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OYS 15 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 235 Lbs BP:225x5 OHP: 135x5 SQ: 245x3 Mission: Build a grounded and self-directed life, focused on action and building meaningful connection with the world around me. Reading: No More Mr. Nice Guy – Working through this book again with the exercises this time. The Fine art of Small Talk- A good confidence booster with some new skills to engage people and get out of my head. Physical: PT has proven good for my hip. My impingement is…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 04:12 PM
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Very aware. That is exactly what I wrote this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 03:31 PM
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Thank you for this feedback. I did not recognize ignoring her as fear but maybe it is. As you pointed out , my game sucks rather than practice game I refused to participate. In my head I'm stuck at Step 3. I can and do this well in other aspects of our relationship but have not been able to do this surrounding sex. Again, as you pointed out my insecurities have limited my capabilities here. This experience was very revealing. I know where i need to put in the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 02:27 PM
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I have a Hip Impingement. Doing mobility exercises now, Its getting better. I need to get the form right. The weight will come back again.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 06:44 PM
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The more I ask the more I recognize people are willing to help, and my relationships are strengthened through shared life. This is still very difficult with work. Thank you for including this. The description highlighted my own blind spots and is helpful. I have scheduled myself something every other week that I need help from one other person. I have exhausted all of the easy Yes's and I have been procrastinating asking more people, fear of rejection. Pushing through today to get out and ask.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 12:27 PM
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OYS 14 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 236 Lbs Mission: Build a grounded and self-directed life, focused on action and building meaningful connection with the world around me. Reading: No More Mr. Nice Guy –Restarting this book but this time I am going to do the written exercises. The Fine art of Small Talk- A good confidence booster with some new skills to engage people and get out of my head. Physical: Continued PT and implemented some of those exercises into my worko…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 10:42 AM
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Thank you for that direction. I re read this every week and I’m not happy with it. It’s a WIP
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/26 01:40 AM
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OYS 13 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 236 Lbs BP:225x5 OHP: 135x5 Mission: Build a grounded and self-directed life, focused on action and building meaningful connection with the world around me. Reading: No More Mr.Nice Guy – Into Chapter8 . Physical: I have just been going through the motions at my workouts. Cardio is increasing and improving but otherwise lifts are not there I’m just getting to the gym not focusing. I fell off this week on my eating and gained some w…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 12:47 PM
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How you’re explaining this is very similar to what happened at the grocery store. I was doing Kino and gaming. She shit tested me, I passed, she withdrew. I continued shopping like i was having the best time in the world. I then started asking her to go to different parts of the store to get things for me. I could feel the pressure and the tension throughout that experience and up to dropping her off. I stayed “cocky- funny” the whole time and the feelz were there for her. Honestly I had a great…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/26 08:59 AM
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Asked is the wrong word. We were on the couch, I called her over and told her I would like a blow job. She denied and said she didn't want to give me one. I said what about after you brush your teeth, she said no and then I laughed. We just finished watching some more explicit show on tv and i was getting turned on. I should have brought it up then and started gaming but I didnt.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 04:12 PM
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OYS 12 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 235 Lbs BP:225x4 OHP: 155x3 Mission: Build a grounded and self-directed life, focused on action and building meaningful connection with the world around me. Reading: Finished- Codependent No More- This provided lots of insight to my relationship, the patterns I’m trying to escape and the patterns I see my wife trapped in. I can see how my fear and avoidance of any hard feelings created this dynamic I’m currently in. reading through…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 12:40 PM
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Thank you for that. I had this conversation the other day with a buddy. Comfort means that she can be her true self to you. She doesn't have to always be on guard around you, and worry how she is feeling is gonna affect you. Your inner world should be independent of how she is feeling. My time and energy is all focus on my relationship and what’s happening with it with her as the reference point. I this week have been shifting my energy into other things that are fulfilling and challenging.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 10:22 AM
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Yes exactly. The daily swings, tests, or otherwise I STFU or ignore. My default assumption is this is a better way to respond. However, I’m realizing it’s more of a defense for my emotions or I’m self sabotaging so I can be the hero at the end of the week.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 08:26 AM
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OYS 11 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 237 Lbs BP:225x4 OHP: 155x3 Mission: Build a grounded and self-directed life, focused on action and building meaningful connection with the world around me. Reading: Codependent No More, ¾ of the way through, this book calls out me and my relationship to a T. It echoes many of the same things I’m being told here. When the pressure is on, I’m too worried about what my wife will think. It does this through a lens of recovery which is…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/26 01:49 PM
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Front and center
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/26 01:57 AM
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OYS 10 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 238 Lbs BP:225x4 OHP: 155x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. Meditating on this more. I don’t know what I want in life and outside of my lifts which have been sidetracked due to injury I don’t have any goals to focus on in the near term. This leaves me spending most of my time thinking about my relationship which ultimately is no good …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/26 02:51 PM
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Yeah I pussied out big time here when it really counted. I should probably read NMMNG again now, but I need to start with the action. I have all of the theory.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 03:44 PM
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I definitely felt as though she was trying to punish me with her feelings. Funny enough our youngest did the same thing to her the next day to her. I laughed and pointed it out. This has happened before. It mostly feels like fight bait for me to grab. My best response has been to ignore it and let it run its course. When she is ready to get over it she comes to me like a sad puppy. Blaming me or otherwise I don’t really care. She recognizes she is doing it to herself. My position has been don’t …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 01:14 PM
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Maybe I wasn’t clear, Inviting her to have some fun with me was not a sexual reference. We were playing on the playground and I started playing tag and titanic. However I could have missed an opportunity the night before or that morning causing the day to start off that way. Regardless, your right my game is shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 01:02 PM
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OYS 9 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 238 Lbs, BP:225x4 OHP: 155x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. I have been thinking about what I really want in life but I can’t get close to an answer. If it is on the other side of fear I don’t even feel it yet. Focusing on discipline until something exposes itself. Reading: Mating In Captivity- I’m through chapter 8- Not Much here, Mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 11:07 AM
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OYS 9 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 238 Lbs, BP:225x4 OHP: 155x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. I have been thinking about what I really want in life but I can’t get close to an answer. If it is on the other side of fear I don’t even feel it yet. Focusing on discipline until something exposes itself. Reading: Mating In Captivity- I’m through chapter 8- Not much here, mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 11:02 AM
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Accurate, when I was at 295 my ROM and form were shit. Since i have dropped back down I have been focused on form and depth. Depth is there but I'm still getting butt wink and not leading with my hips as well as i should. I caved last week and bought a pair of Oofos. Yesterday was the first time I wore them and I've noticed a massive difference. First time I am seeing anything about the big toe stretch. Ill add that to the list. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/26 01:47 PM
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I’m floundering with any type of answer here. Reading my mission again I more associate it with how I want to live not what I want or desire. Fear there for sure. To this point I have only lived for a some sort of shiny object or near term goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 08:41 PM
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My DL was at 365 before I injured my hip, squat was at 295. Both were affected but I’m still not able to DL without pain in my hip.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 08:06 PM
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you’re nowhere near 20% body fat I listed it this way because previous tests, Navy Method and a body Analysis scale both said 20%. I don't believe it to be accurate based on what i see in the mirror either. Yes to the sexual shame and the Humor for the ego shield. I've read these posts in the past but i will read again. Thank you for the call out.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 06:17 PM
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OYS 8 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 238 Lbs, BF Hovers around 20% BP:240x3 OHP: 155x3 SQUAT: 245x3 DL: 225x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. Reading: Finished – The Mystery Method. The last 1 or two times I have read this i was stuck on the Techniques in A1 and A2. This time the initial chapters hit me a bit harder. I lack humor, teasing and light DNGAF that triggers att…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 03:00 PM
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I read through these posts a few time today. I have before but I didn’t want to accept the amount of validation I needed. I’m becoming more aware of where I am and how the majority of my sex especially inside my marriage has been validation sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 01:11 AM
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Updating my workouts now to include more cardio and continue to follow my diet plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 01:08 AM
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Thanks for pointing this out. I’m changing up my routine now adding more cardio and focusing on my diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 01:06 AM
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Thank you for the breakdown of these interactions. >Let me tell you why, your game sucks and I am not talking about outer game, I am talking about your inner game. My understanding of this all is that no matter how well I learn the words and the techniques they will be useless because my inner game is shit. I quickly fail when tested, even if i say something my energy is not there, I don't believe the words I say, neither does anyone else, I'm a thirsty victim pretending to be a congruent man. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 04:02 PM
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but I absolutely can't figure out that little gear/dial thing for the quantity. Maybe it's better if I just write it down by hand" I'm consciously noticing in everyday life how I constantly justify myself. You're doing it now. When you feel yourself justifying ask yourself what your trying to avoid.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 12:58 PM
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OYS 7 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 243 Lbs, BF Hovers around 20% BP:240x3 OHP: 155x2 SQUAT: 245x3 DL: 225x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. Reading: The courage to be disliked Finished- Be my own point of origin, enjoy the work and use your experience to help others. Mating In Captivity- I’m through chapter 3- this echo’s many principles I’m learning from MRP but with a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 12:47 PM
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Thank you for this breakdown. I'm making it a point to initiate as much as possible this week and practice OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 04:45 PM
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Added this to my que, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 04:36 PM
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OYS 7 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 244 Lbs, BF Hovers above 20% BP:240x3 OHP: 155x2 SQUAT: 245x3 DL: 225x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. Reading: The courage to be disliked. I read it from a post here last week. The boos is giving me a lot of new tools and perspectives. I’m through Night 3. So far I’m picking up Radical ownership of everything I do or fail to do is th…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 03:09 PM
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I work on the vulnerability regularly by exposure. Approaching people, sharing shit with other men. Putting myself out there to groups. I have had a few screaming at the top of the mountain situations but no white light experience. With some exception the closer the person is the more difficult it is to be vulnerable for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 10:42 PM
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Previously I ran away from the relationship and replaced it with the relationship with my wife. As of right now I’m not going to cut her out completely but I need to right size the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 09:28 PM
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OYS 6 37, Married 10 Years 3 Kids under 7 Physical Stats: 6’3”- 255 Lbs, BF Hovers above 20% BP:240x3 OHP: 150x3 SQUAT: 240x3 DL: 225x3 Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. Physical: Hip Is feeling better, Plantar Fasciitis is improving. Stretching and mobility focus on my squat days, canceled stretch zone membership. Wearing Crocs in the morning and cushioned runners as much as possible. I ordered a pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 01:17 PM
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OYS 5 Married 10 years 3 kids under7 Physical Stats: 37, 6’3”- 243 Lbs, BF Hovers around 20% BP:240x3 OHP: 140x5 It’s been over a year since my Last OYS. I continued to read and lurk since last December. Mission: Live an abundant life stripped of mental and emotional buffers that protect my ego and limit me and my service to others. Physical: Injured hip a in December and have taken some time off pushing my squat and DL. Signed up for a few months at the stretch zone to rest and recover. Peak sq…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 11:51 AM
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Great point! Thank you. I will retool this
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 04:46 PM
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OYS 4 Basic stats: 35Y, 6'3", 215Lbs, married 8y (34F), 3 kids BP: 185 3x5 DL: 225 3x5 SQ: 185 3x5 OH: 105 3x5 Roughly 5 months in. Read: NMMNGx3, WISNIFG, MMSLP, The Easy way to quit smoking x3, The Easy Peasy Way, The Art of Small Talk, MAP, Mystery Method, The Rational Male, Nicotine Explained, Frame, The Game (Step8), 48 Laws of Power (Law 3) Mission: Be 100% accountable to me. Lead my family to be the best versions of themselves. Continually challenge myself in all things. Physical: BP 225 …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 03:09 PM
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-Learn to write about what matters. Agreed, I’m summarizing, and compiling, likely missing key points and decisions.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 11:09 PM
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-Everything you want is on the other side of fear I have heard and read this about myself but I have never understood what it is I’m so scared of; failure, success? These concepts seem so abstract I can’t identify and change. Every time I smoke my confidence drops, the shame sets in and I lose all self respect. It permeates every thought and action.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 10:58 PM
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I don’t want to nuke the marriage but nuke the idea that getting a divorce is the worst possible outcome. Living and thinking as if I were divorced has helped me get in the correct mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 08:54 PM
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Sex volume has increased significantly. 0-3times weekly to 2-5 recently. Her period did not get in the way of sex this cycle. Enthusiasm is improved but only marginally, the frequency of the emotion/immersion is sporadic. I would say her mood has improved generally. Bitchiness is not zero but Its not holding the family captive for as long or as frequent.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 02:47 PM
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OYS 3 Basic stats: 35Y, 6'3", 215Lbs, married 8y (34F), 3 kids (6F, 4M, 1F) BP: 175 3x5 DL: 225 3x5 SQ: 155 3x5 OH: 105 3x5 Roughly 5 months in. Read: NMMNGx3, WISNIFG, MMSLP, The Easy way to quit smoking x3, The Easy Peasy Way, The Art of Small talk, MAP, Mystery Method, The Rational Male (Chapter 9 ), Nicotine Explained, Frame, The Game (Step6). Mission: Be 100% accountable to me. Lead my family to be the best versions of themselves. Continually challenge myself in all things. • Near Term Goal…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 11:15 AM
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OYS 2 BP: 175 3x5 DL: 185 3x5 SQ: 175 3x5 OH: 95 3x5 Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, MMSLP, The Easy way to quit smoking x3, The Easy Peasy Way, The Art of Small talk, Mystery Method, MAP, Frame, Currently Listening to The Rational Male: Chapter 6. Began Reading Practical Female Phycology. I have been at this 3 and a half months now. Mission: I think I have been trying to quantify my mission, do this and I will be successful, achieve this and I will be a better father husband human. This obsession has m…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 09:58 PM
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