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| 70 | Blocked & DeletedJust here to say KEEP THE HOBBY. Walk in there and enjoy it because you don’t deserve to lose that because of his dumb behavior. He will be floored by how confident and comfortable you are and will probably be intimidated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 47 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?I dated someone for about a year, went great and we grew apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Tell me you've never actually been in a relationship, without telling me:Yeah, holding doors to what? Most single men are too afraid to take a woman on an actual date because they don’t actually know how to handle themselves in any sort of upscale setting. I constantly see guys in restaurants wearing baseball caps and acting like grumpy toddlers while the women they’re with are dressed beautifully and excited to be going somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 08:21 PM |
| 68 | Thousands of comments of women's experiences giving birth with shitty partners under a meme about a dude Shushing his wife giving birth. This one in particular got me. THANK GOD I am never pro creating with a man.My ex husband went to a bar two hours after our daughter was born, while I recovered and cared for her in the hospital alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 04:16 AM |
| 22 | Compared to what women bring to the table, sadly money is really one of the very few things men have to offer 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️I can’t think of even a handful of single men in their thirties in my town who own a home. Yet when I was dating there was a constant, “ Women date me for my money!” narrative. Laughable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:20 PM |
| 17 | Importance of political beliefs?“Politics” is just another word for values. If I believe food and shelter are human rights, that workers deserve living wages, and that holiday autonomy is important you can bet I will not accept a partner who doesn’t share those values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:13 AM |
| 5 | Let's talk about picky eaters.100% valid reason the bail. It sounds like he wouldn’t be able to hold his own any any type of sophisticated situation, and he certainly would never prepare a meal at home. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 01:10 AM |
| 23 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupSounds like she contributed way more than 10k to him and his life but he doesn’t think she is worth the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:21 AM |
| 23 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.Would bet my savings that most of those dudes have cheated before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 07:30 PM |
| 83 | Are men not attracted to women they respect?I have honestly believed this for a long time. It is rare to find a man who is genuinely romantically interested in a woman he truly respects, finds intelligent, etc. Rare, but they do exist, so don't settle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 8 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?But they’ll also be annoyed with you for not doing 100% of the childcare while working full time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:58 AM |
| 88 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I didn’t when I got married. My ex husband was annoyed. If I marry again in the future I’ll keep my name. I like my name and want to keep it, so if someone wants the same name as me they can take mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:13 AM |
| 47 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.“Not intended for everyday use.” USE. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 22 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"This guy got married so she could be his cook and maid. Literally no benefits here for this poor woman. What the hell do they think marriage is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 57 | Pickmeisha mothers picked apart brilliantly by tiktoker on how mummys boys are created by patriarchy I. E husbands not fulfilling their duty of care to their partners. The cycle is vicious and ongoingWow. My marriage explained. This is why my former MIL wanted special hangout time every single Sunday all day with my husband but not his wife and child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 60 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.Oh yes. Divorced dads will have the first woman ten years younger move in and immediately take care of the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:54 PM |
| 4 | “You seem expensive”Expensive for whom? She’s doing what she wants with her money and time and this onlooker has an issue with that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 32 | We absolutely are being bullied into having zero standardsA coworker of mine had a guy move in to HER house three months after meeting him on Tinder. He has yet to buy her a meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:31 AM |
| 57 | We absolutely are being bullied into having zero standardsThe “talking” thing blows my mind. Texting is a literal replacement for dating, and it only benefits the dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:29 AM |
| 27 | Billionaire Pedophile Rings are looking less and less like a conspiracy every day. Save yourself, Queen.Absolutely agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:16 PM |
| 30 | His gift to her for her first Mother's day as a mom was "him making her a mom." Comments say she's partly to blame because she didn't explicitly say that she wanted something...Until a woman does the bare minimum on a man’s birthday. Then suddenly they understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 21 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?Oh my god, which is she even considering this? He will own half of it right off the bat without contributing a penny! And when she becomes sick of his bs he will walk away with a profit, which is probably his plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 36 | good morning <3No one is free until everyone is free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 19 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.I see actual posts like this but they’re supposed to be “funny.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 30 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.Half the time women are literally apologizing for even taking a photo, too. Heaven forbid the family have a visual memory of holidays and trips that a woman planned and executed perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 17 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?It's just something men say because they get an adrenaline rush from making a woman change her name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 18 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?My daughter has my ex husband's last name and I have never once encountered any of the "issues" people warn of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 36 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?I didn't change my name when I got married because I like my name. I'm now divorced and very glad I didn't change it. I'm an advocate for keeping one's own name, but I understand some folks may want to take a partner's name if they have negative associations with their own families. I also think it's really telling that men are unwilling to change their own last names but feel strongly about women changing theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 53 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.I have been doing this more and more at work, because the pickme behavior is out of control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 135 | Woman have more empathy and compassion for others, PERIOD.I work in a salon, and a coworker had some of those fake $100 bills and she left one folded up on the lobby floor. We decided to just observe what happened. Over the next week, every single woman who noticed it immediately brought it to my desk, concerned that someone had lost their cash. Every single man who noticed the bill quietly pocketed it and tipped poorly. I watched several guys take the bill and literally tip one dollar for their haircut. Men in general tip far less than our woman clien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 21 | Facts ✌Follow @gocleanco on Instagram. They do demos, have a pdf handbook, and show how to clean every single thing. Basically just clean your surfaces. Every surface. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 4 | wow.By staying with this person she and the guy are teaching that little girl how she deserves to be spoken to. She pulled the child aside and made an excuse for him? Unbelievable. “Daddy is allowed to abuse you because he is uncomfortable. You aren’t worth speaking to kindly.” She won’t forget this lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 33 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreMy ex husband was on his phone most of the time during our counseling sessions, and our therapist demanded he stop. After a few weeks she suggested I consider divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:02 AM |
| 6 | “At the end of the day, we love each other” 🤡She obviously hasn't researched alcoholism at all. Different levels? Alcoholism doesn't get better or even stay the same. I'd put money on him secretly drinking from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | “At the end of the day, we love each other” 🤡This guy is obviously a severe alcoholic. They had to make an agreement that he wouldn't touch the couch when drinking? Even a puppy learns not to pee inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 23 | ⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️“Last minute dates” UGH. He literally means he’s not going to hang out unless he can’t find a “better” option. Along with all the other BS, of course. What a selfish idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 6 | First time poster--I need some advice, and hopefully asking here is ok? It's about male behavior and how to deal with it because I'm feeling lost.After you answer the initial question, tell them to call the store with any other questions. Make sure to include a goodbye in the message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 62 | The Benefits of Living Alone vs living with a LVMI do 90% less housework living on my own with my daughter than I did when I was married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 111 | Typical LVM: breaks up with girlfriend of 4 years because a medication decreased her sex drive, is now looking for advice on how to find hornier women 🙄 (bonus: commenter who suggests low sex drive means the ex-gf was “using” OP)Uh, he should also be asking how to tell a potential partner that he's opposed to traveling. What a boring idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 21 | How are you teaching your daughters?Aside from all the usual life lessons about self worth and independence, my daughter is taken on outings to nice restaurants, etc, to normalize being treated that way. Firstly, she should expect a date to make an effort. Secondly, she should not fall all over herself for the first person to pay for a meal at a place that uses tablecloths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 51 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?So he wants to live like this but he also feels entitled to sex from women? Same old story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 42 | I don't careI have not read a book written by a man since college. I didn’t do it on purpose but I’ll keep the streak going. Men are alarmed by this but they can’t even name a woman author when pressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 15 | Hint; this is done on purpose. It's not that men/grown boys can't aim, it's an assertion of dominance over women.Because them cleaning the bathroom is out of the question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 9 | Self-aware LVM notices more young women are buying houses 💅 keep it up ladiesBlue collar lady here. I’m a homeowner with an IRA and financial stability. Why on earth it is women’s fault of this dude can’t get his shot together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 04:52 AM |
| 43 | Another control freak father trying to control his ex with their child... And the law.She had to text him to remind him to pick up his own child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:45 AM |
| 33 | Another control freak father trying to control his ex with their child... And the law.I noticed that too. He didn’t call her immediately to discuss the schedule change because he WANTED a conflict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:44 AM |
| 18 | Another control freak father trying to control his ex with their child... And the law.My ex husband used to pull this shit ALL the time, showing up late specifically when he knew I had an event or trip that I planned because I was not scheduled to have parenting time then. I missed my god daughter’s graduation because of this - it’s not accident. This guy is whining because his plan to ruin her event backfired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:43 AM |
| 10 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellI wonder how many of them would start complaining about the house expense down the road too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 38 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.This entire situation is so terrifying that it's brought me to tears. This poor woman. He absolutely would have murdered her if she hadn't found out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 184 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Literally same. And I do very little housework now in my own home (even with a preteen running around) compared to when I was married because I’m not cleaning up the beer bottles and dirty underwear of a grown man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:11 PM |
| 67 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENI was so horrified by this post. One commenter suggested buying him a flip phone because the smart phone is obviously the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 9 | Doctors/Nurses/Healthcare Workers Really Need to be More Mindful of the Amount of Women Who Have Been Sexually Assaulted/AbusedI recently had my first experience with a trauma-informed, women-first OB/Nurse Midwife for my yearly exam. She didn't use stirrups, asked if I was comfortable having the exam, explained that I could stop or pause at any time, and did a ton of other stuff to make me comfortable. It was both so great and so simple - why doesn't every doctor keep these things in mind? My heart aches for women who aren't given agency at doctor visits (if they can access proper care at all. ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 23 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.You know he will never do any of those tasks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 213 | It seems what we do is workingWhy did it take me so long to realize that women in their thirties don’t share crappy apartments with two or more friends and doing nothing of worth? Yet in my area this is extremely common for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:58 AM |
| 15 | Promising Young Women is an empowering movie for all women **Trigger WarningPop Culture Happy Hour (podcast) has such a great episode about all the themes in this movie. Watch it before listening, though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 24 | Scrote husband forgets her birthday, and tries to gaslight and guilt her when even their 4 years old daughter cares. The comments are roasting him, hopefully she realizes how little he actually cares about her.This breaks my heart. This is the woman he vowed to cherish in front of friends and family? He deserves to feel bad. Worst of all, she's worried about invalidating HIS feelings? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 17 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!He can't prepare a meal for himself? Hell, he can't make dinner for both of them once in a while? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 7 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.This man took a chance because a lot of people like banana taffy. He was just betting on getting laid and doesn't give a damn what her favorite its. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 8 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.I don’t have my flair yet but I’m here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Women search for stocks and funds to invest in that reflect their core values. $GME is not it.I am in my 30s. My investments are in an IRA managed by a qualified financial advisor because I have long term financial goals. My peers invest in similar ways. Hopping on a bandwagon with a bunch of college aged men who are playing games on their phones isn't my stride. Women are investing, but in smart ways that will stabilize their futures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 23 | FDS has been saying it all along and women are catching up. Men do not love women like women love men and that's why we need to start demanding more and holding back the energies we give out for freeI agree. A long time ago a friend told me, "Men just don't love the way women love. They can't understand love the way a woman does." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:12 PM |
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