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You are entitled to your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/25 04:06 PM
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Most fit muscular guys are generally considered attractive by women. At least physically. That’s what I meant.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/25 05:03 AM
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I think he is just trying to get laid so he tells you everything you want to hear. Plus, he likes Andrew Tate. Are you familiar with his opinions? Any good man will say that he might agree with certain points of view Tate has. Maybe. But like him? That’s impossible. Tate is a great strategist, businessman, very articulate, intelligent, attractive, rich etc etc. But everytime he talks about women and why they are great, he always mentions things like how they take good care of you, how they give …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 04:16 PM
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Not a feminist at all. It’s called self respect.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 09:06 AM
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And I think you are just looking for somebody to confirm that what you want to do is the right thing. It’s not. HE SAID HE DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU OR HAVE KIDS BECAUSE OF YOUR PAST. If you think that’s just temporary you are delusional!! And how could you even be with a man who sees other women as “pounds of flesh”? That’s low level living. Disgusting.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 08:51 AM
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OP, you are just an option among many others. The sooner you accept this, the better. A man of his caliber who thinks a virgin is ideal will never commit to a lady who made Snapchat videos having sex with her ex. I can understand you are super enthusiastic about having all your material needs met, but this will satisfy you only temporary. There is only one thing that truly makes us women happy: to be the one and only. For a man who provides well for us, of course. A rich, tall, intelligent man w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 08:36 AM
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Yes you can do better. A man that respects you. All this nonsense about how it’s better to cry in a bugatti is exactly that: nonsense. You are literally sacrificing your dignity to be with this man. Being humiliated yet not having to work and being bought gifts is a better alternative than being treated like a worthy human being? To commit means to be faithful. Which he will never be. You are delusional.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 08:18 AM
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Girl. Seriously. Such a man will always have hundreds of options and so he’ll want to keep the door open at all times. You are dreaming if you think it’s temporary. This man will only have sides chicks because HE AFFORDS IT. Any woman sticking around is just a lazy ass with no self respect. Come on. You can do better than this.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 07:49 AM
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Helpful advice: considering the other issues that upset you, try couples therapy. If your husband is up for it. Or individual therapy. If anything else I said bothers you, skip it. You seem dissatisfied and overall unhappy with your marriage. That cannot be because of one reason. One of the most common issue us women have is that we lie about our feelings. We pretend we’re fine when we’re not. In your post, you said he asked you what’s wrong, and you said you were ok when in fact you weren’t. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 04:06 PM
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It’s important to understand if your issue is a one-time occurrence or a part of a larger pattern or trend. I’d treat each separately. You pretend it’s an isolated case. However your post history shows it’s not. Do you want genuine opinions that could help (which requires you to be honest and own your relationship history) or just a pat on the back or pity?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 02:46 PM
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Yeah. Considering the extend to which they change your life forever and potentially make it harder, I would plan something like that. And I’d do it with my wellbeing in mind, for me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 02:02 PM
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I agree with your point of view regarding having one father for your kids instead of 2 or more. However kids are a great responsability that shouldn’t be romanticized. If you are already unhappy and your relationship is miserable, then figure that shit out before bringing a new human being in the picture. Yet people choose to ignore their reality and live comfortably in their bubble hoping (aka being delusional) that somehow things will turn out fine by chance . They won’t.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 01:21 PM
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Is this the guy who was still on dating apps 4 months in your relationship? And whom you said you don’t like very much and you feel miserable being married to? Whom you married just cause you got pregnant? It is beyond me why a woman would choose to bring not one but two children into this world with this man and in these circumstances. Considering your post history about this relationship, your problem is not that he doesn’t make plans with you. It’s way bigger than that. If I were you I’d go t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 12:59 PM
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You are not wrong for wanting what you want. However, it appears that he wouldn’t like you being fully dependent on him. If he gets frustrated because he sees no other ambition in you besides supporting him, that will soon grow into lack of attraction for you because he will see you as ‘not having a life outside him’. So you’re not wrong. But he’s not wrong either. You both want different things.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/25 05:32 AM
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His porn addiction is probably a coping mechanism for some issues he has. That is of course not an excuse. Most of the times though, such issues cannot be dealt with and healed unless he is in therapy. Keep in mind that a man is always defined by what he does, not what he says he’d do. Men talk a lot. And they know women fall in love with what they hear, so they use it as strategy. He hasn’t done much and yet you waited and waited and gave him the benefit of the doubt. When a person consistently…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 09:46 AM
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You don’t stand up for yourself and what you actually want. And he sees that. So he doesn’t take you seriously. Because you don’t take yourself seriously. If you have any love for him, take all that and pour it into yourself. You’ll be way better off.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/25 11:02 AM
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I think you are exactly what he needs. Trust yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 08:29 AM
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You could use a Fitness Guide for guidance. I have a link with a bunch of them. I'm pretty sure you can find some for home workouts. Pm for the link.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 10:50 AM
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No, I wouldn't say that's what led to us breaking up, but it has influenced our relationship a lot. If both you and your partner accept that you don't have a secure attachment style and need to work on that for the relationship to last, you have a good chance to stay together. In my case, my partner didn't cooperate much, but tried to better himself because I was encouraging him to. The desire to improve himself was mine more than it was his, so the results of that were him trying hard yet being…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 02:32 PM
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I've been in a similar situation, just that I was the one with the anxious attachment style. I read a book which helped me understand the dynamics of my relationships as I was clueless but felt that something was off. It's called Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-and Keep- Love, by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller. You should easily find the pdf online, but if you can't, I might still have it on my laptop. I used to watch a lot of YouTube videos about this t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 08:43 PM
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