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DiscussionIll-Parsley-2473/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:49 AM
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Ill-Parsley-2473/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:34 PM
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Ill-Parsley-2473/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:43 PM
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How do they get greasy? Not showering?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:43 PM
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Wow. I was just about to say this. There was a receptionist I flirted with who I thought was a little bit out of my league. But she was always sitting behind a desk and I never saw her butt. She changed jobs and I saw her butt and lost interest. By that time it seemed she had a little crush on me and it was awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:36 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:43 PM
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A man can not give birth. Let's say a woman making $50,000 dates a man making $100,000. You can only call that "dating up" if you disregard her ability to give birth and be a mother. It's comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:42 PM
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I included the words "just a thought" to indicate that my post was the spontaneous expression of a thought. If people want to debate in the comments, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:39 PM
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How are men discriminated against in employment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:36 PM
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There you go. "There is nothing to do with birth". If you leave childbirth out of this concept it makes no sense and has no meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:35 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:32 PM
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Hypocrisy is not unique to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:31 PM
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You silly!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:30 PM
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What if they have a great relationship? That would be a good reason to stick with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:29 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:27 PM
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That must be how I got AIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:41 AM
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Thanks babe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:15 AM
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They love the way it makes their neckbeards glow with manly vitality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:09 AM
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"Just be yourself" is naive and simplistic. But it's possible to learn about dating and women without joining a bizarre, bitter, laughable, misogynistic, immature subculture like red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:04 AM
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They are great at videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:01 AM
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I'm closer to the second so I'd be more compatible with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:28 AM
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The whole point of the question is which would you choose if you can't have a balance of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:26 AM
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Why would you pass the time with someone standoffish, unpleasant, and uninteresting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:32 AM
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Loving and being loved feels better than the best orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:23 PM
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It IS fair that not everyone "gets sex". Sex is not a necessity like food and shelter. Nor is it a commodity that can or should be equitably distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:27 AM
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Wah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:00 PM
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That's immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:17 AM
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I have always understood that. I was criticizing your long, weird lists of frat-boy type activities. You seem to think there only two ways to live: being an out of control frat boy goon or getting married, settling down, and having kids. That's quite unimaginative and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:23 PM
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That's a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:12 PM
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You seem to be proving the op's point by mocking someone who is not interested in marriage. Marriage is one type of relationship. There is no ideal relationship. Whatever works for people works. I am suspicious of people who sneer at the word "fun" as if fun is just for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:15 PM
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He didn't list all those obnoxious and dangerous activities. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:46 PM
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Having fun is not the opposite of maturity and responsibility, and the way you describe fun makes you sound like not much fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:44 PM
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Yeah, i don't know why i replied to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:41 PM
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I think there is probably a better word. It does imply entitlement. I don't withhold my attention or money from telemarketers. I just don't give it to them. When I didn't want to have sex with past lovers and girlfriends, I wasn't withholding anything. And I have never felt like a woman was withholding sex from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:07 PM
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This language is weird to me: "had sex withheld from them". It implies that men are entitled to sex and women are withholding it, rather than simply choosing not to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:53 PM
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What do whores have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:50 PM
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I see a lot of bitterness and hate in Red Pill culture and if you don't then you're blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:34 PM
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I don't have any major problems with red pill. I think it is silly. It's named after something from a comic booky neckbeard trenchcoat movie. I don't like the fantasy of learning "the truth" all at once, by taking a magic pill of knowledge. Men and women are different and learning about those differences is a life-long process. Red pill stuff may be helpful in some ways if it's an improvement on a man's previous dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:31 PM
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I listened to their podcast and they were talking about "leveling up" in various aspects of their lives. They were focusing on self-improvement and self-esteem. Although they are bitter and angry about men, they did not seem like bitter and angry people. I think their critics don't "get" how much of what they write is trolling and venting. I believe they are taking a break from caring about the feelings of insecure men because they found that unrewarding and exhausting in previous relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:22 PM
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I don't think that's the same. The red pill guidance is much more controversial than standard medical and health advice. It's natural to be skeptical of these weirdos if they don't practice what they preach, or if they practice it and don't get good results.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:18 PM
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Those men were already on their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:46 PM
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I saw that one. I see that kind of rhetoric as hyperbole, exaggeration, and venting. I am not a dad and have never wanted to be one. I understand how a caring, responsible father could read that and be offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:32 AM
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I think "one-upping" incels is pretty funny, but a lot of people disagree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:03 AM
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I agree with that. I heard a lot about it so I checked it out. The outrage I saw about it elsewhere on reddit seems excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:08 AM
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Why? It isn't mainstream. It doesn't reflect how most women date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:42 AM
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Thanks. I feel better about myself after reading a lot of these replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:00 AM
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I am not bothered by the existence of those subs, but I've never looked at the incel one and only looked at redpill for a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:36 PM
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They are serious about a lot of it, and they are also trolling people like yourself. How well their strategies work I don't know and I don't care. That's not my business. But the trolling definitely works and it's pretty damn funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:09 PM
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Nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:21 PM
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You don't honestly feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:31 PM
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Yes, I considered that. But I feel better about myself after reading a lot of these replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:25 PM
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"Really really liking someone" is unusual. It's not the same as just liking someone. For those seeking a life-long relationship it's pretty important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:19 PM
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That's ridiculous. Everyone should have a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:48 AM
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Average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:46 AM
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I didn't see anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:25 AM
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What if you looked at sex as an interaction instead of a commodity to "get"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:57 PM
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This is so stupid. Casual sex is not relationship sex, and a relationship is not just a means to get laid, unless you're an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:52 PM
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It's not lowering your standards if you have different standards for different types of relationships. The standards remain the same for each type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:48 PM
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That's the great a point. It's the stifling of emotion that leads to the outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:33 PM
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The concept of the "purple pill" gives me hope. There's a desire for understanding. There's a lot of bitterness and alienation between the sexes but there's also great desire for understanding and connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:19 AM
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I see what you're saying. That's why I said it may be helpful for some people. I'm just rolling my eyes a lot and feeling sad and disgusted at some of the attitudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:44 AM
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I'm glad you have it all figured out. Go forth and multiply!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:59 AM
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Yes. Insane in the membrane!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:59 AM
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I think these guys are missing out on a lot. It may be helpful for some people to take "the red pill" if it's an improvement on their mindset before they took it. Yes, men and women are different. Yes, women do not always want what they say they want, or even what they think they want. Most people figure that out without getting involved in an angry, cynical, adolescent subculture. Sex and relationships are complicated and learning is a lifelong process. There's no single, magic moment when some…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:51 AM
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Chill out with the never and always. Life is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:42 AM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:40 AM
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I don't disagree with the idea that it's something to be careful about. I disagree with the red pill overdose guys who say "NEVER let your guard down." Vulnerability is simply part of being human and without it there is no intimacy and really no life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:08 AM
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Okay modern women expert. Even if you are dominant in bed, you are still vulnerable. Sex is an inherently vulnerable situation. She can bite your dick off. She can accuse you of rape. She can laugh at you. She can reject you. She can make you fall in love. She can give you the best blowjob you've ever had and you won't stop thinking about it. She can get pregnant and now you're a dad. Etc. etc. forever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:17 PM
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It is a vulnerable situation no matter what. If you don't trust someone, don't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:40 PM
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No, I'm not. Vulnerability does not equal whining and crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:10 PM
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I agree with you. I started a new thread because I thought the one I was reacting to was ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:08 PM
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I have been in relationships. There's a big difference between being careful and mindful about what you share, and NEVER letting your guard down. If I could never let my guard down with someone, I would consider that person my enemy and try to have as little to do with her as possible. Furthermore, just as women can be turned off and repelled by men's emotional displays, so can men be turned off and repelled by women's emotional displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:04 PM
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He was talking both. He was saying you should wait at least six years before showing ANY kind of vulnerability, because there's no way of knowing how a particular woman will react to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:53 PM
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Showing vulnerability is part of being emotionally stable. It doesn't mean crying and whining all the time. Being alive is a vulnerable condition and those who deny that are not emotionally stable. They're repressed, afraid, and fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:50 PM
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Crying is one of many forms of vulnerability. So is laughing. So is experiencing any form of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:44 PM
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I forgot to add that the best sex requires vulnerability. For most people, even decent sex requires some vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:37 PM
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