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Flowers are an easy, eloquent expression of love at a time when words can seem clumsy and inadequate. You are, after all, what you think. Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions. To answer your question no i am not bcos a poet is, before anything else, a person who is passionately in love with language.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 04:08 PM
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Agreeing to disagree is not the threat. The threat is our unwillingness to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 12:24 PM
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Everything that is made beautiful and fair and lovely is made for the eye of one who sees. Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot. Because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 12:19 PM
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Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. It shouldn't be easy to be amazing. Then everything would be. It's the things you fight for and struggle with before earning that have the greatest worth. When something's difficult to come by, you'll do that much more to make sure it's even harder or impossible to lose. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you coura…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 08:36 PM
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Self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy, let alone compassion. When we focus on ourselves, our world contracts as our problems and preoccupations loom large. But when we focus on others, our world expands. Our own problems drift to the periphery of the mind and so seem smaller, and we increase our capacity for connection or compassionate action. It can be difficult to leave a long-term relationship, even when our inner-wisdom tells us it's time to let go. At this point, we can choose let …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:55 PM
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It was one thing to make a mistake; it was another thing to keep making it. I knew what happened when you let yourself get close to someone, when you started to believe they loved you: you'd be disappointed. Depend on someone, and you might as well admit you're going to be crushed, because when you really needed them, they wouldn't be there. Either that, or you'd confide in them and you added to their problems. All you ever really had was yourself, and that sort of sucked if you were less than r…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:44 PM
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Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity. Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:40 PM
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Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. Nobody ever figures out what life is all about, and it doesn't matter. Explore the world. Nearly everything is really interesting if you go into it deeply enough. People say that where there’s life, there’s hope, and I have no quarrel with that, but I also believe the reverse. There is hope, therefore I live. No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to co…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:32 PM
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A genuine relationship is one that is not dominated by the ego with its image-making and self-seeking. In a genuine relationship, there is an outward flow of open, alert attention toward the other person in which there is no wanting whatsoever. The key to nature's therapy is feeling like a tiny part of it, not a master over it. There's amazing pride in seeing a bee land on a flower you planted - but that's not your act of creation, it's your act of joining in. You can justify anything. If you’re…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:24 PM
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I am very sorry to hear that you can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:00 PM
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Destroying things is much easier than making them. Not all who hesitate are lost. The psyche has many secrets in reserve. And these are not disclosed unless required. There are no extra pieces in the universe. Everyone is here because he or she has a place to fill, and every piece must fit itself into the big jigsaw puzzle. Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:57 PM
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Sorry about that yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:42 PM
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To give your positive or negative attention to something is a way of giving energy. The most damaging form of behavior is withholding your attention. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:39 PM
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The biggest risk is not taking any risk... In a world that is changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks. Surround yourself with people who make you happy, folks who reliably care about you. They are the ones that are worthy of custody in your life. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:27 PM
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Direction is more important than speed. You can go fast in the wrong direction. Don't fight a battle if you don't gain anything by winning. Like water which can clearly mirror the sky and the trees only so long as its surface is undisturbed, the mind can only reflect the true image of the Self when it is tranquil and wholly relaxed.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 03:16 PM
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No man should judge unless he asks himself in absolute honesty whether in a similar situation he might not have done the same.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 03:09 PM
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That's the thing about depression: A human being can survive almost anything, as long as she sees the end in sight. But depression is so insidious, and it compounds daily, that it's impossible to ever see the end.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 03:06 PM
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Your partner may have injuries that you cannot repair. Your partner may be trapped in a dark room without windows. Your life narrative might bring him more relief than an opiate. Some people make better windows than windows. Your kind words and enlightened perspective is a window of wonders to someone living in pain.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 03:04 PM
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Happiness is determined by factors like your health, your family relationships and friendships, and above all by feeling that you are in control of how you spend your time.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 10:49 AM
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It is not time or opportunity that is to determine intimacy it is disposition alone. Seven years would be insufficient to make some people acquainted with each other, and seven days are more than enough for others. You have to be prepared that some opportunities will work out and others won't, and that's ok. You can’t win everywhere. The more opportunities you get, the more rejections you will receive. It's simply a numbers game. Once you have tasted flight, you will forever walk the earth with …
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 10:46 AM
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Like the marriage contract you entered into, your divorce is a legal transaction. Treat it that way. Try not to let emotion, hurt, fear or anger dictate the circumstances of your discussions or negotiations. Once you embrace your value, talents and strengths, it neutralizes when others think less of you.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 10:32 AM
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Commitment means that it is possible for a man to yield the nerve center of his consent to a purpose or cause, a movement or an ideal, which may be more important to him than whether he lives or dies. Looking back is a way to sharpen the focus on the things you want to change in your life. I think there's something about nostalgia that really puts a fine point on the here and now, and that can be incredibly fascinating and interesting and engaging for the mind. Life has got a habit of not standi…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 10:27 AM
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When people get married because they think it's a long-time love affair, they'll be divorced very soon, because all love affairs end in disappointment. But marriage is a recognition of a spiritual identity. Life is very, very short, and you can choose to live it how you want. You can choose to dumb yourself down and not express yourself just so you can fit in, just so people won't dislike you. What we wait around a lifetime for with one person, we can find in a moment with someone else. Promises…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 10:05 AM
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If you want to travel in this universe for a long time, you should stop and rest on the way from time to time and reward yourself. Look everywhere you can to cut a little bit from your expenses. It will all add up to a meaningful sum. If you spend a week at a casino you will very easily see that people have a certain way of behaving in a casino.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 09:54 AM
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Confidence is the most important single factor in this game, and no matter how great your natural talent, there is only one way to obtain and sustain it: work. Custody and guardianship by the parent of his child does not arise under the Constitution, laws or treaties of the United States and is not dependent on them. The Myth of the Amicable Divorce. The strength men and women can draw from hate trumps any strength they ever drew from love. Hope and wishes for all that delights will sour in the …
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 08:02 AM
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Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create. All kids need is a little help, a little hope and somebody who believes in them. Confine yourself to observing and you always miss the point of your life. The object can be stated this way: Live the best life you can. Life is a game whose rules you learn if you leap into it and play it to the hilt. Otherwise, you are caught off balance, continually surprised by the shifting play. Non-players often whine …
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 07:47 AM
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Luck is a very thin wire between survival and disaster, and not many people can keep their balance on it. You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 12:31 AM
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Life will take its toll on all of us. We get injured, we get old. It's really sad to try to run away from these harsh realities of life. Looks are not everything. I am not going to look beautiful all the time. Once you had put the pieces back together, even though you may look intact, you were never quite the same as you'd been before the fall. Experience has shown, and a true philosophy will always show, that a vast, perhaps the larger portion of the truth arises from the seemingly irrelevant. …
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 12:26 AM
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The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand. If you judge a person that you don't even know by the tattoos they have, the piercings they have, the way they dress or by how they look to you in general, YOU are the one with the issue, not them. Stop the hate. Live and let live. I have learned from personal experience that putting trust in God means there will be some u…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 12:11 AM
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The garden of love is green without limit and yields many fruits other than sorrow or joy. Love is beyond either condition: without spring, without autumn, it is always fresh. Sure it could get rough sometimes, but life wasn't a Hollywood movie. Shit happened. You fought, you screamed, and somehow you worked like hell to get out the other side still intact. A deep sense of love and belonging is an irreducible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired…
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 05:26 AM
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Don't destroy yourself by allowing negative people add gibberish and debris to your character, reputation, and aspirations. Keep all dreams alive but discreet, so that those with unhealthy tongues won't have any other option than to infest themselves with their own diseases. Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence. Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. Grief can be the garden of compassion. If …
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 05:13 AM
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Absolutely agree with you bcos you don't have to have anything in common with people you've known since you were five. With old friends, you've got your whole life in common. Vulnerability is about showing up and being seen. It's tough to do that when we're terrified about what people might see or think.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 05:09 AM
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There can be no failure to a man who has not lost his courage, his character, his self respect, or his self-confidence. He is still a King. Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better. In the acting game, you spend a long time fighting against what the director perceives you to be. And half the time the directors don't know. Don't be afraid of your fears. They're not there to scare you. They're there to let you know that something is worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 12:24 AM
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Don't give up, be positive and if you know someone who knows someone at a record company don't stop beating down their door till you get heard. Don't ever say it'll never happen or it'll never happen. How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these. Recovery is something that you have to work on every single day and it's …
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 12:17 AM
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Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength. Life is about how much you can take and keep fighting, how much you can suffer and keep moving forward.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 12:08 AM
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When you find your path, you must not be afraid. You need to have sufficient courage to make mistakes. Disappointment, defeat, and despair are the tools God uses to show us the way. A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 11:38 PM
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Leverage is a two edged sword. The edge that can cut you, cuts deeper. The speed of your success is limited only by your dedication and what you're willing to sacrifice. Beauty without grace is the hook without the bait. A man who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself. There are worse things than being al…
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 11:32 PM
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Well to me marriage is the highest state of friendship. If happy, it lessens our cares by dividing them, at the same time that it doubles our pleasures by mutual participation. Never believe that hope is dead. Life will always keep dealing challenges. So, hope is always on the table. You just have to bet on it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 11:17 PM
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If you don't get what you want, you suffer; if you get what you don't want, you suffer; even when you get exactly what you want, you still suffer because you can't hold on to it forever.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 11:09 PM
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Tattoos are like stories they're symbolic of the important moments in your life. Sitting down, talking about where you got each tattoo and what it symbolizes, is really beautiful. It is ridiculous to lay down to people where a thing should stand, design everything for them from the lavatory pan to the ashtray. On the contrary, I like people to move their furniture so that it suits them (not me!), and it's quite natural (and I approve) when they bring the old pictures and mementos they have come …
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 11:07 PM
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Being a mother is an attitude, not a biological relation.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 11:02 PM
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The moment will arrive when you are comfortable with who you are, and what you are bald or old or fat or poor, successful or struggling when you don't feel the need to apologize for anything or to deny anything. To be comfortable in your own skin is the beginning of strength.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/23 12:17 PM
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The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking. When in a relationship, a real man doesn't make his woman jealous of others, he makes others jealous of his woman.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/23 12:14 PM
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The bottom line is that people are never perfect, but love can be, that is the one and only way that the mediocre and the vile can be transformed, and doing that makes it that. Loving makes love. Loving makes itself. We waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love. Wouldn't that be the way to make love stay? My beliefs are that good people who work hard get their rewards. There will be struggle at times and hurdles along the way life throws up all sorts but in th…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 03:48 PM
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Success isn't always about greatness. It's about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. Being a woman is a terribly difficult trade since it consists principally of dealings with men. Agility is about handling the curveballs life pitches at us. It’s being able to respond quickly when you’re caught off guard. When you engage your core to Pause and Think, you can Act by responding thoughtfully when you’re blindsided, instead of reacting instinctually. You don't st…
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 11:16 PM
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Karma comes after everyone eventually. You can't get away with screwing people over your whole life, I don't care who you are. What goes around comes around. That's how it works. Sooner or later the universe will serve you the revenge that you deserve.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 11:06 PM
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A man's vanity is more fragile that you might think. It's easy for us to mistake shyness for coldness, and silence for indifference.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 11:01 PM
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Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world...would do this, it would change the earth. Let us not give way to the temptations of a false self and the illusions of an inflated reality, but let us highlight our deeper self's authenticity and forward the truth of our words and the straightness of our actions. ("With confidence") When the going gets weird, the weird turn professional.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 09:41 PM
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You are welcome, treat everyone with politeness and kindness, not because they are nice, but because you are.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:21 PM
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Nice words and nice appearance doesn't conclude that someone is nice, i believe that the nicer you look, the more deceptive you appear. Everyone has their weak spot. The one thing that, despite your best efforts, will always bring you to your knees, regardless of how strong you are otherwise. A clever person solves a problem. A wise person avoids it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:18 PM
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A clever person solves a problem. A wise person avoids it. The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it. Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection. The more in harmony with yourself you are, the more joyful you are and the more faithful you are. Faith is not to disconnect you from reality it connects you to reality. To be successful you have to be selfish, or else you never achieve…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 12:33 PM
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There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills. To a liar, the most dangerous individual is the person who catches lies but doesn't say anything about it. Then the liar isn't sure which lies are compromised.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 07:18 PM
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Thanks so much for your compliment base to respond to comments and to answer your question no i don't we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 10:55 PM
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Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a person's sexual choice is the result and sum of their fundamental convictions. Tell me what a person finds sexually attractive and I will tell you their entire philosophy of life. Show me the person they sleep with and I will tell you their valuation of themselves. No matter what corruption they're taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, a…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 09:02 AM
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Pity, if one can generalize, is at the bottom of woman. When men like us, it is for our better qualities, and however tender their liking, we dare not be unworthy of it, or they will quietly let us go. But unworthiness stimulates woman. It brings out her deeper nature, for good or for evil.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 09:42 PM
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No horse gets anywhere until he is harnessed. No stream or gas drives anything until it is confined. No Niagara is ever turned into light and power until it is tunneled. No life ever grows great until it is focused, dedicated, disciplined. In society, we do horrible things to one another because we don’t see the person it affects. We don’t see their face. We don’t see them as people. Which was the whole reason the hood was built in the first place, to keep the victims of apartheid out of sight a…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:04 PM
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When you love someone, they become a part of who you are. They're in everything you do. They're in the air you breathe and the water you drink and the blood in your veins. Their touch stays on your skin and their voice stays in your ears and their thoughts stay in your mind. You know their dreams because their nightmares pierce your heart and their good dreams are your dreams too. And you don't think they're perfect, but you know their flaws, the deep-down truth of them, and the shadows of all t…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:40 AM
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It's the truth. I'm sorry to be blunt about it, but girls don't like guys who are doormats. Especially pretty girls, because there's no novelty in it. Guys are hitting on them all of the time. They can't walk down the street or order a coffee or stand on a corner without some idiot making a comment about how attractive they are. And the women smile because it's easier than telling them to go fuck themselves. And less dangerous, because if a man rejects a woman, she goes home and cries for a few …
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:37 AM
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Let us not ruminate on lost cases, creating imaginary scenarios of spite and revenge. Let us honor our valuable mental time, follow a positive road instead, and dump barren and gnawing resentments and destructive anger. Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. Every mistake you make allows you to be honest because what's in the dark will come to light, so it's better to be truthful about it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:34 AM
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There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and will be lost. There's a big difference between being alone and being lonely. And I'm guessing that once you've discovered this distinction you can't go back to solitary confinement without serious emotional repercussions.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:31 AM
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It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on. Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swamps o…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:28 AM
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The real enemies of our life are the 'oughts' and the 'ifs.' They pull us backward into the unalterable past and forward into the unpredictable future. But real life takes place in the here and now. Never assume that the person you are dealing with is weaker or less important than you are. Some people are slow to take offense, which may make you misjudge the thickness of their skin, and fail to worry about insulting them. But should you offend their honor and their pride, they will overwhelm you…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:20 AM
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What you're supposed to do when you don't like a thing is change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Don't complain. By taking the time to stop and appreciate who you are and what you've achieved - and perhaps learned through a few mistakes, stumbles and losses - you actually can enhance everything about you. Self-acknowledgment and appreciation are what give you the insights and awareness to move forward toward higher goals and accomplishments. It is better to be hate…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:14 AM
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The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature. When we overthink, we stop acting boldly and hide behind our endless streams of questions, objections, and insecurities. We drive away people and opportunities that are meant to be in our lives by overwhelming them with our expectations, stipulations, and worries. We shut off our hearts and allow our minds to w…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:11 AM
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Do things that make you happy within the confines of the legal system. Each of us has a vision of good and of evil. We have to encourage people to move towards what they think is good... Everyone has his own idea of good and evil and must choose to follow the good and fight evil as he conceives them. That would be enough to make the world a better place. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:04 AM
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The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 11:01 AM
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Life is not always a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes, playing a poor hand well. If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:59 AM
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Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world...would do this, it would change the earth. In the space between yes and no, there's a lifetime. It's the difference between the path you walk and the one you leave behind; it's the gap between who you thought you could be and who you really are; its the legroom for the lies you'll tell yourself in the future. We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We …
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:56 AM
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The relation between what we see and what we know is never settled. Each evening we see the sun set. We know that the earth is turning away from it. Yet the knowledge, the explanation, never quite fits the sight.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:47 AM
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From the fact that people are very different it follows that, if we treat them equally, the result must be inequality in their actual position, and that the only way to place them in an equal position would be to treat them differently. Equality before the law and material equality are therefore not only different but are in conflict with each other; and we can achieve either one or the other, but not both at the same time. A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:45 AM
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When you kill a man, you steal a life. You steal his wife's right to a husband, rob his children of a father. When you tell a lie, you steal someone's right to the truth. When you cheat, you steal the right to fairness. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back. That's part of what it means to be alive. But inside our heads at least that's where I imagine it there's a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. And to understand…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:41 AM
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There's nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons. Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live. Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself. It is only through labor and…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:32 AM
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It's strange, isn't it, how the idea of belonging to someone can sound so great? It can be comforting, the way it makes things decided. We like the thought of being held, until it's too tight. We like that certainty, until it means there's no way out. And we like being his, until we realize we're not ours anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:24 AM
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The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:22 AM
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When things break, it's not the actual breaking that prevents them from getting back together again. it's because a little piece gets lost the two remaining ends couldn't fit together even if they wanted to. the whole shape has changed.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:19 AM
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People are rarely diabolic or bent enthusiastically on evil. As a rule, they are only weak; they cannot resist temptation and thus give way to their evil drives. I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will. Wherever you find a great man, you will find a great mother or a great wife standing behind him or so they used to say. It would be interesting to know how many great women have had great fathers and husbands behind them.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 07:30 AM
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Right
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 11:51 PM
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We are slipping back from the age of reason into the mire of mystery, into a world of gods and devils, ghouls and angels. The difference this time is that we have chosen ignorance over knowledge, vapidity over insight, folly over realism. Consequently, we only have ourselves to blame when the rich and powerful take advantage of us.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 11:42 PM
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Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 05:50 PM
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Flying starts from the ground. The more grounded you are, the higher you fly.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:50 PM
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If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind. Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:47 PM
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Everyone is comparing lives on social media and wants the perfect body, perfect image, perfect outfit, perfect life we're striving for this perfection and it's so unhealthy because there's no such thing as perfection. Emotions aren't just mindless urges; they contain thoughts about matters of importance.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:44 PM
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By taking the time to stop and appreciate who you are and what you've achieved - and perhaps learned through a few mistakes, stumbles and losses - you actually can enhance everything about you. Self-acknowledgment and appreciation are what give you the insights and awareness to move forward toward higher goals and accomplishments.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:38 PM
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Life seems sometimes like nothing more than a series of losses, from beginning to end. That's the given. How you respond to those losses, what you make of what's left, that's the part you have to make up as you go. Patience is a virtue, and I'm learning patience. It's a tough lesson. Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:37 PM
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The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance. To find everything profound - that is an inconvenient trait. It makes one strain one's eyes all the time, and in the end one finds more than one might have wished.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:33 PM
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Relationships are eternal. The 'separation' is another chapter in the relationship. Often, letting go of the old form of the relationship becomes a lesson in pure love much deeper than any would have learned had the couple stayed together.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:30 PM
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Integrity is not a conditional word. It doesn't blow in the wind or change with the weather. It is your inner image of yourself, and if you look in there and see a man who won't cheat, then you know he never will. Integrity is not a search for the rewards of integrity. Maybe all you ever get for it is the largest kick in the ass the world can provide. It is not supposed to be a productive asset.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:28 PM
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Only someone who is well prepared has the opportunity to improvise.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 04:24 PM
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Unconditional love really exists in each of us. It is part of our deep inner being. It is not so much an active emotion as a state of being. It's not 'I love you' for this or that reason, not 'I love you if you love me.' It's love for no reason, love without an object.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 10:54 PM
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Double pneumonia and an overscheduled life can happen to anyone, of course, but for Little, it was the result of acting out of character for too long and without enough restorative niches. When your conscientiousness impels you to take on more than you can handle, you begin to lose interest, even in tasks that normally engage you. You also risk your physical health. “Emotional labor,” which is the effort we make to control and change our own emotions, is associated with stress, burnout, and even…
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 10:40 PM
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Unconditional love is priceless
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 10:34 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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