecting" will feel superior over you, because they like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:34 AM
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Having perfect facial symmetry is not standing out to you? I bet you are the type of girl to like outlandish faces, giant noses, huge protruding chins and thinking those men have the most "Character" to their face (because perhaps you also have those features)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:32 AM
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I live in a major American city, I see handsome men and beautiful women all the time. The first guy is absolutely far more handsome than the average guy. And I see TONS of men more ugly than the "below average" guy. Recessed chins. Huge noses. Acne scars. Pinched recessed maxillas. Poor eye proportion. Complete lack of cheek bones. And I am obviously just talking about the white european population here. Wtf does your fiances have to do with this? Are you literally considering your friend group …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:30 AM
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Obviously. Men must initiate always. Every girl in the room can consider you an option and you can go home alone because you don't force them to choose you through your actions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:08 AM
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Also a handsome guy. Btw I am better lookin than all three of these guys so its not coming from a place of insecurity, but yall are delusional, absolutely delusional about esthetic harmony and facial attractiveness. Also you have to understand that AI "Average" will blend an average face which will be more harmonious and balanced than picking someone from the street. You will never get a big nose, recessed maxilla face when you ask AI to make an "average" face but those exist in multitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:06 AM
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So what about him the men's faces around you are different than his?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:04 AM
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If he had more face fat I think he’d blend right in with other avg people. At least where I live. I was just out at a fancy restaurant in my city and very few men looked as handsome has him. Most of them had some mis-proportion to their features.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:03 AM
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This guy is actually an average looking man. He has no "ugly" features and lacks any striking, attractive bone structure that elevates men. Yes his hair is terrible and his neck is rolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:45 PM
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How is his face average? Are you fucking kidding me? He has almost model tier facial harmony and symmetry? Average? huh? Lean and muscular?????? ALL YOU CAN SEE IS HIS FACE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:43 PM
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Women will never be attracted to men like gay men are. Maybe <5% of women have this kind of attraction and most of them are hopped on testosterone or make porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:41 PM
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Because its low value, and not validated by society. What are the benefits in dating a man if you are also attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:44 AM
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Why are you so obsessed with this? Can't you just speak for yourself instead of trying make ridiculous assertions about all straight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:37 AM
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She doesn't like the idea of a man being gay, its icky to her and turns her off. So she makes up crazy justifications for it, like saying straight women and bisexual men are not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:36 AM
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No, its a hot take to expect YOU to be interested in bisexual men. For some reason you seem dedicated to speak for ALL straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:34 AM
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Bi men still consider women prizes, compared to men. Most bi men who actually have a strong attraction towards women, only look to men for sex, they don't actually want to date and have serious relationships with men. THey just like the dick. With women they get sex, and validation. With men, just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:25 AM
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it was all about me. So youre selfish and don't care about him, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:03 AM
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WHY NOT, women put ALL the responsibility on men for EVERY DAMN THING
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:45 PM
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Well she loved a guy who raped her. So doesn't that say more about her than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:45 PM
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You listen to their reactions. Most women don't give any reactions, they just tolerate things and then give you a grade after. Especially the first time having sex. Youre so ignorant of the average sexual experience a man has with a woman, all you have in your head are your ridiculous lesbian experiences that aren't representative of how women act with straight men at all It is hard to find and when you are moving your hand back and forth its easy to loose track of where it is and what exactly y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:43 PM
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Well perhaps he lacked awareness of the situation then. I thought chuffed meant, perturbed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:20 PM
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Then why do women orgasm during PiV? Why do they say big dicks made them cum easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:19 PM
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I suggest they pick orgasm from oral, might be more realistic. The second in his young life that he watches a video of woman saying shes cumming on a dick while doing impressive looking PiV will be the last time he thinks oral is as important as PiV, if he ever did. If you want to go back to a time where men are ignorant of womens sexual experiences and don't believe in the female orgasm... good luck I guess. Not going to happen Imagine if Imagine if men want women to orgasm doing the most funda…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:18 PM
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Because its not a mutual experience. Mutual experiences are the most powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:15 PM
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Why is orgasm from piv the maximum threshold but orgasm from oral isn’t? I will not try to complete dismiss women who say they enjoy oral sex, but everything about fucking a woman is more powerful, impactful, and active than tonguing her pussy, for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:10 PM
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Thats debatable. Self reported studies on female orgasm are very dubious. Women often have trouble even defining for themselves what an orgasm is suppose to feel like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:06 PM
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Im just describing the mindset that many women after the sample a bunch of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:05 PM
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Ok, so you are proving my point that most men won't get to experience that ultimate sexual validation from a woman, especially if you can't even cum on a mans dick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:59 PM
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I'm sure it is all your fault when your girlfriend cheats, right? I wouldn't know. I've never been cheated on. I pick girls with good values. And it is definitely all your fault when a girl used you for a food date, right? Again, thats never happened to me. And it's all your fault when she slipped a Micky in your drink and takes your wallet. Uh, wtf. I don't sleep with colombian hookers so I think I'm at low risk of that one "Nice guys" I am a nice guy. In fact I have to specifically work on my …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:57 PM
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I don't think most do, because most mens penises are not very impressive to women when they have had an array of sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:53 PM
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Thats not a refutation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:06 PM
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So if hes not drunk, then you dump him and say "bad sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:05 PM
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They aren't "potential lies" they are either true or not. Women fake sex all the time. How a woman behaves in sex is not validating to me, she could easily be faking and performing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:04 PM
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women b lyin Exactly, then its a lie. If you are lying about it, he will know. Thats why I said its the ultimate "attraction validation" but it has to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:58 PM
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Women don’t get to have orgasms when they fuck straight men, this is documented over and over again through countless studies from western countries If men don't have an orgasm the woman throws a fit and dumps him and says "bad sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:53 PM
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Trash people find trash people. If you pick trash, don't pretend you are some relationship expert, gender and sexuality expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:47 PM
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It actually is a mystery, you have touch exactly the right spot because the clitorus is very tiny, often times you cannot even feel it under the clitoral hood and labial folds, she may only like to be touched one side or the other or not want the clit specifically touched because its too sensitive, or touched with specific pressure and your fingers/wrist will literally start to cramp because its such an unnatural fluttery motion to vibrate and stimulate a clit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:46 PM
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Thats incorrect. Its fairly easy to surround yourself with good people. Maybe not from the background you come from
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:40 PM
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Comparison is the thief of joy. You say that because you already got to sample a load of guys and "choose" AFTER comparing based off your unsaid list of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:39 PM
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No, the maximum threshold is saying his dick is perfect and makes you orgasm in PiV. But apparently most males aren't built to please women that way, because that seems rare
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:39 PM
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They like degrading women, its a sign of his sexual power over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:36 PM
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How do you women who are internet warriors on this sub attract these types of men? You spend all your time trashing men on this sub and then you choose the worst, low iq, dumasses as sexual partners lmao. Can't even imagine doing "sneaky anal" to a girl, yet you probably think your EX is still more moralistic than me, how silly this whole debate is, all your pickers are broken
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:34 PM
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Based on this hypothetical, No, that would be humiliating. I'd rather be alone and fuck prostitutes, then I can keep my dignity at least
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:31 PM
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So do you find your husband gross then because he definitely had that mindset the first time you had sex. You seem very uninterested in the male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:36 PM
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If he went flaccid suddenly I'd want to check if he's okay. So youre impulsively checking on his erecton during sex, while implying you want the sex to be about you and focused on you. But in reality its still all focused on him. Because this "one thing" will ruin it all for you. How comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:35 PM
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You didn't realize that men see sex as an accomplishment? Something he has to get your approval to do? That all is "gross" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:10 PM
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Considering how many women say the majority of sex they had was "bad" it does seem that there is a universal listing that differs from mens natural sexual performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:58 PM
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I wasn’t expecting sex from him, he brought it up, that’s the only thing he wanted to do once I got to his. come on, you didn't expect sex when going back to a mans home? Really? To me it sounds like he was under a lot of pressure to close the deal with you and then also felt a lot pressure during sex. Struggling with a condom is often a sign of not being fully aroused and dealing with a floppy dick, that also is not very sensitive because of mental distraction and pressure, ie. not being "in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:57 PM
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You are complaining that he doesn't focus on your pleasure center and "do stuff" (oral, touching, whatever) that helps you feel pleasure and orgasm. And that he only focuses on himself. I simply asked, if he focused on you but found that was distracting from his own erection and so he was not (as) hard, would you still be policing his dick or would you be satisfied for him to focus on you ? I don't see how its a weird question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:54 PM
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I don't know, its a tough balancing act for men. Get extremely turned on! DOn't cum though! If you need a break keep doing sexual stuff to me! Don't lose your erection ever, thats bad! Don't focus on yourself, you must focus on me at all times! Make sure to talk, don't be too quiet! But say the right things, with the right tone! Never get distracted!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:50 PM
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Anything to take the pressure off. You women think we are sexual robots
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:46 PM
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What you want is a hot woman who does wild sex things with you No, I don't want a woman who "does things for me". I dated a woman who said we could be "free use" basically I Do whatever I want with her, and she had her own needs and ways of getting off that she wanted with me. She had not much understanding of things I wanted because she didn't feel inherent desire for the things that I would find hot, and very little personal desire, but a willingness to please me. Her "doing things for me" was…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:43 PM
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You don't need to have a high n-count to be a sexy stellar man who has a good base of sexual experience. N-count is more about testing your metal on the sexual marketplace, its a number that signals how appealing you are as a product are to women at large, but it doesn't mean much for your sexual prowess. And also how daring you are in the pursuit of casual sex. Its possible to sleep with many women, and fall short of many men and feel inadequate all the same at the end of it. Some men frame the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:33 PM
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There are many archetypes of men, that essentially give women what they want, following male gender roles to the T, while on the face of it promoting themselves as "unchained, uninhibited, unbound by society". Basically selling themselves as natural manifestations of masculinity, and yes women love those men. Often its a facade but doesn't really matter if you get what you want you will have a pleasant life, so they are doing things right. Attraction has always been about performance. If you onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:24 PM
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You don't think women get turned off by breaks in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:20 PM
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Sounds like he was embarrassed and you didn't help him get past those feelings, essentially foisting the burden of performance on him while you stood back and judged. Not a fun sexual encounter. How would you feel if you were him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:19 PM
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Would you have required him to be hard while he does all that work to get you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:17 PM
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Dude come on, some women are rancid, have you never heard of bacterial vaginosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:04 PM
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What was so great about their sexual experience then, enlighten us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:03 PM
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In Columbia, prostitute parties? I can fathom, never been though. So youre contention is that girls in sex work like anal more? Do you meet any sexy trans at those parties? I see you don't have any issues with shaming as long as you're the one doing it. Correct. Shame can be beneficial or harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:02 PM
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So you are willing to settle for a woman you don’t like. Its not settling. Its acknowledging that while there is overlap, women and men think of sex differently and so there will always be things that don't mesh. How is it settling for her, when it is SHE who does not want to fully commit to being in sexual zone of a man and fulfilling all his little kinks and fetishes? We’re talking about sex that is totally possible and real that many men do have. Are we? Theres lots of sex that the average wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:55 PM
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I suspect I live in a very different world than you Oh why do you say that? What world do you live in? I'm not emotional, you are confusing hat with needling people for their terrible takes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:25 AM
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You find pleasure in degrading them through the ass. Oooooh how taboo, kinky, so exciting ! Honestly dude, being obsessed with anal is lame as fuck. I don't know how women put up with guys like you. Just go fuck a man if you like anal sex so much, or a trans. You clearly never even asked or talked to them about it "I don't know what they think about it, maybe they think this which is fine for me, or maybe they think that which is fine for me, as long as I get to fuck them in the ass"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:32 AM
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Lots of straight women are interested in bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:22 AM
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Anal is like the most banal thing about sex that one could compare. Thats whats wrong with it. Its not a realistic example of the type of insecurity men face about receiving unequal, unenthusiastic sexual treatment from women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:18 AM
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Thats what you implied. You were so eager to shame men who don't get hard as easily as other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:15 AM
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But to you it's still "disrespectful?" I said I would dislike the girl because she is being disrespectful about her exes size. hese topics are about anal sex because that's men's unique focus here. You'd have to ask them. Second common act is probably threesomes, but for this particular topic it's anal by far the majority of the time. So that's why my post is about anal - I'm just going by what men here obsess over. I don't obsess over anal sex or threesomes (unless it was her degrading herself …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:14 AM
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A man must get hard exactly when you want him to or else hes doing something wrong, that is body shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:08 AM
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Thank god mongo is banned, that guy was the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:07 AM
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Why don't we try talking about any other sex act besides anal? Can we give that a go? Or are women going to keep obsessively bringing up anal sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:05 AM
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You literally go out hunting for women who enjoy the thrill of being degraded by having their ass penetrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:04 AM
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If you like something and it’s enjoyable to you, wouldn’t it be just settling to be with someone who won’t do that with you? No, because men have many kinks and ways of thinking about sex that women do not find appealing. As a man you know women aren't going to see sex the way you do, and your not going to be able to have sex with her exactly as you would want in your perfect fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:02 AM
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Its women who are using this bullshit anal hypothetical as a gotcha. They assume when men talk about wanting to receive the same sexual treatment as part partners that all they are thinking about is stupid ass anal sex, even though theres a billion other ways a woman can treat different men differently in bed that have nothing to do with anal sex, and none of the women are talking about those ways, just focusing on "anal"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:01 AM
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Then you throw fits when a guy needs a bit to get a proper erection and you girls ruin sex with your judgement and body shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:57 AM
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I don't like anal sex. Why are all these topics about anal sex? What about screaming on a big dick praising another mans cock? Will she do the same for me? What about eating my ass?, outdoor sex, what about praising me Also I would dump that bitch because shes disrespecting her small dick partner by treating him different than me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:54 AM
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The best at what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:45 AM
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No. Not in his brain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:19 PM
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It means it, foreplay, does not turn him on, so he lacks interest in it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:17 PM
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Not even a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:16 PM
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Women are attracted to men older than them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:44 PM
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Wow. Btw he wants kids with you to claim you, not because of control. Hes like an NBA player with 8 baby mommas. He likes leaving his mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:09 PM
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I think the worst thing would be to be trapped with a woman and kids when she loved other guys more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:08 PM
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lmao, but ignorance is bliss for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:07 PM
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The detail I remember the most was a woman saying that she thought wrinkles were horrid when she was young, and found them sexy by the time she was 40 Thats just a representation of womens disturbing sexuality of always needing the man to seem more "mature" and "daddy-like", they want this dynamic so bad, they convince themselves wrinkles are sexy. They decided they aren't sexy to younger men and because their sexuality is reactive, they then feel little attraction to younger men. Honestly femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:03 PM
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Not when its lies. Then it don't fly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:57 PM
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dying system Its not dying. I am flourishing. And so will my family. lmao, you doomers are hilarious. THeres no reasoning with you. Let me give you some advice. Dump which ever doomer loser BF you have and date a guy with a vision, an ego, and a sense of adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:56 PM
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Actions reverberate through a persons life. We are the culmination of our actions and experiences. If she has experienced things that make her see me as lesser, than I am devalued. Honestly how can you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:51 PM
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Ya autistic women are kind crazy when it comes to sex and often have a very "male" brain when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:54 AM
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explaining in any meaningful way, how amazing, big dicked and all the orgasms the previous bf gave her I ask women about past sex they had. If she wants to lie about stuff and hide things, thats up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:53 AM
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You wouldn't have to tell him. He would likely know you think hes worse by other signs that you give off, if hes self aware and observant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:51 AM
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Either take your partner as they are or move on. I just need to know who they are first, and that requires knowing about her sexual history. Then I can choose to "take her as she is"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:49 AM
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18? How can you have any relevant opinions about purplepilldebate when you never even dated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:47 AM
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Shes autistic, so that is one thing. Normal brained women settle all the time, and don't choose average random men for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:46 AM
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Ya you can just pick big dick charismatic studs out for "FBWs" and casual sex, like picking fruit at a grocery store. So why settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:44 AM
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Oh, what changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:42 AM
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You arent the type of woman hes talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:41 AM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:35 AM
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Ok, keep hiding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:30 AM
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Women say their bodies expand and accommodate larger members when properly aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:26 AM
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Gay and trans love fucking huge penis, even though it should theoretically be painful and they should prefer a small penis for anal sex. Guess what they are looking for? Hung.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:21 AM
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She wanted to have children and be a wife, having serious relationships but got sucked into the world of casual sex and pretending like she was a slut and could have casual NSA sex, because thats what she was taught by feminist culture. Even though it didn't make her happy. She would just fall for which ever guy she had casual sex with and get hurt after it was obviously casual. Modern culture has fucked up women so good with hypersexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:10 AM
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No, its a common opinion I see from women all over the internet, trashing 69ing. They NEVER trash big dicks though. If you have a big dick, youre in the clear. Even better if you can sexually-culturally dominate another groups women with your big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:06 AM
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Nope, we were just talking about sex and how to make her orgasm. Anyway I did dump her. She was a good girl who was being encouraged to be a slut by modern pop culture, shes another example how the current culture makes women into sluts, women that in the past would have been good girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:04 AM
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Larger penis hardly ever hurts, and it more than makes up for it by the lust and status a woman feels for being with a hung man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:55 AM
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No, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:54 AM
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Nah, I am going to keep asking. And the answer is bad, then I'll dump her. THats how I protect myself and maintain my dignity. You apparently don't care about whether or not your man can feel proud to be by your side. You want to have a bunch of skeletons in your closet that he doesnt know about. Gross!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:50 AM
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How about "i love sex with you, but my last ex made me cum a lot easier"? Should I dump her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:49 AM
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I love 69. Should I now avoid it and be insecure because apparently its something all women hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:43 AM
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What if she liked having sex with a big penis and now is with a man who doesn't have one? She wants to do it again, but cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:42 AM
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If youre wife/gf loves you then why would she be offended by you being insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:41 AM
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They post videos of them having crazy sex on the internet all the time. There are 100,000s of videos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:40 AM
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Big dick studs have power over women that an average man won't have so of course they will feel like they are in a hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:39 AM
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What about penis size, do the tastes vary there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:37 AM
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So what happens when you genuinely enjoyed having sex with a big dick but now you are with a man who doesn't have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:36 AM
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What if they liked being fucked by a big dick in the past but you don't have one? What if they had a kinky taboo sexual encounter with a man of a different ethnicity that is not you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:35 AM
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I talk to girls about their sexual history once i feeel comfortable with them. Shocking i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:34 AM
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Specific sex acts may require athleticism, specific skills, specific preparation, a good attitude, and trust. don't forget, a certain size penis is important
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:33 AM
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f a woman likes you, your presence is enough and everything else pretty much does not matter. lmao, thats silly and untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:32 AM
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Just say that you are a good girl and you have trouble understanding the behavior of whores/sluts/hypersexual/promiscuous women. Then you can stop acting shocked with every new reply from a man describing a situation that you think doesn't apply to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:31 AM
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When will people get it through their thick heads, that womens sexuality is REACTIVE and men can control a womans sexuality through his demeanor and MAKE HER REACT DIFFERENTLY TO HIM THEN SHE WILL TO ANOTHER MAN. Open your eyes people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:29 AM
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There’s been positions I’ve thoroughly enjoyed with previous boyfriends but can’t do with my current partner - because of anatomy differences. lmao. Did some men also slap your face but other men were a little to timid so you didn't "vibe" with that kind of sex from him? Let us know more of your double standards and how men control your reactive sexuality with their own attitude, demeanor, and penis size??? I want to know more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:27 AM
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I enjoy fucking quiet women who don't say much and just offer their body to me. So yes I guess. When you fantasize about being with a woman is she just laying there looking good? I don't even think about her face. I only sexually fantasize about her body and what I'm doing in relation to it. Yes its nice when women are enthusiastic, but often times its just a test. Shes just performing to see how you will perform. And if you don't perform good then all that "enthusiasm" goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:21 AM
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Damn, how does she lose custody? Drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:16 AM
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Yes. But my dad is a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:16 AM
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How do you know that she feels it unless she's performing? Are you psychic? SHe has to tell me. ANd explain how shes felt about men in the past and how it all ties together with the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:09 AM
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Thats cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:02 AM
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Meanwhile you just have to look after yourself and feed all your hedonistic narcissistic desires and that is all your life will be devoted towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:01 AM
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Poverty is the biggest indicator for criminal behaviour later in life. Actually race and culture is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:59 AM
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All you have to do is tell a man hes better than other man to make him feel romantic and desired. But thats too much for you, isn't it? Because you know its a lie and youve fucked many more impressive men than him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:58 AM
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They are very comparable. In both situations one party is DEVALUED by the other party
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:57 AM
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Tough shit? lmao, ok keep it up. Enjoy being in your harems while your husband feels like a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:47 AM
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I don't need to have a sexual need to feel humiliated by her meeting another mans outrageous sexual need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:22 PM
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Because you are just saying what I am saying, that men should accept being settled for sexually, but making an extreme statement about being treated like dirt to make it seem unreasonable to want the same treatment and feelings that another man had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:16 PM
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she performs lust for you No, she has to feel lust for me. Not perform it. I don't want sex without connection. I want her to lust for me and connect with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:13 PM
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If a woman has sex with a big dick man, she by definition cannot have the same sex with a small dick man no matter how much she "loves him". Same with a man who has a more impressive, erotic, dominant, confident sexual personality. She can love me more, but I will never make her feel like that man if she happens to jump in bed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:12 PM
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No, it has nothing to do with "deal". It so I can feel sexually validated, special, confident and secure. How do you women not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:10 PM
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I wouldn't be in a relationship where I was treated like dirt. Lets flip the script. Again I think it’s mental illness to be okay with someone’s “best” while they treat you like dirt, but cling to the fact that it is their “best” because she treated her exes like dirt too. "Again I think its mental illness to feel secure that you are her best and because she treats you the best and didn't get dick-matized by a more impressive man in her past who made her feel things that you cannot." Is what I r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:06 PM
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Oh so she never fucked some guy who was a way different "type" than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:02 PM
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Good for you, then you are not the kind of woman who makes a man feel asexual and low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:02 PM
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know how to chat up woman get laid at some point. Ya with women who are uglier than them. Meanwhile you can go to a bar and fuck far above your level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:01 PM
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No its rational women control everything about sex and hand it out to men of their choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:00 PM
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Then you don't need to worry about her being compatible with you. Just whether you're compatible with her. I don't care about being compatible, I want her to lust after me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:59 PM
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The second one is more humiliating for sure. The first one is less humiliating if I can actually understand what goes on inside her head and know that she TRULY is not impressed by a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:12 PM
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Yeah drunk women sleep with men less conventionally attractive than them often No they don't. Its very rare. Wrong. YOu re just straight up wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:11 PM
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You start finding that out long before actually having sex, dude. Thats not my experience at all. Sex is completely different from going out on dates or "making out" a bit after a date. Her "performance" is so essential that you need it asap SHE DOESN"T PERFORM. Women DO NOT PERFORM. All she has to do is ACCEPT ME, and I will enjoy her. That is too much for most women, because women DEMAND PERFORMANCE NOT MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:10 PM
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He gets to feel wanted? Like he's enough or he gets sex? Haha you say this like its nothing, like its not one of the most important things in the world for a mans positive mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:07 PM
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Yep, and only women consistently sleep with men better looking than them. I am an attractive man, and have only been able to sleep with women who look like me after "putting in the time". Meanwhile I have had "fbws" and booty calls, ONLY with women who are uglier than me or otherwise lacking. Meanwhile I've seen men some of my woman friends who look like me can attract, they can have sex with whoever they want. Height dick size race, they can choose it all if they want
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:06 PM
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But then you'll never really know your partner. Its all a facade. I'd rather know the depths of my partner AND feel secure. Not have to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:58 PM
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Women are very attracted to men who are better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:54 PM
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A woman would make him less depressed for sure. This is such a narcissistic response, you realize the average woman SPECIFICALLY goes out looking for man to relieve her of her negative feelings and give her validation, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:53 PM
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I would feel ok and I would be able to train her to appreciate me then in that way and she'd most likely enjoy learning to let those feelings loose with me. I just had this experience actually. She made oral sex so technical and was so insecure about "her skills" that initially it was completely unerotic, there was no lust. But we got passed that once she understood the feelings I was looking for. That was much more satisfying than a girl whose enthusiastic about oral but has been with a billion…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:51 PM
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Its always about anal with you people. There many ways that women give some men more sexual validation than other men. Most men don't even like anal. Lets talk about those other ways and leave anal out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:46 PM
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Off topic but I am considering getting into golfing at a later age. Is there a reason you stopped golfing? Most recently I went to a bachelor party and felt pretty left out because one of the days was all golfing focused
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:44 PM
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having other partners for years So who did she pick when she was picking other partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:42 PM
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that is a sign of misplaced priorities and terrible decision making. No, its a sign of caring about your own value. You are getting the BEST from that person. If her BEST, is shit, then you are still getting her BEST. Giving her BEST to another man and not to you, is humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:38 PM
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Imagine your wife giggling and praising another mans huge cock, treating it with scared or knowing lust, different than she treats you. Telling him "give me that big dick babe" (she won't say that to you, because its not true) Meanwhile shes your wife, he only had a her a couple times. You "won" right? Right....? Can someone convince me that you won this exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:35 PM
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RIght, so it didn't help you with men. And it won't help him with women. Only women can help him with women. If a woman loved him, he would be helped. He wouldn't have written this silly post. But women only love certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:32 PM
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Lots of women fuck their first choices all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:30 PM
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Don't deny that theres a lot of oofy doofys out there either though....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:30 PM
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But with normal women who don’t see sex as something they give and men take, men don’t have to earn it. Men have to be more attractive to the women to not have to earn sex. Its called dating down. Less stress. It’s all chemistry and vibes. Which you are more likely to feel with men who are far more attractive than you are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:28 PM
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I suggest you try therapy Oh, what did therapy help you with, if you are so confident to suggest it? Did you need therapy to attract men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:26 PM
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Which is why a lot of women performed a lot of services for men. A lot of services but never romance, right? Only men had to perform romance, never women. Women just "experienced" it. Talk about privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:24 PM
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Romance is a skill men learn. Which women then experience the fruits and labor of. Its definitely not a mutual experience, nothing is between a man and a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:22 PM
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Find my sexual abilities and body impressive and desirable, close to the best she can get. A "perfect match" for her desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:20 PM
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K, well keep getting on your knees for men while thinking about how useless they are lol. Doesn't change what you want from them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:19 PM
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Humans are brainwashed I find that you are brainwashed by your leftist ideology. Kids do not need to be rich to have rich successful lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:18 PM
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I am going to have at least 3 kids, while you wither and vote to destroy our countries while providing nothing back to society. Those kids will receive far more unconditional (well a few conditions) love then you will even know is possible, because you will have no understanding of the capacity of it, being childless and just worshiping your mans dick and your dog or whatever as a stand in for children
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:14 PM
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Definitely getting married to a woman who I know values me. You can enjoy lying to your husband about your past I guess. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:13 PM
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It's usually very selfish. People want to pass on their "legacy." They want "mini-me"s. They want the satisfaction and social approval that comes with being a parent. They prefer bio kids because they think their genetics are something special. (They're not. lol). They don't want to "die alone." They want to feel normal. They don't want to miss out on what others experience. None of that is "selfish". Thats like saying wanting a high paying career and a high status job is "selfish". You are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:11 PM
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And the fact that she frames male autonomy to dump her ass when she gets old and ugly as "unfair" says what about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:09 PM
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The currency is sex. Sexual thrill is the modern currency for modern women. Its why certain groups have more sex with modern women than other groups despite being far poorer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:59 AM
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If youre sexually submitting to us, we must be worth quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:58 AM
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