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| 14 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I think people are basing their opinion more on neurological development post-puberty than on anecdotes or personal milestones. Some people change their lifestyle and habits more over time than others but at 25+ your brain is more or less fully developed in as opposed to a 20 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:26 PM |
| 10 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I think if it’s a big enough age gap and the girl is under 25 it’s definitely not jealousy. We remember how naive we were and remember encounters with older men trying to coerce us. I remember being approached by lots of older men when I was younger because they thought I was underage. They would ask for my number and think I was in high school and then when they learned my actual age (still very young) and I tried to shake them they would be pushy and act like they were trying to be “friends.” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | It is very unlikely that couples today will last deep into their 70s and 80sThe idea that people who end up assaulted by their spouses don’t take their marriage vows seriously or “vet correctly” is pretty ignorant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Men want what they would never allow to womenOr maybe because in the past women had little rights and autonomy they had to marry and now a lot of women would rather opt out than be stuck in an unreciprocated, abusive or unhealthy relationship . If women are becoming “more selective” it’s because they have choices now and being single is one of them. If women are becoming “picky” they’re not finding partners either and the problem solves itself. Natural selection is back in full force and women don’t have to marry and procreate if they can’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?Complementary means has positive traits the oppose yours in a good way. For example if someone is fun and spontaneous and likes going on adventures but lacks planning ability and is bad with money their ideal partner would be someone who was good at planning, more cautious, and money conscientious. Someone who wants to do more fun things but is more reserved and doesn’t tend to seek them out alone. Both partners benefit because the spontaneous partner gets someone to stop them from going overboa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?I’ve heard some men who are into big women don’t date them because they care what other men think. Like a girl was told he’d rather go to bed with her but be seen with Kate Moss. Men like bragging to other men. You’ll see some gorgeous girls with some bummy ass guy who treats her like shit even though all her friends think he’s embarrassing but a good looking guy with a lot going for him isn’t usually seen with someone that isn’t arm candy hence the whole trophy wife phenomenon. Not saying there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menObviously he’s talked to me about what he’s been insecure about we’re dating. I’ve assured him that I’ve never noticed certain things, don’t find them unattractive and that some of the things he never really liked about himself I actually find attractive. I’ve done the same with him but I’m not constantly asking for reassurance from him everyday because of course he’s attracted to me if he decided to date me I’m not saying men can’t be insecure I’m saying fixating on your insecurity to the point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menYou probably respect boundaries then. OP is trying to equate being awkward/shy with acting creepy and they’re not the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menThe vast majority of women aren’t attracted to serial killers that’s a fringe group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menWhat was the fight about do you remember | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menCalm and confident is what most women find most attractive not forever frat boys who want to fist fight everyone. Young girls especially teenagers may mistake angry men for protectors but overall women are generally more drawn towards men who are secure and competent not emotional messes that punch holes in walls Unless they came from an extremely abusive household that made them accustomed to violence they’re going to get major ick from a grown man throwing tantrums | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menIt’s still not other people’s fault for not being able to read your expression and intentions just like it’s not your fault you can’t read theirs. If someone looks and acts angry I’m not going to assume they’re not and ignore the instinct to stay safe and avoid altercation. I space out and look like a sociopath when I’m tired and I’ve noticed it’s off putting so I have to consciously smile and act friendlier when around new people so they don’t assume I’m being rude or cold. It’s not on them to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menNo there’s not lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menNailed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menWomen and men both are more likely overlook red flags if the person is attractive enough, rose-colored glasses aren’t gender exclusive. I’d argue that even men who are hot become can become unattractive when they start acting creepy or entitled tho It’s happened to me where I thought a guy was really good looking and then he said or did something inappropriate and suddenly stopped being attractive to me from that point on. I’ve also noticed men I initially wasn’t attracted to become appealing ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menThe most insecure guy I knew was 6’4 and not bad looking but struggled to get into relationships and struck out a lot on dates. Insecurity isn’t attractive on either gender it makes people question what’s so wrong with you that you’d absolutely loathe yourself My boyfriend is your height and people always assume he’s much taller because of the way he carries himself. It’s never been an issue for him because he’s never fixated on it I was on the fence about dating him because I had gotten out of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?I’d argue porn addiction leads to a lot of men being unable to interact with women irl in a healthy way. It’s never been as prevalent and readily available as it is now. Porn consumption leads to to more misogynistic mindsets in general and has been shown to decrease men’s empathy for women and make them more likely to act violently. The stuff people were watching years ago was so much tamer than the insanely abusive content that a lot of guys have been exposed to since puberty or even earlier. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:16 AM |
| 10 | Would you be willing to take on the dirty jobs men do?You’re not listing dirty jobs you’re listing labor intensive ones. Men are always going to dominate in fields that require greater physical strength If you think women don’t do dirty jobs you must have never been to the hospital or stayed in a hotel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:10 AM |
| 13 | Would you be willing to take on the dirty jobs men do?Men do more strenuous jobs simply because they’re stronger and can do them easier. Women get gross jobs that require less strength because why would you hire a woman for a job that requires a lot of physical strength? Waste of a hire Also more dangerous if they’re handling heavy tools and machinery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Would you be willing to take on the dirty jobs men do?I wouldn’t mind any of these but I know that having a small skeletal frame and lower biological strength means I would most likely be the lowest performing member of the group and might even be a liability. Not being able to do parts of your job on your own and having to call over male co-workers to help you do things they do easily seems annoying for them and like I’m getting paid the same for doing less work. Maybe something like laying tiles or house painting I’d consider before being a const… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:51 AM |
| 1 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Leg grabbing/rubbing as a move is off-putting can confirm. It’s wayyy too close to certain parts to not be alarming and reads as very aggressive Touching in non-sexual ways to establish the other person is becoming more comfortable is 100% the way to go. If you’re not already touching a lot any sudden intimate move is going to seem pushy Talking about people who’ve already started going on dates of course. Don’t want anyone to misinterpret and think getting extremely touchy with their hot cowork… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 09:46 AM |
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